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Welcome to our first vlog of 2023. It didn't start exactly as we hoped but we think it's important to share the lows as well as the highs! In this video, we share the scary situation that led us to figure out that there was a problem with our twin baby boys, we start our bedroom transformation with some paneling and we see in the new year as a family of 4 :) If you enjoy this video then hit the thumbs up and subscribe.
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We hope you are having a great start to the year! Let us know if you enjoyed the video in the comments 🤍🙌🏻
@carabruce7187
Жыл бұрын
Been loving all the videos lately
@shannonheadd9064
Жыл бұрын
Check my comment below regarding feeding- any advice just dm me I know what a very distressed time it can be not knowing much about it etc 💔
@lillie_boswell
Жыл бұрын
Can I ask what camera equipment you use ? 🥰 how do you edit also ? O really wanna start a Chanel but not sure how too ??🤣🤣🙏
@carolannmills714
Жыл бұрын
Oh bless the boys happy to hear they are better loue watching your beautiful family xxxx
@susanbrockhurst1845
Жыл бұрын
Oh you poor loves😢SO scary😟
The best thing you can do is make noise while the babies are sleeping. That’s exactly what we did and our kids could sleep through anything and anywhere. On the other hand my sisters whole house stopped and it had to be silent while her kids slept. As you know getting anything done has to happen when the babies are sleeping. I ran the vacuum in the same room and they slept through it. Y’all are doing great, keep it up!!!
@destinyc7801
Жыл бұрын
My niece used to fall asleep to vacuum noises, my sister had to play them on her phone because she couldn’t just vacuum all the time
Omg Ellen crying at the boys being poorly literally has me in tears. Please don’t cry or be upset, I know it’s hard but you tried everything you’d had been advised first 😢 you did what everyone else would ❤ xxxx
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
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@rebeccasams2731
Жыл бұрын
@@fabandell you’re both adjusting incredibly to your new life with the boys. I know we are all incredibly proud of you guys. Take time to sit and reflect on how far you guys have came in a year and what you’ve achieved and trust me when I say, your boys are so incredibly blessed to have parents like you two ☺️ xx
Aptamil pepti 1 changed my daughter! Much happier baby :) rash on eyebrows and belly disappeared, no more discomfort, it took 2 weeks for me to see the full effect as that’s how long it takes for the other milk to leave the system x
El crying when the boys settled for the first time after moving to Aptimel Pepti had me in tears. My son who is 10 weeks old is also on Aptimel Pepti and the relief you feel when you realise they are no longer uncomfortable and in pain is indescribable. I felt all of her emotion in the moment it’s so mentally & physically draining when you baby/babies are like that. ❤ xx
Seeing you cry Ell with the Mum guilt made me tear up 😢, you are both doing an amazing job but that emotion of wanting to protect our babies is overwhelming isn’t it. You have a lovely family, the boys are very lucky to have two parents who clearly adore them the way you do 💙
Made me well up when Ellen started crying about the boys, must be so stressful 😫 you two are doing amazing for your boys :) just remember everyday is a learning day with a new baby 🙂
As a tip from a Nicu nurse we use aptamil pepti JR which is this- most babies struggle to take to this and a tip we use is to make its warm, not room temp as otherwise they don’t entertain it. some babies love it hotter than normal on Nicu. Also it does make there stools smell fyi 😂
I feel for you guys! My second son had to go onto soya bean milk but it took nearly 6 months and a hospital stay to finally get there. Hang in there, your boys are precious 💗
My son was exactly the same….it turned out he was allergic to cows milk, and was put on soya formula milk, and he was fine after he went onto Soya formula. Also soya formula you get on prescription from the doctors. He grew out of his allergy by the time he was 2 years old
My 5 week old twins struggle with being on different schedules all the time! Also, have one that is a great napper and one that is a great night time sleeper which can also be frustrating.
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
Yes, ours can be the same! They aren’t always in sync which is difficult 😅
My 8 month old son has milk protein allergy and we didn’t figure it out until he was 4 months old. It is all so hard and you’re both doing so well! Know that you are ❤️
I remember the anxiety of being a first time parent well… they are so precious and every little thing is brand new so you don’t know what to expect or think. You are doing a great job! My son was in hospital when he was two weeks old because he had pyloric stenosis and had to have an operation to repair it. It was the scariest time of my life, so I really felt for you when you explained the feeding issues and the scary experience with Ari being unable to breathe. I am so sorry your boys are having a hard time, I hope they are doing better now! It’s lovely to see them grow, thank you for sharing your journey with us all! X
❤❤❤ You guys are doing great! I totally understand your tears Ell… it’s hard to see your kids in distress. Unfortunately it doesn’t get easier no matter how old they are. We all want to take their discomfort/stress away. Keep up the great parenting… you two make quite a great team. ❤❤❤
So glad someone saw what you've struggled with for so long! Here's to healthy, growing, happy babies!!
I would definitely put both babies in the the back seat. It’s much safer.❤️
@1ninjatiger
Жыл бұрын
They will have switched the airbag off.
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
@@1ninjatiger we have 🤦🏽♀️🤣
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
It would only be safer in the back if we didn’t turn off the airbags. In terms of impact from a crash everywhere is just as risky as you do not know where the impact from a crash is going to be.
@1ninjatiger
Жыл бұрын
@@fabandell Lol I knew you would have 👍🏻 Babies are adorable you guys are doing a great job 👏🏻
You're both doing great, you should give yourselves a pat on the back. I have five children, I've brought them up alone since the eldest was ten. I completely agree about not being quiet around sleeping babies. It's the worse thing you can do. My third baby would go to sleep at night with the hoover on and the older ones would sleep through it 👍 Your sons are adorable 😍
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
Wow, go you!!! And yes, loud environments breed bulletproof sleeping babies 😂
@paulinemcallister9855
Жыл бұрын
Had my rock music on and Hoover.On baby's sleep threw anything my baby's had that behind ever
43 yrs ago my baby couldn't keep any formulas down it would come up she broke out in a rash all over the doctor then said try goats milk her rash went away and she never threw up again. Your boys are so cute!
You are both great parents. How could you possibly know their symptoms were not normal.
My daughter had a cows milk protein allergy and was on pepti 1. Then pepti 2. At the age of 1 she then switch to soya milk. She grew out of it by the age of 2. She is now 7 and has no allergies at all
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
That’s reassuring! Thank you for sharing
Lol. Best thing is, it doesn't stop. Mine are 25 and if they go out together they get it and not us now. Ours went separate universities and they were near each other. People would say saw you other day and you were rude, but it was his brother.
I’m so glad you were able to figure out about the milk allergy and find some relief for the boys and you guys. It’s heartbreaking when you feel like you “should have known” or something as a parent (I’ve had many of those moments with my kids and lots of tears!) but just know you are doing such a great job! Your love and care for your little men abundantly shines through each video.
Hey guys! So glad you’re doing well and infinitely proud of how your flourishing as parents ❤ just a memo when you have the boys in the carriers it’s recommended for your chin to be touching your head (in the UK) as that’s the safest! No hate at all! Hope you don’t think I’m being mean just something a lot of people don’t know xx❤❤
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
Hey! Thank you for the advice, we know you’re not hating and we are completely open to helpful comments like this 🤍 do you mean for their heads to be touching our chin? Xx
I hope the boys continue to improve, I can only imagine how frightened, upsetting and frustrated you were feeling Ell. I was only saying a couple days ago how miraculous it is when babies are born. Going from the environment of the amniotic sac and fluid to the outside world of learning to breathe air with their little lungs going through a huge transition, virtually instantly. So your absolutely right Ell. I haven't heard of the fourth trimester before but yes, again your absolutely right. Most babies don't have the feeding issue when they're breastfeeding. Fingers crossed that whatever formila you have the boys on now, that it works so you can all get some much needed rest. Love their new clothes.
Huge well done, you know your babies best but that keeps changing as they grow. You’ll be their biggest advocates as they grow up and of course that starts before birth, your both doing an amazing job!
My little boy sounded exactly the same when he was on Aptimil! He looked so uncomfortable and could tell he was suffering with trapped wind. We tried everything before switching to hipp organic and it was the best thing we ever did! He was completely different after xxx
I found a swing a life saver with my now 2 year old ! Big and bulky though not sure how you would cope with two in the house. Could have one thought and take in turns with who ever is needing it xx also she had a cows mill allergy we was on nutramigen (on prescription from docs so was free) and I think it took 3 different milks to get there. Cant really remember how to spell it now. Didn't notice until stopping breastfeeding. By 16 weeks she was itching so much all the time but changed milk and she was fine. We done all the checks at hospital I think when she was over one and pleased to say she grew out of it and had no allergies long term. At nearly 3 she has cheese yogurt milk the lot. Hopeful that's the same situation for you. She fed amazing once changing milk and changed to a settled baby really quick
Aww I'm so glad that the boys are improving, you guys are doing the best job so don't ever feel bad you're great parents.
So glad to hear you are making progress with the boy’s feeds. You guys have been so receptive to them and always doing everything you possibly can for them. 2 very lucky boys! Panelling is going to look great, hope the gym is in full flow now too. Thanks for another fab vlog 🤗
@fabandell
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!🤍🤍
@joanneyoxall4396
Жыл бұрын
@@fabandell the cut behind the ear maybe eczema I used to get this as a baby and still do now just worth mentioning but you probably already took this into consideration xx
I had funnily enough messaged you about one of your boys possibly having cmpa! My little girl has too with exact same symptoms ! There are lots of milk out there should this one not work. Aptamil pepti will still have cows milk in, it’s just hydrolysed! So if this doesn’t work - an amino acid based one might ☺️
Absolutely love you guy’s. I can’t believe how big those handsome little guy’s have gotten. They are gorgeous. You’re doing a wonderful job with them. Double trouble but you have got it. You look a tad tired but with them sleeping longer hoping you get some rest. Happy New Years! It’s so much fun seeing how the 4 of you are doing.
❤❤❤❤ You two make me smile so much. 😁 There’s nothing that you can’t deal with between the two of you. Honestly, be so proud of yourselves. Not only has your life been turned completely upside down with two newborns but you both are adapting brilliantly. Never stop being real Never stop being yourselves You make the rest of us feel normal! Xxx
@janeelwine6860
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry, I don’t know how to reply to this message….literally! Im in the old phart category I’m afraid and haven’t found out how to type with two thumbs😬 I need my bins, concentration and a finger to tap every letter. Xxx
Great to hear that Ari and Noah are doing better on the new formula. Glad that you included the banter between you two, it was real life and a realistic moment.
Speaking of thermometers when the boys get constipated take their temperature of course their not going to have a fever but you will see it gets the process moving and they have no discomfort use good amount of Vaseline. And I kept socks on my babies 24 7 365 days til they was 1 not one of them had colic maybe not 24 7 365 but definitely when they slept. I have 7 6 boys 1 girl. She's the princess in the middle and there's 21years from oldest to youngest. My oldest is a pediatric dermatologist specialist in Washington state in US. I've got the tests you have to take for parenting 101 I will look for it and post it next video you will enjoy it. Hang in there your doing just fine actually better then fine so ease up there Ell don't be so hard on yourself. Play classical music for them it stimulates certain parts of brain they say anyway. Mine had a fish aquarium (not real) that had fish that swam and lights and different music and a sleep timer it was awesome it connected to side x of crib. Just a suggestion. Lots of love from Missouri USA
Great catch up guys, doing a fantastic job. I watch Natalie Alexandra who has twin boys and she has always said getting them on the same schedule is very hard work. Im so pleased you managed to find out the issue with the boys and they are doing much better, which is making you two feel much better too. Its amazing how so many babies nowadays are allergic to dairy. Love all the clothes and the bedroom is looking really good xx
Ell you are super well done Mummy your boys are getting so big who would think you are doing so much home improvements post twin section birth again WELL DONE
So glad they are better it’s so hard in the beginning I remember them days bless them xx
I had my second son have issues with severe acid reflux. He was breastfed exclusively. I had to change my diet etc. But he projectile vomited constantly after every single time he fed. We did use a medicine called ranitidine. It definitely cut down on the excessive amt of spewing… but more than anything he had to grow out of it. He did struggle til about 10-12 months. I am so sorry that you’re having to deal with them being sick. It’s incredibly stressful for parents to have to witness. I’m praying for you all
Here's a helpful hint, use tights instead of socks. They can't fall off or be kicked off. Glad you discovered why they were gassy etc and that they're ok.
Glad the boys are feeling better
Love the banter 😂❤️
Watching this and getting memories from when I had my twins who are also MCDA like your boys. I went through the exact same thing with the cows milk protein allergy and had to fight to get aptamil pepti 1 because the gp had never really dealt with an babies with it. Thank God for the new health visitor I got who knew exactly what it was. skin has cleared and feeds got better and babies got better. Your instinct is always right as parents and you are doing an amazing job.
Those boys 🥰 absolutely adorable
You are doing so well sending everyone love and hugs xxxx
Too cute!!
I'm so glad the boys are doing better 💓 💕 💗
Your lastest vlog had gotten me all choked up, thank you for being so open, honest and raw. Please remember that you are both amazing parents to Noah and Ari 🥰💙x
You two are amazing! ❤
Loved how real this video was :)
So glad the boys are OK xxxx enjoyed the vlog xxx
Well done guys, you are doing an amazing job !!
After having twins it will be so good to make sure you refocus on your relationship too. A book called His Needs Her Needs I would recommend. I've not had twins but I have had 7 children very close together. And it's easy to but your own relationship on the back burner. I wish I had read the book earlier.
Thank you for sharing your journey. Best from Canada. ❤
My niece had exactly the same thing as this, she’s 12 weeks old and she literally was better instantly. Her rash disappeared and she settled so much better ❤.
Loved following your journey,glad the boys are feeling better
Good to see you all getting out for walks with the babies. Great for everyone! Thanks for the update!!
Your boy’s are gorgeous ❤
Yessss made my night only just seen this!!!! You two cheer up my week
So glad the boys are doing better ❤❤ Wishing your family the best for this new year!
Ell you are looking great and the boys are growing so fast they are so friggin cute another great vlog guys ❤
Really loved seeing the boys sorry they have been poorly, really hope the milk works for them , waiting for my new grandson to arrive she had a sweep on Tues if he hasn't arrived by Mon she's going in , loved the elephant sleep suits elephants are my favourite animal like you wlth giraffes ell lol , love watching you all take care xx
I love your conversations so cute❤️🙏‼️😁
Lad the boys are improving Great vlog love watching you guys ❤
My daughter had a severe problem with her 4th baby with feeding. It took months to find out that baby Emberlee was severely allergic to milk protein, and then to find right formula. Emberlee also had severe problems with acid reflux, so meds for that. Finding right formula in-stock was very difficult. She was born premature, very tiny , and wasnt gaining weight. When was about 2, genetics testing found a very rare disease which showed the eating disorder as a problem as well as her older sister having. There are many other symptoms that go along with disease so both kids have to go for tests every few months, ie. Heart, thyroid, kidney, etc
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So Wonderful to hear all about the Boys, and see them, you both are Amazing Parents learning everyday. Enjoy all the little moments with the boys and each other, looking forward to your next video. Take Care All. Xx
Cute babies ❤️🙏⭐️🌟✨
Thank you for your candour, I hope the boys are sleeping better and are not in pain going forward. You are all doing the hard yards now, and you are doing a great job. You have the support of all of your followers.
So happy the boys are feeding better. One at a time was hard, you two are doing and amazing job. They are growing so fast, prayers, they continue sleeping for you, they are adorable 💙💙❤️
hi Fab and Ell so pleased your boys seam to be doing better , it was a bit upsetting to see Ell cry i too had a tear or too hope its all good from now on take care xx
Hey lovelies, so good to see you again. I’m so pleased the boys are more happier on the new milk, I can imagine the worry and stress you went through 😢 You mentioned about zip up night suits, I used to buy my grandson’s from a place called Style my kids on line, they were beautiful and very reasonably priced too. Look forward to seeing you all next week, much love ❤xxx
you guys are doing a great job. Love from Nova Scotia, Canada
Prayers for Ari n Noah.
So happy that the boys are better! So sad seeing them and you guys so upset! Loving the realness in the vlog, can only imagine what it's like juggling twins and trying to work and get the content out!! 👏👏👏 Have a great week guys, looking forward to the next vid ❤️
So sad seeing Ell cry you are doing great guys the boy’s are beautiful ❤
You are such a lovely couple and you are doing an amazing job as parents. It will get easier as they grow. Hang in there ! Wishing you a very happy new year !!!
That had to be so scary to watch your boys struggling. I am so glad they are doing better and you both are getting some much needed rest. 🥰
I laughed so hard at the “runt” comment. What beautiful babies!
Really enjoyed the video. So glad the boys are doing good with their new formula. They are adoreable! Until next time......Love from North Carolina
BAHAHA 😂 you guys crack me up - loving the banter! I’ve got a 1 month old singleton and I can only appreciate the extra coordinating required for twins! Thanks for the quality entertainment 😜
Really enjoy watching your vlogs and always looking forward to your next one … your two are so very natural with the camera, keep up the great work, your babies are gorgeous!
I loved how open you were and sharing stuff also thank you even though I wept when you started to cry but your doin fantastic 👌 👍 👏 😊 ❤️ keep up the great parenting guys there some lucky boys
So glad the twins are accepting their milk now. You 2 are doing an awesome job with them. Happy New Year to all of you. Prayers for great, fun times ahead.
You two are so funny. Adorable babies with fantastic parents. Xxxx
Thank you so much for sharing your feeding journey and experiences its so informative and helpful, much love guys 🤗
Happy everyone doing good and happy new year’s
If they do have the protein allergy to cows milk also be very careful touching their skin if u have touched milk. My nephew was born with this and he is 18 now and has to carry an epi pen with him.
glad the boys are getting beater 😍
Babies are beautiful!
Thanks for sharing…was very emotional to watch but I thank God the twins are starting to feel some comfort. Well done to you both for being strong for them ❤
Love watching you guys , you're both amazing parent's , it's reassuring that the baby boys now have an answer to their upset tummy , really looking forward to seeing your boys grow even bigger and develop their little personalities. You 2 together crack me up , I actually LoL 😆 🤣 . Good bloody job you both have a good sense of humour xxxx
So precious nothing better than newborn baby grunts and stretching please post more videos like this melts my heart ♥...love seeing them stretch and the adorable noises they make!! Would love to see more of those
You two are so cute! I'm so happy that Ari and Noah are feeling much better. Having your first child (children) is so stressful on the parents too because you don't know what is normal. My son was such a quiet, happy little baby, never cried, slept through the night at 6 weeks. My daughter on the other hand was the total opposite. She suffered from colic and refused to drink from a bottle. I was her bottle for the first 6 months so no one could ever help me out. It all worked out in the end and I'm sure it will for you two as well. You both look amazing, and the boys are so much bigger just from the last video! Hope you have a wonderful week! Looking forward to seeing the new gym too! ❤
My future daughter-in-law's son has a severe milk allergy. He's a teen now but he cannot drink or eat anything made with milk. It will be tough learning what he can eat as he grows but you'll get there.
My babies couldn’t drink formula had to use soy or Isomil colic is bad burp after every ounce I used head an shoulders on the the forehead for that dry skin it help don’t get in eyes God bless I’m praying for your boys to get over this
I think you are doing amazing you are a great team. Hang on in there you have 2 beautiful boys
Wow ell you’ve done brilliant great vlog babies are growing so beautiful xxx. You both doing amazing with them xx
Wonderful news that there new formula is working on the boys digestion such a relief thank goodness Ari demonstrated all the difficulties the boys were having rite when the health Visitor was visiting. A very very Happy New Year to you all. Xxxxx
Hi Fab and Ell and boys. Aww the boys are so gorgeous I’m so glad the boys are ok and they are on milk that suits them. It must of been so hard for you all. It’s a worry when babies are sick when I was a first time parent I was so anxious it gets easier though. Lots of love to you all xxx ❤
I hope the boys feeding improves for both your sanities, but looks like you’re doing great! Chin up Ell, you’re an amazing mom ❤