American's Thai Family STOLE His House & Land in Thailand (Big Update)
In this follow-up interview, Dakota shares the latest chapter in his extraordinary saga-one filled with unexpected twists, profound challenges, and unwavering resilience.
Born to a Thai mother and an American father whose love story unfolded amidst the backdrop of the Vietnam War, Dakota's early years were marked by upheaval and uncertainty. After relocating to the United States at just three months old, Dakota's family faced the tumultuous fallout of a fractured relationship, ultimately leading his mother to return to Thailand, severing Dakota's ties to his homeland.
But fate intervened decades later, when a chance encounter with a Thai exchange student reignited Dakota's connection to his roots. Through the exchange student's tireless efforts, Dakota was reunited with his long-lost Thai family, sparking a profound journey of rediscovery and renewal.
Venturing to Thailand, Dakota embraced his heritage with open arms, embarking on a transformative odyssey that saw him build a home on his late mother's land. Dakota then lived and worked in Thailand for seven years.
Yet, as Dakota returned to the United States, he was confronted with an unexpected betrayal. Discovering that his uncle had unlawfully seized his land and home.
In this interview video, Dakota shares the developments in his ongoing quest for justice and closure. .
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00:00 intro
02:26 how I found my estranged Thai family
18:49 how I lost my land & home
25:31 What happened to my land & home
42:49 my health problems
49:49 The terrible relationship between my Thai mom & American dad
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Here are the first two interviews I did with Dakota: His Amazing Life Story: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qKBhs5Wfhazfn7A.htmlsi=EW7yubVsiVVspHIU How his land was stolen: kzread.info/dash/bejne/eWGg3I-zZdq4l7A.htmlsi=SfZbTQiERupyDE2p
@bobnewhart4318
4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the links
This man, has the best attitude! I wish I had his ability to forgive and let things go. I hope his operation is a success and that he lives a long and happy life!
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
@kadachiman7234
4 ай бұрын
He hasn't really lost anything as he inherited the land from somebody who he has never met, and he got his house money returned .....so his current attitude is understandable.
@mrbigdick3731
4 ай бұрын
I too very much admire his attitude and his optimism even more… To think the million baht will still be present with his relative is hugely optimistic to say the least lol. But good luck Dakota 👍
@mrbigdick3731
4 ай бұрын
@@kadachiman7234Principles.
@iantawashington-allotey9913
3 ай бұрын
@@kadachiman7234They still took his land and over charged him so they could build a house of their own so no they did not repay him properly. He did meet his mother and legally that land belongs to him.
The fact he has dual citizenship and now speaks Thai, would certainly help his case going through the legal system, if it came to that.
@stoopsolo1479
6 ай бұрын
I could be wrong, but its my understanding that Thailand does not allow Thai citizens to have duel citizenship.
@martinlift3315
6 ай бұрын
@@stoopsolo1479it is possible i know some people that have dual citizenship both danish passport and Thai as well :) I am actually also applying myself for Thai citizenship when my mom and dad comes back to thailand
@Ned88Man
6 ай бұрын
It does and as a Thai citizen, he has NO excuse or any reason at all to find himself in this position.@@stoopsolo1479
@HburgMMAInstitute
6 ай бұрын
@@stoopsolo1479 you're incorrect.
@Wilko11
6 ай бұрын
@@stoopsolo1479 According to the Act, there are no explicit provisions on restricting a Thai national in holding more than 1 citizenship and requiring to renounce a former nationality in the process to solely acquire Thai citizenship. Hence, an individual can possess multiple nationalities.
This guy is so diplomatic about his family and their wrong doing
@Mrhappy555
6 ай бұрын
very thai
@Mrhappy555
6 ай бұрын
Thai are polite people , they took his land because they are poor and criminal. probably not Buddhist believers.
@djchyloe
5 ай бұрын
Thai face culture
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
@Comeonsteve
21 күн бұрын
@@Mrhappy555 very stupid
What a wonderful human being Dakota is! The world needs a whole lot more people with this kind of heart and attitude! I will pray that his kidney transplant and recovery goes 100% well. I am right next door in Las Vegas if you (Dakota) need anything. I will be moving to Thailand in 4.5 more years. I have gone for 4 weeks every year (Mid Dec- Mid Jan) for the past 10 plus years and will be calling Phuket my home. I have spent some time in Bangkok and Pattaya area but for me, nothing beats Phuket. Big prayers to you Dakota and feel free to reach out for anything you could possible need if even just an ear.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching and offering assistance. I will be fine. I have great healthcare. Maybe weird, but I feel lucky:)
@NechamaGluck
5 ай бұрын
@@DakotaTPattersonGratitude is the road to health. Many strong years ahead of you my friend. May the healing be smooth and easy!
i have a personal friend, Thai guy that studied engineering in USA, worked many years there, returned to Thailand to retire and discovered his own sister did something like that with a house he owned.
@user-me2xj6zn6x
6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I know many Thai women working abroad in my country who try not to go back too often to Thailand because their family want more and more help from them financially that it becomes too stressful.
@mattblank9224
6 ай бұрын
Family Land disputes are common in Thailand his mother may not have been the legal owner of the land, ther may have been a feud. Let's face it, if Dakota had not learned about his family, he wouldn't have a clue about this tiny parcel of land in isaan.
@Hoxton66
6 ай бұрын
@@mattblank9224 yes but he has connected back with the other lovely family members, and he's thai culture
@mattblank9224
6 ай бұрын
@@Hoxton66 he had no real Thai culture though. DNA, yes , but lived as an American for 30 years. His father didn't seem to have much info on his ex, and he being a PI didn't seem at all interested in his mother's life in Thailand. Many unanswered questions in this story.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
bad things happen everywhere. I have this weird habit of always keeping my head up
Going to Thailand to confront the situation is VERY dangerous.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
I place deep thought into all of my potential actions.
@pinderbupinder1598
2 ай бұрын
@@DakotaTPattersonsome mma training and wearing a newspaper under your tshirt
You have a big heart, and come across as an sincere honest person, I wish you all the best good luck and take care👍👍
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
I like this side of KZread. So much better than all the crime and drama. I like hearing people life stories.
My uncle was out there when his father was and I have 2 cousins that are half-Thai, Mom is from that area too, very similar stories, thank you.
Enjoyed it as much as the first one and maybe little more, Great questions Pete! Wish Dakota a happy and long giving life !
Best story yet. Gutted for him that his dad didnt incorporate Thai culture into his life as a kid. Im glad he spent a solid 7 years catching up on that. I hope Dakota gets to go back to Thailand to deal with his uncle. He has a beautiful smile, all the best with your health ❤
@jimsdad3739
6 ай бұрын
My son born in Bangkok to a Thai mum. Will I be allowing my son to be taught Thai culture? Not a phuking chance of that happening. He'll get a real education and upbringing.
@aliowl
6 ай бұрын
@jimsdad3739 you've just said all people educated in China and all Thais are stupid. When your old and your son abandons you into am old peoples home, if you ask why. He will tell you 'but it's the western way dad'
@shawnlee3997
5 ай бұрын
Why is an American playing around in the jungles of Khmer. Is this a tragedy? I can’t understand.
@aliowl
5 ай бұрын
@@shawnlee3997 no idea what you are talking about
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Great interview so far Pete. You really let him explain his story. Thanks guys.
@ThairishTimes
6 ай бұрын
glad you enjoyed it bud
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Pete is great. I enjoy talking with him. I hope to meet him in person one day.
Good interview, articulated well
Very, very good interview! Definitely do a follow up when Dakota returns. I married a Thai, built a house, purchased land, all in her name of course. I can honestly say, we have been happily married for 15 years now living in Chiang Mai!! Guess I'am one of the lucky ones!! lol😃😃😃
@ManicMindTrick
5 ай бұрын
I met a guy here who was with his Thai wife for 17 years when all of a sudden she sold the house and moved to another country with her sister. The guy seem crushed. Apparently she had a gambling problem. To him it came out of nowhere. Hope you live happy ever after mate.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching. good and bad people are all over the world
@darryl.c7972
5 ай бұрын
@@ManicMindTrick Thanks friend, not all Thailand love stories end in horror.. 😊
@roastnut
2 ай бұрын
@@ManicMindTrick That's made up
What an interesting story. This guy is one amazing individual with a true kind heart. I wish him and his wife the very best! And I wish him good health. ThNk you for sharing, mate!
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Makes sense why successful and affluent Thai men don't marry someone on a lower economic level. You become a golden goose target.
@morrist8727
6 ай бұрын
Successful and affluent men shouldn't be marrying anyone!
@Reno-vi2tj
6 ай бұрын
Makes sense in any country. The same applies
@CoolGobyFish
3 ай бұрын
@@morrist8727 always marry someone on a higher level than you
@CoolGobyFish
2 ай бұрын
@@JohnRoberts-uq6hn you should always try to marry up. our ancestors weren't stupid when they came up with it
Thx 4 all these interviews Pete
@ThairishTimes
6 ай бұрын
you're welcome buddy and thanks for watching
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Great interview the last time and another good follow up interview Hope to watch part 4 and see it all ends well
This guy is his own worst enemy. There is no excuse for not having already hired a Thai lawyer to get answers on how they were able to sell the house without him. There is absolutely no need for him to be there in person for basic questions to be answered. And his improved ability to speak Thai is irrelevant beyond the fact that it will make it easier for the people who screwed him to feed him another line of BS for him to swallow. He is making this so much harder than it needs to be.
@Heshkinp
6 ай бұрын
He didnt need build house in first place even if “only” 25k
@Cipher77776
6 ай бұрын
I tend to agree. I find it totally unfathomable why he would just let them go ahead and defraud him without doing anything at all about it. Family or not. He seems to be a very chilled and potentially unconfrontational person, perhaps this has a lot to do with it.
@Grahamgringo
6 ай бұрын
If I was him and found out that I was left 2 parcels of land, the first thing I would have done is sell them both immediately. End of problems. I know, hindsight🙂
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching. I do not feel good about taking relatives into the legal system. the 1,000,000 baht makes no difference in my life. I will always be able to get what I need to live my life.
@travelblade2k
3 ай бұрын
@@DakotaTPatterson you mean taking your gold diggers to the legal system?
What a great interview and story. I hope everything works out and falls into place for him. Seems like a really rational thinking and genuine guy. All the best 👍🏻
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Great interview. I'm impressed with Dakota's attitude about his health and family situation.
When living in Phuket in the mid 80's I saw a 'Farang' guy building a beautiful house! Just off the Chao Fah Road . He designed and built the house with an under house car park! The place was like a huge bungalow, the envy of all in the area. Well sadly when the house was finished, the Thai lady's family turned up, one of the guys put a gun to the 'Farang's' head and he ran! he fled the island. I was shocked as this was pretty rare in those days! Not rare now!
@dotcom2528
5 ай бұрын
There are ways to get back at Thais that have wronged you.... Western money can buy a lot of damage to life and limb.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
you should write a book and share the stories.
@senianns9522
5 ай бұрын
No one would believe me! @@DakotaTPatterson
@artsupplydonate4267
5 ай бұрын
What does this have to do with the video smh
@dotcom2528
5 ай бұрын
@@artsupplydonate4267 he is sharing a similar story about a stolen house. Are you so stupid you can not relate....?
Wow. Without doubt, the most interesting upload that I have seen about a personal Thai experience. I’ll be watching the previous and future episodes too. Very very good work. Cheers 🍻
@ThairishTimes
6 ай бұрын
glad you enjoyed it
@heleng9940
6 ай бұрын
Excellent interview. Dakota seems like a very nice person, with a smart and kind head on his shoulders. I wish him all the best.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Wow what a story all the best sir
This kind of people I love to listen to Pete. Great interview..
@ThairishTimes
6 ай бұрын
Really glad you enjoyed it
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
Very interesting interview. Praying for you, my friend.
Super righteous stand up dude !! I appreciate you fighting the good fight and being a warrior. . . Much prayers and praise.
Wonderful Pete, thanks for your work.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Lived there 14 years , have a Thai stepmother and Thai daughter .. will NEVER go back , same my father never went back .
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
bad experiences happen everywhere
My friend had to fight his thia family after his wife passed away he employed a thia lawyer and fought them all the way the courts ruled in his favour he took possession back yet he was forced to sell it under a short time line and returned back overseas unreal how the family he had supported for years turned on him
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing this
@sandrabentley8111
5 ай бұрын
There are good American attorneys in Thailand who know all Thai law and practice.
I guess one moral of this story is to never trust the family of the mother who was so disgraceful that she abandoned you as a child.
@marshmallowpuff4899
5 ай бұрын
I never thought of that . Good point .
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
I don't hold anything against my mom. men need to be the backbone
@doorguru168888
5 ай бұрын
@@DakotaTPatterson Your mother did not abandon you. She was divorced, alone, probably spoke little english with no fellow Thai's for support. She did what she thought was best. I was involved in a similar situation with my Thai wife. She was basically thrown out after a divorce with only 150.00 to her name by her two timing husband who kept the house and child. She spoke very little english but had Thai friends for support and remained in the US. Soon after her divorce, we met on a blind date and we have been married going on 49 years. All attempts to communicate with her daughter were blocked and years later we learned our letters and gifts were never received by her. She was in California an us in Florida. My wife and our daughter even flew out to California but was denied a visit. A dozen or so years later we developed good relationship with her daughter who was 4 at the time of the divorce..
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing this story.@@doorguru168888
@Caroline-up8nl
4 ай бұрын
U should’ve listen to his whole story it’s obvious you haven’t
A common misconception that the Tabieen Baan denotes ownership of the property. It doesn't. It merely lists those who are registered as living there, mainly these days for ID card and other registry purposes. Its pretty clear the relatives pulled the wool over his eyes, giving him the tabieen baan and letting him think the place was in his name, when in reality he had signed over the land from his inheritance and had his name left on the tabieen baan as window dressing. Sad to say it, but that million baht will be long gone by the time he gets here. No one is holding that money in escrow for him.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
I cannot argue your point. thank you for watching
@bcooper7618
23 күн бұрын
Hit the nail on the head. The majority of rural Thais struggle with money management. As this is over 2 years ago since the house was sold i would imagine the vast majority of that money is gone. In terms of legal recourse - that could be a very long and expensive process and given that he signed over the property and land rights then is becomes a he said she said argument.
Dakota is a wonderful person. I love listening to him. The way he describes how couples battle for children was spot on. Wishing him love, happiness and health for many decades to come.❤
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching.
Fascinating interview.. really enjoyed his story.. he's definitely no eejit.. gullible maybe in the beginning but, he's definitely learned a valuable lesson.. I wish him all the best.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
we live and learn
.. totally enjoyed this story telling interview, he's a cool dude.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
Lovely interview, so nice to hear a person who has gone to Thailand without thought of exploiting them. His attitude to his poor relatives is so compassionate.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for pointing that out. I went to Thailand with no monetary desire. I regret accepting the property. I only wanted to visit.
Personally speaking:One of life’s harsh truisms is that you cannot trust anyone 100%. No one. Every one has a price.
Engagement Ring Wedding Ring Suffer Ring 😅😅😅 Enjoy life alone !!! Best 👌
Sorry to hear this story Brother. Am rooting for you to recover any all that you have lost ! Stay Strong and Hang Tough !👊🤛👍
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
My fathers family in Greece, stole all his land, millions of Euros, prime beach land, and in the city of Athens Voula.. Heard many stories same happening all over europe !
@TitB1199
5 ай бұрын
This is not so common in Europe..
@PHlophe
5 ай бұрын
this literally happens in Spain everyday . people are locked in trials for a decade straight and its dragged out so people can die . I am just surprised this happens in Greece as well. Nowhere is safe i guess.
@reazallykhan8614
5 ай бұрын
We in the same club 😂😂
@ryanlekan1495
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for bringing this up. You read these comments or listen to these shows and people seem to think all Thai people are like this and no other country in the world has people like this, including in western countries. When money is involved, it changes people. That doesn't matter what area of the world you're from.
I was married to an asian lady in US. Her family fleeced me big$ similar to your situation, similar with a house build. Very sorry to hear of your bad news. Please heal yourself in US now. Yes, return back and solve things in person.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
This man is a gem. I wish him good health and happiness.
What a wonderful man! How many of us would have sought resolution. I hope your cousins from the better side of the family come through and help you source your money back. Wishing you lots of happiness and good health going forward.😊
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching.
Can’t wait to see
Love this guy’s positive outlook. I wish him all the best, seems like bad luck follows him, but what a great attitude eh? World needs more people like him.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Love the cup Pete fella! 🤣 Brilliant work as per.. you always get the best scoops and most fascinating stories! Top work my man 👍🏻👊🏻🙏🏻💪🏻 How’s married life treating you? Sorry we never got to meet for a beer in BKK 😐
@heleng9940
6 ай бұрын
I also liked the mug!
Excellent story Pete and Dakota! Brilliant hard truths to know of, however this happens everywhere in the world. Just think about the context of the late 60’s and early 70’s- Harsh and the impact of war on the individuals who serviced and their families is devastating!!! Yet Dakota appears to have a calm, insightful and understanding nature which is an incredible credit to him !!! Pete please do get him back for scene 3 !!!
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
my ability to stay calm, insightful and understanding grows with age
Living in Melbourne Australia I have regularly travelled to Park City Utah to ski at Park City and Deer Valley. Great part of the world.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
We love it as well.
This guys family reunion may look more like a Bruce Lee movie when he returns.
What a story! I wish him all the best and good health
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
Crumbs Pete I remember watching your interview last time. Dakota wish you best.👍
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
I would love an update about the reimbursement of the money for the house and land. I don't think it will be as easy as he thinks.
I would love to get in touch with Dakota. We are in Texas now but have a place in Udon Thani. What a wonderful human being.
Signing documents you cannot read is a BAD Idea! Not having copies of everything you sign is a WORSE idea. The whole kidney bargaining story is simply weird,
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
I respect your opinion. thanks for watching
Bless this guy.. Great content
I glad you are having success with your channel
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Pete deserves the success
Brilliant vlog. Wishing good health.
Good to know about your good heart and your patience. It's commendable. It's unfortunate that you have had such a harsh experience in your parents lives, also the loss of your home, land & being stranded without resolution of your situation is painful. I empathise with your situation.
Excellent interview, I can understand his point. I am married to a Thai lady myself.
What a great story. I admire this guy. I wish him great luck with his medical problem. He has an amazing positive outlook so I'm confident that it will work out well for him.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
I'm Thai American lived in the states all my life and moved back to Thailand. My advice to Dakota is to have a personal attorney and communicate thru LINE. My attorney handles everything for me that I ask for. I have multiple businesses and several companies in Thailand for many years now. Get an attorney very simple.
You have a talent for interviews 👍
You are a very good person my friend. I can learn off your experience,thank you
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Great content video, interesting story 😊 I wish him all the best for his transplant when it happens, good luck😊
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
Wow. Awesome video. Thank you. I’m a white collar well travelled, because of work, American in my 50s who will be living and working remotely in Thailand at least 6 mos. A year . I Fkn love this guy. And Fkn love this story. Cheers
Nice one
Dakota is a very kind and loving person. I pray he gets the healthcare he needs.
I remember the first story & it was good to hear the second part, I'm very surprised that he even got the 800,000 baht back for the house build, so I wish him all the luck to get the money back for the land, I doubt he will have much luck getting the money back for the land, but at least confronting his uncle will make him see that he has done wrong & also lose face, being charged double for the original build is probably the norm for some dishonest people, but at least he was told about this although it was too late, I'm hoping there will be more content on this story, but the best outcome would be that he gets better & that he can put all this behind him.....
@ma3stro681
6 ай бұрын
His uncle has a “loose” face, hey … 😂
@baz69er13
6 ай бұрын
Nothing that a bit of plastic surgery can't sort out......lol
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
the only real care I have is getting a healthy kidney and getting back on that saddle
@artsupplydonate4267
5 ай бұрын
What it looks like is the plan was to sell the property & give him a portion. This seems common in Thailand they'll use your money to start a business then give you a percentage
@roystevenson1375
4 ай бұрын
For 1M baht I believe you can buy a large piece of land in Issan..Did he not say small pig farm or is it the land that the house stands on.The uncle has spent it on his health care.Let it go .You got what you have spent on your house and gained a family
I have google "Can a foreigner inherit land in Thailand?" and got : "yes as a statuory heir, but he cannot register ownership of the land because he will not be given permission. Under present law he must dispose of the land within a reasonable period (meaning up to 1 year) to a Thai national". But I guess because the uncle had previously no legal right to sell house and land, that will not be easy to recover the money from the uncle.
@nightimermx8934
6 ай бұрын
He's not a foreigner. He's a Thai citizen by birth.
@grahaml6072
6 ай бұрын
He is not a foreigner he is Thai
@grahaml6072
5 ай бұрын
@@Tugela60 I think you should research Thai citizenship by birth. If at least one of your parents are Thai citizens then whether you are born inside or even outside of Thailand you are a Thai citizen automatically.
Very articulate. Nicely told for a sad story.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Impressive man - has his head screwed on. Really enjoyed his story. Interested to know what his dad's role was in Vietnam? Is his dad's drinking symptomatic from his Vietnam experience?
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
My dad worked soley on the base in Ubon Ratchatani. There was a lot of secret foot & air traffic to & from Vietnam via Laos. My dad prepped the solders departing and returning in dire situations. He was fortunate to not ever have to set foot on Vietnam soil. Hueys would land with smoke coming from the engine and injured soldiers. He had a first person view.
Dakota is so so Thai deeply in his heart! It’s nice to hear the updates but sad in the same time for his health. He should let go of the house, land and money in Thailand! It’s too dangerous for him to start fighting for it! His Thai family is using him even the one is taking his side… Just stay put and be happy in the USA! Best wishes from England 🏴. Btw good interview Pete ❤
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
I don't think I want to put up a fight over the money. I already have enough money to last me the rest of my life. My cousins standing up for me are educated and gainfully employed. They are legit. They have never asked me for anything. They take good care of me every time I visit. It almost makes me feel selfish.
What a fantastic, good man. I wish him all the best for his future.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Thank you.
This has happened in other countries in Europe too for instance I’m Australian and my mothers sister tried to sell my parents house in Europe without them knowing !!! They no longer talk so it’s happening everywhere especially if you decide to buy or build property in poorer countries where it’s corrupt or unregulated
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching. people fleecing other people takes place everywhere
Mental illness / depression: sometimes when a person is depressed for years and years, the brain chemistry changes and it is very hard to go back to a healthy state. Bad alcoholism can also cause part of major depression.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
my dad began drinking heavily at about 15 or 16 and never looked back. my grandfather allowed him to do so. never called him out. odd fact......my grandfather's dad was an alcoholic. my grandfather never drank a single beer his entire life. clean living guy, dressed nicely and went to church every Sunday. my dad took after his grandfather and I mostly took after my grandfather. I've never been much of a religious person. thank you for watching
I understand how you feel about your father, but what he saw when he was in Vietnam could be the main reason why he gets so drunk, you telling your father that you will be there for him when he gets old, shows to me what a good person you are, I hope and pray you get your health back, you deserve it. This is the best story I have seen on Thairish Times.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching
As a foreigner or American, perhaps it's a safer bet just to rent rather buy a house as it seems it bit too risky.
What a stud when he talked about wanting to still help her and her daughter.. wow!
Very educational. Brilliant.
What a good guy.
I do a lot of buiding. In Thialand it is extremely extremly cheap to build a smaller house if made of 80% concrete. Yes, they could have built 2 houses for $25k 10yrs ago with cheaper costs.
Yep, Thais do it to their own too. Well, not all Thais obviously. It is sad that it happens but at least there's more and more awareness being brought to the terrible situations happening to farangs, especially, in Thailand.
I waited 20 mins for him to say Isan ... well well enough said 😮
@_Alfa.Bravo_
6 ай бұрын
... there are good people and bad people everywhere. Get rid of your prejudices!
@636NinjaBlade
6 ай бұрын
@@_Alfa.Bravo_ Let me guess your teelak is different 555
@_Alfa.Bravo_
6 ай бұрын
@@636NinjaBlade ... mind your own cup of tea
@mattblank9224
6 ай бұрын
He said in the 1st minute of this video that he was born in Ubon while his dad was stationed there during the Vietnam war.
Wow! I can sense his Thai kind nature but hearing all he has gone through from his relatives, it breaks my heart that kind Thais would take advantage of others’ kindness.
My friends mother (Thai) is in the same siuation atm. He told me they have a very greedy culture and when it comes to $$$$ they'll do anything, even to their own family to profit. I love the country to visit, done a total of 6 months there and haven't had a bad experience.
Don't believe Thai cousins are on your side big mistake
Dakota, sorry Brother. Embarrassingly, I’m overweight and couldn’t donate 😞. You’re a solid dude and a grace driven inspiration. God bless.
Dakota is so decent to still want to help those who have those who were not honest with him . Hope he gets his kidney sorted. All these vlog with him have been very interesting.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
The land of smiles ahhhh
When Pete reflexively scratches his head,he’s hearing something that he’s not totally on board with.
@ThairishTimes
6 ай бұрын
😆😆😆
WOW loved this vlog,really great job ,Dakota all the best luck for you and your wife ,kenn Denmark
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you
I remember a case near Nong Phrue in the early 2000s where a Canadian I believe lost his wife in a fire of his home. The wife's family tried unsuccessfully to obtain the remaining of the home. The court actually sided with the foreigner and concluded that he had suffered and lost already too much. I believe he rebuilt and is living there tiday with another with and their daughter.
@LungAnt
6 ай бұрын
Unfortunately there aren't many decent people with good stories in these comments. Too many old men been scammed by little girls so they think everyone is ripping everyone else off. Sad really. There's plenty of good Thai people and loads of falang with houses for decades. Thanks for this story.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
some people win and some people lose. sounds like he won the game. thank you for watching
Very Interesting Story, I wish him Good Luck with the money, land or house, to get something back. 🙏
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching
Such a cool dude 😊 was nice listening to him talking
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching.
Not just Thai family. My parents were Irish, me and my sisters were born in England. My parents would do what they could for you (I could trust them), but sisters, disappointing shall we say, i.e. you can't even trust your "family" in a country you can understand the language in.
@EasternDreamer615
6 ай бұрын
100%, I've had similar experiences in the US.
@Boddav
6 ай бұрын
Utah is a great state!
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
many families argue over money
Easy mark. Not surprising. He would be taken advantage of in most countries in the world - US included. Hopefully, he's learned from this.
@user-mf2fd6dq8x
6 ай бұрын
Get a better quality Bargirl...lol.hahaha.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching. I have never been taken advantage of in the US. I started a business all by myself in my 20's and did pretty well. That $20K, at the time, was two months income for me. I knew it was a gamble and I said, "what the hell, go for it." I ended up getting the $20K back. I never paid anything for the land. A part of me feels wrong for wanting anything associated with the land. thank you for watching
As soon as Hearing he was an American Thai without any knowledge of his country you know where this is heading.
This guy is such a great story-teller.
Tabienbaan/bluebook (yellow for foreigners) makes you caretaker not owner. Charnod is the land deed and is transfered at Landoffice, not at Amphur office. As a foreigner you can own a house on rented land but the house owner certificate is not issued at Amphur.
@DakotaTPatterson
5 ай бұрын
thank you for watching and providing good information
@dotcom2528
5 ай бұрын
@@DakotaTPatterson I can not remember the name of office (which is not Amphur) or Tamboon, it is another and they issue a paper certificate about house ownership. But you do need some papers..... Paid this and that for construction, architect? Other.....