My boyfriend (a broad shouldered 6'2 straight dude) paints his nails, wears make-up, dyes/straightens his hair, steals my sunnies/jewellery, and loves pink. Ever since meeting me (a pansexual woman) he's become "gayer" which translates as: more open and accepting of himself and realising that gender norms are fucking stupid. Now our favourite motos are: "Fuck heteronormativity!" and "we don't do gender in this house" and I couldn't be happier.

@daisymay6505

2 жыл бұрын

good for you guys 👏👏👏

@creativedesignation7880

2 жыл бұрын

"We don't do gender in this house"? That's amazing, I need that framed. In fact that's gonne be my project for today. It's gonne go next to my framed "My favourite season is the fall of the patriarchy"

@rizkyadiyanto7922

2 жыл бұрын

"we don't do gender in this house" i wish thats really what you people believe.

@missnaomi613

2 жыл бұрын

@@creativedesignation7880 I think I'd enjoy that season as well!

@Ace_Ang

2 жыл бұрын

I love thisssss. 😁

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: Sports are socially acceptable homoerotic activities that are ironically some of the most queerphobic spaces.

@ghjgme

2 жыл бұрын

I know roller derby is a pretty queer sport, but accidentally fully kissed another woman and she introduced herself and shook my hand afterwards.

@kazikek2674

2 жыл бұрын

Coincidentally, you wear socks in almost every practiced sport.

@chesh1rek1tten

2 жыл бұрын

@@ghjgme i want an elaborate story on that! But yeah, very true. I'm glad my ice hockey team is fully supportive, I was really afraid in the beginning.

@ghjgme

2 жыл бұрын

@@chesh1rek1tten I'm not a story teller; I think a big part is we are both tall, and generally being tall means you mostly got hit in the face with helmets. One or both must have turned our heads at the right time to make full lip contact when she went play offense while I had her teams jammer. The introduction wasn't much more than that, I was her "first derby kiss." I believe it was between jams, she came up and wanted to know my name. I'm a very awkward human, but honestly didn't think much of it if she hadn't enthusiastically shaken my hand with both of hers. I cannot tell you how many people I've accidentally licked or stuck my hand in an eye or mouth over the years. Another stand out, most of my shirts are ripped on one side from a team mate pulling on me to gain momentum, and one time someone fully pulled my boob out.

@jokl89

2 жыл бұрын

@@chesh1rek1tten Yay you! So happy for you!

I started therapy last week, my therapist is so sweet. She stumbled on my pronouns, but corrected herself and didn't make a big deal out of it. Which, honestly, means a lot to me.

@rachellenormand9603

2 жыл бұрын

Congrats on going to therapy! It's a big step! I'm glad you like your therapist and I hope whatever you're going through gets better!

@primatesimia720

2 жыл бұрын

Thankyou for sharing that. i'm in between therapists at the moment and for some reason, reading that really made my day

@alfie3.14

2 жыл бұрын

@@rachellenormand9603 Thank you! It'll be a tough road, but I think I can do it :>

@alfie3.14

2 жыл бұрын

@@primatesimia720 I hope your next therapist meshes well with you, make sure to speak up if they don't

@22kitten33

2 жыл бұрын

That’s good and all, I am glad you found a good therapist and I get that it can be hard to find one you mesh well with sometimes…however, who uses gendered pronouns while talking to someone while referring to the person that you’re talking to? That seems weird to me…I don’t want to be rude, I’m a little tired so I genuinely don’t know if I am being rude, but I also genuinely don’t understand. Is it normal to use someone’s preferred pronouns in a normal conversation? Cuz I’ve heard some people occasionally either be happy about someone using their preferred pronouns or upset someone blatantly ignored their preferred pronouns and I am so confused…

I have a bracelet that is the bi flag and I wear it 24/7. One day the fastening broke but it was right before I had to leave for school so I didn’t have time to fix it so I left it at home. When I went into school without it on all my friends got so worried someone was bullying me or someone forced me to take it off to hide my identity. They were so cute. Anyways sorry for weird off topic story but I thought this would be a nice place to share. [Edit- I think is my most liked and replied comment on anything.]

@robbieismyspiritanimal6062

2 жыл бұрын

no that’s rlly sweet they’re definitely rlly good friends

@morganbrownie42

2 жыл бұрын

That’s so wholesome and precious thank you for sharing 💖🥺

@scathannagoodman3796

2 жыл бұрын

I actually made a bi flag friendship bracelet for my friend, as a small thing since her parents are homophobic (and kinda terrible in general :l). Since I don't think her parents know what the bi flag looks like, it's just a little way to show pride while still in the closet. (All of our friends and her brothers are supportive, at least)

@jessthecat9399

2 жыл бұрын

@@scathannagoodman3796 omg your such a good friend that’s great

@robbieismyspiritanimal6062

2 жыл бұрын

@@scathannagoodman3796 OMG THATS TOO CUTE AND NICE YOU ARE EVERYTHING AGHHH

I read the book which plot takes place in the 1910s and my favorite thing is that the writer used ''gay'' as a synonymus for ''joyful'' and so I had those cute little sentences like ''the captain of the ship made sure all the passangers were comfortable and gay'' or ''all the women were very gay''. Safe to say it made the story ten times better - just a ship full of comfortable gays.

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

😆 Reading historical novels can definitely be an interesting experience, given how much language & attitudes have changed over the decades!! I'm glad you had a funny linguistic experience like that though, rather than one of those moments (more frequent in my experience?) where the author's internalised misogyny, queerphobia etc suddenly jumps off the page and smacks you in the face... 😒 If you're a fan of historical authors you do learn to expect those moments from time to time, but they're still not super fun? Makes it all the more enjoyable when you find an author (of any era!) who largely manages not to write any bigotry into their works... And definitely makes one look at modern writings a bit differently, and wonder which bits of our contemporary fiction might prove to be the "yikes" moments for readers in a future century! 🤭

@beanvillus

2 жыл бұрын

What was the name of that book? It sounds fun to read.

@JenniferScrimshaw

2 жыл бұрын

That reminds me of one of the chronicles of Narnia, the silver chair, where they're trying to pretend to be happy innocent little children in order to find out information but they keep using the word gay for happy so you get things like: "Gay" ... "That's what we've got to be. Gay." "While we're fooling about and being gay"

@a-random-human-being2311

Жыл бұрын

I was once reading some Icelandic Sagas and came across "They were all wearing coloured clothes and rode with gay shields"

face routines aren’t feminine, they’re literally just hygienic. It’s weird how we associate good health with being gay/feminine edit : yo 1.1 k likes in a day? I’m famous

@bbear2695

2 жыл бұрын

now, what the menfolk are called upon to do is to get a suave 12-in-one and use it as shampoo, conditioner, facewash, asswash, ballwash, toothpaste, and steak sauce.

@BeautyMonster1000

2 жыл бұрын

People literally call men taking care of themselves "manscaping". Ugh, why can't it just be called hygiene? 🙄

@Fuchswinter

2 жыл бұрын

@@BeautyMonster1000 like if your skin doesn't need a 12-step program good for you but if someone thinks washing themselves is weird I don't trust them

@erin1569

2 жыл бұрын

Gay = healthy? I don't mind

@kazikek2674

2 жыл бұрын

At some point we'll reach a state in which hygiene and medical services will just turn you gay in people's eyes and heterosexuals will become a minority.

My parish priest did a sermon about how the Church should welcome everyone without judgement; old or young, gay or straight, cis or trans, male or female or *anything inbetween*. I just wanted to share that with you. (if you follow OT you may have already read this)

@orionishi6737

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, because they were losing followers...gotta try to stay relevant.

@KaleidoRose

2 жыл бұрын

@@orionishi6737 No. While I am atheist, in part due to the attitude of the church as a whole, as a former Lutheran Christian, I can say that church pastors are NOT only showing acceptance for the sake of keeping up a statistic. 'My' pastor has been proudly marrying gays for years, and is very accepting, and does her damn well best to learn about and understand people of all walks of life and fight discrimination of any kind. She's the reason I'm not completely against religion. Religion can have valuable moral lessons, provided it is untainted by bias, self-centered agendas, ignorance, stupidity, and ridiculous phobias. Some sects at least are good, those that care less about the "tradition" and ancient laws long since irrelevant, and rigid interpretation of the words written in the bible with no acknowledgement of the context and biases of the very flawed human writing it, but instead on how Jesus basically preached to love everyone. Period, full stop. He hung out with the outcasts, the 'unclean', the 'sinners', and accepted them. He taught to do good no matter what. And was rather inclusive. The problem is in the people manipulating and using religion to facilitate their own biases and reinforce their own power. The Catholic church has been a large example of this historically, people using religion to justify their bigotry and to destroy any dissent. But there has always also been the reasonable, moral, and ethical people practicing religion as well. It's just that the voice of evil is much louder than good, because evil is shameless, fearless, and malevolent. oops, sorry for the rant, I may have got a little off topic

I started painting my nails and half the people I know thought it meant I was trans. I mean I realized like six months later that I actually am, but still.

@PanthereaLeonis

2 жыл бұрын

"Noo! Let me enjoy my nail polish as a totally cis dude! Oh wait. Fuck, you *were* right." I'm just waiting for my boyfriend to crack like that. He's adorable though.

@clarascats1365

2 жыл бұрын

… First of all, love your pfp, Secondly, when I clicked on it to double check it was entrapta it told me ur subbed to Malinda? I barely ever see someone who knows Malinda “out in the wild” so that’s cool lol

@HobGungan

2 жыл бұрын

"Just because a person paints their nails doesn't mean they're trans!.... okay, I AM trans, but not because I paint my nails!" The MiB3 scene/meme is just so applicable in these contexts.

I saw something on Twitter yesterday where a guy got called names (gay being one of them) for saying women in the adult industry should be treated with respect. It baffled me.

@tdelioncourt1268

2 жыл бұрын

Sadly many grown ass hetero men think that you can't possibly have casual sex with someone you respect, and that consent is "not sexy" 😬

@scathannagoodman3796

2 жыл бұрын

They called a man gay... for thinking that women deserve as much respect as men? For one thing, being a decent person had nothing whatsoever to do with someone's sexuality, and also, wtf kind if mental gymnastics did they have to do to make that leap? 'This guy respects women? He must date men!' like what??? I'm so confused. And the levels of weird around calling someone gay as an insult, there's nothing wrong with a guy liking guys. r/AretheStraightsOkay?

@creativedesignation7880

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not defending this, but I think I got some insight in the thought process. Watching porn for many people has the key component of objectifying women (or sometimes other people, mostly women though). Since porn is inherently sexual they tend to associate that objectification of others with their own sexuality (at least when people don't properly question/reflect on the impact porn has on their opinions). Once someone has a strong association between those two concepts, they might jump to the conclusion that objectification is not only a part of their own sexuality, but of what they perceive to be a "normal" sexuality for people of their own gender and sexual orientation. Therefore whenever someone else rejects the attitude of objectification, they may come to the conclusion that since that person's attitude towards women doesn't reflect their own, that person's sexual orientation and/or gender must be different, or at least different enough to doubt it in the form of what they perceive to be an insult. I think that's pretty much it, or at least it's my best guess as to what is going on. Needless to say I find there to be multiple errors in every stage of that thought process. Treat women and people in general with respect, especially those working in fields that can lead to a lack of respect from others, don't insult people with different opinions and most importantly: be gay. Or at least don't use "gay" as an insult, that'll do for now.

@meredithnavin1358

2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like Twitter.

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

@@creativedesignation7880 I reckon that's a really good attempt at figuring out what's going on there psychologically! It's like the people who say that a male feminist must be gay... because he likes women?? 🙈 I think it's particularly telling in terms of highlighting the ingrained misogyny in our society, and also how closely that problem is often intertwined with other prejudices such as homophobia, transphobia etc?

To those confused at the start, it is legally required for Brits to mention the weather at least every 10 minutes.

@tinkeramma

2 жыл бұрын

This is 9:25. We almost got it twice!

The translation screenshot is from Duolingo and based on my experience (at least in the Welsh course), that could very well be intentionally gay (or intentionally bi in this example). In the “families” module in the Welsh course, Duolingo includes couples of a variety of combinations of genders (much to the dismay of the homophobes in the comments section and to the delight of the rest of us).

@diannt9583

2 жыл бұрын

I took a hiatus from learning Welsh. I think I need to return to Duolingo and get going again!!

@lahlybird895

2 жыл бұрын

In the stories on the Spanish course they've actually a gay characters it's freaking great I was not expecting that and it was a very pleasant surprise

@RainWelsh

2 жыл бұрын

Welsh learners! If you’re actually Welsh: hello, always nice to meet more of us out and about on t’internet. If you’re not Welsh: genuinely, thank you for taking an interest and helping keep the language alive. I really wish they put more effort into teaching us Welsh when we’re in primary school, you know, when language acquisition is so much easier. Not give us token “count to ten!” learning when we’ve actually got a chance at picking it up, and then dump actual lessons on us at 11/12 when learning languages is harder AND we’re into the constant stress pipeline that is secondary school. I think it’s pretty telling that I know all the colours, animals, days, and months in Welsh, but can’t actually construct a sentence. I’ve been looking to learn, actually, is Duolingo worth giving a go?

@draig2614

2 жыл бұрын

@@RainWelsh diolch! I’m not Welsh, but with my last name (Jones) I definitely have Welsh ancestors (though they are pretty distant in the family tree). I started learning during the pandemic and am enjoying Duolingo. It turns learning a language into a game which works for me, plus it is free. They start right in with sentences alongside vocabulary - there are tutorials you can access, or you can puzzle out the grammar on your own (this is what I tend to do, with my learning style). The one downside is that I’m not actually speaking it with the app, but my listening, reading, and writing is improving month by month, working at it 10 minutes a day.

@FiddlebirdBlue

2 жыл бұрын

@@lahlybird895 German, too. When I first noticed it, I cackled imagining homophobes trying to figure out how to switch that off before having to either quit or submit themselves to The Gay Agenda

The pink kryptonite thing was a throwaway gag in an issue from around 20 years ago. It featured a (then) modern character stuck in a silver age comic. Lois was confused why Superman was paying more attention to Jimmy after being exposed to pink kryptonite and the modern character was having a hard time trying not to laugh.

@matureenough34

2 жыл бұрын

You know what isn’t a gag? Folks that wear XXL condoms. My friend uses Magnum XL condoms, which have a base width of 2.3” (5.842 cm) and length of 7.1-7.9” (18.034-20.066 cm). It’s the best we’ve-I mean he’s found to fit him, even though it’s still tight on him. When he goes to Japan next year the only available condoms his size are the MEGA BIG BOY EXTRA LARGE XXL, with a 2.2” (5.558 cm) base width and length of 8.25” (20.955 cm), and they’ll probably be too tight for him. He’s just a big guy in general, 6’4 (195.072 cm). Edit: spelling

@ElleS572

2 жыл бұрын

@@matureenough34 is it a thing to get a penis reduction like breast reductions? 🤔

@annakahlisch3842

2 жыл бұрын

I think they changed it to altering sex, a least in one of the shows

@PanthereaLeonis

2 жыл бұрын

@@ElleS572 I think maybe the penis is a bit too complex in its structure to comfortably and safely augment or reduce. The breast is made of several glands and fatty tissue, easy enough to cut some of it out, or stuff some more in if you know what you're doing, but the penis is more complex. It's probably doable, and I know that trans people get surgery done on their bits sometimes, but I don't know how easy it is to just... change your penis size.

@amandak.5967

2 жыл бұрын

@@annakahlisch3842 Yeah! They changed it in the more recent "Justice League Action" cartoon. In that, pink kryptonite turns him into a woman. It's still not that great progressively speaking.... but he does look great as a buff woman :)

A note on the pedestrian lights: I visited London a while ago when these lights were up (I’m American). My friend who was studying abroad there had to explain the lights to me while I was waiting at an intersection. I mean, I support the message and everything, but I’m trying to remember to look the correct way before crossing and adapting to a whole new set of traffic laws. When the light switches on and tells me gay is okay I’m like “yes, you’re right, but what am I supposed to do now re this crossing?”

Now the question is, would pink kryptonite make someone who’s already gay gayer? 🤔 I need to know for…educational purposes.

@komaedakat1583

2 жыл бұрын

yes

@breakfaith3031

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe it makes them so gay it circles around to them being straight

@dakotadrake5877

2 жыл бұрын

it makes you crave even bigger PPs!

@TheRealMiniIsHere

2 жыл бұрын

It probably makes you that one "straight" person who keeps saying stuff outing themselves as gay 24:7 thinking no one has no clue theyre gay but everyone knows and still loves them. lol

@fionafiona1146

2 жыл бұрын

Could that Bi Sohn of his be immune though? Clark Kent has many secrets

i swear this comment section is too wholesome i look over and it is just all your valid and special and just i can’t handle this much wholesomeness

@Schooldesk04

2 жыл бұрын

we gon kill em with wholesomeness son-

@llamathedrama1454

2 жыл бұрын

You have a really cool username!

@typicalmango5323

2 жыл бұрын

@@llamathedrama1454 thanks!

@gl1tchspectre_

2 жыл бұрын

I know right? The wholesome levels are super high.

I just came out!! I'm transgender (im a boy) EDIT: people are so kind omgg

@wilmorann

2 жыл бұрын

Well done dude!!!how did it go?

@dr.funnybones

2 жыл бұрын

that's awesome bro

@tiddlesletoitoise

2 жыл бұрын

Yayyyy I'm so happy for you did it go ok

@alicebthegachaweirdo8378

2 жыл бұрын

That’s amazing dude

@Legolas.Greenleaf

2 жыл бұрын

I was so surprised cuz i was sure my dad is transphobic but he exapts me too and im so happy!!!

I speak Japanese, and the first one: "My girlfriend's brother is surprisingly hot", the word used for "hot" （色っぽい - pronounced "iroppoi") actually means "sexy". "Hot" as in temperature is a different word (熱い - pronounced "atsui").

@kariissmol9172

2 жыл бұрын

Wouldn't エロイ also fit? I'm still learning.

A lot of straight dudes where I live wear purses, paint their nails, shave their legs. When the "metrosexual" thing was going on, the guys here jumped on it hard, as many of them love the overly groomed look, and still do. Despite this, homophobia is still a thing here, and even worse, much worse, is the transphobia.

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

I'm curious - is it the guys who jump on the trends who are also maintaining the homophobic & transphobic attitudes? Or is it more the people around them, who see those fashion preferences as a validation of their own prejudices?

@normalhuman9878

2 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend started painting his nails in protest for our gay friend that got grounded by his homophobic parents for painting his nails And that’s how my boyfriend found out he likes painting his nails

@jelatinosa

2 жыл бұрын

@@anna_in_aotearoa3166 No, not really. It's not about the way they present themselves or dress, it's about misogynistic and religiously brainwashed views of people, so it can be anyone. We have somewhat of a religious and conservative culture, so it's seen as a sin to actually be gay and it's seen as an affront to god and nature to be trans. Luckily, the younger generations seem to be getting away from that way of thinking, though we have a ways to go. Look at bad bunny, he wears skirts and paints his nails, and wears heals even. He was raised in our puertorican culture. It's seen as a challenge to our gender norms, but also, it's just seen as fashion by most younger people and not necessarily tied to his sexuality.

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

@@jelatinosa Thanks for replying Elines! That attitude of the young people in seeing such extremely non-traditional fashion choices as just being a personal preference (rather than as a prescribed indicator of sexuality or gender) sounds pretty amazing. How I hope & wish that we may all get to that point one day! 🙏 It would mean so much freedom for everyone to just express themselves and be free from petty judgements...

i was doing my homework in the hallway and my teacher was judging my wrighting and he was like 'you cant wright straight,' and i was like *dont make joke dont make joke dont make joke* and he was like 'you and your sister both.. just cant be straight' and i was like 'you can say that again'

@samanthahello

2 жыл бұрын

Omg!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@godessofthedogs3551

2 жыл бұрын

That teacher seems awesome!!🏳️‍🌈🙂

@jamie-yt7iw

2 жыл бұрын

@@godessofthedogs3551 yes lol he's great but had no idea what he was saying

@godessofthedogs3551

2 жыл бұрын

@@jamie-yt7iw eh sometimes that's ok!

@da359

2 жыл бұрын

Just like my dad needed my help taping a room for paint, and he was like; "It needs to be perfectly straight" like *don't say it don't say it*

Jammidoger: "Is it telling me to walk, or telling me to be gay?" Bisexual community: Both. Always both!

hi I just wanted to say you've been a great help in finding my identity and now I have a girlfriend that supports me for who I am. thank you for being the amazing you!😊

@cojec

2 жыл бұрын

Aw, that's so sweet! Congratulations on getting a girlfriend!

@theirlmess

2 жыл бұрын

Awwhh- Congrats on finding yourself, and getting someone to love and support you :DD

@Clockwork-Rat

2 жыл бұрын

I just have to say that your picture and name paired with this wholesomness is amazing

@Keelsman

2 жыл бұрын

Wholesome as FUCK

@captainblacksand8484

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤

"Long cox hurts" probably knew exactly what they were doing. It's been a running joke around here for a little bit. Long and Cox in particular really leaned into it. For bonus points, there is also a "long Greene Johnson" pic from a practice.

Men taking care of themselves is NOT feminine. Everyone has the right to maintain their appearance and bodily health without judgement from others about how they do it or the fact that they even do it in the first place. Let people be. That's so frustrating. Someone else looking after their own body in whatever ways they choose doesn't affect you and has nothing to do with you. Focus on yourself and leave other innocent people alone.

@lahlybird895

2 жыл бұрын

Some one should tell my mom

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

This is more than just a surface appearances problem too, unfortunately! 😕 I don't know about other countries, but here we've been dealing with multiple generations of guys who were bullied and socially-programmed to think that it was unmanly to try to stay safe at work (literally "sissy" to even use basic protective equipment) and positively gay to care about your medical health... As a result, a lot of guys died young or were permanently damaged in workplace accidents, and a lot more have passed away in later life due to things which would have been treatable if caught in time. (Heart attacks, high blood-pressure strokes, metastasised cancers etc). I really hope that the gradual relaxation of those kinds of hyper-tense attitudes about gender differentiation may help reduce these kinds of unnecessary tragedies in future...? 😔

When Jamie said "thank you cats, we appreciate what you are doing in the world", my cat lay down on my foot. She then proceeded to place a paw on my butt and then try to eat my fairy lights 🤣

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

😂 Are you appreciating her chaotic contribution to the world??

@kiarona.

2 жыл бұрын

@@anna_in_aotearoa3166 some days I appreciate it more than others!

In high school, I painted my boyfriend’s nails with CLEAR nail polish just for fun. His dad was livid. 🙄

Fun fact: there’s an episode of the looney tunes show where daffy asks bugs, who rejects him on a date, he then goes on to ask porky who says “I’d love to”

Random story I want to share: My grandpa once leaned over to my grandma and said something with the word “gay”, so I asked him to repeat what he said since I didn’t hear him. He tried to laugh it off, saying that it wasn’t “politically correct”, but I kept asking him. Eventually he pointed over to a group of men and said that they “looked gay.” I asked what gay looked like. He responded “…like, you know, happy and kind and stuff.” I then turned to my dad and said “dad, being kind is gay,” and my grandpa tried to pretend he was using the other definition of gay, which is literally just happy. Nice try grandpa, your very lesbian, nonbinary grandchild is not letting your homophophic bullshit slide today.

@glitterspray

2 жыл бұрын

Way to call it out!

Hey Jamie! I have recently come to terms that I am trans, but, ofc now I am questioning my sexuality. There's always something...

@toothfairy10133

2 жыл бұрын

first, name twins (i go by Jay irl) second, same honestly. i know my sexuality and my gender but wtf is my romantic orientation??

@kazikek2674

2 жыл бұрын

You'll get there eventually!

@ameliasellers6396

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck on finding yourself.

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

@Jay Yep, there's always something!! 😆 Seriously though, I hope you'll feel comfortable with staying in a place of uncertainty if you need to, or taking time to explore? Humans seem to have a strong psychological need to categorize everything around us, but I do think it should also be okay to live in the gray areas, &/or to not know the answers to everything straight away...

Remember, you got through everything you thought you weren’t strong enough for and this time will be no different.

@neilcognito

2 жыл бұрын

I love this, but also... who told you I survive them? How do you know I'm not just a walking bag of flesh with no bones or matter? How do you know I'm not a frog in a human flesh suit, cursed by a witch... or a ghost, with nothing but gelatin coating my inside while you perceive me as flesh, but I'm a poltergeist? uh prickly... uhhhh???? 🤔🤨

@yanibanani2341

2 жыл бұрын

I really needed this today

@theirlmess

2 жыл бұрын

Prickly cactus!! I swear I remember seeing you comment on one of these KZreadrs videos every time they uploaded..It was..Joinen? I think- Well, I haven't seen you since.. 7months now- Happy to know you''re still spreading good, and supportive vibes. Congrats on 1ksubs aswell :DD

@grumpyoldman3458

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks

@silverschmid4591

2 жыл бұрын

..hopefully this time without lasting psycological damage.

The picture of the cat on the go away mat is the exact representation of an enemies to lovers fanfic we need to see.

After one condom mishap taught me appendages need bones in them if you want condoms to not be painful if you stretch them furhter than intended, I learned that XXL condoms generally are not (much) longer than normal: it's the diameter that changes. And the diameter varies anyway, from brand to brand and model to model. I only know German brands, but for those wondering what my very informal market research has taught me: Durex is generally roomy. Billy Boy is very snug. Chaps is inbetween. Ritex has a range of sizes and you have to check the small print to see what size you're getting. Their XXL size has the same dimensions as their eco-friendly range, with the eco-friendly range having the most discreet packaging I've ever seen condoms sold in.

@jokl89

2 жыл бұрын

Condoms mostly tell the size (diameter in millimetres) in very very small print somewhere on the package. There are actual penis rulers to find out what size you need 😅 it makes condom use much safer (less breakage) and more comfortable when people know what size to get.

@wareforcoin5780

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I'm a woman, but I cannot stand how much people (mostly women, and people that don't use them) don't understand about them. Just because they can stretch over your arm doesn't mean they'll actually _fit_ right. It's a sensitive area, you need the right size for a good experience. You can pull a dress over your tits 99% of the time too, doesn't mean it actually fits.

@cravenlunatic1

2 жыл бұрын

i'm so glad somebody commented about this. i'm sure there are some people who want to "exaggerate" their size by buying XXL condoms, but those sizes exist for a reason. wearing the correct size is an important part of making sure you're properly protected.

@matureenough34

2 жыл бұрын

@@cravenlunatic1 Did some maths. My friend uses Magnum XL condoms, which have a base width of 2.3” (5.842 cm) and length of 7.1-7.9” (18.034-20.066 cm). It’s the best we’ve-I mean he’s found to fit him, even though it’s still tight on him. When he goes to Japan next year the only available condoms his size are the MEGA BIG BOY EXTRA LARGE XXL, with a 2.2” (5.558 cm) base width and length of 8.25” (20.955 cm), and they’ll probably be too tight for him. He’s just a big guy in general, 6’4 (195.072 cm).

@kyokazuto

2 жыл бұрын

@@matureenough34 I'd like to have a _friend_ with that size too. No particular reason tho.

5:33 me: "good day"! jamie: "go away" me: 👁👄👁

@ProulxS

2 жыл бұрын

I had assume Go away too. But with the space I think you are right... Oups

@diannt9583

2 жыл бұрын

Go Away is a saying on a lot of door mats. Thought about getting one myself, but I've satisfied myself with one of a black cat whose tail spells out "Welcome". Post COVID, I no longer want people to go away....

@ideoscopies

Жыл бұрын

Thanks, I was wondering if I was the only one reading Good day through the cat :) (if in 9 months you have forgotten what I'm talking about, just look once more at the whole video, you'll thank me later 😁)

The expression on that cat's face... they know exactly what they're doing 😏

I saw about two of those traffic lights in Munich, they had like these little traffic light people, and it was two women holding hands with a small heart cutout on the upper left and two men Golding hands and walking together for walking. I found it really sweet and cool.

"The world of heterosexuals is a sick and boring life" - Aunt Ida

5:31 Moral of the Story: There’s no ‘I’ in ‘Team’ but there’s ‘Gay’ in ‘Go Away’.

Jamie I came across your channel the other day and I think your great! I sure could have use someone like you when I came out. I'm a trans guy and change my sex 41 yrs ago when I was 21 and now I'm 61 yrs old and boy have things changed. Keep up the good work.

@intercat4907

2 жыл бұрын

Only guy I've met senior to me - and I'm 2 years older. It was a rough 2 years ... cheers.

There is a comic of a pair of chopsticks being asked be a spoon and a fork, “Which one of you is the fork?” So, funny.

I get the feeling, from Jessica Kellgren-Fozard's recent videos about her baby, that English children use "wee" or "wee-wee" to refer to urine... In the US, I think "pee" (said by all ages) and "pee-pee" (usually said by/to children) are more common than "wee/wee-wee." And yes, young children can also use "pee-pee" for penis (context: I have to pee/pee-pee vs. my pee-pee hurts), but when I first saw the meme with PP, I thought of urine, not penises. It might vary by what region you grew up in, but do any other US Americans here have the same experience? Love, from your friendly neighborhood linguist. That graduate sociolinguistics class sure comes in handy.

@scilines

2 жыл бұрын

I’m from mid-Atlantic US and would also associate “pp” with urination. 😂 Pee pee or wee wee Ive heard used only in relation to teaching small children about body parts.

@lahlybird895

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, that's always the first place in my mind goes anyway

well, if I've measured correctly, I (theoretically) qualify for the xxl protection, but in my experience xl works fine (the normal ones hurt though, cause they are too tight) The only problem is: I'm a trans girl... and it's very difficult to hide when wearing skirts and dresses (can't wear the tight ones here too xox)

@shotosgrandma5937

2 жыл бұрын

hahahaha! I thought this was a flex at the beginning! loved were the story went!

@Avistew

2 жыл бұрын

YMMV but it can definitely be unconfortably to painfully tight so yeah, might as well get the smallest size that's comfortable, even though it's more expensive, unless you're into that kind of pain I guess?

@19Fenja89

2 жыл бұрын

Brei Kopf I heard that taking estrogen makes it shrink a little. Maybe enough so it's easier to hide when wearing skirts and dresses.

@Ikajo

2 жыл бұрын

The solution is frilly skirts. They will hide anything while not being tight.

@John_Weiss

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that nature had played such a cruel joke on you! I hope you're able to get that remedies soon! In the meantime, have you considered consulting "Your Friendly Neighborhood Drag-Queen" about how to "tuck"comfortably? That would, at least, allow you to wear _some_ of the dresses & skirts you can't get away with now…

3:30 pink kryptonite turning superman gay is unfortunately neither fake nor particularly old. That comic came out in 2003. Complete with lots of harmful gay stereotypes.

I was once the woman running round a supermarket trying to find the XL condoms because I forgot the box at home. I had to ask. Cashier: "Sounds like you're in for a good night." Me: "Not if I can't find them!" Luckily boyfriend had his own. XD

With that one about the grandfather, that really hits me. My father is very anti-LGBTQ+, but is super tech illiterate, so doesn't use any social media. I barely see him and haven't lived with him since I was 14, but in 2020 I started coming out as trans and changed my name on social media platforms and everything. Initially my new facebook photo was me wearing what I thought was a nice wig at the time (it was nice, tbh). My father's father (my grandfather) isn't as tech illiterate as my father, he's about average for his age, but he does have Facebook and uses it just to keep in touch with family members. About a month after changing my Facebook name and profile picture, I was talking to my sister, who lives with my father when not in her uni accomodation. She said that my father was talking to my grandfather on the phone when he asked if he could speak to my sister. What he said on the phone was that he was proud of me and it looks like I'm happy in the new profile picture, so to tell me to keep doing what makes me happy. Then he asked her if my father knows, and when told that he doesn't, his response was just to say to keep it from him because he's not a very nice person and won't respond well. It really surprised me when I found out.

@tinkeramma

2 жыл бұрын

Your grandpa is the ally we didn't know we had but always love!

@toast99bubbles

2 жыл бұрын

@@tinkeramma Grandparents are often more accepting than direct parents.

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

@@toast99bubbles That always seems so weird to me! Like, didn't their parents raise them? Where did they get these prejudices, if not from their family? 🤔 However, it does seem as if the broad attitudes of each generation are often a strong backlash against those of the generation before, so perhaps people like the dad in OP's story have been more influenced by their peers (& popular media in their teen years) than by their parents' approach to things...? 🤷🏻‍♀️ Either way, we love a supportive grandparent!! 🥰

@toast99bubbles

2 жыл бұрын

@@anna_in_aotearoa3166 With my father, apparently he spent some years in care, due to the poor mental health of my grandmother when he was a child (he was the youngest of 4). I only recently learned from my grandfather that my father was a very problematic child, something my father had never mentioned in his life, always talking as if he was the most perfect person to have ever lived.

Does anybody else just love the intro “hey spuds” I don’t know what it is, it’s just beautiful 😂

The pink kryptonite thing is incredibly real and happened in 2003!

@matureenough34

2 жыл бұрын

People who use xxl condoms are also real. My friend uses Magnum XL condoms, which have a base width of 2.3” (5.842 cm) and length of 7.1-7.9” (18.034-20.066 cm). It’s the best we’ve-I mean he’s found to fit him, even though it’s still tight on him. When he goes to Japan next year the only available condoms his size are the MEGA BIG BOY EXTRA LARGE XXL, with a 2.2” (5.558 cm) base width and length of 8.25” (20.955 cm), and they’ll probably be too tight for him. He’s just a big guy in general, his height is 6’4 (195.072 cm). Edit: spelling

@EVERYTHING-pq3do

2 жыл бұрын

@@matureenough34 I dunno but your comment is just..I- IF THEY ARE YOUR 'FRIEND',WHY DO _YOU_ KNOW THAT??Ya'all talk about it?**nudge nudge**

@matureenough34

2 жыл бұрын

@@EVERYTHING-pq3do *daydreaming* he felt so good🤤 Sorry, what was the question?

@EVERYTHING-pq3do

2 жыл бұрын

@@matureenough34 I- by your comments I am confused if your 'friend' is the bottom or the top (I meant in class ya know)

@Lefty_loosey

2 жыл бұрын

“2003 WILL AND GRACE WAS ON THE AIR” Brennan Lee mulligan ~ 2020

Unfortunately, pink kryptonite is a thing that happened, it made Clark Kent seemingly attracted to Jimmy Olsen, and it's from 2003... so not that old. It's at least not considered a part of the canon DC time-line, but ya' know, that doesn't really make it better :/

@elecrom_9757

2 жыл бұрын

I googled it and apparently it was supposed to be a satire about all the colored kryptonite variations that popped up during Silver Age

I live in uk too, and it's been nice and warm then suddenlythis morning its FREEZINGGGG i could see my breath

0:18 🎶All things homosexual, all the gayest memes, here comes Jamie with some more to brighten up our screens🎶

@intercat4907

2 жыл бұрын

Perfect. I tried but failed. Thanks for fixing it.

2:08 For anyone who forgot Jamie was a bi man

It's a common misconception that because condoms are so stretchy they can't be too small but that's wrong finding the right size condom is very important since it shouldn't be to large but also definitely not too small either because they break more easily and can hurt/cause harm. But if a guy tells you he's just too big for condoms in general he is obviously lying but the specific condom you might have on hand could be too small and in that case just don't have sex. Seeing people use the logic "condom stretchy so it must fit" is really annoying and harmfull. Anyways stay save Folks and there are plenty tools online to figure out what size is best for you.

@justnerdyme

2 жыл бұрын

Omg thank you I was looking for this comment. Sexplanations has a good video about this

4:02 Nice to see so many straight allies on SuddenlyGay.

6:30 My 3 year old cousin loves having his nails painted and he asks for a new color every week! Its so cute, rn he purple glitter nails!

Funny thing, the meme at 5:25 has actually been sent to my flute chat (groupchat between the flutes in my band) and we were all like yeah accurate

@savannahbedard3598

Жыл бұрын

​@@coliesilo4647yeah we all know that, but we like the other interpretation better

the title made me think of the time that I thought I was strictly neptunic (only attracted to women and non-binary people) and then I started finding men attractive again and I was so confused(I’m pan lol) also I had a teacher named Mr. Cox :)

The one from the "Top" Vatican official......I really, REALLY, need to remember to put down whatever I'm drinking when I watch Jammies videos! 😂

I voted in that suddenly gay poll that asked everyone's orientation and was shocked most people were straight. Which makes sense why one of my pro gay comments got downvoted to oblivion once. For Context: It was a post about this twitter girl saying all the girls in the world have a crush on the president of Ukraine. I made a comment saying how I hate that it was exclusive and not saying men and women all have a crush on the president of Ukraine. Like it's not hard to be inclusive, you know? Gay/bi people exist. Also, about the Friends picture at the end. Apparently they were going to make Chandler gay, but because the actor is straight, they didn't. Matt Baume did a very educational video on it.

6:23 all of us tilting our heads 😂

Jamie is my pink kryptonite! Like, I’m trans and non-binary, all my love is queer and gay.

“Which one is the girl and which one is the other girl?” I read that in a ContraPoints voice

Fun fact: they changed the traffic lights in Maryborough, Queensland, Australia to the silhouette of Mary Poppins because P. L. Travers (who wrote the book) was born there

nearly died (huge exaggeration) of a caffeine overdose (whoops) and was incredibly jittery and nauseous when I first clicked on this video, but by the end of it I’m feeling mostly better! Thanks Jamie, you saved the day with r/suddenlygay

hey jamie! i’ve been with you since summer 2020 and you helped my greatly in discovering my identity and staying positive throughout so i just wanna thank you :))

Just a reminder Trans fems, you look pretty and I hope you have a good day Trans mascs, you look handsome and I hope you have a good day People outside the binary, you look positively perplexing and I hope you have a good day Xenogender people and non dysphoric trans people, your gender is valid and I hope you have a good day Allys, I can’t tell you how much the little things mean and I hope you have a good day (If this made your day please let me know it means a lot)

@lilypaxton6240

2 жыл бұрын

This made me happy, ty 💗 😊

@spaceboxpilot

2 жыл бұрын

as a transmasc, thank you, no one’s told me that in a while :)

@linneathesystemsdruid308

2 жыл бұрын

@@spaceboxpilot that’s rough dude, I’m sure you look really handsome. I’m sorry people don’t see it. I hope that people start to see you for who you are soon

I might ask my friend if they can try using they/him pronouns instead of she/her. First time asking anyone to use different pronouns as I dont normally care about it but I feel like it can be a hint and could make me feel a but more my self. Getting a short haircut soon too. Wish me luck 😁

@nxcrorat

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck! I'm sure you'll rock that haircut!!

@zer0rebel4

2 жыл бұрын

Good luck

@bunnykatzen

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you get the desired results fam! Some people can be a bit slow on what a pronoun change can mean but take everything in stride as best you can and things will eventually sort out 💜

@Holls4

2 жыл бұрын

@@bunnykatzen yeah well imma tell them because they use they/them pronouns so they should understand. Thanks for the positive vibes 😊

@Holls4

2 жыл бұрын

Little update, I told my friend i might be trans and they took it really well! I still havent said about the pronouns yet but I'm still figuring it out myself.

My thoughts at 5:32: Oh look the doormat probably says 'good day' and the cat made it gay, how sweet 🥰 Jamie: "I'm assuming it says go away" Nevermind 😆

This man I swear makes my day million times better! (Happy Mother’s Day!!)

@Conorator

2 жыл бұрын

mother's day is over a month away what are you talking about

@n0vabun_

2 жыл бұрын

@@Conorator Ok I live in England and today is March 27 aka Mother’s Day and I know it’s different In America I think

@Conorator

2 жыл бұрын

@@n0vabun_ why can't holidays just be the same all around the world, the only google results I got for mother's day said may 8th

@n0vabun_

2 жыл бұрын

@@Conorator to be honest I have no clue it’s so confusing though

@neznamkakvoimedastavim2489

2 жыл бұрын

Isn't mother's day 8th March? 27th March is begging of WW2 in Serbia (I know it started on 1st September, but we entered the war on 27th March 1941.)

The idea of Ross looking like he's leaning in for a kiss from Chandler is really funny to me. Ross, despite what he claims, is pretty homophobic in part due to toxic masculinity he learned from his dad and part because his ego was hurt when he lost his ex wife to another woman. Chandler had been assumed even by the writers of the show to be gay for a long time but he's every bit as straight as Joey. Of the 3 guys in the group, Ross is always the most bratty and insecure of his masculinity, going out of his way to flex his accomplishments and show off if he's even remotely threatened. I don't know what the exact message of the ad is supposed to be, but I'm imagining Ross lecturing the guys about something dumb and the ladies are looking at the audience like "Should we horrifically embarrass him? It would be so easy to do right now." And then they do. I mean, there is no way Ross would be able to beat Phoebe in a contest of strength. She grew up on the streets, she knows how to play dirty. And Monica is competitive as frick. There's a whole episode devoted to her beating him in sports. I'm choosing to think of this ad as "Moments before disaster" XD

@HobGungan

2 жыл бұрын

My problem with the ad is that it implies Ross could singlehandedly beat all three women simultaneously in tug-of-war when everyone knows he would have been yanked into the stratosphere (and not in the fun way).

6:16 as a (like pretty childish) joke and if I knew the guy in question well, I would just start to count loudly. I he wondered why I would claim to count the cattle that are esacped his open stable (but in luxemburgish that zipper is called "the trouser's stable", hence the origin of the joke) And thanks for keeping up your videos. Always fun to watch.

Can you please make a video about the "DONT'S SAY GAY- LAW" in Florida? 😭

Jamie's adorable laugh at 8'04'' was all I needed to be happy today :) :) :)

@pantalonesdemuerto7960

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, didn't realize he was that tall

I recognized the Eagles jerseys right away. There's not a doubt in my mind that they stood that way on purpose. That's just how Philly is

Usually when I hear about abysses staring back, it's about black cats, not butt holes.

Other people have said it, but yes, the pink kryptonite thing is real. Though nowadays, according to official lore, extended or intense exposure to it will eventually turn Superman into a woman (retconning an old comic from the 60s). Whether that's any less cringe than it turning him temporarily gay is an extremely debatable manner.

Jammi is so sweet! He always makes me happy for no reason-

So the pink kryptonite meme was so bizarre and the picture was too much for me to let go, I had to research it. Pink kryptonite is mentioned in one page of one DC comic, in the context of a different timeline, not necessarily canon. And it was just a Smallville local telling AU Supergirl that Superman was acting weird since being exposed to pink kryptonite, while in the foreground AU Superman makes a cheesey pass at a guy at the bar. The overt boner picture is a single piece of fan art by Brad Rader, drawn in 2009. It's called Pink Kryptonite.

There was a boy walking across the street the other day while I was picking up some of my friends, and he yelled "Hey do you like my nails???" and my friends were like "??? We can't see them???" I said "I see them and they look great on you!" (They were bright pink)

About the condom thing, even though a regular size condom might be able to fit over your arm, the band at the bottom is really right and uncomfortable and can cut off circulation. So yes, some people need XXL condoms in order to have safe sex

I believe the pink kryptonite is from 2008. There's also another strain of it that turns him into a woman. Both were very stereotypical and offensive from what I remember

I never understood people being teased for their interests (or lack thereof) based on gender norms/roles but at the same time I had massive anxiety about not conforming to them in junior high/high school and tried to cover it up out of ridiculous fears instead of celebrating myself for who I was regardless of what others thought. It’s ok to express yourself however you want to or care for yourself however you want to and you don’t have to be gay or whatever people claim to do it. Life’s to short to worry/care about frivolous things so I say be yourself and be happy expressing yourself whatever way works best for you!

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

Oof. Unfortunately there's a lot of pressure to conform to ALL the norms in high school, not just the gender-related ones!! 😵 I think the ability to see past all that and make choices for yourself is a huge part of becoming a functioning adult? But in my experience it can be really difficult doing that as a teen with a fairly limited life experience and constantly being forced to associate with the same people by school & family dependency? I grew up when the internet wasn't a thing yet, so I'm curious if the way it offers an exposure to such a much wider range of cultures, viewpoints etc helps with that problem of narrow experience? Or do current teens find they just get caught in yet another harmful echo chamber, due to how the algorithms work...? Or a mix of both...?

For anybody wondering: the pink kryptonite is in fact a real comic, it was made in 2003 and when Superman touched the kryptonite he lost all interest in Lois lane and became interested in men. It’s actually based in stereotypes and homophobia which is sad, but there is in fact kryptonite that turns Superman gay

“The cat definitely covered: Go Away” What about Good Day?

How can I convince my mom to let me get a binder. Her reasoning for not letting me get one is the possibility that I will be hurt

@barrylangille3523

2 жыл бұрын

Look, I'm an elderly man so ignore this if you want to, but even I know that a freakin' BRA can be harmful if it isn't sized properly. And even so, people insist that women wear bras. It's not a stretch to understand that a binder needs to be fitted properly as well, and the wearer hss to know when to remove it, etc. But it's not going to be a danger as long as you learn the safe way to wear it. I'm commenting because I hope you can eventually do what you want and be yourself. Hang in there!

@dabi332

2 жыл бұрын

@@barrylangille3523 thank you🙂

@anna_in_aotearoa3166

2 жыл бұрын

There definitely does seem to be the possibility of health issues around sizing and wearing, esp for young teens who're still growing...? It feels like perhaps the most effective approach might be to research as much as you can in that space, if you can find some reputable sources. That way you end up knowing what may be safest for yourself, and also have a much stronger standpoint from which you can advocate for your choices with your mama...?

"i'm hoping [pink kryptonite make superman gay] is either fake or super old..." *what if i told you...it is neither*

There's a great SATW comic about those feminine Vikings who washed themselves and brushed and braided their hair 😂

@SIC647

2 жыл бұрын

"and seduce even high-born English women with their wretched customs". I love that the letter with this has survived time. It is from one monk to another. Also: How gross was English men really?? Also: The reason for the dirty wildhaired barbarian Viking stereotype was that they weren't Christian, so "of course" they had to be presented as that, as opposites to Christians.

@16poetisa

2 жыл бұрын

@@SIC647 I thought the British were famously bath-phobic - something about how bathing too often or in cold water would make them sick? Then again, if I lived in a gross European city where the sewage system was *throw it out the window* I'd be sketchy of the water too.

@SIC647

2 жыл бұрын

@@16poetisa Yes and in Scandinavia you had/have saunas, which effectively sterilises people (not in that way, in the germ way). So they had a much healthier way of staying clean.

@16poetisa

2 жыл бұрын

@@SIC647 Well, you're also not immersing yourself, which makes a difference, even for rolling in the snow 😂

I love all of them, I find myself bummed when your video ends because I want more giggles! Thank you and more please 😁

This is just what I need at 4am in the morning, thanks for the laugh 😆

I died when Jammie said "look at that booty." Lmao-

I just gotta say... My grandparents were the most accepting while also being the ones that didn't have a single negative reaction when I came out as lesbian at 14. I'll be 31 in May and over the last two years I've been on a journey to find and work on myself after a rather painful breakup (her and I were together for almost 6 years)... In the process of this journey I realized I'm not actually lesbian, I'm pansexual! I can say with absolute certainty that this is the happiest I've been in a very long time! Anyway, I just found your channel and the positivity and acceptance you and your partner share is wonderful and made me want to share part of my journey of healing and growth! Def been binge watching your videos tonight! Much love from Montana USA ❤️❤️❤️

"long Cox hurts" I can't 💀

Don't worry about it being cold Jammie, tomorrow's solar storm will warm things up a bit because we're all going to be INCINERATEDOHMYGODJESUSCHRIST!!! NB. We won't really.

As far as I'm aware the pink kryptonite thing was released in 2003 and it is real

9:00 It looks like they're saying that one man barefoot is stronger than three women in heels. Definitely the worst.

When my parents figured out I was a brony they thought I was gay. Took along time to learn Im asexual.

@organicstorm

2 жыл бұрын

You might want to revise your placement of spaces between words .. 😅 "a long" ≠ "along" and "a sexual" ≠ "asexual". Also, hi fellow ace 😆

@paitynnicolosi8907

2 жыл бұрын

@@organicstorm Can I join the party?

3:24 It's real. And it's from 2003.

Best way my friends and I tell each other when our flies are down: "dude, your fly looks depressed."

5:25 I've seen this meme with a caption, it said: when you realize tchaikovsky had a boyfriend (cause tchaikovsky was gay) Thanks for coming to my ted talk.

Nothing's better then seeing Jamie upload once again. We love our king spreading more gayness to all us gays~ :)

The Vatican one killed me 🤣🤣🤣

In the original Friends Chandler was written as a gay character. When the show was put to pilot the character was changed to straight but everybody assumed he was gay. They tried to redeem themselves by making Chandler's father a drag queen and Ross' wife a lesbian. I'm not sure of the season the poster is from but it could have been from that.

I tell my friends/family “your front door is open” if their fly is down