It's not like they had to rush her to the hospital themselves. Labor takes forever and they could totally have gone after the ceremony. They chose to miss it, I wouldn't have given them a photo op either.

Im feelijg conflicted since it's a birth and its their grandson/grandaugther, but at the same time its so mean they got angry at OP for walking. One of them should have stayed and then take you to the hospital.

Definitely NTA one parent could have stayed. Get used to it as it's obvious that you are not a priority ever.

@studyanshul2051

13 күн бұрын

Tbh , she was in hospital giving birth(sister)

@Esther-lm6pm

13 күн бұрын

@@studyanshul2051 And?

@ssnation6401

11 күн бұрын

@@studyanshul2051umm and? One parent could had stay like they said

@studyanshul2051

10 күн бұрын

@@ssnation6401 would you honestly think , they will meet a chance to enjoy being a grandparent. It's a different feeling

@ssnation6401

10 күн бұрын

@@studyanshul2051 huh? First of all brith takes a long time and two probably only one of them was going to be allowed in the room so they’re not really missing anything but you know what they did miss? Their other CHILD graduating high school you acting like they couldn’t go to the hospital AFTER… one of them could had stayed period they literally left her there by herself the sister had her husband Op had nobody

*a lot *sister's *husband was *because

NTA. "But she was in labour" as if 18 hours wasn't an avarage time spent in labour, minimum in the case of first borns for sure. It's common knowleg for anyone who knows the most basics about childbirth, which btw, mom should. Also sounds like they left when she just went into labour, and (feel free to correct me on this, childbirth is not on my to do list, my knowleg is limited to basic sex ed and my mom's stories) doesn't it start out on the level of period pain? Some hospitals don't even let you in untill your contractions are like 5 minutes apart. At that point, she barely needed more suport than her SO, even he, only to calm her nerves. Also, from the fact that they both went back for OP, it sounds like that commenter was right and they weren't welcomed in the hospital, either by sister and brother in law, or, as a commenter pointed out, the staff. They abandoned OP for practicly no reason. Which, since they most likely did go trough the same process with their kids, they knew.

I feel like NAH everybody is justified to be upset, they will have to work through it, life happens.