After 16 years of marriage, my wife cheated and convinced everyone I'm the the bad guy. Now she's...

After 16 years of marriage, my wife cheated and convinced everyone I'm the the bad guy. Now she's hired a lawyer and wants a divorce, despite me trying to save our family.
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  • @thousandyardgavri2785
    @thousandyardgavri27855 ай бұрын

    I don't know what's more painful, op being such a doormat or the player in creative mode not landing at all..

  • @luhchirp

    @luhchirp

    5 ай бұрын

    Both

  • @noobyman333

    @noobyman333

    5 ай бұрын

    It is painful to see but you gotta remember on her state shes been slowly inching out of the marriage, this is a guy who was really devoted and in love with his wife for a decade and a half and suddenly was blindsided. Sometimes its just the shock value, even if he had been fixed there's a good chance he would've left after he had more time to digest and reflect on this. It's human nature that during loss we don't want that we desperately try to hold on to our sense of normalcy. Ultimately, different people have different fight or flight responses as it were, his was just an extreme fight to avoid the pain. Towards the end you can see he begins to finally unravel the fog he was stuck in as well, and recognizes that was was just a toxic PoS. That even after she came out way better, it was never enough for her.

  • @masterr3c0rd

    @masterr3c0rd

    5 ай бұрын

    Player's not in creative, it's like cinematic camera. Gives me a bit of motion sickness though

  • @thousandyardgavri2785

    @thousandyardgavri2785

    5 ай бұрын

    @@noobyman333 ok he's not a doormat in the end. But God what a pos that woman is...

  • @Baronstone

    @Baronstone

    5 ай бұрын

    I know right??? If you are going to pretend to be good at Minecraft parkour then at least put in some real effort!

  • @jakebrandon7632
    @jakebrandon76325 ай бұрын

    Therapist should have their license revoked. They’re not supposed to take sides or give their opinions on things.

  • @JoelXl-zc4rp
    @JoelXl-zc4rp5 ай бұрын

    Wife cheats, gaslights you, then literally goes back to the AP and has a baby with him while he's basically still married. How ridiculous...just leave cheaters, they never learn and they will realize sooner or later they had a good married life and threw it all away. They'll be crying on their death bed about it or when they're old and you get the last laugh.

  • @gggalttab1712
    @gggalttab17125 ай бұрын

    You can't fix a relationship with someone that have no respect for you and treat you like a doormat.

  • @janedoe5881

    @janedoe5881

    5 ай бұрын

    R U kidding? DO you not have ears? He IGNORED HER and make her do the bulk of the work. SHe;s better off without him. WHat a jackass, braying now that he's losing everything.

  • @Only1199

    @Only1199

    5 ай бұрын

    @@janedoe5881 R U kidding? DO you not have ears? She CHEATED ON HIM. SHSHe;s worse off without him. WHat a jackass, braying now that she's losing everything.

  • @kossettereaditte7552
    @kossettereaditte75525 ай бұрын

    10 mins in and this guy sounds like a doormat

  • @PedroCstify

    @PedroCstify

    5 ай бұрын

    I got it from the title 😂

  • @Khaghaan

    @Khaghaan

    5 ай бұрын

    Didn't even need to watch the video to see that

  • @ianmoritzplatapino3684

    @ianmoritzplatapino3684

    5 ай бұрын

    Not a doormat, a spineless simp charming white knight doormat those are the worst😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Alex_The_Barbearian

    @Alex_The_Barbearian

    5 ай бұрын

    ​@@KhaghaanI got an ad so I don't have to watch the video and the title and comments tells me everything I have to know about this whole thing.

  • @DarkEinherjar
    @DarkEinherjar5 ай бұрын

    Cheating = end of relationship. PERIOD.

  • @FF2K24
    @FF2K245 ай бұрын

    what a bad wife lmao

  • @jjnix9517
    @jjnix95175 ай бұрын

    Op is a fool, op shouldn't have tried to fix it since cheater won't change if you don't leave. This whole thing is op showing he's been manipulated into believing she's the victim.

  • @lapure2220
    @lapure22205 ай бұрын

    I'm glad I didn't waste my time with this story

  • @jordanwardle11
    @jordanwardle115 ай бұрын

    You have to tell your daughter the truth. Not all the details, but she needs to know

  • @jayblack854
    @jayblack8545 ай бұрын

    kind a stupid that u have evidence and u didnt go nuke. and the therapist taking side??? how about report her.

  • @anthonymeckley1063
    @anthonymeckley10635 ай бұрын

    Moral of all these Reddit stories just get the divorce and leave the spouse to the streets

  • @cavey001
    @cavey0015 ай бұрын

    OP was just too passive. He should have got ahold of his emotions and gathered more evidence.

  • @l-l-l-l-l-l-l

    @l-l-l-l-l-l-l

    5 ай бұрын

    OP is just another keyboard warrior who sounds brave in writing but a coward in real world. Wife clearly is bad and manipulative but OP is not a prize either.

  • @kiyajohnson4436
    @kiyajohnson44365 ай бұрын

    Report the therapist . They're choosing sides not the right one for the child. Good luck keep your kids safe keep that crazy woman Out

  • @MMC619
    @MMC6195 ай бұрын

    Bro how can you save a family when she already broken it I can’t understand why some people don’t have any self respect

  • @bakedandbeaded
    @bakedandbeadedАй бұрын

    Looool this guy is such a doormat. In the worse way possible. He’s pathetic, I see why the wife felt confident in cheating on him.

  • @Souchi-ito
    @Souchi-ito5 ай бұрын

    Looks like OP's wife was burned out

  • @SelflessHero
    @SelflessHero5 ай бұрын

    OP kinda sounds insane, though the cheating wife is still a cheater.

  • @Killahbee168
    @Killahbee1685 ай бұрын

    Prime example Why Stop tolerating disrespect just to keep somebody happy it's so obvious that she didn't even love this dude going on trips in bragging about dudes he should have been and gave her a reality check

  • @JammKhon
    @JammKhon2 ай бұрын

    It's the house duties, it's always the house duties to blame for things. lol

  • @ezonplays2260
    @ezonplays22605 ай бұрын

    This just a bunch of yapping without developments

  • @vlad-igor
    @vlad-igor5 ай бұрын

    Doormat😅 don't be a doormat, be formal & nice always but never be a doormat.

  • @jerric1228
    @jerric12285 ай бұрын

    Doormat stories are too painful to listen to. You’re doing it to yourself dude, you deserve what you get because you get more of what you tolerate. Some people need to experience more pain than others before the lesson sinks in, I hope for his sake that he learns it.

  • @joaop4585

    @joaop4585

    5 ай бұрын

    Exactly, i saw another comment about being blindsided and the shock trauma of it But one thing is being one-sided sh1ted by your ex. Another is being disrespected and treat it like its normal Guy was a doormat of top notch quality

  • @blahajkitern
    @blahajkitern5 ай бұрын

    HOG RIDAAAAAAAH

  • @hotshower695

    @hotshower695

    5 ай бұрын

    Hahaha what?

  • @hotshower695

    @hotshower695

    5 ай бұрын

    Hahaha what?

  • @mrpotato9851

    @mrpotato9851

    5 ай бұрын

    HOG RIDAAAAAAH

  • @theonefriendwhoisntorigina8964

    @theonefriendwhoisntorigina8964

    5 ай бұрын

    No joke was playing that game while watching this

  • @Eliegent
    @Eliegent5 ай бұрын

    they named there kid Aphrodite lmaooo

  • @Killahbee168
    @Killahbee1685 ай бұрын

    It is beyond me how people can ignore signs of a manipulative person let's be honest homegirl encouraged op wife to cheat then somehow to convince her to get rid of her conscience

  • @chrisj.1608
    @chrisj.16082 ай бұрын

    I'm only about halfway into the story this dude is a flipping doormat like good Lord like you're trying to search for a reason for what your wife did you ever think she did it because she wanted to like it doesn't sound like your wife even really wants to be with you anymore

  • @chessieray1465
    @chessieray14655 ай бұрын

    God, most of the people in this story are terrible. Hopefully OP, all the kids and Bill see better days.

  • @Homiloko2
    @Homiloko25 ай бұрын

    OP is a complete doormat. In the middle of the video he stats complaining about her, but I doubt he ever had the guts to say any of those things to her face. 2024 barely started and he's competing for the clown of the year awards.

  • @moxee33
    @moxee335 ай бұрын

    did she call her baby Apollo??

  • @f687sNFM
    @f687sNFM5 ай бұрын

    Ahh another simp story

  • @chatnuere
    @chatnuere5 ай бұрын

    anyone have the OP username ? i'm still hoping he finally grows some

  • @Alex_The_Barbearian

    @Alex_The_Barbearian

    5 ай бұрын

    I'm very doubtful, not fully but very doubtful.

  • @crowfather0249
    @crowfather02495 ай бұрын

    Yeah, I'm skipping this one. Just based on the title I can tell how it's probably gonna be.

  • @putent9623
    @putent96235 ай бұрын

    Nah see tho. I do house chores and my house us pretty big. If you told me all i had to do was house chores and someone would bring in money i wouldnt complain. Now if your telling me to do both (work and do house work) thats where we have a problem. Another thing is how men go to work, come home and are expected to do house chores. Now if its helping with kids, thats fair but house chores is odd. At that point she should also get some kind of job.

  • @colezy14
    @colezy145 ай бұрын

    I’m getting an odd vibe from this guy

  • @IAmTheResident
    @IAmTheResident5 ай бұрын

    i love you tho telltale

  • @FF2K24

    @FF2K24

    5 ай бұрын

    ur first to comment

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