Random but anyone else notice how Tamera did an AMAZING job with the intro? She delivered it very well.

@Dilenga23

5 жыл бұрын

Cakeandsum Rosesplease it’s because as a mom, mommy issues need to be taken seriously.

@takemypainaway9517

5 жыл бұрын

Christy Shongwe 😂 I’m so sorry but I’m not sure if you’re serious or not because I seen the episode when she said that.

@ruthieyoung3015

5 жыл бұрын

@@Christy_Shongwe Wow! I did not know that, thanks for sharing that information. No wonder she's so knowledgeable.

@takemypainaway9517

5 жыл бұрын

Christy Shongwe nvm sheesh

@rogers5622

5 жыл бұрын

Cakeandsum Rosesplease Tamera could def be a news anchor.

Having suffered 3 miscarriages the best thing to say is "I am so very sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do....I'm here". Don't say "everything happens for a reason", "now wasn't the right time", "it will happen one day".....comments like those do not help

@joannasaad298

5 жыл бұрын

Yes!! I've had 6 and stopped telling people after the first 2 because of the comments. Sorry for your losses hun 💜

@dominiquepowell-saidykhan2916

5 жыл бұрын

Kristi Jacobsen I swear that seems like what anyone ever wants to say... I even had a woman tell me I must’ve done something wrong because I went into labor early with my son at 5 months and he passed away 10 hours later. I understand religious beliefs and etc but science and decency also exist in this reality so I agree girl... I wish people thought through this better!

@frenchvanilla7109

5 жыл бұрын

💗

@frenchvanilla7109

5 жыл бұрын

@@joannasaad298 💗

@frenchvanilla7109

5 жыл бұрын

@@dominiquepowell-saidykhan2916 💗

Love what tamera said! Most people don’t know that miscarriages are usually a result of your body naturally getting rid of a pregnancy that wouldn’t have worked out otherwise. It’s not your fault. Your body simply looking out for you. That being said, don’t say that to a mother that just lost her child. I think the best thing you can do is to let them know that they are deserving of being a mother and that they deserve to have that healthy pregnancy and they deserve to have that child and that the time will come eventually. God bless ✌🏽

@deem132

5 жыл бұрын

LovelyVintageRose I’ll remember this 🙏🏾

@cookiemonster-ix2zc

5 жыл бұрын

Actually im going to classes for my childbirth.That being said... the instructor said the most crucial time for pregnancy is not when you find out you're pregnant. Its when that egg gets planted and starts to divide. Most women don't know there pregnant and do vigrous activity, not eating healthy, or not keeping track of their period. If your body is not getting the nutrition because at the time you don't know your pregnant. The body tends to reject the egg. That's why they ask when was your period because you are actually pregnant when that sperm enters that egg..for many women we find out 5 to 8 weeks later. At that time the baby needs nutrition at that time to develop.

@DelishaPowell

5 жыл бұрын

Dee M never heard that before. Very interesting.

@cookiemonster-ix2zc

5 жыл бұрын

@@DelishaPowell I never heard that before until childbirth classes 2-3 weeks ago.

@LydiaJairus

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly what my doctor said.

i like when tammy said that it doesn’t matter how far along u were, every woman feels the pain different. i lost my first pregnancy at 5weeks & years later i still mourn that baby.

@Simplelivingslowliving

5 жыл бұрын

😢 sorry for your loss.

@joycedominguez1731

5 жыл бұрын

Who's Tammy?

@lakarrla5945

5 жыл бұрын

@@joycedominguez1731 Tamera

@KayKayHoliday06

5 жыл бұрын

melissa bermentt I’m sorry for your loss. I had 2 babies and lost one early in and now that baby B is here I still wonder and mourn that loss. It’s never easy.

@AgingbtrthanspoiledMilk24

5 жыл бұрын

Who is Tammy? Is the basketball wives here?

I had a stillbirth at 37 weeks and 4 miscarriages. I got to a point where I didn’t tell anyone about my pregnancy because people who “meant well” were the most cruel and unkind with the things they would say. Unfortunately most of those people were family member who just didn’t know how to be supportive. I did go on to have 4 healthy pregnancies/children. Never got any real answers, not that it matters much now. Prayers and love to mommas who have lost a pregnancy at any stage. Prayers to all the couples TTC it will happen!

@veronikapoliakova7603

4 жыл бұрын

Such a strong person you are! Wow

@minariaz532

4 жыл бұрын

Ahh you brought tears to my eyes xxx

@tatamuasi5521

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my God!! I have tears reading you dear, because I lost mine at 23 weeks in July. Your story made me believe more in God of second chance. Thank YouI Much Love.

@ronbenjaminjrmusic

4 жыл бұрын

Congratulations. Praise God!!❤❤

@sandyandy4402

4 жыл бұрын

Just saw this. Bless you

Tamera commentary during this whole discussion was perfect. Thank you Tam!❤

@xxastutexx2098

4 жыл бұрын

and then it was cut-off because it's "time". ugggh! want more frm Tam!

@freshstart4423

2 жыл бұрын

Miscarriages is the result of something and you need to pray which circumstances apply to you. If you love the baby more than Jesus, He will take it away. He is a jealous God. Also, Jesus may be telling you to adopt an abandoned embryo from the local fertility clinic. Jesus is always teaching people something, to make you grow spiritually in some way. Ephesians 4:30

Which part of this did Adrienne talk about her journey to get pregnant?

@saly4762

5 жыл бұрын

Part two

@kieran9780

5 жыл бұрын

Part two

@dancersingerlover

5 жыл бұрын

joy and grace where can i find part 2?

@leggs4113

5 жыл бұрын

dancersingerlover kzread.info/dash/bejne/iH2c0K-boM7Kh5c.html

@lindsayleach4092

5 жыл бұрын

cola109 my thoughts exactly! She was quiet the whole time

I lost my son at 36 weeks in November. I am still grieving the loss. It's different for everyone, but it's important to be sensitive to people's feelings. I've heard the most hurtful things. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it all. Bless all the momma's out there who have lost a child, regardless of when and how.

@ctaylor1247

5 жыл бұрын

saly sulieman I’m so sorry that happened to you. 💜

@SunshineRox007

5 жыл бұрын

I lost my son at 35 weeks this past May and you are right, people can say hurtful things.

@Tammy87966

5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry...I lost mine at 6 weeks and its still hard. Can't imagine going that further along and lose it. Praying for your sticky baby

@Soph-ts9yb

7 ай бұрын

How are you now?

The worst part of my three miscarriages was seeing the pain in my husband. I knew my pain, I knew how broken I was but, seeing him so numb was absolutely devastating. I felt like it was all my fault, his pain was my problem and my bodies’ fault. It took time but, even in his pain he took such great care of me and told me it wasn’t my fault every day.

@freshstart4423

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes Jesus teaches people to be broken, and it hurts. Pray individually for yourself at home MATTHEW 6:6, and read the Bible every morning so you will know what Jesus is trying to tell you. Ephesians 4:30 Psalms 63, Psalms 55:17

As a woman who has suffered 10 miscarriages and an ectopic pregnancy myself...!! I can so sympathise with carrie. Its heart breaking. You question yourself. You blame yourself. All you can do is listen to the lady going through this traumatic event.. we appreciate it more than you know. I am very lucky to have 3 wonderful children which I'm ever so grateful to have in my life. Also well done Tamera your deliverd the introduction perfectly. Well done The Real for bringing a situation not much talked about to light. Ladies need to know they are not alone. X

Miscarriages are traumatic. I experienced two and I felt the same way. Shame and heartache. I also was scared to get excited for my other pregnancies until my children were born because it made me paranoid.

@freshstart4423

2 жыл бұрын

I had an Ectopic pregnancy and Jesus told me I was supposed to use Job 22:27 and tell the baby to move into my uterus. But I was in so much pain from the spasms and my pastors and my husband were all Jerks, totally useless. They didn't seek Jesus counsel for me. I didn't realize what Jesus was telling me until a year later.

I’m so emotional watching this I just had a miscarriage in late April Its been a tough couple months and it makes me feel a bit better watching this video. Thank you ladies for talking about this topic ♥️

@MoMorelife

5 жыл бұрын

S V -All the love❤️

@sv1061

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much♥️

@leeleealexander2326

5 жыл бұрын

💜💜💜

@tonyawithlovescott305

5 жыл бұрын

Sending love and baby dust to you 😘

@sv1061

5 жыл бұрын

Thank u ladies!♥️♥️♥️

When the title doesn’t match the content ....👀

@asdfghjkl-oo7lv

5 жыл бұрын

Click bait 👀

@morgandawn6413

5 жыл бұрын

There is a part two.

@laydeej2008

5 жыл бұрын

and they uploaded the same clip of her talking about it a few days ago. maybe you should click part 2 😐

@rowanali7745

5 жыл бұрын

PEOPLE WATCH PART 2 WHAT IS WRONG WIT YALL SMH

@xxsarah-wolfie_chanxx1582

5 жыл бұрын

I know it’s a part two but it should’ve been titled something else. Tamara and Loni gave good advice so it should’ve about that

"BUT" is THE ONLY thing Adrienne says in this video...who makes these titles?

@ja_dor58

5 жыл бұрын

Valentíno Quiñones lol

@joycedominguez1731

5 жыл бұрын

So sick of the misleading titles.

@williamsgang5968

5 жыл бұрын

Forreal. I was waiting

@Antoinettemayers

5 жыл бұрын

You have to watch part 2.

@missdiva6711

5 жыл бұрын

Lies to get you to watch

I lost my baby at 6 weeks. I was devastated. My heart goes out to all women who experience this loss.

Thank you for your comments Tam. I just had a baby two months ago and that was after 4 miscarriages back to back. I never made it out of the 1st trimester but it broke my heart every single time. Just be patient and aware of your own mental health. Its not easy to lose a baby and it is very easy to slip into a depression.

@andreafoxx7722

5 жыл бұрын

we women just happen and u have wait when time is right

@freshstart4423

2 жыл бұрын

Jesus is always dealing with you and teaching you something, pray to get revelation so it doesn't take so long. Ephesians 4:30

Thank you for making this segment. I’m 23 and have had 2 miscarriages this year. I miss my two babies every single day, but know we will meet again. Yesterday I found out I’m pregnant again, very excited and not allowing fear of the future to dull my joy.

When I went through my miscarriage. My family and friends didn’t even have to say anything they just embraced me with a hug. And I knew that was there way of letting me know they were there for me. Friends would come over and we’d watch our shows together. Family would come over and cook for my family because I was still healing from a d&c procedure.

Loving this dark hair on Jeannie 😍

@Kenyagirly

5 жыл бұрын

lol you always gotta mention jeannie when tamera gets attention

@sweetgirrljames

4 жыл бұрын

You're gorgeous 😍😍

And Adrienne is now a mom❤️❤️❤️❤️.

Tamera I love the way you gave intro. And thanks for the real this is really inspiring thanks Carrie Underwood to speak out about this . It will inspire every single living woman who doubt herself after miscarriage and get insecure about her body and doubt her potential weather she can ever have a baby or not.

Congratulations for your courage opening up, Loni. Speak it into existence, take on the journey with all its obstacles and walk out the other side healed ❤️

Tamera u did an excellent job in delivering that.. And then you Loni for ur input.. when I lost my son I had family members tell me to just not have anymore kids.., The Lord given, and the Lord taken away,.. That wasn't something I needed to hear in my moment of pain and devastation. I needed comfort with words.. I think ppl really need to choose wisely what they say especially if they've never gone thru that kind of pain.. That angered me to the core. I would never tell a grieving mother that.

I don't think they meant to click bait. I think they wanted us to see the full segment so we get the context as to why Adrienne shared her story! I am praying for A and Izz that they have a beautiful healthy and happy baby real soon!!

@melaniemoore2945

5 жыл бұрын

Melanie Blue Glam agreed. 💗

Two of my aunties both struggled and now both are mothers. One,gave birth after 17 years and she was considered wayyy too old yet that gorgeous girl is healthy and loved and growing up strong in the Lord. My other aunt adopted a little boy who is loved and cared for and family no matter what blood says. God is able. I don't know why some miscarriage and deaths of young children okay but I know that God doesn't leave you through it all, not once.

Thank you for talking about this ❤️

Miss Jeanie maiiii. Your hair is everything! The colour, the length, the entire overall look is amazing

Yesss Tam came with FACTS!

Im still waiting for adrienne to talk about her issues? Lmao y’all click bait too much

@joannasaad298

5 жыл бұрын

Part 2

@lovelyj7125

5 жыл бұрын

J Saadati where parttwo...?

@danaflamenco

5 жыл бұрын

@@joannasaad298 Yeah there's a part 2, but that part 2 should just be part 1 since this video has nothing to do with the title. They are just talking about miscarriages not Adrienne.

@connor2669

5 жыл бұрын

There’s a part 2

@tori4255

5 жыл бұрын

right! I'm like did I miss something because she didn't say anything in this video. Ole clicking baiting fools. lol

Loni hit the nail on the head... we just need people to listen and don’t be quick to say anything or give advice. Just hear us and our grief. Grief can be so isolating and lonely especially loss of a baby. So tell us that you’re in this struggle together, “we’ll get through this together” is so helpful and supportive to hear.

A woman's peak fertility are in her 20s and begin to decline significantly once she is in her 30s, especially after age 35. I applaud Carrie for sharing her story.

@leiarichardson65

4 жыл бұрын

All the females I know miscarried before she 30

@leiarichardson65

4 жыл бұрын

But yes it is said that a woman's most fertile years are in her 20s

@jacobTheeCreole

2 жыл бұрын

This isn’t necessarily true ! My grandmother had 18 children 4 sets of twins ! My mom was her last baby my grandma was 41 at that time

Don’t say, “It’ll happen for you”, because, sadly, it may not.

@evette8558

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

As some one who has lost a baby , this segment is necessary! Thank You! And I am happy Loni hit on "knowing what to say" to someone who has lost a child.

LOOL the actress in Tamera just comes out when she's reading quotes, I love you!!! looooool

@thembekajessy7091

5 жыл бұрын

lol i wanted 2 comment d same thing

Thank you for doing this episode infint loss awareness is real I had my still born son this year in April

UGGHHH! I ADOREEEE Carrie Underwood, you guys need to have her on your show. I am so happy she is having her second child, I was heartbroken when she said she had three miscarriages.

@BaybiRude

5 жыл бұрын

i never knew she got famous through American Idol!!!

I love you guys you truly have helped me and others get through so many painful situations

I love what Tamera said about our bodies and how it is not our fault. Loni I completely agree, be sensitive and listen to their frustrations. I've suffered a misscarige then the next pregnancy our son was still born. I understand people don't know what to say, but listening is a huge help when we need a vent. Xx

My first 2 pregnancies I lost in the early 1st trimester at 5w and change markers. The best thing to do for someone is let them know your there and listen. I've had people say that ,oh well your not a mom or why you still sad and so upset about it? Your only 5w and some change, your not really far along at all to be crying over this. That crap is cruel, and very hurtful. I lost both of my kids in the same year, aug & Nov 2013 . I still very much mourn the loss of my first 2 kids. A couple years later God has blessed me with my son in sep 2016 & my other son that will be here in a few days , oct 2018. Its a rough journey and it truly does help when talking about it. I truly thought that I wouldn't be able to have kids of my own, but I thank God for my little miracle babies ^_^ 💓💝💝💝😊👼👼😚

It's been 2months I lost my baby he was 3months still crying and so emotional it's doesn't matter how many weeks but he was mine we connected I wish I can see his real face I will always miss him😪💙💙💙💙

Watching this just reminded me of the scene in The Help. Never keep that kind of hurt to yourself, because you’re not doing anything wrong. And if you’re religious God has a plan and it’s just for us to listen and follow through. 💚 my heart goes out to all that have miscarried or can not conceive.

I had a journey to have my son, I’m signed in his account and didn’t realise oooops haha.... I went through 6 years of ivf treatment and our last chance/attempt worked and I had a beautiful, healthy 10lb baby boy Finlay and he’s now 5 ft and 10 years old just wanted to share and thankyou for your show xxxxxxxxx

I suffer from endometriosis and the more we talk to each other the more power we have within ourselves thru our community and with education. Amen.

I had one back in May it was the worst feeling in the world. I didn’t know how to feel when the doctor told me there was no heartbeat. I cried and cried I’m doing better now but even 5 or 6 months later I’m still affected by it. I’m So sorry for all woman who have had to go through this. It’s not easy but only time makes you start to feel better .

I have PCOS and endometriosis... I tried for almost 5 years to get pregnant.. Iv had 4 pregnancies and three were failed pregnancies.. One was twins... I now have my beautiful 4yr old miracle baby... I am so thankful i was able to get pregnant finally... Im trying to come to terms with the fact that she may very well be an only child... My dream since i was just s little kid was to be a momma.... Growing up when someone asked me what i want to do when i grow up and being a momma was my answer 100% of the time. I still have extreme guilt over my miscarriages... When i found out i have pcos and endometriosis it gave my heart a little peace to know there is an actual physical reason why i wasnt able to first get pregnant easily and for the pregnancy to stick... It still hurts.. My twins would have been one years old... I would have a tyr old, a 4yr old two 3yr olds and an almost year old baby... 💔

Dealing with infertility I hate hearing your time will come or it will happen to you. Those words hurt almost sting. BC no it may not happen. Its different for eveyone and I had to sit each of my friends and family members down and say hey don't say these things to me. They cause me pain. And they were so understanding. Now I get hugs or a shoulder to cry on. When a test comes back negative I have people to talk to but they dont say the things they used to BC they know how I feel. My friends go so far as to tell me they are prego before they post it on social media so that I'm prepared and don't just see it. Its so kind and thoughtful and I'm truly thankful to have friends who understand my feelings and help me.

Of course you wouldn’t be insensitive but You can’t assure someone who’s lost a baby that it will happen for them. You can’t say “it will happen for you” if you don’t know that. I would just listen to them and validate their feelings and be there for them. Also if they’re religious, I would support them by telling them to seek God and pray.

I had a miscarriage two days before Mother’s Day this year. It was rough I tried to act like it was whatever because I have two boys 1and 6 that need me to keep it together but it definitely hit me a couple months later after holding those feelings in and then hearing that a week later someone close to me told someone else they thought it was due to my weight...words matter and the whole situation changed me!

@andreafoxx7722

5 жыл бұрын

be thankful for your boys

@MccartyKarina

5 жыл бұрын

Andrea Foxx I am very thankful and very blessed.

I thank you soooooo much for talking about this subject... since I was you g I’ve always wanted a baby. 2 yes ago with the boyfriend at the time I got pregnant. A lot of emotions where going through my mind. Even the one of him not wanting the baby... 😓 Then I had a miscarriage... I was sooo devastated.. still to this day I cry.. because i never had that support or the ability to be able to mourn my loss... I keep it inside me... and not speak of it... because that is the norm... I wish us as woman would allow ourselves to speak about what happens to us.. no matter what. Much love to you ladies.. ❤️❤️❤️

@freshstart4423

2 жыл бұрын

Psalms 51 is a specific prayer to cleanse your heart from past hurt . Jesus gives us tools and He expects you to use them. Psalms 55:17, describes praying the Psalms three times a day for protection. Psalms 91, Psalms 121

I love how genuine Tamera is!

Tamera's dress is so beautiful!! Wish I knew where she got it

@enelmartodoesfelicidad

5 жыл бұрын

😖 i hate it

@joycedominguez1731

5 жыл бұрын

Kmart on the clearance rack. It's stated on facebook.

@accrualworld318

5 жыл бұрын

@@joycedominguez1731 As soon as I saw this comment I went searching their website but no luck. 😔

My sweet uncle and aunt have been married for about 12 years haven’t been able to have a baby 😓it’s sad to see because they would be the most amazing parents, they’re wanting to adopt but that’s been a long process for them thus far! They’re great dog parents until the time comes!!

As someone who recently experienced a miscarriage, it's really comforting to hear the words "it's not your fault" because for some reason, we blame ourselves so much when our body fails to give us a baby that we had come to love and were excited to meet.

My first daughter was a surprise baby that we are so unbelievably blessed with. ❤️ This year we started trying for a second child and I got pregnant right away. I was amazed! Unfortunately at the same appointment we found out that it was twins, we also found out I was miscarrying. Going through that was so unbelievably hard physically and emotionally. I also learned that 1 in 4 pregnancies end in miscarriage. That baffled me to know it happened that much! We are not alone! Hubby and I are still praying for a rainbow 🌈 baby but we feel even more thankful for our daughter now. (Not that we weren’t before) But going through that miscarriage made me realize just how hard it can be to have a baby and how lucky we are.

I had two in ten years, one of them in April this year. 15 days later I was pregnant again. My OB/GYN was shocked because she never seemed something like it I'm on my second trimester and I am growing a healthy child.

Didn’t know this about Carrie! So blessed she had a successful pregnancy that lead to her having a second child! 💕

I have suffer 3 miscarriage, and All I can say is I’m so sorry for your loss. I know where my babies are.

My husband and I have been trying for 8 months for a baby. And it’s hard hearing comments such as “maybe that’s not what God has planned for you”. Because your already frustrated and sad that it hasn’t happened and to have loved ones say that, and being serious at that really hurts. And it’s honestly the last thing you want to hear... My heart breaks for all women struggling to get pregnant or that have experienced the heart ache of a miscarriage

Tamera you explained it so well

I thank God that I've moved along my first baby loss. He or she is an angel now. I'm currently more than half way along my current pregnancy and it has helped me heal so much. I love her to death and I haven't even met her yet.

I’m Praying for you Adrienne ❤️

I agree with you. Sometimes losing the foetus can be a way for the body to prepare it's self for the other pregnancy.

I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks in may which I never thought in a million years that I would go through that seen having my son was a breeze, I was so broken and now it seen like trying again seen like it wont happen but i tell myself to be patient and it will come through.

i ABSOLUTELY agree with what Adrienne had said! she is so wise

I suffered 4 miscarriages and God blessed me with 3 handsome boys. Miscarriages is not something to wish for anyone.😭😭😭

I didn’t even get to hear my baby’s heartbeat I was only 6 weeks & it still hurts to think about it. It only happened a couple of months ago. So what Tamara said is very true it doesn’t matter how far along you are .. once you get that positive test you’re already attached at least I was

@jasminesimmons6710

4 жыл бұрын

Sending you so much love lost my baby last month too around 6 weeks! Painful . We still are mothers to an angel baby! You are right that bond is automatic once u receive that positive test

Great job Tam. Love you!

I’m loving Tamera’s new look😍

When I suffered a couple of miscarriages. I thought I'd dealt with it. During that time I didn't think that there was anything anyone could have done or said to make it better. When I see the memes that people put up, that's supposed to defines what a mother is that's like a slap in my face. Cause my babies, my loss they were real. A no amount of words will ever change that. On Mother's day, Christmas and a couple of other holidays make it hurt worse. There are times when I'm going to the doctor office and the nurse always says "so you have 4 children." Then I have to find the strengthen & voice to say " No, I mama, I don't have any kid. They were miscarriages", you know how much that hurts to say. It makes me want to just shrink in a corner or just disappear... You never truly get over a "Miscarriages" cause sometimes the slightest things that are said or done can cause you to go back to that moment. I guess it hurts me so much because I remember being in the ER when the doctor came in and told us we were pregnant, then immediately followed that up with but it may be in your tube. So we are going to have to watch your numbers to see how they progress. I remember just praying, begging & believing that things were going to be okay. Until I had to be rushed to the hospital for emergency surgery on one of my tubes. When I woke up all I could do was cry. The nurse walked up (I will never forget what she said) and said "are you crying because of the pain, or cause of your loss. I'm sure that you prefer your life or anything else. You're young you can still have kids with your good tube." How much do you think that helped? People are very dismissive of miscarriages, but it's not as easy to deal with as some people think. Unless you've had a miscarriage you will never truly understand. You won't understand the dates that come and go. The emptiness you feel while holding laughing and playing with some else baby. Nor the moments when you think about how old they would have been...It's a pain that never goes away.

@nicolette100

4 жыл бұрын

I fully understand that. I've had 3 and till this day it still hurts. My oldest would be 20 and my youngest 3. I'm 41 now. Losing all three of my babies has put me in a dark place. I don't care about anything anymore. Every morning I awake I get pissed off. This life without MY children is worthless for me. Nothing makes me happy or excited.

I know they said age has something to do with it. But I had a family member who had a miscarriage because of stress and depression. Make sure you are not stressing while you are pregnant. I know it's hard to do because these days most of the people is stressed out.

U know, u can tell how connected these women are. When Tamara started talking about this, u could sense the heaviness but composure of her tone, to be careful in talking about this knowing what Adrienne is going through as they are friends and would have known before speaking of it here, but u can tell Tamara feels and is so compassionate towards Adrienne . Love the love they have for each other.

Good information Tamera and Loni!

exactly, although I lost my baby with 6 weeks pregnant. I was so sad and It hurt when plp said at least it happend at the begining of pregnancy.... grg

This was very beautifully said. Honestly, I don't ever want to have kids. But I do plan on fostering when I'm in my mid thirties and donating my eggs as soon as possible (I'm almost 19). I want to help others while I can.

It’s hard to talk about something that hurts deeper than anything, especially as a woman and fearing to never be able to have your own children. It’s hard to hear at the time, ‘ it wasn’t meant to be.....it’s not your time ...’ etc. I think the best thing to do as a friend is to be there and be sensitive to their pain. Saying I’m here for you or just understanding the loss. When I lost my baby, I realised who my real friends were by who was there for me and checked in on me and those who didn’t. THE PAIN NEVER LEAVES YOU AND YOU ALWAYS WONDER WHAT MAY HAVE BEEN, BUT TIME HELPS.

Aww Loni, I never knew. May God continue to comfort you

I understand about miscarriages. I myself have had 3 miscarriages & 2 stillborn babies...so I just want to say I'm so sorry if this has happened to anyone.

Jennie is so sweet, she really wants to understand so she can be Empathetic towards others.

tamera is as good as always,I like the way she handle the topic so sensitve.

Thank you sooooooo much for talking about this topic!!!❤❤❤❤

Side note: Lonnie looks amazing!! Hair, outfit and makeup is on point!!

@joshuaalexander8327

5 жыл бұрын

Another side note I think you are beautiful 😍😍😍

They are right about the amount of time before the miscarriage. I saw my 6 week old baby’s heartbeat on an ultrasound monitor and the next day I lost my baby. It was not easy to go through that cause I love my children and love being a mom. It doesn’t make it any easier to loose it early in pregnancy that’s for certain.

Great advice and Facts Tamera!

Thank you for sharing 😊😊😇💖💖

It helps I lost my baby in 2019 I luckily had my cousin to talk to it hard you never forget and you love them even if you wernt long into it

For those asking where does adrienne talk, it’s in part 2

It is the hardest pain to endure and it’s something that you never fully recover from. I have an angel who departed to heaven on August 8th, 2018! I was 19 weeks and 3 days! And not a day goes by that I don’t think of my little Gianny Joseph 👼 🖤

Love this 💞

When I lost my baby it was mother day and my co worker said she would’ve said happy Mother’s Day but I’m not a mother no more

@moeshamitchell185

5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry to hear that. God bless you.

@tinaloveseddie

5 жыл бұрын

Jocelyns Life that was heartless😔

@devin3955

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry for your loss. Did you report that to HR? I would’ve tried to get her up outta there because... wtf?

@Nyx72215

5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for your loss 🙏

@SeychelleSunshine

5 жыл бұрын

My condolences and also you are were a mother-to-be. I would celebrate you every mother's day with a card. You deserved a sense of comfort and peace.

I lost my son Bryan at 19 weeks because of my weak cervix which have been the hardest thing every. Giving birth to a son that will never walk this is so painful but was fortunate to get pregnant again with my son Bryce which I had had him at 29 week it was hard but I glad he survive now at 32 I can no longer can have anymore kids which hard to accept but at least I have the experience of being a mom

@andreafoxx7722

5 жыл бұрын

u r thankful n bless

I had a horrible time after my first miscarriage. I lost 5 pregnancies before we had our daughter. And just recently lost another. It took us 13 years to get our miracle. Some of the things people said to me were horrible. I know they thought they meant well but it was not what I needed or wanted to hear.

I will never forget my child. I was pregnant 3 times and have 2 kids. My child number 2 is always a part of me

Great topic to discuss. ✝♥

1 in 4 are the stats right? I lost my son at 5 months in October 2014 and found out what the significance of the month was afterwards and started meeting woman after woman who’d been through what I had and numerous variations of miscarriage and child loss. It’s a sort of club we belong to that no one wants to be a part of but it helps knowing you’re not alone after you learn to start living with the grief.

I can totally relate to these stories

I truly love These women for talking about the timing of a pregnancy. I had a blighted ovum miscarriage in between my two boys. This means that the fetal pole never completely formed. I never got to hear a heartbeat. I remember that 10 days before my first prenatal appointment, I had a large clot that had come out, and rushed to the hospital with my then 15 month old son. In an instant I knew it was serious and something was wrong. An ultrasound was done, and because my husband and I were intentionally trying to get pregnant and charting, I knew exactly when conception had happened. The tech asked me repeatedly if I was sure. When no heart beat was found, I was devastated. The first thing a family member had said to me, was that I could feel better about the fact that it wasn’t an actual baby. After finding that the pregnancy was not “viable”, I still had to pass the contents of my uterus. Just one week after, on my wedding anniversary, the evidence that I had been pregnant was gone. The loss I felt was immense. For a while I felt broken. It stayed with me. The following year we discovered that we were again pregnant with my now youngest son. I was so terrified to lose again. To that date I had two miscarriages. When we had blood in the beginning of my pregnancy with my youngest son, we discovered my HCG was extremely low. The doctors were sure I was having another blighted ovum miscarriage. I prayed and prayed that God let me keep my baby. The doctors wanted significant improvement within a week before they would ultimately decide that it was another loss. Miraculously, my number more than tripled in five days. It was nothing short of Gods miracles. The pregnancy was tumultuous, but my youngest son was born at 5 pounds. I spent my entire pregnancy terrified that I might be broken and therefore lose him like the pregnancy before. It never truly went away. Every year during my anniversary, I mourn my loss. Heartbeat or not, I had wanted to meet a baby I expected but would never hold. Never tell a woman that it wasn’t an actual baby. Never say it should be easier because of the timing. Good for these amazing women to mention it. ❤️

My aunt tried everything she could to become pregnant for 10 years (hormonal treatments, surgeries, etc) but it didn’t work out. Now they have adopted a beautiful 2 year old boy❤️ it wasn’t what they hoped for in the beginning of the process of having a child but in the end they got their precious boy🙏🏼

We need find out right away. 1st trimester so important I have thyroid problems

It’s been over a year now and I’m still not sure how to have the conversation, I can talk about it no issue but it’s actually taking the time to pay attention to it which hurts. I miss my Baby sooooo much! Infant loss.

I lost my baby at 20 weeks pregnant in 2018. And I’m still crying here listening to tamera