It’s soo unbelievable that some of us have literally been with you through significant periods of your life like from young adulthood to your time in japan and motherhood 😂❤

@MrsPete-mq4tv

Жыл бұрын

Right when the struggle was real to find black hair products lol

@larajniwilliams3065

Жыл бұрын

@@MrsPete-mq4tv definitely I’ve locd my hair now but baby those tutorials saved my life now i do them on my daughters hair🥰

@LovingMelanin

Жыл бұрын

@@MrsPete-mq4tv yesssss only the real ones know Japan jaelah

“He need a good daddy, he need a healed daddy, he need an intentional daddy.” 😅 #FELT

There is definitely a thing as stuff being too real for social media. Ugh I hate it so much. The place we “could” be ourselves and share/vent it’s not even a safe space anymore. I felt all of this so very much. And the makeup turned out lovely.💕 you’re a great mom & you got this. Keep being real and raw. It’s so refreshing

@yolandac4789

Жыл бұрын

Hey boo👋🏾, luv u❣️😁

"You don't know what God is protecting you from, but you can only pray you don't find out"- Girllllll you got me shouting on this Sunday! Somebody pass the collection plate!

I think you are handling this whole situation very well and gracefully. I’ve never felt the need to pity you, but I for sure empathize with you and your situation bc the situation itself is not fortunate and not what most people envisioned themselves going through when they choose to bring a baby into this world.

@JaelahMajette

Жыл бұрын

Thank you 🫶🏾 and no not y’all. Y’all know the real, I just hate the stigmaaaaa 😭 and it does seem unfortunate but it’s not really tho, I needed everything I been thru 🥺

@shakaracharde

Жыл бұрын

Ms.Majette girl.. I needed this single mommy talk MORE than you know.

@chikamartin5481

Жыл бұрын

​@@JaelahMajetteit is fortunately unfortunate , you make hardships look like another Tuesday ma'am 👏🏾

@lisakaye3919

Жыл бұрын

I’m with Jaelah women telling each other happy fathers day is weird af. I say bih im not a father

Im a mom of an autistic child. I love my son but it is so difficult. I cried every day for the first 5 years of his life. I was navigating it alone no family no friends no dad. He’s 12 now things have gotten so much better. Now I laugh way more than I cry. So I totally get it when you said special needs mom we understand each other. Keep going it gets better 🩷🩷🩷

@dior277

Жыл бұрын

Hold in there, God got you and your son my dear. 🙌🏾

@emeraldkaysgarden

Жыл бұрын

Same when my son had speech delay as a baby...he is now 20, graduated with a 3.0 GPA and now is a working young man adding light to society. GOD HAS THE FINAL SAY in all things i say HALLELUYAH and give continued gratitude❤🙏🏽 🙌🏽

You are 100% correct and NOT alone. I have been there, it is OK to lean on others and ask for guidance. Seasons of life are SO real. Thanks for sharing! xo 🥰😍😘

As a fellow single mother I think you are doing a great job! I also have my moments of realization that I’m a single mom as well 😅 My biggest one has always been when my son does something cute, funny, or shocking that I do not have another person to share that moment with who is as equally as proud if that makes sense. However, single mothers always persevere ❤

@SheIsSoWell

Жыл бұрын

I can relate

Being intentional about creating a space that your child doesn't have to heal from is phenomenal. Love watching your mommy hood journey. ❤ Jax is obsessed with all of your efforts from monster trucks to moisturizing and I'm sure he feels the care and calculated intentions behind the choices you make for yall. 🥰

This was probably one of the realest conversations I've seen on social media in a long time. You kept it real you kept it funky. From parenting to monies. Reality vs fake. Thank you Jae. This was a needed and necessary conversation

I was raised by a single mom. She’s my heart. I admire TF outta her because I know it wasn’t easy. So proud of you, Jae! Happy you and Jax have each other 💜

This was one of the most healing videos I ever watched I wish I could tell you my single mom story cause I have no friends so I’m navigating through my wounds by myself and my therapist so it won’t effect my happy 3yrs old baby boy ❤

@emeraldkaysgarden

Жыл бұрын

You're definitely not alone. ❤

You bringing up that your home being blessed gave you peace made me happy. My parents do the same. It’s just so comforting knowing that you’ve allowed God into your home and family because your home is literally your safe space and anythingg can happen

This video was so refreshing as a single mom with a son with a speech delay … going through the whole speech therapy stuff. I have pulled away a from friends and family because of all the “why isn’t he talking yet” questions. It’s draining and frustrating. But this video was soooo good to my soul . I felt everything you said😩

Being a female who lives alone requires a high level of safety, and add in a child yeahhh. I’m with you in that hood move.

I don’t usually comment, but I really like your authenticity. It’s so hard to find genuine people nowadays. Good job with Jax☺️

You’re a great mother. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability.

i hate the stage in my mom journey that i’m in. having to need family members that ignore what’s best or what i think is best for my daughter is so staggering. i love watching you be a mom tho jae! you’re a great mom & jax is such a great kid

I so took to heart when you said no contact has made you be a better parent and you don’t second guess yourself. I felt this with my soul

I rewatched a lot of your old videos with him. You have grown and healed so much. It’s inspirational!!! I also want to thank you for keeping those videos up. I’m pregnant with my second and want to try natural with my midwife. Your journey, information and realness has helped me to head towards a unmedicated birth.❤

I so appreciate you talking about the shadow side. I wish someone was real with me about what being responsible for another human being was and never from that point being able to just get up and go somewhere without thinking about this other human. How hard it is to navigate parenting and hoping your doing things right and not putting another traumatized person in this world to hurt people. Your heart is literally walking outside of your chest and if you have anxiety and have experienced extreme trauma that is the scariest thing in life. It’s beautiful but it’s scary and postpartum was even scarier.

@ahsayarisrael

Жыл бұрын

I never heard someone describe parenting like this. Thank you for sharing this ❤️

I just love your authenticity and how you articulate your life experiences! I so relate to how you are giving yourself grace and navigating your journey! No one is walking in your shoes but I feel we are in alignment with transcending situations and being in our purpose! It's such a blessing to witness a young black mom heal, learn, and raise your baby!

I felt the speech thing. “Why your baby not talking” because he don’t want to tf. I beat myself up about this daily, I’ll be damned if I let outside influences do it too.

It’s sooo therapeutic to hear someone talk, and they get it. I’m a single mom to a 4 yr. old, and her father is a deadbeat. I feel like we get a lot of unsolicited comments, sympathy, and advice as a single mothers, but I love how you’re always ten toes down on what you want to do and what you want for your baby despite that.

CASPER is crazyyyyyy 😂😂😂😂❤

Not coparenting with Casper omg let me get ready for this😂

Imma keep it completely 100…. I had to fight tears watching the ending of this. Like I need to hear that fr. I love you girl, thank you for your transparency ❤️❤️❤️

I loveee your content because you're so real and relatable. The real life topics and some "realities" are on social media but people are so miserable and want drama to the point where those videos don't get many views or get pushed by the algorithm.

You’re beautiful Jaelah!!! You really are a great mom! Lots of gems in this video! “Rejection is Protection.” 🥰❤️

My baby didn’t babble talk make eye contact (only looked up) or anything until she was one. I kept bringing it up to the pediatrician and he was telling me she would do it on her own time and not to worry but I was worried like a mf. Now she is 4 starting to read she is a whole comedian and doesn’t miss a beat! ❤

My baby boy just turned 4 and he is talking more and more everyday. All babies develop in his own time. Gonna start speech therapy this year. I just had my 4th baby and I have settled into my mothering. I am confident in my abilities to be a good mom. And I make sure to tell myself everyday, because I never heard it from anyone, I felt I needed the public to validate what I already knew. Now I’m a 33 year old woman and no longer give a fuck what anyone else thinks or feels about me or my children. The peace I have found since I changed my way of thinking is mind blowing!

Whew. Could very much relate to being thankful that my baby stayed where things made sense to him until i was emotionally and mentally ready to meet him where he was. Because the strife that my baby would've endured if he had to exist where i was at the time.. man, oh man.

It feels good to have someone explain how having a child that doesn't talk is a journey no one will understand unless you live it. My almost 3yr daughter doesn't talk. It's soo much more I could say...whew love watching you J

@loveAAA1617

Жыл бұрын

My son is almost 5 and he’s concerned delayed. He’s actually right where God wants him to be so is your daughter and from 3 to now he’s grew so much started saying so so much we communicate much better now

@ShauntayMulan

Жыл бұрын

@@loveAAA1617 ❤

Jaelah you are a vessel from God and you are truly letting him work through you. I appreciate all that you are. ❤

You ROCKIN this mommy shit, and your baby is THRIVING❤❤❤ Fortunate outcomes sometimes come from UNFORTUNATE situations.

I totally agree about moving away from DV couples. We had that happen in a unit above us multiple times. We even had to call the police and they took their sweet time showing up. The sound of it all is very traumatizing. Hearing the kicking, screaming, thumping OMG it was a mess!! And they had no care what time of day it was. One time it was 6 AM I was getting ready for work and they were AT IT! Very sad situation. We were like nope we'll leave yall can have this damn place.

God bless you Jaelah! I love how vulnerable you are with your subscribers. I’m not a mom yet, but you seem like a great mom!

“If you treat him like he dumb he gone play you like you dumb” 😂 literally my ASD kiddos everyday, very charming & manipulative 💀

I love when you said "I just met this person, 5 years ago'. I've noticed a lot of new parents (the 20-30 year olds) who have healed or are healing from past trauma acknowledge their offspring as humans instead of only as a child or kid. Beautiful and just a reminder to you of how much of a great mother you are because you are doing all of this on top of dealing with your own loads in life. Amazing💜

Rejection is protection. I needed this talk🙌🏾💛

You so freaking relatable and bro its so crazy cause you dont get that from a lot of influencers. Especially the detachment part like its crazy how okay i am with being isolated because you don't want people ducking up the energy you worked so hard to cultivate. Ughh lol its just refreshing to hear what i be thinking in my head from someone else 😂

@Amariya143

Жыл бұрын

Lol also i think my son has autism but its like weird because at the same time i think he doesn't cause he just like me in some ways but i could be touched by the tism and don't know. You know how it is but yeah working on getting him diagnosed. Anyways love ya girly keep being real as always 🫶🏿❤️

@tiyanastarr

Жыл бұрын

⁠@@Amariya143i can relate to both of your posts! my son is autistic but i literally do the same things as him which also makes me wonder if i ever missed a diagnosis for myself. sending you much love💕

@Amariya143

Жыл бұрын

@@tiyanastarr Thank you sending love as well 🫶🏿

I looovvveeeddd this video so much as a single mom out here healing and loving it! Forget the third party is what I’ve been on for sure. I love you girl and your thought process. I’ve learned so much and I really appreciate this J-talk !!!

The Way That I Received Everything Lesson You Touched On Here. You Are Truly Connected With Your Higher Self And I Aspire To Be That Connected With Myself ❤

As a person who works with single moms often, you’re definitely on the money. The ones who have awol bd are the ones living lives that are a bit easier to navigate. Now, those “present” bd CHAL, they be dragging their kids and bms through HELL. Ugh, the stress, money, drama and chaos is on another level

@jenniferray509

Жыл бұрын

I'm so happy somebody gets the struggle for me and my son with his "present" "dad". I'm so tired from his dad's nonsense I want to take my son and go to Costa Rica and never come back.

I love how you shared wanting to vent, without the extra criticism and dialogue. Like I see myself disconnecting from this space more and more due to the uneasy-ness I feel with the amount of varying responses and projections that take place. 🥺 people really don’t talk about the real real, which sucks cause I personally would love to cultivate safe spaces through this medium.

“Lost my mind and found peace of mind.” That’s deep and I totally can relate. 💕🙏🏽

i love these chats, it really just feels like were on facetime forreal

You speak very well. Very in tune with your feelings, situations, people and articulate it to a T.

Jaelah, I have watched you for years, you have grown girl. I know it may not seem that way to you. Raising a child by yourself is a job within a job. Jackson will let you know what he needs. Having a person to assist you with Jackson one on one is such a beautiful thing. Your happiness and wellbeing is what is most important. Very great days are ahead of you .

Coming a person who work with kids. Some children are shy. Plus kids are judge of character... They talk when they feel like it. Or when they most comfortable.

I love you sharing the journey. (smile) My twins are both autistic and I see myself in them. I was never diagnosed.

Girl you’re always out here dropping GEMS! The part about Jax being in his own world while you were trying to figure out your world was so good

Love this!! And girl you ain’t lying!!! I just know my life would be so much easier and peaceful without the coparenting drama! Especially after a toxic DV relationship with my daughters dad. So I am happy you are happy and at peace ❤

I’m glad you’re following your instincts on all levels. And not forcing things. As a child of a similar situation, this will be so helpful to know from early on. Cut ties now. Bless y’all.

I promise there is a reason i been fw you for over 8+ years. You are my tribe Jaelah, from having a military background, ending long-term relationship and having a son who was diagnosed with a speech delay, even our current relationships are similar...anyways longstory short I fking Love you and rooting for all of us who are actively healing healthily and breaking toxic bonds internally and externally frfr💯🙏🏽❤ thanks so much for being a light in this social media universe.

This is also my situation. I can’t even really speak on it because it’s too much to unpack, makes me emotional? It was hard for me to watch this at some points, but I could 100% relate. So I’m glad you touched on this. I hear you & I feel you. You’re doing great girlfriend ❤️❤️❤️

All I have to say is I’m proud of you! You rocking this mommy shit!🎉 God , gave you everything you needed to evolve! And you taking it like a boss. I’m proud! Go Jaelah!!!

I love love love hearing you talk about Jax. From the jump, I've admired the way motherhood manifests in you. It's so special to see so thank you for sharing it🤎

youve inspired me in many ways and weve gone through many similar experiences around the same time im also getting used to single motherhood and its so great seeing someone i admire navigate through this along side me youre amazing jaelah

Yes girl i love you for telling the truth. I wouldnt mind if my son's dad and his family left and never came back. My son is so wonderful dealing with his dad's nonsense turned me off from dating. I just want a hug since im tired

You’re a great mom and throughout the years that I’ve been subscribed to you, your growth has been amazing. Many blessings to come. 💜💜

You’re a phenomenal mom. I love your spirit and soul the way you have handled life with Jax these past 5yrs is amazing continue to be strong and giving yourself grace you’re awesome SO VERY PROUD OF YOU❤❤❤❤

As am mom with a son that had a speech delay, I totally understand and the negative things people said was crazy to me.

Girl I been waiting on you to post but God must've known I needed to hear these gems you dropped on this day 🙌🏾

You are now officially my TOP FIVE KZreadR Jussayin. Keep speaking your truth hun. I heard your message loud and clear. Thank you❤

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ not me screaming out when I read "casper"

You’re a great vlogger! An awesome mother and influencer to Jackson! Life will always be lifing! So we will always understand! Thank You for being vulnerable to us as per usual! Because so many people think you guys live a perfect life! Sending prayers to you and Jackson!❤❤❤

wow i loved every second of this video. i appreciate the realness & i can relate to it so much. i’m so glad i never stopped watching u. i love every version of u that you’ve shown to us from the beginning bc you’ve always been real, which is rare so it’ll always stand out ♥️ keep going, you’re doing great.

Thank you for speaking on sharing vulnerable moments on social media Jaelah because I'm going through that as we speak. Trying to figure out what to share about my journey into entrepreneurship and what to keep close to my chest has been hard seeing as though I've built my platforms on being open..its so hard.

I need a podcast cause... girl i needed to hear alllllll of thattt

I've been single mothering for a decade but I still needed to hear this. Thank you!

It’s scary how we have so much in common. I also have a 5 yr old who is speech delayed going to kindergarten this year and I have had anxiety the whole summer. Even your thoughts on comparing him to other kids are not your own. Like you, I decided to celebrate all of his milestones and just love my baby for who he is. And guurrll I thought something was wrong with me because I can’t keep friends to save my life. I’m the most down to earth person but am so detached it scares me. Being emotional yet emotionless is hard to navigate but you described it perfectly. Lastly, you are a great mom. Period.

@Kariberri208

Жыл бұрын

I can totally relate to you. It’s been really hard to keep friends, but I know that I am a good friend to have, just a chill individual. Don’t worry your son will be fine in kindergarten, best thing is that the schools have good speech therapists. My daughter goes to 1st grade this year, and she’s made so much improvement since she started kindergarten.

Really needed this❤ my son is 4 and this is all the validation we needed! Trust the process!!!!

The realness in this is *chefs kiss* Love you Jae 🫶🏾

It’s never wrong to bless anything…you did right..

This was just refreshing to see you vent and have a honest chat about real life things 💟

Thank you for being vulnerable!!!

27:34 THISSSS!!! Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m in a very similar situation and people don’t understand this part of the absentee daddy conversation.

I've been watching you since I was in high school and I am so proud of how much you have grown! thank you for being so true to your soul. many blessings to you mamas! - also dude your makeup is top line puuurrfect!

God is going to blow your mind Jaelah keep on seeking him. I can see the light that he gave you and it shines so bright✝💖

40:54 “once you got those goggles on they’re on” a word. A spiritual journey can be very isolating. You really do have to find your tribe when you’re ready because sharing spaces with people who don’t get you/it will leave you feeling exhausted and fake lol. It’s like you have to hide parts of yourself.

“Elevation requires separation” 🤌🏾🤌🏾 a WORD 💯💯💕

I loved every single second of this! Thank you baby girl ❤

I am so late in posting this comment, but I had to say this. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!! Keep doing your thing as you keep a positive outlook on things. Life is a journey and you've GOT THIS!

I remember when Jax was born ❤❤❤❤

Girl, you just dropped so many jewels!! 💎💎 Your growth is beautiful ❤️ May God continue to carry you throughout your journey!

I love you Jaelah, you are such an amazing mommy it’s insane!! 🥹🩵

omg the social media part!!!! im learning that it really can affect me if i let it , and i want to let it go!

Aww.. no wonder Jax chose you to be his mom!? 😊 He knew exactly what he needed. Lucky kid! Also, I feel the same way about feeling SO disconnected from people and being extremely spiritually evolved and having to deal with people and their lower vibrational frequencies. And it’s not that you think that you’re better than anyone else, but it just drains your energy so much to deal with people who just don’t get it. Staying away at times (most of the time for me)😂 is just good for your overall mental and spiritual health. (even if it’s family) You gotta reserve your energy for your tribe or for whoever God/The Creator releases you to share your energy with. We have to be good stewards over this ✨(damn good energy)✨that God blessed us with. You know, sometimes I just feel like Earth isn’t my real home and as a life path 9, I encourage you to keep going Jaelah.. you’re right on track with your assignment here on Earth. Your higher level of understanding to saving space for people to grow and meeting them right where they’re at, while also creating healthy boundaries so that their lower vibrational frequency doesn’t hinder your own personal growth. Although I’m not a sun Pisces, my south node is in Pisces so I get it on a very, very, deep, deep spiritual level. Stay blessed, Love! 💜

@mjshabazz8874

Жыл бұрын

This comment made me tear up even tho it wasn’t for me 😭

Thank you for this👏🏽 I felt this as a mom of 2, as someone who deals with depression and anxiety, as a blank woman🫶🏽 I’ve been watching you for sooo long and I absolutely adore the woman you have been growing into.

I commented on the curls before watching the video. But after watching I had to spin the block back 😩 I love when you sit down and talk to us you be speaking to my soul. Them school family trees get me everytime time. I always be like dang my baby don’t have a father and it’s hurtful but I also STAND FRIM ON A TOXIC FATHER IS WORSE THEN NO FATHER! so when you speak on these issues I feel like it’s our own community as you described. I really wish you had a podcast but I know life be LIFING and that may be a bit much.

Thank you for the transparency and opportunity for self reflection! 💕

Idk I feel like when babies don’t look like they’re here, they’re communicating with God. That’s just how I see it. Everything happens in its own timing. Idk why ppl try to rush anything. But I feel you on the separation for elevation. The losing friends and all that. Lost my mind and found peace of mind is a word! That was my 20s.

I wish people would comprehend that people grow differently. Some people get things instantly, and some people take a little more time. Growth is never a race, but a journey. Thank you for being transparent, you got this Jaelah ❤!

This was soooo good and relatable . When we go through things you feel lonely. I loved hearing your perspective. Wise beyond your years.

Please do more sit down and talk videos or think about podcasting. I always watch these, I can’t always get into the vlogs but I love just hearing you talk!!

This was such a great video! I am going through the same thing. Thank you for sharing your experience and speaking so eloquently

You’re such a great mom! 🥰🫶🏾

not “coparenting with casper” 😂😂😂

The oil was nothing but great!!You got right on it and put your blessings and prayer in on your new home.I'm glad your faith made the oil available, even if you did not send for it . A present God... You're a great mother God knows!! Keep that oil on!!!