This is so true. My significant other and I never married. Together 12 years now 2 kids together, 1 from a previous relationship. We decided not to do the marriage thing in case it doesn’t work out or we grow apart. So far we are doing pretty well for ourselves. It hasn’t always been perfect, When covid started I thought we were done for, I started seeing all these videos on narcissistic behavior and thought for sure that was him, until I did self reflection and realized I had just as many of those behaviors. After a couple of confrontations and discovering Abraham, we have been happier than we ever been. He does his thing I do mine, he has his accounts, I have mine. ThAts how it’s always been and it works sooo good

@Mattyew

25 күн бұрын

"he does his thing I do mine" is fine but does that mean you don't really care when the other person does things that are actually not okay in a relationship? like you just turn the other way and pretend things are fine when you are just ignoring what doesn't actually work for you?

@astridlove2327

25 күн бұрын

@@Mattyew no, that isn’t what that means. My comment was probably rushed and not thought through as far as explanation goes. I can say that comment was 2 years ago and things just keep getting better and better for us!!! What I was trying to explain is that neither one of us tries to control one another. We give each other room to be who we truly are and want to be. We give each other the room and space to grow as individuals and we support that. We are “co-creating” so to speak. However, it is the law of attraction. So we get what we put out, right? So in order for this to work, we have to have a mutual respect for one another. I used to joke with him when I was less secure and say “don’t do anything you wouldn’t want me doing” lol but at the time I hadn’t discovered any of this and I didn’t realize how accurate that statement actually was in terms of we attract what we put out and think/feel. It really comes down to understanding that I cannot control anyone else and their behavior, I can only control the way I feel about it right? I can only control my behavior and how I feel and what I attract. If someone’s energy in my life does not align with that, they will vibrate out of my experience just like if their energy is in alignment with that, we have a beautiful co creating experience. For me and him, we both want the same things, we are on the same “wavelength” (which is actually something we joke about often), and when that happens. There is nothing more amazing in a relationship. You are free to be who you want to be and you stay out of each other way. You don’t want to do things to one another that would be hurtful, disrespectful, harmful to the relationship. You don’t need to because your not seeking out something your missing or trying to find love in the wrong places. It’s finding yourself, staying true to yourself, loving yourself and making that more important than your love for another and only then you can attract a love that can match that. I hope that helps!

What a masterclass this is so valuable!

Amazing!!!!

I needed to hear this so bad❤

Wow

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