A Wee Bit Rude.. || Two Hot Takes Podcast || Reddit Stories
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Two Hot Takes host, Morgan, is joined by guest co-host Lauren! This week's episode has us dissecting situations that may or may not be rude. Offensively impolite? Ill-mannered? We'll be the judge of that! From sending a venmo request after a wedding to telling your husband's kids you're not a gold-digger there are some wild ones this week!
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Lauren is my absolute favourite co host, I get so excited when I see a video with her edit: I can't believe she replied to this!!!! I love her so much omg
@meganpribyl226
24 күн бұрын
I love all of the regulars, but Lauren is my absolute favorite also
@badako
24 күн бұрын
Same!!! Missing Alejandra so much tho😭😭😭
@threefiveotwelve5868
24 күн бұрын
same!!
@daripojari
24 күн бұрын
saaame and Alejandra 😍
@m1y4mur
24 күн бұрын
literally, her and Ale make the episodes so worth it, i love their dynamic w Morgan
17:02 Story 2 24:00 SPONSOR #1 25:22 Story 3 37:02 SPONSOR #2 38:13 Story 4 48:33 Story 5 56:41 SPONSOR #3 58:07 Story 6 1:14:46 Story 7 1:29:27 Story 8
@sophiakvalheim2273
24 күн бұрын
You’re so real for this
@BeeStyled15
24 күн бұрын
Bless you!
@Shadys_Lady
24 күн бұрын
THANK YOU
@tirrywilliams
24 күн бұрын
You're welcome. Thank you guys for all the lovely comments 😁
@mariahbuckles
24 күн бұрын
u the 🐐
is plant girl delusional? she chose the plants, NOT the roommates. if you don't wanna pay for them, get rid of them. simple.
@RealBradMiller
24 күн бұрын
We've got another Poison Ivy on our hands, ladies and gents.... I have hundreds, hundreds. Maybe thousands of plants... And I will tax no one. In fact, please take a dozen with you when you leave!!! 😂😂😂
@srose1088
24 күн бұрын
And the fact that they allude to the plants filtering out covid 💀
@SativahBelievah1348
24 күн бұрын
This one had me losing it..
@jessilewis9785
23 күн бұрын
Also, having dozens of house plants is NOT the same as a HEPA filter 😂 plants don’t filter out allergens and viruses! Wtf?!
@marianne9691
23 күн бұрын
Right?! That is so entitled of her! If any, she is occupying common space with her personal things
Morgan, if you’re feeling burnt out, it’s not a crime to take a break! 🥺
The only way that girl got a piece of cake at work is if she did it all herself, sad. I wouldn't be putting any effort in next birthday either
@cozeydaze
24 күн бұрын
yeah sad I identify with her
@hazel350
24 күн бұрын
It feels like those moms that prepare everything for Christmas and then don't have a single gift
@IzzysTravelDiaries
23 күн бұрын
She reminds me of myself. The girl who does everything for everyone because she's really the outcast that no one really likes. So she tries harder. But people don't really even remember she exists when she's not in the room. That was high school for me.
@Hawther
22 күн бұрын
Yeah, I used to bake a lot at my old job for birthdays/baby shower kind of things because I like to. But then my birthday came around and... nothing I stopped having time.
@HeatMiserr
22 күн бұрын
@@IzzysTravelDiaries hope you found people that appreciate you. People in groups, especially young people can be so needlessly judgmental, callous and rude
The friends in the first story have intimacy bonded over a common enemy. That intimacy isn’t real. The friendship won’t last.
@badako
24 күн бұрын
Ooo so true!!!
@noprogressionisregression6854
24 күн бұрын
It's very hard to be the third wheel in a friendship with two other young women. I was in this position when I was growing up and I have to say that ganged up on me repeatedly and we're just vicious. I'm proud of myself that I walked away from them.
@xmlauj8260
24 күн бұрын
I was in a similar situation and now the other two people are so cringey towards each other, like speaking so sweetly and bringing each other small trinkets (wasn’t like that before). It is as if they are afraid that if they upset one another, then they have no one else to be “friends” with. I am waiting for the day that they have a disagreement and/or argument. That is where we can see how strong their relationship really is.
@sneakymaaike5633
21 күн бұрын
@xmlauj8260 don't hope their friendship will break, try to not even think about them! You are worth it, I know it! You be alright :) and you know it! Wanted to say something nice 🤗
@Meh_Lone_Bah
7 күн бұрын
Totally true. My mom works in a dentist as a front desk and there's ppl who allied together with common hate against other ppl in the office. When that person was targeted and she later was fired bc of the accusations, the office became low staffed. Then those 2 ppl who allied are blaming each other and are no longer friends. They try to put each other under the bus for minor mistakes. But it was their own doing for creating a toxic workplace
Wedding story - It blows my mind how obsessed some people are with alcohol. Go to the wedding to celebrate your friends, not for a free drink, or to get wasted and potentially ruin the party. It's sad how some people can't have fun without getting drunk. Also, I feel like our culture has it backwards. Weddings should be assumed to be dry and it would be respectful to notify your guests if that is not the case. Makes no sense to warn people there won't be drugs. Warn them if there will be, so they can make an informed decision to come if they struggle with alcoholism or don't want to deal with drunk people.
@madison.marie7
24 күн бұрын
Yes! You don’t need alcohol to have fun. AND it’s a wedding celebrating 2 people. You go for that, not for alcohol.
@prachikalkar2493
24 күн бұрын
In my culture alcohol is strictly prohibited in the wedding
@na1ani218
24 күн бұрын
@prachikalkar2493 I wouldn't be mad if that became the norm in the USA. I don't hate alcohol, but I do hate how much it is socially acceptable here for people to look down on others who decide to not drink.
@BreeS-zd5rx
24 күн бұрын
Agree with this. I don't care one way or the other if there's alcohol honestly because I'm not much of a drinker. I can seriously take it or leave it. And I find people who feel like they have to have it to have fun to be really, really boring honestly. The fact that there are people who can't just suck it up for a few hours and then fuel their alcoholism in the comfort of their own homes later truly astounds me. It is unfortunately a norm in the USA to include on the invitation if it's a dry wedding, but by no means is it a reason to get angry at someone if they don't. Because like...if I'm getting married, I'm going to hope my frienda and family are there for me, not free booze.
@yb9964
24 күн бұрын
It’s not the first story like this on Reddit, to the point where I really wonder how intertwined is alcoholism with American social culture?
The story where nobody saved cake for the coworker reminds me of how I’d always treat mine so well & they couldn’t give a shit less about me. I feel that poor girl’s pain so heavily 😩😅
@battlestar6364
24 күн бұрын
It's sad that kind, thoughtful people are so rare.
@ericabennett1158
24 күн бұрын
@@battlestar6364 I agree
@krisinalana1193
22 күн бұрын
Dude same… I’m the person who goes all out for friends & then gets forgotten about 😬 I no longer treat people how I want to be treated; Now I pay attention & reciprocate their energy. I have a tiered system in my head, where I place people & act accordingly. I also pause before going above & beyond for people. It has worked wonders tbh. More energy for those who love me ❤
@ericabennett1158
22 күн бұрын
@@krisinalana1193 a tiered system is a good idea!! I’m gonna start doing that thanks 💕
@zaraheart
20 күн бұрын
I used to be the same way. I now match other people’s energy. If you’re passive aggressive ass towards me, I’ll be one back now. 🤷🏽♀️
If I was plant girl’s roommate, I’d say sure to the $25 clean air fee but also charge a $30 common space storage fee.
@fuzzylittlespider
24 күн бұрын
Ooooooo got’em!
@manalelabidi3161
24 күн бұрын
I would agree to not breathe air and then breathe anyway and watch her try to monitor everyone s breathing
As someone who has been to Japan multiple times of my life, the woman’s husband gaslit her because he felt inferior to her success. Being able to get a job and pass the N3 test is PHENOMENAL!!! She should be super proud of her accomplishments. PS, the three language/writing styles of Japan are soooo difficult!
@jadeaylen3811
23 күн бұрын
I have taught Japanese in a country which is not Japan for 18yrs and only have an N5, so her N3 in 6yrs is amazing, without support.
@klarachi14
18 күн бұрын
@jadeaylen3811 I hope yhis doesn't sound too rude, but I'm genuinely curious, how do you teach Japanese, if you have N5 level? I'm currently working towards my N2 and wouldn't feel confident teaching others yet.
@jadeaylen3811
18 күн бұрын
@klarachi14 in South Australia the actual proficiency test isnt needed and i taught for many years without it. You only need to have done two years of uni in the subject area to teach it. It equates to more than I knew before the end of yr 12 so I am qualified to teach to year 12.
“We don’t have a big apartment” “I decided to put a f ton of plants in our SMALL shared space” Lmao dude needs to find a better hobbie
@YK-em7cy
24 күн бұрын
Umm the OP is a guy.
@kseniak8781
24 күн бұрын
@@YK-em7cysorry my bad
@yazzybananas3106
24 күн бұрын
Immediately I was like 🤦♀️ because if I decide to do the same thing living with my FIL, my husband would put me in my place and call me crazy 😂 I have around 55 plants. If anything, I am GRATEFUL that my FIL doesn’t mind my hobby creeping into the living room. The roommate wants somebody to pay for their hobby. 😂 gtfo
@srose1088
24 күн бұрын
I saw this comment and thought "oh boy, I can't wait to know what this is about." That was crazy.
@marianaschrader2468
22 күн бұрын
I would be pissed If my roomate had that much plants in a small space, his roomates are being way too nice
You wouldn't go to a wedding if no alcohol is involved? Why are you friends with this person, you clearly don't like them enough and just wanted an excuse to get drunk. I hope that groom ditched those friends. 🤡
@mallorybybee6560
23 күн бұрын
Right!? I have yet to see one story about a dry wedding where the people wanting to drink are right.
@vindifference
22 күн бұрын
Exactly. Sadly, weddings are a great occasion to know who your fake friends are.
@roseburke9693
16 күн бұрын
The fact that he venmo requested him ON HIS WEDDING NIGHT and then said to his face yeah I did that because “I wouldn’t have gone to your wedding if I’d known I couldn’t drink” and then was like “am I the ah here??” Like seriously it’s not a party that’s supposed be your friend!!
@djjay-kay7636
10 күн бұрын
*free drinks to comp for a hotel
@cats1970
7 күн бұрын
What gets me most about it is they pre-gamed and were looking to get smashed enough they needed a hotel room (unable to care for their kids). AT SOMEONE ELSE'S WEDDING. I'm not a drinker in general but would DIE before planning to get drunk at someone else's wedding. Unless the couple explicitly stated they wanted that type of party it's insane to me. OP clearly has a friend group where all but one have a drining problem and they keep up their self image by telling each other they're normal and healthy.
The girl that accused her best friend and fiancé of having an affair and a love child, is so delulu. I think she just wanted an excuse to leave him.
@krissybaby375
23 күн бұрын
She was definitely delulu! I don’t think she wanted to leave. I think she was intimidated by the girl best friend, so much so, she created this crazy delulu situation where her fiancé fathered the best friend’s child. Her insecurities got the best of her.
@djjay-kay7636
10 күн бұрын
No she was definitely racist
I love Lauren’s response “what is up with this baby?” I’m a mom and wonder the same 😂
@nombusomngadi5110
6 күн бұрын
My nephew is the same way with my cousin. He's 3y.6m now and still terrified of my cousin, he's been this way since he was a baby and nobody knows why... could just be an energy thing
the holding your breath and not breathe plant air is INSANE. it really caught me off guard i screamed!!!
@misshell
24 күн бұрын
I listened at work and I really really had to hold back at an actual GAFFAW. Like wtf Delulu!!!
I honestly DESPISE the OP of the dry wedding story. I think I've said this before...if you NEED alcohol to be able to attend a wedding or any event you have a problem! Can't you enjoy yourself and support a friend without being sloshed for ONE night!? That's soooo sad. I'd block OP on every platform for this garbage. "I wouldn't have RSVPed if I had known it was a dry wedding" 🙄 sooo do you even like the person getting married? lol didn't we hear about one of these stories about a kids birthday being a dry event? I swear I remember complaining about a group of adults not wanting to attend a kid's bday party because they can't get drunk at a kids bday party...
@jessicapurdum5084
24 күн бұрын
Right?? And he’s awful for sending the Venmo request (at all) but especially on the night of their wedding!!
@katelyn6039
24 күн бұрын
You haven’t met my extended family then 🙃 they consider ANY event an excuse to drink and if they come to an event where alcohol isn’t served they are constantly talking about going to the bar after they leave. It’s sad.
@juliaortiz6483
23 күн бұрын
exactly! major YTA.
@roseburke9693
15 күн бұрын
As if the venmo request wasn’t bad enough but you said that to your “friend”?? If I heard that I’d be gutted and quite honestly pissed off! What an AH!
The office story about the cake, I think that person was absolutely being intentionally rude and is skewing the way she’s writing the story. She sounds like she doesn’t like this person at all and went out of her way to “forget” about her
@Tori.S.
21 күн бұрын
YUP. Sounds like she doesn’t like the attention the “cake lady” gets. Hence, declining the cake in favor of bringing her own, then celebrating during her meeting and then not even saving her a slice.
The girl who was learning Japanese's ex husband was literally abusing her and it makes me so sad that she still feels the need to defend him and say he's a "good person." He's not. He moved her away from her family and support system, controlled what she wore and what she spent her time on, and put her down constantly. There's obviously even worse things that he did that we just don't know about. Please, if any of that story feels at all familiar to you in the relationship you're in, get out. Make a plan, tell your loved ones about how they treat you, and leave them. How happy and confident she is now is a testament to how worth it it is to leave a person like that.
@popsssss
24 күн бұрын
It’s so typical, as someone who’s been in this position and in therapy for it I second your opinion! We are programmed by the abuser to feel responsible for the abuse we suffered and we keep them in this sympathetic image and it’s just not true. It takes years to see sometimes but we’re stronger than we think! Definitely make a plan and let people in your life know, do not keep it to yourself! That’s the power they have over you! As a survivor of 10 years, life gets better and you WILL remember/find who you are again, not their depiction of you! Sending love🩷
@yazzybananas3106
24 күн бұрын
I was thinking this too! When she said he only spoke two languages but criticized her. It was a reflection of himself. The thought of abuse/control immediately popped up for me. She needs to RUN. He didn’t have to say she was stupid, instead what he could’ve said “she needs to work on her grammar a little more but she’s getting there” and then tell her that he’s proud of her for learning. It’s like he’s giving her a difficult task, expecting her to fail, and if she starts to succeed, he knit picks at her faults. He’s definitely not in her best interest.
22 күн бұрын
Right? Made my blood boil.
@octoberbaby1422
Сағат бұрын
Sometimes it's just not that easy to leave, especially if there are kids involved, and you as the mom doesn't have a steady job or income, and yes I'm speaking out of experience, feel so stuck at times
The baby hating the mother in law is a real thing. My oldest just did NOT like my brother in law. Would cry any time she saw him. From a tiny newborn on. And he never did anything to her 😂 as a toddler he starting giving her candy and she warmed up eventually lolol
@denknees__
17 күн бұрын
Yes!!! My baby hates my mil 😭😭 but he's also the type where you have to work for his love and I've seen missed opportunities for them to bond when we visit so I don't really blame him
lauren is my favourite co-host! needed this today! i usually listen to everything on 1,75 speed, but put 1,25 here just to have an ep’s for a little longer
@maloumasereel966
24 күн бұрын
1.75x is crazy 😂 I would feel so overstimulated haha
@kseniak8781
24 күн бұрын
@@maloumasereel966nah I’m just fast talker and have adhd. everything is too slow for me usually. sometimes x2 not enough if I’m on one (like drink too much coffee, or stressed or smth)
@electricwizardmf
24 күн бұрын
You’re absolutely ruining your attention span 😂
@kseniak8781
24 күн бұрын
@@electricwizardmf fast talker, fast walker, i do everything fast lol i always said it was because of my adhd or smth they are just slow speakers for me
@maloumasereel966
24 күн бұрын
@@kseniak8781 Ohh if you have ADHD that makes sense ☺️ When I was working with ADHD patients I learned that an ADHD brain needs more input to keep the same level of engagement (in basic words, please don’t quote me bc it’s been 2 years lol)
Baby crys at Grandma story: Grandma might have a scent on her that triggers the baby crying. Perfume, hair products, deodorant, essential oils, clothes detergents. Its wild as heck, but I've heard of a baby who HATED their one family member only- turns out that family member was using an essential oil that the baby was allergic too or something 🤷
@SheSheBoom21
24 күн бұрын
Oh wow that so interesting.
@noprogressionisregression6854
24 күн бұрын
I know absolutely nothing about babies but that was my first thought. I thought it has to be some kind of a fragrance because as much as I'm sure babies can sense stress, this woman sounds like a wonderful lady.
@Raraking4796
24 күн бұрын
Good idea.! Scent is far more than just someone’s perfume especially when it comes to us ladies.! I was also wondering if grandma comes over once a week is she coming every time at the same time on the same day? Maybe grandma just has shitty timing? Like if the baby is a crabby patty in the mornings and grandma only visits in the morning but everyone else who has visited does so in the evening than that could also have something to do with it. Is the baby gassier on Wednesdays afternoons because of something Mom ate the night before on taco Tuesdays? It could be a lot that’s also not associated with grandma as well.
@ann6813kol
24 күн бұрын
But it doesn’t work if grandma could hold a baby when baby was disturbed by dad and didn’t look at her. So might be smth in her.. appearance maybe. Or really baby got scared by her and just remembered smth in her face. But it’s weird cos baby sees everything blurred in the beginning.. so idk
@alexthompson2857
19 күн бұрын
My guess is scent has a lot to do with it, OP should try getting grandma to wear one of your tshirts so maybe the bab recognizes mom’s scent on grandma, you can better start to build the bond that way.
1st story: The fact both girls tried switching the narrative and play the victim with the « You invaded her privacy » and « You hurt yourself by looking at the messages » really speaks volume to me. Like a toxic ex that you find out is cheating and they blame you for looking through their phones.. LEAVE!
As a parent, I'm not forcing a bond with my child and ANYONE. My eldest didn't like my mom for the longest time. If I face-timed her, he would hang up on her. If she tried to talk to him he would scream. Guess what, now that he's four he loves my mom. When we go to visit he runs to her and gives her big hugs. It sucks that grandma and dad have hurt feelings but it doesn't matter, your job should be to foster HEALTHY relationships with other people. Just like now with my kids being older, they don't have to hug or kiss anyone they don't want to.
@_rileyvictoria_
24 күн бұрын
When I was a baby my papa was my fav person but then it switched to my grandma. Kids are just funny and choose poeple to fixate on
@colbieads5536
24 күн бұрын
Agreed! For the first 9 months of a babies life after birth they literally are incapable of lowering their own cortisol level. They rely on their moms to coregulate them. This is why only the mom is able to calm the baby when it gets upset. Continuing to upset the baby to try and make dad and grandma feel better is NOT good for that baby. Also, babies don't need to bond with anyone but mom and dad at that age. They don't understand that social circle yet. It will happen as the baby gets older in its own way.
@octoberbaby1422
Сағат бұрын
The statement that only mom's can calm down their own baby is simply not true though. I'm known as the baby whisperer, all babies I've met and interacted with, come to me, play with me, fall asleep in my arms, my uncle also has that gift, I genuinely love babies, best anti depressant there is for me 😊
That's crazy to blame your "friend" who you've been bullying for a year
@yoyohayli
24 күн бұрын
I literally just saw a guy covering that reddit post, too...AND HE BLAMED HER, TOO! Like, he cared more about the snooping than the vitriol they seem to be sectetly harboring for her. I was ASTOUNDED. EDIT: Now that I point that out...I wonder if he has things on his phone he'd prefer stay hidden from his significant other or friends...perhaps things that would make them realize they should leave him?
@mollyblower3868
24 күн бұрын
@@yoyohayli drop his page i get so mad when people are caught doing something wrong and then blame the victim
@ahoycapnlizzie
24 күн бұрын
@@yoyohayliwho is this man?!!!!?
@cats1970
7 күн бұрын
They need her to play along because they've been pretending it's not bullying if she'd be fine with it
For the momma: ask mother in law to change soap/shampoo/lotion. My baby does not like my mother in laws lotion. He gets really fussy because the smell clings to him all day. We started having to give baths after she left so he would calm down and nap.
Dry wedding: Wtf is wrong with the whole "friend" group? Yall really said yall wouldnt have shown up if yall knew there wasnt any alcohol...yeah I have a feeling that dude knew yall were shitty firends and thats exactly why he didn't tell yall
@Tues48
24 күн бұрын
But wouldn't you want to tell them in that case. Why trick people you know are only there cause you kept the truth from.them. the minute they found out they left. I would rather know that before paying for thier seat at the wedding.
@hayamirin6795
24 күн бұрын
@Tues48 There is no tricking anyone. Absolutely no one was tricked. Tricked is saying "Hey everyone there is going to be a bar at the venue" but then the bar only serves soft drinks. Don't assume there is alcohol somewhere if they don't specifically say it
@cats1970
7 күн бұрын
@@Tues48 If you need alcohol to get through a wedding, it's your adult responsibility to ask if they'll have the option. Same as people who simply need a meat option vs vegetarian weddings. Hell, they could even stash a bottle of wodka in their car just in case. But that would confront them with how much that looks like they have an alcohol problem. And it's fair that they're angry they "wasted" the Uber and hotel room on a dry event. This makes it double their responsibility to confirm they will be drinking at the event. Assuming anything beyond legal and wasting money is on you, not the other party. It takes 2 minutes tops to confirm what you assumed in the first place.
The plant guy story was hilarious. That's like me charging my roommates a "snuggle fee" for using the blankets I make. It's my hobby and they are kind enough to put up with it. Oh my the delulu is strong with this one.😂
@maggiedk
24 күн бұрын
Seriously, as a person who has over 100 plants myself (I have a problem lmao), I can't IMAGINE acting that entitled and ridiculous about it. I would just be thankful that they allowed me to keep so many plants in our common space! Even IF they were right about plants making a significant difference in air quality, I feel like that's just a trade-off for allowing them to take up room in common areas lol.
I think op with the awful husband now speaks 5 languages. The husband made the comment, “you know 4 languages so another shouldn’t be so hard”. Not to be annoying, but that OP deserves her credit for language intelligence.
As a spanish speaker learning English I absolutly LOVE when Morgan uses Idioms, I always thought no one used them but our Mogan does 😂. I love this podcast, three years ago I needed subtitles to understand and now you helped me learn a lot!
@popcorn1304
24 күн бұрын
That's honestly so cool! Love that for you!
@soya-chaap
24 күн бұрын
yayy that is so cool! best of luck w the journey
@katrinascarlet5637
24 күн бұрын
When I was 4 I learned English mainly from watching Lion King and Pocahontas. Then I moved to Disney channel lol.
@chazzwozzio
4 күн бұрын
English is a very fun and weird language. Like 3 languages in a trenchcoat it is
The plant story has GOT to be a troll. No way its real enough for the roommates to ask for Reddit's opinion.
My son at 9 months developed a fear of men with beards. It took him a while to get over it. He’s a bearded man now. lol 😂😂😂
@catT5236
24 күн бұрын
Talk about facing his fears, things could have gotten hairy there! .... I'll see myself out.
Lauren don’t you ever feel bad your presence is essential to every episode you’re in. Your thoughts and personality shine and the audience couldn’t appreciate it more
A least charitable perspective of OP's actions in Story 2 is that they went out of their way to make sure the coworker was excluded from OP's birthday celebration: 1. They declined coworker baking a cake when they coworker usually does. 2. They intentionally scheduled the celebration at the specific time coworker was busy that day. 3. They did not save coworker a slice of cake. I don't believe OP was necessarily this malicious, but their actions could be construed as purposefully and methodically excluding the coworker. Nevertheless, OP was quite rude.
@LittleAF88
23 күн бұрын
I agree, except that I do believe OP was being malicious. This feels too intentional not to be. Sometimes mean girls/boys don’t fully realise that they are an AH because they think everyone thinks the way they do
@randomtology
21 күн бұрын
Yeah I fully agree, except I do think it was malicious. OP went out of their way to exclude their coworker in every way. I think it's very telling that the OP just stuck to the barebones facts and did not go into WHY they choose to bake their own cake instead of accepting the coworkers. To turn down a free cake and go through the effort to make your own- there's gotta be a reason for it. It'd be one thing if they said "oh I really love baking" and/or "I'm really particular about my cakes/ingredients" -- but they didn't. So that really says to me they did it to spite the coworker and didn't want to admit to it.
Lauren, don't you dare stop laughing. It's contagious, and makes people's day 🌻
@Lauren-ib3ok
24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much 😄💛
My entire wedding was less than $10,000 😭😭 that woman is ridiculous, she is owed nothing.
I’m only like three minutes into the episode and I can already tell that I like this version of Morgan better who’s not stressing over being canceled and every single person’s opinion like girl we love your authentic self that’s it point blank. Keep it up.
Took me 40 min to realize you were saying get unhinged instead of get on hinge like the dating app. That makes a lot more sense!🤦🏻♀️
@LydiaTaylorMusic
24 күн бұрын
I heard Hinge too 😅
Sorry to hear you're feeling burnt out Morgan, I hope you take a break soon! I would much rather you take a few weeks off than lose you forever ❤ prioritize your mental health hun
@kirbyhalsey5597
24 күн бұрын
It made me so sad that she isn’t having fun! I hope she finds joy in it again! Burn out is so real though!
Timestamps~ Story 1 - 7:36 Story 2 - 17:02 Story 3 - 25:25 Story 4 - 38:15 Story 5 - 48:34 Story 6 - 58:16 Story 7 - 1:14:47 Story 8 - 1:29:27
The plant story is hilarious, he should pay extra to the roommates for using all the communal space for these plants. 😂
Now y’all need the Hannah Montana translation music during sponsor breaks 💀
Lauren needs to stop caring what people think, this is called Two Hot Takes for a reason, people are going to hate you either way you might as well just say what you want! Love Lauren and your team of cohosts Morgan!
Currently listening and THE BAKING STORY omg! I bake for my coworkers birthdays and hand over the baked goods and say “hand them out to whoever you’d like” and EVERY SINGLE TIME they don’t give me any. My birthday is coming up July 1st and I KNOW that no one will be baking for me 😩
@TwoHotTakes
24 күн бұрын
NO MORE BAKING FOR THESE JERKS!!!! I'd love to send you a lil cookie
@Vanessa-fs7oz
21 күн бұрын
That is super sweet of you! Do you think they just assume you already took whatever slice/cookie/pastry you wanted? That is 100% what I would assume if someone showed up with baked goods that they made themself. I would assume, since you made it, you have some set aside or maybe back at home for you to enjoy yourself, or maybe you already ate your share and wanted to just give away the rest. Why not just make sure to grab as many as you want before telling everyone to take as many as they want? Also, you don't need to bake for anyone at all, and definitely shouldn't if you feel underappreciated for all the effort. Not everyone bakes or even cooks so I definitely wouldn't assume that anyone will return the favor, unfortunately. It's just not a guarantee with something like cooking. Maybe they could buy you a sweet treat, but not everyone is that thoughtful. If it's something you love doing and enjoy being generous with (I know I love to share what I cook with others too), then just make sure to set aside whatever you want to keep. I hope that someone surprises you with a birthday treat, regardless!
Lauren DO NOT STOP LAUGHING! I love you and Morgan together. You make me feel like I have friends 😭 Like I'm just sitting chatting it up with the girlies every time I listen to you. Love you guys! Morgan you are doing AMAZING SWEETTTIIIEEEE
@Lauren-ib3ok
24 күн бұрын
🩷🩷🩷🩷 we love you!!!!
@samt3125
22 күн бұрын
SAME. Sometimes I will actually respond out loud to what they are saying, as if I’m there with them 😂 so much love for these fabulous women, plus Justin and Alejandra.
Omg thank god I’ve started to run out of episodes 😭😭
@jaymelhuillier
24 күн бұрын
Same!!!!
I'VE NEVER BEEN THIS EARLY. I LOVE YOU GUYS. ALSO, I would call what Morgan uses "Malaphors" (A malaphor is the unintentional combination of two idioms or clichés.) They always make me laugh.
We all appreciate the work that goes into your podcast Morgan. Remember people in mainstream jobs have sick days, annual leave etc where they truly are able to leave their workplace at work and recharge. I can appreciate that would be harder for you exisiting on social media. Not to mention- some of these stories are heavy I imagine being the one commentating on them would be fatiguing at times. I hope you’re able to take some extended time where you feel ‘ logged off’ and are able to relax.
New theme idea sparked by the cake story: “ villain origin story”
It hurts my heart to hear you are having such a tough time. I just recently discovered your channel and have been binging all your videos. I hope you can get all the love and support you need and can find motivation to keep going. I also hope you can find joy in it. ❤
@Nellbae
24 күн бұрын
I was going to leave my own comment, but you said it all for me . ❤💛
The roommate story reminds me of a former roommate that bought all new times for our shared bathroom (like carpets and shower curtains, etc) not because we needed them, but because he felt like making it look nicer, and then got upset when we didn’t want to pay him back. No one asked you to redecorate and the bathroom was perfectly fine before that
@hellintheclouds7074
24 күн бұрын
I’m literally redoing my bathroom rn and the only thing I got from my fiancé was approval to do so. Could NEVER ask him to pay for that and he’s my partner!!
@minxymoo2325
24 күн бұрын
@hellintheclouds7074 Well shows what kind of husband he'll be... your husband SHOULD offer to help pay for home expenses. He isn't a roommate, he's someone you are marrying. It's not even remotely the same. Have fun being the live in bang roommate wife. All the benefits of having a wife but he doesn't have to be a husband.
@miisa_
23 күн бұрын
@@minxymoo2325okay you need to chill a little bit attacking this random commenter.. Not everything has to be 50/50 even in a married home. She wants to redecorate the bathroom and pay for it, maybe fiancé will pay for something else in the house that they both use
Morgan is so funny she always says something off like “the punctual feathered creature shall receive the centipede” 😭😭
@khethiwezwane2481
24 күн бұрын
😂 always makes me giggle. English is my second language, so I'm not judging at all.
Comment about baby story. Babies and children definitely can hold their breath while panicking or throwing tantrums. My fiancé was one of them. His mom would have to blow in his face to get him to breathe and as he got into older toddler ages, he still did it. Doctor even advised his mom to throw water on him if he does it because it will make him breathe since he would also hold his breath until he passed out. Morgan, I am also terrified of babies, especially considering my fiancé was that child. I feel the odds will be against me.☠️😂
@shelby_button
24 күн бұрын
My godmom did it and the doctor flat out said “let her. She’ll realize passing out is not fun real fast” 😂💀 granted that was 50 something years ago lol
No cake left post: This story reminds me of what happened to my mom. My mom works as a CNA at an assisted living facility, management sucks when it comes to being considerate of their workers as in they don't provide coffee or water bottles. My mom took it upon herself to bring her personal coffee maker, filtered water, coffee, sugar, and creamer for her shift and would pack them up at the end of her shift. Well someone stole her coffee maker, thankfully it wasn't expensive and my mom had bought it secondhand, but still. Since then there has been no coffee available for the CNAs since it hasn't been returned and my mom is still angry about it. My mom now takes with her a full vacuumed sealed cup for herself, and that's it.
@isaacmedina4653
24 күн бұрын
Ugh who steals a coffee maker? People suck and your mom is smart to bring her own cup from now on!
@socialnoob4853
24 күн бұрын
to steal a cheap second-hand coffee maker? it had to be a personal attack. whoever did it, did it to spite her 🙄
@itssteph263
24 күн бұрын
@@socialnoob4853 my mom believes that it might have been a known thief, management doesn't care as long as she's not stealing form patients and her friends cover for her on any accusations. Unfortunately the break room doesn't have a camera, and no one saw the thief.
@kasm_nME
24 күн бұрын
She should get another cheap one and set up a hidden ring camera. I would bet money it's a jealous butthead🙄
@alliebrowning8875
24 күн бұрын
@@itssteph263 It really sucks but honestly does not surprise me. Caregivers can be SO catty in ALFs. Working at facilities was sometimes like being in high school again.
Story 1: I was in a similar situation and I ended up distancing myself. They noticed of course and now they’re upset that I don’t speak to them anymore. Like you guys know exactly what y’all did, I am not going to allow them access to me anymore.
@DOCTOR_K99
24 күн бұрын
i had the exact same situation happen to me sophomore year of high school. we’re 24 now and they STILL talk shit about me over it.
@xmlauj8260
24 күн бұрын
Unfortunately, some people will never take accountability for what they did wrong. I sometimes want to say to people like that, “You can drag my name all you want, but don’t forget to also tell them that all the good things that I did for you AND what you did to me to deserve my current behavior towards you.”
@EvyC223
24 күн бұрын
good for you for prioritizing yourself! I’m sorry that happened :(
@Vanessa-fs7oz
22 күн бұрын
The sad thing about this situation is it's clear people like that only really bonded through bullying someone together, so when their bully target goes away, they get grumpy because now they're bored not having someone to talk about. Those people are addicted to drama. I'm sure your life is better without fake friends like them!
Bro, the last one pisses me off. We knew our parents' financial issues as young as 12/13. They always kept it age-appropriate, but they didn't want us to feel less or resent them for things we couldn't have that our friends did. In return, we always understood that our parents were giving us as much they could and only surrounded ourselves with people who wouldn't make us feel lesser for having less than them. Your daughter is 28, tell her you just can't afford it.
I once cried in high school because I bought myself a pint of cookies and cream ice cream and I thought about it all day long… literally drooling in class thinking about it and when I came home my dad had eaten it. I’ll never get over it lmao
For the new mother, MIL should spend the whole day with the baby when the mother doesn't need to be there. Let the husband deal with the screaming all day.
LOLLLL the clean air fee story is so funny when research suggests that houseplants only marginally clean the air within the house, it would take so many plants to make a drastic difference in the purity of the air so OP's suggestion is ridiculous
@misshell
24 күн бұрын
Yep! It would have to be a literal greenhouse/tropical forest!
@thefatefish
24 күн бұрын
I'm so happy to see someone else comment this 😂
Just opened KZread to find something to watch while I clean, perfect timing!!
The plant story: if I were one of those roommates, I'd be asking OP to pay extra rent for the livable space their plants take up.
For the baby not standing MIL Story: My daughter couldn't look at my FIL for months, maybe from 5 months old to 1.1 years. She would cry everytime he approached her or even looked at her. He's super loving so we didn't understand but we think its because he's bald. It just made her nervous. She got over it a few weeks after 1.1 years. So I would advice OP and her family to try to wait it out, and not force it because it makes it worse.
Hi special needs teacher here! For the story with the baby who “hates” grandma the fact that mom is the only one who can regulate her is a potential red flag 10 months is young and a lot can change but that cannot continue or that could develop into anxiety and unhealthy attachment styles.
For the baby mother in law story: the baby is definitely the asshole. The mom in law did nothing to the baby to be treated that way. And the baby is taking the unwarranted hate out on their own parents! I don’t usually say this but I think the mom should break up with the baby. (I’m being sarcastic btw lol)
cake story- I would make a new cake for the lady that missed out and host a surprise party for her to give her the cake while the co-workers are there, make it seem like it's a meeting but it's actually a surprise cake party for her to show her that she really is appreciated and you lot dropped the ball this time but you're making amends now. you still suck but this is how you could make it up to her and say you're sorry.
@Soyunakaren
24 күн бұрын
This is adorable
@lifewuzonceezr
24 күн бұрын
She did it to be mean..
morgan, “it’s okay to be unhinged” NEEDS to be the theme for an episode!!!
As soon as you started Reading the part about they met online and she moved with him. It reminds me of a story you read previously about guys who will find women from "submissive" countries and try to control and manipulate them
These timestamps ☹️
I would love if they reread some of the stories from their older episodes and see if they're opinions had changed, Two Hot Retakes
as a scottish listener, title alone already has me hooked 😌
The cake story is a perfect example how a caring person gets taken advantage of or just ignored. My heart hurts for that lady.
As if it’s not bad enough to send your friend a Venmo request for all the decisions YOU made for the night as if your presence should be paid for; then you make it clear that you don’t give a single f*ck about your friend and only care about booze. While it’s great to get a night out with your spouse, especially when you have kids, someone else’s event is not meant to be your dream date night. It’s a night of rolling with the punches for the sake of the love for your friend. You don’t get to make assumptions etc about how you feel the night should go to “make you happy”. I agree with Lauren that it would’ve been a nice thing to add to the invite the same way you’d add “child free” but the idea this op would’ve declined after seeing that is soooo pathetic. Obviously they’re not true friends. Anyone important enough to come to your wedding should be stoked to partake in that special moment with or without alcohol, their kids, etc.
Wow they don't care about their friend they just wanted a party. You can't have one event without alcohol really?!?!
yesterday was my unhinged day. i was crying so hard bc my husband didn’t want to come to toyota w me😂😂
@shelby_button
24 күн бұрын
I’m in my third trimester and I think every day is unhinged day lately 🤣🤣
@kirbyhalsey5597
24 күн бұрын
I was laughing so hard that she said once a week I’m like… wow I need more than that 😂😂😂
Morgan, I need you to read this: I cannot imagine how difficult it is to be a normal person quickly thrust into the public eye and media space. Hearing how hard it has been for you to keep it pushing through the negativity really broke my heart. Once I found your podcast, I instantly began binging. Over the last few months, you guys have become a comfort show for me. I love hanging out with my sweet group of pals from Minnesota. You truly don’t deserve any sort of hate. The thing is Morgan, people project. As someone who has experienced a multitude of childhood traumas, I have been in regular therapy for years; and as someone who has an insatiably curious mind, I have also been studying human behavior and psychology in my own time. I’m hyper vigilant and I pay close attention to new people is the point I’m getting at here. After just a few episodes, I knew you, Lauren, Ale, and Justin were safe people. Sure, you get lost in your passion at times, but it’s because you’re all deeply feeling individuals. You quickly come back down to earth it and welcome balance into your takes. All of you. You guys give as much kindness as you can from the perspectives that you have, and when you are exposed to different perspectives, you try to open up your perspective to include those. People will always find a reason to be upset if they want to be upset. And if they are confronted with something they don’t like about themselves, they will project it onto others to share the pain. I don’t always agree with you guys, but I’m positive you’re are coming from a genuine and loving place in most cases. If you haven’t pursued individual therapy, I think it would be a good idea, regardless of how you move forward with the podcast. You’re a badass, Morgan! Intelligent, empathetic, headstrong, and incredibly hard working. I love having you guys around on here, and it hope to come say hi at a live show someday!
The story with the crying baby and the mother in law. The baby may have reacted organically the first time. After that it may have been sensing its mom’s tension when the mother anticipated the baby to cry. Babies can sense that. As well as the grandma also feeling tense in fear the baby will react.
Concerning the story about the mother-in-law and the baby, I always think to Justin says that we only hear one side of the story. There’s always going to be a unreliable narrator because it’s always gonna be from one person’s point of view. When I hear her say she’s the only one that can calm down the baby, that does remind me of some phrasing I’ve heard before with people who go through postpartum depression.
Story 2: this is exactly the type of thing that would make me go home and cry. It's one thing to be excluded, but it always stings more to not even be thought of.
My baby's crying caused me physical pain, felt like burning needles going up my spine.
the dry wedding story: yta u REALLY need alcohol to have fun??? f off. U could have gotten drunk at your hotel after the wedding....
@hayamirin6795
24 күн бұрын
LITERALLY
@zeniacolleen4966
24 күн бұрын
Right? All this tells me is that the couple are alcoholics lol totally asshole like behaviour
@unscmistressgaming1132
24 күн бұрын
I think ETA. It was beyond rude to Venmo your friend for all those expenses. It’s also rude to say that you wouldn’t even go to the wedding because it’s dry. That just means that your ability to have fun is more important than supporting your friend. They can have their wedding however they want. HOWEVER, the norm is having alcohol at weddings. If there is no other indication that it would be dry (I.e. they don’t drink, they are a known recovering alcoholic, religion, etc.), the polite thing to do is to inform your guests so they can plan accordingly.(get drinks before, leave a little early to get drinks after, no spend the money for all those expenses in preparation for being drunk, etc.) It’s not that they CAN’T have fun without alcohol, but drinking for some does add to the fun and can be relaxing if not over done. Especially when you have kids, going out and letting loose is rare and some look forward to that. So, informing your guests of the dry wedding is the considerate thing to do. That’s just my opinion though.
@hayamirin6795
24 күн бұрын
@unscmistressgaming1132 OK so what I heard from this was you are also entitled. Goodbye
@marianatraductoraargentina
24 күн бұрын
@@unscmistressgaming1132 i get your point but if tell people "dry wedding" they will ask WHY and you know they wont stop asking until u tell them that u have relatives who are recovering from alcohol and some would go to the wedding and "have a grudge" against those relatives and so on or people would show up drunk (sometimes even late because they are drunk) and how the relatives would feel if they literally have to "face themselves" "see themselves" drunk/others drunk imagine u have a gambling addiction and other people show to the wedding ready to gamble with a deck of cards.....u can gamble later, u dont need to do it at the wedding. and if u have kids, pay a babysitter and go out, dont expect other peoples event to be about YOU finally going out
I think they should have told people it was a dry wedding. Other than that, that dude is an asshole.
@noprogressionisregression6854
24 күн бұрын
I completely agree. I think people assume there's going to be alcohol at a wedding and maybe a healthy drinker with use it as an excuse to celebrate as well as turning loose for the weekend. I think because it is a social norm, just putting it out there it would have been better.
@MsSmile300
23 күн бұрын
I don't see why it matters if you tell them or not. The point of a wedding is to celebrate the couple. It isn't just some party solely for your enjoyment.
@Vanessa-fs7oz
22 күн бұрын
Idk, to be honest, I think putting that it's a dry wedding sometimes backfires because people intentionally try to sneak alcohol in or bring their own, or show up drunk. Or, if there is a relative who has an alcohol problem, whether recovering or not, they might feel uncomfortable or embarrassed to see it announced that the wedding is dry probably because of them.
Cake story really got me had to comment again... Just wanted to share my own personal story that happened recently. I have a lot of friend's birthdays in April and May... My birthday is April 27. I never expect presensts, but a card would be nice. I don't have a lot of extra spending money so I made a bunch of homemade gifts (roses I handmade and dipped into different scented waxes to put in the drawers/closet...I had made flower arrangements from the plants from my garden and a small store bought gift to go along. It made it cry when my birthday came and not even a card I received... And cards are always the most important to me... Just wanted to share, I'm still feeling a bit hurt... It's important to show people you care, even in a simple act ❤❤❤
@khethiwezwane2481
24 күн бұрын
So sorry that happened to you. Belated happy birthday 🎈🎂
First off, everyone's' laughs are nice. Nothing pisses me off more than hearing others complain about someone's laugh. It's part of them! Don't feel embarrassed about yourselves. Also, thank you Morgan for repping the "Muddled Words and Phrases" folks. My mom and I are exactly the same, mimicing my grandmother who would delightfully mix things up. "Oh dear, could you put this thingamabob in the whoseewhatzee?" Never freaking change.
This is my third comment 😂 but my son hated my grandpa at first! When we moved back to my hometown to be closer to my family, every single time my grandpa came over, my son would scream bloody murder and wriggle away but he got over it in like 6 months. now and for the last ~2 years they’ve been bffs. He LOVES him now. I think the fact that my grandpa presents as a different race than me maybe freaked him out, but now that he’s met my whole family (who all present much darker than I do) he’s very comfortable now. I have to believe that’s what did it because my grandpa is literally so gentle and kind, couldn’t say enough good things about him!
Absolutely love Lauren and I hope she knows how much we adore seeing her and hearing her takes! ❤❤
My heart goes out to y’all. I’m worried about how the comments are affecting you. I hope you have someone filtering the comments that make it to you. 💜 You deserve to feel safe and free on your own platform 💜
@Lauren-ib3ok
24 күн бұрын
💛💛💛💛
Not Morgan saying conscience baby said I do SHE SAID MEEEE GET IT RIGHT! 😭🤣
1:05:49 Morgan: "Just a potato" got me laughing so hard that was so dry my god😂😂 love her wordings so much! Also there's never an episode where she doesn't bring the camels back into this! Love that❤️
Dry Wedding Story: At least in my experience, alcohol is not a default thing at weddings. I go to at least one wedding every year (usually 2 or 3 though) and most are dry. I actually am surprised when there’s alcohol at a wedding (Not mad, I don’t care either way. Your wedding, your choice.) Part of it is that I know a lot more conservative people, so that’s probably why. All that to say, I think this is a cultural thing. If it’s the norm in your area/social circle that the wedding includes alcohol, maybe include in the invitation if the wedding is dry. Same thing if you have a nonalcoholic community and the wedding has alcohol. I think that’s a nice thing to do, but definitely not an obligation though. OP is definitely the AH here.
Im the cake person 🥲 I used to bake whole 8” cakes from scratch with expensive frosting for my friend’s birthday and bring it to school to eat at lunch, but everyone always made plans during my bday cause it was in the summer 🫣🫣 I dont do it anymore…
@lifewuzonceezr
24 күн бұрын
Ya have that one moment..and Nope F it
I do drink, but I think it's incredibly sad how people act like it's impossible to have fun sober. That whole friend group needs to evaluate their relationship with alcohol.
i LOVE when Lauren is on!!! One of my fave co-hosts!! Also currently taking my first France trip with my family and we learned that they start school at 3 here and immediately start learning English and then in junior high, they pick another language to learn!! We’re a little embarrassed that we only know English and a bit of French. People who know multiple languages are so smart!!!
Fresh off the press 😜
Plant Lady needs to start paying the roommates $25 a month for the space, light and water she is using for the plants
Maybe open a twitch ? For live show online, feedback in realtime
I'd come back to the plant mom with charging her 'plant rent' for all the extra space she's taking up 😂
Lauren is the best! I always get wayy too excited whenever a new Two Hot Takes episode comes out with her. ❤ THIS MADE MY WHOLE WEEEK, NO....YEAR! 🎉
Attention to Morgan: YOU'RE ALLOWED TO TAKE A BREAK
thank you for mentioning Moose and JuniperFox ❤ RIP Moose
The story about the friend requesting a paternity test on OP’s kid has me laughing bc lady have you lost your marbles??? To think we’ll still be cool after that😂😂
The dry wedding story- if no alcohol being there, is that big of a deal to you that you LEAVE and want compensation- then you’re the shittiest friend alive & didn’t deserve an invitation. It’s disgusting how alcohol is considered a “must” for social gatherings. The newly weds could be sober. Regardless, it’s their choice & you’re a shit person, along with the people that “walked out with you”. I can’t imagine how that couple felt, but I’m sure their lives are a lot better without you!! -coming from a person that is 5 years sober next month & will ALSO be having a dry wedding 🥰❤️