Just don’t destroy yourself Ian. First step in saving the city is saving yourself. Be the light…

@tropics8407

2 жыл бұрын

Whoh…Just let that brilliance come out. 🙌 pls don’t let it be suppressed with drugs. We need your voice, we need your example 🙏

@GaliciaSekulska

2 жыл бұрын

He is the light … this interview is how you bring light.

@iancastor6548

2 жыл бұрын

I posted it on my story the link to the interview and I had received some text this morning when I woke up from family feeling that I threw family members under the bus talk to openly I don't care I spoke about what is true to me and what I've been through I didn't do this for any of the comments or any of the views I did it because I had an opportunity to speak and quite frankly I think I have a lot to give this world and there's so many other people out there that do too they just need their stories to be heard

@boneyn3661

2 жыл бұрын

Your advice arrived a little late

@theonenonly122

2 жыл бұрын

@@iancastor6548 focus on getting yourself to the right place first, once you’ve done that then you’re in an opportunity to change things. All your views will change after that happens. Speaking from somebody who’s saved themself.

I hope one day he comes back to Chicago and can get the drug use behind him. An articulate insightful young man like him might make some positive changes here. His comments on how to overcome racism in society are pure gold.

This interview was refreshing. Ian is genuine & a very accurate reflection of the Chi. So young but insightful & articulate of his experience. I admire how kind & personable he has remained despite his traumatic upbringing. Truly a gem 💎 Stick around Ian…the world needs more of you.

@johnboy6594

2 жыл бұрын

Totally Agreed.

@Hintedbymarina

2 жыл бұрын

absolutely!

@kellyholowachuk5816

2 жыл бұрын

Incredibly beautiful

@ReneBechard

2 жыл бұрын

Hear, hear!

@ericbryant2464

2 жыл бұрын

Agree the cardi superficial statement is how reflective glamour is

Once again, I am a humble, grateful student~~ listening to these kids. I just turned 54 and I need these fresh, honest voices in this wilderness that we all share these days. Thank you Mark~~Thank you Ian~~ your efforts change my life. Beautiful minds give me LIFE.

@poisonedchrist7802

2 жыл бұрын

People need to look up the facts and come up with a war on poverty plan I have one in a playlist on my channel called war on poverty plan

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Ian is helping me keep going, with his inspiration! I am also a (eternal) student!

@ShellMaky

2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't agree more❤❤

@boneyn3661

2 жыл бұрын

@@brittaolson6550 How are those student loans going?

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

@@boneyn3661 I say that tongue-in-cheek. have a disability from an injury I got since my first go around in school, so my choices are to count myself out or retrain to work “skilled professional.” That’s straight from my doctor, but I didn’t need a doctor to tell me that. I definitely don’t recommend taking the long route through school, following your bliss. My advice is to find out what specific educational credentials you need to do what you want to do, and focus in to get through school as quickly as possible, while getting those. Make sure you get credit along the way. Finish an Associate’s on the way to a bachelor’s, and a Master’s on the way to a Ph.D, unless it takes more time & steps. A lot of people just don’t stop and apply for degrees they have already earned. I did that, so I have 2 degrees to build on. If you can do physical labor, there are still career tracks you can work your way through, like CNA, LPN, then RN for nursing, so you don’t have to get loans the whole time. If you come from poverty and want to be a licensed psychologist, get a year or 15 month Chemical Dependency Certificate and add an LADC, then a master’s in clinical psychology. That way, you’re making money and building your career. Careers with certifications along the way tend to be better than general degrees, for getting out of poverty, unless you’re a prodigy on scholarship. If so, by all means, blaze through! Loans definitely make it hard/impossible for people to actually attain a higher social class. Student loans are gold..don’t let family members, partners, or friends guilt you out of any of them! Making it to college is not “making it!” As a first generation college student. I’ve had to deal with this. There’s no room anymore to “just take classes…” make sure every class gets you closer to graduation. If there are options after that, choose between goals. If you see that a department doesn’t value you or support your progress, only then consider a switch. Don’t commit to a weak program. Find out how long it has been around, the graduation rate, and placement in the field. I have had this approach in the past, and I continue to. However, I did learn the hard way about weak programs. I had a couple programs fold, that I was in, which is a huge loss. Definitely not something to take lightly but I wouldn’t be scared of it. If your mind is your best commodity, it’s worth it. If your mind is your ONLY commodity, you’ve got nothing to lose.

Good Morning from CHICAGO it is 5:32 am . THANK YOU IAN AND MARK for this interview. IAN is so wise beyond his years. He spoked the absolute truth about CHICAGO. I wish him the best in life.

@flailingmonk6659

2 жыл бұрын

Wow, I’d be so thankful if I were Ian

@Spyder420Rican

2 жыл бұрын

From somebody who grew up in the park he aint lying

@gurumayne8684

2 жыл бұрын

Do you like Chicago?

@SKF_

2 жыл бұрын

I disagree. Police need to be tougher in chicago. Especially in black neighborhoods. - north shore citizens

@sbalsamo410

2 жыл бұрын

This kid nailed it about Chicago.

I'm from 60644. I'm a psychiatric nurse pursuing my PMHNP license. When he mentioned the Churches chicken on Austin and Lake I almost lost it lol, he knows his stuff. I hope to collaborate with you on something great Mark. Best of luck to him.

@xxmimixx2

2 жыл бұрын

I'm from a different zip code but I know the area cause one of my best friends use to live near the forest Park Blue line 😭.

I like this young man, he has a clear view of the world around him. He also has some clear ideas of how to make that world better. I hope he can use his art and ability to converse to make his ideals known. I wish him the very best in life and hope he comes back again.

Living in Chicago, he’s speaking straight facts, the d.a.r.e shirt is the icing on the cake/interview

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

I’m thinking it’s ironic, which is even better!

@mongogojjo5944

2 жыл бұрын

@@brittaolson6550 ugh 95% of people who wear d.a.r.e shirts are wearing them ironically

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

@@mongogojjo5944 I know. I have done the same, but 20 years ago. Still, it’s the only way to wear a DARE shirt. I was trying to be diplomatic, just in case the person didn’t see it that way.

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

@@mongogojjo5944 Lol I guess everyone’s aware. I have missed a lot of sleep lately! Had a horrible medication interaction and been 3 weeks off my lithium (doctor’s orders), so it’s a blur…. Pharmacies are doling out these ancient antibiotics, due to COVID shortages of kinder ones, and it’s hard to even expect to live through the side effects, much less remain the sharpest tack in the drawer, at all times. Or at any time! I’m not a whiner about meds, either…I’ve taken a cocktail my whole life, for chronic illness. Crazy times we’re living in.

@joemuffin789

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think it's a real dare shirt..it looks weird. Like those sarcastic weedies shirts.

As a Chicagoan we need more advocates like this in our city, I hope you can come back and make some great change here!

So impressed by his intelligence, introspection, depth, so much more...not enough room to say it all.. Please follow your dreams. Your potential is limitless

@SharonBenson2674

2 жыл бұрын

Agree 100%

@marylougeorge9890

2 жыл бұрын

Truth!👍

@thesunflowerpirate

2 жыл бұрын

Really?

@CarlottaTrouble

2 жыл бұрын

@@thesunflowerpirate shame shame...Really? Didn't anyone ever teach you about if you don't have anything nice to say??or but for the grace of God there go I smh. Really? If u didn't understand my comment you're part of the problem:(i hope someday you will

@marylougeorge9890

2 жыл бұрын

@@CarlottaTrouble 👍

that was a great way to end my first mother's day. I have a little baby. I'm a sole parent. the state of the world is grim at best. this morning I had a pain in my chest thinking that this beautiful time in my life with my daughter will end as everything does. wondering how she'll fare alone in the uncertainty of life. if we've got young Ian's truly understanding the flaws of the system and talking to each other about it, we've got hope.

Welcome to being an adult human being in America. It does not get much better and it is what you make it. Do what you can, be a good person and help others. That's about it.

@jeffbenzos9223

2 жыл бұрын

That's how it is everywhere.

@shannonwalters6839

2 жыл бұрын

We always say that and we have normalized this and thats the problem the have nots outnumber the haves inflation middle class is now poor we are so numb and not empathetic toward one another

gosh, i was completely unaware of the world when I was 22. I'm still guilty of it. This guy is great. Soft White has the most honest and real content on the internet.

@boneyn3661

2 жыл бұрын

You're so right. This guy is such a shining light of what youth should all strive to be

He didn't address his addiction in depth but once he overcomes his opioid addiction he will be able to take that next step in life that he wants. Dude is smart & has a vision.

@jones2277

2 жыл бұрын

he avoided talking about his own problems and spent his whole time blaming everyone else.

@DickDickerson01

2 жыл бұрын

@@jones2277 How junkies think 101

@sciencenotstigma9534

2 жыл бұрын

@@jones2277 He is not defined by his addiction. Mark’s audience zones in on that issue, but he may not. My personality type, “The Advocate,” (INFJ) is like he is…more focused on others, and causes, than self, so I can relate. I was like this in my early addiction. People with that personality only talk about things they have thought about for years. Maybe he doesn’t full understand his addiction yet, and doesn’t know how to characterize it or use it to help others. Being more focused on other people, and ideals, is not always helpful. People like this often don’t feel entitled to self-care. Unless, of course, he’s actually a politician and this is his platform. He seems pretty authentic to me, though. Not perfect…authentic. Nobody’s perfect.

@JohnDoe-jt9oq

2 жыл бұрын

@@jones2277 Him and everybody in the world

I’m from chi and this kid knows his stuff, he spoke the realest things about Chi he would be a perfect advocate for our city.

As a 42 year old man who has been through alot of traumatic experiences throughout my life, I feel like our younger generation tend to use trauma as a crutch or excuse to why they cant be successful. I dont mean to take away from the importance of mental health because it is indeed an issue, but for me trauma has always had the opposite affect. I have always utilized my trauma as a tool, and a motivating factor, to never allow myself to become a victim at the hands of another ever again. Perseverance is always a hard road to walk, but it has always allowed me to hold my head up high with dignity, and show those who have wronged me that they didnt win. They didnt break me. At the same time you can't break something that is already broken.

@gregoryreeves8586

2 жыл бұрын

I feel you brother. Wish you the best..

@cherubimrosie3755

2 жыл бұрын

As a young person dealing with depression, anxiety and trauma (possibly C-PTSD). I wish I could use them as a tool to push forward. However, I’m at a point in my life where I have to take a step back from my degree/career to focus on my mental health issues. It’s easy to advise someone to keep on persevering, and believe me I’ve tried to, but I’ve sacrificed my mental well-being to the point where it’s debilitated me. Having multiple nervous breakdowns over the course of a month isn’t something to just ignore and persevere from. For me, my trauma is not a crutch to take a step back from my future success. I need to look after myself before I can pursue my future career. I cannot do my best if my mental health is holding me back from being a functional human being - and I’d say other young people would agree. It’s wise to take care of myself before pursuing success, because if I don’t, I’ll just be half arsing it.

@ryanfouts1200

2 жыл бұрын

(43 here, I feel you) The Greatest Revenge is Massive Success.

@treasuretim3

2 жыл бұрын

@@cherubimrosie3755 are you in counseling or therapy???

@Kerry-ft2zf

2 жыл бұрын

People can't just choose how to respond to trauma. I don't believe it's an excuse or crutch. Trauma is debilitating. It's great that you can turn your trauma into positive & progressive action in your life- but we aren't all the same, our experiences aren't all the same

Ian is a delightful person. Thanks for bringing him in, Mark.

The wealth gap is ridiculous. It’s a huge problem in the world and in this country! I live in St. Louis and it sounds exactly like Chicago. You can visit neighborhoods where homes are the size of malls and neighborhoods where people are living in their cars, and then visit neighborhoods where people are living on the streets, all within 20 minutes! I recently saw a re-run of Family Feud that was a charity episode. The Kardashian family vs The West family. They raised $25,000 to be donated to an LA children’s hospital. All fine and well, but $25 grand doesn’t go very far when it comes to medical treatment, and there had to be at least a million bucks on the stage, just in wardrobe alone. And then throw in the jewelry worn by each family member and who knows how much was spent just to make everyone look good. Give me a break! It was a joke.

As a fellow Illinoisan, Ian, I understand needing to get out. You are incredibly brilliant and I hope that you find your path because you have the ability to change the world (including Chicago).

This young man is very intelligent and has some pretty mature insight. Stay creative and feed that soul, Ian!

This was a great interview. Ian is articulate, intelligent, & spoke w/ pure and raw honesty.

What an intelligent young man. And so socially awake! He has a bright future if he chooses it. Good luck dude!! Grab life by the horns.

Ian, we are the same age but our lives couldn’t be more different. However, I’m really struck by how we have the same thoughts about the world we are living in. We are on the same page, my friend. Make art, treat others with respect, and understand that deep down we are all the same. Thank you for representing our generation. I have faith in us as long as we get off the internet and turn our visions into action!

Ian I'm glad I caught your interview. We are a lot alike having similar insight and understanding about human beings. I'm also an artist and have CPTSD ...plus I have bipolar 2 and major depression. Oh joy. I am also old and it gave me hope to hear you speak.... someone young that gets it! I hope there are a lot more out there like you. You'll never fit into "normal" life. And you wouldn't want to anyway right? Do treatment and meds and skip the street drugs. I smoke pot but that is it. And depending on the person pot can even cause trouble. My grandson who is bipolar 1 has bad audio hallucinations and extreme paranoia from it so everyone needs to be careful I didn't plan on writing a book here... really just wanted to say I like you and can see you doing good things. I'm going to watch this over now. Best wishes!

Ian!!!!! You are a natural born COMMUNITY ACTIVIST!......YOU DON'T HAVE TO SIT BEHIND THE DESK! DO WHAT YOU KNOW! PEOPLE / THESE STREETS & THE WAY THE SYSTEM WORKS!!!! You got this little bruh! Everything you've been through has prepared you for the BIG platform! Don't let your mind trick you out of your destiny! I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!! GO GET IT!💜👑

The conversation around 18 minutes. YES! We‘ve become so selfish. I love this. Go you, you two.

Damn, I just had to stop and comment at @1:23 when he gave the response about his memories childhood being scattered and still trying to piece together. So relatable and never thought to describe it in such a perfect way. Also comforting in the thought of still piecing it together and that being okay. Already, thank you for this interview!!

This video was awesome! Ian is so genuine and honest with himself. It takes a lot of strength to say out loud the good and bad things about you and have hope that things can get better.

I hope he can get into a art studio or school. I’d love to see his story in his art! Seems like the perfect young man to mentor Mark. I know you can’t save them all, but wow the real potential in this young man . His perspective of the world around him is beautiful in spite of the darkness surrounding him! Best wishes Ian 🥰

@SharonBenson2674

2 жыл бұрын

Agree! A lot of wasted potential. So young and intelligent. I hope that someone can get through to him and he gets clean. Obviously he needs to want that. Wish him well!

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

I agree, I would love to see what happens if people invest in this kid!

@iancastor6548

2 жыл бұрын

And I'm hoping after I get out of my detox to also be getting back into my tattooing start building a portfolio a workout in California

seems like a smart kid good luck to you Ian

@coralsnyder8596

2 жыл бұрын

This is the best video I’ve seen here in a really long time. It gives me hope!

I agree with what this kid is saying, but like Mark said at one point, instead of trying to make change by doing and not just saying... he is using fent and just talking about what needs to get done. Anyone can talk... I used to work with guys in a moving company 20-25 years ago, summer job. They thought they had all the answers to life, but they just worked dead-end jobs and drank beer and did drugs. Nice guys? yes. But they talked a big game but didn't actually do much.

@jones2277

2 жыл бұрын

bingo. he's a con man.

@wh0isemily

2 жыл бұрын

This is the 1!!!!

@bigk24

2 жыл бұрын

Fuck we suppose to do? Look at all the ones who tried to make a difference. Mlk. Fred Hampton, killed with your tax dollars

@GaliciaSekulska

2 жыл бұрын

Don’t judge! Sharing our thoughts, feelings and wisdom doesn’t mean we’ve mastered it all ourselves… nor should taking drugs be a reason for him to stay silent. And you shaming him certainly won’t be an inspiration for him or anyone else. We’ve all got our shadows, only some of us are brave enough to let them be seen.

@boneyn3661

2 жыл бұрын

@@GaliciaSekulska Everyone has a right to their opinion. Don't be so sensitive. Oops! I'm judging again!

You are soooooo smart! A teacher in Montreal Canada. We need more people like you. I would vote for you!

As a 19 year old with a lot of unresolved trauma, this is one of my favorite interviews. So young, so insightful, so much to say, I hope more people our age can notice how much community and care for one another will help each other and hopefully the world. We can be the generation of change. I love your work Mark and am so grateful for this entire project. I’ve been watching SWU videos since March 2020 now, and what you’re doing is eye opening and what this country needs. 🤍

@deadsypadilla

2 жыл бұрын

If life was all soft and fluffy, it would be worse. The strong survive, that is how nature works. In your generation, you have phones, transportation, instant messaging..what else could possibly be easier? Work for Any fast food or business and they pay you. save and prioritize your earnings and continue to look for better work. Continue to learn and use your brain to make rational decisions. Don't tell anyone how much or how little you have. Needs over stupidity..If it doesn't help protect, transport, or provide...probably don't need it.

@marylougeorge9890

2 жыл бұрын

@Denton Fast Whirlwind... What has your suffering been? Raped when you were an infant? Left alone for days as a child without food and proper supervision, parents spent everything on drugs so no food, no home? Abandoned by your parents? Made to have sex with adults so your parents could get drugs? These are a lot of the stories in here.

Dude, I relate! I feel fucked up too. Does anyone else feel this way?

@iancastor6548

2 жыл бұрын

All of us feel a lot similar about a lot of the topics in which I talked about it's about spreading light and building community and building safe spaces for us to talk about emotions feeling and help

@markoembarko9045

2 жыл бұрын

@@iancastor6548 You are absolutely right! Thank you for sharing Ian 💓

An articulate young man, and an interesting discussion. A comment on the comments under Kitten's (sorry, blush to use the full alias) story: beware involvement with Cluster B personality types. From your interviews on No Jumper and Konkrete, the addicts you deal with can be extremely needy and demanding and can drain your energy and time if you involve yourself too extensively. Cluster B's (borderline personality, psychopathy, narcissism) would be a whole new level of that. Podcast Medcircle provides excellent discussions on this topic. BTW, enjoy very much the increasing variety on SWB. I lost my mother last Christmas, and am aware you lost your beloved mother a few years ago. Don't let Mother's Day get you down.

@jadedmonk7001

2 жыл бұрын

@Reb Clausen Felt the concern and sorrow in your words. You're right on point about Cluster B tendencies and it's good of you to alert Mark to the potential hazards of building close relationships without full comprehension.

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

Great comment. I definitely agree with you and I’m sure you know a lot of what I’m about to say. I had spent most of my life supporting people with Cluster B disorders, before I knew what happened. I have also struggled with addiction. People with addictions are often misinterpreted as having NPD or ASPD, because the behaviors of active addiction can be similar. Despite this misidentification on the part of some, I’d also like to add that drug using circles do have a disproportionate number of people with Cluster B disorders. Many have trouble regulating behavior and predicting negative consequences of use due to arrogance, lack of emotional insight, etc. I have met more Cluster B partners or “friends” in the drug scene or rehab scene than anywhere else (though activist scenes run a close second, and often overlap). Im sure I would have met them in the boardroom, but that’s not my life! There’s a reason they tell you not to date in recovery, and Cluster B would-be partners in NA, AA, etc. is the other reason!!!

@brittaolson6550

2 жыл бұрын

@@jadedmonk7001 l’d guess probably familiar, at this point…considering he has met a lot of characters. Wise to consider this, though! I know you’re coming from a place of concern, as well. 💜

@jadedmonk7001

2 жыл бұрын

@@brittaolson6550 💕

My husband was a white kid that grew up "in the hood" and he has cptsd from his experiences. Having to worry about getting jumped on his way to school. It formed parts of his personality that still effect him. He has a strong personality as well and he doesn't warp himself to fit the people or environment around him. He's also always in fight or flight mode... His nervous system is always in tune with what's around him. It makes me sad that he had to defend himself at such a young age. His best friend was killed in a stabbing incident and he has struggled his entire life with the anxiety that created. But he sees it and is still working to improve the internalized trauma. I grew up out in the country on a farm... with my own forms of trauma and instability.... But I can't imagine having to fight for my lunch money every day at age 10. His parents raised 5 kids and did their best to get their kids out of the city but there was damage done to all 5 due to financial insecurity. I was also shaped by my environment and lack of resources. You have really beautiful insight. Stick with therapy and come visit fellow travelers in ACoA. Stay away from drugs. Your mind is not anything to waste. You're too smart for this. You're a fire fighter. 🔥 “Family dysfunction rolls down from generation to generation, like a fire in the woods, taking down everything in its path until one person in one generation has the courage to turn and face the flames. That person brings peace to their ancestors and spares the children that follow.” -T Real

@philinn4788

2 жыл бұрын

yeah but white privilege

@col.cottonhill6655

2 жыл бұрын

My son is White/Asian. I'm not sending him to public schools. Maybe if we move somewhere less diverse. It doesn't make me happy to have to do that. But with how bad schools are in LA with troubled kids and the horrible teachers brainwashing them. I have to protect him.

@augustbutterfly

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my gawd, this comment I just happened to read is one of the most healing validating comments I've ever read!! THANK YOU for sharing this! Its pretty much the same thing I went through. I never heard of a story like the one I lived. I feel so much less alone. Best interview ever. 🙌

@Gulag00

2 жыл бұрын

@@GabyP17 why do you feel like you don’t belong?

@leneo1731

2 жыл бұрын

@Gunnar00 Like Gaby, I've grown up in a family with mental health issues and abuse. My father's family is full of people who struggle with mental health and abuse. My grandfather was so controlling towards my grandmother. She worked and had to go home during her break so she could make lunch for her husband. That's just so sad and fucked up. My grandfather experienced a housefire when he was a young boy. It traumatisert him for life. Also he was paranoid. The mother of my grandmother also was a very dominating person. I never met her, but they talked about her almost with fear. I wasn't beaten but my mother is extremely dominant and controlling. Also my parents were fighting non stop. Or my mother was yelling and my father responded with just sitting there saying nothing. His best friend died by his side the year before I was born. So he was without doubt severely traumatised. My mother started having panic attacks when I was 2 or 3 years. I wasn't in kindergarten at that time, I was just home with her. I remember episodes like we were at the store with a shopping cart filled with groceries. Right before we came to the checkout, my mother suddenly just freaked out, took me by my arm and almost dragged me out. She'd got a panic attack and needed to go home. I have no idea what Gaby went through in her childhood. But do you think I feel like I belong somewhere? Because I don't. So called normal people, and I think you're one of them, have no idea about what others go through. If you don't understand that mental illnesses and abuse for generations make people feel like they don't belong, then my guess is that you've never experienced those things. Or maybe you have, but you're so lucky that you feel like you belong. Or maybe you asked because you wanted to educate yourself. If so, that's a very good thing.

Seem like smart kid. Liked Marks comment, so instead of running for mayor of Chicago you are in L.A. doing fentanyl. Says it all.

You can’t deny racism in America growing up in Chicago. We are the largest urban city with the most divided by segregated neighborhoods. It’s funny I grew up just like this, I appreciate his truth.

brilliant young man. I could listen to him for hours!

I am always blown away by how knowledgeable, open minded, intelligent people that want to change the world for the better just aren't given the chance to make the change that they could if they were just given the opportunity!! So many times it honestly all comes down to the wealth gap and privilege's - had he been born into a higher level educated and working class I truly believe he would have the means and tools to make the differences he wants. But I also believe that from where he is, finding the support and resources, to find that open door, he is on his way up - he just needs the chance and opportunity! Ian, I am rooting for you, for your peace, and your mission to make your difference. I do hope we see an update from this young man, or if there already is one I need to find it. Go Ian!! You will go great places and you will make a difference. You are a teacher and many can learn and grow themselves from your views on life and wants for the world. Even just doing this interview I know you have changed lives and minds. Thank you!

Ian! You are unequivocally the most interesting person that I have ever watched Mark interview. You are undeniably intelligent, articulate, informed & so so interesting. I have a true faith that you will overcome your vices & take this world by storm. You will design your own blueprint to a successful life. You have talent. You have vision. You have a voice. You have a good heart. Keep moving forward. Never change that wonderful personality of yours. Do not let the negative abound ,taint you. I’m rooting for you. I wish I lived closer to you, you’d be so chill to hang out with. Touch base with me if you read this!!!

This young man has blown me away. What a true heart💔❤

My gosh! He is freaken smart. I can listen to him for hours. Hang in there Ian, you're pretty awesome.

Ian....you speak so well and have your whole future ahead of you. I am praying for you to find your path.

You have a light about you...don't let your past trauma or drugs designate your future...You have something to give this world. Best of luck of my friend.

Ian you have got an incredible thought process going. You have a bright future ahead of you.

He seems like a cool...chill...laid-back dude...He keeps it 100...I wish him peace & tranquility!-

Ian is an activist, I hope he can use his strength to get sober and put all that energy and insight toward improving the world he knows.

He is such a breath of fresh air

Amazing interview, I think I'll watch it more than once!

His mindset is beautiful from the inside out🥰 this perspective is about to make the world a better place

Good work Mark “The world is in more peril from those who tolerate evil or encourage evil than from those who actually commit it.” -Dr. Albert Einstein, March 1953

This is one guy that has massive potential! 🙏☺️ I wish you all the best. And that you find your calling

Ian….. I was born on the Southside of Chicago but left for San Diego with my parents to San Diego. Both sets of Grandparents and my parents were born and raised there. Let me first say….. please go to school…. Doesn’t have to be a 4 year college or maybe go to a college for the Arts since you are in such an arts city as LA. You’ve proven you can get sober. You are so intelligent and have a great personality…… show that through your artwork. 🤞🏼✌🏻🙌🏼 last but not least….. don’t feel guilty you were born white like so many do these days….. celebrate who you are !!

You are 22. You have the energy to do it. You have a gift of youth right now. Do something. It gets more difficult and tiring as you gather things to lose.

@sciencenotstigma9534

2 жыл бұрын

Good way of putting it!

This young man is very intelligent. Bless this dude.

Ian you are very wise and intuitive. Please stay away from fentanyl (so you don't OD) and change the world around you. I wish I could sit and visit with you about how to truly connect and help people.

The U.S. is going down the crapper, fast. Kid's being born today don't stand a chance. Always interesting, thanks!

@col.cottonhill6655

2 жыл бұрын

As a new parent, it's always on my mind

@Mint-kj9kw

2 жыл бұрын

@@col.cottonhill6655 Just remember your baby has an amazing destiny. God chose to send him/her to Earth at this time KNOWING they are well equipped to handle whats going on. Major reformation is coming. Your ceiling will be their floor.

@col.cottonhill6655

2 жыл бұрын

@@Mint-kj9kw thank you. I know whatever happens God will look out for us.

I really enjoyed this talk, thanks guys.

Loved this intervew!!!!! What an insightfull, inteligent and articulate yung man! He can be anything he wants to! An Activist, an Artist, or both. Stop Fentanil and use your amazing habilities to do good in this world!!!

I could listen to him talk for hours

This is my favorite interview to date. Ian is such a bright young man. Amazing. Thank you Mark and Ian.

@iancastor6548

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for appreciating me

@8:25 Astute observation about the 5-0. They're a state sanctioned gang and nothing more now. When I was growing up in LA in the 60s and 70s, the police knew us kids by name and would wave or stop for a quick "hello" while conducting neighborhood patrols. It sounds unbelievable, but it was such a different era - and time in the American culture.

@justindchaney

2 жыл бұрын

I think it’s more that both sides are escalating the street war going on. The same goes for the left and right wing politicians. Our society is suffering from a massive lack of grace. All it would take is for one side to turn the other cheek and rise above the pettiness and things would de-escalate. Instead the world is going downhill faster and faster as everyone delves into retaliation and evil. Turning the other cheek won’t work just one time. In the Bible, there’s a story where someone asks Jesus how many times you should forgive someone who harms you. The man asks if 7 times is enough chances to give someone, but Jesus said you should forgive people 70 x 7 times. We’re seeing now that retaliation isn’t helping anything and our society’s lust for punishment is destroying our culture.

@jadedmonk7001

2 жыл бұрын

@@justindchaney That was articulated beautifully and it's been hard to bear witness.. knowing the direction we're heading in almost blindly. I also deeply believe in our last two generations: they SEE through the non-sense and will alter the course of history given sufficient time. I won't be here, but I know SOMEHOW that they've got this😉

this is not just chicago. it’s most large cities. he’s.n honest humanitarian. right on!

@juliamoon6562

2 жыл бұрын

chicago is especially horrible.

@nadiagarcia4863

2 жыл бұрын

@@juliamoon6562 no.. it feeds into the stereotype.. Chicago isn’t even in the top 5 most dangerous cities, every large city has the same issues or worse

@juliamoon6562

2 жыл бұрын

@@nadiagarcia4863 the culture in chicago is especially harsh and aggressive, it’s just the way people are. Many cities are dangerous but this is different. It’s a hateful and dark place.

Ian, the strength of your intelligence and introspection can get you through this. Keep seeking this clarity and vision and you can find a way out. Not only that, but the world needs people like you, who understand society’s problems and the gap between rich and poor. There are even people who appreciate it and places that will let you in, even listen to you. If people aren’t returning your energy, move on because others will. I hope you can find a way to get on MAT and get off dope. It will free you to develop your interests and intellect, maybe go back to school. You could be the head of just about any Social Science department, no problems, someday. Just get the paper to show what you already know! You might actually like Social Work, Community Psychology, or Alcohol and Drug counseling. You can bring in the radical ideas with receptive people in those departments. I hated math and had to take a remedial class after I got my GED and got into college. I’ve been able to build on my knowledge in a lot of exciting ways, finally. But I spent years and years on the streets and on dope before that, never knowing if I’d see another day. I also suffered SA & have PTSD. You’re right about Chicago and everywhere without mental health programs. I lived in Chicago on and off, growing up, and people are struggling. I love what you said about being aware of the problems around us. Lots of groups deny them, but that only strengthens the divisions in society that keep us all trapped in an unequal system. When we’re all honest about who we are and what our lives are and the world around us, we CAN make change. You can absolutely make a difference, and I’m sure you’ve seen ways in which you already are. Telling your truth is going to help a lot of people. I’m always blown away when men come on here and talk about sexual assault and abuse. You put yourself out there to let other young men know that it’s something a lot of people go through, and it’s never been about them. It’s about the fact that somebody who was hurt went and passed on their pain. Nobody recognized their pain but you can recognize your own and seek healing so it doesn’t become malignant in you. You are definitely breaking the cycle of abuse. You seem so ready to break the cycle of addiction. They say the lie behind drug use is that no one will like you if they know who you really are. Most people aren’t as addicted to the way drugs feel as they are convinced that they need that drug to be liked. They need to hide their true self behind that drug so nobody sees their true self because the assumption is “no one will love you” if you see the real you. But the more you let people see the real you, the less you need the drugs because you find out it’s bs. People will love you for you. But if you hide behind those drugs, you can’t find out. That said, you seem GOOD with you. You seem ready to be done. Maybe you’re self-medicating that CPTSD. I think that’s what I was doing with the opiates, besides trying to self-treat my physical pain. I really hope you try MAT, even if you don’t quit right away. Suboxone worked for me. I’d love to see what you can do, spending even a little less of your amazing energy chasing that addiction. You talk about people getting shot in the streets in Chicago and you know how tragic that is. I don’t want to see you die from a bad batch on the streets of LA, or anywhere else. I have no doubt that if you stay in this world, you WILL change it. You know, before Martin Luther King was shot, he had taught America about racial inequality and he was starting to believe America was ready to hear about wealth and class stratification in this society. You talked about how far we’ve come with identity issues, but think how much farther we could have come if he had lived for us to hear about class, in his next speech. You are the kind of person who can take the class discussion to the next level, but you’ve got to be here to do it. No pressure or anything lol. But if you need to take some time to quietly figure out what works for you, I’ll be listening when you’re ready to take on the world. You have to take care of yourself or you can’t help anyone else. Just for who you are in your heart and not what you are capable of doing for anyone, you deserve it. Show yourself some love!

Very intelligent and insightful young man. His future is bright as sunshine. 🌞 Wish him the best!

Very bright young man ! Mark never knows what he's gonna get until he's atleast a couple minutes in & you could tell by the end that he enjoyed interviewing Ian so... This one was refreshing, it was different & had depth to it. It's nice to hear from a 22 yr. old that has way more on his mind than finding his next fix... Would definitely like to hear from him again, he's got all kinds of potential...

Great interview! This young man can really make a change. I hope he can become clean and in a few years see this man in office in my life time! Praying for you!

What an insightful young man, this is the problem with the world today, you get politicians running the show and they are only there because of money and family ties, they are not bothered about the people. Then you have Ian, he's not had it easy, he's a well spoken man who has a good grasp on what needs to be done, this is the sort of person needs to be listened to by the right people and taken seriously.

This young man wouldn’t recognize Honest if it came up and bit him on the nose.

Just started watching, I loved when he said he stays true to himself!

If someone would step up and be a mentor for this insightful young man...the world would be a better place

@msmendes214

2 жыл бұрын

Totally. "nobody makes it alone" Successful people are propped up by a village of other successful supportive people. Kids like this need a community of support backing them up.

Very well spoken young man. I wish him the best.

being a teen growing up in Chicago… he is RIGHT on the dot about everything..

Ian, he was so amazing!! I love is heart, his knowledge and wanting to better for himself and others!! Just great interview. Mark as always love you ❤️❤️🙏🙏Ian be safe and be strong my beautiful angel. 💝💝

I totally agree about the wealth gap. When I see someone with a ridiculously expensive car, purse, etc., I actually feel embarrassed for them. And I just hope against hope that they're philanthropic in some way.

@marylougeorge9890

2 жыл бұрын

You can't change what you don't acknowledge.😢

@jones2277

2 жыл бұрын

while i agree with the central point, when he had money, he spent it on a face tattoo. who's to say he wouldn't be just as frivolous if he had more money?

@marylougeorge9890

2 жыл бұрын

@@jones2277 He'd have to have a lifestyle change to use money wisely.

The drugs you choose. I'm 50 years old. Weed and alcohol (razor blade half drop of LSD) only. We knew this back in the late 80's! I'm not saying alcohol isn't a problem but I'm functional & make a good living.

“Kicking” addiction is not an overcome sort of experience. True addiction relief is a life changing / altering experience. If you don’t do this life altering work you’ll always return to addict. Using is the remedy NOT the problem.

3 videos to watch today!! Thx Mark!

This guy is so insightful and when he was talking about cardi b and that met gala dress, it hit home because I talk about that concept so much with my sisters. If more rich/celebrities actually used their wealth to help with the issues in this country, changes could actually happen for the better. I wish him the best on his journey…

Such a wise and intelligent guy. I hope you find a way to make a difference.

Great Interview, Ian. I hope to hear from you in the future.

I agree with this guy 100% some of things he was saying I’ve been saying for years glad people are seeing this

Was just on Austin & Lake the other day. Never thought I’d hear my area mentioned on here. Very smart kid

Keep workin it will pay off. I always find my way back to soft white underbelly , thanks Mark and thanks Ian for an awesome interview

you are such a cool dude, thank you for your honesty. Super mad respect!

You are the Master of your own destiny.

I’m from Chicago and this young man is speaking facts. 22yrs old and wiser than most celebrity millionaires that have nothing but greed in their hearts

Ian, your creative mentality and wholesome priorities' will take you far. You're very insightful for your age. Please consider a future in helping humanity through creative means and you will find complete fulfillment. God bless.

Ian - you are an incredibly smart and insightful young man. I hope you know that....and I hope you do something with all that intelligence - you could be a really big inspiration to others.

One of your best interviews! Dude is smart!

Ian, go forth and Tell your Tales, and Dream your Dreams. The world is just a speck of dust beneath your feet. I wish you Focus and Direction, as well as Good Health and Energy. I'm going to focus on what I'm good at today. TY. Closed minded individuals listen up.

Good morning from London love this channels.what a nice guy

excellent commentary and analysis.

Best interview I’ve heard so far and I’m here in Chicago right now. Born and raised. Humbolt Park stand up

2 interviews. Thank you!

@sallyann985

2 жыл бұрын

Neither match up to what was posted on the app, I wonder if it's a mistake.

@jadedmonk7001

2 жыл бұрын

Ain't life grand? How's your blackbird today?😁

@jadedmonk7001

2 жыл бұрын

@@sallyann985 No mistake. Mark did the same thing a couple of days ago...or so

@sallyann985

2 жыл бұрын

@@jadedmonk7001 Mark you need to get your uploading act together.

@Gram72534

2 жыл бұрын

Hi, M. Have a good Sunday!

VERY SMART FOR YOUR AGE...USE THAT BRAIN AND DO GREAT THINGS!!!!!

I love this man’s personality, good luck in your life Ian🥰

Only six minutes in and I just feel for this guy. I’m just outside Chicago and The weather here is just daunting. You get stuck and it brings you down..badly.

I loved this interview! You have so much potential, so smart. You would make a great activist ( you already are) or a youth councilor . Wish you a lot of luck !!!! You could be anything.