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This hits my heart. IDK why... the way that Carly was being ignored since when she was a kid and always had "duties" like taking care of Blake since she was little. And being yelled at for the tiniest mistake....I can relate...
@ciscojacobo7168
10 ай бұрын
Yeah, now a days, I feel invisible to my family, except for times they want me to do something for them or when I go out they want me to get them something too.
@euniceditabe1459
10 ай бұрын
This is very sad... All your life you have to sacrifice for everyone and no one cares about how you feel
@aoi_lovesart
10 ай бұрын
Eli did the right desicion
@GlowwingHeart
10 ай бұрын
@@ciscojacobo7168 you don't deserve this but it will get better
@GlowwingHeart
10 ай бұрын
I am sorry about this but stay strong and stay healthy
Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here🏆
@l4g
10 ай бұрын
Don't traslate😠 ในเวลาไม่กี่ชั่วโมง หัวใจของคุณจะเริ่มหยุดเต้น วิธีเดียวที่จะป้องกันไม่ให้สิ่งนี้คือสมัครรับข้อมูลจากช่องของฉัน
@evara8249
10 ай бұрын
Got itt
@Shadow-freddy906
10 ай бұрын
Here
@-lemon-5316
10 ай бұрын
Here!
@angieparker-co9jw
10 ай бұрын
hiii
Carly is the most responsible girl I’ve ever seen. This story was incredible! 😊
The way blake drive off with her wheelchair saying "i want pickles"😂
I’m proud of Carly for standing up for herself. And I’m glad Carly didn’t forgive Blake and their mom right away.
@elihle1852
10 ай бұрын
❤
@domonicredmond1894
9 ай бұрын
Personally I wouldn’t of forgiven them at all
@girl1213
9 ай бұрын
That's what happens when you use someone as a crutch without their permission for so long. I can forgive Blake a little easier than their mom because Blake was just a kid who didn't mature as fast as Carly due to Mom coddling her. And that coddling is why Blake couldn't let go of Carly. That's all on their mom. But it still doesn't take away from what she tried to do. Blake has free will.
@nilokai8875
7 ай бұрын
I wish i could do that
@AngelIcestormSapphire981411721
6 ай бұрын
What Blake and their mom did was unacceptable, Blake haven't matured due to the mother's over-coddling. I'm still curious about the stepfather and half brothers. The father could've helped out while Carly follows her own dreams. But Blake must understand she can't rely on her sister forever. She must advocate for herself and be mature. I feel like the mother is the root of the situation, this attitude eventually rubbed off on Blake.
I feel proud to Carly for standing up for herself. Her character is so relatable.
People who have been watching msa for more then 1 year👇🏽
@user-qx2ck4oe3p
2 ай бұрын
Me
Claim for late ticket here😂1 month-4 years😂
@user-li5vh2mz7w
Ай бұрын
8mouths
Her character is so relatable, especially for us oldest you feel like you have the responsibility of your younger ones on your shoulders, and it sometimes felt like you lost your childhood.overall this was such a great video MSA thank you ❤❤
@GingerJinji
10 ай бұрын
Real
@GlacieraBr1de
10 ай бұрын
But she’s a twin?
12:26 "The non-toxic family''💀
@StarLoverRoblox
10 ай бұрын
Like bruuuuuhhh
@Straykids-slayyyyyy._.
Ай бұрын
Frr :/
I'm proud of carly for standing up for herself 👍
Carly is such a good sister. She literally had to take care her twin sister and brothers. I am so happy she stood up for herself.
I love when Blake rolls out of the hospital room and says “I want pickles” 7:25
@1cpassey
9 ай бұрын
I was gonna say that 😭
@1cpassey
9 ай бұрын
I just noticed it tho
@CharlotteKay-vf2cb
9 ай бұрын
Same
@swaggang8577
8 ай бұрын
😂hahha lol
@Oliviarodrigoforever
7 ай бұрын
I was also gonna say that 😂😂😂😂
At least Carly realized that her mom and Blake were restricting her from living her life. This encouraged me to take a stand against toxic family members.
@Ava12336
10 ай бұрын
Kk
@minaashdio9373
9 ай бұрын
NICE YOU GO GURL
@LoafnPancakeDrawz
5 ай бұрын
Goooooo❤
This story hit hard. I have an autistic younger brother and ever since he was born he was getting way more attention. I helped my mother from a young age, taking care of him when I could or just by helping her at anything I could. Others always said how responsible I am, especially considering my age. From time to time I felt like I was the mother. Once I threw a tantrum about how much I felt ignored and how I always had to put his needs before mine. First my parents scolded me, but later they started to acknowledge and encourage me more. They are much better than Carli's mom and sister but this story still made me think. Now my parents encourage me and tell me not give up on my dreams because of my brother's needs, although the future is still very uncertain. I just wanted to say how much I can relate and that I'm thankful that msa has more stories about deeper topics.
Here within 6 months gang👇👇👇👇👇
Carli's mom and blake are the perfect example of toxic family members 😢
@ultimatesalazaryt
10 ай бұрын
You know, come to think of it, Blake wasn't that bad at all
@naneenwidee277
10 ай бұрын
Abi ohh
@darlinqt
10 ай бұрын
@@ultimatesalazaryt aside her condition, she wasnt being stupid she was being rude
@ultimatesalazaryt
10 ай бұрын
@@darlinqt true that can be me too but I don't mean to be rude, I just don't know I'm being rude or not
@darlinqt
10 ай бұрын
@ultimatesalazar5935 ik what you mean but like Blake knew she was being rude ykwim
Carly is such an amazing sister.
@ciscojacobo7168
10 ай бұрын
Yeah, putting her siblings before her. Also, I wonder if they did come to her and Eli wedding.
@Moonbesties
10 ай бұрын
Why is nobody talking about the fact he went in the girls bathroom
@shreks_mydaddy
10 ай бұрын
@@Moonbestieslol
@lene8051
10 ай бұрын
@@Moonbesties yeah
@buckyplays4916
10 ай бұрын
Hush up kid
This MSA touched my heart. You shouldn't neglect your other kid just because the other one is sick
I just love how the twin boys Never showed up like they never existed
Now I know why children such as Carly needed some space because she offered a huge opportunity to become a filmmaker with Eli but everytime she tried to do her own things her mother and Blake keeps getting in her way
@Deadender2008
10 ай бұрын
Ikr
@abidashaheen3624
10 ай бұрын
Ikr
@candy4736
10 ай бұрын
Blake has pickeles at the hospital..
@XOXOpink_champagneXOXO
10 ай бұрын
Great as always
@zansolutions8952
10 ай бұрын
@@Deadender2008 ^
I feel bad for carly, she has been living her whole life taking all the responsibilities and never having a chance to live her life, im so glad she actually stood up for herself but the mom was rlly toxic including blake but im glad their all in good terms now, and blake and carly’s mom apologized to carly especially eli, well done once again MSA!
@ciscojacobo7168
10 ай бұрын
I really wished that Blake also mentioned that she's seeing therapy to help with her issues and that mom promises that for now on she'll ask Carly before making a decision for her.
Claim your "here within 5 months" ticket right here🏆
@thepenguin_king8129
3 ай бұрын
Shut up.
@notbaybayii
2 ай бұрын
dang im 2 months late
@augustasjurgelionis3738
Ай бұрын
@@notbaybayiisame
@Hearts4me760
Ай бұрын
SMe
@HanitoBurito
Ай бұрын
@@augustasjurgelionis3738same
Aww cute family hug!… meanwhile Eli: *📷📸📷📸📷📸* 😭 HAAH
I like it when a male character is portrayed positively in the video and doesn't turn out to be two faced like Hans from Frozen
@mariafranciscacordeiro4463
10 ай бұрын
Sim sim, e o mais importante, ele não foi posto como vilão por não aguentar a família da prota.
@estheroyebode4208
9 ай бұрын
I like it when The boys aren't push overs who keep chasing the Sam girls
@mauricesmithjr4050
2 ай бұрын
Whatever happened to her brothers
I'm proud of Carly for finally standing up for herself. Her life was wrapped around Blake. Her mother wasn't taking care of them, so Carly had to grow up fast and be the parent. Eli was the wake-up call she needed to live her own life. Blake and their mom were so selfish. I mean, Carly may be Blake's sister, but she also has her own life to live. She had her own dreams. Her own goals that she wanted to accomplish. Which she did when stood up for herself and left them.
I love the small details like the pickles in the hospital room ❤
Carly is the perfect representation of every 'glass child'.
Who love Carly for standing up for herself?
@ciscojacobo7168
10 ай бұрын
Yeah, I can relate. Sometimes, it's hard for me to stand up to my family.
@johnpolepole5881
10 ай бұрын
I do, Blake and her mom really needed some sense about how Carly really felt
@ciscojacobo7168
10 ай бұрын
@johnpolepole5881 In a way, they should've been more considerate about Carly's feelings.
@Grace-jf3rs
10 ай бұрын
I was so proud of that moment
@MegaAnimelover1996
10 ай бұрын
@@johnpolepole5881 more like a reality check
12:05 YASSSS QUEEN FINALLY SOMEONE TAKING A STAND FOR THEMSELVES!!!💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻
@tvshows101._
10 ай бұрын
FRRR🎉🎉
@romdanlatifa807
Ай бұрын
FRRR🎉🎉
This story is so amazing. I love the way she stood up for herself 🙂
You know it’s gonna be a breakup/drama when they start dating in the middle of the story
blake is the literal definition of a pick me girl
@liezelnel3816
10 ай бұрын
❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊
@Laurynisbeauty
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂lmao
@polinaxcore
10 ай бұрын
Fr
Finally, a normal reaction when bullied by family. MSA really needs to show videos where protagonist takes a stand rather than just being kind, stupid, ever going forgiving shit. People can be cruel and same random act of kindness is not gonna put them in line
7:22 I Want pickles got me dead☠️
@starstarlingstarlingation
Ай бұрын
L{LOL
@romdanlatifa807
Ай бұрын
L{LOL
"For when your parents don't love you" I felt that too much 💀
That's a story filled with emotions pain and overwhelming responses from characters We can never deny the fact that msa is getting better day by day
I love that she took care of her health and lost weight
This is was so intense of an MSA story, the intense voice acting, the lines, the storyline hit hard! This has to be one of my favourite MSA videos of all time!!
@oceanlove398
9 ай бұрын
And it then ended with a nice ending, lovely!
@oceanlove398
9 ай бұрын
The fact this also hits home for many people too, made it so intense, love this story!
Am I the only one who is concerned about the twins and the stepdad 😂😂😂😂
Finally Blake and their mom noticed how unfair they've been to Carly, even though she had to leave to make them realize that.
No one's talking bout 9:20? I'm suprised Edit: Tysm for 2 likes this is the most I ever got!
@RandomGirl785
10 ай бұрын
Same 🤨💀
@-Rose-
10 ай бұрын
Did he just walk into the girls toilets 💀
@ToadlingNo.1
10 ай бұрын
Ye
@swaggang8577
8 ай бұрын
💀💀💀💀💀💀
Claim your “within a month” ticket here
@Horseyperson
10 ай бұрын
Here
@naamikas
Ай бұрын
I don’t know if I’m here within a month, but yeah I guess I’ll claim it next month
@cutiepiecherry
24 күн бұрын
Me
"Im part mermaid 🥰🥰🥰😒😒😒😒"
@frog_funk
Ай бұрын
Lmao!! 4:36
11:45 idk why but this part gave me tears 😭😭
Was it just me that saw Eli go into the girls bathroom?💀 This was a great video though! This just goes to show that children like Carly should be able to do what they want in life and have their freedom too. It's so sad to see people like Carly grow up this way.
@lene8051
10 ай бұрын
I also saw that
@guccieyebags
8 ай бұрын
Ahahah same, I was just about to comment that lmaoo
@Zoes.Storyy_
3 ай бұрын
He did it to stay away from Carly
13:26 Damn right you were selfish to do that especially when stopping your own daughter from following her dreams 😡. Forcing her to stay home and take care of the twins and Blake, while almost forcing her to attend the college that you chose for your daughters, and wanted Carly to be with Blake while watching out for her, and choosing classes that is NOT at all Carly's interests 😤
Are we just not gonna talk about the pride flag on her jacket?8:19
Blake on a wheelchair Blake: I want pickles 😔
@pk-kotty
10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
Loved the forgiveness in this story...although I'd kind of find it hard to do that. I'm the last born in a family of four and my immediate older sister is asthmatic. When I was younger, I felt all the attention went to her and she always made me feel like a black sheep. We always fought to the extent our parents gave up on separating us. There was even a time she was having an attack and I decided not to help her. I felt really bad because she ended up spending the night at the hospital and I was home alone cause my mom had to be with her. I know you may ask of my other siblings but they're like ten and twelve years older so they were never around. After that, I kind of just gave up on hating her. I haven't forgiven her wholly as I'm still trying to see her in a positive way but this story kind of touched me. It's kind of odd because she told me she was jealous of me because I was smarter so she worked hard to also be smart. She's more hardworking than me now, which doesn't pain me that much. I'm just glad she's getting better now. Thank you MSA for this wonderful story.
@wowgek7
10 ай бұрын
yeah they are fun to watch but honestly i dislike the endings the mom has been terrible for her whole life and then she comes back apoligizes and everything is like it never happened . and thats almost always the case and that realy annoys me
@livliv7369
10 ай бұрын
@@wowgek7real
Love Carly she's so beautiful, brave, kind, kind-hearted, caring, sweet, honest, playful, fun, talented, smart, positive and a true friend. She is the sweetest always been there for her sister and taking care of her. Best sister ever love her❤❤ The love she has for Blake really shows trough the story. Carly is the best sister and friend anyone could ever ask for she's a great inspiration❤❤ Blake loves her sister and tried to cheer her up when having it tough but she never really supported Carly's dreams and the fact that she told Carly was dating without asking her if it's alright is insane that's the kind of thing you don't wanna share with everyone instantly❤❤❤ Also the way Blake treated Ian is just wrong. You don't have to like everyone but as someone so close to your sisters life you treat others with kindness and accept that fact that he will be part of they're life. Sister always support eachother. The mom is at fault for putting the girls against eachother, not taking care of Carly the same way she does with Blake and breaking things up with Ian. As someone so close to your life you love both daughters as they are and will be there for eachother no matter what you have to go trough. Good they apoligized and told the truth in the end. It's never too late to make things right and there's nothing you can't face together love always wins.
When Blake came out of the hospital the bubble said “i want pickles”.😂😂😂😂
Literally half the comments : "Can we appreciate how MSA works very hard and never fails to entertain us"
@Deadender2008
10 ай бұрын
Ikr they say the same shit
@DHE614
10 ай бұрын
fr its like they dont get tired of sayin the same stuff
@thecinematicpixel4946
10 ай бұрын
Well, it's kinda true soo
@G.o.n.e9
10 ай бұрын
I’ve seen your type of comment almost in every new msa video, now the “ literally every half of the comments” comment thingy is getting annoying and boring
@dorisackah3476
10 ай бұрын
@@thecinematicpixel4946yeah 😂
As a first born daughter I relate to this so much bcoz I grew up being a second mother to my siblings and sometimes its just too much
I have no idea why, but this is the only msa video that really made me cry
That's a story filled with emotions pain and overwhelming responses from characters We can never deny the fact that msa is getting better day by day 🥰
I honestly had tears and I saw these types of stories multiple times on MSA but I never cried but when Carly told her mom about her feelings I felt like her in my place and started crying. This video deserves a like. Edit: OMG I never got this many likes. thx
@omprakashjaiswal5053
10 ай бұрын
girl, I feel u .
@itachiuchia213
10 ай бұрын
my life is like that but muuuuuuuuuuuuuccccccccccccchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh worse
Anyone see at 7:04 that the little baggy the tube is going into has pickles in it? Lol
@Mitsuri00-
10 ай бұрын
Lol yeaa
@Afriedzucchini
10 ай бұрын
Haha😂
@MACYLOVER
9 ай бұрын
I did 😂😂
Lived Carly’s experience in a way, with a different family member. Never had her ending where my toxic family apologised though, since they never cared and were never sorry. Had to cut them off.
It was so funny when Eli acted like a mermaid! 😂😂😂😂
Carly is such a good sister I'm loving her❤
8:06 Not someone it's red bull
@iamnotsavage
10 ай бұрын
Redbull gives you wings
@glittermoonx9339
10 ай бұрын
You need more likes.
@stxr.boyyxx
10 ай бұрын
Just as you said that I got a red bull ad..
@nirugacha1271
10 ай бұрын
@@stxr.boyyxx hehe
@titilayofalola5458
9 ай бұрын
Red bull gives you wiiiings
The way that Blake in the hospital scene said: I want pickles is so funny 😂😂 But the way carly had to take care of Blake and then got old and had to take care for her twin brothers and Blake.she had a lot of stress on her. I fell the same. But the hospital scene was Soo FUNNY 😂😂😂
It's the cereal that says "if your parents don't love you " that gets me
the fact that people didnt even watch the video and people are already like "Can we just appreciate how msa never fails to entertain?" Dude it's been out for 5 minutes and the video is 14 minutes long.
@Urheartbroken_
10 ай бұрын
They try to be quick for the likes 🤭
@aayushi.adhikari_2008
10 ай бұрын
Exactly. It's becoming sooo annoying like literally-----😢
I loved Carly's story and I love how she and Eli got married at the end. I love how Carly and her family made amends at the end. Awesome story MSA!
The way Eli went in to the girls bathroom.😂😂
AHHHH! The pin on Carley’s jacket!!!😄 🖤🩶💜🤍
@Saoirse-Moonlight
Ай бұрын
What that mean ?
@angelabalestra3226
23 күн бұрын
It's the asexual pride pin 🖤💜🤍
I can’t believe their stories only takes them 1-2 days! Their art look amazing! And, their ideas for stories must’ve taken so much thought! Edit: 44 LIKES??
@ronitsrivastava377
10 ай бұрын
Stories are pretty basic. Hope animation is not the only thing causing people to watch this. I for one don't like this. My sister watches.
@Ella.Rose-
10 ай бұрын
@@ronitsrivastava377 if u don't like it or this comment then don't reply anything.
@17MEOWZ
10 ай бұрын
Translate! ฉันจะสมัครรับข้อมูลใครก็ตามที่สมัครรับข้อมูลฉันและชอบความคิดเห็นนี้
@ronitsrivastava377
10 ай бұрын
@@Ella.Rose- It is sad that such mediocre content gets a lot of views. Slowly this will become the norm.
5:24 her pins are sooo cuteee!!!
I love how after Blake passed out, and Carly was calling Eli, Blake is casually just rolling in a wheelchair with a speech bubble saying “I want pickles,” since just before, she was complaining that she wanted pickles.
Had any one noticed the cereal cartoon written " for when your parents don't love you "
I hope that Carly's family do come to her wedding. Not just her mom, and sister Blake, but also her stepdad, half twin brothers, and even her aunt (who might make her wedding dress, but this time in the right size).
What both Blake and their mom did was very selfish. I’m glad Carly didn’t forgive them right away.
@Deadender2008
10 ай бұрын
Ikr
@kpc9602
10 ай бұрын
Here here, I just don’t like toxic people who kicks them when they’re down, mentally/physically hurting them with satisfaction, being all uncaring and heartless a lot
@navyagarg4835
10 ай бұрын
I hope she dont forgive her mom and blake ever... I hate them.. They don't deserve a sec chance
@MissCookieClub._
10 ай бұрын
@@navyagarg4835 same! I want that too
@navyagarg4835
10 ай бұрын
@@MissCookieClub._ IKR 🥲
this story crushed me, like carly, I always took care of my younger sister. I'm a second born but our older brother is now working and he's living with our uncles a bit far from us, and of course our parents are working too but most of the time, I'm alone with my younger sister, our parents, sometimes they are doing their own things and not coming home, you know, having an affair, both of them. I'm a senior high now and my sister is in elementary, even tho i got sick most of the time I still have to cook, clean, wash dishes, wash our clothes, especially our school uniform everyday and more. I never complain about this because I feel like this is my duty to do as a daughter, but sometimes, I really am tired, I can't even hang out with my friend and boyfriend without them calling or texting me to go home early. and if I did something they didn't like, they would tell me that I'm being like that because I hang out with my friends. they never thought that its them who made me like this, because of our family problems ever since I was a kid, countless of fighting and its very traumatizing.
lol the part when the cereal box said “ for parents that don’t love you “ made me think 🤔 😢😢 ❤❤
this was the first story of MSA that touched my heart, where i just imagined myself in the character and could not stop crying. i loved it. seriously please never use ur children for anything. They have their own life and they deserve to live it whole heartedly.
1:52 hehe the cereal box
@Yallsellic71
Ай бұрын
1:53
@Yallsellic71
Ай бұрын
For when your parents don’t love you
is no one going to talk about that time where Eli ignored Carly and just walked into the girl’s bathroom?? 😂😂 9:21
4:15 a masterpiece better than the real titanic
Sometimes you just have to be selfish, do what you love, take care of yourself and let others think about themselves. No one was born to take care of anyone forever, not even parents. And if you actually find yourself in a situation to take care of someone and they aren't grateful for your sacrifices, then they aren't worth it. I loved this story ❤
Some of these stories are crazy and interesting at the same time but I’m here for it which might say a lot about me lol 😂
LOL"I want pickles"GOT ME ON THE ROLLING ON THE GROUND 😂
“Wow thats me” GOT ME😂😂😂😂😂
I’m proud of Carly for standing up for herself. She needs to do what she wants. She’s not her sister’s maid! On another note, who else is curious about what happened to the twins’ stepdad and twin brothers?
@Amina-rq8ol
10 ай бұрын
I forgot about them
@MissCookieClub._
10 ай бұрын
LOL I FORGOT ABOUT THEM THAT THEY ARE IN THIS STORY TOO- 😂
@sathvikasujith8431
10 ай бұрын
Me I was like where r they
@hajira1864
10 ай бұрын
You're actually very right
@nadia12123
10 ай бұрын
i forgot abt them 😭
I feel sorry to what Carly has been going through, but I understand that she wanted to have some time to herself by not always looking out for her sister even though it concerns her condition health reasons. However her mom shouldn’t really abused her own daughter by keeping her with Blake just so she can take time of her busy work schedule and not let Carly choose to be who she’s with by letting her being herself.
The mom in this story is pathetic, did even consider arranging for a babysitter when the girls were alone. A mother can’t expect one of her kids to step up and do what she needs to do, she needed to be the adult.
Where did the twin brothers go…
@Aaa-rl9cy
Ай бұрын
Blake killed them because she hates them
@Kaykays_w0rld
11 күн бұрын
@@Aaa-rl9cyOMG
The way Blake came out of the hospital and said I want pickles it was so funny I laughed so hard😂😂😂
Nothing better then coming home from a long day off camp too watch MSA💗💗
Umm where did the twins and the husband go?
Definition of Blake: “ pick me, choose me, love me”. Blake just pissed me off for some reason and her mom.
i adore how carly was wearing an asexual pride pin as apart of her teen design! i love small little details like these in story videos!
@melaniewestrick964
10 ай бұрын
Same!
@berryxlou
10 ай бұрын
wait what is that..
@Gabz._luv
10 ай бұрын
Finally someone who noticed!
@thewingedunicorn5065
10 ай бұрын
I noticed!!! My asexual heart is so happy! 🤩🤩🤩
@BlossomedJewelsOfficial
10 ай бұрын
I thought I was the only one who saw that lol
7:58 Carly has an asexual pin glad to see some rep
Carly had always been is nice to her mom,Blake, jake, and Jonathan for a while they didn't even appreciate that about her
Girl just shoved the dress on her 😂😂😂
Eli and Carly's story is adorable! Also, I'm glad Carly acknowledged her feelings for her dreams, worked hard to improve her health while trying to take care of her sister and still managed to go to college despite feeling underappreciated at times! If you ever feel like you're not appreciated in your family, I'm here to tell you that you will always be appreciated no matter what! Well done, MSA! Oh and I'm glad Blake and their Mom redeemed themselves at the end!
8:34 anyone else see the flag great video btw can we all now how Carly an amazing sibling?
it was so funny when Blake was in a weelchair and she said "i want pickles" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣☺
In my opinion, if your lover can’t put up with somebody you love like your family member or best friend, then they don’t love you enough. They should put up with them for your sake