A Recipe For Relationships // Christian-ish Part. 5 // Dr. Dharius Daniels
Dharius Daniels is a cultural architect and trendsetter for his generation. He is the Founder and Lead Pastor of Change Church. Change Church is a vibrant ministry that impacts people of all ages, socioeconomic classes, and ethnic backgrounds.
He holds a Bachelor of Arts degree in Political Science from Millsaps College in Jackson, Mississippi, a Master of Divinity degree from Princeton Theological Seminary in Princeton, New Jersey, and a Doctorate of Ministry degree from Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena, California.
He is married to Shameka Daniels and they are the proud parents of two sons Dharius Seth and Gabriel Micah Daniels. Visit Dr. Dharius on the web at www.dhariusdaniels.com.
Stay connected:
Website - dhariusdaniels.com
Facebook - / dharius.daniels
Instagram - / dhariusdaniels
Twitter - / dhariusdaniels
Пікірлер: 618
Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got U He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2022 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️~Marcia~
@dejajust6286
Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏼 What a beautiful word Queen 👑 Thank you 🤗 I wish you All God’s Best.
@latoyasmith733
Жыл бұрын
Amen!!🙏🏾😇
@ishikawatts1702
Жыл бұрын
Amen!! I wish you all the more ❤️🙏🏽
@straighttalkwithsteph6305
Жыл бұрын
Thanks and right back at you!
@lisaknox3416
Жыл бұрын
Thank you I truly needed to hear this right now so heart broken
“I’m Too old and too busy to keep going through breakups” AMEN ❤
@natashiaformley8348
3 ай бұрын
This...
There needs to be an entire 8 to 12 week message on this service only. This honesty is NOT discussed enough in our homes. PD, as always, you PREACHING preaching!!! 🙌🏽🙏🏼
@authorpreneursecrets
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. This gave me so much clarity.
@lawrencemichaeldavis2401
Жыл бұрын
He did its on KZread
Framework 1.) Equally Yoked ✨ 2.) Authentically Attractive 💕(First of All, I’m 6’2 😩😂) 3.)Emotionally Connected 4.) Economically Aligned
@authorpreneursecrets
Жыл бұрын
I searched for the notes. Thank you.
@victoriadream
Жыл бұрын
5.) Mutual Submission 6.) Sacrificial Love
@lindacorrin7847
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@kelp3737
Жыл бұрын
❤
@zinzinyathela2490
3 ай бұрын
😂i thought iv neen dating..i found out that i mever dated..im taking notes
This is SO true. A moment with the wrong person can lead to years of heartache!! Take the time, keep yourself reserved and make sure God is showing you who this person is and if he/she is for YOU. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@barbarawanderson4627
Жыл бұрын
Thanks to God be the glory for what he has done. Please pray for me and let the Lord continue to bless you and your family
“Church attender does not mean Christ like character” oooooh weeee pastor called a lot of folks out
This had me in tears. I was tormented but my ex husband for years and still going through nonsense. But I thank you, God, for giving me the apology that I know I’ll never get from him. Thank you Lord for setting me free. I was forced to be strong and move on for so long that I didn’t really have the permission to grieve the way I needed to. Thank you. This was for me.
@angelam.1416
Жыл бұрын
Praying for your continued strength!
@mariasolomon419
Жыл бұрын
Glooorrrrrryyyyyy hallelujah 🙌🏽 God is restoring and redeeming all the time that was used while you were married and now separated. Our God is faithful forever 🙏🏽
@Heal.grow.elevate
Жыл бұрын
@@mariasolomon419 Amen!! I thank you Him for being by my side.
@rodericafreeman7603
Жыл бұрын
Bianca, I am in the exact same boat! May God continue to strengthen and bless you!!!
@user-kj8nx5ct2y
Жыл бұрын
This sermon had me in tears as well I needed that apology as well too sis 🙌🏾🙏🏾. I pray for your continued healing !
I've listened to this on repeat since yesterday. I definitely need to make some changes in my life by eliminating people who dont respect/ honor my standards/ boundaries. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
"A love that is willing to abandon preferences because you've got a greater purpose! " "Purpose requires your heart to be in it"
@mariasolomon419
Жыл бұрын
whhhheeeewwww!!!!
@AdrienneAliciaGodsDaughter
8 ай бұрын
💣💥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😇😇😇
God sends help not company I want a man tht knows how to stay a nd fight. I want a praying man a man tht dnt play games I know hurt like no other this time around I want God's best for me . 😢I know it's coming I trust God while he works on me 💕🙏 ❤
I needed this message years ago. I could have saved myself a life time of pain
@dhev1666
Жыл бұрын
Omg me too been with one and only partner my husband this could have helped me so much regret so much
Salvation free, sanctification costs- take up your cross and follow me.
Just being transparent. Normally I would have passed on a Word on relationships because Im not presently in one. But this Word was indeed a game changer for me. I have so many notes and take aways to reference. Be the devil also uses loneliness which is a trap I have fallen into before.
Don't play with other person heart for the purpose of entertainment .🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Dr. Daniel's, another heaven sent message!! I wish you were my local pastor and your wife was my first Lady.
This sermon has been a blessing and is truly amazing!!
Pastor Dharius was snatching my edges from the first 10 minutes. I needed to hear this message for the season that I am in.
This is a generation of opportunist most people are in it for something other than the right things!
It’s tight already….Chile it’s been tight 🙌🏾😩😩😩help Lord😩😩😩😩
I’m still like 🤯😩. This message was soooo timely🙌🏽👏🏽. I’m definitely saving this to my favorites.
@daniellethomas1059
Жыл бұрын
So did I! My daughter listened with me and she saved it too
@BeverlyAdaeze
Жыл бұрын
Haaayy Janay 👋🏾 😂
@dianalee7925
Жыл бұрын
Me too.
@W.I.T._with_Jas
Жыл бұрын
@@BeverlyAdaeze It is her sister Jasmine Bev. Lol!
"Some of you were wounded so greatly that your pride didn't let you grieve properly." "Doesn't the person that you're with now - who is an answer to your prayer - deserve your whole heart?" "Move on without the apology."
The highest form of value is Time. Amen!!!!
Doesnt matter how fine you are because if the lights off u cant see them LOL
Come On REAL MAN OF GOD. I LOVE THE PREACHING SERMONS THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT PUT IN YOU.
You marry what you like, are emotionally attracted to, who's your friend and economically aligned with🔥🔥🔥 that's good Doc
No more Dating for Me .... There is a Biblical Process that I Am on and , that's It !
This was SO great. Your gift with words blesses me every time I listen. It's like you're talking directly to me and it's always on time. You break it down where it makes me understand, I feel secure, and it gives me strength to grow.
Thank YOU LORD for HEALING ❤️🩹 MY BROKEN HEART!!! 🙌🏾
This was TRULY THOUGHT PROVOKING. I've NEVER EVER HEARD ANYTHING RELATIONAL BROKEN DOWN LIKE THIS!! SPIRITUAL BREAKTHROUGH & HEALING THIS TRULY WAS ANNOINTING EXCAVATION 🙏🏽🙌🏾
Not running from but to Jesus 🙌🏾 become like Jesus is Christianity
Kinfolk thank you for not playing games with the devil. Straight 🔥. This message is so classic!!! Go forward and higher 📈 my brother!!!
Oh My GOD, I lost it when you said "cringe when they kiss me"😂
{How Do We Treat Them} 👩🏽⚖️Service:: If we serve one another in a relationship; everyone needs get met.” 🧎🏽♀️Submission:: Somebody gotta land the Plane. And that’s you Brotha”mutual submission:: is where the person recognized who gifted in a certain area of the relationship is where you submit in that area they gifted in) ❤️🔥Sacrificial Love:: A love that is willing to abandon preferences because you got a greater purpose.
@kellycarroll3601
Жыл бұрын
Thank you sis I needed this couldn’t do my notes this time 🖤 much appreciated
Not kissing me and CRINGING !!!! 🤣🙌🏾🤣🙌🏾
Devil is a liar! I know my value and worth! Amen
My God you preaching to me!!!
33:33 - 34:09 and it was at this moment God used PD to set me free!! 🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️🏃🏿♀️
Loved this! Been single for 12 years now and I think I’m ready to give dating a serious shot again despite the bad experiences I’ve had along the way. I’m in no rush but I do think there is a person out there wanting who I am and me wanting who they are….. We shall see! If not, I am fully prepared to stay single. Things have totally changed in the dating/relationship world. I don’t feel as if I’d be missing much lol
@standforluv
Жыл бұрын
You are very beautiful! If you live in Atlanta I would love to get to know you 🌹
@MySignatureSoul
Жыл бұрын
@@standforluv Hello! Thank you! ☺️Unfortunately I do not live in ATL. I am further the opposite way, up north.
@standforluv
Жыл бұрын
@@MySignatureSoul dang it!! Lol
@MySignatureSoul
Жыл бұрын
@@standforluv lol story of my life 🤷🏽♀️
@standforluv
Жыл бұрын
@@MySignatureSoul I feel good energy from you. Hit me up on Facebook. Just type my name in and you’ll see a picture of me and my daughter as my profile picture.
I was in the building and taking notes when he preached this…and here I am watching AGAIN! 🔥
@user-kj8nx5ct2y
Жыл бұрын
I watched this sermon twice it was fire !
RECEIVED & STILL RECOVERING from betrayal & many years of mental abuse. BUT GOD is GOOD....!!!!!❤😘 I WILL SURVIVE.....in my GLORIA GAYNER voice🙏🔥🙏🎶🙏🎼🙏🎵 Thank you Pastor Dharius🙏🙏
This is so powerful! I’m so glad I listened to this message! No way will I get into another relationship and be unequally yoked… I’m not getting stuck with the bill for their lack of growth!
@DubberRucks
Жыл бұрын
Preach! ☝️
I don’t believe that I have ever heard such a comprehensively solid, balanced and wise sermon on relationships. Loving God, I thrive as a single person, and I have very little incentive to marry, for all the reasons that you state. I fully realise that a healthy Godly relationship can be fulfilling. But you certainly need the right ingredients, which you so beautifully worded. Being a business leader here in Amsterdam, Europe, I recognise and experience the effects of everything that you teach about leadership, so true. I love to submit to the wisdom of those in the team that I lead. And I love to give them every honour for that. This has brought great blessing, joy and trust amongst my team. Thank you Pastor, you are my mentor from a distance.
@rubyburks
Жыл бұрын
Yes God wanted me to here this thank you jesus
@rubyburks
Жыл бұрын
I am ✋️ on a Godi am married fearing man one day I am married but I am also not married
@rubyburks
Жыл бұрын
What. I want he don't
@rubyburks
Жыл бұрын
It was a trick
@rubyburks
Жыл бұрын
I now lad down this foolish marriage 💑 and followed Jesus and be what he want me to me it feel so much better my marriage is equal yolkbut so true the devil is alie
I felt this sermon in my bones!!!! Whew, Lord!
Purpose requires my heart to be in it. The devil doesn't want us to bring our hearts into nothing. Heeeeeeaaaallllllliiiiinnnnnggg in Jesus name Amen
That one that got a hold on me set the bar. I messed it up; BUT GOD!!! He came back and it’s like I’m looking at my twin and most of all he’s my BEST FRIEND!!! We are friends before anything. Shalmar said, Second Time Around it’s better than the first.
I've cried out to the Lord
A responsibility to manage GOD children. When you are an example of leadership, there is no reason to convince.❤❤
This sermons made me cry 😢😭...the holy sprit was truly speaking to me....moving on my God have better
34:54 - 35:15 Maaaaan, Dr. Daniels was preaching to me on that part because I've been through that personally, and it SUCKS. Thank God for GROWTH 😂!!
Thank you for apologizing for the mishandling others have done. That really touched me💞
That’s my Pastor! A man of God. I’m so blessed to be under his guidance of the Word of God. He’s very transparent and keep it real. Thank you PD🥰
@CoachMarcia
Жыл бұрын
That's my pastor too 🙌🏾 so blessed to be under His leadership
Single an want to make sure the lord ordained my union ... My relationship with you lord I can't do without ...
The reality is some people are just innately good people and others are not, whether in, from the church, faith or not, that is the reality. Having God in your life does make you better though!
Wow Spirit of the Age - carnal culture versus Jesus culture
I’ve heard sermons about relationships before but none of them being explained like this 😮. Dr Dharius broke it down in such a way that it was relatable ❤️. After 7:35-7:55, I caught a flashback & was invested after that. Definitely have to watch this again 💯
Purpose requires your heart to be in it.. Lord help me to bring my whole heart into all that I do. Heal my heart and my wounds from the inside out so that I can reap in joy
REALNESS! Felt the authentically attracted part in particular!!! 🙏🏾👌🏾
@CoachMarcia
Жыл бұрын
Yass
The devil reminds us why we want to stay. Not why we left. 😤
This spoke to me on so many levels. While I still need prayer and God to heal my heart, I am thankful that he has covered and protected me from continued heartache and pain. Thank you Lord for Forgiveness and Grace 🙏🏾. Thank you Pastor Daniels for being obedient and allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you 🙏🏾❤️
Help us Lord Jesus to make wise decisions in every area of our lives. Lord we, I need you in all my decision making.
Lord… open the wounds and reconstruct today now and forever.
TODAY I knew from a “woman’s point of view” how PAINFUL a relational heartbreak feels… Because so many women I know are going through Ministering from behind my styling chair, encouraging them, lifting my sisters up, “If God be for Us, who can be Against Us” & “What God has Joined Together, let No Man put Asunder” But Pastor When I tried to explain to my husband how this felt and how painful it was to feel safe and truly loved and have trust in what he said to me, I’m just hustling I’m going out of town for this music I’m working All the lies 😢 To hear YOU say to me: “I’M SORRY!” Hit home so deep I thought I had cried 2-years ago and here doing what I knoGod has asked me to do! Because my flesh wants me to quit😔 I know I have to do this My second marriage I happened there too, Cheating This time though… My friend My ride or die Wow!! But God A hard road, but necessary God needed me back on track I lost myself in this one Thank You for praying for me A Man of God understands Means the World to me Keep Loving that Beautiful Wife the way you do ❤️ By the way, I introduced my husband to your teaching He watches you all the time Keep doing what you do God Bless🦾
I definitely needed to hear 👂🏽 this one because I have been saving myself for a few years now trying to make sure I don’t make the same mistakes I made previously with giving my heart out! Because I love so hard and genuinely, I always end up with ppl that don’t even deserve the time of the day (not cocky or proud, just being real) ‼️ Thank you PD, I know I’m not the only one that needs and appreciate this 🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽💯🔥😌💍🤔
@strugglelove2679
11 ай бұрын
STAY strong sis
@dozzyheart
11 ай бұрын
@@strugglelove2679 thank you, please do the same 😌
Wow!! Just 3 mins in and Pastor is already tearing it up.
I just came across this message today, and I recently went through a traumatic breakup , and this was absolutely everything that I needed to hear and apply❤️
I was talking to God today while cutting my grass about relationships and being patient and how my family said good things come to those who wait and I've been scarred for my past relationships and then all of a sudden this message pops up on my KZread and I click on it so thank you for this word
13 min and you are speaking straight facts! I am in SC but I love you so much lol.. You are so real, raw. God bless you Dr. Dharius Daniels and continue to be about kingdom’s business. And, thank you God for just being God. ❤️ Amen!
Life changing for sure. I feel like DR. D just gave out gold plates! This message tells us so much, it was loaded, valuable information that we can use forever!!! He made us richer today! Thanks so much♥️
Serve each other. Everyone needs gets met. Mutual submission!
In Jesus name I do not want to be the one Lord. I want you and need you in my life.❤
yes God giving me my own closer is the only way I was 85% restored I am continuing to do self work.
I listened to this video 6 times this week already. I want this to be something that I keep going back to
@annahmakhubela7427
10 ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉
Glory!!! This message brought me to tears 😭😭 But I thank God for it all, the good, the bad & the ugly!
Pastor had it ALL TOGETHER TODAY!!!!
Yesss, I am Who He Says I Am!!!! Amen
Sacrificial Love!! Recipe for the kind of relationship we can have. Heart Healing ❤️ ❤ Heal the scars!
And YES, I will KEEP listening to this message! EVERY SINGLE TIME I NEED A WORD REGARDING MY SINGLENESS FROM ONE OF GODS ANOINTED!!! Cause it’s some jokers out here..Lord Jesus!!! Greater is HE who is in ME!!!!!!
That Bible was for you Dr. Dharious. Thank you for this message... May God continue to keep you and your family...🙏❤
Thank you LORD For this Awesome word!!!
Good message. We can't be driven by culture. We walk by FAITH, not by sight and we are to be led by God's Spirit, not our flesh.
Pray for Nicole Chevalier Hall Matthew Anderson senior and Jr. Kammye Nicole Huey DorioN Douglas Smith In the name of Jesus Christ 🙏🏿
I am behind in my development when it comes to romantic relationships. I found this information to be clear ,concise and data is both observational and measurable.🙏
@joer8273
Жыл бұрын
Being able to identify that you’re behind in your development in that area is an ENORMOUS step to growth. Congratulations! I know that moment well, and I’ve thirsted for that growth ever since and now pass it on to others. It’s truly a transformational moment for you and that excites me for you. Enjoy the journey. One of my coaching clients had this moment about a year ago, and she chose to go a year without a relationship. And she’s about 9 months in and tells me all the time how making that choice gave her the free bandwidth to make all of her discoveries. It’s incredible to see her growth now: understanding of self, boundaries, standards, etc. I wish you all the best on your quest!
Did I not just cry like I'm grieving again for the first time. I'm sorry Dr Dharius is my Pastor and that's it. I'm learning so much from him all the way from South Africa🇿🇦❤️❤️
@Ruth-vb3sx
Жыл бұрын
8:45p.m (ct) Sat. July 22, 2023. God will always send His Word of Deliverance, Restoration & Strengthening to you wherever you are, on this earth. God bless
Consequential - it effects everything that's important. Decisions are this consequential should not be made casually. Spirit of this age when it comes to Relational decision
You can be spirit filled and be spirit led
Jesus... there was a season that I didn't know my value. But i know it now. "I grow and you get the benefit of my growth", the devil is a liar
Omg”a good leader recognizes who’s gifted where”👏
Such good relationship guidance! Thank you Pastor Daniels!
Preacher it brother very powerful message ✝️
Yes, it makes perfect sense because money is God in a lot of these houses. A lot of Christians serve mammon more than God- not even just family.
God, thank you for being our safe haven. You know every thing that ever hurt, ever deceived, or ever crossed our paths. Heal our hearts to be in alignment with Your will only. Help us to desire the relationship dynamic that Christ has with the church. Not just romantically but with You, our friends, our family and even within ourselves. Remove the carnal and worldly teachings and replace with Christ, Your Word and Your promises. You are the redeemer of all things. Amen 🙏🏾
That one that got through! Wheeewww I cried for 2 weeks knowing I couldn't have him like my heart told me I could.
@antvondia1313
Жыл бұрын
Chile say that 👏…..
@joer8273
Жыл бұрын
I went to prison for 5 years for loving my girl and everyDAY I honored my promise to love her forever (to her request and my pleasure) and I haven’t seen or talked to her since. It’s been over seven years now and I still can’t do anything less than tell her in my heart that I love her forever and pray for her daily. My heart, my spirit even has told me I’d have her back. Reality has not tho. I’ve asked God in prayer to PLEASE take this desire out of my heart if it is not his will. But yet it remains. I’ve checked myself against 1 Cor 13 and I’m loving as I ought. So I’m stuck. I just know I laid down my life for her, which the Bible says there is no greater love than, but I don’t know what’s next. The Word says God gives wisdom generously to those who diligently seek him, but I feel like I have NO wisdom on this one. I just keep doin the next right thing and growing daily. And I love and honor her without a need to know she or anyone else is watching. So I feel ya. This one is getting through too.
PD you kept it ALL THE WAY REAL! This was a word we need to marinate in!!! I had to go back & listen to digest this word for word! Lord thank you for guidance in the word💯
@karenfreeman9571
Жыл бұрын
💯
This is great information!!! Praise GOD! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
This is one of the best messages I’ve ever heard! Love you Pastor and my Change Church family! Your messages are touching people and changing lives!!!
HALLELUJAH!! HOWEVER, I GOT FREEEEEEE!! PRAISE GOD🎉🎉🎉
Thanks Dr Daniels you are healing my heart ❤️❤️❤️
PD is on point!!!! He is as REAL as they come...Love it!!! Love his ministry.
We can go to God's house together but you can't come to mine.
God sent this to me right on time. I cant even fathom smh he is so faithful