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Hello everyone, welcome back to our channel. Today, I want to share something very important with you, something that I believe is essential for you to grasp fully. It's about recognizing your own worth. Recently, I came across a comment that really caught my attention. The commenter disagreed with my views on narcissists wanting us back. I can't recall who made the comment, but it made me think, and I want to address this topic in today's video. Feeling like the narcissist doesn't want you back is a common reaction, and I completely understand why you might feel this way. It seems as though they are indifferent, perfectly fine without you, and this might lead you to believe they genuinely don't want you back. This understanding comes from being devalued by them, leading to a diminished sense of self-worth. My perspective comes from a six years post-narcissistic relationship. I've been in your shoes and have moved forward from that point. As I've mentioned in previous videos, it took four years for a Hoover attempt to occur. Four years is no short period, and such attempts don't happen without significant reason, especially considering the lengths they went to, involving the police and tarnishing my reputation.
I want to emphasize the importance of recognizing your own value. Narcissists don't just choose anyone; they conduct a thorough selection process before targeting someone. My goal is for you to rediscover and return to the person you were before the relationship. Healing and understanding the narcissist's mindset are central themes of our channel. To put it simply, if you've been considered a Grade A Supply, it means you were seen as someone of high value to the narcissist. Being a Grade A Supply involves being kind, loving, and supportive, essentially someone who uplifts and builds up the narcissist. You played a significant role in their lives, helping them grow beyond where they were when you first met. If you consistently provided such high-quality support, you embody the true essence of an empath.
It's important to understand that narcissists thrive on this kind of supply, which boosts their ego and eventually leads to them looking down on us. This marks a reversal in roles; initially, they recognized our superiority over them, regardless of physical appearance, social status, or wealth. They employed various manipulation tactics, including eliciting sympathy and charming their way into our lives, to establish a connection with us. This relationship lasted for a certain duration, during which we played a crucial role in their lives.
"Disclaimer: The information provided in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you suspect you or someone you know may be involved with a narcissist, or are dealing with any psychological issues, please consult a qualified healthcare professional. This content is shared to offer insights and perspectives and should not be considered as professional or medical counsel."
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You keep doing what your doing. Your helping alot of people my dear! ❤
@NarcPedia
29 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! I'm glad to hear that the content is helpful. ❤
You and I are so in tune 🙏💓🙏
@NarcPedia
25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm really glad to hear that we resonate with each other. Your support and connection mean a lot to me. 🙏💓
thank you very much for your kindness. I don’t know how I will get this out of my head. I always feel that I am missing the one missing out when I am avoid social activities, I feel that I am being immature letting this affect me, my sister can’t believe that I still hold a grudge. Since this happened 2 1/2 years ago, I spoke to him a few times however I didn’t know he had a girlfriend at that time, and she was not welcome at a social activity, my sister was furious with him. He even had the nerve to ask me if I wore his favourite sweater and I told him why would I be wearing your sweater…
@NarcPedia
28 күн бұрын
It sounds like you're going through a really tough time, and it's completely understandable to feel the way you do. Holding onto such feelings can be challenging and draining. Sometimes, talking to a professional or someone you trust can help you process these emotions and find a way to move forward. Remember, it's okay to feel what you're feeling, and taking care of your mental health is important.
My ex is my brother in law’s best friend and nephew’s godfather. I found out he had a tinder profile went to home and took all my belongings and showed screenshots of his tinder profile. He has a gf and I avoid all social activities when he and is gf are invited. My nephew recently graduated from high school and we were celebrating afterwards. My sister told me at the last minute that he and his gf were going so I refused to go to the restaurant. It’s 2 1/2 years ago and it still bothers me.
@NarcPedia
29 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like a very challenging situation, and it's understandable that it still affects you. Prioritizing your own well-being and setting boundaries is important. I hope you find peace and healing in time.
My past ex wife narc is living with a homeless man who cleans up goes to bars in our small town and picks up women, to stay with, maybe a narc also. She has money now and I think she is a target for him. I got used maybe she is now.
@NarcPedia
26 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It sounds like a difficult situation, and I hope you are finding peace and moving forward. Stay strong and take care of yourself.
She had true love in front of her and wanders it way by using her childhood past what a fool for a woman throw away a blessing like that to me that is a stupid woman straight up and that is my feelings towards her something she will never get back, As I stand the door permanently close she needs too take accountability for that and do I feel sorry for her no because she did it to herself for her evil actions and too be frankly honest I didn't know she was a narcissist too being with. And how she was treating my heart and abusing my love and trust at the same time then i start watching videos on narcissists i never experience anything like this in my life or in my heart or pain never again i don't care what color woman she is my discerning on for christ sake and it does take a long time to heal from narcissist abuse and in the book of job in the bible job call his wife a foolish woman and she was too the fullest and that what i think of this person for a year and half and peace 😂
@NarcPedia
29 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience and feelings. It's clear you've been through a lot and have learned from this difficult situation. Healing from narcissistic abuse can be a long process, but recognizing the truth is a significant step. Wishing you peace and strength as you move forward.
@MegaRockstar48
27 күн бұрын
Been through exactly the same mate. I walked away in the 10th of January after being with her for two years. At the end of the day even my love, attention and loyalty couldn’t help her or change her into a decent human being. Her past trauma was evidently too great. Even after all the abuse I had to endure I feel sorry for her and do still love her