Megan You sweet young gal. See I used the word gal. That let's you know I'm not a young Mom. I love you tube. I felt the same when I started hearing about "self care"on every channel I subscribe to. I felt oh know! Just more on self centeredness. I very much appreciate your take on it, and how you expressed time for your faith, and the simple pleasures the world has to care for ourselves. May I offer the one I have everyday. I prepare a breakfast tray each evening while I'm cleaning up after dinner. So every morning I get up, make my coffee, toast, fruit, yogurt, whatever, put it on the tray and take the tray to the prettiest spot in my house and just enjoy the indulgence of being served on a tray. It make a me feel like a queen. Ladies try it! It's just a small effort with big impact on starting you day Sincerely Lisa

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, this is a great one!

@Suprachiasmatic

4 жыл бұрын

Deborah Kennedy I wonder why you watch her videos if you find them to be so boring?

@mayolson2

4 жыл бұрын

@@mk8784 Your comment was super! My feeling also.YT and FB have become a forum for lousy rude comments. Bless those who have nothing nice to say and in a round about way delivery as to describe their real feelings.

@briannapeters4936

4 жыл бұрын

Lisa, you sound so sweet! I’m taking on your idea ☺️

@cindykaye3152

4 жыл бұрын

@@majoroldladyakamom6948 Megan is such a wise, kind woman of faith that I know she will not respond negatively to you in any way. She will respect your opinion, unlike how you treated her. I have no idea what is happening in your life right now that would cause you to attack her so vehemently, but I hope your day goes better for you. May God truly be with you.

One thing my mom told me was "If you don't take care of yourself you cannot take care of others" . That means in every way,

@supersparkley123

4 жыл бұрын

Karen Smith yesssss, my mom says that too!

@deannolt5588

4 жыл бұрын

That is golden!

@dottieb5776

3 жыл бұрын

So so true something will suffer if you don’t take care of yourself..

Thanks Megan! I just took a long hot bubble bath, rubbed my favorite true blue spa shea cashmere hand cream all over my 62 year old hands and arms. Now I'm baking a chocolate cake and 2 cherry pie. It's going to be a great day!

@marieadelegrosso163

4 жыл бұрын

Your post just made me smile, thank you so much for bringing positivity into my day!

Oh love when you played the piano!

I heard somewhere that people who have a hobby live longer and have less chance of developing dementia. I crochet and I am taking a sewing class. I get so much out of it! It’s almost a form of mindfulness. I also get joy from giving what I’ve made to others. I also love to walk and organise my cupboards and drawers! Can’t beat organisation to clear my head 😊

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

All great suggestions!

One of my favorite self care tips is being aware of my rate. What I mean is, am I in a rush or am I going through everything at an even pace. I manage mental illness without medication. I noticed that I would rush around trying to get things done and it would cause me to be very anxious. Then when one of my kids would (inevitably) start whining or something like that, I would lose my patience. I've found that intentionally slowing down makes me more able to handle things. My favorite tip you gave was about clothing. Not too tight, not too loose. Comfortable clothing makes a big difference (there's lots of studies on how it affects us psychologically). Also, my hair makes a big difference too. It needs to be pulled back off my face or I feel like I can't do things easily. Love this channel! Have a great day Megan!

@svetlanareut1019

4 жыл бұрын

Oh I can totally relate

My precious mother, who passed away 7 years ago, said that we think about ourselves too much. And I agree. If we think about our problems all the time it can cause depression. Also, it is wriiten to think on things that are good. God knew we would need that. We definitely have to recharge too just like Jesus did. Great video❤

@mayolson2

4 жыл бұрын

Your Mom was a very smart lady.

@Sisterlisk

3 жыл бұрын

Childhood trauma can also cause depression. Not focusing on it doesn't help, therapy helps. Maybe we are thinking about two different types of depression :)

Orangey one definitely. Looks like a cozier color.

@mamadahling

4 жыл бұрын

Robyn Downing and the whole gray/grey color popularity is going to look more dated when things change again down the road.

"Maybe I'm a nerd, I don't know" - Me too!! Never stop learning! 💓

Though I am not a mom yet at this stage of my life, I enjoy watching your "mom content" because it makes me excited about the mom life that I will once hopefully have. Best wishes to you! ❤️

Great for this pastor’s wife .... pouring out all the time leaves an empty vessel so definitely need to sit at the feet of Jesus .....an empty vessel can cause what my therapist calls “ compassion fatigue “.....great suggestions!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

God bless you for all your hard work that may sometimes go unnoticed! 🧡

This is probably my most favorite (and needed) video of yours! The giving and the worrying never stops (mom of 4, 14yrs-4yrs). You have some great ideas... thank you!

Finally, some REAL self care tips! Thank you ❤

The baking self care idea is seriously exactly how I feel. My dad always asks me “why do u bake so much?”, because we have a small family and I mostly give away the treats. I just find peace in being able to be in complete control of something thats also relaxing and just like you said, instant results! I’m still planning on making your apple pie. Much love! Xoxo

I definitely agree with the dressing tip! Whenever I feel comfortable in my clothes I feel like it just helps me to be positive and not feel "trapped". I love watching your videos even though I'm not a Mom yet! Thank you for sharing!💕

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! You made it all the way to the end!

I totally agree with you Megan, I love the warmer tone flooring with the brick in the living room! Thanks for sharing the progress, it’s fun to see you & how great of a mom you are! ❤️❤️

Thank you for being so real and transparent it's so refreshing to see someone just be themselves and be real with the world.

Megan, I am soooo blessed to have found your channel in my recommendations!! You are such a kind, beautiful, intelligent soul, so wise beyond your years!! I'm old enough to be your mom & my three girls are 19, 14 & 10, but I'm learning how to be a better mother, homemaker & daughter of Christ by watching your wonderful channel! Thank you for sharing your life with us, Megan!! God bless you & your precious family!!!

i really love your videos. I am a non-denominational Christian. i really like videos like this. it reminds me to not forget my time with God. i often forget to do my devotionals on you version and i really need to get more disciplined and do my devotionals regularly. You are an inspiration Megan. We may have our doctrinal differences, but our similarity is that we both love Jesus with all of our hearts. You are an amazing role model and I love watching how you mother your kids. I haven't had any children yet, so I have been doing some devotionals on courtship and dating and watching videos like this helps me to learn about motherhood and prepare myself for motherhood. Thanks Megan for all you do on youtube.

I've been applying serum and lotion to my face every night and that makes me feel so good! It's something little but it's "me" time. Nice video I love how sweet you are.

Love the genuine sincerity of these videos! Keep up the great work Megan!!

Thank you so much for your videos. You plant little seeds of inspiration in our lives. My children are now grown. I miss them so dearly. I wish i could have had these tips when i was raising them. I will still implemente some of these to help in my life. Thanks again!

Watching this while I clean the house up during my daughters nap. I love love love this video! Such great ideas and an awesome reminder I needed

Just wanted to say thank you for your videos. Our family was/is going through a very tough season and your channel has been like a bright, relaxing and inspiring light!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Oh dear! So sorry! 🙏

I really appreciate this video! Its so sad our society is so "me" focused. Love your self care!

Love this video👍🏼 Those little tips can make such a huge difference in the end 🥰

Love this video! I’ve gotten sick of hearing about ‘self care’ but I love how you pointed everyone to Christ! And yes to the baking! I definitely do that when I’m overwhelmed and stressed. And cleaning. I put in earbuds with my favorite music and clean away! Thank you for sharing your heart!

Oh how I remember those days as a mom with littles! Mine are all teenagers now, but I had 4 that were 5 and under!!!! Getting outside/ going for a walk was my go to option when days were stressful and kids were cranky. The change in scenery always seemed to do the trick! On a side note....check out the planners from In the Leafy Treetops. I've used it for a few years now and it's great for keeping you, your family and your home organized.

These were really good tips. Very simple and practical. Love the ones about hand lotion and clothes - small daily things like that can make such a huge difference in mood.

Good tips and encouragement for us today! Also the warm tone floor would really make your room feel cozy!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for weighing in!

I homeschool my son, but I cannot wrap my head around “unschooling”. We are very structured & classical.

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

I think that's what I would naturally gravitate towards too, but unschooling sure is interesting!

Love, love, love this video, Megan thanks so much for doing this! I too have wondered about the whole "self care" thing, but also agree us Mama's need to take care of ourselves or we can't care for our people. I love some of your ideas! I enjoy an occasional night out with a group of friends, it's so up lifting and encouraging. I walk with my kiddos some too. And I love baking, it's my stress reliever!

Your kids are getting so big so fast! You are so blessed and I so enjoy you having fun with your kids and life in general. I’m not in your season of life anymore, but it’s so sad to me to hear moms and parents in general complain about their babies and kids. That’s the easy part! Enjoy the babies! Also- I had an old Kitchen Aid dishwasher and it was amazing! We had to replace it and the new ones never last long. I so enjoy your videos! You’re a true Proverbs woman and stay strong in Him! ❤️

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Yes babies are fun! But I think some people might have really hard babies so I will never judge. But living with an attitude of complaining is never right!

I love your personality and just the way you think! 💞

totally agree on the learning!! It's invigorating! great tips BTW!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks! 🧡 I've learned a lot from your channel!

I am 54 with two older children and I loved your ideas! I love sitting down with a good book and a hot cup of tea as a little treat to myself! Love your vlogs Megan!!

Megan I am a grandmom taking care of my grand daughter almost full time. Its refreshing to see someone your age loving God with your whole heart. I also enjoy hearing a person with good grammar. For instance saying anyway instead of the usual “anyways”. You & Lynette Yoder are so good about that. Take care!

Great video, Megan! ~Lillian

Thanks for taking the time to share your heart and give us all reminders of how we can take care of ourselves Megan. I really appreciate you. 🌹

The second floor sample it beautiful next to the FP brick. 👍🏼😉 Thats my favorite. And love the applesauce! Ours is often pink too! Yummy!

I like the orangier flooring! It’ll look great with the grey and white in the rest of the room :)

Loved the video! (Always like them). Got my new planner out for 2020, poured myself a cup of tea and started planning the new year! Thanks for the ideas, have a lovely day!

Yes, God is number 1. If we get that right, self-care will be in balance, not self-absorbed.

Thanks for the reminder and encouragement! God bless you!💜

Thank you for being so encouraging always!! I agree with you about focusing too much on self care can become an issue. I really enjoyed your suggestions! I also find enjoyment sitting down and playing the piano or violin, so you're not alone there :)

Oh Megan! What a wonderful reminder to stop and put the to-do list aside for a moment to BAKE!! Keeps the family happy and full and helps our mind refresh! :)

You are so wise! Hand lotion is the best! We all hold a lot of tension there, plus a free massage ! Feels great! Your points were “on point”. Thank you! P.S. you play the piano with feeling, just like my Mom did. I miss her madly, but you brought me joy and thoughts of her when you played! Keep your playing in your videos please!

Great advice on self-care! Loved the video!!!

Thank you for this video! Some good ideas - I love the idea about putting effort into your clothing and focusing on learning something. It’s so easy to turn into frumpy mummy and being a life long learner means we can maintain our own unique self apart from motherhood. Be blessed

This year has been a year of learning for me. About myself about how to be a stay at home mom and wife. My self care lately has been baby quilts. Every time I see someone on Facebook are having a baby I make a special scrap quilt for them (with the permission of the parents of course) and send it off in the mail. I’m being creative, giving but I’m also using what I have and that’s really important to me. Another great video! Love it.

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Wow, this is amazing! Self care with a purpose beyond yourself!

being awake before my child and baking also helps me. Also to take a bath and I cannot play any instrument but I paint and is super relaxing! your autumm pan seems delicious!

This is my favorite video of yours so far! Love seeing the children, you playing the piano, (beautiful) and hearing a sweet young mama point folks to Jesus! You're so kind with how you present all that you say. Great testimony! ❤

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Wow thanks!🧡🧡

I vote for the warmer-toned flooring as well. I love The Daily Grace Co.! I have the Daughters of Grace and Hymns studies waiting for me when I finish my current study :)

I love the bit about clothes!! So true!

I just want you to know that this video could not have come at a better time! As a young mom I do still struggle sometimes with finding time for myself, Thank you for sharing all of these wonderful tips you implemented in this video I find very helpful even the simple ones like applying lotion because I do feel like that does give me a little extra boost in moments of Chaos🥰👍

This video spoke to my heart. Thank you, Megan!

Great advice for women, no matter the season we are in 😊 God bless you, Megan!

I am loving your channel! You have great ideas, are informative and after hearing you play the piano, I’m thinking the list of what you can’t do must be pretty darn short!

your baking is my lawn-mowing! (or, it was before I lived in an apartment) - it's the satisfaction of instantly seeing the results of your work. Plus, there's the physical exertion, the smell of freshly-cut grass, getting grubby (and, in this case, I don't even mind the smell of the exhaust).

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Heehee!😂 I actually enjoy mowing too!🧡

The area you love in is beautiful! It's like an autumn postcard. The warmer wood like better imo with the brick. Your living room is going to be so cozy ♥️

YESSSS!!! Jesus and Baking!!! Those are my two favorite things and bring me more joy and stress relief than ANYTHING else. Being with and just hanging out with my sweet husband (even after almost 20 years together) is also one of my favorite things to do! I’m a “planner” too! My hubby says I have lists for all my lists! 😂 Thanks for sharing this today! I definitely needed this reminder! ♥️♥️ May God Bless you & your precious little family abundantly and exceedingly! 🙏🏻🙏🏻

Great video! I love all the self care tips and yes, it is very important to take care of you also. Your stress doesn’t show in your face at all. Before you even said that, I was already going to comment on how beautiful your skin is. So natural and your cheeks are shiny and it just looks so nice. I was going to ask what you use on your face, but I know there is a video that addresses that. I think I remember you saying you change it up. The kids are so adorable and look so healthy and happy❤️. The music is so good for them also! Thanks again!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much and thanks for watching!

Loved this! The sweet time with your little ones and the sit down. When we moved I purposely didn’t get a dishwasher. I love the extra cupboard space, there’s the soothing hot sudsy water, I have a gorgeous view with birds bunnies squirrels etc, I’m making my kitchen into, as you said, a room my family wants to be in and I joke it’s guaranteed me time because when it’s time to do dishes everyone disappears lol. When I’m stressed I like to read Prov 31 virtuous wife. Sounds like an “I’ll never measure up” stressor but it actually calms me reminds me I’m growing in Christ and he loves me with all my short comings.

Love this video and the practical tips you offer! I like to wash and dry several loads of laundry during the day and then have them ready to fold when the kids go to bed. I make a cup of tea and watch an episode of my favorite tv series as I fold. It is productive and feels indulgent at the same time since I rarely have the tv all to myself. Part of self-care can be controlling our mind-set. My husband leaves for work about three hours before my kids wake up and I like to pack his lunch and see him out the door. I could complain about having to wake up so early, but I choose to see it as a gift. We get a few moments alone each morning. Then I have several hours of “me time”. I can do my devotions, exercise in the living room, take a hot shower, do my nails, or just start on the day’s chores so I feel a little ahead of the game. Most mornings, by the time the kids are awake, I feel productive and ready to start our school day. 🙂

The hand lotion idea is not silly at all - I'm a teacher currently and as you know it can be chaotic! Sneaking off for two minutes during lunch or recess to put on some hand cream/lip balm/grab a breath mint is refreshing. Love it x

i agree i like the oranger/ browner flooring! your little babes are so sweet! great video 😊

I agree with you about the floor, Megan! I think with the cool tone brick, the warmer wood flooring option would be better to richen up the colors in the room!!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Ok thanks for weighing in!🧡

Like the flooring with a hint of orange. Love your channel!

I'm old enough to be your mom, lol, but I love your videos! You are doing a great job at life!! ❤ ❤

@karenmariesmith3395

4 жыл бұрын

I'm old enough to be her mom too!.

This is so good!!

I have older kids, (they're teenagers!) but you inspire me to slow down, to be a better mom. Thanks for your channel. You're adorable. :)

Love these tips! And the clothes tip is everything! I have been a mom for 4 years and it took until my 3rd baby to realize wearing cloths that don’t fit makes me feel off!

Hi Megan, I read all kinds of books before I started homeschooling. John Holt began writing about unschooling and he made so much sense to me. we did a combo of unschooling and basics. the unschooling idea just took the pressure off and allowed me to enjoy the process. God bless.

Thanks for the inspiration...AGAIN 😊💗when baking cookies,research for healthy recipes with almond flour and then u can eat them without feeling mom guilt 😍

@thisgoldenhour

4 жыл бұрын

Ruth Ann Glick yess!! I use sprouted flour (which is a tad bit “stiffer” than all purpose) but find that if I switch out the sugar for maple syrup the results are very close to original (and much healthier).

You are so talented! So crafty, you sow your own dresses, you cook, you play piano! I am in awe

We love Cortland applesauce!!! Always so pretty and pink and we never add any sugar. Yes, keep your dishwasher if you can! They so don't work as great anymore! Beautiful music, playing! My daughter has a set of balloons gifted her for her birthday last year in Nov. They are very small but still have some air in them. She's trying to see if they'll last til her next birthday. They are small and in her drawer now but still some air in them!!! I would have never guessed!!! I needed this as I need to self care and spend more time at Jesus' feet. Then I can take care of the precious family God gave me.

Great topic Megan!🌸

Very inspiring!!

Yes, on your floor choice. If you are leaving the brick and mantel, as is. That warmer floor will be better

That Bible study looks gorgeous. I just "ran" over to the Daily Grace Co website and ordered it. Can't wait to get into it. Thanks for sharing!

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Yes , so pretty.

Great tips! I love watching your videos! Your children are beautiful!

My 1 1/2 year old daughter heard me watching your video from the living room and it got to the part where you were playing old McDonald on the piano and my daughter started clapping along giggling 😂❤ so cute. She doesn't watch your videos but she has caught some here and there (I like to enjoy your videos with my breakfast) anyways she always lights up when she sees the kids.

Hello Megan I LOVE your videos. i get very excited whenever you upload new things. I agree with you on the flooring choice. I think the 2nd option will enhance the look of the fire place and be more cozy for a living room . Thank you very much for recommending your friend (Bright Hope) . Her candles are WONDERFUL. She became my new favorite.

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Awww. I'm sure she appreciates your purchase!

Aww 🥰, my boys had those wooden toys and played with them for hours!

Love this type of video! Love watching your channel 😊.keep up the amazing content!... Christian Mennonite mommy in Ontario here :)

So we have grey floors in out church’s nursery, and you cannot see ANYTHING! After we mop, you can’t tell if it’s dry or still wet or if a kid spilt something. It’s not my favorite lol

I'm glad you're saying this about self care = self first, self only. There are so many moms, young women with KZread channels that are all about themselves, their shopping, their looks, their outfits, their EVERYTHING. Ugh it's so tiring. And the consumerism!!! Its almost obsene to me. It seems to me they do so much shopping to try to fulfil the emptiness that they feel despite spending so much time focusing on themselves. It's sad actually but that's why I love your channel. When feeling down try service to others, it helps. Btw the walk you took for yourself....good for you! That's a great idea & you don't need to be teaching or entertaining the children all the time. They were fine & it helped you win-win. Thanks for this vlog... You do a good job.

Great tips! Thanks Megan 😊

Megan I would love to see a Christian video on how you go about disciplining your kids. Does time out work for you? Positive reinforcement? What do you do? My kids don't seem to listen lol, I'm trying to figure out the best method. You seem like such a GREAT mom, such motivation!

Love your channel!!

I really love your videos, for so many reasons! I'm so grateful to be subscribed to your channel! 💖

I saw one of those swings at TS yesterday. Yes you need a hint of color on the floor.

Thank you for sharing so much wisdom!!!

So many great tips!

I agree with your perspective about self care.🙏🏽🌸🌼

I enjoyed watching your video as always. I love seeing your lunch ideas. It’s so reassuring to see the toy room. Mine is like that every day, the little bits drive me crazy! xx

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it is so easy and delicious!

I am loving your sheet pan dinner! And I wouldn't have thought to sprinkle a little brown sugar on it so I'm anxious to make it. Tfs. 💖

Your lotion idea is perfect

Goodmorning megan ! Have a beautiful day

@MeganFoxUnlocked

4 жыл бұрын

Why thank you! You too!🧡

Thank You so much for the link for modest clothes link “inheritco” that you have mentioned... i am a Muslim conservative woman and this link has helped me a lot. Thank You.