A Malaysian + Korean couple married for 38 years | international marriage love story

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A Malaysian + Korean couple who got married at a time when there wasn't much international interaction. They remind me of my mom and dad in the way they have fun even when they're bickering.
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  • @louisegoh5627
    @louisegoh5627 Жыл бұрын

    Honestly the wife looks more Korean than the husband and the husband looks more Malaysian than the wife 😂

  • @uwusachi

    @uwusachi

    Жыл бұрын

    True

  • @kingqueen4759

    @kingqueen4759

    Жыл бұрын

    그렇게 보인다 정말 사랑스러운 부부다 옛날에 본영상인데 아내는 중국화교다

  • @Ba-adAtty

    @Ba-adAtty

    Жыл бұрын

    For the first 4 minutes, I was thinking it was the husband who is malaysian..hahahah

  • @wonderfulfable

    @wonderfulfable

    Жыл бұрын

    Exactly! I thought Ruby was the Korean in this video and her husband was the Malaysian!

  • @user-ti5um5ek1t

    @user-ti5um5ek1t

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah exactly, I was thinking the same! That man looks Malaysian and the woman quite Korean.

  • @racheldesireefelix
    @racheldesireefelix Жыл бұрын

    Malaysian here and I love how she’s wearing a kebaya top for one of the interviews. Not only is she so beautiful, it also seems like she has adapted beautifully to 🇰🇷 & this is such a heartwarming story 🇲🇾🇰🇷❤️

  • @cj-fx2kj

    @cj-fx2kj

    Жыл бұрын

    kebaya is malay traditional cloth not 👲🏻

  • @racheldesireefelix

    @racheldesireefelix

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cj-fx2kj No thank you for trying to educate me about my very own Malaysian culture. Your comment makes no sense.

  • @cj-fx2kj

    @cj-fx2kj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@racheldesireefelix malaysian culture associate with malay and bumiputra sabah sarawak. u 👲🏻🧔🏿 culture not unique to malaysia is just same as china india

  • @manischen969

    @manischen969

    Жыл бұрын

    Ruby is wearing kebaya nyonya, popular among straits Chinese (cina peranakan) from Melaka, Penang and Singapore. This some of the assimilation, besides food from the Chinese leaving in the south east Asia. I think the kebaya also being worn by the Thai Chinese

  • @cj-fx2kj

    @cj-fx2kj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@manischen969 there's no such thing as peranakan. they basically just chnese. u think u can take malay culture and traditional wear then simply claim its yours? u just chnese just wear cheong sam la

  • @dance4ever940
    @dance4ever940 Жыл бұрын

    seriously for older generation this couple is so adorable! you can tell husband loves wife so much. Ruby is so really elegant & beautiful and doesn't look her age at all! I hope this couple lives happily for a long time!

  • @hyk33
    @hyk33 Жыл бұрын

    This auntie age so well! She look so young ! Hahaha I laughed at this couple's bickering as well. Cute couple. Hope they stay healthy and happy.

  • @kimreview6047

    @kimreview6047

    Жыл бұрын

    She nearly 60. I believe she got facelift surgery, my friend got the same surgery in korea and the result has a lot similar sign with her face. Beauty surgery is common in Korea. But she already pretty so she just need to stay young with the facelift surgery.

  • @Cx0ew

    @Cx0ew

    Жыл бұрын

    Nah, she's just Asian, it's normal

  • @kimreview6047

    @kimreview6047

    Жыл бұрын

    @Xin-it8ru she nearly 60. I am asian but i am not blind to ignore the sign of some surgery. And her husband is Korean(asian), in Korean is normal to give surgery as a gift.

  • @ericsohn5084

    @ericsohn5084

    Жыл бұрын

    @@kimreview6047 I mean it's possible she just looks that young. Some Asians look like they are in 30s at 60s...

  • @kimreview6047

    @kimreview6047

    Жыл бұрын

    @ericsohn5084 Yes there is possibility. But in my opinion, i see some unnatural sign for anti aging surgery on her face. Is different with asian natural young face that i know.

  • @nurhidayahabdullah1548
    @nurhidayahabdullah1548 Жыл бұрын

    In Malaysia being married to different cultures or foreigners is a normal sight. We welcome them with malaysian hospitality and accept them as one of us. There no discrimination or anything bad. Thats why Malaysia are called Malaysia Truly Asia, all cultures comes together as one. Even in Malaysia itself,marrying into different tribes is a common thing here. Chinese married to Indian, Malay married to chinese and the lists goes on. Cultures differences, beliefs and language differences that what make us Malaysia unique.

  • @user-ti5um5ek1t

    @user-ti5um5ek1t

    Жыл бұрын

    Why not so common Malay men with Indian women ?? Especially Indian Muslim women

  • @nadinefred752

    @nadinefred752

    Жыл бұрын

    @@user-ti5um5ek1tyou got to be kidding me? Then how mamak does exist?

  • @nurhidayahabdullah1548

    @nurhidayahabdullah1548

    Жыл бұрын

    There are but the not common maybe because of religious aspect. Me as a mix chinese, bidayuh tribe from Sarawak, married a malay man myself so we do celebrate many festive occasion, gawai dayak, chinese new year, hari raya and christmas. Inter marriage are so common nowadays even decades ago our ancestors did too.

  • @JK-eu8ri

    @JK-eu8ri

    Жыл бұрын

    *races, not tribes

  • @massalleh5255

    @massalleh5255

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@user-ti5um5ek1tI've seen several if it please you but the Indians tend to marry among themselves

  • @sjismail4600
    @sjismail4600 Жыл бұрын

    Aunty Ruby definitely brings Malaysia to S.Korea with her. You can see it from the wooden partition, dining table and chair. Very malaysia 😅 Love it!

  • @hyunrahan5265
    @hyunrahan5265 Жыл бұрын

    She has beautiful face, voice and mannerisms. She’s definitely so elegant. I wish she would be able to travel and not be burden by other commitments. She has already lived almost all of her life in taking care of her own children. It’s time for her to take care of herself and have fun

  • @samuelzulu9731

    @samuelzulu9731

    11 ай бұрын

    Well-said

  • @rozhin6055
    @rozhin6055 Жыл бұрын

    I think they're my favourite couple to appear in this show 😂 They're so cute together! 😆😍

  • @meloon5876
    @meloon5876 Жыл бұрын

    Still a very pretty Malaysian lady. Still looks similar to when she was young. Radiant complexion, elegant ✨️.

  • @minglebong
    @minglebong Жыл бұрын

    It's sad when her cries of hopelessness are being ignored by her husband and the panelists of the show. I'm sure she had her happy moments but just by what she had said, she had been living in a fishbowl. She doesn't even get to see Korea much. Being out to see her students took off alot of her weights and makes her steps lighter. My heart goes out to her. Her whole life had been sacrificed for her family. I was hoping the show would have help to point out ways to help her out of her situation. She needs a holiday rather than renewing her vows and her expressions throughout the show said it all. Being Asians, grandparents would full-heartedly offer to help care for their grandkids. Being a Malaysian daughter I would like to offer her half-Malaysian daughters these advise. While your mum help to care for your kids, please help to care for her most cherish heart and feelings. Ask her what would make her happy if you can't already guess. Take her out for a drink, makan-makan, to the pasar, to visit friends, create youtube channel together even maybe!! Give her off days. I know kids who allocate their all of their annual leaves for their own selfish holidays and forgot their parents deserve some too. Appreciate her. As a nyonya, I would like to wish her.. mintak tachi panjang-panjang umur, hati senang slalu, murah rezeki. Toksa slalu kekki. Kalu tak puas hati, bilang aja. Jangan simpan dalam hati.

  • @MrsDaedalus_

    @MrsDaedalus_

    Жыл бұрын

    I am also not a fan that he said talking your wife down in front of his mum is the same everywhere else in the world. I am Chinese, but my partner is Austrian, and he never does that in front of his mum. In a normal Austrian household, I have never seen anyone doing that. Positive reinforcement is more the norm in western and northern parts of Europe. The uncle reminds me of my grandma. She always belittles us, especially me and my mum, because we immigrated to Austria in 2002 and she is still salty about this.

  • @markzzzzberg1312

    @markzzzzberg1312

    Жыл бұрын

    Nyonya women in Malaysia is so pretty

  • @uknowmealready3882

    @uknowmealready3882

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree, it seems so far that she doesn’t have much life outside her family. She doesn’t even have friends in Korea, only her old students. And she meet her husband when she was barely an adult while he was in his late 20s. Her life barely started but she got married after, around, 2 years and started to have responsibilities as a wife, mother, daughter-in-law and now grandma. Makes me sad ngl

  • @karjayasdnbhd6463

    @karjayasdnbhd6463

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree 100% to yr statement. D children n her hubby shud hv brought her out for a trip m travel at least somewhere in Korea. I think she has sacrificed a lot to d fmly n its time she shud hv her own time to sit back, relax n to travel. I wish Ruby all d best, happiness & joy, health & wealth, Aamiin.

  • @szewei85

    @szewei85

    Жыл бұрын

    Haha well said

  • @sitinuraisyah3737
    @sitinuraisyah3737 Жыл бұрын

    Wow that Aunty is "Awet Muda", love her vibe so much and even though they always bickering, they always stay true together ❤, hope their living best life together!

  • @jellybeanwithwings
    @jellybeanwithwings Жыл бұрын

    Aunty Ruby is such a gem, no pun intended. It'll be nice to film her with her family back in Malaysia, too!

  • @sya1964
    @sya1964 Жыл бұрын

    I got tears in my eyes when he proposed. Such a cute couple. She is beautiful

  • @Carolmissvermilion

    @Carolmissvermilion

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG same, tears of joy.

  • @angelsis2222

    @angelsis2222

    Ай бұрын

    Shouldve given her fight tickets to leave and enjoy her time alone. Bro is selfish.

  • @allison853
    @allison853 Жыл бұрын

    glad the husband loves his wife so much.. he knew the great sacrifices of her wife started when he brought her to a foreign country. They're a lovely couple. I hope they can travel soon. They are at an age where they should be enjoying their life and not be burdened by responsibilities anymore. I wish them well, they look like a great couple.

  • @angelsis2222

    @angelsis2222

    Ай бұрын

    Yet he doesnt know what she likes/dislikes and refuses to listen to her.

  • @minbeomu
    @minbeomu Жыл бұрын

    3:57 *throws hands up, shakes head* “I’m confused!” *sassily walks away* SHE IS SO CUTEEEE

  • @mpdg11
    @mpdg11 Жыл бұрын

    Awwww I wish for all marriages to be this cute into old age. A lovely couple that don't take themselves too seriously but still show love in their unique ways.

  • @wailinglee1335
    @wailinglee1335 Жыл бұрын

    Ruby is so beautiful, inside and outside. Hope hubby will shower her with more words of appreciation, really hard to settle in a foreign country all alone..

  • @sayaanakmalaysia-ho5qx
    @sayaanakmalaysia-ho5qx Жыл бұрын

    The wife so proud of being malaysia. Love her

  • @soluiz
    @soluiz Жыл бұрын

    She married so young and overseas since. That's really tough especially when the husband is less empathetic. Its nice that with age everything works out

  • @onetwothree8359
    @onetwothree8359 Жыл бұрын

    her face not aging , her skin really smooth beautiful 🥲

  • @99leen44
    @99leen44 Жыл бұрын

    Aku ingat laki dia yg Malaysia 😭 btw in the beginning i love how she said Malaysia is Meleyshie (How Malaysian pronounce Malaysia) not Malaeshia (How Korean Pronounce Malaysia)

  • @nemoonemii

    @nemoonemii

    Жыл бұрын

    Yee doo aku pun ingat centu last2 yang perempuan tu dri malaysia

  • @natashanaeun8699
    @natashanaeun8699 Жыл бұрын

    I’m from the States but my mom is from Malaysia and my dad is Korean-American. This is so cool!

  • @peekaboopeekaboo1165

    @peekaboopeekaboo1165

    10 ай бұрын

    A Malaysian-Chinese ...?

  • @alyajazmina9215
    @alyajazmina9215 Жыл бұрын

    The old man needs to be more understanding. He's busy taking care of other's feelings and neglecting the person who wakes up to him everyday. I'm sure it's very frustrating for Ruby

  • @suplolok8873
    @suplolok8873 Жыл бұрын

    Im a Malaysian here. This is really a good show to watch and had fun too. Both of them really hilarious even had married for 38yrs.

  • @uinagings
    @uinagings Жыл бұрын

    This is what pure love meant....I can sense a strong woman will and a very appreciating husband after seeing them....I pray happiness everlasting to both of them and their family also.... This is refreshing ❤

  • @CieloDelGrace
    @CieloDelGrace Жыл бұрын

    I am crying while watching this show they’re love story is so pure for 38 years they really love each other even when they argue the love is over flowing, I envy your relationship ❤❤❤God bless you with many more years of togetherness ❤❤❤

  • @tineabasola5400
    @tineabasola5400 Жыл бұрын

    I pity her. There are things that she wants to do but can’t because of her husband and children. She already raised her children, and now her granddaughter. When will she rest and find time to do things for herself?

  • @blancdespair7678

    @blancdespair7678

    11 ай бұрын

    Same man my thoughts exactly, the backwards tradition of some conservative family needs to go man. Let the woman live her live a little, I hope the tv station send them to a trip or something.

  • @hoshlayy
    @hoshlayy Жыл бұрын

    i do agree with some comments i read, the husband did not just dont know how to take care oh their grandchildrens but also dont know her wife favourite things. not just that, i feel like aunty ruby is trapped with her family and spent her whole life with husband and when i look at her, i sense that she wants to do more than just staying at home. and why does the twins are separated? why not take care both the twins at the same time? they are cute couple ngl, but her husband doesn't really know her wife that much and this long relationship is nothing but love.

  • @user-nm5mf2jc8y
    @user-nm5mf2jc8y8 ай бұрын

    Anyone who marries foreigner and bring them to their home country should be thankful for their spouse's sacrifice because living in another country is not easy at all. New customs, not being able to see family & friends, new language, new environment, it just requires a lot of sacrifice from the spouse.

  • @lordwalker71
    @lordwalker71 Жыл бұрын

    The daughter should look after her own baby and let her parents rest and have lives.

  • @mizzallymmm
    @mizzallymmm Жыл бұрын

    Ruby must have sacrifice so much back then. Seeing this as a Malaysian, i can feel even more about it. Good luck and all the best to this cute couple!!

  • @azzzzlnayahya
    @azzzzlnayahya Жыл бұрын

    Omg the wife even wearing traditional attire (kebaya) from malaysia ❤ love from 🇲🇾

  • @akim2154
    @akim2154 Жыл бұрын

    Yes, more older couples please who can pass on their wisdom/experience! 😅But I love how diplomatic she was when she was asked if she would remarry him in the next life. To be honest, I think a lot of women if not most would say no, they wouldn’t. It’s usually the married women who have it tougher with household chores, childcare, on top of their own jobs and other responsibilities. If your answer is yes, you must be married to a great guy, or you’re too nice (or lying)! Lol 😆 And just look how she’s still taking care of her husband while raising her grandkids (AND her MIL is still around)! Give her a break and take her on more trips (or give her money so she can go on her own)!

  • @nfya2410
    @nfya2410 Жыл бұрын

    I feel sad abt her. I bet if she is living in Malaysia, she won't be treated like this. Freedom has her name

  • @lapargila

    @lapargila

    Жыл бұрын

    why? what's wrong with her? i dont get it

  • @ekalencem8493

    @ekalencem8493

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@lapargila she needs freedom. that pity husband doesn't treat her right and well. all the thing he do is take her out to eat at the SAME place for 40 years and remake their wedding pictures. he also didn't able to take care well of his grandchild for a day when she does it everyday. which is sad, the daughter also troubling her own mother in babysitting thing. i do believe if she have a beef with her strict mother-in-law at early marriage due to lack of communication skills. plus, just want to go back to her hometown, she needs permission from the mother-in-law? she have a husband. all of them just take for granted of her kindness. that's all.

  • @Moon.J.I

    @Moon.J.I

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@ekalencem8493The TV show has some scripts, the dead father-in-law is an army general, and the mother-in-law is 95 years old~ The old soldiers were conservative and strict. 😅

  • @smorris2353
    @smorris2353 Жыл бұрын

    I remember seeing this couple before. May you be blessed with many more years together.

  • @akane8615

    @akane8615

    Жыл бұрын

    where did u see them before?

  • @smorris2353

    @smorris2353

    Жыл бұрын

    @akane8615 I saw them on K-DOC last year. It appears to be the same footage with some addition.

  • @akane8615

    @akane8615

    Жыл бұрын

    @@smorris2353 thqq

  • @sazlinzainuddin1894
    @sazlinzainuddin1894 Жыл бұрын

    Seing them here in 🇲🇾.. Such a wonderful couple.. Wish them all the happiness in the world.. That bihun goreng look delicious too

  • @kajimakami5805
    @kajimakami5805 Жыл бұрын

    I'm Malaysian..WOw that aunty still beautiful and look young...

  • @hyk33

    @hyk33

    Жыл бұрын

    I was thinking the same !! LOL!

  • @Tom-cf5lk
    @Tom-cf5lk Жыл бұрын

    One thing about Malaysian is such that we are able to catch up with foreign languages very fast due to our multicultural environment.

  • @dd8E1075
    @dd8E10758 ай бұрын

    Malaysian here! Glad to see a lovely couple here! Hope they will be together forever and live happily!

  • @Aight7
    @Aight7 Жыл бұрын

    She resembles Maggie Cheung a little bit. Such a beautiful woman. Beautiful couple... Their commitment is an example and a rarity for anyone around the globe... Sending blessings from South Italy.

  • @syahnazmi29

    @syahnazmi29

    Жыл бұрын

    SHE LOOKS LIKE ONE.

  • @Aight7

    @Aight7

    Жыл бұрын

    @@syahnazmi29 who's one?

  • @rarelight5289
    @rarelight52897 ай бұрын

    Wow malaysian auntie really proud with her kebaya baba nyonya

  • @cee_el
    @cee_el Жыл бұрын

    She’s so beautiful! I hope to age gracefully like her too

  • @flowerrosae
    @flowerrosae Жыл бұрын

    Such a cute sweet couple! She looks really pretty no wonder he really like her back then. Even their daughters look pretty 🥹

  • @efond88
    @efond88 Жыл бұрын

    Such a heartwarming story. Its really not easy to be in a foreign country all by yourself. So many things to learn from language, lifestyle and culture. She is so brave. I am glad that they have a happy marriage.

  • @mishy460
    @mishy460 Жыл бұрын

    Literally my favorite couple that has appeared on this show 😂😂😂

  • @xxxxbuttxxdragon
    @xxxxbuttxxdragon Жыл бұрын

    I am so glad she is wearing malaysian traditional dress ;) makes me want to wear one too

  • @cj-fx2kj

    @cj-fx2kj

    Жыл бұрын

    kebaya is malay traditional cloth

  • @fuzzlynn8310

    @fuzzlynn8310

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@cj-fx2kj dear sir, memang betul kebaya pakaian melayu (nusantara)...tapi yang dipakai oleh puan Ruby ini adalah Kebaya Nyonya, yang diubahsuai oleh kaum peranakkan cina dari Melaka (rujuk penulisan oleh Frank a. Swettenham, 1887)..yang betul2 kebaya melayu, ianya lebih labuh dan tidak jarang. Jadi produk kebaya nyonya yang dipakai hari ini adalah hasil asimilasi...yeah, it is a THING..😊

  • @cj-fx2kj

    @cj-fx2kj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fuzzlynn8310 peranakan ni sebenarnya orang cina. Depa bukan ckp melayu pun. Depa cakap cina. Muka pun cine. Patu depa ambik budaya dan pakaian melayu untuk claim depa lain 😂

  • @markzzzzberg1312

    @markzzzzberg1312

    Жыл бұрын

    @@cj-fx2kj jangan dok buat palatao macam indon.. Baba Nyonya tu etnik peranakan antara Cina dan Melayu, majoriti mereka boleh berbahasa Melayu

  • @cj-fx2kj

    @cj-fx2kj

    Жыл бұрын

    @@markzzzzberg1312 kau buat lawak eh. kau tengok sendiri la kat penang tu smua yg claim dorg peranakan padahal dorg sebenarnya cine. muka cine. cakap pun cina bukan ckp bm. peranakan ni sebenarnya kaum rekaan je oleh org cine utk nampakkan mereka bukan pedtng 😂

  • @JK-eu8ri
    @JK-eu8ri Жыл бұрын

    To Ruby and hubby, Best wishes to you both . Here’s wishing you both many, many more happy years together. 👏😊

  • @good-idea03
    @good-idea0311 ай бұрын

    저분 아버지가 현석주 장군으로 박정희 전대통령과 육사동기, 그의 형은 장면 민주당정부에서 국방부장관을 지낸 현석호..엄청난 집안이니 그당시는 외국인인 말레이시아 여자를 며느리로 들이는 것을 처음에는 시어머니가 엄청 반대했겠죠..근데 결혼은 엄청 잘하신듯

  • @user-yi8to8hs2s

    @user-yi8to8hs2s

    2 ай бұрын

    와...그런건가요????엄청난집안이었네

  • @RelaxingSleepMusic-qf2lp
    @RelaxingSleepMusic-qf2lp Жыл бұрын

    What a beautiful love story! This Malaysian + Korean couple's 38-year marriage is truly inspiring.

  • @mystictraveler8642
    @mystictraveler864210 ай бұрын

    I want to go to malaysia so bad. On the list. Im so glad to see asian nations having interracial marriages. Its so adorable.

  • @erickim9826
    @erickim982611 ай бұрын

    I’m Korean American married to beautiful Malaysian Chinese girl. Been together since 1993.

  • @audreyDsouza
    @audreyDsouza11 ай бұрын

    my grandmother is malaysian she studied abroad and met my grandfather then married and lived in malaysia.. my mom also studied abroad and met my dad and then married and settled in portugal.. coincidentally my grandfather and my dad are from portugal.. that's destiny ..😁so I’m double portuguese and double malaysian👌

  • @haf1872
    @haf187211 ай бұрын

    The wife humour is really very Malaysian and Singaporean. LOVE IT.

  • @DepressionQ
    @DepressionQ Жыл бұрын

    I'm from Malaysia! 🇲🇾 Hello~ 🤗 This video make me smile, what a sweet couple! ☺️💖💕💕💕

  • @jacetan5057
    @jacetan5057 Жыл бұрын

    Such a cute loving international couple ❤ I'm Malaysian too! Stay healthy and happy 😊

  • @yoniyoko
    @yoniyoko Жыл бұрын

    Bihun goreng + kari ayam !!!! That combo is so delicious 😭👍🏻

  • @lilytamlili7297
    @lilytamlili7297 Жыл бұрын

    Love this couple, so genuine; so happy to see her wearing the kebaya top, lovely colour too! She looks like a ‘nyonya baba’.

  • @Sugaryization
    @Sugaryization11 ай бұрын

    Ruby is so pretty and elegant no matter when she was young and at her current age. Hope her husband can bring her travel around and give her some quality "me time" ❤

  • @JaclynChooo
    @JaclynChooo7 ай бұрын

    Love their relationship, and I understand how she's perfectly annoyed at the husband yet finds it so charming and funny at the same time! Ruby is so elegant and gentle, I don't think I know any Malaysian aunties like her (I'm Malaysian living in kl) 😂 and she looks so good in the wedding dress shoot! Couple goals

  • @faithjoyce22
    @faithjoyce22 Жыл бұрын

    What an uncaring and unhelpful husband. Married 38-40 yrs(?) and doesn’t know how to care for your grandchild? Proof he didnt do much raising their 2 daughters. Doesnt admire or praise his wife. Take 1 day manning the house like a burden when she does it everyday. These are not your wife’s duty but a shared duty. And of course, a commentator on the show praised him for taking care of his grandchild for 1 day. Nobody praises her for doing everything and caring for her grandchild every single day🙄 What irks me the most is he does not bother to listen to her. Tells her all the things “she doesn’t eat” while she is actively correcting him that she eats those things, and him ignoring her. Blaming it on her that he brings her to the same place to eat out for 40 years, not his own laziness and lack of care. The fact she went so many years in korea without a single friend besides her students is so devastating to hear. Her family life suffocated her. I think she must ask herself daily why she is still in this marriage, maybe for the sake of her children

  • @angelsis2222

    @angelsis2222

    Ай бұрын

    yea I def think if she was more secure income wise and her kids not throwing their kids to her, she wouldve divorced him by now. Hes a shitty lover.

  • @MrsDaedalus_
    @MrsDaedalus_ Жыл бұрын

    This marriage last long, because she feels trapped. I don´t like the way he is treating her. The way he belittles her, it´s like he is better somehow. And I blame the traditional Asian way of raising kids for that because in China is the same. Especially, the generation of my grandparents and my mums. The men of my mum´s generation - some of them are spoiled rotten, because of the importance of the male gender in the Asian tradition. My grandma always belittles me, but never my two younger male cousins. She always wished for me to marry a Chinese, which will never happen because I was raised in Austria in a city where the majority of the population is Caucasian. My partner is Austrian and the only reason she accepts him is because he is a physicist. If my partner belittles me like that, I am gone! My self-worth is more worth than love.

  • @angelsis2222

    @angelsis2222

    Ай бұрын

    I am so happy for you. Yea she is fully dependent on him for income and shelter, she only hasnt divorced him because she needs income and her kids obviously arent independent enough to watch their own kids.

  • @anis4373
    @anis4373 Жыл бұрын

    Her skin is flawless omg❤

  • @rarahayati9258
    @rarahayati9258 Жыл бұрын

    I love this couple for their honesty. He reminds me of my husband and she is reminds me of myself 😂. Ruby is very beautiful and her husband is decent guy. I am from Malaysia btw. Love to see her wearing traditional clothes and cooked malaysian food 🥰

  • @angelsis2222

    @angelsis2222

    Ай бұрын

    Thats depressing. Your husband doesnt know what you like to eat and doesnt contribute to taking care of kids??

  • @fehaaa6884
    @fehaaa688411 ай бұрын

    Ruby, you are so pretty and look younger even you are getting older ! I hope you will live happily with your family forever. Your daughter and granddaughter look pretty and cute too~ I hope you will keep sharing more about Malaysia cultural at Korea. Your story about how you know each other till now, make me tearing.. You're the best international couple in my heart ❤️ ~🇲🇾~

  • @ericalee0610
    @ericalee0610 Жыл бұрын

    Due to culture marrying to a korean seems very tiring.. i mean there is so many rules and regulation to follow as a daughter in law...

  • @user-yc8te2dp6i
    @user-yc8te2dp6i Жыл бұрын

    Am I the only one to see discontentment in her eyes? She loves him, but she wants more from life. She wants to travel, see the world, try out new things with him, but it is falling on deaf ears.

  • @JK-eu8ri

    @JK-eu8ri

    Жыл бұрын

    Nevertheless…

  • @tineabasola5400

    @tineabasola5400

    Жыл бұрын

    I agree! She sacrificed her life for her family… and still sacrificing at her age

  • @midnitepei5583

    @midnitepei5583

    Жыл бұрын

    It happens to all women that age. Furthermore she's not uneducated, and married into the family and left her home so far away. Back then mother in laws are very difficult, hers as well. And if your husband not backing you up that much, imagine how helpless alone you'll feel

  • @user-yc8te2dp6i

    @user-yc8te2dp6i

    Жыл бұрын

    @@tineabasola5400Her daughter really needs to step up and look after her own children, and stop burdening her mother with childcare responsibilities.

  • @tineabasola5400

    @tineabasola5400

    Жыл бұрын

    @@user-yc8te2dp6i totally agree!

  • @zatismksb
    @zatismksb Жыл бұрын

    I woild like to hear about how their life in Malaysia & SIngapore before moving to Korea since they live there for so long. Anyway, hope they're happy

  • @jyeon18
    @jyeon18 Жыл бұрын

    Aw this is so lovely 😍💖 i keep smiling all the time and even teary when the emotional part😭

  • @canice0521
    @canice0521 Жыл бұрын

    Such a lovely & sweet couple. I 😭 when he proposed & she says yes.. Ruby is so pretty & the husband is so nice. Stay happily ever after. And I hope she gets to travel around Korea & have some of her own free time more often. She really deserves it.

  • @jaynoona4849
    @jaynoona4849 Жыл бұрын

    😥 this was tearful.... I have 3 kids... the moment u hold ur baby is awesome feeling. ... congrats again This is only the beginning

  • @fendiei7397
    @fendiei7397 Жыл бұрын

    Very nice.. There are a lot of similarities when it comes to the older generation like the husband's mother. She reminds of my grandmother who is still alive until today (she's in her 90s). The older generation women tend to be more disciplined and strict in raising the children. They were not only traditional women but also strong wives and mothers. Yes, over here in Malaysia we do not have (nude) public baths like in Korea or Japan (onsen culture).

  • @KimandWong
    @KimandWong Жыл бұрын

    OMG watching this but we're the opposite, Korean gf with Malaysian bf instead 🤣 There's definitely interesting differences between Malaysian vs Korean culture but wow if theyre married for that long maybe we could too someday!! Love that she's wearing kebaya looking elegant at her age! 🇲🇾🇰🇷❤

  • @ssyaraa
    @ssyaraa Жыл бұрын

    Love their love-hate relationship! 🥰

  • @Lion-fj3wp
    @Lion-fj3wp Жыл бұрын

    Beautiful grandmother! Loved their story, great personality 😎👍🌎

  • @adadisini2898
    @adadisini2898 Жыл бұрын

    Actually at least there are one more Korean (husband) and Malaysian (wife) that got married more than 30 years ago. But they stay at Malaysia and has several children. The wife is Malay Muslims.

  • @iefa2471

    @iefa2471

    Жыл бұрын

    Ouh ada ke? Baru tahu😅

  • @adadisini2898

    @adadisini2898

    Жыл бұрын

    @@iefa2471 ada pernah viral. Anak2 lawa2 juga. Alhamdulillah yg perempuan semua bertudung sebab membesar di Malaysia kan

  • @misubi
    @misubi11 ай бұрын

    She’s got a lovely elegance that is rare in this age.

  • @keerukiahyusop2420
    @keerukiahyusop2420 Жыл бұрын

    So lovely abd lively couple. The grandchild becomes a sunshine in their marriage. And she speaks the language well.

  • @aidapf5090
    @aidapf5090 Жыл бұрын

    I would really like to see the couple back in Malaysia! the whole troop.

  • @buuuu1141
    @buuuu1141 Жыл бұрын

    Based on what i saw ,she needs freedom thts all .

  • @georgie9722
    @georgie9722 Жыл бұрын

    Incroyable video! J'ai beaucoup apprécié leur parcours de couple mixte. C'est ça la vie. Va où ton cœur t'emmène! Merci! Jeongmal gamsahabnida!

  • @LuvHartSpainValence
    @LuvHartSpainValence Жыл бұрын

    So very happ to have come across this episode! ❤❤🎉🎉

  • @arjelarshed
    @arjelarshed Жыл бұрын

    finally ada juga wakil Malaysia dalam rancangan ni. makcik tu siap pakai kebaya lagi

  • @lenovotab6445

    @lenovotab6445

    Жыл бұрын

    mgkin dia bergaul dgn org melayu

  • @elpeu
    @elpeu11 ай бұрын

    Love it she wore the nyonya kebaya. And shes so soft spoken and funny. And the husband loves her so much. They look so beautiful in their new wedding attire ❤.

  • @rainnnnn28
    @rainnnnn2811 ай бұрын

    They're a beautiful family 😍 The way they bicker is so cute and funny, you can tell they have really good chemistry 🥲💕

  • @user-lk7om4bk3q
    @user-lk7om4bk3q11 ай бұрын

    저 아저씨 아버지가 육군 소장 출신이고 큰 아버지는 경성제국대 나와서 일제 때 관료 지내고 1960년에 국방부장관까지 지낸 집안이네요 ㄷㄷ

  • @sharonsoon4866
    @sharonsoon4866 Жыл бұрын

    Would like a show of the couple in Malaysia, especially the beautiful scenes and also Ruby’s family.

  • @NxtFocus
    @NxtFocus Жыл бұрын

    It's every men dream to marry someone from another country/race. It's like a tradition in my family to marry someone from different country. I'm mixed race. My mother, a malaysian (melayu) married an american and had me but I look more like an asian. I'm 19, went to culinary school in Japan and found myself a muslim japanese girlfriend. So I guess it's a benefit for me 💪

  • @on9577
    @on9577 Жыл бұрын

    진짜 곱게 늙으셨네 타고난 좋은 피부와 미모 진짜 미스 말레이시아급이네요

  • @JayJay-st1jj
    @JayJay-st1jj Жыл бұрын

    Aww they are so cute haha! Love them

  • @oredk
    @oredk10 ай бұрын

    The lady is so sweet and kind, i love her. I wish them all the best

  • @user-nh3vp8ix5e
    @user-nh3vp8ix5e Жыл бұрын

    This couple,give us hope!!! If you are in love,you don't look for country,for coulor,for age,for culture,for religion,for anything,I love this couple and special this woman,she don't know anything and because she was in love try for everything,she say I love Korean's,dear me too!!! I love so much Korean's,you are so lucky, yesss realy is your enemy!!! I am so proud for you!!! I hope some day to be like you,you are perfect and your husband so cute,when he was younger,was so handsome and sweet,all Korean's are sweet and handsome!!!God blesse you and your family!!!🥰💝👏🤗

  • @Belacak
    @Belacak Жыл бұрын

    She's so pretty when she was young❤..so lucky her husband

  • @brandofhero
    @brandofhero Жыл бұрын

    Ruby is freaking hillarious!

  • @strawberrymilk4271
    @strawberrymilk4271 Жыл бұрын

    They’re so cute I love that the wife saved his husband in the contact is enemy😂

  • @jamesheng1878
    @jamesheng1878 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my god I need to go to Korea and take her to get some proper Malaysian food!

  • @user-ou9eb2it9n
    @user-ou9eb2it9n10 ай бұрын

    아저씨..제발..휴..ㅋㅋㅋ 미치겠..40년 사셨으면 이제 와이프 챙기고 아껴 주세요 마음은 안그렇다 이런말 마시고 행동으로 보여주세요😢

  • @elliecha4240
    @elliecha4240 Жыл бұрын

    This couple so cute, altho they bicker a lot, u can feel the love strongly! Wife is so pretty, looks like celeb~

  • @aty17088
    @aty1708810 ай бұрын

    Mrs. Ruby looks so younger despite her real age.. wow. Not only pretty but smart.. look friendly and humble too.

  • @woouchan
    @woouchan Жыл бұрын

    The husband loves his wife so much. I guess she is having a hard time due to cultural difference. He comes from a generation & country where showing a loving gestures towards wife is not a common (?). So he playing hot and cold. But his sincerity and love really shown without him saying much

  • @mikewilkins2030
    @mikewilkins2030 Жыл бұрын

    This was beautiful! I hope to meet a nice woman like her! I would praise my woman anywhere in front of anyone! Let the pride go husband! Lol you know you love and need her and want her!

  • @suemay79

    @suemay79

    11 ай бұрын

    Good man 👍

  • @angelsis2222

    @angelsis2222

    Ай бұрын

    Yea hes a shitty lover too. Im sure you would be better, but he doesnt even remember the foods she likes. Hes so weird.

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