A Higher Functioning Form Of Autism | Cuan Weijer | TEDxDunLaoghaire
Cuán Weijer is a student in Stepaside Educate Together National School and is one of just six House Captains who are a connection between the teachers and the student body. Recently he received Student of the Year in recognition of his contributions towards the school. Cuán is part of the 1 per cent of the Irish population affected by autism. At the age of twelve he was diagnosed with Asperger’s. Cuán Weijer is a student in Stepaside Educate Together National School and is one of just six House Captains who are a connection between the teachers and the student body. Recently he received Student of the Year in recognition of his contributions towards the school. Cuán is part of the 1 per cent of the Irish population affected by autism. At the age of twelve he was diagnosed with Asperger’s This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
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"Keep an eye contact... but not in a creepy way, and be friendly for them... but not too friendly" 😂😂😂 This is actually a legit advice.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Made me cry when you said everyone experiences Autism differently I also have Learning difficulties, but I can make eye contact, except if it’s a new group of people I get anxiety and don’t like to be seen in public
@justaneditygangstar
3 жыл бұрын
yup exactly that
@tobystevens9183
3 жыл бұрын
Life is hard for folks with aspergers. We are neither accepted or appreciated by most people. Trying to fit in is exhausting. God bless.
@silicon212
2 жыл бұрын
@@tobystevens9183 I've decided to pull back the mask a little and allow myself to be more authentic in public. I figure I'm 53 now, so I've been dealing with it for quite some time ... people won't accept me either way & I can conserve a little energy by not wasting it to be someone I'm not. One nice thing about being an Aspie though is that I still feel like a 16 year old kid internally & I continue to view the world through that lens.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@silicon212
2 жыл бұрын
@@juniormako6184 Your son may be free of the negative symptoms of it; but he is not free from autism as that is hard wired into the brain. No magic potion can cause the brain to reform 'proper' (read: NT) connections and sever the 'improper'' (read: ND) ones.
Well done mate i couldn't do that in front of people without having an anxiety attack or a meltdown. Congratulations on speaking to an audience and for giving people some insight to us🙏🦘🇦🇺👍
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@jonowoodgo
2 жыл бұрын
@Accra Terminal agency wow that's really nice to hear. I may have to try it myself see if it helps.
@filipeflower
2 жыл бұрын
@@jonowoodgo That user is a spammer.
@wellthen.......9384
2 жыл бұрын
@@juniormako6184 It doesn't take a genius to realize that you're also the owner of the account that commented above you talking about the doctor also because both of you accounts were created within 24 hours of each other in the same month of the same year And your guy's comment history sections match each other's comments wherever that one posts so do you And if you're willing to go that far to promote Then it means you're shady and it means you're products full of BS like you
Music heals my soul. I have to listen to music when I draw or read and study.
@rythkaruvah87377
3 жыл бұрын
Same. If I didn't have music, I'd probably go insane.
@faenene
3 жыл бұрын
Me too. It doesn’t even have to be music, though I prefer it, I just need something to be playing.
@PattyDalmau
3 жыл бұрын
Me too! 💪❤️💪
@stevenfetzer4911
2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a demonic force. Imagine not being able to sit in silence.
@Lyonatan
2 жыл бұрын
I can't even draw a stickman but music, yesss, all day every day, I don't function without it
Because I have high functioning ASD I didn't get diagnosed until I was 30 yrs old. Despite hallmark signs as a child like head banging at a young age and being relatively mute until I was around 10yrs old. I would also complete complex puzzles and Lego sets at a very young age. It slipped past my parents who were separated and teachers never thought anything was wrong as I excelled at most subjects in high school except for English. I even managed to gain an MEng from University of aalberta in 1yr with first class. But dealing with people in the workplace has been my biggest hurdle. I struggle to connect with people and my muted nature leeds people to believe that I'm arrogant and disinterested. I have come to realize I can't fit in the neurotypical work environment. Often I need to work in an environment which has low levels of noise or where I can listen to music of my choosing. Hence why I have decided to start my own business. Where I can hire neurologically diverse people, who don't have to hide like I have from judgement for 30 years. A place they can be themselves without fear of social retribution.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@gatyfrombfbandshehasamessa9333
2 жыл бұрын
Too looooongg.........
@toddgriffith5700
Жыл бұрын
At 9yrs old I started building wood line control gas engine airplanes till I left high school 17yrs old I started school at 4 yrs old I did not excel in academics only in industrial education only in technical classes built my first car a Fiberglas dunebuggy at 15 yrs old Porsche mechanic at 18 installing all the new car AC at night after service work in day shift it never stoped my whole life building rockets and bombs after a BSEE at 37 with broken back from heavy equipment mechanic for 8 yrs state highway department Here is the kicker finally at 70 yrs old my first Autism group meeting this Tuesday night after 27 yrs in 12 step groups for all my defects Let’s see were this takes me don’t forget about the 42 ft Hunter sail boat I just rebuilt for the last 5 yrs it never ends my friends
@capt.n.sir.charles6251
Жыл бұрын
"Complex puzzles and legos" Dude finishing a lego set isn't that grandiose as you think it is. It's simple stuff to normal people. Autistic people are always so pretentious to small things.
@azucenabustos1078
10 ай бұрын
Omg same ❤
I was diagnosed with aspergers 27 years ago. It had only been a part of the official psychiatric DSM for about 10 years at that time. Today the DSM doesn't even call my disability aspergers. Instead you are placed on the autistic spectrum and called "high functioning". IMO that label is a curse. The disorder itself is a curse if you have good or great intelligence. The reason is most people believe life for me should be as easy as it is for them, but it is not. Sensory input issues is just one of many quirks that we have which do not fit in well with neuro-normal society. We struggle to fit in. We mask to fit in which is a HUGE sap of energy for us. We have coping behaviors (stimming) which do not fit in at all with the neuro-normal crowd. After trying my best for a lifetime to fit in, I am exhausted. Most people do not get me nor do they appreciate me despite my best efforts. Such is the life of someone with aspergers.
@timefortee
3 жыл бұрын
Similar struggles for other neurodivergents like the gifted.
@TheArtofFugue
2 жыл бұрын
@@timefortee certainly so!
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@chickensforbreakfast
2 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with asperger's too around 15 years ago. I was about age 10 when people came around the classrooms spreading awareness about autism, and suddenly things made sense to me. A year later I underwent testing and was given a semi formal diagnosis. at the time I was told I was "higher functioning" and only had "borderline autism", then later told I had Asperger's. I actually felt disappointed not being given the label of "autistic" because it felt like my struggles were being made light of. Years later I came to accept the term "aspergers" and even feel somewhat proud as I met many others with the diagnosis in high school. But then the way autism was categorised changed. Once again it was like my identity had been stripped from me. It has now been many years and I have also come to accept this change. As I researched more into autism I found out some things. It turned out that aside from "functioning labels" being potentially harmful, they were also inaccurate, and what separated the "high" from the "low" was often just environmental. I also came to learn the dark history behind Hans Asperger and his involvement with the eugenics program in Germany that had only come to light in recent years. that being said, the scientific and autistic communities have been at odds for a while, as scientists who study on us have often had a blatant disregard for our wellbeing
@PROJECTMAYHEM36
2 жыл бұрын
i hope ur doing ok
We need more of THESE TYPES OF VIDEOS ON autism.
This young gentleman WAS FANTASTIC! He speaks so eloquent and with a wonderful sense of humor. I would have totally freaked upon the stage. I have a beautiful grandson, 5 years old who has autism and another family member with it as well. It gives me hope that in God's great Grace, their lives will be rich and full. Thank you for your courage.🌷
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@whitedom2041
2 жыл бұрын
i have autism and bipolar and i was molested as a kid i turned out normal besides the fact i sleep and date trans girls
@rt3455rr2
11 ай бұрын
@@juniormako6184hi you're in a MLM scheme.
Him: the world is too loud Them: CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP!!!
Omg…when you said “waiting around for the next stage in my life to begin” that’s it. All through middle school and elementary it felt like I was waiting on everyone to catch up. Waiting on everyone to finally figure out Santa/The tooth fairy/Easter bunny wasn’t real. Finally waiting on every girl (in middle school) to talk about ANYTHING other than boys or “that’s girl over there” cuz there was so much more to life. Then we all graduated and suddenly it became harder to talk to folks because everyone started making real lasting connections and I just found it hard……
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@BennieWilll
2 жыл бұрын
That is so accurate. I felt like I was ahead of everyone by decades. Couldn't relate to anyone.
@rupajchowdhury1877
Жыл бұрын
Damn... that's... that's always been the story of my life...and I thought it's only me
It breaks my heart that I am only just accepting that i have autism and I am 55. It has caused me so much pain and a sense of loneliness. I have dealt with it through anger and loud music. My own family really don't get it and freinds don't stay around for long. I wish i weren't so different and yet I feel gifted at the same time. So hard to explain. Ps. I took up blading at the age of 46 and it is the greatest relief for me...i skate over 100 miles per week with music blasting my brain into submission along with a few beers. Honestly it is the cure i needed. If i don't have that i don't believe i could carry on living.
@DogHandGuy
2 жыл бұрын
Thats so cool
@tales_
2 жыл бұрын
Keep going youre probably going to get ripped too!
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@truths1256
2 жыл бұрын
Try to get diagnosed and share with family and friends or maybe even before diagnosis just that they you think you are may be enough. Aim to get diagnosis and support regardless
@toddgriffith5700
Жыл бұрын
I just thought I was bat crazy my whole life finally I can put a label on it at 70yrs old November 1st 2022 and go to group of us in one room meeting
You will never "grow out of it", it is the way you think that defines you and Aspergers is a part of that. I'm 50 in April and found out over 5 years ago that I was Aspergers. Do I struggle as much as I used to when I was a child? No, I have less issues with people that I used to. But that's not because I am less Aspergers than I was, it's just that I have learned to control things better, I have developed better coping strategies and have learned to understand people better.
@tobystevens9183
3 жыл бұрын
So true. Fitting in to the neuro-normal crowd is difficult and energy-draining.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@zaygroovie3311
2 жыл бұрын
@@juniormako6184 What type of herbs do you use
@unknowntosociety01
2 жыл бұрын
Any tips you can offer to a mid 20s fellow aspie?
@unknowntosociety01
Жыл бұрын
@@zaygroovie3311 don't fall for the snake oil salesperson
Very composed, eloquent and charming speaker. I have learned several things in watching this. Great job.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Very good. I was impressed with you and your talk. Keep smiling. That was a wonderful touch. I am from California, USA. I appreciated your points very much as my son has Autism. Thank You, Cuan
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
that was lovely to listen too. my son is going through the process of being diagnosed, listening from someone with autism helps understanding there daily life challenges alot better 💙
I feel like music is a life saver for people with autism. Mainly because its a portable media platform that can have simple stimulating or soothing beats/rhythms or even complex poetic lyrics that can be enjoyed without a specific technique/pace expected to be appreciated by the listener. These genres, volumes, sounds and even bpms can be chosen at full control to the listener and can be skipped or play on repeat to their desire. This is a huge contrast to living in a normative social space where you’re expected to listen to people and respond in “acceptable” rules to hold a conversation and be charming or appropriate. As someone with high functioning autism myself, to neurotypical people i would describe social interactions and social masking like “speaking to people with an annoying static radio playing at medium volume in the background that only you can hear. It’s not impossible to tune out this static noise to concentrate on your conversation with people but its pretty frikken distracting/exhausting and requires a LOT of energy to do when it’s something you cant control or turn off.” And sometimes the only way to drown out that static, is with music. It’s not that autistic people dont want to talk to people or dont like people, it’s just that it’s VERY frustrating to talk to people and speak as “normally” as you’d like with this distracting stimulation thats in your head. As for stimming, If you have ever been frustrated to the point where you want to hit something or whatever, that’s basically the feeling autistic people get when they need to stim. Stimming is like unloading all that frustrated energy into a physical outlet.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
This is very helpful! I also couldn't help but be totally distracted by the interpreter lady at the end, shaking her hands like trees lol
LOL he just said that loud noises mess with him and then everyone in the room started clapping really loud 🤣 That was very brave for him to speak about that.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Thank you for speaking! My son is 14 and everything you shared makes so much sense! Bless you.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
I’m 36 years old and I think I have autism that has gone undiagnosed my entire life. The more I read about Autism, the more I learn about it, the more I realize that that’s exactly the way I am. I could be wrong, but it would explain a lot about my past and my life.
@CaraRamzi
Жыл бұрын
Me too… I did a recommended test online and it says to print and take to your doctor. Get a referral to a psychiatrist and get the help you may need.
@mopes2713
Жыл бұрын
@@CaraRamzi I don’t think I need much help, I’m a fully functioning member of society. I am the Manager at my job, but I never went anywhere in higher education due to my Autism symptoms. I was always brilliant at school in one or two subjects and I failed everything else.
@CaraRamzi
Жыл бұрын
@@mopes2713 Bro I meant no offence. I related to everything you said and say now. Personally I took the test and I made an appointment because personally I have been struggling a lot never knowing why. I wish you all love homie. Keep up the great work.🤍
I really believe everyone is on "the scale"... we all just got the sliders set uniquely, and that is perfect.
@Oppositeofwhatyousay
2 жыл бұрын
🤡
@alexanderhirst1171
2 жыл бұрын
@@Oppositeofwhatyousay 💀
I think I was misdiagnosed with ADHD in the 90s. I'm pretty sure I'm autistic. I'm somewhat intelligent but I can't handle being around lots of people. I get sensory overload. I can't drive because I have panic attacks in vehicles, especially when there's lots of traffic. I've never been able to hold a job for long except for certain dishwashing positions where I could just stand at the dishwasher and run dishes thru it. Dishwashing jobs that involve bussing tables or taking dishes always leads to me quiting because something always happens where I get overloaded with panic and fear and I just end up leaving. It's really hard living with this. Especially in a world where people think you can just get over it. I've kind of skated under the radar all these years with it. I have very few friends because I find it very difficult to talk to people unless it's not in person conversations and even on the phone I feel weird physically talking to people. I think autism needs to be talked about and publicized a lot more because there's a lot of us dealing with it and most people don't understand that just because we can sometimes seem fine at home, that when we go out we should just be able to mingle and work like everyone else. This guy here appears to be able to socialize pretty good and I'm happy that he can do that. But for some of us just going around people we don't know is very difficult. For me socializing is one of my biggest fears, to the point it's almost impossible for me. People seem to think I should just be able to get over it and it's not that simple. People get mad at me when there's get togethers and I end up outside sitting by myself. Sometimes it even comes off to people that I don't like them or that I'm being arrogant but that's not it. I'd love to be able to do things like everyone else. But I just can't. It's not as simple as a lot of people think it is and being 39 years old with little to no support system makes it even harder. I'm truly at my wits end with this. Ready to just give up and go be a hermit in the mountains. But then I might run into a bear and that terrifies me to.
@jaymzslijngaard8998
Жыл бұрын
Let see if i can suggest a couple of things ; only talk on one to one basis if a get together is planned , explain to the person abt your social anxiety and may arrange 2nd meet up with two or three pple. Activity outside or wide open space and if you suddenly want to be alone , explain sensory overload but happy to chatx with pple on one to one. implement this as a way of building up coping mechanism i tell my friends if u see me do this or that that means i need to get away for bit i can chat but not as a group i still cant move freely in a bar if its busy so i sit closer to the exit point
Very articulate young man, far beyond his years. Thank you for sharing your experiences and educating others
I have high functioning autism and I don’t have anxiety. When I was a freshman in high school a kid got stabbed and died in front of my locker. I felt nothing, my dad and I didn’t even talk about. Meanwhile, 100s of kids didn’t come back to school for awhile.
@discord1880
3 жыл бұрын
ur probly a physocpatj then
@lallitthor9977
3 жыл бұрын
@@discord1880 not quite a phycopath, in some cases people on the spectrum can´t really feel sympathy as other people who are not autistic
@whattheydidnttellyouwithbr2844
3 жыл бұрын
@@lallitthor9977 That's completely false many of us, including me have too much sympathy. Empathy is not a simple thing there are many different types. We lack Cognitive, not affective empathy, nor compassionate empathy. Cognitive Empathy is the ability to know anticipate what someone else will feel or think from their perspective in a certain situation. Me personally I have more affective and compassionate empathy than most people. Like to a point where I put others needs way before mine. To a point I feel sad for characters in a movie that I have to stop watching it. Or to the point that I will be friends with someone even though they are mean to me to try to help them. @GiftedGreen Have your ever heard of Alexthmyia? Its a condition that most people on the spectrum have that makes you unable to know what your or other people's emotions are. Many times it decieves other people and themselves into thinking they have no emotion what so ever. I think you might have a very case of Alexthmyia while being on the spectrum.
@beazrichz973
3 жыл бұрын
@@lallitthor9977 as an autistic, we do feel it, but we try to move forward in a day, I can overthink and that leads to an episode of a mental health problem. So I learned to be emotionless and not let sad things trigger my anxiety disorder. And I just remind myself that sad things are not something that will disappear in life, so get used to that.
@tobystevens9183
3 жыл бұрын
@@discord1880 Get a clue. Autistic people love, empathize, etc. the same as neuro normal people. Our timing may be different and the way we express it is different. You need to learn to be nice.
I love this. Thank you so much, your speaking is very informative, visual and charismatic!
I was diagnosed, and it was a relief. And his experience described me exactly, especially my sensory issues.
Brave young Man. My assesment is today, Male, 45 years old. Super anxious.
@smallsherpa2222
2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully it went as well as possible for you buddy 🙏. I'm currently on a waiting list for my assement, ngl I'm super anxious aswell (male 24).
"schools shouldnt have uniforms".....couldnt agree more, I hated uniforms in schools, the concept is just absurd -____-
@indigobb
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry if this a rude question ; for me I thought uniforms would’ve been nice because I wouldn’t have to consider what I wear but uniforms and strict dress code is very tough on sensory stuff?
@rrreee4673
3 жыл бұрын
I love uniforms
@jasonjamrs7413
3 жыл бұрын
@@indigobb it's a funny one first one wouldn't know if rich or poor no peer pressure EG Kmart and you have the same thing day to day
@SilentRaven8
3 жыл бұрын
i love it because it would lessen the load of what is right to wear an what looks good
@myotiswii
3 жыл бұрын
I don't like uniforms. I always wear baggy stuff and can't wear things like jeans. I don't think that I would be able to take that.
great Cuan Weijer! This was an amazing speech. I'm sure your family is very proud. I am sure you're proud of yourself as well.
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
I am diagnosed with high functioning autism and are 16 yr old when i was smaller i had social anxiety, i didnt have a lot of friends and i didnt like big crowds. Now its the opposite i really like to socialise with people, i like being in bigger crowds, i mean its ok being in bigger crowds and now i have a good amount of friends. But i still get very tired when i get home from socialising.
It's so sad to me because I never thought that my daughter had Asperger's. It wasn't until she was a teenager when she showed signs of depression that I took her to mental health and that's where I found out that she's a high functioning person with Asperger's. She wasn't great and still isn't great or even good for that matter with her social skills, we just thought she was spoiled and rude. How differently things might be for her right now if we would have known and could have gotten her help when she was a little kid. I don't blame myself or I'm not beating myself up for not knowing, I just wish so badly for her sake that we had the help that could have put her in a much more easier spot to deal with the trauma of teenage years. Parents need the therapy and knowledge of how to help raise their children because it's not the same way that you would normally raise a child. For example, I can remember always yelling at her for her tone that she was using with me. I didn't know that she didn't know how to use her tone. It is now affecting friendships because people at this age aren't just oh happy and excited being kids playing, they have to be more social to be accepted and that's where her depression is coming from because her friends from when she was smaller don't understand what she's going through. They just think either she's mean or doesn't like them but all she really wants is to be accepted and loved like everybody else on the planet needs! She has such a huge heart but you wouldn't be able to tell because it's hard for her to open up to people or start conversations. If anybody has any advice on how I can help her please let me know. Any books or apps or role-playing I can do with her, anything. What I'm doing isn't working
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
My four year old son was recently diagnosed with high functioning autism. You have shed some light as to what may be affecting certain behaviors of his. Thank you. 💕
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@thanoscube8573
2 жыл бұрын
@@juniormako6184herbs? Sounds a little dangerous
I wouldn't be able to speak like this in front of people and I can tell that he struggles but he succeeded 👍
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
He has a beautiful voice
I’m 26 and today I was diagnosed with HFA this is a huge concept to grasp. This video is really helping me understand
@banandababa
3 жыл бұрын
How did you get diagnosed?
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Thank you for sharing this with the world ☺️
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Great talk ! I feel like I have this understand verbal cues though some have said not everyone doesn’t. White noise box, white noise box, to scream at loud birds, cannot share a bed anymore for sleep and sleep terribly even though whiter noise box, rain sounds etc all at once and just watching a show without whiter noise or a telemedicine call today made my anxiety so bad
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Did you know infact there is sound therapy to relieve mild symptoms of autism and other cognitive ailments? (Autism binaural beats/isochronic tones)
@HopeLives2012
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
This is fascinating because I wanted uniforms as a kid, just so other students would stop bullying me for my clothing. Obviously not all autists are the same but I appreciate having the opposite explained
@kelsieyoung8794
7 ай бұрын
this is so real! I love uniforms as a kid, but as i grow older i despise them due to sensory issues. For example, i dont wear jeans, and most of the time you'll find me in either pajama pants or cargo shorts with long socks.
Excellent speech. So well explained. And I love your deep voice. You must be a good singer! All the best to you!
@juniormako6184
2 жыл бұрын
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
@Robinicat
2 жыл бұрын
@@juniormako6184 Wow! Great news! I don't know about Dr Oyalo's herbs but if they work, share with as many people as possible. Videos would help. . I have worked with autistic children voluntarily and one thing they all seem to have in common is digestive issues so I would guess that a healthy diet (low carb) and with plenty of healing probiotics would help.
What a beautiful angel you are
I'm glad there's more, and its recognized 😶
so helpful and interesting. thank you so much for your insight
i was born with high function autism so i can relate i can't do loud noises as well and i also rock back and forth without realizing i'm doing it
I have Asperger's with a high IQ but it's hard to tell. I just sound like an average person that doesn't talk that much. And I'll leave people scratching their heads or minds blown. Small talk is very confusing to me. Only way I'm good at small talk's if I tell fibs. But that's just not me to be a white liar.
Thanks for sharing, Cuan
Yup if alcohol, nicotine and music didn't exist to counter act my anxiety, ocd and low spectrum austistic spectrum disorder i'd be a high functioning serial killer and worst I know that for a fact I would I have just learned with age to be a decent human and conditioned my brain to be decent. :) I love trance music and Indie. Great video. I also tend to find most highly functioning austistic spectrum people excell in subjects most cannot understand and tend to be geniuses in their own respect. I know I was one of them and I excelled in everything yet my temper, ocd, anxiety and other issues. You make sense it's a complex spactrum and people do not understand it especially if you're on the very,v ery low end of things and seem fine. Something most don't know about me but yeah i'm on the austistic spectrum to a degree. With mine I have the sensory issues for example- Super hearing, eyes feel like they're in camera zoom mode and it blurs and is clearer, my sense of smell is like wolverines and I can suddenly feel other peoples emotions and intentions even if they're silent I just know if they're lying, thinking negatively of me and I can hear in colours like reds, purples, blues, greens. I don't know how common psychic abilities are with autsism but from my studies they're relatively common place. My biggest issue even today at 32 next thursday is MY TEMPER! Even though I can control it and don't go into a fit opf blind rage in an obvious sense the tiniest of things even a comment from another I don't like can make me shale inside, my blood boils I want to do something to them for disturbing my day for no reason but I take a deep breath and leave the unconfortable scene. I always fear one day enough will indeed be enough and I will go insane and enjoy it. it's a scary place to be mental health and austism but livable and it's something epople need to udnerstand better instead of mock and laugh at. I'm brilliant at all things science espeically biology so if someone does ever push me over my limits i'll invent a new way to shut them up lol. great video man.
@ThylineTheGay
4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you didn’t end up being a serial killer
Very good talk.
Bro I’m high asf and I search “high funny videos)! But high functioning autism comes up and I burst out laughing... I won’t be high so much longer I’ll be down under with HIGG” function autimes $
My friend has this, you literally never would’ve even known if he didn’t tell you, he would even point out his own little tendencies to us, and explained it basically how this guy is explaining it
I diagnose myself i’m high functioning been feeling strange my whole life not knowing what is wrong with me my youngest son has it but was diagnosed by a doctor i feel more alive more then ever knowing what i have I’m old too lifes been hard but I know it’s gonna be bright now !!!!!!!!
Thank you
You are awesome!
Hey I didn’t even realize I was on the spectrum till around age 18 when I took some psychedelics and that’s when I realized something was wrong and I got a diagnosis. But before that I had good grades I mean I had friends just not close relationships. And it’s all the small things you may not even realize
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏
My mother refuses to believe I have autism on a day to day basis. I’ve been tested and still she refuses to believe it and thinks I’m just trying to self diagnose for attention DESPITE THE TESTING IVE HAD. I wish she would even try to watch videos like this if I sent them to her. She doesn’t. I’ve tried. She doesn’t even know anything about what autism is or what it’s like and any time I try to explain things to her she deliberately shuts anything I’m saying 100% out. She literally won’t hear anything I’m saying she will purposefully reject the sounds of my words reaching her psyche at all. She is incredibly abusive towards my autism, which is why I try to make her understand why I am the way that I am but she deliberately denies me right from the beginning no matter what I have to say. On other subjects in the past I would mitigate that issue by finding accounts of others to present to her to inform her of subjects and she would only then acknowledge things only they say, but if I said the same I’m completely shut down as if I’m too unintelligent to know a thing about anything. Only outsiders other than me know anything about the world. Unfortunately nowadays even if I were to show her this video, an account of another person explaining the exact things I go through she would now fully reject those things flippantly. I don’t know why she is this way towards me or things I present to her, it’s developed into an awful monstrosity of a thing now that I’ve spent twenty nine years of my life alive and burdening her with my diagnosis. Instead of doing more research and asking more questions she just made me the target of her very own bullying because that is how some people display their lack of understanding and frustration in that…but I do wish she would just watch this and listen. I know I’ve said these words to her so many times but nothing ever gets through and now not even others I send her way make any impact… I allowed her to move in with me a year and a half ago because she was homeless, now I’m powerless to enjoy life…I am constantly a victim to her aggressions towards my autism and it makes me more than miserable. There aren’t words enough to express the awful existence I feel in her presence and all because I am simply autistic. I don’t have one person around me who knows what autism is like. Nobody I know has immediate family knowingly with it, nobody closely associated to them knowingly with it, just neurotypical humans with neurotypical examples of humans to compare me against. I am tragically unhappy and only wish for once that any person around me would know about and consider relevant my suffering. I believe I’d be a happier person if only I had that. It’s the hardest thing in the world though that the biggest aggressor towards me because of the way that I am, is my own mother. Sometimes it makes me feel life isn’t worth the solitude and pain. I feel so singular.
@Thetravelingwheelbarrow
2 жыл бұрын
Dude same
Thank you so much.
How many so called "normal people" feel a lot like he does, in many situations. I just finished The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night! Read it, everybody! We are all unique. I loathe uniforms, maybe for the same reason he does. Makes us all look like ants. I spiral, and I am NOT autistic.Terrific talk, and courageous. Namaste, Z.
Very helpful!
I love you
bravo! amazing presention.
GREAT WELL DONE DUDE !
I'm 28 and am trying to find a place to get tested. I currently live in South Korea, and my Korean is nowhere near the level of talking about psychological things. I hope to get tested soon to find out if I have either autism or any other neurodivergence.
Thanks I have autism
I have a hard time accepting my diagnosis.
@CitizenB5139
2 жыл бұрын
It’s hard at first but just know that there is nothing wrong with you. You may be different but you are perfectly imperfect like everybody else. It’s so precious to have an autistic child, they truly teach you how to love wholeheartedly. Just embrace your gift. Sending you lots of ❤️
@Zero-cw4qj
2 жыл бұрын
@@CitizenB5139 tysm❤️
This was really good!
I read and watch again and again, and i (an autistic) have come to find out that, Autism is Feelings or more like FEELINGS. But thankfully it can come to good use when it works out in social situations, we can have the strongest empathy in the flock. But always REAL and down-to-earth. In my case, if someone (or i) formulate/s an argument which doesn't really fit the pieces (or make sense) i can get a tic outburst or meltdown. And this happens to me not because i hate the person speaking but because i know they can speak better and more accurately. I think shallow statements are quite selfish. Unfortunately, it's not always blue sky and sunshine with this trait. Once, i threatened to kill one of my best friends because they were speaking very shallowly and unnaturally (also considering it could have been manipulation) in a very serious situation. And i regret doing that... First it felt like a rush of pride for being righteous, then i felt a crushing remorse when the thought that they might just be innocent hit me... It gave me a really bad episode of mental conflict, i really wanted to cut my skin to feel something new (I never self-harmed to this extent). Thankfully i booked an emergency hospital visit and they made my day a lot better.
What an amazing young man you are!! Very well done!!
Solid 11 out of 10 score for him
I wander if it might help autistic people if someone invented noise reducing hearing aids. This way, you can be out in your community and interact with people while the hearing aids reduce the amount of sound you hear, but still allowing you to communicate with others. Just my thoughts.
I am curious about the school that he came to love. I am worried about my son moving up to middle school next year. It’s a big school.
i love this but omg i could not talk infront of that many ppl without music i the background omggg it would drive me insane
Perfect
I meet this criteria.
Thank you so much for sharing this. My son has not been diagnosed but it’s possible that he is autistic. He’s in his 20’s and I don’t know what to do or where to start. I just want him to be okay. I just want answers.
did he just call Forrest Gump intelligent?
@denisdenak
3 жыл бұрын
He is... unconventionally smart.
I have autism too
@capt.n.sir.charles6251
Жыл бұрын
DUUURRRRR
It's funny that you think that school shouldn't have uniform. I wonder if there's a difference between male and female perspective. I almost feel like I would have loved to have had uniforms growing up so that I could have felt like I didn't stand out from everyone else as much
Thank you, now I get my roommate from the 1980’s. And now, I think If I’m not Autistic, I’m somewhat so..
As someone with a mild form of Aspergers, I don't know how to look /interact with people walking by on the street. Any tips with how should I do it? (Eye contact) Thanks
@capt.n.sir.charles6251
Жыл бұрын
Smile and wave, very simple. People will think you're weird and autistic if you don't. People notice you.
I'm dealing with someone with autism at the moment. High functioning and low functioning. Is nastiness part of the autism trait and being a bit of a bully? Or is this cause they can't understand others feelings. The person i'm dealing with is very self absorbed and doesn t care about my feelings but was not expecting it to be like this at all. Arn't they suppose to be super kind but blunt? Everything is my fault, is this a common symptom as well. Im a bit confused and struggling. Any help would be great??
@triceg184
2 жыл бұрын
This sounds like my daughter's father. He displays all these characteristics and was very mean to me
@kblundell16
2 жыл бұрын
@@triceg184 does he have autism?
4:55 and this is why i hate people that wear band shirts from bands they have never heard of. I see a person that seems to have a simalar intrest that can be a conversationstarter to make somthing eazyer, i train for weeks to be able to talk to that person only to hear : "oh nah i just like the print, didnt even know it was from ...... ."
raphael from transformers prime
Have you come across Alternative Herbal supplement on youtube, it did alot for my non verbal son who was diagnosed with Austin.
My son is doing school at home due to the pandemic, but when it's time to go back to school he will be in his second year of middle school and I'm so scared for him and how he'll manage the noise, going from class to class, lunch and especially if he gets made fun of for flapping his arms or other autistic mannerisms 😬
@tobystevens9183
3 жыл бұрын
Home school if possible! Life is extremely difficult for autistic folks who have normal to high intelligence. Actually life for us is quite unfair. We are neither accepted or appreciated by most people ( neuro-normal folks). Try to help your child find others on the spectrum to associate with. That is key. Without other like-minded friends to mingle with, living with autism/aspergers is incredibly dark and lonely. Our suicide rate is 10X that of neuro-normal people. We are easy and preferred TARGETS of bullys. God bless and good luck.
@dianacharles9307
2 жыл бұрын
@@tobystevens9183 Not all high functioning autistic people go through the same thing. I have a friend who is high functioning autistic, who is in regular classes, gets good grades, and socializes well with others who don't have autism. You can't speak for every autistic person.
@henriettaabeyta1457
2 жыл бұрын
@@tobystevens9183 The other person speaks the truth, socializing at school wasn't my issue it was people weren't patient about taking their time to actually learn the personal unique expressions I show in my communication with others. Schools thought I expressed anger while no it was me being frustrated quick whether seeing impatient teachers or confused regular student laughing while I'd show quiet expressions. But that stuff didn't stop the polite ones from seeing my kindness, my good manners and my loyalty. I've even had regular people get jealous of my courage shown in public. Regular or Disabled I don't mind which group I'm helping. Online it's my confidence people get confused about in my writing. My top issues are I have a hard time knowing if I rambled in my writing or not, or if what I wrote is off topic.But luckily my grandma has understood my Autism my whole life.
Doc Oyalo can reverse autism with herbs and it’s completely perfect. I used it for my son and so far his speech is verbal and social skill is normal and he can now also respond to his name and speak out what he wants on his own he calls mama and dad.
Bruh I thought I was an alien or something I always hated quality microphones unless I’m using it certain frequencies drive me nuts I like asmr as long as the mic is not too good lmao that sounds so weird
I have Autism, but I don't think I have sensory problems.
@capt.n.sir.charles6251
Жыл бұрын
You look the type.
Searching for a solution for my child 4years old and couldn't talk I felt really said and doctor's said it's autism disorder but glory be to God I finally found something that worked for him on KZread Dr Isibor Alternative Herbal Healing .
IT IS A TRUE DISORDER ......
Sheldon Cooper has autism?!
Please explain to me why were terrified of water and what's our take on Sheldon of big bang
Did he just say *a s b e r j e r s*
@zorls
3 жыл бұрын
I think you're uneducated
I used this doc herbs for my son and now my son is completely free, his speaking and behavior is ok. His herbs is 100% working on ASD. I met Dr Oyalo on channel and I’m happy to share my experience about it
Like me.. 😎🎧
I have autism…. And I’m sure that he does not know what any sort of spectrum of autism is
Asperger's doesn't exist it's autism level 1
@lovelana3595
2 жыл бұрын
Call it what you want. Those who were dx with "Asperger's" years or decades ago can continue to refer to their diagnosis as Asperger's if they prefer. THEY don't need the hassle.
@henriettaabeyta1457
2 жыл бұрын
No Asperger's is the second they need more tutor than the first level, they mainly have the ability to chat more than those who need help throughout the day but those the with Asperger's still need lots of help, the high functioning mainly need help but strangers hardly recognize the first level of Autism. That was my serious issue during childhood nobody having enough awareness to offer any help. The various types of fictional tales we end up with as our special interests and the way we mention them often give clues of what level of Autism someone has. My school classes of special ed had all three levels. But I knew enough to eat with Autistic classmates who threw some lunch food.
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