I’ve been called an a-hole, arrogant, rude, ugly, the whole 9…and it be so funny how fast women trying seduce to after you stand on business. The thing is Im a nice guy. I’m just blunt about things and I don’t waste time.

@banderas2000

2 ай бұрын

fr . because you are showing that balance and need they need. i am a "kind" guy i hate that word nice guy. but when i say NO or respond to a test with a playful "arrogant" attitude and some teasing they love it. also speakin my mind on things bluntly as u said

Easy, have some grit and a backbone! Its not bad to be a good person but just don't let people walk over you!

@TrillBill

2 ай бұрын

✅

@brianmorris2533

2 ай бұрын

Being a “nice guy” & a good person isn’t the same

@MsJoyce31202

2 ай бұрын

😊

@banderas2000

2 ай бұрын

@@brianmorris2533 true i say kind is different than nice. some "nice guys" are using a game tactic. some are kind but need to develop that backbone.

Some nice guys may not even see THEMSELVES as sexual beings. And yeah, they’re afraid of negative reactions to them being truthful and honest about how they REALLY see the girl

Never forgo authenticity. Even if you gotta stand on a island by yourself, don't fold. 🦍"F*ck the world if they can't adjust"

@rastafit23

2 ай бұрын

Deep Brother 💪🏾

@TrillBill

2 ай бұрын

@@rastafit23 💯

@KyleGravesLive

2 ай бұрын

Amen

Most of these nice guys who's scolding men for having a sexual side, always taking the women's side, are often the ones wasting money on Only fans. It's all a facade.

@thomasshanks6735

2 ай бұрын

It disturbs me how many men pay for only fans undercover. These really are the same people who portray themselves as the complete opposite.

You have to be able to walk away

Get someone that adores you. You don’t have to worry about being too nice or mean. The women I’ve messed with didn’t care about none of that. They just wanted me to

@grownupcaillou2685

2 ай бұрын

Facts. But the hard part is finding that somebody that will absolutely adore you.

@iloveyou281000

2 ай бұрын

@@grownupcaillou2685Yes that’s the hard part 😂

The absence of “nice women” should show you the loop hole of nice guy syndrome

Women didn’t like I challenge them or had a mind of my own. I could tell they respected I have a back bone

You either die a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain

@DavidLoveOfficial

Ай бұрын

Villainy is inevitable.

There's no power in being a nice guy and being a nice guy leads to destruction.

LMAOO I got called ass hole an arrogant and lost women before oh well . 😂

Folks, this is the game, right there!

Had a baddie talking ish about my company at my job. Promptly told her she was talking nonsense, kick rocks, and go to another location. She walked out, came back 5 minutes later, gave me her #, and after a week, I got the draws! This Works !!

@rastafit23

2 ай бұрын

😂😂 ayo

@jgadonisspeaks

2 ай бұрын

I don’t believe this at all

@treyboogy9636

2 ай бұрын

@@jgadonisspeaks I stayed with that broad for 2 years, she had a Phatty!

great segment, the fastest way to turn a woman off is to be that guy she can cry on his shoulder.

Sincere friendships. Forget the fake.

You have to stand on your square 10 toes down

We aren't supposed to agree with everybody on everything anyway. How are you two different people, and you do that (agree with everything)?

@jqy4sho

2 ай бұрын

Wow, needed this advice!

Stop wasting time on time wasters this is a physical and emotional thing and if she’s not reciprocating. Stop hanging around somebody who don’t want you you could be outside talking to 10 other women life is short to be put in the toolbox .

@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue

2 ай бұрын

There's a chick that hates me after 5 years because I cut her off as I realized that when she friendzoned me not only was she shaming me for getting attention from other women once I got to college but she was not a benefit at all to my growth

It took me a long time to cultivate independence from most women's opinions (not perfect, still make mistakes) to now say how I feel and not be ashamed of it. As I look back, I see how being the nice guy was tremendously dishonest and manipulative. So, relatively easy to put the act down once I saw the situation for what it was.

Rom is right. Most men have been conditioned to do everything they can to stay in a woman’s good graces. I’m glad he brought up the woman will call you names. We often mistake this disapproval or that we’ve done something wrong. It could be quite the opposite.

Guys listen to this man. I’ve done the whole nice guy shit, dates and I’ve never gotten what I wanted. I’m naturally kind of a dick but a gentlemen and I’ve found when I’m acting in my natural state: I get more. Some can handle it, most can’t. The ones who can’t immediately disqualify themselves and go on about their lives. You should want that. Weeds out the time wasters. And furthermore unless you view her as a future wife of sorts, why are you wasting time courting? Modern women especially younger than 30 will view you as a bitch even if you’re being a gent. Trust me I know

Keep telling the Truth Rom. The young guys really need to hear your voice crying out in the wilderness.

A man is the CEO of his life

I found that having principles and sticking to them helped me avoid the friend zone/nice guy category. Good stuff, Uncle Rom! Peace and blessings!

Standing on business

I’m a kind person who has gone through a lot and people always say I have a serious face but I’m working on being more approachable lol I’m a mystery I’ve been told by men and women until they truly get to know me

@rastafit23

2 ай бұрын

Reserved it’s a time to be social an a time to shut up be you brother . I grew up introverted I got a lot of girls by being around the wrong crowd . I never cared about game I just say shit when I see it .

First comment! Looking great, Uncle

I know a guy who ended up marrying a woman who is leading him, so much so he literally ghosted all his male and female friends and even family members, only hanging out with with his new wife's friends only. 🤷🏾‍♂️

I Been Watching you about a year.You drop Gems.LOVE YOUR CONTENT.KEEP PUSHING O.G..

Peace and blessings to you brother rom enjoy your day ✌🏾🙏🏾

Right on time uncle Rom, be blessed 🔥

Blessings OG, you’re a true asset to the young ones out here

Great advise Rom 👏🏿 👏🏿👏🏿

Great video rom appreciate your value

Needed this for work, thank you!

Yes sir. On point again fam. There are only two categories. friend zone or the end zone.

The timing of this video could not have come at a better time for me. Thank you so much for the insight and content.

Thanks for everything you do man

Simple yet great advice 🤙🏾

Thanks my brother you making a lot of sense it took me years to learn🤜🤛

Another Uncle Rom Classic! Fire game as usual 🔥🔥🔥

Thanks ROM 👍

I've been watching your videos for a couple years now but this one really changed me

Great advice!! You can be good and also tough no one likes a lay down.

At 4:22 Yeah..excellent point. I still need to remember this occasionally. I do notice that when you respectfully disagree with a woman and stand your ground they respect you more.

No lies detected!😉👊🏾👍🏾

The last dude you should be is the shoulder to cry on

The term is used both positively and negatively. Find the middle ground😂 and don't be afraid to make adjustments where necessary.

Every man should watch this video…….everything you said is 100% true. Everytime i went off on a chick she’s been running like a waterfall. Even a good amount are into the whole ddlg thing. They’ll purposely act up or do something to piss you off just to be punished by you. I’ve seen it first hand multiple occasions smh

No lies detected Unc!!

Yup at 4:53. Facts.

I was 16 when I 1st said no to a woman. It got easier from there

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@RomWills

2 ай бұрын

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@moislord

2 ай бұрын

see i didn’t think about that, such a perfect example !

Is there anyway I can donate mr wills?

@RomWills

2 ай бұрын

My cashapp is $RomWills

Dude, I hope you’re feeling better.

I like a leader and has his own mind. But u can't be saying no just to act macho... Please use your mind first. Don't be emotionally controlled. But if a man has a thought process, principals and is consistent in the way he moves and I say something that is crazy and I get wisely corrected and affirms his care for me still wellllllll it's over! I want this so bad. I don't want to argue cuz I would see he used his mind and would force me to consider he might be right or there are different things I didn't consider. And plus he doesn't disrespect me as well. He needs self respect first. ❤

You can avoid the nice-guy perception by being a little cocky in a playful way. Nice men don’t challenge women and dislike disagreeing.

Im just nice by nature ,even if they overstep their boundaries with me i leave it in gods hands and reap the benefits of it im still gonna be nice whether they like it or not,,, its their demon ,their problem, not me ,im fine kindness could get you far in life ,little do they know ,its such a frivolous thing to worry about .

you have to be your OWN MAN even with the woman you are with. work on those women pleasing tendencies. ironically enough when you stick with your own opinions , thoughts feelings on things even if she dont' agree you actually build better relationships. boundaries are established. human relationships are allowed to be a bit messy /rocky at times. it' a a fantasy to try to make sure everyone around you (women mostly) always feel "ok" around you. oh she can't get mad or disagree i can't say what i really feel. it's key to being a "nice" guy to still be your own man.

For some reason after hearing this it reminds me of someone comparing p diddys apology video and the game is game guy apology video p diddy was most likely faking it to get attention and sympathy whilst the game is game guy admitted and said he will do it again and I respected the game is game guy more

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Being too nice kills the vibes honestly.

Waaaaay too many broken people out there to be rolling out niceties to just anyone. You'll get trampled all over.. If they're chasing Tyrone/Chad/Pookie all day long, it's their language they identify with. 🤷🏽‍♂️ Don't listen to a word they say, look at their histories and watch what they react to. #savage

I'm kind but I'm not unbiased. It matters what the woman does.

For a woman a nice guy is a tool to get some errands done.

I hate when a dude starts talking with a woman, about another man! So corny

Be a "Good Man", not a "Nice Guy." And realize that most nice guys have been programmed by their mothers.