This conversation was extremely refreshing. So good to see black women share so openly & with such eloquence, transparency, & vulnerability. We’re sharing this video with our online community of black women & girls who are committed to helping each other THRIVE. It’s wellness season. Much love ❤

A lot of factors tying into our grief, slavery, oppression, our men leaving, in jail, dead, or gay which leaves no men left .. all these things work against us !

@nunyun7809

2 жыл бұрын

That part!

@sabisweet

Жыл бұрын

Most black women have been endorsing homosexuality,or have been aiding black men in criminal activities. Maybe women are weaker emotionally 😢

This is a wonderful conversation. Appreciate the nuance so much. I’m so ready to be soft emotional and mediocre black woman. Just being is everything. 🙏🏾 Yes reclaiming the word laziness

@maryseo.

2 жыл бұрын

Sis, why you want to be mediocre though? Rest is not about mediocrity, it's about self care and love of self at his best, to me that is true excellence... How can love and mediocrity go hand in hand?

@hopeful9160

Жыл бұрын

Right!!!!

@asyrafnukman1991

Жыл бұрын

👍👍👍😊

What a POWERFUL conversation. Thank you. My gosh, thank you!

Dr. Williams, on behalf of ALL of us-thank you for being so vulnerable and for sharing your truth. We all felt you, admire you, and love you. You cracked this conversation wide open-and the way each sista acknowledged and lifted you was such a beautiful thing to witness. Thank you all so very much.

This conversation is a jewel. These relatable, soft, black women just gave me my whole entire life. Thank you, ladies. Thank you for having this very important conversation.

The Dr. Looks like the beautiful Roberta Flack. And all of her honesty I feel to the core.

Great conversation ladies!! I cant be soft and emotional because I'm too busy surviving. I don't trust because no one has given me a reason to trust them. I suffered from depression for years in private. Even now if I'm not careful and don't pay attention to the signs it tries to sneak up on me. Thank you for this conversation.

@ansali2003

2 жыл бұрын

Excellent perspective ! Hang in there ! So much wisdom there.

@vhpfatpat32xx39

2 жыл бұрын

you sad sad person 😢😢

@Fortheloveofpaypay

6 ай бұрын

this is the one .. this hard to hear but its reality

Excellent and necessary conversation! I hope this gets more views.

This was soooo good! Thank you

@crttsome7504

2 жыл бұрын

Couldn't get enough of it.👏👏👏

I love this This was so powerful!!! I no needed this in so many ways

How beautiful is this. I have so much on my heart for this conversation. When someone decides to transition to womanhood, they're gonna realize it gets HARDER in EVERY way. Being biologically a black woman feels like the hardest thing to embody. There is no instruction manual for how to deal with the world and the society you are a product of. "I'm tired." I really felt that. Sometimes getting out of bed takes every bit of strength I pray for. When the woman mentioned the death of her husband, felt that too. Though you cant control that, it happens often. And you are never ready for it 🤧 Don't get me started on luxury. We want that not out of greed, but out of wanting rest. Spiritually and physically.

This…was amazing. Thank you so much for this conversation. …this really helped lighten up a dark space. You are all so very much appreciated.

POWERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, of UPMOST IMPORTANCE.

I absolutely love this conversation

I absolutely LOVED this discussion 🤩🥰😍

Love the conversation. Thanks for sharing it with us. #stopstigma 🤝🏽

Very powerful! Thank you

Needed to hear this. I'm always tired. My body has forced me to step out of the wheel. If I don't fight the societal pressure to be "on 24/7," I'm not gonna be on long. I still feel massive guilt when I rest, and it's going to take a lot of prayer and CBT to undo that. I have folx who take care of me a bit. Trying to learn to receive and just be has been a 5 year and ongoing process.

Wow. A very powerful conversation! Very much appreciated 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

This conversation was amazing! So needed!!!! Love to all black women ❤️

Excellent discussion ladies! Thank you all for sharing with us!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. This is so needed in many areas across the country❤️👌🏾

This is such a beautiful and needed conversation for me . Thank you for creating this safe space. We need to have more conversations like this

Thank you ladies for having this conversation!

This is amazing!

Beautiful!!!!❤❤❤

I have a friend suffering from NPD) narcissistic personality disorder) I ended the friendship with her because of the and circular conversations that was going she's very envious jealous childlike she marry your she take actual events and twist them to her reality... Which is mind blowing in itself I am 50 years old I have never came across this personality type before in my life I have not lost a relationship with a female do to toxicity in my lifetime. You ladies are absolutely gorgeous

I loved this conversation. Really could relate to Mom of the toddler. Keep having these conversations❤

A year late, but so glad i scrolled upon this❤

What the Dr said is so deep. The trauma 💔 that blk women go through the oppression of and by other black women in work and in personal life all of them fled In the end.

Man...❤❤

I would love to experience this

Thank You For This!!!

A educated woman who's comfortable in her own flesh can't be disrespect by any real men that exist a womb

Not black women thought she was gonna take their husbands. I....idk bout that but this was such a beautiful and loving panel

@crttsome7504

2 жыл бұрын

To me. Bw should just go the trans route. Black trans-men should be a big thing in the black community.✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿 Besides, there is a shortage of men.

@nunyun7809

2 жыл бұрын

@@crttsome7504 what? What the hell? So you want more confusion in our community?

@whisper2284

2 жыл бұрын

@@crttsome7504 😂😂😂Nice try and I got a damn good laugh out of your shenanigans! Everybody, this is a white person with that Critical Race Theory handle.

@maryseo.

2 жыл бұрын

Black women have been the most inclusive people for centuries. They even raised their oppressors' children. Now they have to make room for men who try to look like them in a stereotypical way, talk on their behalf and even boast about stealing their men. I'm sorry but that's not it.

And gentlemen

Amazing panel of women!

@d.rabbit7276

Жыл бұрын

Women? Really? A quarter of the panel has XY chromosomes. But besides that... BW claim to be tired but call themselves "alpha females." Quick to call relationships/marriages "partnerships." Still pushing the strong black independent woman rhetoric but too arrogant to see it. Most of their suffering is their own doing. A matter of fact, the only BM the average black woman loves and respect are gay and effeminate black men. It's's sick to have a man representing BW on a national scale. But it's acceptable because BW see them as allies against masculine black men.

How can I be a part of this program. I need help!

Divide and conqure- The making of a slave book by Willie Lynch.

Happy we're refusing to accept that title now.

These women are awesome I can relate to these as a black woman myself. I am black women with both ADHD and Autism, I been diagnosed as being mentally challenged aka retarded Growing up I was mislable some people still lable me as being mentally challenged/ retarded.

So are trans women the new “Skrong” black woman…i mean I feel like that adds up way more 🤔🤷🏾‍♀️

These are one of the most beautiful bw I've ever seen.

To have someone who clearly is not a woman be part of this conversation is very condescending.

@solinspired4428

6 ай бұрын

That part. No you can not speak for me.

I had A girlfriend with five children lupos cancer Lucas metropolitan housing authority wouldn't let her oldest( it is A system of abuse) son move in with her as A car taker. I ran into her my good cousin friend GB at A meeting at Lmha when she left out I started crying. I had to see Mrs Reese administration so I could get my house. Talked too her about my lighter complexion cuban cousin. Did my interview and came out here too get my keys too my 🏠👐🏼🙌🏼🤲🙏. But I remember running too her aide so many times.

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In zepf hope and recovery health center they have stereotypes we like our hair done you should get another case manager too buy hair. They don't like how black women can do more with their hair. So I was labeled as passive assertive only when necessary. They will call our children lazy the more color too the skin and the more texture too the hair although I'm Cuban Saudi Arabian Spanish Portugal Canary islands my texture of my hair and Carmel skin will label me black not Caribbean. It is just like my Bahama, Haitian, Jamaican friend's are labeled Afrikkan American instead of Caribbean. The struggle is real this is for women and men.

Is the “woman” in black a Man?

Why is there a man on a women's panel?

Someone here is not a woman.

I'd like it if black women had enough self-confidence real self confidence the type where you give up on God's laws and morality and given to the one of many of Satan's lies strong black woman is a lie strong black woman don't wear weave and cumbrellas /eyelashes makeup etc. A attractive black natural woman that finds her look and confident in it. Also None aggressive non-combative lady like and soft spoken. Would take two tame and keep a black man. Only if our women would understand this men would trust them enough to give them the world. Don't want to help build up black men. They bought into the lie that they want bad boy's and when they decided to believe that they created a bunch of bad boys. Our young men and women the children gangsters the rap culture is feeding us our narrative. We used to have a family structure GOD Father Mother Children. Satan play games with us with our minds and our emotions he turned everything upside down. Along with these satanists. We are living in his lie the world. We need to retreat take back our morality give them back their entertainment and culture. Find shelter with JESUS our families GOD Father Mother Child.

@nunyun7809

2 жыл бұрын

So I guess you didn't like Harriet Tubman because she was not soft spoken she was a warrior woman. Show us in black history here in Amerikkka where we were in a position to be soft spoken or Danty overall? You are comparing us to white women who have always been treated better overall and ALLOWED to be women. Shut up.

@dudleymilbin5599

2 жыл бұрын

@@nunyun7809 cut it out you're not brainwashed mentality when you're in the 40s you going to have regrets that you were so bitter and a strong black woman

@nunyun7809

2 жыл бұрын

@@dudleymilbin5599 who says I'm bitter? You sound bitter and misogynistic. One of those sick blk men who hate his own woman and never created an environment where she can be soft. So like I said before shut up!!!! You are not doing nothing to help us be soft. You just whining, bitchin and complaining. An instead of fighting white Supremacy you are coming on here preaching to what we need to do instead what the hell you need to do.

@maryseo.

2 жыл бұрын

Who are you to tell women how they must behave? Just leave Black women alone if you hate them, you have many other choices. And leave God and Jesus Christ out of this. Jesus was a revolutionary who chased merchants out of the Temple. And the women who followed him and who were close to him were not submissive soft women, they were considered like marginals in the Hebrew society of that time.

@mynameisnotimportant2854

Жыл бұрын

Black women don’t have men to protect them. Black men bought into the “black woman is masculine” stereotype started by the white man

To me. Bw should just go the trans route. Black trans-men should be a big thing in the black community.✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿 Besides, there is a shortage of men.

@tamikowhite9541

2 жыл бұрын

Both heterosexual straight non trans attracted biological born black men and women are becoming expatriates (permanently moving to countries that are still Christian and Traditional in terms of gender roles and have a small LGBT influence), we are leaving the U.S. and moving overseas to be around normal people. America is soon to be 100% LGBT. Too many men in America are effeminates and girly. Too many men are soft and sugary and ITS A TURN OFF FOR WOMEN. Too many men are sick of being lied to and tricked and deceived by Transgender women and/or manly rough black women. This country is finished, because the women are now men and the men are now women and children in America are doomed.

@goddessakasha5958

2 жыл бұрын

What are you talking about? So in order to avoid issues one should just transform their gender assignment? How does that help, how does that solve any problems? As if gender reassignment doesn’t have its own problems. Gtfoh!!! What your suggesting wreaks of eugenics, population control..... genocide!!!

@tamikowhite9541

2 жыл бұрын

@@goddessakasha5958 Both heterosexual straight non trans attracted biological born black men and women are becoming expatriates (permanently moving to countries that are still Christian and Traditional in terms of gender roles and have a small LGBT influence), we are leaving the U.S. and moving overseas to be around normal people. America is soon to be 100% LGBT. Too many men in America are effeminates and girly. Too many men are soft and sugary and ITS A TURN OFF FOR WOMEN. Too many men are sick of being lied to and tricked and deceived by Transgender women and/or manly rough black women. This country is finished, because the women are now men and the men are now women and children in America are doomed.

@nunyun7809

2 жыл бұрын

So you want more confusion in our community? 🤔

Whatever? Everyone has mh problems these days, you're not special.

@divalicious4888

2 жыл бұрын

Why r u so mad? Like ur so obsessed with liberals your channel is named after them calling them cancer, your on a tirade of being a bitch online. Like why are u so angry?

@YepItsDre

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@SisterrJewels

2 жыл бұрын

Your mad because their talking about it and your not ?

@Democratsaretrash

2 жыл бұрын

@@SisterrJewels yeah that's it 😂😂🤡.

@mynameisnotimportant2854

Жыл бұрын

To be fair, unprotected black women is a direct result of white men using propaganda media to declare “white is good; black is bad.” Therefore, “white girl good black girl bad.”

Beautiful conversation 💕