What do you think of using a win-win model as a guideline to decision-making?

@mariabejaranomonge2183

2 жыл бұрын

I think it brings peace to me. Every action I perform, every decision I take in life, should be done thinking about not only in my personal benefit but the way they also affect others. That's good karma.

@juliaangelicaa5395

2 жыл бұрын

In an ideal world, collaboration offers the best win-win solution. Unfortunately in my (work) life, that very seldom happens. Big 🇺🇲 companies runs under "dictatorship." So sad, everything is about 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰 going into their big fat pockets. Luckily, I have peace and contentment with my personal life so it somehow balances things out. Thank you Nick for sharing your wisdom ✌🏻

@everydayanimation4048

2 жыл бұрын

many decisions have nothing to do with others, so no "winning" is involved.

@oso4491

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your wisdom please can I contact you my brother 🙏

@vibi57

2 жыл бұрын

What about lose-lose? That’s where I am at...

What an INCREDIBLE message. Your channel is a source of true nourishment. Thank you for all you do just being you!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

That's very kind of you. Thank you 😊😊

I have to say since watching your videos, it made me realise how important it is to become more compassionate towards others and live with less judgement as we never know someone's full story. I listen to your videos daily and I like to rewind your videos to remind me about the wisdom you share here 😌 Thank you.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

That is wonderful to hear. I'm glad the videos are helpful 😊

🙏🏻Venerable Nick, You have no idea how much you’ve helped this old man. Thank you so much for everything! I’m grateful you were born! 🙏🏻

Hi Ven Nick. I have been following you now for about two years and love the beautiful teachings you bring. Thank you and I am so grateful to you for these precious moments. Bless you.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much my friend 😊😊😊

Love your channel

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu. Thank you so much yamilah ☺️☺️

Thank you again, dear Nick for a so simple but profound advice! I watch all your videos and every time I feel so much peace and love inside. God bless you for your beautiful ministry 💖

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Natalia. I'm glad it's helpful 😊😊

Thank you Nick, have no doubts that we out here are nor benefiting from your wisdom and insight. I shall never have the opportunity to going this first hand, and am forever grateful that I found your broadcasts. Pleased don't stop.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu Jenny. I'm glad these videos are helpful ☺️☺️

Venerable Nick, you chose again a very interesting topic to talk about! I so glad there are Buddhist monks who are willing to share their philosophy of life! Thank you for making time to do this very important thing for other people!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you for the kind words. I'm glad to be able to share ☺️☺️

So much knowledge in such a young man. YOU are a blessing to us all ! WIN-WIN. 🥰

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Christine 😊😊😊

I am a 60 year old American woman, you make me want to be a monk! ❤️

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

Thank you for these videos. Always helpful

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Reyna. It's my pleasure ☺️🙂

I really feel the inner peace and the divinity as i watching this video🙏🇨🇦Thanks Our Respected Nick and Pete🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu sadhu ☺️☺️ thank you so much

I think it’s easiest to manage win-win decisions when one sets clear boundaries, which is something I have difficulty with sometimes. When I don’t I end up not taking responsibility for my decision and then feel resentful, turning to win-lose if I’m not careful. Thank you for this important and beautiful reminder!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome my friend. It's a pleasure 🙂🙂

Thank you LP for showing us the path to win. Your story on your journey really made me think a new way. With a lot of remembrance, your faithful disciple 🙏❤️😁

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu AK!! ☺️☺️

Thank you so much for your words, your advices and your kindness. I wish you happiness from France. 🇫🇷🌸😁

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome my friend ☺️🙂

I love your wisdom, wish to be as peaceful as you are one day

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

I am always looking forward to ur videos Ven Nick. Thank u so much. Am learning a lot. Keep safe always 😊

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful. I'm glad you enjoyed them 🙂☺️

Thank you for all that you do and say, I always feel a sense of peace and calm when listening to you, sharing knowledge without judgement is a blessing indeed.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much Catherine.

Very happy to hear that your family is supportive.....A blessing

I think I am gonna take life's decision after watching this. Thank you Ven. 💗🌷🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful my friend 😊😊

@rakeshmoktan

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickkeomahavong01 Dear/Respected Ven..can I have your email to contact as I have some confusions regarding myslef and time is just fleeing away. Thank you.💗🙏🌷

Your decision to be ordained, is win, win and win. You win. Your parents win. We, the world win. Thank you for all your videos.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Aww Sadhu Sadhu. Thank you so much 😊

Honorable Ven. Nick is very generous to share his words of wisdom. I'm working on many lessons I've learned here. Most peaceful channel on KZread. ❤🧡💛 from USA

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful my friend. Keep up the great work 😊

Ven. Nick, Sending blessings, love, and gratitude from our family here in Australia. Loving following your journey and learning wonderful insights along the way. 🌺🙏🌺

Right on Nick. It has got to be a win win or another solution has to be reached. Thank you so much sir. I so wished I we as a culture would gravitate to win win. Balance folks. Thank you sir. :)

@nickkeomahavong01

Жыл бұрын

You’re welcome ☺️

This was helpful Nick. Thank you. Your talks always make me reflect. These points are valid and useful.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊 thank you so much Cathy

👍🙏 prayers and Thank you you are the Best Nick

@nickkeomahavong01

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

Great cédions Nick keep a good work ,I thank you for sharing your experience ,and I’m so happy to hear that you find peace in your life

@nickkeomahavong01

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

This is so validating and encouraging. Thank you Ven. Nick for such valuable guidance ! Sending you lots of love and light💛

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you. Greetings to you from Thailand also.

When you change yourself for the better, the world becomes better. As a mum the win-loss was my way of taking care of my kids, but I changed that 2 years ago. I feel much better. Win-win is definitely on my mind with making decisions. I always think if others benefit first and then what will it do for myself. Much love. 💋💋

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

🙂🙂 thank you Irma

Great lesson Ven. Nick.🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😊

Yes, we are all winning from your experience, your guidance, your balanced oratory in suggesting the best for each of us. That connects us and brings us together ❤ Thank you 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Rebecca ☺️☺️

You are a wonderful teacher

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you Susan ☺️😊

Thank you, as an indecisive person, this helps a lot & brings calmness to my mind.

this is so beautiful. thank you. yes to win-win. love it.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊😊

Once again (sorry :-)) thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom with us. I listen, acknowledge, "digest" and suddenly a seed grows up and I am the first surprised !

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

😊😊😊

This is so wonderful, thank you. I recently made the exact same decision actually! I was about to drop out of college to pursue writing and travel around, but I decided to stay and live with my boyfriend (who I love and is also finishing at the same college) and get my degree so I can be proud of myself and have options while also honoring my parents wishes. It was definitely a hard choice, but this is such a nice way to look at it. I guess it was a win-win since I can slowly develop myself and my writing without having to go off completely alone :) I will definitely keep your advice in my heart for whatever crazy decisions I'll have to make in the future. I can't tell you how much this has helped me, I truly hope you have a wonderful day :D

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful my friend. That's perfect ☺️☺️

Very I interesting and thought provoking. Thank you very much and keep them coming.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful. Thank you Claire 😊

Thank u so much Nick - you are definitely winning (and so are we as a result) ❤️ your videos 🙌😊🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you so much Oliver. I appreciate your kind words 😌🤗🤗

You're wright ! Your decision is an infinite WIN (especially for us ) ! Thank you Nick !!🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

As always, thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏼❤️

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome hollie 🙂🙂 it's my pleasure.

Thank you Nick! You got a new subscriber! I appreciated a lot this advice.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much Malena. Welcome to the channel 😌

I am so grateful for all your sharings. Thank you for talking with an open heart 🌹

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much my friend ☺️☺️

What a thoughtful caring person you are Nick. The world needs more people like you. Thanks for sharing ❤️

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much laurel

I am new to your channel and Buddhism. It's like i have finally come home. Thank you so much.

Another excellent message Ven. Nick keep them coming please 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Helen 😊😊

Such a wonderful video!!! Thank you for sharing your knowledge. This will be helpful to me.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Christine ☺️

Thanks. Excellent thoughts

Venerable Nick , I love your videos and gain a lot of wisdom and insights from them , ty ☸🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

You are such an example.Thank you 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much Patricia.

Wow..... What timing.... I've got some important difficult decision making in the near future... It will be hard for me to apply option number three for one toxic reason... More thought will be needed... Appreciate this thoughtful guideline.. thank you Nick... Have a great day ;)

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad it came at the right timing 😊😊

Thank you Ven. Nick for this timely video, even though I am seeing it 3 months after you made it. I am in the process of evaluating some life decisions to reestablish some boundaries with others, toxic interactions. In the process of implimenting actions that would somehow change directions and set me on a new path, I slammed the gate shut and was going to do a Win-Lose approach. However this video helped me to understand that while protecting me from toxic situations--slamming the gate shut is not approaching the situations with Win-Win and loving kindness towards others. I will work on these areas to see how to impliment this. Part as well is your section on journaling and trying to see good qualities in others. I will be trying this as well. I wish you and the monastery a Blessed 2022 :)

Thank you..I find your videos very enlightening and helpful . I always look forward to your videos. Regards 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much my friend 😊😊

You are helping me IMMENSELY! God bless you! I LOVE your laugh! You would make a great friend too! So glad I stumbled onto your videos! Thank you!!!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much Sandi and welcome to the channel.

Many people ( in the west) think monks are selfish because they "escape" society, but it's win win, they help society and the world vibration with just their presence. West needs to learn to appreciate monks

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

I love your videos and your approach to sharing your experience. Your teachings are very helpful. I am glad I found you. Thanks and peace to you!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much noelia and welcome to the channel.

Thank you Nick. I ❤️❤️ and respect very much these tidbits of love that you share. I like to think I am a “ truth seeker” too. I seem to gravitate to deep spiritual teachings and I take them to heart. There is a “ peace” I am searching for. An deep inner peace that will release me from much unrest and anxiety these last years. There’s sometimes a battle going on…. In the soul Me against myself it would seem. And I searching for why it seems to be so difficult to let it all go and let anxiety resolve itself. There seems to be NO useful purpose in holding on to pain. But I am learning this. I will strive and continue to find the inner work I need to do to find peace of mind….. body and soul. Thank you for reading and your insights. They are beautiful

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much. I'm glad they are helpful 😊😊

Thank you for sharing your wisdom in such a gentle manner.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much Angela

Thank you so much for taking your time sharing ❣️

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome my friend 😊😊

Thank You Nick, great topic & a Win Win. Really enjoyed the analogy & outcome, i am glad your Parents are happy too but very happy that you are happy. 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

This was came at a very very good time, thank you so much!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear. Thank you my friend 😊😊

Hello! This lecture was awesome as they all are!! I am learning SO much from. My daughter is adopted from China....I raised her just like your parents BUT now I see my errors clearly! You have made everyone proud every step of the way! Congratulations young gentleman! 🌷🙏🥰💝💪

You can sleep well Nick and many thanks from me to you for your exceptional advice you share in all of your messages. Very much appreciated. I learn every day and try to be a better person. Thx so much for your ongoing work and effort!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you

I watched this video earlier today, and although I though the advice was good, I brushed it off and didn't feel like it really helped my in my current situation. Just now, I have realised a way to solve my dilemma and it occurred to me that I found a win-win solution, so I had to come back and say thank you so much for making this video, I brushed it off initially, but in the end it helped me tremendously. I wasn't expecting that! Thanks again ❤

@ilonnaShay

2 жыл бұрын

I wanted to add that I think this was so helpful because I hadn't previously considered a win-win scenario when I was trying to address my issue, so that's why this was so helpful, such simple advice that you could easily miss it. I hope this helps someone else in some way, if it seems too simple, like me you might just need to look again 🙂

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear that's it was helpful. Thank you for sharing. That's wonderful 😊😊

Thank you so much for your teaching

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome 😊😁

Thank you for all❤❤❤❤🙏🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

That's an amazing piece of advice and perspective ,thank you,it does help to take decisions sensibly 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 😊😊

❤️👌💯thank you so much Nick! 😊🙌🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You’re welcome ☺️

I really loved listening to this video! Love all your videos.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu. Thank you so much 😊😊

Thank you so much for your teachings since I was a child I’ve been searching for spirituality, I lived in an ashram when I was very young that was a long time ago it was a very austere way of living but it was the best part of my life I felt peaceful and felt that my life had meaning .. eventually my life changed in many ways, but within me that searching never left me .. listening to your teachings is so calming and nurturing to my spirit .. Thank you 🙏

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Aww thank you my friend and I'm glad you had the opportunity to have that experience 😃

@bellec4453

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickkeomahavong01 🙂🙏

Wonderful thai English. Very, nice. And very sweet. Very good teach. Very, very thanks for you . Nick.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu sadhu 😀😀 thank you so much

Thank you for everything! Sadhu, sadhu to y’all!..🙏🏽

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome my friend ☺️🙂

Thank you, that was very helpful!!! I'm struggling with how to pursue my goals, without becoming overwhelmed and lashing out at people. I put it on hold to give my family and I some time to heal, and reflect on all the new information I've learned.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful 😊😊

I was just discussing this with a friend and how it isn't Always easy. But it always feels the best! ❤️❤️❤️

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful 😌😌

Yes as a mother I agree Venerable Nick.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊

I think you have the best channel in KZread. I learnd a lot from you. Evry week i seek your new video

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much and I'm glad you enjoy them.

Thank you ❤ so much

I love watching your videos I started following you very recently, I felt curious about watching the video where you ordeened, I was listening to you back them and your accent has changed completely, your tone of voice, I can feel your peace so beautiful, thank you for sharing what you are learning. Many blessings.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much and I'm glad you are enjoying the content. Welcome to the channel 😊😊

Thank you for another wonderful message

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome my friend ☺️ thank you

Such a beautiful advice. Thank you.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Nina 😊😊

@ninaneanum

2 жыл бұрын

@@nickkeomahavong01 r nu mo ta na sa tu ka🙏

Sometimes a win win model is such a life long journey.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Yes definitely ☺️😃

Wow, this was so helpful. Thanks

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

I'm glad to hear Aidan 😌😌

You are a beautiful person!🌷

Amazing. Thank you

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome Michelle ☺️☺️

very helpful . thanks !

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ☺️

गुरु जी के चरणों में कोटि कोटि प्रणाम 🙏🙏!!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

☺️☺️

Very timely Ven. Nick ☑️

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful my friend 😊😊

Love your channel ❤

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!! glad you enjoy it :)

Way before I became interested in Buddhism it has always been my opinion that the best result is always where both sides win... I have regularly won less well than the other side to make the result as equal as possible. I sleep well with these decisions.

Another wonderful video from your perspective. I bet after watching this many people will take another's feelings into consideration when making a decision. I can only hope!

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much Erika. Yes I hope it will help ☺️☺️

Thank you for your wisdom - my daughter lived in Thailand for 4 years. She learned to be a dive-master, and was a muralist. Greetings to you from Jane

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wonderful and thank you ☺️

Once again thank you so much

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome 😊😁 thank you

Because you make these videos, we all win! 😊

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Heidi 😊😊

Love your words of wisdom and knowledge. And love how you were a dancer before.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much jasmine

Love this channel these videos bring me so much peace.

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful. Thank you so much suriano 😌😌

Bello Nick😀wen y see your video y Win 🙏thanks very interesting vera from Belgium

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

Sadhu Sadhu 😊😊 thank you so much

I just made a decision not to pursue an opportunity that came my way because the timing felt too abrupt for myself, my family, and my work. It's been hard to come to terms with my decision and perhaps I don't feel quite at peace yet. But thank you for the reminder that even if a decision is difficult and painful at this moment, things may work out in the long-run. And I'm still pursuing that opportunity but at a different time! Thanks also for the reminder that going slower is okay :)

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

😊😊

Thank you sir 😊

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome 😊

Win Win Win 👍🏼

@nickkeomahavong01

Жыл бұрын

😊😊

Thank you

@nickkeomahavong01

2 жыл бұрын

You're welcome 😊😁