“I rather leave for good then stay in a place that doesn’t belong to me.” That part really hit hard.😔💔

@fireender67

3 жыл бұрын

that part makes my cold heart melt, thats how you know this is good

He didn't make the right decision, he made the perfect one

@felixlee9645

2 ай бұрын

doesn't matter. eventually, his family's going to find him anyways!

Remember to love your parents...We are so busy growing up, we often forget they are also growing old. :'(

@sq-ng

9 жыл бұрын

Jerick Batiancila Well said!

@jirik_10

9 жыл бұрын

YEAH :)

@jirik_10

8 жыл бұрын

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@mehakali84

7 жыл бұрын

Jerick Batiancila true 😓

@erlyna9989

6 жыл бұрын

Jerick Batiancila what an inspiring note

a salute to this father!!! i respect his decision. why stay in a family that can --- eat their food at a reunion without u , the head of the family ? shed tears for ur absence, rather than go out n search for u ???

@debbiethomas2622

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, that was my first thought. Why are you taking your butts out there looking, hounding the police, something? It would have been one thing if he died (which is what you're protraying here). Or are you that much out of touch that all it took for him to not physically be there for you to jump on that thought? Until I heard otherwise, I would be searching

People are like that, when they are they, we don't want them, when they are not there, we started to want them. Cherish the present one is what we need to do now

Taking others for granted is sad, because they can go away. Appreciate one another.

At the end you can see him start to cry about his choice of leaving them but he knows he did the right choice.

@KD-qp3gc

Жыл бұрын

No he didnt

@KD-qp3gc

Жыл бұрын

He saw the change and gave up.

@felixlee9645

2 ай бұрын

@@KD-qp3gc he teared up a bit, didn't you notice?

@Sunshine32195

Ай бұрын

​@@KD-qp3gcSo dear what is the right decision according to you?

My dad in Heaven, I miss him so much.

@SubodhKumar-ik6qu

4 жыл бұрын

Me 2

That's why we should always take care of our parents, elders, grandparents even in small things, whether they did something bad or good.. they didnt leave nor forget us when we are still small.. we shouldn't forsake them when they're old.. I was not a good son in the past either, but I'm catching up now..

@Viddsee

9 жыл бұрын

xhacs Thanks for sharing your story! Great lessons there!

@juggy2560

7 жыл бұрын

xhacs ur story make me cry 😭

@user-gg1go3ij8g

7 жыл бұрын

Viddsee i am freakin love your video man!!!😆😆

@jenjenwier829

7 жыл бұрын

Darth Cynue Me too

@sulhanPLDsulhan

7 жыл бұрын

xfuck

This makes me realise. No matter how much abuse my mom has given me. At least my dad has always been there to provide me with things I need.

When I watched this movie , I miss my dad very much, I hope he is in peaceful now, we must always love our parents as well as they are still alive, because life is very short

@rubabraheel4999

4 жыл бұрын

Actually l feel that how innocently they are nourishing us how my mom bear our expectations... and lived a life of continues meaning less l don't know l just feel it but don't say it to her ... hope for best

Family IS A GREAT HOME.....We must treasure our own family.

is anyone here crying harder more after pa said "Maybe i dont belong to this fam. anymore"??

@jimin_ismypabo970

5 жыл бұрын

Meh

@jonnyneo9650

4 жыл бұрын

me

@robertngpc

4 жыл бұрын

Playgirl in my mind

this short film shows that some people just don’t cherish you but only when you are gone. by then, it is too late.

This is what it means to be taken for granted

when he got that call,he was like:oh,NOW they care -_-

@suzanabrams1

8 жыл бұрын

...but it was too late.

@user-tw5sb9un5p

7 жыл бұрын

Resonator that was the reason i stood up my middle finger

@claudiacastillo1568

6 жыл бұрын

Resonator Yeah I would be Bye forever

@nguichoonjeant1026

6 жыл бұрын

Resonator md. h Starry night and sea

@victorialevy2882

4 жыл бұрын

They noticed you once you ignore them😂🤣

We must always love our parents. They raised us with love and now that we had grew up, we should repay them by giving them some love. Love you Mummy, Love you Daddy

Never take your loved ones for granted

@Cegorach-The-Clown

5 жыл бұрын

Yes even though i am 11 years old

People rarely appreciate what they have. Happiness will rare to find. When it’s gone, they cried where their precious gone

And this is one of the many reasons why we have homeless elderly living on the streets...

@zubaydillahfikri6667

4 жыл бұрын

:(

As the day passby I see my maaa and paa getting old ,but instead of caring for themself they care for me and for my brother .I am addicted to there love soo much tht ,I can't live without them , I'll only wish them too be healthy and stay with me .now it's time for your children to fulfill maaa and paaa's dream.

Thank u for remind me to love all my family,i want my family is together. Nothing will leave or miss it!! Im getting cried

@Viddsee

9 жыл бұрын

Aini Savitri You're welcome. Glad you like this touching story! Share it with your family :)

@mel-wj9wi

8 жыл бұрын

+Viddsee .

@najatbenchdidou9314

7 жыл бұрын

i never cryed for some reason

@user-tw5sb9un5p

7 жыл бұрын

puppy kitten sealgirl how dare u, btw this is my new account of this comnent

just found this clip, and it is the same as my life except I am doing alright financially and still getting all the emotional trauma. the phrase about not staying in a place where I don't belong is eye opening..

Y can't I stop crying this is so sad. We, I, you always have to be respectful to our olders. 😭😭❤️❤️

@rubabraheel4999

4 жыл бұрын

Well said

2:05 I loved how he said he can eat plain rice but instead he didn’t say I don’t want plain rice he made the right decision

Thank you for sharing. Grandpa did the right thing, if he is not respected and unhappy, he should move out, why should he stay with these blokes. As for the family if you don't care about grandpa when he is around, why should you care about him when he is not around. I go my way you go your way, no hard feelings!

@felixlee9645

2 ай бұрын

yeah!!!

Guy's you have a lovely family and you should never forget that they love you as much as you love them

There is no happiness without our parents. They were the backbone of the family especially if the father fulfilled his duties during his early days to give comfort for the family. It would be nice if he is treated well when he is now old. Having like him is a luck to a family. He is not like other father's who spend his earnings to himself, or go gambling, spend for other vices like liquors and paid women.

@sholasanyasanya6646

5 жыл бұрын

His Daughter wouldn't read him a letter,his son wouldnt answer when he asks questions about a reunion,no wonder he got frustrated.

@sootuckchoong7077

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. My dad has died when I was only 1 year old. With my mum, I felt quite comfortable. But now that mum's gone too, things are very hollow. Almost no more happiness as before. Sad.

@SS-ip6ii

5 жыл бұрын

I have 2 mother I am from first mother daughter side we have 11 brother n sister but only me who work in oversi and earn the money every time when I send The money my father will use for all my 2nd side I feel bad for my first brother n sister but I try my best to think positive n said he is a father let him be now he is old let him do what he wants to do as long as he is happy n what he do now is me be the some thing good for our future? N as long as he doesn't waist in bad things

You're so lucky you have a father like him

@felixlee9645

2 ай бұрын

yeah, me too!!

Im crying bc when we grow up we forget about the things we cherish about but when you loose it you start to regret and wished you cherished what you have lost more

Get your tissues ready. Made me and my bro cry😭😭😭

This may be just a short film but it does happen in real life more than we would like to admit. People do change....even your closest loved ones...those who you initially thought were the only people in this world that really matters to you. Sometimes our own loved ones can hurt us more than anyone else with small gestures, like in the scene when the big bowl of soup was placed directly in from of the father thus restricting him from easy reach to the other dishes. Their intention may be good towards the little girl but, in doing so, they neglect the feelings of the father. It makes him feels as if he is not an equally significant member of the family (regardless of whether he has a "longer hand" or not than the girl, as the wife had so insensitively said). It is not so much about the food but to the fact that no one else at the table (except for the little girl herself) had shown concern that the father may have difficultly too in reaching the other dishes, if the bowl of soup was placed directly in front of him.For us Chinese, the act of eating has a more profound meaning than just for eating sake. It can be used to symbolize how we feel about the other person or how concern we are to his/her welfare. That's why we Chinese, at times, when we meet someone who are close to us, instead of saying "hello", we asked him " li chiak par buay" (Have you eaten yet ?). So, the fact that all the adult family members at the reunion dinner table were totally oblivious that he may not enjoy the dinner with that bowl of soup right in front of him, speaks volume to the father. I can feel his pain. Don't really like the ending as it was rather sad. But I hope (if this is in real life) that the father does manage to find a better and happier life for himself elsewhere in his twilight years. That last sentence that he had said, when he was leaving home, brought a tear to the eyes and a pain to the heart......" I would rather leave than stay in a place that does not belong to me anymore and start again outside to complete the last stage of the journey in my Life ".

I am so fortunate because I treasure most of the moment with my parents until passed away.

My dad will always be my best friend.

How busy you may be, always reaerve a portion of your time from the person who strive hard to make the family comfortable.

It's sad that that's exactly how I felt with my group of friends. We were BFFs for 5 years. In 11th grade, I didn't feel like I belonged anymore and did exactly what the the dad did: left. I had a similar thought process too. :(

@skychaos87

6 жыл бұрын

leaving friends is not the same as leaving your family.... i do think the dad deserve some more respect, but leaving the family for good is too extreme. at least try to talk things out with them and i think you should have tried that with your friends too. when he leave without giving his family a chance, he is basically leaving no chance for himself to return too.

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj

6 жыл бұрын

Ken Yap True but at a point we all need to live our own lives, however, we should still keep in touch with family. We should especially treasure our parents as they are getting older and may not be around much longer. I am glad that I knew that at a young age so cherished and took care of my parents as much I could while they were still around. I always remind others to do the same or else they will regret it.

@skychaos87

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed, its important to treasure and cherish your parents. But somehow, things seldom end up the way we want. Personally i think the knowledge to effectively convey your feelings is more important. In this video, i see that both sides do love each other but at the same time are torn apart by ineffective communication. The kids and wife should show more appreciation by giving more affection and acknowledgement while the dad should try to speak his feelings instead of abandoning the family. Regardless, the message of the video is about showing love and concern to your parents and more people got that positively. However, there are quite a few who got stunned by the extreme choice at the end. Even OP went through that phase. So i thought i'd share a different and what i thought a more positive solution of looking at it. I believe respect begins from communication, people can be motivated by videos like this but many won't be able to do a thing if they aren't going to convey their feelings and thoughts effectively.

@hooksin2889

6 жыл бұрын

Allison Tran

@hooksin2889

6 жыл бұрын

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Great Vid! Every Vid from Viddsee gets me to think deep and i really like it. Thanks for your Videos

@Viddsee

9 жыл бұрын

Chicken Fish glad you like it ;) help us share Viddsee films with your friends!

If you don't understand this, then you're in another world. This almost made me cry until my mother had to call me for lunch -_- but, atleast almost is enough, this is a great touching film for families out there.

Human relation are like oxygen. When they are there no one realise. When they are not around, u suddenly realised how important they are.

eye-opener for us, children of our old, very loving parents. thank you for reminding us.

Our parents is the one who make us arrive in the world.our parents is the one that love us the most.our parents is the one that let us grow and learn and our parents will never forget us

@nevil6833

5 жыл бұрын

You sure about that? Because my parents treated me like a punching bag.

Thr house is good eating well living nicely he is doing his job nd his son he was doing good he was stable To Help his parents especially dad! The most heart breaking part was the soup bowl placed in front of him nd the reaction of everyone was so lame

Thank you for reminding me to care about my family.And happy new year to all of you.Stay cool forever.🙂

I can’t stop watching these sad videos

I luv my father and my family a lot....this made me cry a lot...

@benjaminbanlusack1635

6 жыл бұрын

same i am chinese and ilove my family a lot, while i watch this video i said in my mind "i've done a great thing to love my parents" i feel sorry for the father

My grandma is now overseas next Monday or Tuesday she is coming back.... Im always crying as im sad she will leave without me beside her.... I really wish no one will die...

@claudiacastillo1568

6 жыл бұрын

Geraldine Cheong me to I try not to think about it

So much love for this uncle

In life simple things matter, we tend to forget the little things our loved ones did for us. It's not too late, as long as we realize this, do something to let them feel that we appreciate them.

I couldn't stop my tears from falling... I will never do like this to my family

Wait so that's how it ends? So sad...but makes me really think about my own family...my family is nothing like this but makes me realize that I need to show my parents I care, respect, and love them more

@rubabraheel4999

4 жыл бұрын

Actually l want to see his entry back to his home and see the improvement and change of his family lf there any change and also note the dialogue of all family members...

i will share with my family and my friends and all people to have to watch this because we have to love and care our family

i wish everyday that you keep making stories like these... :) thankyou viddsee :) Lots of love from india.. :)

That story will be for me down the road, I already seeing from my kids, but at a mother I always will give the love and always will be 💖

My eyes flowed with tears

I like your videos Viddsee, make us think of the way that we walk as a society, greetings from Mexico

@Viddsee

9 жыл бұрын

Hey! Hi from Singapore! Nice to know that we have viewers from Mexico! I hope you enjoy the films that we have shared :) There are more films on our website www.viddsee.com

lol did anyone notice that the son said get my secretary to arrange the meeting? what the secretary got a secretary ah lol

This is such an amazing channel and a great video. Viddsee nice videos all of your videos make me think really deep thank you for making this channel and these videos

My uncle has just recently passed away...... really sad .....felt like I didn’t get to talk much with him....... Shalll He rest in peace

It was until this day that i didn't realise pa was always there for me ....

May God bless our parents forever😊 When my patents got COVID-19,I felt like my whole world is a mess.I cried and ptayed to God.😟So that He heels them for any of my good deed.At last they are fine now😊

这就是人生.演亜公.很好👍演出动人的角色！

watching this many time.. still cant handle my cry😭😭 it's so damn hurting me

Miss u my dad always think abt us .... i love u very much

I've been away from my family (mother and siblings) for over 15 years. Things have changed so much. I'm not anymore part of that family except as a source of money. I quit my family for 4 years now and I feel relief.

This is actually like us we become more addicted to technology that we forget what is happening in reality

who’s heart broke when the flashback started playing :,(( edit : been one year now. i didn’t know i even watched this hahaha. i scrolled through the comments and found mine. welcome me back guys! 😂❤️

this made me cry

Amazing Acting skills by 辉哥 and the fellow actors.

Being physically there and being there are 2 different things though.

Just love your family

Its sad he feels like he is a burden to the family, at least his grand daughter cared for him , the rest just didnt care about him at all...its so sad i cried, if i have a father like him i would appreciate him a lot...well my father is not with me so i missed the fatherly love from my father i had 7 years ago

@rubabraheel4999

4 жыл бұрын

Stay happy and take care

Am literally crying 😫 😫

Crying after watched this

Yes it is true. If your family dont show gratitude or value you. Then it is better to leave than to be treated badly or ignored. The Vedas says it is time to prepare for your next life. Well taken movie.

2019 here anyone wants to get viddsee to make a part two of this video?

They need too make a part two.

Be tender with your words !

I cried!! It was so sad

made me cry

I literally cried...........😥

great film

This video is so touching

It makes me think if I was born into the right family

i feel so sorry for the old man

Very meaningful. Please reflect yourselves, youngsters. And if you're a Chinese, do not forget the Confucius values.

@boonsimyap7814

6 жыл бұрын

Ying ~

@LoneLuncherUF

5 жыл бұрын

its pretty lame too if you need confucius teachings to know you need to treat your parents and family members well

Never mind it was very touching Love my Papa

I cried so much

Shed tears. I lost my dad 8 months ago.

@rubabraheel4999

4 жыл бұрын

Be brave daughter of your dad be happy...

My grandma was poor and she was Chinese she worked day and night and she had a sickness but she lived I'm just happy she did

Father did the most than others

Henry thia so good at acting 😍😍😍😍

I'm gonna share this to people who are currently in this kind of situation

@godzillafart6531

5 жыл бұрын

Wtf u again bro 😂😂

im crying watchin this vid 😢

I love my dad very much

Unfortunately, it's not just a Singapore problem but worldwide. People, if not physically, mentally checking out because they feel they no longer belong. It's sad how societies everywhere have narrowed their scope instead of broadening it towards their fellow human being. And the deepest pain comes from when it's your family!!!

I strongly support his drastic Decisions though having an extremely filial granddaughter

First time I've seen hui ge act in a serious role!

This video made me cry, I couldnt be so happy.my grandpa died (father of my dad) when I was still a baby, I never got to see his face and touch him with my own hands.and I grew up with not my parents with me, my dad is in Saudi Arabia and my big sister is in london and my brothers and sisters are all teenagers.then my grandma died (mother of my mom)of stomach cancer she died in 2015 August 26, I've been left out of the family I didnt got hug my siblings as I loved them cause they lock them selves in their room and I didnt got to be with my grandma (mother of my dad) only one month, I told my mom that I want to go to cebu to meet my cousins,aunts,uncles and grandma but she said how about they come here.then I had my grandpa (father of my mom) he took care of me and he is sick and its called stroke, i've wanted to die but I cant cause I know my family will miss me especially my dad, grandpa (father of my mom) and big sister. I live in Philippines CAGAYAN DE ORO im in the Cañales family that is supposed to live in Cebu but I live in CDO and the person who readed this "thankyou "

This short film was really well done. A feel minor problems with it tho, in some scenes, such as 5:44, there was no white balancing, resulting in a sudden change in color and making the scene look warmer. The scene where the wife was consoling the husband had continuity errors, the husband seemingly stopped crying in what I assume to be the master shot, and continues crying in the medium close up shot. However, the audio was great, and most of the other cinematography of the short film was alright to me. I liked the narrative, and not to mention the acting as well as the moral behind the story, that is to appreciate your loved-ones. Probably one of my personal favorite short films from Singapore, and having Henry Thia in the cast just made it so much better!

Why no happy ending?? Cause it's the reality?

@debbiethomas2622

5 жыл бұрын

Yes. Yes, it is in too many places in the world.

@mohdyusuffsharif944

5 жыл бұрын

Manga khan if happy ending the video almost does not exist at all.

@valamurugan

5 жыл бұрын

No happy ending is because the current generation are like this