Who’s here after She is now married ❤️ love it! September 2019
@fabiolahernandez3865
4 жыл бұрын
Everything and Moore 🙋🏻♀️💐
@MichElle-py8lk
4 жыл бұрын
Here in 2020!!
@eline1072
4 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!
@jerbear6947
3 жыл бұрын
Huh? What does that mean?
@janderson947
3 жыл бұрын
Yess won't he do it!I think she having a baby too I'm so happy for them😀
@steacymaria3855 жыл бұрын
I was married and divorced twice. After that I decided to give my life to the Lord Jesus. Stayed single for 7 years now and it will continue.
@lillieb4875
Жыл бұрын
Seek first the kingdom of God and then these things shall come after
@itsmarianabeatriz6 жыл бұрын
Until your heart matches what your Words are saying. God is not gonna give you a husband that ur gonna destroy cause your walking with a spirit of sadness and melancholy
@amaryllisbrooke8098
6 жыл бұрын
yap amennnn
@prettyalina7237
6 жыл бұрын
Mariana Beatriz hello somebody!! You are so Right
@katiedrake76
5 жыл бұрын
Ooh. That hit like an arrow to the gut.
@beigelover95
5 жыл бұрын
wow
@bupbeinc6 жыл бұрын
Why haven't I found you all this time? your channel is perfect.
@shebasspace6528
3 жыл бұрын
I just found it and my spirit is fed every time. The truth cannot be hidden for ever
@jesusislord79196 жыл бұрын
I'm ready for marriage and God u know I am... Only the man is missing but I won't settle or rush... I need your guidance oh Lord
@sadestembridge7340
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Is Lord amen I feel the same way as you.
@bellatrix336
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Is Lord if you have jesus in your life nothing is missing. God bless
@kontiuka
6 жыл бұрын
@Nora Que - Wow. Harsh.
@jesusislord7919
6 жыл бұрын
Nora Que I declare in Jesus name that your words are null and void. Only Jesus has the final say about my life
@sandrasanders706
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Is Lord amen sister
@judithgraham77096 жыл бұрын
So your saying, your not ready for marriage until you learn forgiveness..... I think your right hun ❤️
@desrieoneyiend2921
5 жыл бұрын
You know that is not what she is saying.
@jpjp9111
2 жыл бұрын
I learned to NOT forgive because of God.
@snehapandit30746 жыл бұрын
God says in jermiah 33: 3 "You call me and i will answer you and tell you the secret things" I think jesus open his secrets towards you..god bless you..very wonderful message ...😊
@glj10046 жыл бұрын
my problem is... is that I don't know how to let go and trust God. My way always gets in God's way. I feel pressured because I'm turning 37. I won't even let God dig my heart. I needed to hear this today. "offense" and blame... I was so hurt too... I get mad at myself because I won't let myself go all the way with God... I see that you're going all the way with God... You are very wise... I need God and I need to let God have my heart... Bless you ❤️
@monicamanniesing6208
3 жыл бұрын
Dear, release by relaxing with God. You are precious and God loves you tremendously! Dont worry too much. I pray that you will be able to receive the love of the Father. Surrender your idol and be open to what God will give you. And trust God that He has good for you!
@pinkksugarrbbyy6 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Now I see why I don’t feel ready for marriage. I’m afraid to destroy my future husband. I have to let go of the spirit of offense. Forgiving is hard but I’ve been letting go of the pain for the past years.
@drifter9425
3 жыл бұрын
Well said....Praise the Lord
@Lookingpeo6 жыл бұрын
This was deep.I can see clear I'm not ready because I would bring my hurt and pains to him and that man don't deserve that.This was a good word.Thank you
@annewalker9221
6 жыл бұрын
Kelia J wow!!!!!! Thanks for sharing. This is true for me too. I didn’t realize that about myself. I hope you continuing to heal and grow in Christ. Love you. Beloved God bless you
@Kressa1111
5 жыл бұрын
What? No. Imagine if Jesus said to his church, "You cannot come unless all your hurts and pains are gone, until then you don't deserve me." You deserve to have a husband in your life and you don't deserve the hurt and pain,. You have to give that all to God daily, until you are emptied and then filled again. A relationship with Christ is constantly cultivating, growing and renewing. Thou shalt not judge, includes not judging yourself. Let the Holy Spirit convict you not man. '
@bryanreed7216
5 жыл бұрын
@@Kressa1111 well we should also use wisdom as well if someone had every relationship in their life end in trauma they shouldn't jump into marriage just because. Yes we don't deserve CHRIST we can never be too good for Him but man? We must be at a certain maturity in order to be in something as serious and responsible as marriage. My opinion.
@DesiLu4Life6 жыл бұрын
You have to get to the root, which is so true!! Once you walk in freedom and forgiveness, your mindset will completely change!!! God is not going to give you a husband/wife that you will destroy!!!! Amen!!
@jessiemedinaofficial6 жыл бұрын
I'm skeptical about "Christians" but you seriously are amazing and I can tell you're actually a godly person. Thank you for sharing!
@halcioncocaine2096
5 жыл бұрын
Is there an age range⌚
@TheCuccoLady
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people in the church judge others for their sins and push them away from God. The Bible says not to let man make you feel inferior for your sins. Everyone sins and all sins are equal, and judging someone for their sins and keeping them from God because of your judgement is a sin on another person.
@SolaScriptura94
3 жыл бұрын
You should be skeptical about religion. Believe in faith and the Word of God. The bible has all the answers.
@ladennayoung2939
3 жыл бұрын
Mmmmmm you shouldn't be willing to trust anyone right away. Your focus should always be on Jesus. You should never glorify or praise people per se. People will always be people regardless. You have to focus on the one true living God that was within them. God bless you and everyone in Jesus name. Amen.
@legendk0096 жыл бұрын
I didnt get through the whole video yet buttt I just wanted to share that a few years ago, while I was in the middle of a really bad situation, I prayed and told God that I did not like being single and that I couldnt for the life of me see it as a blessing. I know some people are called to it and I know for sure I am not one of those people lol. But I also asked God to help me to be content while I am here and to see the fun in it. Because if He purposes for me to be here for a little while it would make sense to not only learn and grow in this season but to also have fun. Years later I am enjoying my time being single. God blessed me with three amazing friends that I can travel with, go places with, talk to all day long, and just have a good time. All from church. One of them is married but she imparts so much wisdom in us about waiting on God for marriage and being patient for His best. I believe that when the time is right God will send the right man into my life. And when that time comes our marriage will bring glory to God and fufill what its supposed to fufill. In the mean time I pray that I will continue to keep having fun as a christian and to enjoy my single season and not rush it.
@ytelevy
6 жыл бұрын
iDream NColor continue to enjoy your singlehood...and continue to prepare for your husband
@legendk009
6 жыл бұрын
Tray See Thank you!!!
@whitneymoten6324
6 жыл бұрын
iDream NColor I wish I had some friendships like that
@KatsC100
6 жыл бұрын
So positive!! I love this 🙌🙌
@inspire3652
5 жыл бұрын
iDream NColor (I know tjis message was written 1 year ago, my apologies) God will bless you with your soul mate. I thought I knew what I wanted in a man, and everytime I got what I had wanted I still felt empty. So one day I prayed, I really cried out to God and asked God to bless me with the man who he thought was right for me, not who I thought was right for me. Three months later, I met the man God had wanted me to be with. His mother had prayed for the exact same thing ("God send my son the woman you think is right for him") Two prayers connected us. We are now happily married. He has a heart of gold, very handsome and tall. It is not about the looks but what I am trying to say is that God really blessed me with more than I could have even imagined. God's plans were far more greater ethan my own! Never ever forget that! One major thing is to also have forgiveness from past relationships, good or bad, forgive and move on, these two things will allow for God to work wonders into your life. God has many blessings and we just need to be open to recieve them. Your words have the power to control your life, your words can either curse you or bless you. You are a child of God our King, which makes you my darling royalty! God has a Prince waiting for you! Believe that your Godly man is coming, the power is in your mouth and your thoughts, by trusting in the Lord with all your heart, he will indeed bless you.
@adambutts26086 жыл бұрын
Singleness is a blessing
@hamiltonrowan5027
5 жыл бұрын
Adam Butts you are so right! Today's world is violently messed up. The gospel is rarely preached today, and sin is acceptable and rampant in many churches. I am afraid that people see God as a cosmic Santa Claus and think he doesn't require obedience anymore. They think I'll just sin all the more and God will still let them into Heaven. Sadly most of these people will end up in Hell. To me I want Heaven more than anything else. So suddenly marriage seems the least of my concerns!
@lolavelmar2996
5 жыл бұрын
Is not.
@heliaalves9062
5 жыл бұрын
@@lolavelmar2996 singleness can be a blessing, but it will obviously not look like a blessing if you desire to get married.
@Spiritualchick82
5 жыл бұрын
@@lolavelmar2996 It can be, for certain people. I have been in a Terrible narcissistic relationship. Being single, rather than caught up with that, would Definitely have been a blessing!! It's up to the individual to use their season, or even lifetime, of singleness, as a positive. Or you can use it as a negative, too. But that will just waste the period that God had set aside for you.
@EBThisThat
5 жыл бұрын
Agree to disagree.
@abigaillori-ann37076 жыл бұрын
You are speaking so much truth Ally. I can’t expect to be in a relationship when I’m still dealing with the baggage of my past. I’ve always loved my singleness but I’ve been subject to ‘planning’ and walking in offence and other sinful nature. I need to destroy or be aware of my damage before God can bring another being into my life and I need to learn to love my fellow male counterparts as well as myself before I can go down the path of marriage. Thank you for your words xxxx
@jradams25473 жыл бұрын
Being single may not seem easy, but marriage is a lot of work.
@nasonyarowell22772 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I had a spirit of offense because of being betrayed and abused my entire life. God has recently told me exactly what you said about forging. It's been a process, but I'm ready for positive relationships and don't want to drag my pain and offense into any new relationship. You're so wise and beautiful. Thank you for using your gifts for God's kingdom.
@ijeoma81416 жыл бұрын
Allyson Rowe immediately you mentioned what God told you I felt something in my heart and I burst into tears and I don't know why that happened but something in me confirmed that I'm not ready and I do have the spirit of offense in me. Young lady God bless you, please don't stop spreading the word. May pea e be with you. From south Africa 🙂
@jessicacantu3394
6 жыл бұрын
Chima-ijeoma Okeke I burst into tears too. I kept saying I was ready and this just confirms what I knew in my heart but ignored.
@GraceUponGraceProductions6 жыл бұрын
I'm left speechless. Feel like it was God directly talking to me through you. Thank you for this message!
@cynthiamartin57076 жыл бұрын
Dear Ally, I have a lot of struggles that most of them are similar to yours. Im 30 and i think im ready for commitment. But, when i saw this video of yours, i am certain that to be a wife is not just a title, there is a lot of things in my life, a lot of attitude of mine that have to change in order for me to carry the responsibility of being a wife and a mother in the future. Like you, i also set a time frame of my life, which did not turn out the way i expect it to be. I had several relationships that all of them were not i truly in love with. I was just seeking approval. Im glad that i found your vlog today, I believe that its not by chance, but its by God grace.
@naturallygorg856 жыл бұрын
So the entire time watching this I'm thinking "I will send this to so and so..because I'm definitely good on this!.." But towards the end of the video God revealed that I'm not in offense by ALL men..just black men..Those are the men I can't trust..I'm always thinking to date outside my race because I've been hurt so much by them...thru my brothers, father, uncles..I'm always thinking why can't they just " man up??" ..thank you for this Ally! I have some praying to do 🙏🏽❤️
@jessicat2304
6 жыл бұрын
NaturallyGorg85 you are still generalizing all black men .......
@naturallygorg85
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica T thanks for your reply..I am aware of this..hence my post..and why I mentioned me having some praying to do..however please pray for me as well..as a body of Christ that works much more than condemning. Thanks sis! ❤️
@Bobisworld
6 жыл бұрын
I hope that people will try and see it from your point of view and feel your pain instead of jumping on you for "generalizing black men". I understand where you are coming from bc I too am trying to make peace with black men.
@Hotgurl53
6 жыл бұрын
I like that you admit that . For some reason black men run away from me and white men man up to me 🤦🏽♀️then I get labeled a black woman who likes white men but in reality black men don't approach me what do I do ?....I would say continue in prayer and God will send you the right one 🤗
@christinalucas1002
6 жыл бұрын
janet jones there is no problem with that! God will provide you a partner and it may not be someone of the same race or color haha just carry on
@nicholaslombardo58095 жыл бұрын
Im actually going through this right now Ally. I married a woman i can truly say i loved but when i turned to my father everything I knew was wrong and he took her out of my life. "He giveth and taketh away ". I wish i could have stayed to help her but once she left me things are going crazy and are moving very fast. I am at a crossroads now and i am waiting for guidance and forgiveness and discernment for my next step. I needed to hear this and for the past 6 months you have helped me so much. Bless you Ally
@marquisgomez93906 жыл бұрын
As a 20 year old man... THANK you so much. I couldn't agree more with all the others. You encourage SO much and I helps. A lot. Thank you for using this platform to teach
@LetsScreamAllTimeLow6 жыл бұрын
Wow talk about hitting me RIGHT IN THE FEELS. thank you though. That was so powerful and exactly what I needed to hear. I mean straight up perfect and applicable to me 100%. Thank you I love these longer videos
@noraque1336
6 жыл бұрын
"right in the feels"?? BwaHaHaHa That's whats wrong with you mentally ill feminists. It's all about the feelings and logic is a perfect stranger.
@topdollaboy707
6 жыл бұрын
👠👠👠👠
@diamonds43846 жыл бұрын
Tears....Thank you for this. Our stories are eerily similar. I found healing through your story. Thank you!!!!
@i_n_sist86416 жыл бұрын
I had the same timeline at 15 😂. Pain trials and tribulations later I’m learning to be single now. I’m learning to patient with myself and everyone around me. Thank you again
@ogechaakor32026 жыл бұрын
I totally can relate,He told me something similar recently so hearing you say it has confirmed its truth.Thank you for being so brutally truthful.
@evelacroix66596 жыл бұрын
Wow, I really felt I needed to click on this video, and I'm glad I did! You speak so much truth, and although it might be hard to swallow, I'm glad I got to hear that! I will definitely share this with other young women around me. Let's be vulnerable before our Lord, and walk in His love, grace and forgiveness. Thank you so much for this!
@rosagarcia95605 жыл бұрын
Oh man talk about needing to hear this. I’ll probably listen to this again. Thank you for allowing to be used so that those women like myself need to hear. Bless you!
@KimmyGize6 жыл бұрын
Such truth!! I too have been there and God has walked me through it. He is loving and gentle, when I look at the past relationships and their demise, I am thankful that he pulled me out of them. Keep preaching sister!!! God bless you.
@santabarbarawinelady18846 жыл бұрын
I've recently begun working through my offenses with men. I've forgiven my dad for being weak & not protecting me from evil men. I've forgiven my ex for being abusive & violent. I've forgiven my mother who did harm to me and also didn't protect me. YES, we need to work through these issues before God can release us to the person He has for us. Good Word, Sis!
@thelifeofmatt8597
6 жыл бұрын
Santa Barbara Wine Lady 8
@tahanniwalls39066 жыл бұрын
This was soooo for me. Thank you for being honest and yet gentle about it. I needed to hear this.
@jeremyscott91805 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video, this warrior appreciates it. This warrior is walking in offense 😢. Thank God for HIS grace, mercy and compassion
@reeniec10166 жыл бұрын
You're so awesome Allyson ! You are absolutely beautiful inside and out. I can identify with so much you've shared. Thank you for your transparency
@Anna-yh5kb5 жыл бұрын
. Been divorced and single for 20 years now and have been praying for a Godly husband Because of past hurts I had the same mindset as you that all men are the same. But from lots of counseling and support groups I have grown in many areas so I'm not in any rush because I want this man to be the right one that God has for me. Hopefully it's not too much longer 20 years is a long time .. I can so relate to your message about men such a great message. Thank you for sharing 💟 First time viewer 💟🙏
@KelseyMcSorley6 жыл бұрын
Dude this video does make me fluffy with butterflies inside! I love being single and know I'm definitely not ready for marriage and just knowing that God has called me to this place of singleness now just as much as He may call me to marriage later in life makes me not want to rush this wonderful calling I have now!! Great video!
@paulbrandt77526 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being vulnerable. It is helpful as God is bringing me through a similar season of healing.
@marisaviljoen81033 жыл бұрын
Dear Allyson, I came across this powerful message in my season of waiting, heading to almost 7 years now. Thank you for the hope this gives as I DESPERATELY needed some sort of hope. I also always dreamed, and even wrote it in a paragraph in a school book as a little girl, that I would love to get married one day. Yet, at 37, I am still waiting. Thank you, as I feel a little less alone, al little more encouraged. Much love
@Kudeshka6 жыл бұрын
It feel like you are telling the story of my life. Everything you are saying is extremely relatable in so many ways and it is helpful to realize something that I was doing but was not even aware of.
@esanchez70926 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I found your channel today because I've been prying for the women that God has for me and realize i'm not ready at all. There's so much I have to learn and deal with from childhood to past relationships that I had some how mess up weather I wanna accept or not. I have so much hurt and anger yet in my heart that I've been praying to God for guidance and how to deal with them. please pray for me and Thank you for what you do. have a good day.
@diamondinthesky7233 жыл бұрын
Love this! Being Single feels peaceful. Feels light and free. The Lord cleanses our soul, washes away our wounds. Ally, rings bells as she speaks about this topic right to the T. Thank you.
@junebug_89763 жыл бұрын
Thank You, Allyson - this was exactly what I needed to hear today!
@r.j.oneill13436 жыл бұрын
Wow, what we learn about ourselves in our singleness & how close God can be!
@Marisolvidal16 жыл бұрын
Amazing! & Thanks God you didn't give up your purpose... You're Truly a Child of God & I Needed to hear 👂 your message from Father Abba... Keep up the Great work ; God Bless 🙏🏽❤️👂📖
@Taylor-ve8so6 жыл бұрын
I have been married for 10 years and I learned so much from this Ally!!! So thankful I came across your channel. Your love for Christ and others is so inspiring!! 💕
@jazistone2746 ай бұрын
This is SO profound. OMG! WOW! Needed this more than I could ever imagine. Thank you for such a vulnerable post. Always true. Bless you
@krystalbonair45303 жыл бұрын
I can completely relate to this. Thank you for this message.
@marcelogarcia25593 жыл бұрын
My life has brought me to you. All of a sudden you were on my feed. I know God is showing me now that there are women out there devoted to our Heavenly Father! Thank you for your testimony and guidance. I will continue to build on the Sure foundation who is Christ and I will eventually find the one that is and becomes the same.
@shermariah276 жыл бұрын
I love this! I had to and am STILL doing this... releasing baggage! thank you
@destinyhunter98056 жыл бұрын
You are such a blessing Allyson ❤️
@lauraw33386 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you posting videos again Ally. Love hearing your word. It always comes at the right time.✝️
@normabarros31246 жыл бұрын
The discernment of the holy spirit
@VivLaV073 жыл бұрын
Whoa, that's some Truth there, thank you for the boldness of sharing 🙏🏼
@ca71176 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ally! Your message warms my heart. My single season had been long.🙏 Also your lil dog in the background is so cute😉😀
@cspann335 жыл бұрын
God knows exactly what we need and he always provides the answers to our questions. I’ve never heard of you before and yesterday I was feeling so down and began questioning some things. I then typed in my KZread search “How to know if you’re ready for marriage” and out off all the videos I’ve watched from the results of the search, your video was the only one that resonated with me. He used you to show me that I’m walking in the spirit of offense. Thank you for sharing his truth and for being so real about it! Your story is my story but mine went to an even darker place to which I am still working through the consequences of it.....Thank you!
@hidden_inchrist6 жыл бұрын
This video is everything. I've gone through this stage over the past couple of years. After going through an abusive relationship, I hated all men and it was painful working through what I needed to do to let go of that anger. I finally found forgiveness and it's freeing as I was able to change my state of mind and feel okay again. Almost a year later from my lowest point, life has been so much better. I found God on my own and learned mindfulness through therapy. It helped a lot. Thanks for validating what I went through and that I wasn't alone in what I'm sure happens to a lot of us. My current boyfriend has helped me grow into a better woman throughout what I was going through too, and although being single is good as well, I think it's possible to be with someone and go through it also if they are the right person. As you mentioned you do tend to destroy those close to you when all you feel is anger. At points I knew that I needed to be alone. I'm glad we made it through those times though and we have an awesome future ahead!
@jessroberts18816 жыл бұрын
This was exactly what I needed to hear. Gods timing is EVERYTHING! I’ve been denying the pain and anguish of a relationship that ended and secretly knew I wasn’t ready because of how hurt and betrayed I still felt over the break-up. This confirmed that for me and now I can work towards the kind of healing I need. Thank you!
@wendimooreart5 жыл бұрын
I hate to admit this, but I almost didn’t watch because it’s obvious that you’re young enough to be my daughter and I didn’t think I would learn anything new. I was wrong! I’m 52, never married, with no kids. I live with the chronic disappointment of unmet dreams. Like you, I always saw myself as a wife and mother. I’ve never for one second of my adult life wanted to be single - but I always have been. I’m still hopeful that God will allow me to be a wife someday, but it hurts to go through life feeling rejected, “less than,” left out, and generally forgotten. I can relate to what you said about offense and putting that negativity on all men I meet. Thank God for you! Bless you.
@melysart44005 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ally, you just opened my eyes and made me realise that i have to let God heal me before i can think of marriage.Thank you, i think i have to let go and let God work in me and heal those wounds in me.God really bless you.
@ladylara60586 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I have felt this way for awhile in the past and decided to take a break from relationship and just work on my past issues. Things that I need to let go of so that I could begin a new. I just felt like I was carrying a load of hurt on my back and giving some of my bitterness to the people I was in relationship with. So I just stoped and decided the best thing to do was stop and focus on my wounds and even though I do not go to church I do feel God has helped me through all this. I also feel like he has brought your channel in my life so that I may continue to grow. Thank you for your wonderful videos.
@darlinjacq15523 жыл бұрын
Thank you, for I do not feel I need to "forgive" -so to say- because I have grown and learned and flourished from each experience. I have not taken anger out of any of my past experiences, I have taken growth and I thank and bless everyone for helping me!!!
@jessicamerced91162 жыл бұрын
Amen, very true. I think I'm ready for marriage but I know I'm not. I struggle with day dreaming and getting lost in my thoughts when I have a crush on someone and I struggle with patience in relationships. I need to learn to always put God in my thoughts first and to let His spirit guide me in relationships. He is teaching me. Thank you Jesus 🙏 I will wait for You, I don't want to mess up what you have for me ❤
@wendygonzalez25326 жыл бұрын
PRAISE THE LORD that I found your video. I too was in a seven year that fell apart but I realize now that the moment I re-dedicated my life to God that individual walked out of the relationship. But God is walking with me now and I thank the good Lord He intervened. You said a truth that we tend to go into the negative verbal comments when we are broken, but how beautiful when the Holy Spirit stirs in our hearts to correct us. Thank you for sharing, and continue to minister to our ladies out there. I know many ladies going through brokenness and offence that need to hear this message....So yes....I have shared :-).
@gingergirl43446 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, going to have it on replay several times for it to sink in. I appreciate your openness and perceptiveness.
@TaraElizabethish6 жыл бұрын
The Lord just spoke loud and clear through you to me.. WOW. Thank you so much. God bless you, girl.
@YeshuaIsTheTruth3 жыл бұрын
Walking in offense and believing lies from childhood that have been reinforced by the devil. Wow, this is some heavy stuff, but I needed to hear it. Thank you, I think I have some more direction in how to pray and what things to work on now. God bless
@ashleejohnson49456 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your love Ally, I don't have any friends and it's nice to feel this love of Christ even thru a screen.
@BellaEstrella76 жыл бұрын
you seem genuine which made me want to keep watching & trusted what you said (first time i've see your videos)
@jojosjournal
6 жыл бұрын
BellaEstrella7 y
@juleeninspires5 жыл бұрын
So powerful, we have quite a number of things God needs to fix with in us before he mate us with anyone else.
@antonhornung24604 жыл бұрын
You Grieve Constantly... You have to allow yourself to Grieve... With Grief You Learn... That's a Strength...
@foreverjenn72496 жыл бұрын
I needed this... A prophet told me some of the things you spoke on about my life & past. This encouraged me today. I never realized that when connecting with people, you can add something to their lives that shouldn't have been added. I have to let go of a lot of things in my past, so I can be healthy spiritually and mentally.
@Vania.Carolinaa6 жыл бұрын
Wow, that's good girl. Preach it.
@iamcristalle6 жыл бұрын
amen! "it makes us deny our flesh" Thanks Ally. Rip it out from the root
@alanlee95523 жыл бұрын
Allyson you are truly a gift from God . Thank you for your testimony. God bless you !
@michaeleveleigh24793 жыл бұрын
Dam wise words. A powerfull message that needs to be heard.Sounds like your ready to go! Thank you sister 🙏😇🙏
@christineelizabethhorner58295 жыл бұрын
I did that sometimes past few years but most of the time I was rejecting who I loved that wasn't ready to do it right. This fresh Start God gave me has even benefited me mentally. Ptsd attacks gone for four whole days! That s ground breaking for me. Have to admit this fresh start being led to not stray from my values has been a blessing from the Lord and a blessing from this man God uses people. Even though I'm not carrying offense right now I know there are other reasons to not be ready for marriage. And I am not ready.
@evelynw29356 жыл бұрын
So much truths! But embracing truths are always liberating. I believe God never reveals something to us, unless He wants to redeem it :')
@sallyfisher60235 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this message!! It was definitely a message I needed to hear!! God knows I struggle with this so much!! I have wanted that family life since I was a little girl and tend to see things in people that essentially aren't there..i just pray I can be strong enough to do what God needs me to do and yup follow his direction for myself!
@timmy2shoes4566 жыл бұрын
I agree and amen!😇 I also believe good things come to those who wait! I believe when you’re not looking for it. It will find you! 🌱❌🌿
@KLRJamz6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the straight shooting my sister. I can relate in both ways.peace and blessings.
@britniturner81095 жыл бұрын
This is a good message we can all use. Thank you for this
@ebonywarrior23436 жыл бұрын
Love this! just what i needed to hear! Thank you & God Bless. 👐❤
@every1lovesmeeee6 жыл бұрын
This was right on time sis! Thank you!
@tammywebb87686 жыл бұрын
Confirmation: Vulnerable! Thank you!
@peepthesitchtarot6 жыл бұрын
I wasn't looking for this message today, but I needed it. I'm experiencing the same exact thing.
@savedbygrace18246 жыл бұрын
Loving and praying for your enemies or people who persecute you is the hardest thing but so worth it
@coachjeffwwilson5 жыл бұрын
Great video! Thank you for this reminder. I've almost always lived in offense from past relationships. It's hard to break free from. God is the only way to freedom from this anger and resentment.
@LC-fq4cv6 жыл бұрын
Now I'm just so thankful and grateful that this video appeared on my feed. . . It just brought me so many realizations about myself. Every word you said is somehow an exact reflection of me. Wow.
@toprightchannel30806 жыл бұрын
The spirit of offense. Aha! That was a great nugget you put out there.
@nickgervais35333 жыл бұрын
Ma'am, this is incredible!!! Thank you so much, you are his precious daughter!
@mariaqumayo94426 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this! This is my story too, so much hurt and unforgiveness that God has to help me heal through. I do not want to destroy His son. I know I am not ready for marriage at all. But he remains faithful and will see me through.
@MsKendra025 жыл бұрын
Wow. You really said some things that I have never even considered..or even understood. Wow. Thank you so much for this.
@NinthJewel6 жыл бұрын
Wow thanks for this video. Offense is currently something I’m asking God to intervene in. It ruins so much and I can testify to that . I can clearly see I’m not ready for marriage or a relationship right now . Tfs God bless
@dannyagiles6 жыл бұрын
Truth! May the Holy Spirit guide us all to Humbleness and forgiveness.
@yolandandlotyeni99343 жыл бұрын
Lord you revealed this message in 2021 30th of May, this is me and I needed to hear this 🥺🙌 I am so blessed. I've been active on KZread for about a year now never came across any of your videos but this morning it popped up about sexual purity. This confirms I'm on the right track 🥰
@chucksinger19165 жыл бұрын
You told my story too Ally! Thank you so much So true🙏❤️
@jonathangill59636 жыл бұрын
Awesome vid, love how real you get
@simplykiva65675 жыл бұрын
This massaged the pain through the wait. Thank you
@deanndrakeppler2 жыл бұрын
Their isn’t enough teachings about singleness or encouragements etc. I’m thankful for your videos.
@chassidylindsey21655 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I understand what you went through because, I'm going through the same thing!!! I have prayed to the Lord many times about this relationship!!! I know God knows what is best for me!!! I will continue to pray to God each and every day!!!I I love this channel Allyson!!!! God Bless you always!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤❤🦋🦋🦋🦋
Пікірлер: 856
Who’s here after She is now married ❤️ love it! September 2019
@fabiolahernandez3865
4 жыл бұрын
Everything and Moore 🙋🏻♀️💐
@MichElle-py8lk
4 жыл бұрын
Here in 2020!!
@eline1072
4 жыл бұрын
Congrats!!
@jerbear6947
3 жыл бұрын
Huh? What does that mean?
@janderson947
3 жыл бұрын
Yess won't he do it!I think she having a baby too I'm so happy for them😀
I was married and divorced twice. After that I decided to give my life to the Lord Jesus. Stayed single for 7 years now and it will continue.
@lillieb4875
Жыл бұрын
Seek first the kingdom of God and then these things shall come after
Until your heart matches what your Words are saying. God is not gonna give you a husband that ur gonna destroy cause your walking with a spirit of sadness and melancholy
@amaryllisbrooke8098
6 жыл бұрын
yap amennnn
@prettyalina7237
6 жыл бұрын
Mariana Beatriz hello somebody!! You are so Right
@katiedrake76
5 жыл бұрын
Ooh. That hit like an arrow to the gut.
@beigelover95
5 жыл бұрын
wow
Why haven't I found you all this time? your channel is perfect.
@shebasspace6528
3 жыл бұрын
I just found it and my spirit is fed every time. The truth cannot be hidden for ever
I'm ready for marriage and God u know I am... Only the man is missing but I won't settle or rush... I need your guidance oh Lord
@sadestembridge7340
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Is Lord amen I feel the same way as you.
@bellatrix336
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Is Lord if you have jesus in your life nothing is missing. God bless
@kontiuka
6 жыл бұрын
@Nora Que - Wow. Harsh.
@jesusislord7919
6 жыл бұрын
Nora Que I declare in Jesus name that your words are null and void. Only Jesus has the final say about my life
@sandrasanders706
6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Is Lord amen sister
So your saying, your not ready for marriage until you learn forgiveness..... I think your right hun ❤️
@desrieoneyiend2921
5 жыл бұрын
You know that is not what she is saying.
@jpjp9111
2 жыл бұрын
I learned to NOT forgive because of God.
God says in jermiah 33: 3 "You call me and i will answer you and tell you the secret things" I think jesus open his secrets towards you..god bless you..very wonderful message ...😊
my problem is... is that I don't know how to let go and trust God. My way always gets in God's way. I feel pressured because I'm turning 37. I won't even let God dig my heart. I needed to hear this today. "offense" and blame... I was so hurt too... I get mad at myself because I won't let myself go all the way with God... I see that you're going all the way with God... You are very wise... I need God and I need to let God have my heart... Bless you ❤️
@monicamanniesing6208
3 жыл бұрын
Dear, release by relaxing with God. You are precious and God loves you tremendously! Dont worry too much. I pray that you will be able to receive the love of the Father. Surrender your idol and be open to what God will give you. And trust God that He has good for you!
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Now I see why I don’t feel ready for marriage. I’m afraid to destroy my future husband. I have to let go of the spirit of offense. Forgiving is hard but I’ve been letting go of the pain for the past years.
@drifter9425
3 жыл бұрын
Well said....Praise the Lord
This was deep.I can see clear I'm not ready because I would bring my hurt and pains to him and that man don't deserve that.This was a good word.Thank you
@annewalker9221
6 жыл бұрын
Kelia J wow!!!!!! Thanks for sharing. This is true for me too. I didn’t realize that about myself. I hope you continuing to heal and grow in Christ. Love you. Beloved God bless you
@Kressa1111
5 жыл бұрын
What? No. Imagine if Jesus said to his church, "You cannot come unless all your hurts and pains are gone, until then you don't deserve me." You deserve to have a husband in your life and you don't deserve the hurt and pain,. You have to give that all to God daily, until you are emptied and then filled again. A relationship with Christ is constantly cultivating, growing and renewing. Thou shalt not judge, includes not judging yourself. Let the Holy Spirit convict you not man. '
@bryanreed7216
5 жыл бұрын
@@Kressa1111 well we should also use wisdom as well if someone had every relationship in their life end in trauma they shouldn't jump into marriage just because. Yes we don't deserve CHRIST we can never be too good for Him but man? We must be at a certain maturity in order to be in something as serious and responsible as marriage. My opinion.
You have to get to the root, which is so true!! Once you walk in freedom and forgiveness, your mindset will completely change!!! God is not going to give you a husband/wife that you will destroy!!!! Amen!!
I'm skeptical about "Christians" but you seriously are amazing and I can tell you're actually a godly person. Thank you for sharing!
@halcioncocaine2096
5 жыл бұрын
Is there an age range⌚
@TheCuccoLady
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people in the church judge others for their sins and push them away from God. The Bible says not to let man make you feel inferior for your sins. Everyone sins and all sins are equal, and judging someone for their sins and keeping them from God because of your judgement is a sin on another person.
@SolaScriptura94
3 жыл бұрын
You should be skeptical about religion. Believe in faith and the Word of God. The bible has all the answers.
@ladennayoung2939
3 жыл бұрын
Mmmmmm you shouldn't be willing to trust anyone right away. Your focus should always be on Jesus. You should never glorify or praise people per se. People will always be people regardless. You have to focus on the one true living God that was within them. God bless you and everyone in Jesus name. Amen.
I didnt get through the whole video yet buttt I just wanted to share that a few years ago, while I was in the middle of a really bad situation, I prayed and told God that I did not like being single and that I couldnt for the life of me see it as a blessing. I know some people are called to it and I know for sure I am not one of those people lol. But I also asked God to help me to be content while I am here and to see the fun in it. Because if He purposes for me to be here for a little while it would make sense to not only learn and grow in this season but to also have fun. Years later I am enjoying my time being single. God blessed me with three amazing friends that I can travel with, go places with, talk to all day long, and just have a good time. All from church. One of them is married but she imparts so much wisdom in us about waiting on God for marriage and being patient for His best. I believe that when the time is right God will send the right man into my life. And when that time comes our marriage will bring glory to God and fufill what its supposed to fufill. In the mean time I pray that I will continue to keep having fun as a christian and to enjoy my single season and not rush it.
@ytelevy
6 жыл бұрын
iDream NColor continue to enjoy your singlehood...and continue to prepare for your husband
@legendk009
6 жыл бұрын
Tray See Thank you!!!
@whitneymoten6324
6 жыл бұрын
iDream NColor I wish I had some friendships like that
@KatsC100
6 жыл бұрын
So positive!! I love this 🙌🙌
@inspire3652
5 жыл бұрын
iDream NColor (I know tjis message was written 1 year ago, my apologies) God will bless you with your soul mate. I thought I knew what I wanted in a man, and everytime I got what I had wanted I still felt empty. So one day I prayed, I really cried out to God and asked God to bless me with the man who he thought was right for me, not who I thought was right for me. Three months later, I met the man God had wanted me to be with. His mother had prayed for the exact same thing ("God send my son the woman you think is right for him") Two prayers connected us. We are now happily married. He has a heart of gold, very handsome and tall. It is not about the looks but what I am trying to say is that God really blessed me with more than I could have even imagined. God's plans were far more greater ethan my own! Never ever forget that! One major thing is to also have forgiveness from past relationships, good or bad, forgive and move on, these two things will allow for God to work wonders into your life. God has many blessings and we just need to be open to recieve them. Your words have the power to control your life, your words can either curse you or bless you. You are a child of God our King, which makes you my darling royalty! God has a Prince waiting for you! Believe that your Godly man is coming, the power is in your mouth and your thoughts, by trusting in the Lord with all your heart, he will indeed bless you.
Singleness is a blessing
@hamiltonrowan5027
5 жыл бұрын
Adam Butts you are so right! Today's world is violently messed up. The gospel is rarely preached today, and sin is acceptable and rampant in many churches. I am afraid that people see God as a cosmic Santa Claus and think he doesn't require obedience anymore. They think I'll just sin all the more and God will still let them into Heaven. Sadly most of these people will end up in Hell. To me I want Heaven more than anything else. So suddenly marriage seems the least of my concerns!
@lolavelmar2996
5 жыл бұрын
Is not.
@heliaalves9062
5 жыл бұрын
@@lolavelmar2996 singleness can be a blessing, but it will obviously not look like a blessing if you desire to get married.
@Spiritualchick82
5 жыл бұрын
@@lolavelmar2996 It can be, for certain people. I have been in a Terrible narcissistic relationship. Being single, rather than caught up with that, would Definitely have been a blessing!! It's up to the individual to use their season, or even lifetime, of singleness, as a positive. Or you can use it as a negative, too. But that will just waste the period that God had set aside for you.
@EBThisThat
5 жыл бұрын
Agree to disagree.
You are speaking so much truth Ally. I can’t expect to be in a relationship when I’m still dealing with the baggage of my past. I’ve always loved my singleness but I’ve been subject to ‘planning’ and walking in offence and other sinful nature. I need to destroy or be aware of my damage before God can bring another being into my life and I need to learn to love my fellow male counterparts as well as myself before I can go down the path of marriage. Thank you for your words xxxx
Being single may not seem easy, but marriage is a lot of work.
Thank you. I had a spirit of offense because of being betrayed and abused my entire life. God has recently told me exactly what you said about forging. It's been a process, but I'm ready for positive relationships and don't want to drag my pain and offense into any new relationship. You're so wise and beautiful. Thank you for using your gifts for God's kingdom.
Allyson Rowe immediately you mentioned what God told you I felt something in my heart and I burst into tears and I don't know why that happened but something in me confirmed that I'm not ready and I do have the spirit of offense in me. Young lady God bless you, please don't stop spreading the word. May pea e be with you. From south Africa 🙂
@jessicacantu3394
6 жыл бұрын
Chima-ijeoma Okeke I burst into tears too. I kept saying I was ready and this just confirms what I knew in my heart but ignored.
I'm left speechless. Feel like it was God directly talking to me through you. Thank you for this message!
Dear Ally, I have a lot of struggles that most of them are similar to yours. Im 30 and i think im ready for commitment. But, when i saw this video of yours, i am certain that to be a wife is not just a title, there is a lot of things in my life, a lot of attitude of mine that have to change in order for me to carry the responsibility of being a wife and a mother in the future. Like you, i also set a time frame of my life, which did not turn out the way i expect it to be. I had several relationships that all of them were not i truly in love with. I was just seeking approval. Im glad that i found your vlog today, I believe that its not by chance, but its by God grace.
So the entire time watching this I'm thinking "I will send this to so and so..because I'm definitely good on this!.." But towards the end of the video God revealed that I'm not in offense by ALL men..just black men..Those are the men I can't trust..I'm always thinking to date outside my race because I've been hurt so much by them...thru my brothers, father, uncles..I'm always thinking why can't they just " man up??" ..thank you for this Ally! I have some praying to do 🙏🏽❤️
@jessicat2304
6 жыл бұрын
NaturallyGorg85 you are still generalizing all black men .......
@naturallygorg85
6 жыл бұрын
Jessica T thanks for your reply..I am aware of this..hence my post..and why I mentioned me having some praying to do..however please pray for me as well..as a body of Christ that works much more than condemning. Thanks sis! ❤️
@Bobisworld
6 жыл бұрын
I hope that people will try and see it from your point of view and feel your pain instead of jumping on you for "generalizing black men". I understand where you are coming from bc I too am trying to make peace with black men.
@Hotgurl53
6 жыл бұрын
I like that you admit that . For some reason black men run away from me and white men man up to me 🤦🏽♀️then I get labeled a black woman who likes white men but in reality black men don't approach me what do I do ?....I would say continue in prayer and God will send you the right one 🤗
@christinalucas1002
6 жыл бұрын
janet jones there is no problem with that! God will provide you a partner and it may not be someone of the same race or color haha just carry on
Im actually going through this right now Ally. I married a woman i can truly say i loved but when i turned to my father everything I knew was wrong and he took her out of my life. "He giveth and taketh away ". I wish i could have stayed to help her but once she left me things are going crazy and are moving very fast. I am at a crossroads now and i am waiting for guidance and forgiveness and discernment for my next step. I needed to hear this and for the past 6 months you have helped me so much. Bless you Ally
As a 20 year old man... THANK you so much. I couldn't agree more with all the others. You encourage SO much and I helps. A lot. Thank you for using this platform to teach
Wow talk about hitting me RIGHT IN THE FEELS. thank you though. That was so powerful and exactly what I needed to hear. I mean straight up perfect and applicable to me 100%. Thank you I love these longer videos
@noraque1336
6 жыл бұрын
"right in the feels"?? BwaHaHaHa That's whats wrong with you mentally ill feminists. It's all about the feelings and logic is a perfect stranger.
@topdollaboy707
6 жыл бұрын
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Tears....Thank you for this. Our stories are eerily similar. I found healing through your story. Thank you!!!!
I had the same timeline at 15 😂. Pain trials and tribulations later I’m learning to be single now. I’m learning to patient with myself and everyone around me. Thank you again
I totally can relate,He told me something similar recently so hearing you say it has confirmed its truth.Thank you for being so brutally truthful.
Wow, I really felt I needed to click on this video, and I'm glad I did! You speak so much truth, and although it might be hard to swallow, I'm glad I got to hear that! I will definitely share this with other young women around me. Let's be vulnerable before our Lord, and walk in His love, grace and forgiveness. Thank you so much for this!
Oh man talk about needing to hear this. I’ll probably listen to this again. Thank you for allowing to be used so that those women like myself need to hear. Bless you!
Such truth!! I too have been there and God has walked me through it. He is loving and gentle, when I look at the past relationships and their demise, I am thankful that he pulled me out of them. Keep preaching sister!!! God bless you.
I've recently begun working through my offenses with men. I've forgiven my dad for being weak & not protecting me from evil men. I've forgiven my ex for being abusive & violent. I've forgiven my mother who did harm to me and also didn't protect me. YES, we need to work through these issues before God can release us to the person He has for us. Good Word, Sis!
@thelifeofmatt8597
6 жыл бұрын
Santa Barbara Wine Lady 8
This was soooo for me. Thank you for being honest and yet gentle about it. I needed to hear this.
Thank you for this video, this warrior appreciates it. This warrior is walking in offense 😢. Thank God for HIS grace, mercy and compassion
You're so awesome Allyson ! You are absolutely beautiful inside and out. I can identify with so much you've shared. Thank you for your transparency
. Been divorced and single for 20 years now and have been praying for a Godly husband Because of past hurts I had the same mindset as you that all men are the same. But from lots of counseling and support groups I have grown in many areas so I'm not in any rush because I want this man to be the right one that God has for me. Hopefully it's not too much longer 20 years is a long time .. I can so relate to your message about men such a great message. Thank you for sharing 💟 First time viewer 💟🙏
Dude this video does make me fluffy with butterflies inside! I love being single and know I'm definitely not ready for marriage and just knowing that God has called me to this place of singleness now just as much as He may call me to marriage later in life makes me not want to rush this wonderful calling I have now!! Great video!
Thank you for being vulnerable. It is helpful as God is bringing me through a similar season of healing.
Dear Allyson, I came across this powerful message in my season of waiting, heading to almost 7 years now. Thank you for the hope this gives as I DESPERATELY needed some sort of hope. I also always dreamed, and even wrote it in a paragraph in a school book as a little girl, that I would love to get married one day. Yet, at 37, I am still waiting. Thank you, as I feel a little less alone, al little more encouraged. Much love
It feel like you are telling the story of my life. Everything you are saying is extremely relatable in so many ways and it is helpful to realize something that I was doing but was not even aware of.
I'm glad I found your channel today because I've been prying for the women that God has for me and realize i'm not ready at all. There's so much I have to learn and deal with from childhood to past relationships that I had some how mess up weather I wanna accept or not. I have so much hurt and anger yet in my heart that I've been praying to God for guidance and how to deal with them. please pray for me and Thank you for what you do. have a good day.
Love this! Being Single feels peaceful. Feels light and free. The Lord cleanses our soul, washes away our wounds. Ally, rings bells as she speaks about this topic right to the T. Thank you.
Thank You, Allyson - this was exactly what I needed to hear today!
Wow, what we learn about ourselves in our singleness & how close God can be!
Amazing! & Thanks God you didn't give up your purpose... You're Truly a Child of God & I Needed to hear 👂 your message from Father Abba... Keep up the Great work ; God Bless 🙏🏽❤️👂📖
I have been married for 10 years and I learned so much from this Ally!!! So thankful I came across your channel. Your love for Christ and others is so inspiring!! 💕
This is SO profound. OMG! WOW! Needed this more than I could ever imagine. Thank you for such a vulnerable post. Always true. Bless you
I can completely relate to this. Thank you for this message.
My life has brought me to you. All of a sudden you were on my feed. I know God is showing me now that there are women out there devoted to our Heavenly Father! Thank you for your testimony and guidance. I will continue to build on the Sure foundation who is Christ and I will eventually find the one that is and becomes the same.
I love this! I had to and am STILL doing this... releasing baggage! thank you
You are such a blessing Allyson ❤️
Nice to see you posting videos again Ally. Love hearing your word. It always comes at the right time.✝️
The discernment of the holy spirit
Whoa, that's some Truth there, thank you for the boldness of sharing 🙏🏼
Thank you Ally! Your message warms my heart. My single season had been long.🙏 Also your lil dog in the background is so cute😉😀
God knows exactly what we need and he always provides the answers to our questions. I’ve never heard of you before and yesterday I was feeling so down and began questioning some things. I then typed in my KZread search “How to know if you’re ready for marriage” and out off all the videos I’ve watched from the results of the search, your video was the only one that resonated with me. He used you to show me that I’m walking in the spirit of offense. Thank you for sharing his truth and for being so real about it! Your story is my story but mine went to an even darker place to which I am still working through the consequences of it.....Thank you!
This video is everything. I've gone through this stage over the past couple of years. After going through an abusive relationship, I hated all men and it was painful working through what I needed to do to let go of that anger. I finally found forgiveness and it's freeing as I was able to change my state of mind and feel okay again. Almost a year later from my lowest point, life has been so much better. I found God on my own and learned mindfulness through therapy. It helped a lot. Thanks for validating what I went through and that I wasn't alone in what I'm sure happens to a lot of us. My current boyfriend has helped me grow into a better woman throughout what I was going through too, and although being single is good as well, I think it's possible to be with someone and go through it also if they are the right person. As you mentioned you do tend to destroy those close to you when all you feel is anger. At points I knew that I needed to be alone. I'm glad we made it through those times though and we have an awesome future ahead!
This was exactly what I needed to hear. Gods timing is EVERYTHING! I’ve been denying the pain and anguish of a relationship that ended and secretly knew I wasn’t ready because of how hurt and betrayed I still felt over the break-up. This confirmed that for me and now I can work towards the kind of healing I need. Thank you!
I hate to admit this, but I almost didn’t watch because it’s obvious that you’re young enough to be my daughter and I didn’t think I would learn anything new. I was wrong! I’m 52, never married, with no kids. I live with the chronic disappointment of unmet dreams. Like you, I always saw myself as a wife and mother. I’ve never for one second of my adult life wanted to be single - but I always have been. I’m still hopeful that God will allow me to be a wife someday, but it hurts to go through life feeling rejected, “less than,” left out, and generally forgotten. I can relate to what you said about offense and putting that negativity on all men I meet. Thank God for you! Bless you.
Thank you Ally, you just opened my eyes and made me realise that i have to let God heal me before i can think of marriage.Thank you, i think i have to let go and let God work in me and heal those wounds in me.God really bless you.
Thank you for this video. I have felt this way for awhile in the past and decided to take a break from relationship and just work on my past issues. Things that I need to let go of so that I could begin a new. I just felt like I was carrying a load of hurt on my back and giving some of my bitterness to the people I was in relationship with. So I just stoped and decided the best thing to do was stop and focus on my wounds and even though I do not go to church I do feel God has helped me through all this. I also feel like he has brought your channel in my life so that I may continue to grow. Thank you for your wonderful videos.
Thank you, for I do not feel I need to "forgive" -so to say- because I have grown and learned and flourished from each experience. I have not taken anger out of any of my past experiences, I have taken growth and I thank and bless everyone for helping me!!!
Amen, very true. I think I'm ready for marriage but I know I'm not. I struggle with day dreaming and getting lost in my thoughts when I have a crush on someone and I struggle with patience in relationships. I need to learn to always put God in my thoughts first and to let His spirit guide me in relationships. He is teaching me. Thank you Jesus 🙏 I will wait for You, I don't want to mess up what you have for me ❤
PRAISE THE LORD that I found your video. I too was in a seven year that fell apart but I realize now that the moment I re-dedicated my life to God that individual walked out of the relationship. But God is walking with me now and I thank the good Lord He intervened. You said a truth that we tend to go into the negative verbal comments when we are broken, but how beautiful when the Holy Spirit stirs in our hearts to correct us. Thank you for sharing, and continue to minister to our ladies out there. I know many ladies going through brokenness and offence that need to hear this message....So yes....I have shared :-).
Thank you for this, going to have it on replay several times for it to sink in. I appreciate your openness and perceptiveness.
The Lord just spoke loud and clear through you to me.. WOW. Thank you so much. God bless you, girl.
Walking in offense and believing lies from childhood that have been reinforced by the devil. Wow, this is some heavy stuff, but I needed to hear it. Thank you, I think I have some more direction in how to pray and what things to work on now. God bless
Thanks for your love Ally, I don't have any friends and it's nice to feel this love of Christ even thru a screen.
you seem genuine which made me want to keep watching & trusted what you said (first time i've see your videos)
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So powerful, we have quite a number of things God needs to fix with in us before he mate us with anyone else.
You Grieve Constantly... You have to allow yourself to Grieve... With Grief You Learn... That's a Strength...
I needed this... A prophet told me some of the things you spoke on about my life & past. This encouraged me today. I never realized that when connecting with people, you can add something to their lives that shouldn't have been added. I have to let go of a lot of things in my past, so I can be healthy spiritually and mentally.
Wow, that's good girl. Preach it.
amen! "it makes us deny our flesh" Thanks Ally. Rip it out from the root
Allyson you are truly a gift from God . Thank you for your testimony. God bless you !
Dam wise words. A powerfull message that needs to be heard.Sounds like your ready to go! Thank you sister 🙏😇🙏
I did that sometimes past few years but most of the time I was rejecting who I loved that wasn't ready to do it right. This fresh Start God gave me has even benefited me mentally. Ptsd attacks gone for four whole days! That s ground breaking for me. Have to admit this fresh start being led to not stray from my values has been a blessing from the Lord and a blessing from this man God uses people. Even though I'm not carrying offense right now I know there are other reasons to not be ready for marriage. And I am not ready.
So much truths! But embracing truths are always liberating. I believe God never reveals something to us, unless He wants to redeem it :')
Thank you so much for this message!! It was definitely a message I needed to hear!! God knows I struggle with this so much!! I have wanted that family life since I was a little girl and tend to see things in people that essentially aren't there..i just pray I can be strong enough to do what God needs me to do and yup follow his direction for myself!
I agree and amen!😇 I also believe good things come to those who wait! I believe when you’re not looking for it. It will find you! 🌱❌🌿
Thanks for the straight shooting my sister. I can relate in both ways.peace and blessings.
This is a good message we can all use. Thank you for this
Love this! just what i needed to hear! Thank you & God Bless. 👐❤
This was right on time sis! Thank you!
Confirmation: Vulnerable! Thank you!
I wasn't looking for this message today, but I needed it. I'm experiencing the same exact thing.
Loving and praying for your enemies or people who persecute you is the hardest thing but so worth it
Great video! Thank you for this reminder. I've almost always lived in offense from past relationships. It's hard to break free from. God is the only way to freedom from this anger and resentment.
Now I'm just so thankful and grateful that this video appeared on my feed. . . It just brought me so many realizations about myself. Every word you said is somehow an exact reflection of me. Wow.
The spirit of offense. Aha! That was a great nugget you put out there.
Ma'am, this is incredible!!! Thank you so much, you are his precious daughter!
Thank you for sharing this! This is my story too, so much hurt and unforgiveness that God has to help me heal through. I do not want to destroy His son. I know I am not ready for marriage at all. But he remains faithful and will see me through.
Wow. You really said some things that I have never even considered..or even understood. Wow. Thank you so much for this.
Wow thanks for this video. Offense is currently something I’m asking God to intervene in. It ruins so much and I can testify to that . I can clearly see I’m not ready for marriage or a relationship right now . Tfs God bless
Truth! May the Holy Spirit guide us all to Humbleness and forgiveness.
Lord you revealed this message in 2021 30th of May, this is me and I needed to hear this 🥺🙌 I am so blessed. I've been active on KZread for about a year now never came across any of your videos but this morning it popped up about sexual purity. This confirms I'm on the right track 🥰
You told my story too Ally! Thank you so much So true🙏❤️
Awesome vid, love how real you get
This massaged the pain through the wait. Thank you
Their isn’t enough teachings about singleness or encouragements etc. I’m thankful for your videos.
Wow!!! I understand what you went through because, I'm going through the same thing!!! I have prayed to the Lord many times about this relationship!!! I know God knows what is best for me!!! I will continue to pray to God each and every day!!!I I love this channel Allyson!!!! God Bless you always!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏😇😇😇😇🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤❤❤❤🦋🦋🦋🦋