TIMESTAMPS How to greet people 0:33 Never be late 1:01 Men and women 1:38 How to dress properly 2:01 How to behave at the table 3:34 How to sit correctly 4:08 How to behave at a restaurant 4:46 Pouring and drinking 6:08 How to drink tea properly 6:30

@TaeKook-tk1yk

5 жыл бұрын

BRIGHT SIDE Can you do a video of back to school like a better way of wearing clothes the hair style? Etc. Pls

@karlsmith2570

5 жыл бұрын

BRIGHT SIDE honestly, I really don't see any of these rules of etiquette being observed, unless you're in certain situations where there's someone who is a real stickler for these rules of etiquette

@user-lp9id5ek4x

5 жыл бұрын

which software do you use to edit your video

@whitehammer1674

5 жыл бұрын

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@shankar440

5 жыл бұрын

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This is the reason why I don't go out with other people. I came from a poor family and just nice to everyone without remembering so many dos and don'ts.

As im in army I know all of this stuff.and you are doing such good stuff by telling people about these things.

@ahanaa2486

3 жыл бұрын

I also want to go in army...you are lucky sir

@noeliamertiri4598

3 жыл бұрын

Wow

@payalgupta9622

2 жыл бұрын

So nice of you, and Salute🙏

I tried the knife and fork positioning on the plate when I was at Golden Coral. Oddly, it went unnoticed.

@kdmok

2 жыл бұрын

😂😂

I've basically lived by these etiquette since I was young. I don't follow it all the time, but it's actually nice to know there are other people like me😊 you'd never know when you'd need 'em😙

@Neelix99

5 жыл бұрын

And... Have you needed those rules yet or are you still waiting?

@krishnier1576

4 жыл бұрын

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Thank you for your help in teaching us what we forgot or never was taught. The lady sitting, is correct in her position. My comment is a thanks for not comparing to the Queen. She has always been correct, doesn’t need to be teased, just because you don’t know. Reminds me of Miss Manners. More, more!

Hi BRIGHT SIDE, you might want to have a look at cultural differences, some of the mentioned etiquettes - such as the hands off the table or the handshake, differ between countries, a mention of that could be a nice addition in my opinion :)

1:49 Never forget to introduce others! A certain of person I know never does this, so I have to introduce myself when the new person asks who I am, or when I have to tell my 'friend' something. :| 2:55 There's a saying for the buttons on men's jackets. "Sometimes, always, never." If it's a three button jacket the top button can be however you want, the middle button is always done, the bottome button is never done. IIRC for a two button jacket it's "always, never" but I could be wrong.

So pleased I was brought up with manners and etiquette.

Hi if you’re reading this. Please remember you’re beautiful 😍and I hope you are having a wonderful day! From a small youtuber in Australia! 😇😍🐻

@clarindac

5 жыл бұрын

thanks!

@BearMinimal

5 жыл бұрын

thank you :)

@damonormsby1851

5 жыл бұрын

Bear Minimal I hope you have a merry Christmas and a happy New Year

@junewest5846

5 жыл бұрын

Bear Minimal thx

@emmardz2736

5 жыл бұрын

U gained a new subscriber

Be what u r ... Love how u r

@Jovito_Britto

4 жыл бұрын

True 👍👍👍👍👍👍thousands likes from me

Yes, these rules are very important to know

I was taught to always be 10 minutes early or you were late. As soon as I could tell time I learned to figure time backwards. Meaning knowing how long everything takes you in the morning so you arrive on time, 30 minutes to shower, 15 for breakfast, make bed, etc. There was a countdown of sorts to follow. I still do this mentally to this day and its come in handy.

Etiquette is something I was bought up with and I'm really pleased to be able to pass it down to my children and grandchildren. You don't have to follow it all the time, however it is good to know when you are in polite company :-) Kim from New Zealand

@MillieBlackRose

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. Of course it depends on where you are, who you are with and circumstances. People scoff at this but if they were going to another country they'd want to learn their etiquette rules so as not to look rude.

@krishnakumaarunnikrishnan3226

4 жыл бұрын

You mean "brought" up...

I love this , thanks for sharing

I tried to remember all of these configurations for placing my silverware on my plate the last time I went to a nice restaurant, and somehow my knife and fork cussed out the server and I was kicked out of the restaurant.

@TotallyKayla

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my! 🤪🤯

@jesuslovesyou916

4 жыл бұрын

Lololololol

Yes and thank you for the video

Thank you so much!

this is the best episode you have aired... i'm positive most of us, myself included, need more Emily Post in our lives.

Good tips , Shame some people were dragged up & not bought up. Some tips I New & others Iv learned from 👏👏👍

Thanks for sharing these👍👍👍👍👍👍

Thank you friend. I used to know this, but lost this knowledge as my years progressed. You have my gratitude.

My parent's taught my sibling's and I etiquette, as did our grandparent's. I learned how to use it better ,when I was made protocol officer or something like that... I had been in AFJROTC. We would have banquet's for awards that I don't recall, if I ever won one. However, the school photographer took my photo with some of my then fiance friends around me. The question in the album asked , if I was a princess or future president and it was eerily correct about me being a Royal Princess. My dad's relative in the 16-1700's married a member of the Queen's family making me a British Royal having been born in the UK. My birth certificate I held with the Attorney General, as where all Royal birth certificates are held. I was shocked to find out ,although the registrar didn't title me a princess, he put it on paper with a lion on it recognising the significance of my dad's name. Now, I understand why I've been treated better, since finding out. My title is on the Electoral register. As it is now on the Electoral register, it is appropriate for me to use my title on my documents and such to identify that I'm amongst the Royal Family and potentially on my mum's side, too. The name Potter is prevalent in both side's of my family that is significant ,also as there is something about the name and my Royal Jewish heritage. So, as a Royal living as a Commoner ; I know you must be polite and courteous at all times, even when ill.

I really like to learn ettiquets and most of them I really do😊

Men always break my hand when they shake it. Somebody needs to watch this...

@veronicareynolds4471

5 жыл бұрын

Especially if you have arthritis. 😉😉

@dralanblacker8471

4 жыл бұрын

I am always conscious of this so use the cupped hand method, this infuses warmth and genuine concern. It also requires no pressure. Alternatively kissing a ladies hand is often unexpected and conveys a warm but professional and confident persona. We are too stuck up in the UK. I always ask before doing something and always serve my interlocutors whatever the setting.

I'll just leave a spoon in my mouth,after I'm finished eating and wave at the waiter with my fork for more food,lol.

@Lettelight

5 жыл бұрын

lol !

@nasdaqgirl

5 жыл бұрын

Haha

@kittykat135

5 жыл бұрын

Hilarious

@Jovito_Britto

4 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@wardhamuneeb4393

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂

Thank You!

Thank you this is so good! I did not know some of table rules especially the different ways to position my folk and knife (based on what I want to express). I’m looking forward to implementing what I’ve learned.

love all these videos of etiquette 💯💯💗💗💗💗

To me when my husband helps carring my purse it means he's being a gentleman ...some of these are ridiculous ...sometimes its ok to not be so proper its just boring 😒

@tomandrews1429

5 жыл бұрын

Is there a reason you can't carry your own purse? If not, the right thing to do would be to carry it and not let your husband do it.

@maymoon8851

5 жыл бұрын

Tom Andrews He doesn't do all the time omg but if ever my hands are full he will and its only for few mins and he doesn't mind at all even when i ask to give it back he's like its ok...iyi...its a backpack purse beacuse we have a toddler so i always carry something for her. Gosh you say it like its such a freakin bad thing for your man to do that and its not depending on the situation 😒😁

@shaaronevans4934

5 жыл бұрын

Going into fitting rooms is the number one reason. All of these rules are man made which mean someone made them up! I love breaking rules that I can't be overpowered for. I used to have really thin forearms and never wore watches as they never fit, but kept getting them as gifts. so I would wear it for a while on my upper arm and it drove people absolutely bat dung crazy! I got ragged on for how I carried my handbag (like a football) and even eating my food swapped together! Let people be themselves!

@maymoon8851

5 жыл бұрын

Shaaron Evans Hope you are having a great night, and yes be yourself👍 forget those that wint understand 😁

@shaaronevans4934

5 жыл бұрын

Awww! Thank you Annabelle! I am having a great night and hope you are too!

I needed this.

Good attitude direction, ... Bravo.

Simple nd sweet rules.

Bright Side is starting to sound like my mother.....

@siapabbchan1915

5 жыл бұрын

Well u could do that. But being a good person also means, trying not to offend eachother.

@divyameerapur7790

3 жыл бұрын

But I have never heard the guy asking you, 'have you eaten your meal?' or 'how is your health?'(whenever you're ill).

About knife and fork position: different angle will have different look. I place horizontal way, but the waiter sees vertically. It may apply when 1 waiter/table for the entire time. He doesn't have anything else to do besides staring at the guest's table. 3+ tables/waiter, he only has time to breath.

I am supposed to sleep rn but I'm here

Enjoyed it thank you.

Wonderful work

Helpful 👏🏻👍🏻

Good one Bright side👍

No 2 i will try and remember

Wow nice video thanks

Wow i will try

A man may offer to help with the purse ... What's wrong with that 🤔

@siddharthshekhar909

3 жыл бұрын

You sure are beautiful !

i like it ! i would like to share with you this skakespeare's quote about time :"Better three hours too soon than a minute too late." all the best.

Good job, bright side. Would love to know more.👍

Very insightful and helpful

Interesting....

So royal I love them and will definitely follow

@Trialia

5 жыл бұрын

If you like, but for the love of sanity don't ever say Cambridge the way this guy does.

Wow!

Useful 🙂

I think that everyone should know these things mostly for when ur older my aunt and her family are very strict about this and people should be

Good video!👍👍

really like this video

Yes, no matter how good looking you are you would look appalling and uncouth without politeness...manners and courteousness is what lands class and charm to your persona.

Good job

I'm impressed that I knew most of these, my parents did always value proper manners when raising their children

i do really like specially about the girls clothes combination 😊😘 nicely well done.. and the how to place fork and knife properly 😊💕 thank you bright side .. 😍💕 (2019 here) 😁😄

I love your videos

I was taught all these mannors at the table with the exception of the liking or not liking and waiting for seconds 🤔 I'll have to memorize the fork and knife on the plate! 😱

@Trialia

5 жыл бұрын

Don't! Crossing cutlery is a superstition for many older people of my acquaintance. My grandmother freaked if I ever did that!

yep

I'm from Kentucky and my wife is from London. Boy, I have a lot to learn.

I'm familiar with many of them in my country except for the fork and knives roles anyway I think it's important

I come from a different side of the world 😂and I didn't know about some of the things. Good video!

I have broke holding a woman's purse etiquette so many times T_T

Nice video very useful also

Wao...didn't know this maybe that's why I look 90s

I find the punctuality variable between countries. From my experience, the UK and Japan where I've lived are always on time, but when I lived in Ireland people were always late

Hi and I like this video and stay positive like always!🤗😜

@damonormsby1851

5 жыл бұрын

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Oh, the horror of some of these antiquated rules. How about just say "Be a good person" and leave it at that?

@simionloredana4977

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah, i agree with you

@littleapple4563

5 жыл бұрын

John Labus that's it

@melissagies3624

5 жыл бұрын

Because you could say that very phrase until you're blue in the face and some very dense folks will still not have clue ONE about how to behave. FYI not all slobs are men.

@randomobserver8168

5 жыл бұрын

It's a bit general for a wide array of situations.

@lopamudra5398

5 жыл бұрын

only a good person is not enough, manners and politeness is important.

Adding to watch later so I can review.

Wow

When it comes to being served, unless the dish is cold, or the queen is present, you can eat before everyone else is served. So if the meal is warm or hot, tuck in straight away.

Nice video

Good

.yeeeshhhh royalteeeeehhhh!!!

Bright Side.. Can u pls upload more vids about space :) Ty!

Nice

Many of the rules of etiquette for tea given here are in direct contrast with those given in rules of etiquette in British tea. Does anyone know whether this a cultural variance or rather a difference between formal and casual settings?

Cool

29th and I’ve been subbed for a while

nice video

There is a time and place for everything. I do think etiquette is more important then people realize however there’s a difference between etiquette in the 1930s and modern etiquette.

Hm

Habitually crossing legs at ankles made my legs grow crooked... worked hard at PT to try to correct it.

Add; while standing in a line, let someone ahead of you if they Have products in their arms. You can still load the counter, while they unload. Be prepared for them to be pleased and surprised.

I think that etiquette is still very important to follow. Today's society has either completely forgotten about it, or they have never been taught/ learned it. (Sad)

The adding of milk only after the tea has been poured was my habit until I started drinking most tea without milk. But this practice is in dispute even in the UK, where there is a substantial Milk First faction.

@Trialia

5 жыл бұрын

Milk first cools the tea faster. That's probably why people are so passionate about it. I don't bother.

Imagine if you were at the club and instead of every guy that tried to get your attention by tapping you on the shoulder , he’d bow

@freespeech6999

5 жыл бұрын

I saw a movie of the times of the French Revolution how a gentleman asked a lady to dance; he did bow and she made a reverence (not sure what's the appropriate word for the lady's gesture). When I was a kid in France a French girl, neighbor of my French aunt and uncle, did the reverence to my mom when she met her. I was in awe. I doubt they still do this nowadays!

@krishnier1576

4 жыл бұрын

@@freespeech6999 salut

Please make a video on things you need to know before getting a laser eye surgery

The knife and fork thing would only work and be noticed in a really, really posh restaurant. The kind of restaurant most people watching this can't afford to go to. You think the college kids that serve you your food care how your knife and fork sit?! As long as they are in the plate and you haven't gotten the edges of the plate dirty, all is good.

Add; holding doors open no matter gender or age. Since some people look normal but may have Autism, don’t get upset too quickly if they aren’t helping.I have a grandson, 19, that the whole family has been teaching. We remind him about the door, or send him back to the door. He does this without an attitude.

Hey Random Person, If you're reading this..just remember that...you are beautiful

@ManpreetK2492

4 жыл бұрын

U too😃

@jesuslovesyou916

4 жыл бұрын

Same to you

Love ur videos so much #BestKZreadOr

@damonormsby1851

5 жыл бұрын

Pretty Mixed Girl J or what

@damonormsby1851

5 жыл бұрын

Pretty Mixed Girl J ?

Yay

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Every country, family, or culture have different things that they consider to be proper etiquette. This more so leans into etiquette lessons of the English and British in my opinion. Not to mention every single person has their own views for what they think about etiquette in general.

@Trialia

5 жыл бұрын

It's not even that, it's solely upper-class English at that. Some of these would horrify some of my older family members, and I'm British (under/working class).

nice

For no. 6, if the jewellery means something such as a wedding ring or even the ring my girlfriend got me then is it still proper etiquette to wear it?

Omg that is so not the real life over here at all. Even if I would do the fork & knife thing on my plate I am 100% sure the waiter person will have zero clue what the positions means and all the dirty dishes are pile on top of each others so no one sees them anyway.....mmmmm maybe the dishwasher person will "read" the message I send hah haaa

@thoughtfullifecoachandpica2863

5 жыл бұрын

You are right, I tried it a few times my waiter did'n't know about it.

@Prakriti2041

5 жыл бұрын

I'm annoyed when the server doesnt look and takes my plate. Sometimes they ask but usually not.

@shwetajune82

5 жыл бұрын

Depends on where you are eating. 5 star hotels and Fine Dine restaurants do follow these rules.

@PaiviProject

5 жыл бұрын

Well sure sure. We got none of those "fancy" places over here !

@thoughtfullifecoachandpica2863

5 жыл бұрын

shweta gupta not all the times. i only eat at 5 stars restaurants i found if the waiter is not accustom to it it will not matter.