Happy Saturday everyone! Our first video on LGBTQ! Let us know if you would like to see more!

@tunesquicklee

6 жыл бұрын

yES PLEASE

@jakle3722

6 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go Yes! Please do more! I’m bisexual and found this video so interesting, thanks so much for making it😁

@Project32HMT32

6 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go Yesss this was great. Sometimes I watch your videos on straight relationship stuff and I wonder if it even applies to 2 guys/girls

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Alrighty guys! We will have more videos made!

@leerezaythecthulion8513

6 жыл бұрын

thank you so much as a lesbian i feel like i'm not alone my thank you from the bottom of my heart.

You forgot the weird bi-phobia. "You have twice the opportunity to cheat" "You need to just pick a side" "I guess you were tired of men and decided to give women a shot, eh?" And on and on and on. When I accepted being bi I went to the LGBT community for some acceptance and affection because I was still in the closet and got some nasty backhanded meaness instead. It's worse for bi men. Our community can be great and inclusive, or just so painful.

@klear19634

5 жыл бұрын

dont forget the lesbian women who think its gross that bi women had a dick in them before

@JackieM.

5 жыл бұрын

Dont worry, i feel you. Well all be bi and happy together

@timothytaylor495

5 жыл бұрын

I get you, im also bi.

@booksandblankets3908

5 жыл бұрын

Ugh this is so true.

@garfieldforlesbians898

5 жыл бұрын

My friend came out as a lesbian because she was scared people would think she was a bad person if she came out as bi and I never realized that biphobia was a thing till she told me this

So many straight people say "all the hot ones are gay or taken" but that's so far off bc almost all of the girls I have a crush on are straight.

@z2yn

6 жыл бұрын

syd ! Agree with that - I probably am subconsciously looking for a relationship, mostly with a girl, but most girls are straight or I don't know or can't ask about their sexuality - but otherwise I don't mind being single right now

@chromberries7329

6 жыл бұрын

syd ! but goddamn have I seen some fine gay men before

@user-dp1dm8zn5c

6 жыл бұрын

TOO TRUE THO

@ashleyanderson2669

6 жыл бұрын

When it comes girls, a lot of the hot ones will pretend to like girls to get the attention of some guy. I’ve been burned by girls like that before.

@naminami-chan4176

6 жыл бұрын

+syd ! That sounds creepy...

Les problems: Do I want to be her, date her, or be friends with her? I think that’s something you missed

@AG-ej7wm

4 жыл бұрын

Oh I know this one! It sucks!

@lisztomaniacgirl

4 жыл бұрын

yesss 😂

@Alex-rj9sg

4 жыл бұрын

I just went right in that direction you presented lol mostly cause she's straight

@yellownotsus7538

4 жыл бұрын

This is what my problems is

@lumbago9379

4 жыл бұрын

@@yellownotsus7538 same

LGBTQ Issue #9: Saying that asexuals aren't part of the community even though it literally includes anyone who isn't heterosexual. For the people in the back, ace does NOT equal straight.

@liltomboy2593

5 жыл бұрын

or the moment you are dating someone amd they say "i thought you are asexual" 😑 like there's a difference Tiffany

@funandcooljokes

5 жыл бұрын

No its not. Its people that are trans or are romantically/sexually attracted to the same sex. If your a cis heteroromantic asexual you arent LGBT

@ITR

5 жыл бұрын

​@@funandcooljokes Maybe not, but you would still be LGBT+... That said, most people mean LGBT+ when they say LGBT, so there's no need to gatekeep cis straight asexuals out, is there?

@funandcooljokes

5 жыл бұрын

@@ITR there is a need to gatekeep cause they arent LGBT. Also there is no need for a plus

@ITR

5 жыл бұрын

@@funandcooljokes Why do you not want them as part of LGBT? Straight Asexual people might experience discrimination and problems similar to transgender people or other non-straight people. Why exactly do you not want them as part of the community?

I'm gay, but, the first 3 things on the list aren't exclusively gay problems...

@danielfuxcx

5 жыл бұрын

But they are

@fababababaababababbabalele7958

5 жыл бұрын

@@danielfuxcx no they aren't. Casual racism can happen to anyone, fat shaming can happen to anyone, and hook up culture is everywhere.

@danielfuxcx

5 жыл бұрын

@@fababababaababababbabalele7958 But they ARE TOO. Wtf.

@fababababaababababbabalele7958

5 жыл бұрын

@@danielfuxcx please explain how casual racism, fat shaming, and hook up culture are exclusively lgbt problems. PLEASE explain.

@danielfuxcx

5 жыл бұрын

@@fababababaababababbabalele7958 They ain't exclusive of the lgbt but they are here too. I don't get why you get so pressed about if they are or not.

I am a lesbian and I’m reading down and there are loads of ones about bisexual (etc) people being hated on by us. I am so sorry if you are bi and get hate from lesbians you’re beautiful!

@youtubefangirl8323

5 жыл бұрын

Hello random person of the internet! Just wanted to let you know that this made my day! Thank you, and have a good day. ^^

@irisitis1111

5 жыл бұрын

I love how you didn’t say this like, “THIS IS ENTIRELY UNTRUE!! GET SOME FACTS!!” I am a bisexual and I think you are a good person

@cosmic1cheese

5 жыл бұрын

I'm a lesbian with a bisexual girlfriend and i love her and all my bi friends and family! I've seen so much hate from my sexuality to theirs and it really needs to stop. Everyone who may read this and identifies as bi(or pan, etc), no matter your gender identity, no matter your 'percentage preference', are all valid! And i will continue to be your ally

@g.s.651

5 жыл бұрын

Phantastic Yeah, as a pan individual, I appreciate you reaching out. xD Lesbians Have... an interesting attitude toward me, most of the time. I’m transmale pansexual, but haven’t made alterations to my body and prefer to dress gender neutral, as I’m not a super macho guy, so. Some women into women have been like, “oh, you’re a pretty girl,” and... explaining “well, back at you, but I’m actually only one of those things” is awkward. Straight guys want me to stay the way I am, and lesbian women seem to feel the same, and gay men / straight women are disappointed because apparently even if I do change my body, not being cismale means I’ll never be masculine enough for them. I’m basically limited to dating other pansexual trans people, with maybe a rare genderqueer bisexual or asexual panromantic woman thrown in there. I will say that lesbians are always more respectful of my gender identity than ... any cismen, though.

@shinyminunthetheatregeek2036

5 жыл бұрын

I love the entire lgbt+ community

Reasons I don't date : 1. I'm fat 2. I'm short 3. No one's into me

@bidaboy4488

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@lisztomaniacgirl

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@digitmidget6973

4 жыл бұрын

I'm female and nobody dates me because 1. I'm average in beauty 2. I'm flat chested 3. I'm masculine 4. My trust issues

@victoriaslost5130

4 жыл бұрын

Reasons no one likes me: 1: I'm ugly 2: Im ugly 3: oh, and most importantly, im ugly

@feet4557

4 жыл бұрын

I like all of you though! I think you’re all amazing!

Girl: *Kisses you on cheek and hold hands, sits on lap, calls wife, etc* Me, lesbian: *thinks she likes me, develop feelings* Also girl: Oh yeah btw im straight ;_;

@Jasmine-vn1no

4 жыл бұрын

WickedEmmi HONESTLY! sometimes it feels like you are being played with

@krissiaphobic8427

4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAGA

@Sam-ns5bt

4 жыл бұрын

Oh no, that hurts sooo much i feel you

@beingwithoutaname203

4 жыл бұрын

Oh my god I feel you. Like I'm trans and bi and when I wasn't out yet I was, well, friends with a girl. And we did exactly this, playfully acting out a marriage and hold hands and stuff but.. she was straight and didn't know I was a guy and hell that was exhausting developing feelings for her

@NotAnotherKuromi

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jasmine-vn1no Sometimes we are just being played with. Sometimes the other person is confused but it isn't fair to hurt someone else in the process.

Casual racism and body shaming are not lgbtq exclusive

@Devin_Smile

5 жыл бұрын

The idea that most of the world is against them helps them cope. None of them can live with the fact that they need to mold around their surroundings, and not the other way around

@fairymia4486

5 жыл бұрын

@@Devin_Smile oh good lord a anti-gay

@Devin_Smile

5 жыл бұрын

@@fairymia4486 More of an "anti-entitled" :) but think what you want. it's your right.

@fairymia4486

5 жыл бұрын

@@Devin_Smile not accusing it just comes off like that

@Devin_Smile

5 жыл бұрын

@@fairymia4486 I understand. But I am not an anti-gay. No one has the right to be entitled to acceptance is my point. The world will never work that way, but I do wish it would because all should be treated fairly. I will try to pick my words more carefully in the future.

Dating as a transgender guy is so difficult. Recently a girl broke up wit me because I helped her realize she likes women...ouch.

@Ty-mu7gl

5 жыл бұрын

Every boy I sorround myself with becomes gay and I don't even know why

@Chrysobubulle

5 жыл бұрын

What do you expect ? You have a vagina lol

@gae6495

5 жыл бұрын

Chrysobubulle but he has a male brain

@neamhdhlisteanach6720

5 жыл бұрын

@@gae6495 yeah but attraction has a lot to do with genitals

@Tater_Toot

4 жыл бұрын

It’s like dating for a non binary person. At some point your partner is probably going to tell you they prefer a more feminine or masculine side of you. She probably saw you as a women and was disappointed. Happened to a few ppl I know

My ex's mom is trying to get a restraining order on me cause she's convinced I made her kid bi. Awesome.

@safiyahauttree9533

4 жыл бұрын

Wth is she alright

@rainataylor5805

4 жыл бұрын

@@safiyahauttree9533 🤷🏻‍♀️

@rainataylor5805

4 жыл бұрын

@Thefangirl 0110 😂😂

@btsforlife1276

4 жыл бұрын

If they say this once again say: -"Then why don't you go and buy a rainbow frappuchino, you will turn into a rainbow."

@hayley597

4 жыл бұрын

@Thefangirl 0110 Ahahahahaha you are awesome

Boys: *I CAN MAKE YOU STRAIGHT* Me: *BRUH*

@hdisvzuqlnfp2721

4 жыл бұрын

Bts made me straight everytime I lay my eyes on them lol

@eros1702

4 жыл бұрын

Zerø : like NO THE FREAK YOU CANT THIS IS MY SEXUALITY AND ITS VAILD

@cr4zy_cycl0n3

4 жыл бұрын

Not gonna be immature not gonna be immature notgonnabeimmature-69 ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

@leniskashahaya9

4 жыл бұрын

Imagine a gay dude going up to a straight dude and saying that he can turn him gay, they'll be disgusted for sure.

@biggestguy67

4 жыл бұрын

men who say that make me straight, they might not have made a lesbian straight but hey, they got one gay to go straight

Yes there are problems you’ve missed. Biphobia is real and I personally have been harassed by LGBTQ+ people for calling myself LGBTQ+ with a straight partner Bisexuals are members of the LGBTQ+ community and we aren’t just confused or greedy

@Stricken-Zero

5 жыл бұрын

I'm like, "Do they not know what the B stands for in LGBTQ+????? ಠ_ಠ "

@Karma-zp7pb

5 жыл бұрын

Same for pan

@user-bv5kx3jb5n

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah there's people literally telling them they're not a real thing, like what???

@lostperson5482

5 жыл бұрын

Darth Vader we're in the freaking acronym.

@polyblank6433

5 жыл бұрын

Pieguy 91 -pat pat- it’s okay. I’m pan and we’re almost the same. My friend is bi. And she’s one of the best friends I’ve ever had

honestly, in some places, when a bi person gets into a straight relationship everyone says that they are not from lgbtq+ sigh

@mysryuza

6 жыл бұрын

I don't see myself in the community despite being bi, because my person views as a whole combined differs greatly than most in the community. Plus I usually pick men first and I have crushes on men more than women.

@snowcold5932

6 жыл бұрын

nouredits Not to mention in relationships, the other person being wary that we'd supposedly leave them for the other gender. A ton of bi people get rejected because of this irrational fear :/

@fluffystuff500

6 жыл бұрын

It's because a ton of people think that bi means that you don't know your sexuality and believe that once you are in a relationship that you have decided. But the truth is that a bi person is always bi. If a bi person leaves a heterosexual relationship, they could still enter a homosexual relationship.

@user-dp1dm8zn5c

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah. That’s a really huge problem that should be addressed

@user-dp1dm8zn5c

6 жыл бұрын

I’m not bi, I consider myself to be panromantic, and I get constant flack from my bf and his parents about the fear I’ll leave him for a girl and I’m like ???

Straight girls flirt with their female friends 😭😭 so many times I thought a girl liked me 😭😭😭😭😭

@mgtccnl

4 жыл бұрын

Luma Eclipse i feel bad cause I’m actually this girl who flirts with my friends and then have to hurt them :(

@CedroEscarlate

4 жыл бұрын

Luma Eclipse straight guys too, and a lot. Cry

@krissiaphobic8427

4 жыл бұрын

LMAO I FELT THIS

@hayley597

4 жыл бұрын

OUCH!! Don't you know that straight girls LOVE FLIRTING?? (- A girl who fell in love with her bestie just after talking Japanese and being very shocked cuz she understood and she ansewred XD, but I feel your pain been there so many times too )

@AndreDemon0701

4 жыл бұрын

@@CedroEscarlate No, just no, we all know that's women stuff, if you try to do this you "will be gay"

Who else here is Bi 🙋

@ruthelt

4 жыл бұрын

UPDATE: It's been 3 years , I'm pan ! ๑>◡

@justsongs4674

4 жыл бұрын

Me

@avycdefg

4 жыл бұрын

I’m bi-curious does that count?

@melancholygarden

4 жыл бұрын

@@avycdefg why not 😉 Btw Hi stay! I made an Instrumental of stray kid's sunshine if you wanna check that out 😉

@avycdefg

4 жыл бұрын

Melancholy Garden OMG SURE I’LL CHECK IT OUT

me: hey your really pretty girl crush: oh thanks i like how girl's can say stuff like and not be lgbt me: iM gAy

@randomish7833

5 жыл бұрын

drawing nerd oml XD

@robotchips6982

5 жыл бұрын

R/thathappened

@petersalucci5444

5 жыл бұрын

drawing nerd Well hey girls can still say that without being gay 😁 even if You are gay

@mehya3266

5 жыл бұрын

TRUTH

@Fawndolyn

5 жыл бұрын

To be fair, this can also be a nice way to assess whether or not they're into you without being blatantly rejected.

You did miss one thing: biphobia while dating. A lot of bi people I know have faced discrimination in the LGBT community because of the toxic mindset "gay OR straight" and I personally have been harassed and ridiculed by lesbians because I've only been with a guy.

@kawaiitaesu1677

6 жыл бұрын

and Panphobia

@pattykrabbies

6 жыл бұрын

You know what? You’re right actually, that’s true

@faerierequiem5376

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I agree, it's a lil' bit difficult for one of us to find someone from the LGBT+ comunity who won't judge it or accept it, but luckily not all of them think like that. Still, there's a lot of work to do, not only about bi people but with all these prejudices we hear day after day. But we can do it ✊😉

@Jinxed_Starbyte

5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, I've heard a lot about the bi discrimination issue and it's really horrible. I'm not bi myself, but I am poly romantic which a lot of people don't believe is real, so I understand what it feels like. I'm here for ya'

@heckheck4053

5 жыл бұрын

Dude same, im ridiculed because "You are pan, why don't you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend??" or "Dude he asked you out! Say yes, you are pan! You can date anyone!" I said no because I didn't like him.

I’m in a wheelchair and my local gay bar isn’t very accessible.

@theweirdoclub1284

3 жыл бұрын

Nuuuuuuu

Am I the only one who would LOVE to date a feminine man more than a masculine one?

@SydneySininen

5 жыл бұрын

Hell no, this "gay men like masc men more than fem men" is fucking news to me. Every other man-liking-man I know loves that feminine style

@mosquito4440

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly I love both😍

@taytum_

4 жыл бұрын

Well I'm a bi girl and for me it depends. Mostly masc but maybe fem.

@salamisandwichletsplay4416

4 жыл бұрын

I hate dudes that dress up and act like girls... it shows that not beating your Kids is fatal and ruins their lives.

@aimeerodriguez3042

4 жыл бұрын

salamisandwich lets play are you being sarcastic or no

I’m a bi girl and my crush is a straight girl :’) *cries inside*

@Equa11ysurl

4 жыл бұрын

Been a year...how’s it going?

@Eli-yd5ue

4 жыл бұрын

@@Equa11ysurl yo

@icisne7315

4 жыл бұрын

Ah yes the straight crush. The saddest story ever told

@Unbaked_P0tat00

4 жыл бұрын

I learned that I wasn’t straight when I had a crush on my friends...sorry... my *straight* friend

@annaj2745

4 жыл бұрын

Relatable affff

People saying Ace/Aro people aren't LGBT is a problem. People hating on pan and bi people is a problem. People loving lesbians, but hating gay men is a problem.

@bunnibussell3395

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for remembering the Pan people

@ringeyes410

5 жыл бұрын

Our world is doomed by these problems. Not our side, just the close minded people.

@graviemama5616

5 жыл бұрын

Kim Kardashian Un im gay 😘

@thecatface8255

5 жыл бұрын

+gracie he was talking about Trans Ace Aro Pan Non binary but not gay or lesbians or bi.

@graviemama5616

5 жыл бұрын

TheCatFace Kingdom sis all i said was that im gay

As a female, it's hard for me when I develop feelings for a straight girl. It hurts knowing they'll never like you in the same way.

@yooyeongf

4 жыл бұрын

@Rhiannon White oh no that hurts :(

@Anonymous-im3fq

4 жыл бұрын

@Rhiannon White are you guys still friends?

@imthatextrakid8292

4 жыл бұрын

Which is why I dont have a crush (havent had a crush in 5 years lol, only sometimes liked someone for a few days and moved on)

@juliavargas13

3 жыл бұрын

My first platonic girl crush and first real crush were straight (idk if one of them is actully straight, cause she kissed a girl that is friend of mine). When I finally meet a girl that likes me, my parents find out and forbid me to talk to her.

@Liliana_the_ghost_cat

3 жыл бұрын

@@juliavargas13 that's so sad

The one about fetishizing trans people hit home. I think it’s because everyone expects getting medically transitioned should be the goal. No. The goal is to overcome your gender dysphoria, with or without medical transition (hormones, surgery, etc) Hormones are not a magical cure to the pain within. Surgery will not remove the suffering in your head. I can only share my experience, so here it is: My only goal in life used to be medical transition. I would stare at myself in the mirror and pick myself apart. What part of me was too masculine, to hairy, to this to that. I caked makeup on my face everyday, all I wanted was to “pass”. I was miserable, but I held on to hope because I was watching all these rich, famous transgender KZreadrs and actors buy themselves new faces and bodies and they took estrogen and got so pretty and they looked so happy. Then I became a healthier person, and I realized I’d never be happy unless I changed my insides. I learned to love myself and my body. I learned to accept all my flaws and accept that my sex is, was, and always will be male. Just not my gender. For some reason I was just born with a feminine spirit in the vessel of a male. Now that I am healthy, I know that medically transition isn’t necessary to be happy. Of course, if I wanted to do I still could. Fellow trans people, learn to love yourself and accept yourself as you are now first. Then, if you still feel like medical transition is for you, go forward. There’s nothing wrong with it, after all. It’s a miracle of modern medicine! Spread the word !

@lisztomaniacgirl

4 жыл бұрын

👏

@adir6094

4 жыл бұрын

Aww this is precious, I'm so happy for you!!! It's great that you're also voicing this story out too, you never know if someone's gonna come across this comment who desperately needed to hear this. Keep going and Love Yourself!!!

@hayley597

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing this here, I just want you to know that you are a fighter, you are amazing and I'm very impressed that you came up to a point where you just were focusing on self-love ... Happiness is always found deep inside us, not what social media pretending to be good for us, SO Stay healthy please and if you need ANYTHING I will be happy to hear from you (of course if you want) ENJOY YOUR LIFE AND STAY HAPPY!

@kerronh2060

3 жыл бұрын

I don’t understand transgender, is it just gender stereotyping? It doesn’t matter what body part you were born with, your passions, behavior, and choice of clothing has nothing to do with gender. You can do any of those without changing your gender

@lionberryofskyclan

3 жыл бұрын

@@kerronh2060 no, it is a very, VERY strong feeling of not being the right gender. Some may choose to transition with surgery, or with hormones. And some may just dress up (like you were saying) in clothes typically for another gender. It isn’t not wanting to conform to gender stereotypes (if I sound harsh I do not mean to, reading this makes me sound harsh idk)

Lesbian friend: hey you're looking cute today Me: thanks! Inner me: is she flirting with me? Even if you know someone's a lesbian you never really know. Another thing is that in school you end up dating everyone's ex'es because there's a limited amount of lesbians to date.

@spike9535

4 жыл бұрын

Or when you are a useless lesbian and when some girls try to flirt with you you'll think they're just nice to you XDD Yes. This happened to me. But now I'm the happiest person on this planet with my lovely little gf

@damiancrowley666

4 жыл бұрын

Almost every lgbtq girl in my school has dated each other at some point. We have a limited selection

@thatrandomarthobo2102

4 жыл бұрын

I'm dating Tara my friends xgirlfriend. I think my friend still likes her tho she's really clingy towards her and not her own girlfriend.

@tabithavelez9495

4 жыл бұрын

as a useless bisexual crushing on my lesbian friend I can confirm

@tabithavelez9495

4 жыл бұрын

nails_onaboard 0215 ooo my straight best friend is named Tarah 😳

Number 5 is especially hard for lesbians or women who prefer other women. Given how girls are generally raised to be a lot more affectionate with close friends and how things like sharing food, sharing clothes, going out on one-on-one outings, hell even some cases platonic kissing like on the cheeks is super common and it's near impossible to tell if anothet girl is directly hitting on you or seeing you as a super close friend Looking back, I cant count how many times I've cuddled platonicly or even borrowed a bra from multiple times with a close friend (who's still just a friend) and thought nothing of it other than "oh wow my best friend and I are so cool and fun".

@danielfuxcx

5 жыл бұрын

That is such a beautiful privilege wish us men can say the same. At least you can be close to her.

@bakes887

5 жыл бұрын

My friend and I (we're both girls) are closer than my other friend and her boyfriend. I'm bi and people ship me with her, but she's straight.

@Yoirea

5 жыл бұрын

@@bakes887 I feel you ._. It's quite hard to get out of that "super close friends" zone...

@zain4019

5 жыл бұрын

Hugin Incorrect. There are cultures, and civilizations, such as the Ancient Greeks, that idolized and almost worshipped gay men. Male affection was pretty common- hence wrestling in the nude during training for/during the Olympics.Could you imagine two male friends wrestling naked together today, lathered in olive oil? Of course not. Is male affection not hardwired in men? Of course not. It’s just not taught or found to be “normal”. Could men later on show physical and emotional affection like women do today? Yes. I don’t know how much you know about society and the effects of nature and nurture, but A LARGE, LARGE number of our societal preferences and normalities are learned. This is a fact. You can research more on this if you like.

@emberthewolf1297

5 жыл бұрын

"Share food with ur best girlfriend" Bish please, I share my food with Jack. He isnt even my brother. Nor my boyfriend. Try me. Im 10, he's about to be 12.

Life hurts being Lesbian in a small town

@AijuseNoSekai

4 жыл бұрын

It still hurts in a city of 15 million people. There is a lot of people that would defend me in a homophobic situation but they'd get attacked too. :/ Conservative people... P.S Conservative isn't just about politics, "Americans" ;)

@mrpeach2023

3 жыл бұрын

Life hurts being a gay man in a small town and living with conservative, deeply religious, and homophobic parents that would absolutely hate when I find out I’m gay and dating a man. It’s gonna suck but I don’t care, I still love my boyfriend.

@zennisgone

3 жыл бұрын

When you literally live in a village.....................am I a part of this?!...idk anymore............ 👁️💧👄💧👁️

@rakata1987

2 жыл бұрын

Life hurts bring a gay man in an Islamic community. I have to live a double life just to fucking survive

"Is it possible to make a guy fall in love with you if he keeps calling you his bro?" I.....felt that ☹

You forgot the problem of coming out to friends because unfortunately straight people often ALWAYS jump to “OMG are you like into me?!” This is what I like to call “gay-sist” because it is considered to be rude, disrespectful, ignorant, hateful, etc.

@beep898

6 жыл бұрын

Or you could just tell them that you're not attracted to them and just move on

@YamiRovi25

6 жыл бұрын

-Well, I'm bisexual -you serious? so have you ever thought of me... you know...in that way? -hahaha don't worry, dude. I have great taste =)

@anthonymartinez9007

6 жыл бұрын

I mean they ask that because you’re telling them that it’s not that big of a deal god damn

@hishiga1962

6 жыл бұрын

Ruins Charizardsm They meant it's annoying that when coming out, straight people often assume you're into every guy if you're gay, every girl if you're lesbian, everyone if you're bi/pan, and especially into them. I've been through that, and I can tell you, it's pretty annoying when people assume you're into them when you're not - and worse, when your friendship is altered because they still think you secretly want to have sex with them when you explicitely told them otherwise.

@kelceyfirth

6 жыл бұрын

Liberty_Belle i would just say "noooo you're more like a brother/sister to me"

Me: hey you are cute and one of the prettiest girls I know Girl: aww you too! Your such a nice friend Me: am I a joke to you -_-

@justahuman7537

5 жыл бұрын

ha me

@kokeech

5 жыл бұрын

That's an honest mood

@RB-dc2mp

4 жыл бұрын

People aren't obligated to be attracted to you and you aren't entitled for them to be. You sound like a female incel.

@nelmae6026

4 жыл бұрын

@@RB-dc2mp lol chill it could come from perspectives on how they say it 😂

@krissiaphobic8427

4 жыл бұрын

ouch.

When a bi or pan get out of the closet People: *You mean polygamy?*

@bonthebunnycat667

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr, my bf is Pan and it is only the two of us, Pan/Bi poly people exist, but that doesn't mean every bi/pan person is poly

@dextercrappell378

2 ай бұрын

I'm bi and I need to get out of the cycle. also, you never realize how hard it is to type when your dog is licking your face until your dog does it.

"Are you into her?" "You totally have a crush on this guy!" "Oohh are you more than friends?" "You two would be cute together" Me: **inhales in aromantic**

@lalatitania6954

3 жыл бұрын

💀✌ so sad I can relate to this "You'll find the right person" "I dont think your aromatic" "Your prob just confused" "Don't get married before 30" "Don't have kids before you get a stable job" "Its a phase" "I ship you with the person" "I doubt your asexual your too young to know what it is" "You don't act like the stereotypical ace" "Ofcourse you need to get married, thats what normal people do" "Aromatic ppl aren't attracted to the same sex so it isn't LGTBQ+" "Aromatic isn't real" ""I'm not gonna have a partner" that's what all of us said before haha." Lol I remember pretending to have a crush to fit it before I knew what Aromatic was..

@neoxus30

3 жыл бұрын

@@lalatitania6954 I'm pretty sure Aromatic are the molecules) I think you meant Aromantic)

@Liliana_the_ghost_cat

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah i can relate to that

@theresachacon1122

3 жыл бұрын

I'm bisexual but this is still frustrating even for me because I have been asked if I was dating a guy that I was talking to a lot. Everyone would see us walking and talking to each other and when we walked past someone, they would ask if we were dating. It wasn't the first time it happened but with him, it was the most frequent.

@Liliana_the_ghost_cat

3 жыл бұрын

@@lalatitania6954 yeah, it's so anoying

Hook up culture, and not enough fish on the sea hits too close to home. Great video

@onemorebonktonight

6 жыл бұрын

nothing oof

@vito7361

6 жыл бұрын

nothing the only Hook up culture I know is Netherlands and they are known for it. Doesn't mean I don't like it. I think it is pretty interesting how they deal with the topic sex so openly and free. Should be like this everywhere :)

@infinite-e4376

6 жыл бұрын

nothing same

@infinite-e4376

6 жыл бұрын

Raven Hill as long as it includes safe sex

@thecatface8255

5 жыл бұрын

Not LGBTQ UNIQUE tho

My struggle of being a bisexual: Dating girls = homosexual Dating boys = heterosexual Wtf society, do you expect me to date both at the same time.

@regan.g13

4 жыл бұрын

and the more likely to cheat because we're attracted to everyone and everyone is attracted to us.

@DecemberSfy

2 жыл бұрын

There are polyamorous and open relationships. But when you're not searching for in-exclusivity, that can be a problem.

@artemis.w.

2 жыл бұрын

lmao literally

@alphacote8690

2 жыл бұрын

It seems you can only be bi if in a polyamourus relationship with a boy and a girl... then they say that's wrong? People are so weird....

Edit to video- HIV is no longer a death sentence to the rich/upper middle class.

@SkaterBlades

4 жыл бұрын

Or anyone who lives in europe or canada. Free healthcare ftw!

@missjayspeechley9213

4 жыл бұрын

Or Australia

the worst thing of being part of the lgbt community is that you mostly fell in love with the person who hates the community lmfao. or does this just happened to me?

@stza16

6 жыл бұрын

Huh

@meepmorp5125

6 жыл бұрын

Having a crush on a homophobe is tragic. I personally haven't experienced that, but I know the feeling

@hi-nw7qy

5 жыл бұрын

@Kerosin Scott YES. I'm not even part of the community, nor do I necessarily hate it but we do see it in that way.

@hi-nw7qy

5 жыл бұрын

@Kerosin Scott Seriously its kind of sad at this point, I have a really close friend and she hasn't ever been in a relationship, so she started considering herself bi. Like wtf, you've never liked anybody in your life and now you like both genders. Plus I have another friend who decided to be bi because he couldn't find a girlfriend -_-.

@kohaku-san6060

5 жыл бұрын

believing in these "sjws" and distancing yourself from the community just because of that can be so harmful, honestly- the whole concept itself feels like it's perpetuating this subtle self-hate that restrains you from being you or acting too "special" or "flamboyant" because you're scared of being one of those "attention-whoring sjws". do yourself a favor and stop giving a shit, it did me a lot of good personally, tbh

I think the most difficult problem is loving someone who's straight. That's extremely painful.

@Zipperskull_

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it tends to bother me alot, then would ALOT of questions to someone that love most. :(

@bobrossslittlebitch8948

6 жыл бұрын

I don’t really love anyone straight... but I’ve had massive cruses on them

@anthonymartinez9007

6 жыл бұрын

Or falling for someone that’s gay

@HBDiniz10

6 жыл бұрын

ka thy Yes ;-;

@lordlumpus75

6 жыл бұрын

Yep...that hurts BAD.

Me, Asexual: HELLO??? PLEASE

@queefatron3912

4 жыл бұрын

Oop

@martinazunino4867

4 жыл бұрын

Me, pansexual: Hello, Hello? I'm not where I'm supposed to be.

@janussanders5110

4 жыл бұрын

Same!!!! :D

@user-vh4jh8ss1p

4 жыл бұрын

@hayhay055 Ah the character I am, my user and pfp, happens to be aromantic and asexual too. The anime is called "The Disastrous Life of Saiki K"

@azumarill964

3 жыл бұрын

Here for you, pal.

When you’re trans and people only like you for you’re body, or only like you because you’re trans

@bonthebunnycat667

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr QwQ

@greategg7159

3 жыл бұрын

If you are a trans woman, yes they fetishize you. I am gay and even I don't understand males sometimes.

@OatmealTheCrazy

3 жыл бұрын

@@greategg7159 trans men face fetishization too

@jermfanaccount

3 жыл бұрын

@@OatmealTheCrazy yep. i've had a few people say i'm "cute" or even "girly" when i told them i'm trans. it sucks.

@toyotawitha20mm35

20 күн бұрын

Hey no hate, but as a gay guy I only will date biological born males. But I think it's important to respect everyone's gender identity, because just like being gay, it's not a choice. Being trans is valid, no hate btw.

I am 12 years old, I have already come out to my mom as bisexual and she completely supports me and I am so greatful. She wants to get me into an after schoo, LGBT program too! She is going to start taking me to pride parades and she even got me a bisexual flag, how great is that! 😄😄😄

@gakeon963

5 жыл бұрын

don't go to pride parades please, spare yourself. the pride parades are a joke and not a good representation of our community (i am bi too btw)

@diegoyanez1868

5 жыл бұрын

Ramen Sense FELLOW BISEXUAL! I’m glad you got to realize your sexuality at such a young age. That’s gotta be an interesting experience.

@qu4rtz732

5 жыл бұрын

that's amazing that your mom is so open and supports you! I'm so happy for you!

@steleoger

5 жыл бұрын

THAT IS SO CUTE!

@thecolorpurple4807

5 жыл бұрын

Lo Gang lmao who hurt you?

A problem that is really pressing in the LGBTQ community is the biases and fears that come from a heavily religious group.

Liking someone of same sex who's not sure about their own orientation. SUCCS AF

Oh, and one more problem: Girls: *dating* Society: Ohhhh, that's cute!^^ Guys: *dating (or at least trying to)* Society: Oh shit, aRe ThEy GaY?¿ Kinda unfair, don't you think-

@greategg7159

3 жыл бұрын

Correct af

@kerronh2060

3 жыл бұрын

Guys tend to be more fetishized than shamed tho

@Ace-jd2ty

3 жыл бұрын

for the girls thing, society only thinks it's cute because most of them think that the girls are roommates or really really good friends lol. Also if I dated a girl most of the people in the state I live in would not thing it's cute at all... (I'm a girl btw) so not true for all girl couples. (Also lots of people I live around would actually thing that a guy and another guy dating is cuter that two girls dating). So I guess the point of this reply is to just say, I wish I lived around the people your around in society, (of course only if they realized that a guy couple is just as cute as a girl couple)

@xXspottyXx

2 жыл бұрын

Or society be like: * *two guys dating* * society: ewww,wtf go kys * *two girl dating* * society: owo,so hot,3some lesbians often get fetishized and gay men get hated on:'(

@toyotawitha20mm35

20 күн бұрын

I fucking hate straight dudes that fetishize lesbian relationships, but then they proceed to be grossed out by gay relationships. It's stupid. Makes me angry

I recently came out as pansexual to my mother, and she didn’t know what to say. It got awkward, and then she said I’ve always been a curious person. “So I don’t really think you’re pansexual, I think you may just be curious.” She said she still accepted me, and I can love whoever I want. But it still hurt, this isn’t a phase of curiosity. I see love as falling for someone’s personality, mind, and intelligence not appearance or gender. I’ve had feelings for both genders, but not all women and not all men. Just some who have had amazing personalities. I wish she could understand

@emilyhouse2479

5 жыл бұрын

M.T.D. You shouldn’t have to give up, maybe just not listen to your mom?

@ItsMuffinTimePls

5 жыл бұрын

Emily House I had the same issue. Just stick to your guns and continue on your path. If she loves you she’ll accept it. When my mom _finally_ realized that it wasn’t a phase or curiosity I was so relieved and happy. Have faith in her if she really loves you.

@emilyhouse2479

5 жыл бұрын

Its Muffin Time Thank you for this, I appreciate it😊 I plan to do so, and be myself 100%.

@ceciliacole2182

5 жыл бұрын

I can relate. I came out to my mom recently as bi and she just thought I was exploring and gave a bunch of dumb arguments as to why.

@emilyhouse2479

5 жыл бұрын

Mr_ me I’m sorry to hear that:( I hope she can one day acknowledge you and understand you💕

I marvel at how neutral this video is. Normally, when I see videos like this offering advice to LGBTQ+ people, it ostracizes and alienates straight people as being gay-haters and transphobic. It's relieving to see someone admit that some members of the LGBTQ+ community are transphobic or biased. However, not every person is this way.

@Thanatos4108

6 жыл бұрын

More lgbt+ videos should be like this.

@isabellarivera570

6 жыл бұрын

agreed

@BRYONVISION419

6 жыл бұрын

I'm not a gay hater I actually had sex with a gay guy

@separatista

6 жыл бұрын

Do you always need the "not every straight" tho?

@penguinpinata

6 жыл бұрын

I have yet to see ostracization of the straights on KZread ( unless for sarcastic and ironic purposes , such as referring to straight people as " the straights " ) but glad to see you liked this one :3 another really good KZread channel talking about lgbtq+ relationships and subjects would probably be Ash Hardell if you liked this video's vibe :3

Bi-phobia is the worst People say stuff like, "oh, you'll get over it" or "pick a side." Yup, people be acting like this is a choice. Trust me, I'd be thrilled to choose, but you have to accept that I'm powerless to things like this, and it would be nice if you'd stop accusing me of cheating, because I can't choose one side. Another problem is "pansexuality and bisexuality are the same-" *NO*

@PositiveLycan

4 жыл бұрын

Don't forget that Ace are discriminated against and has struggles yet some people THAT ARE LGBTQ+ think we are not part of the community. or were just forgotten. My entire school didn't know what Ace was until i told them... OH, and people making jokes about 'HUEH HUEH SO YOU CLONE YOURSELF?'

@dreamymang1963

4 жыл бұрын

@Marcell The Shell Speedbuilds that's sad, sorry. Have you told your dad yet?

@dreamymang1963

4 жыл бұрын

@Marcell The Shell Speedbuilds oh! Well happy birthday in 3 days! Anyway, I was also kinda confused at what I was first, too. That's totally normal for most people, don't worry too much.

@dreamymang1963

4 жыл бұрын

@Marcell The Shell Speedbuilds no problem :3

@dune6528

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for including the pan thing. I'm constantly told I'm just bi, or that I don't deserve to be valid.

I live in nyc. I’m pansexual. I have a crush on my friend who might also be pan. Omg I’m so fricking excited for my life AhHhHhH

@birdthemancoolguyman1369

5 жыл бұрын

so happy for you!!!!!

@icantthink0faname206

4 жыл бұрын

Did you tell them?

@katiekushnerov3262

4 жыл бұрын

I’m not dating but my future girlfriend will be bi because we just decided to wait a little bit before we date

@odysseusgaming7157

3 жыл бұрын

Updates?

@heatherbehunin6132

3 жыл бұрын

@Vebunkd pan means someone who is attracted to everyone reguardless of gender

Me: cough* cough* asexual and aromantic people cough*

@MrSergayfgtxd

5 жыл бұрын

*cough* made up shit *cough*

@saintmeao4243

5 жыл бұрын

@@MrSergayfgtxd That's not made up. Aromantic means you don't experience any romantic attraction to people and asexuality means you don't experience any sexual attraction to anyone. Aromantic and asexual people don't experience any attraction (By that i mean they don't experience any romantic and sexual attraction) to people.

@liltomboy2593

5 жыл бұрын

OMG FINALLY!....but I am a asexual cupioromantic. close enough 😂

@renderz8435

5 жыл бұрын

biromantic asexual here!! fully understand u!!

@funandcooljokes

5 жыл бұрын

Cool but you guys arent LGBT

9. Religion problems Chances are you've felt extrinsic or intrinsic pressure from your church to pray away the gay or lock yourself in the closet. You might have felt pressure to abandon your faith as well, which causes a lot of confusion and fear. Alternatively, religion (mainly Christianity) might be a trauma trigger or something you're staunchly against for other reasons.

@grayblackhelm9761

5 жыл бұрын

Vika Blaire Really though? If Christians yelling at you is your greatest problem, you’re living pretty high.

@MaoRatto

5 жыл бұрын

Just wait till you see Muslims.

@ShadowCorgo

5 жыл бұрын

@@grayblackhelm9761 This is the point generalised. Just think about it in more detail briefly. For starters, you could think about how one of the biggest problems would be family. Being raised in a religious family would not be easy when the religion in question condemns these type of people, which is them exemplified by a strong believing religious family who you wouldn't know whether or not they'd reject you. Another scenario is: What about personal beliefs? Say you've been raised in a particular religion and have come to wholeheartedly agree with it and follow it as you would. Then, all of a sudden, you get these feelings/urges growing up. This ends up causing conflict between the belief in your religion and who you are. Since most people 'find' themselves whilst growing up (around teenage years), it creates even more stress as theres the issue with changing personality, self discovery, hormones, etc. You'd feel like you're left with two decisions: 1) Restrain yourself but as a result live unhappy hiding who you are. 2) Embrace who you are but break the rules of your religion, for which you have so much faith in. Vika already said some detail about another scenario but yeah, just think about it in more detail. Saying a short point which *seems* not all that bad will make you think it's not a problem, when in reality it runs much deeper and is more difficult.

@grayblackhelm9761

5 жыл бұрын

Joseph Mateo I was a Pagan raised in a Catholic home. I had an inherent belief in magic and the Fey, so- naturally- I was abused. Neglected. My father thought it more pertinent to “Kill the thing” than to actually raise me. People don’t change. Not in essence or personality. They evolve, yes- they grow more subtle or predatory- but they will never “change”.

@mistawithhair9203

5 жыл бұрын

Im a bi muslim.. and let me tell you if there's any chance you come out in a muslim country you might get disowned by your own family and made fun of and bullied by everyone on daily basis... sooo

As an asexual: Getting broken up with the second they find out. Woo..

@charlieemily7319

3 жыл бұрын

I’m sorry that happened :( I’m not ace but I have a friend who recently came out to me as ace, neither me or her have dated yet so I can’t imagine how bad that feels but I hope it’s gotten better in the last 8 months

@littlemissemila1818

3 жыл бұрын

Eeeeeeeeee That sucks

@olesiaandersen6255

3 жыл бұрын

i'm sorry it happened to you... no offense, i'm kinda confused myself about this topic, but i think it's more fair and right to date other aces if you're an ace (especially now, when the apps allow finding the others). sex is an important physical and emotional part of life of so many people, i guess, and they can't just get rid of the expectations of their relationship because you came out as an asexual to them... it's a pain for everyone if you're just "not a match" in this regard. i'd be interested what others think to that.

@jonathanshadowhunter1208

2 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry that happened to you, that sucks so bad- Though luckily as an aroace I can't really relate

When you can love more than one gender, there are a lot of other problems, too. For example, you don't have to be out of the closet to date some openly, so you get hesitant to date someone who doesn't have the opposite gender. Or when people assume you never loved them, just because you started dating someone with a different gender from them. Or when people who don't fell attracted to your gender get kind of cautious around you because they don't know wether you'd fall for them (which isn't a problem exclusively for us, I guess). Or - which I think is the worst, actually - when you get homophobia from others of the LGBTQ+ community because they don't think your sexuality is valid/think that your sexuality is responsible for some stereotypes /is transphobic/have other misconceptions about it. Oh, and let's not forget those of us who have mental illnesses and get accused of giving other people form the LGBTQ+ community a 'bad image' because of it. I'm so happy that most of these don't actually happen to me personally/only over the internet instead of said to my face. I'm not sure I could handle the latter…

Why are there so many dislikess? There's nothing wrong with making a video for LGBTQ people.

@mysryuza

6 жыл бұрын

Either because trolling, the way it was presented, ignorance, or thinking that this was cashing in

@aliyah859

6 жыл бұрын

• Roots • Finally someone said it!

@oreo-sr2pq

6 жыл бұрын

• Roots • Trueeee!!!

@Night-Shade.

6 жыл бұрын

How are these not deemed problems? Hook up culture, dating in the closet, racism ? Seems like legit issues

@davidbrussard-composer7372

6 жыл бұрын

There's no need to insult people for not liking the video. People all have different problems, and if they didn't relate to this video that doesn't mean that they are being idiots.

Being labeled with the wrong sexuality

@TheLugiaSong

6 жыл бұрын

Yes! People just presume your sexuality based on seemingly nothing. I've even had a fellow LGBT member presuming I was straight(they literally said 'I presume you're straight') I get why hetronormativity(?) is a thing, but it's kinda frustrating.

@ashtonhopkins7362

6 жыл бұрын

Mint Mochi I’m pansexual since I haven’t dated a boy in a while. My friend thought I was polysexual. So I had to explain

@C_And_P

5 жыл бұрын

Haha, I get that 99.9% of the time. People always assume I'm lesbian. I'm not even in the LGBTQ+ community unless I ever figure out if I'm heterosexual or asexual.

@ashtonhopkins7362

5 жыл бұрын

Speaking Jacksonese OOF

@C_And_P

5 жыл бұрын

@@ashtonhopkins7362 Oof indeed. xD

At 0:48, it says “Asian Men,” the correct spelling. At 0:49, it becomes “Aisian Men.”

@arionthedeer7372

3 жыл бұрын

Aeiasieyuyion men

I'm Bisexual, I've been asked out by someone of the same gender, and told someone of the opposite gender that I liked them, they like me back. I believe all is in my favour.

@marinaomai9052

3 жыл бұрын

happy for you :)

@sherueatyourbestfriend6791

2 жыл бұрын

Bro tf, just because you're bisexual doesn't mean you can date 2 ppl wtf

Maaan....i wish my parents accepted me.

@squidystrawbs

6 жыл бұрын

haha same, whenever they found out that I was bi (I hadn't come out to them yet) they flipped out and bought me a bible. they didn't disown me though, which shows that there's a bit of hope. :,D

@anothercub6958

6 жыл бұрын

Why would you want them to accept you? You have to accept you. That way, if they don't accept you, you don't have to force them to. Idk if this comes off the wrong way, but sometimes, you just gotta be the one to have your own back. Who cares if your parents don't accept you? You can't force them to, just accept what they contributed in shaping the person you became and just live on.

@angads.9819

6 жыл бұрын

Dylan Wolfie thanks..that gave me a little hope

@anothercub6958

6 жыл бұрын

Angad Seeagra No prob dude. My situation is pretty easy to get off from tbh. I'm not the kind of guy that is too touchy or even attached to his family that much. Call it apathy, but I just don't mention it to my mom because she doesn't really need to know. And you parents probably don't need to know either, ya know?

@angads.9819

6 жыл бұрын

Dylan Wolfie but i live in India,so u know.....

It is sad there is still hatred towards people for any reason. my favorite place was "the gay bar" we had in our town. Its closed now from bad business practices (money managing)... but that place felt like the future honestly because everyone got along and was accepting of one another. Something I believe in 100 years people will be learning of the hatred and such.

@Aerosklice

6 жыл бұрын

NidgeDFX a gay café is an awesome concept tbh, it's for all ages, it's calm, seem good.

@niklasfriedl6144

6 жыл бұрын

Rose 'n' Pink why do gays need a special cafe

@theinternetpolice4365

6 жыл бұрын

NidgeDFX It closing had nothing to due with predjudice, you said that it was an overall shady buisness.

@theoofsweden

6 жыл бұрын

You really think it’s possible to end hate? Good luck with that lol

@emargaux

6 жыл бұрын

I wish that straight people and gay people can just be lumped together. It doesn't have to be called a "gay" bar, it can just be called a bar. It doesn't have to be called "gay" marriage, it can just be called marriage. Equally treated with straight people, a gay person can be with another gay person, and it doesn't have to be such a big deal. Straight couples can go to a gay cafe, no problem. Gay couples can go to a straight cafe, no problem on that either. It's really sad that we still have to hide.

As a pansexual transgender man, it’s always so nerve wracking when I’m trying to hook up with someone or date someone. Like if my partner is a gay guy, would they like me for my personality and gender? Or turn me away due to my genitals? I’ve also gotten confused as just a lesbian and people saying I would be good with this one chick who is in fact a lesbian. It’s exhausting at times and I get anxious just thinking about it. I just wanna be lovvveeeddddd!

@regan.g13

4 жыл бұрын

Aw my dude, don't worry. You will find love. :)

@greategg7159

3 жыл бұрын

I am gay and i think it isn't about genitals it is about brain and personality.

@toyotawitha20mm35

20 күн бұрын

I'm gay, no ill intent, but I will only date a guy with all the male parts.. because we'll, that's what makes me gay, I am a homosexual, and sorry for being blunt here, but I like dick and a lot of other stuff that is exclusive to biological males. Either way I respect Trans people and they are valid imo

@toyotawitha20mm35

20 күн бұрын

I'm gay, no ill intent, but I will only date a guy with all the male parts.. because we'll, that's what makes me gay, I am a homosexual, and sorry for being blunt here, but I like dick and a lot of other stuff that is exclusive to biological males. Either way I respect Trans people and they are valid imo

I decided one day hEy imma ask if she is lgbtq Me: "Hey *name* are you lgbtq" Her: "Nope! I'm straight" :) Me: "oH oK" I was dying

@hurtfameprussian1097

4 жыл бұрын

You was dying, because of someone being straight? What is wrong with you, young teen?

@Areallykissablecactus

3 жыл бұрын

@@hurtfameprussian1097 Bruh

@SandyKayD

3 жыл бұрын

@@hurtfameprussian1097 lmao. It was there crush, of course it was going to hurt. I once liked someone for 3+ years. We where childhood friends, i asked them if i could date them and she said "Sorry, i only date boys" and then purposely ignored me. She started to back away and act weird around me, even if i was doing nothing.. it kinda still hurts speaking that she was really my only friend i knew irl that was always there for me

@lingotss8392

3 жыл бұрын

@@SandyKayD You creeped her out. What do you expect?

Lesbian Datig Culture is knowing you both like each other and doing nothing about it.

@Josue-mv2fo

6 жыл бұрын

TIMOTHY YOUNG You know that stereotype of ‘guys ask first’, I’m pretty sure it’s something like that

@guachead

6 жыл бұрын

Andrea The Loser this is litterlay me and my crush and what's even funnier is that we just hug each other like where friends but in the middle of the hug we just look at each other like I like u alot!!!!!!

@venus5562

6 жыл бұрын

BlueLemon THANK YOU lesbians always get portrayed terribly in the media as abusive or predatory, finally some facts

@nbgaf1040

6 жыл бұрын

Here's some statistical data from the CDC and UCLA Law along with LGBT groups promoting awareness of LBGT DV issues. This is not old outdated homophobic whatever the hell you're selling. This is from 2014. Why don't you care about this issue. Nobody should be committing DV acts against their partner regardless of their orientation. mainweb-v.musc.edu/vawprevention/lesbianrx/factsheet.shtml www.advocate.com/crime/2014/09/04/2-studies-prove-domestic-violence-lgbt-issue www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2013/p0125_NISVS.html williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/Intimate-Partner-Violence-and-Sexual-Abuse-among-LGBT-People.pdf The CDC’s 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey, released again in 2013 with new analysis, reports in its first-ever study focusing on victimization by sexual orientation that the lifetime prevalence of rape, physical violence, or stalking by an intimate partner was 43.8 percent for lesbians, 61.1 percent for bisexual women, and 35 percent for heterosexual women, while it was 26 percent for gay men, 37.3 percent for bisexual men, and 29 percent for heterosexual men (this study did not include gender identity or expression). Intimate Partner Violence and Sexual Abuse among LGBT People 3 Table I. Prevalence of Lifetime Intimate Partner Violence and Intimate Partner Sexual Lifetime intimate partner violence table on page 3 of the PDF states that lesbians experience 40% lifetime intimate partner violence It's right there on the 3rd page of that report. I'd be more polite but, with all due respect, pull your head out of your ass. It's annoying to me that people that are supposedly pro LBGTIA ignore any problematic data that doesnt fit their perspective. Meanwhile real people suffer at their peril. Stuff like this makes me believe you are willfully ignorant rather than just plain uninformed.

@chickennuggets3186

6 жыл бұрын

NBGAF then you were lying, lesbians arent the most likely to be in an abusive relationship, so you're still wrong, by your own sources :T

0:51 "Aisian men"

@Theworldofef

6 жыл бұрын

a p a t h e t i c Made even better because she changed it from the correct spelling to the wrong one

@iwantunalive8353

6 жыл бұрын

Iniria Kampf LMAO

@MissStinkers

6 жыл бұрын

a p a t h e t i c my favorite part is where she corrected the Aisian Men part but then she wrote South Asian Men

@AnubisTheMaster

6 жыл бұрын

This shows you how much they care about their chaotic politics insthead of ACTUALLY informing people and putting care into their work... cmon Aisian??? AISIAN !?

@SavannahCorp

6 жыл бұрын

When they fixed it but kept it there lol

Took 5 years to find my dream girl in my small town, and surprisingly I’ve known her my whole life 😊 honestly when we first met I was terrified of her, and she hated me, thinking I was weird. No more tho! We’re very close to a year together!

@fla8623

3 жыл бұрын

Aww that's so cute. Hopefully that would happen to me too.😂😂😂

A moment of silence for us small town people please. Thank you.

@luvmyglocks

3 жыл бұрын

T_T

Transphobia definitely deserves it's own video, also the list could include biphobia

@theobservantsome9095

6 жыл бұрын

But overall this was a very informative and considerate video!

@NimhLabs

6 жыл бұрын

+Afonso Martins Yeah... that is not a real disorder. I mean, Autism IS a real disorder... Gender Disphoria is not.

@awkward-scarfy-boi9400

6 жыл бұрын

Under the umbrella of transphobia, genderfluid people are told to pick a gender or that their gender isn’t real.

@penguinpinata

6 жыл бұрын

Afonso Martins - actually - back when parents used to send children in to have lobotomies if they suspected the child was gay or effeminate - in which a doctor would shove a hot poker violently into the skull of a child through their eye , mess up their brain permanently , and let them loose into a house and world that would still fear them forever - they DID diagnose people with something called Gender Disphoria . Well done ! Unfortunately , that diagnosis has been referred to as " incredibly harmful " by " qualified psychologists and doctors " in the modern era , as the people diagnosed with it - aren't actually suffering from anything . When people try to " cure " it , it usually involves teaching a child to hate themselves and become afraid of existing as a person . Often , the victims will spiral into depression among other wonderful things I'm sure you'd love for me to describe in detail . so as a bit of an expert on the matter - leave us alone u w o

@penguinpinata

6 жыл бұрын

Kerosin - it is almost by definition transphobic to cut anyone out because you don't understand them , genderfluid people included . That's the whole reason we're alienated in the first place : by being someone who someone else doesn't understand . We're in this together - period . Genderfluidity is caused by shifts in brain activity which in other individuals are often set in stone . It is just as valid as whatever gender you , I , or anyone else you know is feeling right now . Also , although I'm not genderfluid , I am nonbinary - and I happen to actually be a big fan of the democratic process . And because you dragged it out - I now have to mention : how we were born doesn't change what either of us say . :P

I think you missed internalized homophobia. Some gay people also don't like the idea of being gay at all and will choose not to even if they find a compatible partner they could love or see themselves loving. This type of gay person will typically shun themselves (not necessarily others but can as well) of anything to do with being gay. They may even get into straight relationships and marry as well basically forcing themselves to live the lifestyle they believe they should have.

@thecatface8255

5 жыл бұрын

Not a dating problem

@shibba2517

5 жыл бұрын

TheCatFace Kingdom but he's right. That pathetic

@mimimarcus

5 жыл бұрын

​@@thecatface8255 It is a dating problem, a big one at that. As an openly gay man, I've dated quite a few men who eventually decide to stay closeted and even lead double lives by marrying straight women and cheating on them with men.

@thecatface8255

5 жыл бұрын

@@mimimarcus Maybe its not homophobia? Honestly things like interlaized homophobia and more internalized shit is the biggest BS to ever exist. Maybe those people are BISEXUAL not homosexuals and they are unfaithful and cheat? Maybe its as simple as that? But internalized homophobia MOSTLY gets used against people who magically stop agreeing with LGBTQ+ Community

@mkay8229

2 жыл бұрын

I used to be like that always told myself "I think women are cute but I will never marry or date a women" it took me years to realise that dating and marrying girls is okay.

“You can be gay because you don’t look gay enough” this affects me deeply

It's mentally exhausting for me 20 years looking for boyfriend meanwhile in my country being gay is prohibited. Also, many gay men here just want to having one night stand, not long term. My body issue also prohibited myself to looking guy for date, I'm fat, ugly (I'm looking like a female) and I'm having anxiety and adhd. I'm 37 years old. After all I'm just give up on relationship, god might give me the best choice for me to be forever alone.

@endofaneraoutnow3473

3 жыл бұрын

Surgery. And move to america

someone having a crush on you when your aromantic and not wanting to hurt them

@stray_bad_dog_

5 жыл бұрын

This is too true-

@neamhdhlisteanach6720

5 жыл бұрын

isnt this for anyone who isnt aromantic too? im gay and a gay boy had a crush on me and i didnt want to hurt him either bc i wasnt attracted to him

@GhostSoapO

4 жыл бұрын

And asexual. Asexuals need to be more accepted. Pan-romantic Asexual ♠️

You are very inclusive and kind keep doing. Sending lots of love and positive vibes

@tudoraragornofgreyscot8482

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry no, this is just giving people more of an excuse to shame someone that doesn’t date them because they don’t fit into the other persons preferences. Some people will be attracted to you and some won’t, some will want just sex, some want to date. Most of these are not just LGBT issues. Be honest in who you are and what you’re lookin’ for and you will encounter less hang ups.

@Raynnie

6 жыл бұрын

TrueMenAreIslands 🤔😏

@seasorablue

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, totally! I can personally relate to most of the problems listed in the video and I really appreciate the inclusivity of this channel. There's no hesitation or awkwardness to their LGBTQ+ vids and it's really nice. Love the positivity!

@penguinpinata

5 жыл бұрын

@@Raynnie I think you've found a conservative 9 w 9

@EnkiDerMenschenfreund

5 жыл бұрын

Lol thats a pretty gay comment

"You're bisexual? Cool you got double the chances of finding someone" Me:well sense everyone else seems to think all bisexual people are sleeping around nobody wants us so double 0 is still 0

@rakata1987

2 жыл бұрын

Dw. As a gay guy bi men are way better.

Im hiding in the closet but i have a gf (idk about strangers the only thing are my school and family.. )ITS SO HARD TO LIVE A DOUBLE LIFE!

@fenlit2949

5 жыл бұрын

Samee

@atomicactivity2379

5 жыл бұрын

So don't.

@salamisandwichletsplay4416

4 жыл бұрын

Smh...

@mgtccnl

4 жыл бұрын

It’s been 8 months. I hope you came out and live a happy life with your girl

@rakata1987

2 жыл бұрын

@@atomicactivity2379 Its not that easy.

You forgot how its very difficult for partners or to find anyone who is accepting of Asexuals (not Aromantic). Not many people are Ace and its hard to find someone accepting of it

@SDayle

6 жыл бұрын

THIS! I've yet to find another asexual person where I live. It's almost impossible.

@derpfox3384

6 жыл бұрын

Allen Sickle omg yes, where i live its hardly possible too

@F38U

6 жыл бұрын

Then have sex like everyone on planet

@felineleijon8065

6 жыл бұрын

Corvo's Ignorant Videos That's not how asexuality works. But anyway, I feel you! Everyone wants sex and I'm just like?? ? I like dragons???

@F38U

6 жыл бұрын

Feline Leijon you are just being a snowflake

I'm gay and nobody wants me but this video really opened my mind a lot and educated me so thanks :)

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@kyrlics6515

6 жыл бұрын

Princess Pentagram not me I knew dis

@princesspentagram3458

6 жыл бұрын

Sato el Gato This broke my heart reading it I've dated trans people before I hate the prejudice they face it's disgusting but I wish you all the best with your journey and hope you find someone who loves you for the amazing person you are ❤️

@princesspentagram3458

6 жыл бұрын

Kyrlics Forgive my ignorance then but I only very recently came out and I'm new to this and the dating scene as a whole

@princesspentagram3458

6 жыл бұрын

Sato el Gato You are more than welcome I feel your pain been single going on four years now I gave up hope long ago I wish I could have a cat where I live but sadly can't yet but if you ever want someone to talk to about anything my email is in my channel description

Video:"WhAt Do YoUr GeNiTaLs LoOk LiKe?" My mind full of experience from memes:"HaMbUrGeR"

Especially when everyone hates you for it

‘Some people prefer to keep their sexuality secret’ Then there’s me Whenever I meet a new person I’m like ‘hONEY IM LESBIAN AS *F U C K* ‘ Edit: oh look at those likessss plus this is a joke btw cus some people are taking it a bit seriously there heh

@julietterousseau7123

6 жыл бұрын

Nirim Does Stuff literally same except around my family

@Yeah-fo5dr

6 жыл бұрын

Nirim Does Stuff DiSgUsTaNg

@MCarlos15

6 жыл бұрын

Nirim Does Stuff The first thing everyone knows about you is your sexual orientation?

@nirim_does_stuff

6 жыл бұрын

Carlos S. *y e s*

@cryptandtaro

6 жыл бұрын

omg yes 😂❤️

One problem I find difficult is being asexual, as being with a person who is sexually active may not want you when they find you aren’t

@tomasvrabec1845

6 жыл бұрын

Abby Cosgrove I am only wondering, ofcoure this might be frlm person to person, if as an asexual person you would kiss or not. Sorry if I am being personal :(

@FantosmeEntertainment

6 жыл бұрын

While I agree that it does vary person to person on how far they want to take the sensual/physical part of the relationship, being sex-positive, sex-neutral, or sex-repulsed is something that can be an occurrence in any sexuality (albeit its more prominently found within the Asexual Community since it is more accepted there than in the Allosexual Communities for numerous reasons). My biological mother is heterosexual and is massively sex-repulsed while I myself am asexual and sex-neutral.

Ok heres one they didnt talk about. It os SO hard to tell when a girl is into you, not because you you dont know if they like girls or not, but because girls who are friends cuddle with each other, and hold hands and are generally affectionate, so it doesn't work when you want to show them you like them by touching them, or trying to get closer to them

@xXspottyXx

2 жыл бұрын

Yes,sadly true

I feel like I need to point out that the first three aren’t unique to the lgbtq+ community and can happen in heterosexual dating.

The new animation style is really nice =D

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Glad you like it! Yeah, we do a lot of white board speed drawings! But we're working on it!

@randomuser5443

6 жыл бұрын

Liked to see the old mixed this the new flowing animation

@asmylia9880

6 жыл бұрын

mgmn wait what are you doing here? owo

@sadfacekira

6 жыл бұрын

Living Flower I'm everywhere >:)

@asmylia9880

6 жыл бұрын

mgmn just curious, why you're here? U gay? KappaPride

Don't some of these also count for heterosexual couples?

@mysryuza

6 жыл бұрын

Of course. It's a sexuality after all. They suffer some similar problems.

@alexisorr8182

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah a lot of these are also problems in heterosexual couples but some are exclusive to the LBGTQ+ community, and some are just more prevalent in that community.

@Drehgab

6 жыл бұрын

Well yeah but heterosexuals are supposedly the majority so this video is putting the lgbt+ community at the centre which rarely happens (it is getting better but still rare)

@lukas4112

6 жыл бұрын

yes but they aren't as bad as in lgbt couples

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Yes, of course. Many of the problems can be universally true for all relationships. But we wanted this to be the context of LGBTQ

I’m transgender And my bae is str8 ..6 years in a relationship and yes we’re dating while in the closet.. I’m mean it’s hard for me but we make it work.. what important is that we both know that we love each other and our families knew... though his friends doesn’t and some of our neighbors don’t know...it’s really a challenge

problem 9: being aroace and not being able to relate to any of this despite being lgbtq+

@liltomboy2593

5 жыл бұрын

i am a cupioromantic but sameeeee

@enitsu393

4 жыл бұрын

@@liltomboy2593 oh god theres more sexuality i can even. HOW IS THERE MORE. If hear anymore im gonna quit sexuality

@liltomboy2593

4 жыл бұрын

@@enitsu393 I would have forgotten this comment existed lol if you hadn't replied. So update: I'm grey-aromantic, btw. A friend of mine is akoiromantic.

@Nyabot-mh2zi

4 жыл бұрын

@@enitsu393 uhm-

When I was 12 I was very deep into the closet as a trans woman. I ended up sexting a likely pedophile who was just fetishizing me and had no care for my feelings. When I was 13 I had a crush on a boy but I was still closeted. I confessed my affection for him. He wasn’t gay so in order to make it better I said I was going to be woman. Yeah that went as well as you’d think

@t-dude352

3 жыл бұрын

Okay 1st one Stay away from that guy And 2nd one That was a dumb play my dude

When you have a crush on someone but their straight ._.

@beep898

6 жыл бұрын

Koolkidjr6 That's tough. But don't force it

@goggledbea1754

6 жыл бұрын

Koolkidjr6 related

@crystal_nymph1537

6 жыл бұрын

Yup! I got rejected. 😢

@C_And_P

5 жыл бұрын

@Panic! because Crazy Catz is emo As a heterosexual/asexual woman, same here. Specifically the feminine gay ones.

@heckheck4053

5 жыл бұрын

@Panic! because Crazy Catz is emo Dude I'm always attracted to either straight girls or gay guys. I'm pan haha (gender fluid too)

I’m blessed with a friendly town. Tho I’m non-binary, no one ever judged me cuz of it.

2:42 That's my problem. I live in a small city :( 3:11 My biggest problem is this. I'm still in the closet :'(

A lot of these issues aren’t lgbt exclusive sskskksk

@feverenchantress

5 жыл бұрын

hi komaeda

#8 is why I'm still single. Trans and dating is scary

I’m bi and I can relate to all of these

My last ex found out I was bi, so she accused me of wanting to cheat and get into my friends pants as well as my father's. 🤮🤮🤢

Yeah, being a bisexual trans guy, I can relate to a lot of these. Unfortunately, I'm not out as trans yet, so my girlfriend keeps calling me her girlfriend. I hate it so much, but I'm really not in a position where I can come out right now.

@Ricky-nn3be

5 жыл бұрын

Check out Jammidodger's channel. He's a trans guy who's bi! You'll ADORE him I SWEAR! You'll LOVE his channel!

@moonwalkerqueenbslayin6230

4 жыл бұрын

I'm bi and pans and I think that's beautiful 😍

@raincityrc8724

4 жыл бұрын

Same but i don't have a GF/BF

@l.d.n.9443

4 жыл бұрын

Aww… I do hope you'll get this sorted out. I wish you best of luck and hope that you'll be in a position to make it comfortable for both of you soon.

@HHeLiBeBCNOF

Жыл бұрын

Same, i am also a trans guy. Unfortunatly i am pretty feminine so i think people will judge me bcz of that :’

Panny (pansexual person,it's just a nickname...;-;) here! I'm a whole-hearted LGBTQP+ supporter, however...my sis always questions why I support LGBT+ people so much. I feel bad when people say "You're going to hell for being gay!!!" or "God hates gay!" or all the other ways people shame LGBT+, all the kids at my school used being gay as an insult or something to shame or pick on people for, it gets me really mad! Donuts and Doodles i'm out!

@akrobeau

5 жыл бұрын

Same people use gay as an insult and i want to crush their eyes

@sta3802

5 жыл бұрын

going to hell for being gay is, how i see it, just a made up thing by some homophobe/transphobe/whateverphobe in reality, Galatians 3:28 is saying how everyone is equal to jesus no matter who you are

@annabelfeeney6437

5 жыл бұрын

In my school they literally banned the word gay (when used as an insult).

@funandcooljokes

5 жыл бұрын

There is no P+

I came out as a gay recently , my parents FREAKED out when i told them , my mom said she would never accept a gay son in her house . I talked about tath with my best friend luan and he invited me to stay on his house , he is like a brother to me and was always a supportive friend even if we fight sometimes haha , i hope things get better with my family etc .. I really Just want them to understand i cant change myself . Also sorry for my bad english , im brasilian. Obs : Luan is my BEST FRIEND , i feel like I should say it bc almost everyone thinks we are in a relationship , and he is heterosexual .

@hurtfameprussian1097

4 жыл бұрын

Tell her the fact, that girls fart by two sides, and they're worse than yours, ewww!... Then you should tell her the different body structures, features, like the genitals, and why you prefer yours! If they still dislike you, tell them you won't reproduce, and if they are young enough, to get a desired child!

@luggd8878

3 жыл бұрын

espero que as coisas melhorem pra vc, ou que já tenham melhorado :3

a thing thats also a pretty annoying problem for me is that,if you have a lesser known sexuality,and you start dating someone and come out to them,your always scared of beeing accused of "faking" "moking the lgbtq+" "fell for the trend to come out as something" and so on.. Sometimes even this hate comes from other Lgbtq+ members,and it hurts even more then:'(

DID ANYONE NOTICE THAT THE TOP LEFT HAND HAS NO FINGERNAIL!!!? 4:20

@AvalynTheAccursed

5 жыл бұрын

Holy shit..... I can't think of something completely stupid to say about that. Help.

@fefelio8389

5 жыл бұрын

Stop pointing out people, they might eat your fingernails

@plutog3510

5 жыл бұрын

@@fefelio8389 oh nooo

@clarkepercivaljaeblood4886

5 жыл бұрын

SparkyStarLPS You mean 4:22

@RandomHuman91

5 жыл бұрын

It doesn’t matter

And then there are ace problems.....

@Aerosklice

6 жыл бұрын

M. Stam I HAVE NO ACES FRIENDS it's hard to find aces, even if I live in a great city. ;-;

@swtormadness

6 жыл бұрын

Ace says hello :) I somehow had enough luck to bump into three different aces at my university, who were in the same group as me (it was really weird lol, one of them actually helped me discover I am ace), but now I don't see any of them anymore and the only way to contact aces is Internet, Discord, AceApp... For me it's great, but I know that not everybody are satisfied with online friends only :( I don't know if it helps, but you are not alone. There is a lot aces out there! We just suck at bumping into each other ^^"

@avidarois5505

6 жыл бұрын

Me and my friend were the ace and bi™ team in the school. We were both out in our class, but not to the school.

@swtormadness

6 жыл бұрын

It kinda sounds cool when I imagine it like some accepting club of people, who would fight in your behalf... Oo

@swtormadness

6 жыл бұрын

Then you have to say that people with red hair are not real too (1% - 2% of the whole human population on Earth), because there is not so many more of them than there is Aces on the world. Do you know that 1% of the population is basically more than the population of the whole France? Also 1% is only conventional number, so there may be even more Aces than 1%. Maybe 1,5% or even 2%, so saying that Aces are not real is kinda stupid. It's like erasing over 76 000 000 people. Some studies about asexual people, who are certaintly real: www.researchgate.net/publication/275278342_Asexuality_What_It_Is_and_Why_It_Matters

Short answer: it sucks unless you're really attractive

me, a pansexual constantly being told is bi and invalid: h-hi? my issues?

@lemonlime9683

4 жыл бұрын

You deserve to be invalidated if you choose to identify as a fake sexuality

@lemonlime9683

4 жыл бұрын

@@sekiomoon2454 no there isn't

@bonthebunnycat667

3 жыл бұрын

@@lemonlime9683 Yes there is, bi people can like 2 or more genders, Pan people don't really care about gender. Pan people are valid

@lemonlime9683

3 жыл бұрын

@@bonthebunnycat667 I'm bi and I don't care about gender. Pan was literally just created because people were annoyed about how more and more people were bi so they made up pan.

@bonthebunnycat667

3 жыл бұрын

@@lemonlime9683 Some people feel more comfortable with Pan because they don't care about gender, why don't let them vibe with that label?