Do you know someone who you don't trust? 😭😭 Watch 7 Things Only Fake Friends Do next to see if the signs applies to you kzread.info/dash/bejne/eoZhstmshcTfiZM.html

@jsjsnsbabwbabsnebsb5253

3 жыл бұрын

Hi :D

@wimebpress3836

3 жыл бұрын

everyone

@PumpkinSpiceCat

3 жыл бұрын

Hello, I act like something I'm not, I don't even know what I am actually, can you make a video like "how to find out hwo you really are"?? I really need that

@twilight3304

3 жыл бұрын

@@wimebpress3836 😔 I feel that

@shanelledalmeida

3 жыл бұрын

Well, this helped because I tend to trust too easily and maybe I have quite been sort of hurt when people stab me in the back... Now I won't trust people after what I have learnt from this video

“5. People who can’t make up their minds” Overthinkers: *Maybe I am untrustworthy*

@cutedummyd7521

3 жыл бұрын

relatable

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

please don't remind me 😞

@holly205

3 жыл бұрын

:”)

@11475llen

3 жыл бұрын

#relatable

@nandarani4002

3 жыл бұрын

@@11475llen yup #waytooridiculouslyrelatable

Being able to reject the people that are untrustworthy/toxic to you has got to be one of the most important skills to achieve, because if not done it can slowly deteriorate the quality of your life!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

This is a good comment! Hope more people can read this!

@optimusprime1848

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go I Agree.

@sabnamarju7964

3 жыл бұрын

How to stay away from thosw?

@jojosmom8819

3 жыл бұрын

@@sabnamarju7964 Learn to have will power and discipline but above all, self love♥️...

@Freespiritedqueen

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go your channel has the goods! OP comment should have top billing!👍🏼👍🏼

8) People in active addiction 9) people who lie in front of you. If they are willing to be seen lying to others, they'll have no problem lying to you.

@finished6267

3 жыл бұрын

Painfully true. Learn the hard way.

@MonkeyDYumi

3 жыл бұрын

Not true. Just another generalization based off on personal experiences and nothing else.

@devlevine2782

3 жыл бұрын

The psychopath neighbor and exfriend lied from day 1 until 10 months latter when I realized she was a psychopath and the only way to get rid of her since she was persistent was to blackmail her with the text messages she sent. I'm still finding out the truth about her lies

@BillRoyMcBill

3 жыл бұрын

@@MonkeyDYumi Have you looked into any 12 step programs?

@I-Am-Prosperous-I-Am-Grateful

3 жыл бұрын

10) narcissists.

Canceling or canceling last minute can also be anxiety. Being a good friend means being aware of that. Canceling doesn't always mean they are a bad person or friend.

@midoriinchan2520

3 жыл бұрын

I used to cancel meetings according to events in my life, last time I cancelled an outing I was hospitalised! so it's not always an indicator for a bad person...

@Hakoona

3 жыл бұрын

I agree so much

@joannaansara2115

3 жыл бұрын

I always cancel, it's just that I always think of the worst...

@youtubeaccount6726

2 жыл бұрын

It probably meant people who cheat or something, like those who can't make up their minds whether or not they want to be with someone.

@robertboberson9776

2 жыл бұрын

sure they're a bad friend they just wish they weren't and you feel sorry for them

"People Who Can't Make Up Their Minds" Me Who Can't Make up My Mind : I Guess I Should Not Trust Myself

@W00fle

3 жыл бұрын

_* W h e e z e *_

@hel2727

3 жыл бұрын

are you sure? maybe.. well, actually. no, i don't agree. but do i really?

@f.p1758

3 жыл бұрын

Ikr Inaccurate/unclear point

@mille1142

3 жыл бұрын

No u should . We all should first belive in ourselves and the rest will change itself God will help those who can be a good person and serve the people. Every god is Equal - every god says to be a good person and spread love. -To do good and to be good is the whole of religion.

@decemberlotus

3 жыл бұрын

Try on my shoes too! Being remade! Not even my choice 🤡

Trust takes immense effort to build and can be lost in a matter of seconds.

@marswmnwhoever1365

3 жыл бұрын

Trust needs to be EARNED...do not give it without actions that back up that they are trustworthy.

@drncubenaturalherbalremedi5438

3 жыл бұрын

Disease and infection research

@drncubenaturalherbalremedi5438

3 жыл бұрын

Envíame un correo electrónico para trabajo privado Drncube03@gmail.com

@e.wilson9613

3 жыл бұрын

True.

@rachelsimbhu4383

3 жыл бұрын

For real !

The worst situation is when u trust someone and tell them about something but instead of helping u they just make the situation worst by changing your words and statements completely and telling other people about the matter and trying to make u the worst person in someone's eye, i have faced many such people so i don't trust anyone around me 🥺

@jessicaolivia3067

3 жыл бұрын

This was my ex-boyfriend 🙃

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah that’s a dick move, I’m so sorry you had go through that 🥺

@niffellbique3744

3 жыл бұрын

I had a roommate like that.. omg wanted to smack tf outta her

I am very cautious with trusting. I have been bullied for 5 years in elementary school and I don’t want to be bullied again. 2 girls once suddenly confronted me and asked a lot of questions about me. No personal ones, just my name, hobbies and likes. But there was one that was very sus. “Do you hate anyone?”. I said someone they were friends with, and normally I would already don’t trust them. I shrugged it off a bit, but never fully did. Next day they ask more questions about me and one was “You like K-Pop, right? Which artists?”. I said BTS, because they’re my favourite band out of all. They said they think that they could die. I was playing it cool, but literally died from inside. A lot of other people came then surrounding us. Since I feel uncomfortable with a lot of strangers, I ran off to the toilet to see what they would do. I was waiting for a long time, then they came in and said: “Where are you?”. They laughed, and I assumed they laughed at me. They came 3 more times and I immediately ran outside when they weren’t there anymore. I walked around the school to make sure they didn’t follow me, and went inside again as soon as next period started. Next day they followed me outside when I was with my friends and were annoying us. I firstly just ignored them, but after some time I said “Hey bitch”. They were so mad, it was kinda funny how they took it. We argued a LONG time and I soon just said: “You know what? I’m going inside, you’re wasting my time.”. They were so shook XD. I immediately told one of my favourite teachers so they couldn’t frame me. She talked with them and said that they need to let me in peace, then nothing will happen. If they would still annoy me, I could go to her again. They stopped, but I still think they are trying something. I hope nothing goes wrong...

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you have your favorite teacher to help you out! If it continues to happen again, do speak up to your favorite teacher. Their action towards you isn't right.

@liamm6208

3 жыл бұрын

Bro if I went to School right now and that happened to me I would literally spend my snack and lunch breaks with one of my favourite Teachers and talk to them in the staff room with all of the other teachers for an entire year and right now that I rarely ever see my favourite Teachers I wish School was a place to live instead of home because without them it's almost impossible to change who I am as a person especially with my Anxiety and mental health issues 😔

Its showtime (again): 1. People who spread secrets 0:45 2. People who talk badly about others 1:15 3. People who lack self-awarness 1:51 4. People who lack emphaty 2:23 5. People who cant make up their minds 2:51 6. People who dont take no for an answer 3:18 7. People who act differently around others 3:51 Do you think i have a better job?

@notVulture

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I guess :>

@mariskad8405

3 жыл бұрын

But nobodys perfect 🤷‍♀️

@Milo-nw1cu

3 жыл бұрын

thanks dude

@danieluwu4235

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, kind human

@mohtaseemrahman4657

3 жыл бұрын

Another person you should add to this list is a person who is very selfish.

for number 7 (3:52), keep in mind that people bringing out different parts of your personality is *not* the same as changing yourself around different groups. being two-faced, changing morals and image, is not the same as being yourself in the truest way your friends bring out 🥰💖✨

@a_sort_of_artist_7259

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that, because I got really worried there for a second 😅

@Esther-ty2ow

3 жыл бұрын

@@a_sort_of_artist_7259 Yhh same as I act very differently when I'm with my parents and when I'm with my classmates

@bagelqueen7555

3 жыл бұрын

What if they act differently around you bc they liked u...

@makil1541

3 жыл бұрын

Totally agree.

@LemonbreadSC

3 жыл бұрын

only reason I act different around people is to avoid politics and because not everyone knows my gender identity

I tend to be two-faced not for my own image, but for the happiness of others. If I find something that makes someone I care about happy, I’ll change the way I behave to make them happy. I feel as though my existence serves no purpose than to please others. I’ll act like a sweet kid around my parents so they’re happy. I’ll act however my partner wants to make them happy. I know that everyone would be less happy if I was my authentic self. And at this point I’m so far away from that, I’ve forgotten what I really even am. I feel so meaningless. Nobody likes me, they like the me I’ve created to please them. There’s barely anything left of the real me. I feel so empty.

@tejasthetomboy1895

Жыл бұрын

Hey dude I can understand how you feel but then ,you cannot fake urself like this forever,ur the best u can cross any hurdle, my friend please try being urself orelse u may end up hating urself,u may feel worthless one or the other day in the end u won't be happy and satisfied Being urself is the strongest step in ur life don't lose ur authenticity for anyone I'm damn sure that ur parents and friends will understand you, and eventually accept u for the who u are 😇😇😇💜💜💜i wish that u overcome ur problem bravely I'm sure u can do it 💜💜💜💜💜💜

These are literally all of my five sisters because of being raised by an dysfunctional mother and wonderful father. My brother was dysfunctional also and I loved him immensely. He passed away three yrs.ago. My father stayed at work or on the road as much as possible. Not to be arrogant but I am the normal one. I take after my dad.

*Trust* Just like a glass.. When it broke, and get fixed, It will never be the same...

@twilight3304

3 жыл бұрын

Thats deeper that my sleep..

@crown9755

3 жыл бұрын

You can protect the glass

@chihomayorakacringeacc4458

3 жыл бұрын

Jajs al chile q profundo (?

@cuacmusic

3 жыл бұрын

@@chihomayorakacringeacc4458 xd

@ramneetkalra7866

3 жыл бұрын

It will always have the cracks....

When most of your friends are like this and you just realized that it's why you have trust issues

@hel2727

3 жыл бұрын

can't have that problem if you don't have any friends or keep people at distance 👌

@yousraadil728

3 жыл бұрын

Am sorry about that

@teehee9251

3 жыл бұрын

facts

@danieldamata9199

3 жыл бұрын

I am in that position now, letting go of many many friendships, healing wounds and slowly opening to new, better friends.

@michealwarren6681

3 жыл бұрын

Get better friends

The art is getting adorable and I love it💕💕

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Shall we do more of these animation style? What other animation work do you like the most?

@EruLich

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go yes please! I love how there’s more colors!!

One thing about flaky people that makes it really difficult: they seem to really like talking to you and treat you like a close friend when talking. I keep wanting to give these people chances, but of course, keep letting me down by ignoring me, canceling plans or sudden decide to take an interest in you again out of nowhere even when you want to avoid them or you thought they were bored of you.

3:17 My mom: *_That sign won’t stop me cause I can’t read it_*

@luvrgirlzoe

3 жыл бұрын

me too lol

@W00fle

3 жыл бұрын

Lmaooo

@eve8006

3 жыл бұрын

How is this 2 month ago......

@i.ate.flygon

3 жыл бұрын

@@eve8006 I think there’s a glitch or something cause the other comments are like that.

@guccion

3 жыл бұрын

@@eve8006 it's an unlisted vidéo

people who lack empathy are people who should never be managers!!! Dealing with a terrible manager right now

@cutedummyd7521

3 жыл бұрын

:( can sense the frustration

@angelheart863

3 жыл бұрын

Sadly it's the cut throat people who get to lord it over other people.

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

I’m happy I don’t lack it 😭

@2ndhandanxiety719

3 жыл бұрын

Yes, and empathy lackers are often made managers unfortunately. The idea of being manager attracts dumb, over confident people. A lot more businesses should utilize psychology, as it’s mostly about interactions with people!

@SoldierOfFate

3 жыл бұрын

Unfortunately you have to be an emotionless maniac to be a manager. It's almost a compulsory requirement.

i tell people things and they say 'i wont tell anyone', but sometimes they message me and start spilling secrets other people told them not to tell

I remember my mom telling me this when I was little ...I used to be so sensitive and easy to harm , but now Im more careful abt ppl around me , its hard at first to get them out of ur life , but please ...your mental health and your feelings must be your first priority , you will feel much better after. Sorry my english isn't my first language, Im still learning hehe . 🐰

1. People who spread secrets 0:47 2. People who talk badly about others 1:16 3. People who lack self awareness 1:51 4. People who lack empathy 2:25 5. People who can't make up their minds 2:53 6. People who don't take NO for an answer 3:17 7. People who act differently around others 3:52

@shazzzz

3 жыл бұрын

thank you

@Chreal

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you time traveler

@Sangchi.

3 жыл бұрын

The first one is my sister- 😔

@vijzon

3 жыл бұрын

wh-- how did you write this 2 months ago? Was it open to patrons or something?

@naughtypleasure8712

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you

I really trust everyone and everyone ends up hurting me, there is no such person here who I can trust🙂

@hel2727

3 жыл бұрын

you can only trust yourself since you're the only person that will never leave you.

@twilight3304

3 жыл бұрын

Same and thats why now I can't trust anyone

@twilight3304

3 жыл бұрын

@@hel2727 aww Thank you I needed that

Never trust a rat, whether they ratted you out or someone else.

I don't trust anyone because everyone does these at least once in their lives. I've always had trust issues (i had a school assignment to write a short story about my life and my main theme was trust and connecting with people), due to events earlier this year my trust in everyone across the board, humanity itself, has been shattered

@St4rg8

3 жыл бұрын

No one is perfect. And that’s the hard beauty of reality

This posted after blocking my "friend" who talk behind my back🥰

@tongwannee426

3 жыл бұрын

She needed me to go online class

@sekharthapa184

3 жыл бұрын

I had a friend like that once, but she blocked me

@Riinxan

3 жыл бұрын

*sigh, the timing of this video is also pretty convenient to me ;-; Not gonna tell why, cause I dont wanna talk behind her back even if she does to me..

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Tbh I know my friend talks behind my back and I think it’s fine rn because I gossip so once I can meet my own standards, I’m down to call her out

@SoldierOfFate

3 жыл бұрын

That's funny, this video popped up in my feed shortly after a "friend" burned her bridges with an entire group I'm with, just because many started to speak up against her selfish and self-serving behaviors that were actively hurting everyone else. She didn't claim even the slightest bit when it comes to personal faults and thinks everyone else wronged her.

I think it's just normal to commit some of these sometimes 'cause nobody is perfect anyway. Especially venting out your frustrations about someone else to your confidantes. 'Cause as your channel had said many times, narcissistic people exists. You'll never win even if you confront them. So I think it's healthier to let your anger out than bottle your emotions up.

My ex was super serious around the house, but when we were out with mutual friends, it seemed like a switch flipped in his head, he would be more cheerful, make jokes, and laugh alot, it took me by surprise, it was like seeing an entirely different person!

@posbermaje

3 жыл бұрын

It could be because the environment he's in changes his attitude, not sure..

I have to admit I am very guilty of Being the person who can’t make up their mind.. I was in a friendship being the person who can’t make up their mind and the other person was actually the fake friend. The people who can’t make up their minds are always really bad.

I'm disabled and I was bored out of my mind. I was scrolling down KZread when I found one of these videos. It looked interesting, so I decided to watch it. I have a B.A. degree in psychology, and this has long been a topic of interest for me. I've now watched two or three videos and I've loved all of them. This woman's voice is so lovely. I've subscribed so I won't miss any. Thank you so much, Psych2go!

@peakadventures_

2 жыл бұрын

I wish you the most happiest life sweetheart

The last one is me...I'm scared that people will judge me, so I act the way I think they expect me to and act differently around people I'm comfortable with. Guess, I'm still not acceptable....maybe even I can't trust myself....I don't know who I really am?

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Dam I’m wishing you luck

@subhadamallick999

3 жыл бұрын

@@maplewhatever5581 thanks

@LemonbreadSC

3 жыл бұрын

I'm the same way, and it's torn me in two.

The title: "7 Types of People You Should Never Trust" What I learned: 7 Ways to be Trustworthy

@PancakeTheKat

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah same

@jessicaolivia3067

3 жыл бұрын

And teaching untrustworthy ppl who wants to trick others how to mask their ugly truth xD

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Me too, I think this toxic traits I need work on.

I have these as my "Friends." I've tried to "ditch" them, but ever since the pandemic hit, it's been difficult to find friends or people to hang out with. The last time I left them for a while, I hung out with my cousin's friends to talk about what I should do. If there's anything in mind, can you make a video on "What You Should Do With People You Should Never Trust"

@marswmnwhoever1365

3 жыл бұрын

Pandemic Scamdemic however you perceive it the time it gives allows for you to re evaluate who is good to be in your life and who is not.

@marswmnwhoever1365

3 жыл бұрын

@Carrie McClure Get a divorce throw the husband out, your kids...the boyfriend in committed relationship with you. Solitary🤣

@marswmnwhoever1365

3 жыл бұрын

@Carrie McClure I told my cats to get a job and help pay the rent, they' re still here, dunno just dont listen Grrr...😂

@mariaivanoff7955

3 жыл бұрын

Hanging around toxic people because you have no other friends is never a good idea , concentrate on making better friendships , toxic people can never be anyone's friend ,

I don't need to watch this, I already have trust issues but I need to hear the calming voice 😭

7. I'm introvert. I only show my true (happy) self to the ones I trust, the ones I don't trust or who I'm not close with, I will simply be not friendly with them.

i take a slight issue with #2: i seldom speak ill of others, but when i do it's out of honesty. if someone has told me straight up what they're doing, i have now knowledge of it, i will hold it in reserve in case something comes up -unless there's mortal danger or course. some people brag about their bad behaviour, perhaps not knowing others don't feel the same way i guess.

My former boss fit the "lack of empathy" description to a T. A lot of people quit suddenly and she always had an explanation of why it was that person's fault that they couldn't "handle" it. Nothing was ever her fault. There was always someone who had "done her wrong". I can't believe I actually believed her. I still feel like an idiot.

I used to have a "good" friend (I thought we were good friends) who scarily hit every points mentioned in this video. I trusted her for so long and got stabbed so many times, not until last year that I realize she doesn't deserve my trust. One of the reason why I still try to trust her so much is that I developed a feeling toward her. It was the hardest time I ever been thru in my life. There were so up, but she will never show empathy or care about my feelings. She is the one that says "you are my friend" when she needs something, but also says "why are you so fragile with your feeling" when she hurt you. I am so happy that I've got over her now. These kind of people are really dangerous for your mental health.

I remember trusting two people in high school that I regret trusting (and who still occasionally haunt my dreams to this day ten years later). Long story short: it was drilled into my head throughout my school years that explicitly asking about sex and anything related was an absolute taboo that would get you (especially if male) labelled a pervert for even the slightest question on the topic. But the two people who I made the mistake of trusting were two girls who weren't shy about the topic, so in time I felt I could trust them with issues I couldn't trust to the outside world. And after a very long time (almost spanning a few years) of me confiding my doubts on the subject with them, they then turn around and blab to the whole grade (which was admittedly small due to me being in a private school operating out of a house), and I was made to feel humiliated for the rest of the day. Today, if a woman I know starts making any gesture that could be considered sexual in nature (such as swaying their hips side-to-side repeatedly), my first instinct is to yell "What the hell are you trying to pull?!" and rescind the trust placed in that person.

Ofcourse these traits remind me of many people i've had around ,esp. the socalled closest ones ,my family members,sisters ,aunts ,mother,cousins ,friends stabbed me in the back

My “friend” always talks about her self and only her and one time I told her I liked someone but I don’t think they like me she said “yeah he probably would never like you I think he likes ***” and every time I try to talk about myself she gets mad she’s so self sentenced and if you argue with her she is massively rude or just wanna do something that she doesn’t want you to do

@angelheart863

3 жыл бұрын

That's not a friend, friends are suppose to encourage one another. Move on.

Thanks for making this video its so useful everyone should watch it.

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Glad you think so! Let us know what you think about this video and if it applies to you!

Great video! I had experience dealing with untrustworthy people. I'm a kind person naturally. I go by someone's actions. No, we're not perfect but some people are not good and have bad intentions. I really dislike people who take advantage of people or use them for their own personal gain. Narcissists do stuff like that. Those seven signs are absolutely right! We must protect ourselves and KNOW who's genuine and who's not. I enjoyed this video. Keep up the amazing work!

“So.. did anyone come to mind while watching this video” Yes, me 😭 That’s why I don’t really make close friends, I always feel like I’m gonna do something wrong and push them away.

@joeyjointjebaiter1275

3 жыл бұрын

Ah. I just dont make close friends cause im a guy and most people are very shallow and boring anyway

@iwilldefeateverysinglejust3826

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah me too but yiu can change though you only did something wrong but you arent a bad person as long as you dont do the same thing again then you would be fine

This made me think of myself and everyone that I shed myself from this year. I definitely need to be more aware of my actions and will definitely be slower to accept companionship when I'm ready to receive it.

1:21 that animation was so cute though but yes this is very accurate to fake friends thanks dude I love your advice

@benjaminlamptey1867

3 жыл бұрын

@Lone Wolf Nergigante ironically, that's how we loners get played. By not having the experience to spot these things early.

@benjaminlamptey1867

3 жыл бұрын

@Lone Wolf Nergigante yh, our habits give us time to reflect on what's happened and learn from it

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

@Lone Wolf Nergigante I wish I could enjoy being alone 🥺

*do I trust myself?* * me : what does that mean...?*

@angii4818

3 жыл бұрын

Trusting yourself means being able to attempt to do all kinds of things without judging yourself too harshly if you spend a lot of time regretting things you've done or decisions you've made, you don't trust yourself. If you beat yourself up, if you think you're not doing good enough, or if you constantly feel like you've got under utilized potential then you don't trust yourself.

@mygoalistohave1ksubscriber141

3 жыл бұрын

@@angii4818 thanks for this. ...actually needed. ..bless you

@angii4818

3 жыл бұрын

@@mygoalistohave1ksubscriber141 bless you too

@roythomas3667

3 жыл бұрын

@@angii4818 what if, say, a "friend" beats themselves up inside for the decisions they do (or don't) make, even when they believe the decisions are genuinely the best ones, BUT it's because they trust themselves not only to be harsh self-critics, but also mindful receivers of critique? Would you have anything to say to them? Again, definitely 100% asking for a friend and it definitely could potentially not be about me.

@angii4818

3 жыл бұрын

@@roythomas3667 then I feel like your friend is a sensitive soul who can withstand things and still be strong inside your friend has probably realized what type of person they are and even if some decisions hurt they still realize it was the best for them .Of course, all self-criticism is not harmful. Some is extremely beneficial. For example, the good kind, when not pursued to perfectionism, contributes to building your self-confidence and allows you to learn from your mistakes. On the other hand, the bad kind destroys self-confidence did that help*

I know a lot of people that are totally untrustworthy. This whole thing started to come to my mind when I was in 7th grade after interacting with a number of my peers. Unfortunately, there are a lot more untrustworthy people as opposed to good, decent people. That is the whole entire truth.

I'm that friend you can trust your secrets to .. cuz I literally forgot about it later on

@ishar5638

3 жыл бұрын

Same

@therockman-holic7429

3 жыл бұрын

cool profile picture. who is it?

@tsun-tsuna4345

3 жыл бұрын

@@therockman-holic7429 just some random illustration of a girl I found on Pinterest, I don't even know haha

@therockman-holic7429

3 жыл бұрын

@@tsun-tsuna4345 is that so? ha ha.. it's fine. it happens to me all the time. thanks!

Never thought I'd hear the phrase "piss you off" from Psych2Go

"People who can't make up their minds" Welp, I guess nobody should trust me then.

Multiple of these sounds like my parents. Heres one more, someone who treats you nice when you live up to there demands, but gets angry when you don't.

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Oh shit... I do this omg 😳

Many of these things already happened to me, but it's nice to see that I was getting upset over real issues! 3 people who were in my life came to mind through this video and none of them knew they were being inconsiderate...

It might even take me a year to actually really trust someone xD

@ganrimmonim

3 жыл бұрын

That sticks me as pretty quick (unless you've had a dramatic bonding experience).

@kuu4295

3 жыл бұрын

i never trust my friends anymore lmao

@jaidenlaymance1288

3 жыл бұрын

It take me 2 weeks-a month

@rafaelcarmo5562

3 жыл бұрын

@Karina Poghosyan until they break it in 2 minutes

@lilaclatte882

3 жыл бұрын

REally Meeeee!!!!

Trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. It won't work, if you don't trust each other." “I trust you" is better than "I love you" because you may not always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you trust." "The best proof of love is trust

This is one of the best videos…right to the point and sooooo true!

Thanks for this video, it helped me realise that there are persons in my life I should stop being friends with. I already knew that there was a problem, but I was like "whatever, it doesn't matter", but now I'm starting to think that maybe I should do something about it. So, again, thanks.

I am so naive !!! I trust everyone blindly >_< 😞😞 thankssss for this videeeooo !!!! Thankksss for saving me !!!

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Did you find this video relatable to you? Hope it helped you!

@riddhi3453

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it did !!! Tysm♥️♥️✨

@PancakeTheKat

3 жыл бұрын

It’s the same with me. I’m super childish and naive.

Your videos have made me more interested in psychology! I plan on taking the class next semester ✨💕

One person came to mind hearing these traits and that's me

I was 5 of these (not the first 2) with my little sister growing up. I believe my mother was toxic and limited my ability to grow (she wouldn't allow me to get a job, or learn to drive. She wanted the authority position and thought she couldn’t have it if I started being independent) as a result I made the household more toxic. I have moved out, grown and now I really am a different person, but that doesn't change what I did to my sister growing up. I believe we have an honest relationship now, but I don't honestly know. I'm truly just waiting for her to be able to leave that toxic environment and grow her own self so I can actually meet the real her.

#7 welp. I guess I can't be trusted lol

@sadue4317

3 жыл бұрын

😂 all girls are like this

@cowgoesquack5945

3 жыл бұрын

Well if you’re like silly and dumb with your best friend that’s fine I’m sure everyone is like that with their best friends but not with other people

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Same here, I think I want my friends to really criticize me.....

everyone acts like number seven 7 to some extent... There's diffrent typed of relationships and comfort zones and that can cause people behavior to change as well as different social situations As long as that person isn't hurting anyone it's probably nothing And jumping to shame or embarrassment is ludicrous think horses not zebras there's simpler answers like just plain human behavior and social etiquette

@joeyjointjebaiter1275

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah, obviously. I dont act the same way around my friends as i do like, my grandparents. Were talking about acting differently to fit in, such as being really nice to people when somebody is around, but the second they leave they stop. Sure, i dont act the same to everyone i meet, but at least i dont act

@maplewhatever5581

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I do because I’m positive though more quiet or more talkative

@LemonbreadSC

3 жыл бұрын

I'm an example of number 7. I always find myself shifting my core values to relate to everyone I talk to in order to gain their trust. How do I stop?! It's tearing me apart!

The art style always makes me so happy god it's just too cute 🥺

Once wrote a personal letter to my ex-husband apologizing for my lack of empathy, taking blame for our breakup. He showed it to a mutual friend. I know because she told me he shared it with her. Any remaining trust I had with him went out the door. That hurt.

I'm feeling bad I just hope that I would have watched this video earlier before trusting my childhood friend blindly... 😞

@twilight3304

3 жыл бұрын

Its okay we all have been through some difficulties and staying strong at all those movement is what makes us stong

@kingslaw

3 жыл бұрын

I feel you, mine told everyone my secret (I had a crush on a girl, I study in an all-girls catholic school), she was the reason I was bullied, and years after that she had the nerve to say I should get over it.

@Unkn.9wn

3 жыл бұрын

Be grateful that you discovered & uncovered hidden knowledge about someone you trusted.. just you learning the types of people that you shouldn't trust is a huge step into this selfish world.. I know people in their 70s who had just barely realised that their partner in marriage doesn't love them & couldn't care less about them from over 50 years of marriage they've been together.. he just realised this.. never paid attention to the signs.. never read between the lines.. never understood double talks.. never questioned strange behaviors.. just blindly giving all of his trust from day 1.. now he is critically depressed & dying of old age with all sorts of illnesses.. plus all of his children turned out the same as their mother & they love her more than him & actually threatened him they'll kick him out of the house if he tries to remarry someone else or bring a helper or a nurse for his needs.. that's my uncle & his "family" Life can be cruel for the ignorant.. & a blessing for the wise

@kingslaw

3 жыл бұрын

@-R o s i e இ de nada :D ❤️

@benjaminlamptey1867

3 жыл бұрын

SAME HERE! It's probably cos I don't have many of those. Now I'm LITERALLY paying dearly for it. Not sure what to do other than cut them off.

I have had trust issues after this incident. Once I had a crush (6th grade). He was very nice to me and we played a lot of games like Minecraft and stuff. He was almost a bit *too* nice, but I didnt think of that back then. He hated it when other people would join us, even in online games. He screamed at them to leave and then became like an angel to me. My feelings started to drift away from him. He notice that and he started to make up more excuses to be with me. he started using me. It was terrible. Finally I had enough. I stood up to him and told him off. He backed off after, but my feelings were not entirely dead. I shared every thing with him because I trusted him. And he broke me So I don't really trust easily anymore. Sorry if it's a lot of typing Just my story in case you read it ✨

There's so many people who will step on others to get ahead, there's a difference between competition and just being horrible. There is no need to do these things, path to success is availiable to everyone. God bless ❤❤❤❤

This is the thing everyone needs to remember. Just because someone has one of these traits does not mean they are terrible. Most people do have these traits and that is usually 7.

"7 types of people you should never trust" Brain: 1- *yourself*

@Bruno-gj4jj

3 жыл бұрын

For real I seem to be a fake friend omg I hate myself

@hehe_lemonade5114

3 жыл бұрын

Yep

Yeah I have a friend that can’t take no for an answer, they’re an online friend but every time they see I’m online they try to get me to spend time with them, and if I try to suggest a different thing for us to do they sord of.. throw a fit? It’s kind of exhausting because I’m an introvert and I can’t be spending every day with the same person. I’ve tried to include them if I’m playing with another friend but they don’t stay very long. I’m pretty sure they just don’t want to. I don’t really know what to do. Sorry for the vent lol

@cc10higa

3 жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry you had to go through that, I'm currently distancing myself from a friend that straight up tells me to "talk" whenever I don't respond back right away. I've told them multiple times to stop but they don't, so as of now I'm putting distance between us so that I don't have to deal with it anymore.

@holly205

3 жыл бұрын

@@cc10higa yeah, I’m glad you’re able to distance yourself from them. Sometimes it’s hard, or at least for me.

@cc10higa

3 жыл бұрын

@@holly205 I get how difficult it is to make the decision of distancing yourself from them. On one hand, you miss all the good moments you guys have had, and it can easily make you forget the bad parts. But it is possible to make new friends, and I did manage to make a couple new friends

@holly205

3 жыл бұрын

@@cc10higa Thank you, this is helpful. Yeah, you’re right. I guess being bad at saying “no” and someone who won’t accept “no” isn’t the best combination.

@cc10higa

3 жыл бұрын

@@holly205 yeah, it is hard to learn how to say no, and it is also difficult to deal with people who take no for an answer. I want to smack the latter across the face tbh. I still have trouble saying no at times but I'm working on it.

Perfect timing. Because I need to get over and stay away from some people. This made me realize they're not my friends.

Me when I read the title: Hmm.... that seems interesting Also me(1 sec later): Oh wait, I already don't trust anyone 😅

@luthermorrisjr1657

3 жыл бұрын

Same😅

@marsp5636

3 жыл бұрын

Same😅

@Riinxan

3 жыл бұрын

I'm the opposite, honestly I gave my trust to a wrong person a lot.. ;-;

@Freespiritedqueen

3 жыл бұрын

@@Riinxan me as well, happens to the best of us.

@atv9231

3 жыл бұрын

@@Riinxan We're not opposite, I too did that and the result is now I don't trust anyone 😬

Hey! I’m too faced and I just suddenly change personality around certain people like when I’m around a certain friend I’m an all out party guy and with another I’m cold and collected

The first tattoo I got were the kanji for, Trust, Respect, Honesty & Sincerity. I believe these 4 things are integral for building and maintaining healthy relationships, no matter the setting. Cheers for the video.

Number 1 - Listen to your instinct it tells you who you should not trust never neglect its first sign and the vibe you feel when the person is around you 🌸🌸

This channel makes my life so much easier, Thanks for your hard work. ♥️

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Happy to hear that! What's your favorite topic so far?

@xoxorr__

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go the HSP one, cause all my life ive been more sensitive than other people and now ik why💓

3:51 so I do this actually and for me personally I act a lot more like who I am with just one person because I feel a lot more comfortable around just one person then when it comes to a group of people I feel more pressured? I guess it’s kind of complicated I don’t really know how not to be two faced when it comes to that

Narcissists, narcissists, narcissists. And always beware of someone when they say they are very sensitive. They usually mean they are only sensitive about themselves and nobody else.

Thank you for always coming up with such useful content >>>>

Yea I trusted the wrong people and they replaced me..

Right on!!! Knew someone who was flaky and had other qualities in your video. I kept on eye open and in the end the same red flag that was present remained. Not to be trusted!

Great and amazing video as usual.

difference between confidence and ego confident people love themselves ego/ignorant people love themselves ONLY small one word difference but huge difference in personality

@anonymousperson3023

3 жыл бұрын

Not necessarily. Most people would describe people with NPD as having inflated egos but people with NPD (at least some) have insecurities and issues with themselves.

@itzmehDevi

3 жыл бұрын

@@anonymousperson3023 yeah- but i am talking about generally..but yeah you are right..

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

and i have anxiety

@itzmehDevi

3 жыл бұрын

@@Finalizor please get help-

@Finalizor

3 жыл бұрын

@@itzmehDevi how do you even think i should do that when i dealt with it my whole life and autism & ADHD and my family does not entirely know how to help me even though they care and do not know what to do and i don't ether

what if i’ve been through traumatizing things that make me naturally do some of these things due to trust issues and things like that...? don’t get me wrong, when i care about somebody i honestly care about them and i would always put them first and always be there for them, but with people that i don’t care about, i wouldn’t hurt them cause i have no reason too and even if i did it’s not my place, but if they just so happen to get hurt by somebody else, i always put myself first and i don’t care if their feelings get hurt, it’s not my problem and it’s none of my business... does this make me a bad person...?

@alexsilk5648

3 жыл бұрын

I get you entirely - when nobody has ever been there to look out for you, you have no choice but to look out for yourself.

yeah my whole family..this is exactly why there is one chosen one in each family

Spread secrets, talk badly to others, lack of self awareness, lack empathy, can't make up their own minds, don't take 'No' for answers, act differently around others... Yup. Sounds like my late grandmother to me. And the worst is some of my ex-best friends had these traits to. 🙄🙄🙄 Well, some of it probably my fault too that they don't wanted to be my friends anymore. However, mostly they did it because of how they act. And because of that too, I had trust issues with people. 😩😩😩 I need to change it, so I can trust someone again

Now I m gonna observe people well before trusting them😁 Thanks for this amazing content dear♥️..... Love ur channel❤️

@Psych2go

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching! 😀 I hope you learned something new from this video. Did you find them relatable?

@anshika2251

3 жыл бұрын

@@Psych2go yeah ... Your content is amazing as always♥️

huh. Looks like all of those reasons is the same way my best friends acts- :/

I can relate to the last 4 of them except one I find coworkers, old friends now my enemies, and family acting like this I've been around this type of behavior for the majority of my life and I find this video quite interesting it confirms and defines more of the people I encounter on a day to day basis

Reminds me of my ex best friend of many years, current roommate and coworker at the time. She stabbed me in the back to get revenge. Reported me at work for false accusations and while they investigated I was let go from my job. She admitted to wanting revenge and said she didn’t care what happened to me. I never felt so betrayed. The hardest part is letting go and moving on. She wasn’t a good friend to me but I remember the good times and miss her. I still truly care for her and wish things could be repaired or turned out differently. I wish I didn’t care so much but I’m a HSP so I can’t help it.

Me: have trust issue. Also me: check out the entire video to see if i have any of the signs or not.

This is literally my entire family lol

Thank you once again for a great video....

Is it bad that I fall asleep before these short videos end because her voice is so soothing?

I may not trust myself much.

@k.t3888

3 жыл бұрын

2 months later: I MUST not trust myself much.

3:19 i had a few friends like this. it made me really mad when they keep bugging me something that i already answered. "no❤️" since now that i lost alot of friends and alone by myself now i feel peacefull but sad nobody isn't there for me :D

@SHINY_STAR73

3 жыл бұрын

Oh that's sad but hope you are having a great day also I'm your new subscriber

Oof I have bad social anxiety and act really differently in private and public . Explains why probably nobody is able to trust me as a friend.

Oh goodness, the last one reminds me of the last man I dated. I stayed for a while because I felt empathy for his insecurities and tried to encourage him to be himself with others, thinking if I could show him I was safe he'd be more honest. At first he was, but eventually his compulsion to hide his true self and perform for others meant he started trying to hide our relationship with people he feared wouldn't approve... Big time ouch. I'm glad he eventually told me he didn't love me in the way he needed to marry me. Though I felt hurt and staying away felt painful, it was a good opportunity to let go of someone who couldn't really be trusted. Thank you for this video. It is helping me put it all in better perspective. Of course, I had my challenges too and made choices I probably won't make again in reaction to being hidden and him being kinda fake. But this helps me see how to avoid being in that kind of situation in the first place. Thanks again!

I didn't loose a friend. I just realised I never had one..

@benjaminlamptey1867

3 жыл бұрын

Betrayal explained in a single line...