It wasn’t until I went to Paris that I realized how stressed I was in NYC. I always thought that it was city life, but it was American city life, In Europe I sat in cafes for hours reading and chilling. I could eat a meal without being rushed out. It was a revelation.

@LisaSoulLevelHealing

10 ай бұрын

They actually still have time to read I find ....I know that sounds simple but I live reading and can only do it in very structured spurts.

@anointedbyjesus7766

8 ай бұрын

Are you still in NYC ?

@turnthepage867

12 күн бұрын

London is stressful

Ladies, when choosing potential destinations to relocate, make sure to consider that it is an environmentally safe place (that floodings, fires, etc are not projected to peak in the next years). Also, INVEST in building sustainable relationships with local people as much as you invest in your retirement age. Social relationships are a valuable currency that’s often overlooked and that we have to build from zero when moving abroad. 2024 edit: Wow! I'm glad many saw (and liked) this comment. I hope yo found it useful and that our migration journeys stay safe! Happy day!

@faith6575

10 ай бұрын

FACTS!

@CassaH

9 ай бұрын

Great advice. We must use wisdom when choosing to move abroad. Especially if going solo.

@user-ts2mk1fv3l

7 ай бұрын

This is so true!

@AllEyezOnMeTMC

18 күн бұрын

great advice thank you!

❤ Stephanie !!! Black Women need to be kind to each other. All The Time

@StephaniePerry

11 ай бұрын

All the time. 💗

@Idealiath

10 ай бұрын

We do not preach this enough. Most of us give advice but still have deep Down self hatred, anger and jealousy.

@DouradaBambina

7 ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@DouradaBambina

7 ай бұрын

@@IdealiathWord!

Dear Stephanie Perry. I am a gay black man born in Cuba, 1938, a fan of black womenfolk looking for easy life, enjoying and learning always. I refer to you as Goddesses. I find your conversation always fascinating and enlightening. Your vision is revolutionary.

@shakilaoliver2542

5 ай бұрын

❤

@carpediem44

Күн бұрын

I know you have lived an amazing life. 💗

This is so helpful in me figuring out my soft life. No more big houses, no luxury nothing. Peace of mind body and spirit. Thank you for helping me sort it all out for when I retire.

@LisaSoulLevelHealing

10 ай бұрын

Right. I'm selling my 4 bed/4bath house so I can buy what I can in France - which might be a studio or 1 bedroom 🤷🏾‍♀️ more comes with stress and being shackled to your job

For me, "soft" is living well without running the rat race, community, great healthcare, progressive politics, safe and respectful to women and POC. Lived in Asia for 12 years and traveled through Europe and Asia and the Middle East. It's all relative - when I was single, married, divorced, a mom, freelance vs employee... The list reflects your personal introspective deep dive and where you are in your season of life. Note, you can move again to another country (did it 3x). You make the rules.

@yumyumkitty2104

10 ай бұрын

Wow! I'm shocked by how bold you are! I'm such a scaredy cat and worry about things, such as: the language barrier, being trafficked, needing health insurance/medications, how to get around by myself, etc. Props to you for being a risk taker tho. 🙂

@CassaH

9 ай бұрын

Love this info. Thank you.

@jenamaste131

9 ай бұрын

So where you live now?

@lq7729

9 ай бұрын

@@jenamaste131 the US

@lisaq9780

8 ай бұрын

@brittanyakawaii12 right back at you! 💕

**Soft Life - LIST OF COUNTRIES** PANAMA 🇵🇦 MEXICO🇲🇽 SOUTH AFRICA🇿🇦 FRANCE🇫🇷 PORTUGAL🇵🇹 BARBADOS🇧🇧 THAILAND🇹🇭

@tjsproles4992

8 ай бұрын

What if you have children in some of these countries? Are the educational systems good for school-aged children?

@JJ-fq4nl

7 ай бұрын

⁠@@tjsproles4992outside of Mexico , all the other countries listed have excellent public primary & secondary education. Going to their public colleges is cheaper than American community colleges in some of the countries. Mexico education is kind of similar to American public education. Whoever has the most money gets the best education of course but their regular public schools is still better than American public schools as far as education. Just make sure your child has lunch in Mexico depending on where you live in Mexico. Free lunch isn’t available at some public schools in Mexico.

@gloriaf4015

6 ай бұрын

@@tjsproles4992Barbados in particular has a significantly higher literacy rate than the United States.

@ritawhite6169

2 ай бұрын

@@JJ-fq4nl I'm confused, if Mexico is so wonderful why are people fleeing to our border in US ?? What gives?

@iimmannii

19 күн бұрын

​@@ritawhite6169 Mexico is where you can have a soft life if you make America money (or top tier Mexico money). There are places in Mexico you would not move to as an American seeking a soft life, as they would not be the safest options, and where you would not make a sustainable amount of money. Lastly, many people seeking asylum in the US aren't from Mexico, they are from other countries and come through Mexico.

I will be 53 in 3 weeks, and I really want to live abroad in 2 more years. Loving this.

Your hair and skin are beautiful

Stephanie Im thinking about living abroad Im 73 yrs old.

@claudiacage3146

5 ай бұрын

So am I at 72!

@MsJonessss

4 ай бұрын

@@claudiacage3146for you ladies I’d consider doing it through those nonprofit teaching or community service positions. Like peace corps. Because they will pay for housing, food, and basic needs. And tbh if it’s teaching kids, like a teaching aid job it wouldn’t be too stressful.

@ejtaylor27

18 күн бұрын

This warms my heart because I’m leaving 3 days after l turn 66 in March 2025 Paying off bills and selling stuff giving memories to family members in the form of pictures clothes household items-- Moving to Belgrade Serbia I have a daughter who lives on the outskirts Visited last Oct for 21 days went to Rome on the cheap The pace is what l noticed and how cheap the food was and great it tastes It’s no preservatives used and they have one of the shortest periods of farm to plate in the world The land is rich and you can buy a house for 15 k That ensures residential property and citizenship!!!! American money goes very far as the average salary is 900 Eros a month… no car is needed if staying in the city and be prepared to walk … It’s more English spoken than you think and they are interested in your story and have American questions like why do you have more guns than people-- The only guns you see are law enforcement period I felt safe and black American men are treated differently than African men You can see and feel the difference-- Only warning Don’t do money exchanges at the airport and either use a hotel shuttle or family pick you up at the airport… the cab drivers love American people who are there for the first time You will pay an extra 20 euros because they know you don’t know the way

Barbados is one of the best places in the world for Black people to live. The Prime Minister, Mia Mottley, is a Black woman. The President, Sandra Mason, is a Black woman. When the Prime Minister is out of the country, a Black woman named Santia Bradshaw usually serves as interim Prime Minister. The entire government looks like the people, 95% of whom are Black. All of the policemen and women are Black. Unlike most American policemen and women, they understand that their job is to protect, not abuse or kill the people. Healthcare is free. If guns were not easily accessible in the U.S., gun violence would be non existent in Barbados. Most of the guns used to commit crimes in Barbados I am sure are smuggled into the country from the U.S. Overall, crime is relatively low. The island is modern. You can easily get just about everything you get in the U.S. and Europe there. Most importantly, there is a feeling of normalcy there. The political figures and people are normal.

@eileenwatt8283

11 ай бұрын

All that is true but the country has a high debt. How will they pay down that debt with less than 1 million people?

@uphylme9350

Ай бұрын

​@@eileenwatt8283🤣 girl, soon u see how America deals with our 40 Trillion debt then we will circle back

@Gullahbae-xm6ms

6 күн бұрын

Just because a country is pro dominantly black doesn’t mean it’s a good place for blacks to move to nor live in. I’m sorry but I don’t care to live in a country where we tend to be the dominant population.

Stephanie, you wanting to adopt is absolutely AMAZING! And I think you are right; a lot of women truly don't know what they want. Especially in the USA, we are told what to want.

@deeevonie8765

2 ай бұрын

This is a sad truth....😢

Hi Stephanie, lately the black diaspora moved to Africa in numbers and became very successful, In SA the family established a tourism company called The Real South Africa , they are doing very very well to assist the black diaspora to relocate to South Africa and Africa at large . They also made a document that you can find in Amazon. Another black American in SA interviewed black American living in JHB about living in SA, the couple names asad El malik , they also made a document in their channel about black American living in SA ,they work with Ashley in africa for Wits University. Thank you very much for what you are doing to remind blacks not to forget Africa as their ancestory land where they come from , I wish all the best in the 2024 summit that will be held in Cape town. We push prayers for you and Roshida ,,welcome 🇿🇦

Ms Stephanie, this is Anya Juan Risco, I was stationed in Panama. There are two seasons, the rainy season and the dry season. Panama's countryside is beautiful.

@marshab.6246

11 ай бұрын

I'm on my way to Boquette in December. Really looking forward to it.

I'm new here. Enjoyed the podcast and I have a girlfriend that adopted kids at 49 and now at 58/59 she's traveling while being a single mom. Best wishes on your journey

Luxury for me is walking to a cafe or restaurant and feeling safe.

The black women I know who live in Africa (addis ababa, Abidjan) are living the life. Yoga, beaches (near Abidjan), maids/cooks, good nightlife. Addis is less easy (electricity issues) but if you have the money, you can get spoiled. But true that Africa isn’t for everyone but one can def chill.

@EarlEdenEverlyEmillia

8 ай бұрын

How do these women make a living because I've been told to start a business but there are laws and regulations to that. So im confused

@anonymousanonymous870

4 ай бұрын

Sis this is where I was born

YES, Stephanie!!! Tokyo Is AMAZING!!! I❤️Tokyo! Planning a 6 Months Stay (Return) There In 12 Months’ Time!🙏🏼 What a City!!! Oh, And I Completely Agree, Stephanie; I’m Embracing EASE.😊 I Sometimes Sit On My Balcony Watching Ocean Waves For Hours & Thoroughly Enjoying That Experience! Then Slowly Cook Myself Fresh Fish Caught That Morning (By Local Fishermen/Fisherwomen{?}) Yes; Because I’ve Earned It & I/We Deserve It. Thank You Stephanie!❣️

@LisaSoulLevelHealing

10 ай бұрын

Hi, what do you mean slow cook the fish? Sounds like that can be fire 😂

@aimeepaterson4423

10 ай бұрын

Not "Slow Cook". I Meant *SLOWLY Cook; As In... LEISURELY! Slow Pace Lifestyle With No One To Answer To and No Rushing Around... Like Life Before BLAXIT.💃💃😀💃💃

@TheeEbonyPosho

9 ай бұрын

Sounds sooooo amazing😍😍😍😫🥹

@ladama3201

8 ай бұрын

@@LisaSoulLevelHealingi’m so greedy I got excited 😆

@chachab9239

Ай бұрын

Guanajuato… 😉. I desire to occupy this beautiful place in Mexico. I must explore the physical handicap accessibility features as well as health care accessibility… hmmmm!

I think its absolutely wonderful that you want to adopt children and live wherever you choose. Kudos to you. Just met a lady in Rwanda in her 60's from the states with 5 foster children. Do You!

@WestieKatie

Ай бұрын

Exactly what I want to dooooo

Moved to playa del Carmen , MX and I have never been happier ☺️🙌🏽🏝️

This is so helpful as I sit in the plains contemplating joining the National African American Gun Association so I can learn a skill I don't have to protect me and my child. I'm tired of the hustle and constant need to be on surveillance every time we leave the house. I try not to be that way but the US requires us to pay attention all the time.

@gingerandspice1209

11 ай бұрын

Where do you live?

@SAGITTARIUS312

11 ай бұрын

ALLLLL THE TIME❗️

@dr.sacheen

11 ай бұрын

@@gingerandspice1209 Just moved to Kansas.

@Mesharae

7 ай бұрын

I feel this. My increased anxiety is DEFINITELY all to do with the violence in America . Especially the gun violence if seemingly fun/ relaxed places 😢

Thanks for Ms Roshida D, Ms Stepanie, Ms Halisi and Mr Ric, et al.Thanks for The Picky Girl Travels the World, Black Exploitation, Black Utopia channels et al.

I hope Ms. Tabitha Brown interviews you and Roshida before the Exodus Summit. I'm so excited and want the world to know about you amazing ladies and the movement you're involved in.

5:15 seven countries named 17:23 Panama 56:38 France

Stephanie..I just adore you. So glad I got to hang out with you in person in El Salvador. And I am so excited that you are coming to Panama City. Can't wait to see you. Now that I am an empty nester, I am really embracing the soft life. And thanks to Mary, I now have an amazing group of Black women to do exciting things with here in Panama City.

Congratulations to you for adopting children. You're at the perfect age and well traveled to love and teach children that need loving ppl... So cheers to u for living great.. I would love to have a children facility to teach and encourage beautiful children...

Thank you I’m retired and not living my dreams but I’m looking forward to live it.

I feel like my situation is unique a little bit. I’ve always had this mentality of not wanting to “slave” for America .. but recently I was laid off blindsided from a job I was at two years, and from there it just became a domino effect ..recently my unemployment benefits ran out and yes, I was looking for work countlessly within these two months, and nothing permanent has come my way yet. I’ve had gigs here and there, but nothing permanent from having numerous of interviews, so with my situation I just got evicted from my place after all of this hardship happening from losing my job. I’m ready to just start now I feel like this is a sign but how am I to do it with literally no money that’s scary for me.😢 (Ps.. I strongly feel that me not getting calls backs.. etc are because I’m a black woman)… I have NEVER thought this way until around Cvid when you can just TELL… but that’s another story😤

@lamar7902

2 ай бұрын

I'm not sure where you live, but try moving to another state, evening you have to live in transitional housing. Some places in America are affordable and you can make it if you are disciplined and determined. If all else fails, and you're able, consider joining the service or working for housing at a shelter for a little while

@gigiteal

Ай бұрын

I hope you’ve gotten something by now and a place to live. I would honestly take this as a sign to move out the US. and yes, I agree, they are discriminating against us Black women in the workforce no matter our education or experience. I’ve see it am experiencing it and I even tested it by using a “white sounding name” but you know they do remote interviews now and you must turn on your camera. Either that or you must be willing to accept below the average market salary in that field before they take you seriously. I know. I’m living it.

No city life for me. I love the country....deep county. For me it is magical.

I'm pissed, there's only one 'thumbs up'. I need 10 thumbs up for this conversation!! Tell it Ms. Stephanie Perry!!!!!

Portuguese black woman here. Born and raised in Lisbon. Take us off the list lol

Loved this talk, especially how you emphasized what’s your life dream is for you and no one else! I am still exploring where I want to live but worldwide travel is definitely a part of what I want.

‘No, seriously, hit the subscribe button’😂😂😂 too cute!!

Amen! We don’t insult women who don’t give up on their dreams! Whatever those dreams are! Just like me wanting to bop around the globe is unheard of and weird to some people. But I’m gonna do it anyway, even when or if people insult me about it.

53:29 Stephanie wasn’t playing today. 😂😂😂😂

Somebody's gotta tell the truth, Steph! Agree, I question whether they have souls as well.

Stephanie I truly appreciate 🙏🏾 you and this channel You left out Costa Rico Barbados Panama South Africa Mexico Thailand France Portugal Ease v. Relaxed pace..... interesting. I never thought about the deep difference. I do, however love autumn 🍂 🍁 more than all seasons

@shebababytalks

11 ай бұрын

Thank you for writing out the list of countries noted in the video! ❤

This is so different to the normal vids I watch. Love emphasis on positive experiences , was listening and waiting for her to talk about crime on her travels.

Hello, my daughter has a medical condition… That is quite rare… And after the last experience, we’ve had here in America and healthcare which I’m grateful don’t get me wrong. I just feel such a pool maybe venture out and learn how to live abroad or to live a more nomadic lifestyle or to relocate to an area that just brings about, more love health and wealth… We are not rich… At all, but we are creative and have each other and are willing to think outside of the borders… I’m glad I found your channel and if you could reach back out, I would appreciate it. Thank you.

That mini rant about who can move to what country took me out 🤣 Nothing but truth though 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

"Don't tell me what to do!" GO WHERE YOU WANT❤

@jaiyabyrd4177

11 ай бұрын

❓😳

I LOVE Your Energy and Personality, Stephanie! I Really Enjoy Watching Your YT Videos Even Though I Did My Blaxit 10/11 Years Ago....Before “Meeting”/Finding You! Your Ideas Are So Aligned With Mine (About ENJOYING Life & Embracing Ease While We Pass Through This World) I Love The Life I’ve Carved Out For Myself! I’m So Pleased You Chose To Do This Because You’re Inspiring Lots Of Women To Live Their Dreams! Obrigada Stephanie.🌹

Stephanie, thank you! For sharing this information! 💜💜I'm inspired!😊 And One day, I will have the courage to travel too! ♥️

Thank you Ms Perry for this informative and alternative life style for beautiful Black Women!

I love watching your videos! I would love to move abroad but an disabled and dependant on SSDI. Mexico sounds good though, ready to get back for treatment!

Stephanie cracks me up 😂 *pats in concealer. I love it! Lol

I loved this session. I looooved how honest you are. Your words are essential! And you weren't yelling. You spoke with clarity and passion. That's what it looks and sounds like when you tryna help black women save their lives!!

I have been thinking about this alot lately, as a Army Veteran, with no small children. I am so ready

Thanks for telling us about ease

For the afro females that are considering Thailand... They should really take a look at Malaysia cities like Georgetown and KL....... Housings a little bit cheaper.... great medical..... And don't have to be around with all the night time worker.🤫🤫 o yes it English speaking country

i loved cuba and costa rica the most so far...i also loved martinique and wouldn't mind living there, but i haven't been there since 1998. i want to visit many more islands. i love jamaica too, but i've been there 4x, and not sure i want to live there anymore. the ppl i met from the U.S. who live there absolutely love it. my paternal roots are from Portland and i haven't visited Portland yet. didn't know there is a Georgia country! i'm doing some research now and would love to visit.

Good Morning, Afternoon or Evening. I caught part of live video & now watching the replay. For some reason I couldn't comment during the live feed.

I want the chateau life too. I planned on buying a apartment within a castle in France. However, after listening to you talk about Costa Rica and how nice the weather is I don’t know really what to do right now we’ll see.

I had considered moving back to Panama after living there for two years. I changed my mind and I'm now trying to decide to move there or Limon, Costa Rica.

I don't think it's stupid to want to go to Costa Rica to adopt kids. You figured out a way to get what you want instead of laying down and accepting it. That's honorable!

Stef, some of our people started off in the New World in Barbados. My ancestry shows that part of my family were in Barbados first and then came to South Carolina who were also the founders of South Carolina that's why Bardabiands and South Carolinians have a somewhat shared culture.

@Gullahbae-xm6ms

8 ай бұрын

You must be Gullah Geechee! Is Gullah folks got that connection with the Caribbean! 🖤💙💚💛🇧🇧🇸🇱🇧🇸🇺🇸

Thank you for the list & other information, Stephanie 🥰😀❤️. The list is a must for slow-life travel and is a 👍🏾 way to plan my traveling to the countries for wellness.

Girl you are on today !!! Love your honesty.

Catching up on the replays and I must say I’m loving the vibes and the message!🥰

I am enjoying this whole conversation!! I appreciate your honesty… and every time I hear you and Roshida it’s strengthening. I’m so glad i found you all!!! ❤

Greetings & Good morning! I’m joining you by viewing the replay. Look forward to enjoying & informative this topic. ❤

Good morning. Thank you Stephanie. Your channel is very empowering.

I am loving this replay 🥰 You've inspired me to travel and move again. Thank you.

Such great information as always!! Thanks Stephanie!

Amen to that! It’s time for me to live for my good.

Hi Stephanie. I love what you do. Have you been to Belize? Heading down there soon. So far I am loving what I have learned about Belize.

Love the concept of EASE!

Respect everyone’s dream 🥰 your dream is your dream and unique for you 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

What about a salon for women who sew?

Yes!!! You spoke all the truth today👍🏽👏🏾

Rain is to Caribbean people what snow is to North Americans. Don't drive in the rain. Your car can get washed away. Don't drive in the snow. You can get into an accident. Rainy days and snow days schools close for safety.

I enjoyed this moment in time with your wisdom about traveling and interaction with your audience. Thank you :)

thank u , very refreshing , I wish there is something like this for brits black women

I discovered it in Tunisia, North Africa after 10 visits in 11 years. 😊

I love your channel. Planning a trip to Costa Rica by the end of year. Thank you for sharing all your info. Everything is always good for thought

Hey! You said my top pick!! Barbados!

I love you you’re so direct an you’re absolutely right about different and have different wants and needs and I listen to you because it might be. I’m sure there is a place or some places that is cheaper to live in beautiful weather and I would like to be there because here in the US, the water company is ripping people off so bad.

I think that what you’re doing is amazing. Children need a good loving home environment.

New subscriber ❤ I love your humble spirit. Black Queen🙏🇺🇸🇬🇩🇬🇾

Don’t focus on the negative comments. Completely ignore them. Tell us more about the subject. Sounds interesting.

Thank you for the great information. Even if I stay in the US and grow where I'm planted I feel good making my oasis to always come to... no man needed 😂

Peace Love & Blessings 🙏

Your voice is like amsr, just listening to you is so soothing. BTW I love Costa Rica, its so beautiful.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾put them in check !!!! Bravo Stephanie 💯💯

I met the man with the yacht in the US we were together for three years perfect relationship then he fell off because he was loose with his body. We still friends but we’re not lovers.

Wonderful, Excellent

I love these videos. They puff my heart up with excitement.

I LOVE YOUR ADVENTURIST SPIRIT... I love South Africans, when they arrived in New York Cities for the First Time in the early 70"s. Very nice to us as students.

Thank you for the information

My first time watching this video. You are a very pretty woman, Stephanie. I'm going to register for the Summit. This video has been so interesting. What about South Seoul Korea? Have you ever traveled to Korea? Be safe. This video was so enjoyable. 😊😊😊😊

Black people are never a threat until.we begin to prosper and become the majority.

Can you please do an moving to Portugal video

Girl! Is South Africa save? The crime rates there are through the roof, especially sexual violence and robbery.

@kittykatz4001

11 ай бұрын

Yeah. I heard. 😮

@keshatb

11 ай бұрын

I visited South Africa a few months ago and never felt more safe. I’m not saying that crime isn’t there..crime is everywhere including the US. As a matter of fact the crime is higher in most US major cities than Johannesburg SA. That said black people aren’t being hunted down like animals there. Just like in the US you don’t go to the parts of town that is not safe. There are safe places and those that are not and just like the US it is usually poverty based. The malls are AMAZING and I felt very safe. Security is there and visible. I will say this, on that plane ride over there, the plane was FULL of the palm colored people. It was maybe 10 of us that we saw and the rest on that jumbo plane was them! (From US & Europe) They aren’t worried about crime. Trust me! It’s worth going to check it out j/s😊

This a nice channel, thank you.

Please provide the link to the video on Georgia (12 Days of Career Break). I cannot find it online. Thank you.

Hi Stephanie, have you been to Belize? If so, what did you think of Belize?

Love Andrew Huberman...2.5 hour videos, just listen as podcast! Full of info...

I agree. Why not me? I can move wherever I want. Respectfully. 😂

What about the water situation in South Africa? Isn't Capetown facing water scarcity?

Good rising or evening when you seeing this I am looking to relocate somewhere with my son.