We want you to know that it’s okay to say: “I’m not fine” when you’re feeling low. For some, it may be hard to recognize they feel this way. So, to help you recognize what you’re feeling, here are seven signs you’re not actually ‘fine’. If you find this video helpful, please share it to others! Watch this video next: How To Get Help Even If You Don't Want to kzread.info/dash/bejne/qXmhpLWtY6Wtd6w.html

@sutan2372

2 жыл бұрын

❤❤

@arjuntb1204

2 жыл бұрын

When people ask how are you I often say I'm fine 😔😢💔

@peacheroseee

2 жыл бұрын

I don't think anyone cares what I feel like, I mean why should they 🤷🏻‍♀️ im just like the seven billion other mfs here.

@spacesloth6496

2 жыл бұрын

He you with youre calming voice please make relaxing feelgood story tapes video to relax and sleep. You have a healing voice ❤️🦋🔥🕊❤️🦋

@PhantomFerret

2 жыл бұрын

This video was . . . helpful. But can you do a video on how to know if someone is gay/lesbian? I'm wondering if I am a lesbian, and I enjoyed your past videos on asexuality, bisexuality, the different types of sexual identities. I know the videos are for educational purposes, but I rather enjoy your content, and gives me a wider view of myself and the world around me in terms of mental and psychological health. And as a writer of dark fantasy (I'm trying to publish my first novel) learning about mental and psychological health is really making my writer stronger, and letting my own characters grow.

“It’s all because of your phone!” - My mom, probably

@tiramisuicon

2 жыл бұрын

true

@AyeeeItsAlii

2 жыл бұрын

Sad but true

@Gemini_7531

2 жыл бұрын

bro i swear were in a simulation, aint no way everyone mom also says that (yes my mom says this if you were going to ask)

@ReaIitySociety

2 жыл бұрын

The internet raised me tbh...i learned english and a little bit of japanese and spanish from google translator my humor grew i start to become a little socail just for my parents to ruin it.

@nandini1D

2 жыл бұрын

- Every mom, probably :)

"You aren't living your life, you're surviving" That cut deeper than I expected.

@kittyaya3425

Жыл бұрын

I understand this sense so hard....

@ericgiang7120

Жыл бұрын

Story of my life

@Kristoff891

Жыл бұрын

I've felt for the longest time now, that I'm not even living anymore, just existing and that's it.

@RGTMoro

Жыл бұрын

I felt it cut like a razor and it'd true I am surviving each day and waiting to go to sleep this video really showed me , but idk how to correct it

@yulayxdify

Жыл бұрын

I felt a sense of relief knowing, I didn't come up with that phrase

Saying " im fine " with a smile is alot harder than expected.

@TheAce0fAllTrades

Ай бұрын

It becomes second nature. I wonder if anyone is really “fine”.

@Fire62Link

29 күн бұрын

For all: Hey, I hope things are going well for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@Fire62Link

29 күн бұрын

@@TheAce0fAllTrades Hey, I hope things are going well for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@stefangrabowski67

27 күн бұрын

true

@Fire62Link

26 күн бұрын

@@stefangrabowski67 Hey, I hope things are going well for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

i need to say this. "hurting someone's feelings is as easy as throwing a rock into the ocean, but have you ever wondered how far that rock would go?"

@alienbird5624

2 ай бұрын

I’ve heard this a lot, it’s one of my favorite sayings 🤍

@helpme2883

2 ай бұрын

No but i have wondered how deep the rock go

@Im-not-alone-Im-full-of-myself

27 күн бұрын

that will go so deeep

@user-er3bd8ls7o

23 күн бұрын

i know what you mean 💔😭

@4nx13tyL0v3

9 күн бұрын

And you can never find it to take it back...

I've said "Mom,I don't feel emotionally okay" before on the brink of tears and she told me "cheer up man, no negativity here" and that makes me feel like there's no one I can go to anymore.

@Trisof88

7 ай бұрын

Bro we are all in this same predicament. They say we are not alone but we literally are cause we all go through suffering individually. I might not know you but God said to love thy neighbor and I hope you win your battle. We are all fighting this world that has been overtaken by demonic energy. I know many people don't see it so I'm pointing it out. Pray and keep your head up bro.

@themoose6957

7 ай бұрын

❤️

@redghost786gaming7

6 ай бұрын

Same

@heathbruce9928

6 ай бұрын

As if any one listens any way. They might hear you out. But not listen. Then it's like hey your fine right and then they blink out.

@mimikyuindisguise

6 ай бұрын

Please hang in there, people don't realize there's a problem until it's too late. The good thing is there *is* someone who will care, and parents probably don't know how to handle these things, they think it's age or a situation they can just end with a little positivity. Try to understand what your mom is trying to do and I know you'll find someone who can help you

"if your feeling lonely, try and call a friend up" me: *has no friends whatsoever"

@alishagupta7325

2 жыл бұрын

So relatable!🤣 But I have ' friends' 😬

@peacheroseee

2 жыл бұрын

i talk to my pillow

@stony1180

2 жыл бұрын

I do have some Friends but they‘ll probably just think im making in up

@jaynb3011

2 жыл бұрын

I don't have friends as well:( I'm sorry for you

@ly-wc8zr

2 жыл бұрын

Have you ever tried making virtual friends? There are nice people out there, you just haven't found it yet

Sometimes people who are depressed are actually the ones that makes other laugh a lot...It's not always about staying home and not wanting to interact with others.

@makachak

Ай бұрын

Literally me

@anitab5401

Ай бұрын

Its that desire to save someone from knowing that deep darkness you are in

@Hirridok

27 күн бұрын

Some people love giving others what they cannot have.

@Simply_Barbie

17 күн бұрын

That’s me *Fake, forced smile*

@nadiazaben4967

2 күн бұрын

Trueeeee

From my experience, talking to parents ends up in 2 situations: 1. They comfort you and keep it a secret that only they know 2. They share it at a family meeting/friend meeting, making you embarrassed Saying “im fine” just makes life easier

@littleharry7977

17 күн бұрын

Yea exactly

@RawaMajeed-kt3yu

10 күн бұрын

That’s what i’m scared of

@Subifyoufoundmefromcomments

8 күн бұрын

My moms says I’m doing it for attention

@mr.weeklycruz69

6 күн бұрын

My parents don't even care I hate it

People can be so quiet about their pain, that you forget they are hurting That is why it is so important to always be kind.

@AyeeeItsAlii

2 жыл бұрын

Preach

@grim.sleeper

2 жыл бұрын

so true

@CEBph5997

2 жыл бұрын

Kindness has been used to hurt people as well. Most of the time.

@yagurainuzuka

2 жыл бұрын

I´m not sure if I should even tell this. But at school I´m not feeling okay. I talked for example today with a friend about well reason why I have a teddy bear with me. I feel lonely. His advice leave the bear at home because it makes others uncomfortable. This comment may be a mistake to write but well. I can always try.

@HumanPsychology

2 жыл бұрын

@@CEBph5997 so true

Going to be honest... I just hate talking to people. Saying, "I'm fine" is a great way to end any conversation, at least from my experience. Talking doesn't help, if anything... just makes it worse. They act like they care, think they're being helpful... when they're not. Trying to make my issues seem puny, just by that... I want nothing to do with them. "It's in the past," exactly. The past is when I was most satisfied with my life, hence why I live in the past. The present and future, they're miserable.

@Celeste-jh2lj

2 жыл бұрын

It usually ends most check ins for me. If im not physically breaking down im fine right? Right?

@aye6173

2 жыл бұрын

Im sorry that you feel that way but, i passed through something similar a while ago and i realized how important was talking about things that bother you with someone else. I know that everyone is different but when I stopped talking about how i felt for 2 years it really, really caused me so much trouble. Its a very long story but if i say the most relevant things it can be resumed into me getting a void feeling and constantly thinking of myself being the chosen one by god to only serve to other people and trying to convince myself that my feelings didn't matter (bruh). If the people around you is shitty, its okay if you don't want to talk to them. Just try to find more people and try to socialize! Maybe you're also more of an introverted person and you prefer doing other kind of activities than social ones but please at least once in a month talk with someone about how you feel

@saraahmed2603

2 жыл бұрын

How’d you know what is there in the future

@QueenBeeTheOG

2 жыл бұрын

I understand completely! Sending some caring vibes your way 🥰!

@sneakysquid62

2 жыл бұрын

The past can be quite miserable too

I've fully given up on talking to anyone about my issues for the last like 15 years. "I'm fine" just shuts every attempt down and spares me the effort

@Topaz_Dutchie

14 күн бұрын

I feel the same exact way

@kewoshk

2 күн бұрын

That’s why I only talk about my situation in detail with my psychiatrist.

I once had a panick attack at school and my teacher told my dad about it and all he told me was "Just don't feel nervous." And he told me about how I made a teacher cry that day, since then whenever I have panick attacks I'd never tell my dad about it, and would instead I would cry either in the bathroom or wherever I can be alone or run to my older sister for comfort

@jst_alien

18 күн бұрын

Me too I swear same story now If I have a panic attack won’t tell my parents but the problem is that I m the older sibling

What I really hate about having suicidal thoughts is that either you can't talk to it because people will take it too seriously or not at all

@pranitpanda9150

Жыл бұрын

Not joking around brother but listen hanuman chalisa and every thing will be okay

@_-_-Sipita-_-_

11 ай бұрын

If I ever say that people would punish me.

@rambledogs2012

11 ай бұрын

Just know that those thoughts are not 'you', that's the depression talking, such is the way this debilitating illness effects those thoughts.

@mattjacobson3616

11 ай бұрын

Just think this is gods handy work to. If he wants to wreck you with depression he will.

@pranitpanda9150

11 ай бұрын

@@Fire62Link I am alright brother

Unlike most people here, I do like someone talking to me. I don't like openly talking about how I feel, but I enjoy company with people I feel comfort in, like friends or whatever. Even if I'm in a bad mood and never really show it, just being around them lets me forget the stuff back home even for just a bit.

@ethereal5739

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@stormlane4372

2 жыл бұрын

Same im shy gal so lot time like being talked at lol

@irisheloisa2882

2 жыл бұрын

Same but i actually show them my badmood and vent to them which is fine with them

@leaflet7274

2 жыл бұрын

@@darnellmiller1215 who hurt you?

@criticalplurality7157

2 жыл бұрын

@@darnellmiller1215 Lucky, at least you got a purpose in mind, haha

What's worse is that I tried to express myself but they tried to change the topic... And when they seek for help I try to help them even though I was suffering as well but in silence... Thanks for making me realize that I'm truly not okay

I always said that “I’m fine” because whenever I said I’m not okay, my mom, my friends or other people always said that I have nothing to feel not okay. My mom always said to me that “all the things that you feel not okay is just your imagination so stop being childish who seek for attention.” and that always hurt me, but when I not telling her anything, she start complaining me for keep everything up to myself. I tired. No one can help me, so I tried my best to be with myself to help myself, but all they do is criticizing me. I always lied to myself that “I’m still okay. I’m still fine, so let’s cheer up to start a new day.”, but all they do were to discourage me, to make me feel useless. I often felt like I had no reason left to live, but I was too cowardly to die and I still had a lot of things to worry about. All the things that I still worry about are like a piece of wood that was holding me back from sinking into the lake of suicidal and trying to stay alive, but now that piece of wood is no longer able to hold me up. I’m not sure if the burden on my shoulders was actually too much that the piece of wood failed to support me or if it was came who was starting to let go. It was all overwhelming to the point where I was too tired of finding reasons to live and to keep fighting everyday.

@MLBedits4U-bc1sp

7 күн бұрын

i'm so sorry! your family members are cruel! of course there are reasons why you'd feel not ok. its not at all your imagination. it must be hard going through that with out having anyone to talk to. i am praying for you!

0:56 you withdraw yourself from most situations and isolate 1:51 you sleep too much or not enough 2:35 you don’t enjoy happy events 3:15 you often have suicidal thoughts that can come out of nowhere 3:58 you tell yourself you’re fine even when you’re not 5:02 you don’t like who you are and let your insecurities get the best of you 6:11 you aren’t living your life, you’re surviving

@MieAyam97

2 жыл бұрын

I'm gonna pretend i don't have these signs-

@peridotlionwilliamkrakau3772

2 жыл бұрын

@@MieAyam97 same pal same.

@madhusmitapatra4817

2 жыл бұрын

Honestly I had all these signs two months ago but now I'm getting better and a few days ago I felt truly happy, I didn't even remember what actual happiness felt like before that.... Also this is proof,(Just to call out on my friends) I don't need therapy!😌 Edit:I need therapy

@geno8079

2 жыл бұрын

I am attacked

@fishxutopia_

2 жыл бұрын

i think my fam caught up with my isolation yesterday and asked me whats gg on

“Why are you so rude now a days? It’s because of your phone isn’t it?” - my mom

@happymemories_videography

2 жыл бұрын

Same. Can't talk to my family at all.

@filipposwiatowski5036

2 жыл бұрын

My parents don't think I have a reason to be depressed

@happymemories_videography

2 жыл бұрын

@@filipposwiatowski5036 same with mine.

@tricksterdevil7776

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah. I get that

@jiaquu

2 жыл бұрын

me too. just because they were perfect Mary Sues when they went to school and achieve oh so perfect grades doesn’t mean I will too.

I showed my mom clear signs of depression and sat in my bed all day and my mom brushed it off and said im lazy.

@moonknight-ti5kp

25 күн бұрын

horrible... I love you... it's going to be okay... sending a hug...

To whom is going throughout tough times in life, always remember a stranger saying something kind to you. "You're perfect the way you are, and shall be loved by those who appear within your sad days." You should remember this quote,

Sometimes, when someone says "I'm fine", the one wants somebody to look him/her in the eyes and say "Tell me the truth."

@blank9433

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah good luck finding that someone, cause i didn't

@caustic69420

2 жыл бұрын

I know i do

@Little_Bug

2 жыл бұрын

Literally everyday

@sara1304

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah same, just a tip: you could also use “them” instead of “he/she” it’s more inclusive and easier to type :)

@5Demona5

2 жыл бұрын

Nothing opens the flood gates faster than when someone close says that, or the variant "No, you're not." , or "How are you *really* feeling?"

in my case, releasing emotions makes my mental health even worse. when I share something with someone, i overthink about it all day and feel embarrassed. Keeping it to myself is much easier.

@song_of_the_phoenix2010

2 жыл бұрын

Same,dude,same.

@adorbscupcake5699

2 жыл бұрын

I understand u I feel the same🥺

@the_maskentrovert8588

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, it’s not the best to keep in mine but your not alone.

@whatthehellislife7962

2 жыл бұрын

Yes I'm like that,too. It's like when i share my emotions with people around me, i feel like they'll use them against me and see my weak side😔

@Lorius_Hoglefart

2 жыл бұрын

it's easier, for now

Thanks, this video saved my life. My two friends found me couple minutes after attempt, they asked me if everything is okey. First thing that came to my head, was to just say yes, but then this video came to my mind. My answer to them was "No, i'm not okey". We talk about my problem. Thanks to this i ended toxic relationship and changed my life. I've starter transitioning, i got new awsome friends and imprived relations with my family. Now i only cry from happines. Thank you.

I am fine don't worry about it 'I am very broke inside'

Timestamps!~ 0:56 You withdraw from most situations and isolate 1:49 You sleep too much or not enough 2:36 You don't enjoy happy events, even the big ones 3:15 You often have suicidal thoughts that can come out of nowhere 3:58 You tell yourself you're fine even when you're not 5:03 You don't like who you are and let your insecurities get the best of you 6:12 You aren't living your life, you're surviving

@AyeeeItsAlii

2 жыл бұрын

Tysm!

@Alovelylobster

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks time traveler!

@danii_AJK

2 жыл бұрын

@@EmergencyGenecide nope

@Phyciene

2 жыл бұрын

@@EmergencyGenecide I agree

@tatyana-fw8re

2 жыл бұрын

You’re the best ty!

I hope yall heal from the things you don't tell to anyone.

@MsBalanced1

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you❤️

@kathyk5589

2 жыл бұрын

Do you think it's possible to heal from a traumatic experience if I never share it with anyone? Will it just haunt me for the rest of my life or will it go away eventually? I really want your opinion. I hope to hear from you.

@ogkushmaria2878

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@amelie9046

2 жыл бұрын

I love you

@aditikale4343

2 жыл бұрын

@@kathyk5589 eventually they will go away. I myself have experienced this. I'm not comfortable sharing my feelings. And I experienced two traumatic events. They eventually fade away. Just have to accept it the way it is.

7 months departed from wife, seeing my Son is wonderful. the moment he’s gone I don’t feel much. The last 4 months, not even my closest friends text or anything. I know I’m away from my family because of things I’ve done but 7 months sober and away from all them is hard. I’ve only been invited out 4 times total

Ever since my experience in 4th grade, I've felt like nobody appreciated me when I always helped them, and whenever I needed them, they would always take the other's side. I never told anybody about this because I didn't trust anyone, and they have never been through the same things and wouldn't understand. Recently, I've finally found someone who I can trust, and who understands me, and I will never be as grateful as I am now. Currently, we are starting our journey to try and help others and overcome our depression. Stay strong everyone because in the end, if you kill yourself, you're just passing on the pain to others.

I saw this video and saw that I go through almost all of this and the line "You aren't living your life you are surviving" That hit hard

@Fire62Link

Жыл бұрын

Hope everything is going ok for you. Is everything OK?

@Opthomas_Prime

Жыл бұрын

@@Fire62Link everything is ok, things have gotten better so far

@QuietStorm4964

Жыл бұрын

Same. I've lost interest in a lot of things I used to be interested in. Just work, eat, sleep, repeat.

@user-kk2lj3zu7p

11 ай бұрын

​@@QuietStorm4964exactly like life just got so boring somehow..

@Aesthetic-bts

11 ай бұрын

Yup same , it is true

This already speaks to me, I've told a lot of people that "I'm fine" to avoid venting to someone new I'm trying to meet and chat

@happymemories_videography

2 жыл бұрын

Same.

@asingularmcnugget3341

2 жыл бұрын

Same here, so that they don’t worry 24/7

@penderyn8794

2 жыл бұрын

Avoid computer gaming... It only makes things worse in the long run. Trust me I’m 34 I know

@potatoeswithmuscles

2 жыл бұрын

for me i say im fine im good just because if i talk about it i feel like im being selfish i feel like all i want is attention so i just suffer alone but then i try to force myself to just feel okay

@asingularmcnugget3341

2 жыл бұрын

@@potatoeswithmuscles I’ve done that since I was 4 and now I don’t know how I feel about anything

Its always okay to say “im not okay”❤ We are here for you, they are here for you.

@Cube2394

17 күн бұрын

Ty

I don’t really have depression but I do have moments at happy events where I feel wrong cuz of the people. I felt insecure about my body too but I think I am over it now … especially in school I feel emotionally numb and I don’t know why but it got a little better now always remember that you are NOT ALONE! Thank you so much for this video you are so friendly and caring ❤

Really hope I can say “I’m fine” and truly mean it someday. As in actually feeling that way mentally/emotionally. 😌 Also, anyone else out there feeling the same or similar, hopefully things get better for you too. 🙏

@loveanimals8485

2 жыл бұрын

that will happen if you try and actually be happy mentally and physically don't ever forget that have a great life and try to be happy cuz one day it might actually happen if you just try

@WoW-qs4bv

2 жыл бұрын

Holy, now that I think about it, for me it's been nearly a decade

@seasalt9289

2 жыл бұрын

When I’m actually fine I’ll stop saying “I’m fine”. I hate lying so I feel like “I’m fine” is neutral

@Trooper50000

2 жыл бұрын

@@seasalt9289 I take the "I am fine" as don't want to talk about it, because that is the way I use it

@thelavenderangel4325

2 жыл бұрын

I wanna like this comment but ifb do itll be 6 66 likes, I'll be back to like this! :) Edit: I liked it at 667

"These moments don't last forever." Grief does. 💔

@graceogden1562

4 ай бұрын

And that's OK sometimes

@Fire62Link

4 ай бұрын

Hey, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. Grief doesn't have to last forever. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@iswearitstheweed33

3 ай бұрын

yup

@Fire62Link

3 ай бұрын

@@iswearitstheweed33 Hey, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@scared_person1234

3 ай бұрын

Bro, I literally started crying when I read that.

This is my confort channel. Your voice is so calm and your videos are all so helpful and calming. You’re the best!

Thank you for making this, it is nice to have hope and to know for sure someone understands

"Your not living ur life.... ur surviving" That hit

@pulvuros6775

Жыл бұрын

It did… 😞

@krisnipolo-tq6ce

Жыл бұрын

🥀

@sibis8336

Жыл бұрын

I dont want to survive..I want to live

@jordanfernandes9239

Жыл бұрын

@@sibis8336 there's no option for that 🥹

My parents taught this to me: Strong people don't cry. If you aren't fine, fake it until you are. Now, it's always about how I don't tell my parents anything, and how I'm always hiding away, cold to my family. I honestly relate to a lot of this, but for the people I care about, I need to be strong.

@sophiescalzitti

2 жыл бұрын

The truly strong people are the ones who admit they have weaknesses and the ones who aren't afraid to show that they are hurting.

@petarniciforovic6543

2 жыл бұрын

Yes... I know how it is. Rare are the ones who would understand. My parents would not understand lots of it. I often find it difficult to get through to others what is wrong, when it is wrong. Partially because I am not sure either...

@izukiilovvs

2 жыл бұрын

I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW HOW- TRUE THIS I- IS

@Coco_xoxo

2 жыл бұрын

Same, it’s a sucky mentality honestly

@beatrizxinyudiazalvarez8849

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe it's just not cold family. Maybe they're protecting you from society, who is sure to judge when seeing your vulnerability. You can always talk with your family about how they make you feel. Maybe you can acomplish something.

I feel so called out. This entire video just summed up my life rn. I needed this tho. Thank you

These videos are helping me help my friend, I'm autistic and I find it hard to know what to do. Thank you for helping my friend! ❤

To be honest whenever I say I'm fine I want someone to see through the lie and talk to me but I hate making others worry about me and I just hate the feeling that I'm worrying everyone

@nagimadaribaeva4361

4 ай бұрын

Same😢

@mysticalpenguin44

4 ай бұрын

I can agree on this

@user-le2pd2hh4b

4 ай бұрын

So we all have this

@IJWTKM_Cloudly

4 ай бұрын

I feel u too it's ok. Many of us r suffering too, and it's going to be ok but pls try to get help if u can... I am worried about everyone nowadays....

@yash8426

4 ай бұрын

Fr. If I tell someone they will change the way they talk to me or act around me because they're concerned about me but I don't want their pity

I lost a friend due to suicide yesterday, and it was the worst feeling ever. She refused to tell me she wasn't fine until about 5 minutes before she hung herself. Her goodbye was the most heartbreaking thing ever. I thought about doing it myself, but I saw this. Thank you. Love you bestie, see you in the afterlife ❤🕊

@MargaretBonnieart

3 ай бұрын

Oh I’m sorry :( hope you get better soon

@emmasweirdness1221

3 ай бұрын

I am so, so sorry. Loosing a loved one (i count bestfriends as loved ones) to suicide must ne horrible. I personally have never had this happen, but don't do it. Just as you miss your friend, many people will miss you. Rest in peace to your friend. ❤

@friendshapeddoggo

3 ай бұрын

I am so sorry for your loss, this is truly heartbreaking. Losing someone due to suicide is probably one of the worst pains ever, I hope you get better soon, be strong, and Rest In Peace to your friend. ❤🕊

@Touchgrass4me

3 ай бұрын

I'm so sorry for you rip 🙏

@DeusBadger

3 ай бұрын

I've had that happen to me, too. It's been a few years, but stay strong and don't go down the route i went.

started going to this channel when i saw myself smiling in the mirror and being disgusted. Genuinely could not keep up that smile without crying, when i looked at myself atleast.

I'm happy to say that I'm watching this video again after probably 1.5 years and last time i was experiencing most of the things mentioned here but this time it's barely any. I want to tell those who are experiencing these difficulties that don't lose hope, try step by step and yes every step matters. It might be just a single step for others but you know how challenging that step was for you and be proud of each step that you take. Appreciate even the smallest of efforts that you make in a day, even if it's just calling a friend or stepping out for a walk or even dressing up. Remember that 2 years from now, your younger self would be so proud of your future self. That feeling nobody will ever understand. Nobody is living your life so nobody will understand. Stop expecting anything from others , you came to the world alone and you'll leave the world alone, so accept that and be your own best friend and treat yourself like you're the best thing in the world and yes you are. Dont worry you'll get through this and you'll be very proud of yourself. ❤

"... you're not living your life, you're just surviving." That last part hit me hard. I've been feeling numb for a while and has nothing to look forward to, I feel sad but idk why I can't cry.

@bhumikaroy2739

2 жыл бұрын

Are you Ok? I am there for you, if you want to share anything 🌹🌹

@bharatisharma971

2 жыл бұрын

Same happening to me I want to burst out crying but can't..

@alenarice7624

2 жыл бұрын

same

@kaoikikara

2 жыл бұрын

Same, and now the only thing I am feeling aside from what feels like forced happyness, is anger, rage, hate, sadness, and just pure white nothing. Most of this comes from school as well which leads me to become detached from my learning, falling behind, and I fully loved school when I was younger (strange I know lol) but now I just want to leave, get to the end of it, tolerate my classmates just a little more just to fail, every week it's the same just different topics, and it doesn't help that when I do reach out when I'm at school I'm not actually helped like the counselors should be doing, I don't like getting help from them anymore because they just tell me to sit in a room where there's so many other kids because the counselor is 'busy' and when I was even younger they taught me how to keep it in, how to hide my true feelings and I'm at the point that when I do try to find my true feelings, they're just not there- or I'm breaking down in negative emotions. Whenever I genuinely feel happy or I at least think I am, I always stop to ask myself, am I actually happy right now? Or am I forcing it. I'm glad to be in therapy right now to work through everything, but I've been in and out of therapy with different therapists and counselors so much in my life that I can't help but think the same, I mean if I have to explain all over again to another person, why should I mention it in the first place? Luckily my teachers understand the pure stress and anxiety my classmates usually cause me throughout the day and I'm thankful for having friends that I think I can be ,what I believe is myself, around them, to have them genuinely cheer me up as far as I'm aware. But there is always at least once with every friend where I ask myself "am I going too far? Am I too mean? Too clingy? Too talkitive? Are they actually my friend? Do they truly care for me? Why would they want to be friends with me anyways? Am I too annoying?" And more-- when I do let my feelings out I would usually quickly shut it back in and 'shutdown' which is me ignoring my feelings and needs so I don't hinder everyone else... I usually draw to distract myself, and recently I've remembered reading is something I could do as well, but not only does it distract my anxiety and such but I end up not learning a thing becoming stressed because of that, and when I do become overwhelmed with anxiety or stress I fall asleep specifically when I'm in classes and they have us do assignments on the computer- I've been better about it but I have by far no where near a stable sleep schedule- And I'm sick and tired of people saying to just ignore it, or don't let words have power, or useless 'advice' like that- believe me I know it's what I already do because that's what I've been told to do since before I was 7, trust me, I'm GREAT at hiding my true feelings that not even I can tell anymore if I'm even HAPPY- Sorry for going on a rant- needed to get it out of my system, if you actually read to this point uh, thanks Ig- here- have a cookie? 🍪... Bye-

@TurboAttackxbl

2 жыл бұрын

I've balled through this entire video because this is me 100% and right down to every fuzzing detail. I'm relieved in a sense but torn in many others, I though I was doing what I needed to but this proves to me that I am lost in life and have no direction now. Always looking ahead to a better reality and not living in the one I'm currently in. Damn this hits me hard soo effin hard.

Everyone who watched or clicked this video didn’t do it for fun they just got thinking one night out some stuff together then made sure by watching this or this proves their suspicion

@AimRightHere

3 ай бұрын

And I was right I'm afraid of opening up and when I want to feel like they wouldn't care.

@Amara34062

3 ай бұрын

That was actually the reason I clicked on it my life felt odd and things felt wrong so I wanted to check and turns out I'm am totally not fine.

@gabeyeigh5605

3 ай бұрын

I've known that I'm not fine for several years i just don't have money for therapy and too much goes wrong in my life all the time for me to fix it myself so I've just accepted that i have to live in a constant state of not fine i just clicked the vid bc i wanted to see how many of the 7 applied to me

@Heavenly_Salty

3 ай бұрын

@@gabeyeigh5605 well keep it up yor still alive right? And if you dont feel it then cash in some holiday days from work and buy somthing nice

@Heavenly_Salty

3 ай бұрын

@@Amara34062 same here

You're the best channel for therapy thanks!❤

I’m guilty of the “I’m fine” even when I’m not. My work is stressful and yes, I do always look forward to the weekend. What helps me is seeing my work best friends whenever I go to the office. We’re all on the same floor and one of them is also on my team. We always have great times together and it’s helped me a lot in looking forward to getting through the day

2:48 made me burst into tears. I've been lost in my own emotions for months now if not years. I do not know what I am feeling if anything at all, I feel like every single thing I say about how I feel to others is a lie. Thank you Psych2Go for making this kind of content available to so many people, your whole team is absolutely amazing for doing this.

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

wanna talk ab it? :)

@humpreywolf9997

2 жыл бұрын

Yes please help me please

@dailyyy_

2 жыл бұрын

Feel the same

@Psych2go

2 жыл бұрын

Hey there Dorotea, it's okay. If you know what you say is not a lie, then you just need to slowly get comfortable with speaking your truth. Please take care :)

@angelina4904

2 жыл бұрын

Last christmas felt like a normal day and i even cried so i say that i feel you and hope all this stress ends soon...its nice to talk to someone about how i feel 😌

I've always been afraid to talk to anyone about my problems. It always seemed like they'd say, "Well I've been though worse." Or " You have it so easy."

@ArtHuman15

Жыл бұрын

Me too. I just feel like my problems are insignificant compared to others.

@charislo2934

Жыл бұрын

Yeah, I feel at lost for words when they say something like "Oh, I have it worse" or something because it makes me feel that I'm just too sensitive, but at the same time I don't feel heard.

@boonotfound2195

Жыл бұрын

Yes, there are in fact some people that have it worse than you but that doesn't mean your problems don't matter anymore even if it's not much compared to others youre problem is still there and needs to be taken care of. And if you look for someone to listen to you and don't say I have it worse. I think I'm a good listener if any of you feel comfortable we can talk. :)

@FaidoPlays

Жыл бұрын

Hey dude. I can actually understand how that feels. After watching this video, I have realized that I am not fine. For example, I am probably emotionally numb. I overthink. I only look at my bad sides. About the overthinking thing, I have been thinking more philosophical thoughts than ever. As an atheist, I am constantly trying to comprehend what comes after death. And what I think at most times about that is simply nothing. There would be nothing afterwards. But it would not be boring or anything since my brain would not work. By that logic, I have thought about suicide. I swear, I am literally 13 years olds. I have not experienced anything worth while with my life. I have spent most of my life alive spent in what I would describe as a prison, no simply coming back home on my own, to do my homework on my own only to repeat the same pattern every darn day. And after all that, I have practically said none of that to a friend or family member. It is easier for me to write this as a reply to a stranger’s comment. I instead am afraid of what their reaction would be. Most of my friends live in different countries having met them by friends who moved. At school, I have basically 1 friend. And I feel like we are loosing touch. When it comes to my parents, I feel like they think that I am some sort of super man with no flaws. I mean, I spent a year trying to convince to my parents that I need to lose weight so I should eat less. So to sum it all up, I am not fine and I have no one to talk to. I hope that you are doing ok by the way.

@ArtHuman15

Жыл бұрын

@@FaidoPlays I’m sorry about that, I really hope you can talk to someone soon.

As a young teenager struggling to keep on the surface, this helps a lot, and the other videos too. I've always been a highly sensitive person, and also a very anxious person, but it got worse around two years ago. There is one person who knows the whole story and how rough it's made simple tasks like doing homework or getting work done. She's the one who just kept her mouth shut and listened and only interrupted for clarification. She's one of my teachers. I was in a class that she hosted back in March where I did a project on my trauma from elementary school. I will never be able to thank her enough for listening and helping me get that done and through it, especially the day after a migraine, which I only get when I experience high levels of anxiety.

I cried while hearing this.i relate almost all. You also sound like koolen❤

Your voice is so soothing. Just listening to the narrator's voice is like therapy

@sicko7113

2 жыл бұрын

It’s soft and welcoming like she just got done with tea early in the morning

About the "you're only surviving life" hits me I've been kinda stressing myself out on school, I don't even know why :')

@oconaddify

2 жыл бұрын

I’ve been surviving life as an ICU tech. The job is so stressful and the other things going on in my life make it harder to cope with my job. I always wait for my day off. I strive to not be at work because home is where I can safely wallow in my feelings. I’ve had to do a lit of soul searching to figure out who I want to be. I’m finally becoming who I want to be but I still deal with so much stress and self doubt.

@Sophisticatedesire

2 жыл бұрын

And they say "school is important" yes it is, but y'all don't even want to help and make us over work w school, school just making me having suicidal thoughts.

@darldinaebot3814

2 жыл бұрын

I have 8 classes and two jobs and need a third job now booboo. Relate!

@someone_0000

2 жыл бұрын

6:12 im living like this my whole life

KZread sure knows what i need,i was gonna go sleep and "run on tofu" , thank god they recc me ur video again❤ ill try my best to make the best out of my life!

Thanks for helping out and i really cried after this because it solved all of my problems so thank you really really much and i love your content you might just be our social media therapist

There are actually people who are so isolated and they don’t have anybody who’d ask them “how are you?” around them; they don’t even have a chance to say “I’m fine”. More and more people are feeling so lost and alone in this sad & fake world. I love this channel and the contents of the videos. The illustrations are so cute and entertaining as well. 😊

@naturalhealingmexico

Жыл бұрын

Very well said, technology is a poison to our soul, people are getting alone and segregated due to social media, etc. It's seem that normal human interaction is a hard task these days....may God make the sun shine again after this dark clouds we are in now.

@miky1774

Жыл бұрын

i can confirm

@johncox2865

Жыл бұрын

There are actually people who know better than to answer such questions.

@charislo2934

Жыл бұрын

This explains a lot to me, I barely get those even my own parents.

@Julie_And_I

Жыл бұрын

That’s me ig

I feel like I'm losing myself alot of the time but I try my best to keep a smile on my face

@JalapenoCat1933

4 ай бұрын

I’m the same there man, know you aren’t alone in the world.

@goldensolntse

4 ай бұрын

same and you don't even know the way back to being u

@Fire62Link

3 ай бұрын

For all: Hey, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@Fire62Link

3 ай бұрын

@@goldensolntse Hey, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@Fire62Link

3 ай бұрын

@@JalapenoCat1933 Hey, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope things get better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares and that can help. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

This is a good video that helps. As a man with a family to support It hit me hard to hear that we are just surviving and realise it's true. I also see why others would say that talking about it doesn't help because the people we had talked to would not. Listen and instead judge and point out my mistakes but not offer a solution. I know as a grown man I have to figure that out myself but I need help.

Omg you nailed every single point in this video. Exactly how i feel😢

"Your not living your life, you're surviving" that hit me hard. I was surviving for 5 years. I just existed barely making it day to day. I'm glad I'm finally past all that. And actually enjoying life

@aeiliasdivine5414

8 ай бұрын

You're *

@Theres104DaysOfSummerVacation

8 ай бұрын

Bro just workout??? #theydontknowmeson #workout

@jacobgroves9274

8 ай бұрын

@@Theres104DaysOfSummerVacation listen fam I hate to sound rude here, but I do. A little too much sometimes. It's not the guaranteed fix, it took a lot of therapy to get me here today.

@xtremeyoylecake

7 ай бұрын

@@aeiliasdivine5414not the time bro

@randombobsmith8925

7 ай бұрын

For some there is no getting past. It's effort to wake up and only gets worse thereafter.

Roses are red. I have a phone. Nobody texts me. Forever alone. I like being alone. But have self destructive behaviors that push people away. This list hit closer to home than I thought.

@LakituKoopa

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry to hear that. Hope everything will somehow work out for you in the future

@jonathanwilliams365

2 жыл бұрын

A unique poem, but sad at the same timr

@niroshanaperera7330

2 жыл бұрын

I hope this reply to your comment can count as a text 🤗 I like being alone too. But eventually it does get lonely. I suppose we're alone... but we're alone, together. That kinda makes me feel better. I hope it makes you feel better too.

@SirKingCora

2 жыл бұрын

@@LakituKoopa thank you for the kind words.

@SirKingCora

2 жыл бұрын

@@niroshanaperera7330 I appreciate your kind sentiment. And I hope the same for you as well.

Your voice is so calming in these videos ☺️😊🥰

the survival part really hit me after having alot of mental issues i just feel like iam going through life and not enjoying life im turning 16 month later plus suicidal thoughts really bother me this video is really helpful for me

I don't trust people to say "I'm not fine", but luckily - after 15 years looking for - I found a great psychologist, which I trust and feel safe to say it. I don't feel like talking to regular people, but finding therapy was the best escape

@loveanimals8485

2 жыл бұрын

thats great have a nice day getting therapy

@Ldr1999

2 жыл бұрын

I'm saving up to afford a therapy and just wanted to check if it actually helped you and how soon did you felt changes? I don't have anyone who could help me out, maybe you can recommend anyone who is doing online therapy? Is online therapy effective?

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ldr1999 u can talk to me if u want

@ihavenoname2626

2 жыл бұрын

Proud of you for getting therapy ❤

@harjeekaur9942

2 жыл бұрын

@@Ldr1999 you can check description box in their videos their are some links maybe that can help you or if you can't tell anything to parents you can try finding out a counsellor maybe in your school or any psychologist (teacher teaching there) just telling what I am trying maybe it can helpful for you, takee caree :)

I literally started crying watching this because i realized this video is exactly what i needed to hear and i have most of the signs.

@asiadangelo9885

10 ай бұрын

me too..

@lingeringpiss

10 ай бұрын

lmao crybaby

@bunnybutt5664

10 ай бұрын

Same here. After this, I decided to get therapy. I hope it'll help...

@el_zug540

9 ай бұрын

Μe too I fell so sad

@deadlyV666

9 ай бұрын

Same

But fr i rlly love your vids and your voice sounds so calming It makes me wanna cry it slunds so comforting

Telling yourself you are fine gets you through the day. It may get you through the week, or the month, or the year, and thats good enough for me. Being able to function is good enough

I try talking, but nobody, no matter who it is, ever listens. I’ve learned to just deal with it.

@pinkyanimates3460

2 жыл бұрын

You can talk to me whenever you need dude!

@lamaramariewilson6746

2 жыл бұрын

You can talk to me too! Everyone needs a friend

@eldor7436

2 жыл бұрын

Me too :( what about to talk to each other maybe this makes us comfortable?

@NM-nc8qk

2 жыл бұрын

You can talk to me as well :-)

@userm180

2 жыл бұрын

already 3 people here that u can talk to when u need it, 4 with me included. some people care. it's hard to find them but when u do, just know that u can trust them. sending lots of love

I'm not depressed. I've just been having a bad day for the last 5 years.

@user-pn3bp7kj6f

2 жыл бұрын

17 years*

@bhumikaroy2739

2 жыл бұрын

Are you Ok? I am there for you, if you want to share anything 🌹🌹

@lyricsrloud6482

2 жыл бұрын

Same.

@bhumikaroy2739

2 жыл бұрын

@@lyricsrloud6482 Why? Do you want to share anything?

@makachak

Ай бұрын

Згоден, життя зараз тяжке піздець.

I have all of these, I just won't talk to anyone about it because I don't trust anyone. I don't even trust my own self.

Thank u for this this gives me hope and peace for my future life and my health ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

When I told a person I really liked that I was low…it was the biggest mistake ever. Most people respond with “that’s too bad” or “get a therapist.” In this world you either realize no one is going to save you and do something about it yourself or keep living the same life keeping you low based on my environment. This is why I will always support people. Wishing everyone the best.

@achiever579

3 ай бұрын

There are people who I care about and want to help but I can't physically due to distance, and urge them to seek proper or professional help, but they don't seem to want to help themselves and it sucks, because I care about them so much but it's sorta like they won't let me help them or help themselves. I sometimes wonder if I was there in person if I could help more

@WolfiegachaGachah-ze9ir

3 ай бұрын

I always say I. fine because like if I say oh I'm not fine then everyone comes near to me and stas oh let me get someone to you and I feel overwhelmed when there's a lot of noise and I just always fell like I'm a burden because most the time when I ask my friends they just ussaly ignore me I ussaly have to say it about 5 or 10 times for them to actually hear me it started when I came to england I was 4 and that change in my life affected how I felt I couldn't keep in touch with my dad witch really ruined me at first I loved being in england I loved my new school and I love being there but then bully's started coming and I had to move schools I really don't like it there because there are even more bully's their ones even was my first ever friend he said he was going to vote to the school council for them to kick me out and he did much more I always tell other people really positive stuff and help them whenever their hurt but no one seems to notice me and just notice other people who are just standing there doing nothing I always ignore the feeling I get when people ignore me tho I'm sure it only for now ittl probably change when I'm maybe 10 or 12 all I know is that I'm fine

@quackfr

3 ай бұрын

It doesn’t make sense, when I say I’m fine, they would give me worried looks or try to get answers on how I’m feeling. But if I do say how I’m feeling, they say “you aren’t the main character” or something like that. Sometimes I wish I was the main character.

@Shifty175

3 ай бұрын

My is i dont speak up to much has happened in the few years i been alive i was born life was decent my mom was in jail my dad left me i had my grandpa he made me love my life my dad came back in my my life i was abused from 9 years until it stopped my mom was out of jail and i got a baby brother but because all the abuse i basically let my mom kidnap me and bring me to new york my contact with my grandpa was almost completely lost it was still ok they about a year later he died to cancer thats when my suicide thoughts started i was forced to go back to my dad luckily he changed he didnt abuse me anymore but i ended up isolating myself i would only leave my room when my cousins came over and they didnt very oftenly school started 8 got stressed then i started getting close to no sleep about 2-3 hours every day i was insecure amd i basically made it a reflex to tell everyone i was doing amazing

@sugargliderlover2

3 ай бұрын

This happened to me a a few months ago and I regret it cause now my depression is worse then it was

My friend literally just said they were fine today when they clearly weren't...damn these videos are so helpful.

@bittersweetsymphony2113

2 жыл бұрын

Your a really good friend for noticing. And trying to reach out x

@kallousbr

2 жыл бұрын

@@bittersweetsymphony2113 only thing is that they didn't tell me they were feeling bad...I don't think they will pretty soon either.

@bittersweetsymphony2113

2 жыл бұрын

@@kallousbr thats not good :/ but all you can do is be there and keep checking in with them and hopefully when they're ready they will talk to you. They are very lucky to have somone like you in their life x

@kallousbr

2 жыл бұрын

@@bittersweetsymphony2113 thanks for that mate.

@5Demona5

2 жыл бұрын

Next time they say they're fine, tell em "I can tell you're not fine"

This video makes me feel better and more confident in myself ❤

I have 5-6 signs and they are not getting enough sleep, suicidal thoughts, not being enough and more cuz for a big time i have been really stressed with school and exams this video helped me so much i cried too thank you for this video. ❤

“You don’t know what you’re feeling, because there doesn’t seem to be a strong emotion” this sums me up so well. Sometimes people ask me “are you happy?” And then I say “idk” and they respond with “are you sad then?” And then I say “idk” again because I just really don’t know. I have moments with my close friends where I feel at ease and other moments where I’m more stressed, but I don’t know if I would describe myself as either happy or sad

@Je11keng

2 жыл бұрын

EXACTLY ME 💯

@eleich420

2 жыл бұрын

In my case, half of the time I'm having explosive panic attacks because of the stupidest things, leading to suicidal thoughts in most of the occasions. The other half of my time I'm some kind of happy, but deep inside I know I'm just waiting for the next panic attack. And I'm also only "surviving"

@Je11keng

2 жыл бұрын

@@eleich420 sameeeee 😔😔😔

@Playtonz

2 жыл бұрын

@@eleich420 you need to get some help man

@eleich420

2 жыл бұрын

@@Playtonz Yes, I do. And I receive it but still

I might be depressed, emotionally unwell, a lot of fake friends which make depression worse, but i'll try to help others to not go the same path as me in any way i can...

@gabeyeigh5605

3 ай бұрын

Right here with u on the same path and i also try to help others to not experience this as well

@madarahelios911

3 ай бұрын

I’m the same way… Maybe helping others is our own way to help ourselves feel better…

@swastik3291

3 ай бұрын

Me fr. I don't have any loved ones who can understand me, I have tried telling my only best friend and family but they didn't take any action. I want to be a musician but I don't have any support in thag either. I am always forced to do stuff that others enjoy. I am left alone.

@Pawel_Adamczyk

3 ай бұрын

@@swastik3291 get a temporary side job, move out, make new friends (make sure that they are not fake friends) think of your song that might be inspired from others, go to college, make music (DO NOT POST IT ON TIKTOK!), post it on youtube, if it goes viral, you can make similiar songs to the one you just made... Btw the reasone why you should not post it on tiktok is because 1 thing can go viral and the rest will not be viral, and you are not left alone, there will be someone who will understand you, never give up your hopes　　(⁠◠⁠‿⁠◕⁠)

@swastik3291

3 ай бұрын

@@Pawel_Adamczyk thanks mafe

even if you say that you are not ok, no one will really understand you anyways.

@ender5023

Ай бұрын

Yep

@user-qd5wx6ed9o

14 күн бұрын

Yes that makes me feel alone

Thanks for the video, really relate to all of this

"THE MORE PAIN I GET, THE MORE STRONGER I BECOME"

@Flame-istic-usern

6 ай бұрын

-some depressed masochist

@pakuvang4775

4 ай бұрын

As someone with trust issues, YES!

@Will_Is_Coming

4 ай бұрын

... Are you manifesting or..?

@sromondo2681

4 ай бұрын

That is actually true

@Willverinerage

4 ай бұрын

shut up dude.....

To be honest "I'm fine," is my default response to someone asking "are you ok?"

@daisuke910

Жыл бұрын

Me too. But until recently I took some courage to say... hmmm actually I am not. A friend ask how was my holidays. I replied first as I was ok, but then another friend that I just opened up that I was struggling was also there. I looked at her and with a heavy heart I said to the friend, no, I wasn't doing pretty well. Every time I tried saying that, it feels like I had something stuck in my throat.

@r.d.6290

Жыл бұрын

Answering "Good" to coworker's "How are you?" is the safest thing to do in the workplace.

@aradhyathakkar6755

Жыл бұрын

@@daisuke910 Its the tears or guilt in the throat which feels heavy , at that time just need a reason to cry.

@daisuke910

Жыл бұрын

@@aradhyathakkar6755 tell me about it 😢 i just dont want to burden others of my problem

Tbank you,you have the calmest voice

i’ve hid behind the saying of “i’m fine” for so long while I was hurting. I love your chanel so much! can you do more about self harm? thank you for your amazing work

I, a suicide survivor, can confirm that this can in some cases make things worse. I would always say that I’m fine to either convince myself that my feelings weren’t accurate or important or I would tell others that because I didn’t want to make my friends and family worry. Trust me when I say it’s ok to speak up, and if anyone can’t, I will ALWAYS be here for you. Edit: I was diagnosed with GAD (generalized anxiety disorder), PTSD (Post traumatic stress disorder), ADHD (Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder), depression, and there is a chance that I have genetically passed down bipolar from my parents. I have been skipping entire meals day after day and neglecting my physical and mental health. I started thinking that I wasn’t good enough for my friends and people I have dated, I thought I needed to change myself into someone I wasn’t and because of that I have trouble deciding who I am as a person and who I actually want to be to begin with. I strongly encourage anyone that is going through what I am going through to seek help because all of these things lead to me doing some pretty awful things that I regret.

@crystalmeier6579

6 ай бұрын

I wish someone really was here for me. I'm a 58yr old woman all alone. I don't care when God takes me. I don't feel anything anymore. My only Son was killed in a car accident 17 years ago. He was 21. He was the kindest human being to everyone he met. The silence hurts my head. I'm glad you survived.

@Chillforev-dd9wr

6 ай бұрын

@@crystalmeier6579Your one strong person I admire you.

@AnAnimatorIsHere

6 ай бұрын

@@crystalmeier6579 Please don't give up, for the sake of yourself and the sake of others. The people you cared for that have passed on would have wanted you to keep going and you should too. I believe in you.

@_nooneyet_

6 ай бұрын

@@crystalmeier6579 I remember one guy, whose wife and little daughter died in a car accident, he was so damn low, he was surviving, not living. He worked and did nothing but work. One day, he saw a KZreadr who is a male kindergarten teacher, and he saw something, something that made a spark in his soul, and now, he has adopted a girl and wants to give her happiness. All I'm trying to say is you never know when that spark will happen and it will happen when you least expect it. I know, it's been 17 years for you, it's a long time indeed, but you shouldn't give up, because time is just time. Prove your son, who's in the better place now, that you're a strong woman, I know that he doesn't want you to leave yet and he will never want that, but he'll feel proud (actually he already does) when he will find out that such a strong woman raised him, that such a strong woman got through that pain and kept going. I almost know what you're going through, because I was suicidal as well, but I never lost someone yet thank God, but I was going through that one year, and you 17 years, I can't imagine how you kept that long, but your son and I wish you to keep going. Idk if that will help, but maybe you can go to groups of people who have also lost loved ones and speak out, talk to them, that may help you. I'm an atheist, but may God bless you, because if he doesn't exist for me, he exist for the people who believe in him!

@maciej_zieba

6 ай бұрын

​@@crystalmeier6579if you ever need anyone to chat to we here. I know how the feeling of being alone 🙁

"You need to get out more and meet people". Dude, that's what made me depressed in the first place.

@Eli-mx8lz

3 ай бұрын

Same my mother said the same thing. But idk people just don't seem to like me since. I was always alone. 😭 Life is stupid no matter how hard I try nobody likes or wants me. And I honestly so no reason to get through this anymore...

@UserDroke

3 ай бұрын

Same

@supercomicyt5380

2 ай бұрын

@@Eli-mx8lzexactly

I've all of these symptoms. :) BTW I love this Channel. I'm so Glad I found this

This actually helped me so much thank u so much

"-They're there to support you" No. _I_ am there to support them _I_ am the one helping them. Who needs help when i can cover it up by helping others with their needs? I've always been the therapist. For my parents, family members, friends, and even strangers. I don't need to ask for help. I don't ever ask for things that might help. I'm okay with just being there, a reusable person who can help you at any time and is always on standby for you, I can't let myself be the opposite, even if i get broken or not, I don't care. I'm fine, I don't need help.

@Ration_25

3 ай бұрын

Get help when you need it...your their theripist...maby...let them ne yours

@That_Missing_Sock

3 ай бұрын

hate to say no butttt...❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❌❗❗❗❗❗IM worrying about you

@Ration_25

3 ай бұрын

@@That_Missing_Sock ?

@That_Missing_Sock

3 ай бұрын

@@Ration_25 Yes?

@Ration_25

3 ай бұрын

@@That_Missing_Sock but even the therapist needs a therapist sometimes

I’ve never really noticed how many other people feel the same way I do about all this. I live in the past and opening up to anybody is my hardest challenge. I don’t like who I am and don’t know how to change, but this channel has been really helpful to me, I’m so glad I found it

@aresstef

8 ай бұрын

Feel you brother. I want to change for the better and have in the past, but now I’m rock bottom again and I don’t know how to lift myself up

@jasminee2320

8 ай бұрын

​​​​@@aresstefIt's really amazing how you were able to make changes and lift yourself up before. Since you did it before, I know you have it in you to do it again. Could the same tools you used before help you this time as well? -I'm wondering 🌹

@JoricoLentejas

8 ай бұрын

Hi, how are you all?

@Fire62Link

7 ай бұрын

@@aresstef Hey, I hope things are getting better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

@Fire62Link

7 ай бұрын

Hey, I hope things are getting better for you. Please keep on trying to make things better for yourself. If you want to talk to someone about something, let me know. My contact information is in my about section. If not me then please talk to someone you trust and if needed try talking to a professional and seek help from them. There is always someone that cares. I also have a link in my about section and a playlist called "Helpful/Inspirational Videos" that have information, ideas, links and more that can help you. Feel free to make use of them. I hope this helps and things get better for you. God bless.

Reaching out to the counselor with the contact you've provided was extremely helpful and I would like to thank you a lot for that ❤❤and your page is helpful in many ways to understand myself too. Thankyou ❤❤❤

This made me cry. I didnt realise how bad my symptoms were getting. I relate to 4 of these and its devastating. Im so sorry to everyone that experience these things ❤😭

@nikkiladouceur1910

11 ай бұрын

Thank you 😢

@animefans2420

10 ай бұрын

@@nikkiladouceur1910 how u guys are better now how are u doing ? I would love 💕 too listen too ur problems and help a little maybe

@tiger8play269

10 ай бұрын

Same

@yavcostales6783

10 ай бұрын

I hit all of them.

@valerieli880

10 ай бұрын

I don’t even know if I am for any cuz idk how I feel abt stuff

This is my life in a nut shell. I can smile & pretend to be "happy" even when I'm not. I got very good at surviving & hiding my pain. I say "I'm OK" cause I know people typically don't care.

@AyasDoll

2 жыл бұрын

This is my whole life summarized in 4 sentences despite the fact that we don’t know each other. Nice.

@rabiia_art

2 жыл бұрын

Totally me tho! Sorry to hear this..

@Rose-gy1cc

2 жыл бұрын

You’ve summarized me. I pray you get through this my friend.

@MeemahSN

2 жыл бұрын

People are selfish brats, don’t trust them with your secrets. If you push them away, they will use the information against you

@onyxlotus7126

2 жыл бұрын

@@Rose-gy1cc thank you. My thoughts are with you as well ❤

Ive had depression for a while. This video is definitely explaining what depression is. In my opinion this is the worst its gotten so far. It is definitely difficult. The isolation is definitely a big one. The emotional numbness is somewhat relatable. Its not an easy situation. But Im gaining the courage to talk to people about it.

I think the biggest setback is not wanting to become a to burden others. The idea is that becoming an inconvenience will only drive people away; which would be counterproductive if dealing with chronic loneliness. People want to be around positivity, not negativity. Therefore, people put on a mask. I know from experience.

@tuxedo1557

Жыл бұрын

Here is my advice, be yourself. if a lot of people end up driven away then you wouldn’t of wasted time trying to be friends with them. this filtering will hopefully help you find people you truly connect with rejection kinda sucks though

@iLilith11

Жыл бұрын

almost everyone will reject you if you're open and honest 😔 that's truly painful

@Chloe-ju7rp

Жыл бұрын

Deuteronomy 31:8

@charly7937

Жыл бұрын

Sounds like japan...

@What-ol9gs

Жыл бұрын

​@@iLilith11 Almost everyone. It really puts into perspective the significance of those who stay.

It reminds me of the meme: "They ask you how you are and you just have to say that you're fine when you're not really fine but you can't get into it because they would never understand"

@Heatwavesonjune15th

2 жыл бұрын

It's funny because it's true

@dannysiragusa2000

2 жыл бұрын

Facts

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A Very Calming Video on, How your Reality is Controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzread.info/dash/bejne/hHWrmrGxdc2Tgso.html

@Kyumifun

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly....

I dont struggle with any of these signs and i wish my happininess to anyone in the world. I prevented a really good friend from suïcide and even he is living a pretty happy life right now. This video is worth a 100x extra Algorithims on top of the current ones, Love

Omggg..your voice is so calming and truly amazing!Please keep up these educiational and other videos that you create,Do you draw everything in your videos??It's amazing

I’m not depressed, I’m just anxious and exhausted. I need to be left alone at the moment so I can enjoy myself and my work (which is also my passion). Thank you very much.

@ammarahilyas8895

2 жыл бұрын

I hope you get better and I understand -someone who deals with those thoughts

@cindy846

2 жыл бұрын

@@ammarahilyas8895 Thank you! 💕

@sriku1000

2 жыл бұрын

A Very Calming Video on, How your Reality is Controlled by your thoughts and you dont even know it kzread.info/dash/bejne/hHWrmrGxdc2Tgso.html

@Fern635

2 жыл бұрын

Me too! Yes! Leave me alone and let me work through it. If I need someone, I'll reach out. Really.