7 Reassuring Things To Say To Someone With Anxiety

Is someone you care about suffering from anxiety or an anxiety disorder? Are you concerned about their mental health recently? Do you find yourself at a loss over how to react when the topic does come up? There are many ways to be supportive without overstepping boundaries or taking on more than you can handle. It's important to help you understand from a psychology-oriented perspective, the thoughts and emotions behind anxiety so you can be well equipped to be supportive.
Disclaimer: This is meant as a self-improvement guide and should not be used as self-treatment. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety or any mental health issues, be sure to seek help. Even though having a supportive environment does help but professional help and advice can go a long way.
We also made a video on the things to say to someone with depression: • 7 Things to Say to Som...
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Princing, M. (2018, May 18). What to Say (and Not to Say) to Someone with Anxiety. Retrieved July 23, 2020, from rightasrain.uwmedicine.org/mi...
Todd, C. (2018). 5 Helpful Things to Say to a Friend Whose Anxiety Is Skyrocketing (and 3 to Avoid). Retrieved July 23, 2020, from www.self.com/story/what-to-sa...
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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go2 жыл бұрын

    Disclaimer: This is meant as a self-improvement guide and should not be used as self-treatment. If you or someone you know is struggling with anxiety or any mental health issues, be sure to seek help. Even though having a supportive environment does help but professional help and advice can go a long way.

  • @hongkongers9160

    @hongkongers9160

    2 жыл бұрын

    How fun when the word "treatment" has been stolen by the pharmaceutical industries

  • @ceciliomartinez2921

    @ceciliomartinez2921

    2 жыл бұрын

    can you make something like this for someone that has been abused by a narcissist, i know it's not an officeal term but the closes i have see is "Narcissistic abuse syndrome" (because it's not in the DSM-5 there is not a lot on this and it seems to be very common in today's times ....that's kinda how i found your channel ) I'm a Aircraft engineer but mechanic by heart and someone i am getting close with is a beautiful person and i want to know what are some possible landmines or triggers. I feel that knowledge is over half the battle in any situation, but there seems to be hard to find anything set about this and i can see why ....a lot of it is situational ....and i run countless scenarios in my head and organize them by probability according to personality and yes i have been proven wrong, i make mistakes, but when i do make them i obsess about learning where i went wrong and how never to make the same mistake ever again ..... i hold myself to an unhuman standard, but people are a can of worms its a never ending rabbit hole that grows every month ......but this one hits closer to home. this is now something im digging for, because i care for this person... thanks to this video i have an idea of how to maybe make them feel more at ease.....i hope .... i'll cross that ditch when i get there ....just hope there is a bridge instead...even if it's full of holes.

  • @aneesfatima3331

    @aneesfatima3331

    2 жыл бұрын

    I've known someone who is struggling with anxiety..but the person is not ready to open up..it's been 3 years since the conversation with the person has become less talkative and struggling to stand in a seminar hall n all..how do I help?

  • @aneesfatima3331

    @aneesfatima3331

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Lacie Mabe well that person is my family member

  • @Velvet62211

    @Velvet62211

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m pretty sure I have anxiety but my anxiety makes it impossible for me to tell my mom because it just fills my mind with negative thoughts when I even think about telling her. Can anyone recommend me some ways to tell someone about it or how to give them hints of my anxiety?

  • @keerthanavarma3345
    @keerthanavarma33452 жыл бұрын

    Hey there! 1. 1:21 - You have my attention (or) I am listening 2. 1:52 - What can I do to help you? 3. 2:20 - Hey let's go for a walk. We can talk about it, or we can just get some fresh air 4. 2:48 - Is it okay if I give you a hug? 5. 3:25 - I'm here for you, no matter what is happening 6. 4:04 - Would advice be helpful or should I just listen? 7. 4:40 - I don't know what to say, but I'm here for you People with anxiety should be taken care as delicately as a glass, I know the pain.. I suffer from it too. Hope this helped you 💜

  • @owens.studios

    @owens.studios

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, friendly time traveler

  • @Kpopminnie

    @Kpopminnie

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks time traveler, I have anxiety, I always wished people would at least do number one

  • @chloepatterson5519

    @chloepatterson5519

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes this helped thx. I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks. Your not alone. 😊 ❤️

  • @NetchoCheese

    @NetchoCheese

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much!

  • @keiron.4612

    @keiron.4612

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well nobody has ever said any of these things to me a hug never get them all I do is live with my illness

  • @ShortHax
    @ShortHax2 жыл бұрын

    You can calm me down, but you can’t stop all the ‘What if’ scenarios in my head

  • @birbhay

    @birbhay

    2 жыл бұрын

    I tip I've heard of to help with the what if scenarios is to think about what you'll do and how you'll react to it in response if the scenario actually happens.

  • @munchilvesyou.6592

    @munchilvesyou.6592

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@melissahenry8431 And saying things like that do nOt HelP

  • @melissahenry8431

    @melissahenry8431

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@munchilvesyou.6592 Yeah, I just figure it out, thanks

  • @theironrubberduck

    @theironrubberduck

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go woah that’s facts

  • @krzysiek8776

    @krzysiek8776

    2 жыл бұрын

    Death

  • @imiss1d968
    @imiss1d9682 жыл бұрын

    "Is it okay if i can give you a hug?" If someone says this i am gonna burst in tears

  • @emycharaa

    @emycharaa

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too. I don't even know why.

  • @namelesssoul104

    @namelesssoul104

    2 жыл бұрын

    I don't know how long it has been since I have hugged anyone

  • @littlewheekers662

    @littlewheekers662

    2 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @elm8662

    @elm8662

    2 жыл бұрын

    someone did ask me this and i burst into tears and i immediently ran away, i felt so bad after

  • @gelyn5199

    @gelyn5199

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'll give you all a virtually hug

  • @ComicalRealm
    @ComicalRealm2 жыл бұрын

    "Anxiety and fear are cousins but not twins. Fear sees a threat. Anxiety imagines one" - Homer Simpson

  • @silverink1824

    @silverink1824

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish sure he's not a genius and he just doesn't realize it he does say some very profound things from time to time

  • @ntmfalloutproductions4713

    @ntmfalloutproductions4713

    2 жыл бұрын

    Wait what no way Homer said that

  • @aiiiia9971

    @aiiiia9971

    2 жыл бұрын

    Since when is Homer so wise and insightful

  • @sarcasm8007

    @sarcasm8007

    2 жыл бұрын

    That's a really good quote.

  • @sarcasm8007

    @sarcasm8007

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@silverink1824 All smart people are dumb, so he could be.

  • @NegativeLegend
    @NegativeLegend2 жыл бұрын

    This is wonderful. My girlfriend has bad anxiety and usually I don't have a problem knowing what to say but I'm always seeking out a way to make her feel better.

  • @allukaxqqyt6656

    @allukaxqqyt6656

    2 жыл бұрын

    woah your a nice boyfriend, hope it does work

  • @odessawales

    @odessawales

    2 жыл бұрын

    Why does everyone brag aboht their girlfriend? Like bro...tf? It makes others feel so jealous. Recently broke up with my boyfriend and guess tf what? Now i have unstable intense anxiety. Im done. Im going crazy. Wtf? Stop telling me to move on! Leave me alone!

  • @allukaxqqyt6656

    @allukaxqqyt6656

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@odessawales he isn’t bragging??? it’s just telling how he’s reaching out to her to help her with her anxiety

  • @tawsifdayan2734

    @tawsifdayan2734

    2 жыл бұрын

    Damn your a Chad. Wish you and your gf a happy life .

  • @odessawales

    @odessawales

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@allukaxqqyt6656 ik sorry. Im just distressed at the moment.

  • @kaylapannell9152
    @kaylapannell91522 жыл бұрын

    As another person who suffers from anxiety.... just having someone text me something random to distract me or having someone just sit with me and just be there... not even really to talk.... especially if I cant talk or just don't wanna talk about it.... that helps a lot.

  • @sarcasm8007

    @sarcasm8007

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know it depends on the person, some people it makes them anxious to have no one talk but for me sometimes just knowing someone is there to comfort you quietly even when no words are exchanged it really does comfort you because it's just... "We can talk when you're ready, but we don't have to."

  • @dewaparkha4612

    @dewaparkha4612

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish too😔

  • @m1yuuu_combatseawolf

    @m1yuuu_combatseawolf

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm here to reach out to you about your car's extended warranty Hope this makes your day

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing.

  • @Owibi

    @Owibi

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@m1yuuu_combatseawolf LOL IT DID I applaud to you for that

  • @aaryannalouie6994
    @aaryannalouie69942 жыл бұрын

    “How do you feel about the points in the video ?” Me: YESSSSSS

  • @leafyyplant
    @leafyyplant2 жыл бұрын

    2:48 - EXACTLY. i had a panic attack at school and one of the teachers did half of them helping me, then another teacher asked me if i wanted a hug, and she just just me a huge bear hug and made me feel better on top of the other teacher calming me down

  • @anonymoushuman6961
    @anonymoushuman69612 жыл бұрын

    This channel is an escape from my anxiety and depression

  • @popyye

    @popyye

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same, litters watch their KZread vids repeated so much I think I might need help-

  • @jal9761

    @jal9761

    2 жыл бұрын

    Her voice makes me feel safe and more relax lmaoo

  • @popyye

    @popyye

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@jal9761 same

  • @glowter22

    @glowter22

    2 жыл бұрын

    TRUTH

  • @specialcookie9995

    @specialcookie9995

    2 жыл бұрын

    FACTS!!

  • @dodekex.
    @dodekex.2 жыл бұрын

    I love her voice So soft

  • @Sunvy101

    @Sunvy101

    2 жыл бұрын

    Gives you that *inner peace.*

  • @xeyna-3749

    @xeyna-3749

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Sunvy101 yep

  • @maxim_ssc

    @maxim_ssc

    2 жыл бұрын

    yeah, she is a great voice actor!

  • @MarkDiSciullo

    @MarkDiSciullo

    4 ай бұрын

    It's making me anxious.

  • @MonkyDollqueen
    @MonkyDollqueen2 жыл бұрын

    “When you realize nothing is lacking, the whole world belongs to you.

  • @yaqiza
    @yaqiza2 жыл бұрын

    if only you could explain this to my parents and if only they would actually try to understand

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah

  • @erinshannon8031

    @erinshannon8031

    2 жыл бұрын

    SERIOUSLY My dad is the worst offender...

  • @yaqiza

    @yaqiza

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@erinshannon8031 same

  • @kamomilo3532

    @kamomilo3532

    2 жыл бұрын

    Start by bringing it up, nothing ventured nothing gained. You know your parents best so its up to you on how you go about it and where those personal boundaries lay so be careful but yeah totally go for it

  • @yaqiza

    @yaqiza

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@kamomilo3532 thank you i'll try 🤍

  • @peachdoesart3798
    @peachdoesart37982 жыл бұрын

    When people say “you worry too much” or treat me like im being stupid, it hurts so much because i can’t do anything about it.

  • @spaixii

    @spaixii

    2 жыл бұрын

    Or when they say "just calm down" THATS LIKE TELLING A DEAD PERSON TO JUST BE ALIVE

  • @diamondcookieoftruth898

    @diamondcookieoftruth898

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just ignore them. That's their own stupid thing. You are not stupid for having your feelings and worries. You have to know that your feelings are valid.

  • @cattydaelling4733

    @cattydaelling4733

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bruh my mom is like that 😔

  • @shortforlife1282

    @shortforlife1282

    2 жыл бұрын

    Awe, would you all like a hug? :]

  • @shortforlife1282

    @shortforlife1282

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@roseworld1290 here you go 🤗😊

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000
    @lonewolfnergiganos40002 жыл бұрын

    It's hard to deal with anxiety when you have toxic friends.

  • @popyye

    @popyye

    2 жыл бұрын

    It really is, I have a severe anxiety and it’s so overwhelming when you have a toxic friend group

  • @drinasun6984

    @drinasun6984

    2 жыл бұрын

    I know, right?

  • @popyye

    @popyye

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I’ve cut off ALL contact with them now, and found some best friends that know how to respond when I’m having anxiety about stuff - they know when this happens. but still am dealing with depression and anxiety. But I can get past that

  • @snek714samantham.n.4

    @snek714samantham.n.4

    2 жыл бұрын

    Please if you can, get away from them, friends are not supposed to hurt and belittle you. I'm sure you'll find people who love you and appreciate you, but with them you may be in danger. If you need someone to talk to, I'm willing to listen. Have a beautiful day

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@snek714samantham.n.4 thanks for the advice.

  • @BakedBeans47
    @BakedBeans472 жыл бұрын

    I tell my mom about my anxiety. Judges me later. In fact, tells me I'm dramatic. She even uses it against me during an argument. My father just doesnt believe in it. If I talk about it, its weak. Its pathetic Sooo.... Edit: share your feelings in this comment, I'm reading all of them Edit a year later: My parents are getting a divorce, my mother left and is now with someone else. I feel so much better now 😌

  • @givemeloveplease2482

    @givemeloveplease2482

    2 жыл бұрын

    I believe we have all those kinds of "parents"

  • @BakedBeans47

    @BakedBeans47

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@givemeloveplease2482 that's even worse...

  • @AlyxTheProtogen

    @AlyxTheProtogen

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@givemeloveplease2482 i dont tell anything to my parents because i fear they will be like this

  • @aaryannalouie6994

    @aaryannalouie6994

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes 🙌🏽 or hits u with you have got to change every one isn’t out to get u or ur grown u should be able to do this on ur own

  • @keiron.4612

    @keiron.4612

    2 жыл бұрын

    Exactly the same I don't even talk about how I'm feeling anymore my scars were no accident

  • @themagicalmess4742
    @themagicalmess47422 жыл бұрын

    Literally the worst things you can say are "Calm down" "Everything's okay" (especially when you don't know what they're going through) "Don't be anxious/depressed" (especially if they have been diagnosed with anxiety/depression or have many symptoms)

  • @izzy_bell

    @izzy_bell

    2 жыл бұрын

    I mean.. I don’t know if I actually have anxiety, so I never jump to the conclusion that I do, but when I do tend to get overly-anxious of unreasonable things, my mum always tells me to calm down and it’s not the nicest thing when you just wanna say “if I could, I would”

  • @themagicalmess4742

    @themagicalmess4742

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@izzy_bell yeah. ive had people tell me to just calm down and like, yeah, why do you think I'm having a panic attack? Because I'm choosing to?

  • @gelyn5199

    @gelyn5199

    2 жыл бұрын

    that is what literally everyone is saying to me :') (I'm diagnosed with depression & anxiety- pls don't be harsh to me)

  • @dewaparkha4612

    @dewaparkha4612

    2 жыл бұрын

    We all have bad days, but these tears and fears help us grow up, and make a better person😉😊

  • @BunnyBounce161

    @BunnyBounce161

    2 жыл бұрын

    @Wittiest Gopher Yeah, that should never be said to someone going through shit.

  • @minasbabycub8112
    @minasbabycub81122 жыл бұрын

    My bestfriend literally says all of these to me when i have anxiety and she is the most precious and wonderful friend anyone could ever ask for

  • @rakel6977
    @rakel69772 жыл бұрын

    I'd cry if anyone would say anything like this to me

  • @oliviacshwe6451
    @oliviacshwe64512 жыл бұрын

    Just a cute moment I encountered ^^ I was so anxious and paranoid about a task a few days ago. My anxiety was so strong that I couldn’t even rest or eat, that was until a white moth flew in my house. I caught it in my hands and I was looking at it in awe. For a good while i forgot my anxiety and loved the time with the cute moth. That moth really made me happy 🥰

  • @aiiiia9971

    @aiiiia9971

    2 жыл бұрын

    You seem really wholesome and bless you and that moth I'm glad you two crossed paths

  • @littlewheekers662

    @littlewheekers662

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm glad that happened to you!

  • @PeterArnold1969

    @PeterArnold1969

    2 жыл бұрын

    When my step father passed away in 2012, a moth started to hang around in our apartment. Mum believed that my stepfathers spirit was with that moth. Mum was quite comforted with it being around. Take your moth as a sign of something beautiful.

  • @Owibi

    @Owibi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh that’s so wholesome, I’ve done that with those little Rosy maple moths. Once when I was having bad anxiety one was perched on a leaf next to me and I watched it for a little while, then picked it up. It like, circled on my hand and then nuzzled it’s ADORABLE little moth face into my palm- it was so fluffy and precious-

  • @phycowaffleart1239
    @phycowaffleart12392 жыл бұрын

    The empire’s new groove reference! Chef’s kiss

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    You're very observant :) - Monica

  • @BunnyBounce161

    @BunnyBounce161

    2 жыл бұрын

    Ah goddamnit lol. Just realised that.

  • @OrigamiAhsoka

    @OrigamiAhsoka

    2 жыл бұрын

    Nooo touchy

  • @kaycortez3586
    @kaycortez35862 жыл бұрын

    "Like a physical reminder that your not alone" I started crying to this. Because lately I've needed a hug and don't want to ask for one because everybody thinks I hate hugs/touchy stuff. But in the moment, sometimes its comforting.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Here's a hug from all of us

  • @kaycortez3586

    @kaycortez3586

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go u actually replied- Wow I'm honored lol

  • @givemeloveplease2482
    @givemeloveplease24822 жыл бұрын

    This is by far the channel that is more helpful than therapy

  • @Owibi

    @Owibi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Lol definetly, therapy never helped me honestly. I don’t like talking to people about my problems unless they’re an extremely close friend that I trust

  • @The-Legend-of-P

    @The-Legend-of-P

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Owibimight be why it didn’t work tbh

  • @Owibi

    @Owibi

    9 ай бұрын

    @@The-Legend-of-P nah I was like 7-8 when I went to therapy, I told people back then but still it didn’t seem to help at all now therapy would be much worse bc talking to people is hard

  • @The-Legend-of-P

    @The-Legend-of-P

    9 ай бұрын

    @@Owibi then sorry for judging so quickly das on me. And yeah it sucks talkingto people about it. I just realized that if I’m like paying or insurance or something then I might as well just get over the hurdle of telling someone. It seemed to help but sometimes not and I just internalize on what I choose to be helpful. It’s hard to be open to someone you don’t trust though.

  • @whatnow548
    @whatnow5482 жыл бұрын

    "I have anxiety" "Do your plants need watering?" "..."

  • @1kuzuki

    @1kuzuki

    2 жыл бұрын

    I mean… sure… it’s winter and they’re all dead but sure XD

  • @kolibambangg
    @kolibambangg2 жыл бұрын

    The last one is very helpful! I often say "I'm speechless" when people vent to me, especially when their problems are quite hard to comprehend/solve. And I always feel bad about it. I feel like I couldn't connect with them. Plus, saying "I'm speechless" seems like I don't want to try to empathize. Now I know what to say :)

  • @Owibi

    @Owibi

    2 жыл бұрын

    I usually try to say something kind if someone vents to me, then it ends up coming out sarcastic/mean because I’m bad at talking to people xd

  • @kolibambangg

    @kolibambangg

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Owibi lmaoo same. i feel so baddd

  • @pamelajordan2890
    @pamelajordan28902 жыл бұрын

    A panic attack is real..this is good .. let's talk about hyperventilating..."don't take a breath while counting to thirty.. it's ok if you make it to only 15. Again.hold . Count..as long as you can .. one more time..you will always get a deep breath because your body will take over..this has helped me so much. .

  • @dragonzrsick2543

    @dragonzrsick2543

    2 жыл бұрын

    When I'm having a panic attack I have to be very careful with my breathing. If breathing feels wrong I slip back into hyperventilion or, at the least, utter panic.

  • @Study_with_txt

    @Study_with_txt

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dragonzrsick2543 i am sorry i dont know much about anxiety but I am really curious what do u mean by hyperventilion ?

  • @BunnyBounce161

    @BunnyBounce161

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Study_with_txt If I understand correctly, it’s when you breathe really short, quick breaths, which usually just cause you to not get as much oxygen as you should be getting. Usually a side effect of panic attacks, high stress, etc.

  • @BunnyBounce161

    @BunnyBounce161

    2 жыл бұрын

    Don’t quote me on that, I may be wrong. But I think that’s what that is.

  • @Study_with_txt

    @Study_with_txt

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@BunnyBounce161 ohhh like asthma u mean?, except its more sudden

  • @cobaltblu4196
    @cobaltblu41962 жыл бұрын

    I disagree with most of these and I'd like to give my opinion on each, as I do suffer with anxiety You have my attention (or) I am listening this one can be super helpful however If you say this please watch your tone, because if it's a muttered "yeah, im listening" It can lead them to believe you are being burdened by them, and that Is the last thing we want I'd replace this with "I'm here to listen" or "If you want you can tell me about it" What can I do to help you? this one leads me to feel like a burden, even if it's "is there anything I can do to help you?" or "any way I can help?" honestly I'd just scrap this one, I in no way want to inconvenience anyone when I'm spiraling. Hey let's go for a walk. We can talk about it, or we can just get some fresh air The last thing I want to do right now is go outside, I'm dealing with my mind, I'm scared, I'm paranoid. I've been here with this one and It literally just led me to just being afraid for my life for like a solid hour. I'd replace this with "wanna play some (insert game they like here) ?" Is it okay if I give you a hug? This one I love, this one makes me very happy, however doesn't really work over the internet or in a quarantine I'm here for you, no matter what is happening no complaints here, it feels great not to feel alone Would advice be helpful or should I just listen? Watch your tone with this one. this can come off sarcastic really quick. any hint of frustration and I'll feel like the worlds biggest Jerk I might replace that one with "would you like some advice? If not I can continue to listen" I don't know what to say, but I'm here for you A very sweet yet hollow feeling It's rather bittersweet but that one is just me.

  • @shellykapel9023

    @shellykapel9023

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing!

  • @Owibi

    @Owibi

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for sharing, I do love your opinion on these tbh

  • @taytaythehufflepuff8532

    @taytaythehufflepuff8532

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing, like so much. I'm watching through some of these vids so I can be more prepared when things come up with my friend. I tried the "what do you want to do?" or something similar one time and it didn't help--I found that decision making when she's already stressed isn't really effective. But yeah, these all seem like things you need to make sure you genuinely mean or else it'll just come off as rude. I'll take note of that going forward.

  • @cobaltblu4196

    @cobaltblu4196

    2 жыл бұрын

    ​@@taytaythehufflepuff8532 if they want any advice to help the panic, some other tricks I've learned over the years. ask them to 1. breathe in 4 seconds, hold 7 seconds, breathe out for 8 seconds. repeat 3 - 5 times. 2. name 5 things you can see, 3 things you can hear, 4 things you can touch, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. 3. sipping slowly on some nice cold water helps me often. (Doing this as I'm typing because I'm having a bad anxiety day) 4. try talking to friends about anything, doesn't matter what the subject is. just go on a little conversational journey. it can be about what they are panicked over, or it can be about the newest thing the're into.. hope some of these can help :D, Anxiety is a tricky thing, and people seem to want people to just "get over it" but that's not how it works.

  • @fatimaashraf3009
    @fatimaashraf30092 жыл бұрын

    One of my friends have anxiety so this helps when she has another attack. This also helps me but I'm not diagnosed.

  • @sheripoland4742
    @sheripoland47422 жыл бұрын

    I don't have a good friend right now. I walk my dog in a nearby park and "talk" to the trees. Big trees are good listeners 🙂

  • @aranyajana5906

    @aranyajana5906

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am in 24/7 curfew lucky for u that u can walk outside

  • @sheripoland4742

    @sheripoland4742

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thanks! Good days and some not great, like all of us ❤

  • @didjaseemyjams1582

    @didjaseemyjams1582

    2 жыл бұрын

    I also make friends with the trees! Glad I'm not the only one!

  • @didjaseemyjams1582

    @didjaseemyjams1582

    2 жыл бұрын

    @happy vibes 😊❤️ All the best people are. 😉

  • @TwinTails100
    @TwinTails1002 жыл бұрын

    Amanda could start a creepypasta reading channel, and I'd still watch it.

  • @maxim_ssc

    @maxim_ssc

    2 жыл бұрын

    yeah, me too I'm sure it would sound great

  • @starletjoachim4580
    @starletjoachim45802 жыл бұрын

    The insecurity of tomorrow makes more and more people suffer from anxiety and depression.

  • @seneynah

    @seneynah

    3 ай бұрын

    It’s manufactured and it needs to stop! Social media algorithms and media push anxiety inducing stories and click bait. Plays on our deepest fears. Covid woke me up to this reality. Viruses have always killed old and unhealthy people, new viruses do it more effectively. A new virus makes its way into a nursing home and you will see massive carnage suddenly. This is nothing new or sensational until the media makes it so. Same with “climate crisis” the earth climate changes, always has, it’s not necessarily an existential threat. If it wasn’t for the media, none of us would’ve cared about Covid, and we wouldn’t even think the climate was an issue either it’s all manufactured.

  • @rithizi5398
    @rithizi53982 жыл бұрын

    This channel is my safe place, it has really made my life better, thank you so much ❤

  • @iamilyas164

    @iamilyas164

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yeah that's true tnx so much psych2go

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you!

  • @manash5897
    @manash58972 жыл бұрын

    As someone that has Anxiety all of these are pretty accurate, Especially the last point. Usually when i talk to someone about my Anxiety or Worries they tend to give me advices and comparison with what they've been dealing with, which didn't make me feel any better (。ŏ﹏ŏ)

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry to hear that. What would you like to hear next time you talk to someone about your anxiety?

  • @boomboom1258
    @boomboom12582 жыл бұрын

    I still have trouble being there for my housemate who has severe anxiety and sometimes I struggle to be there for him because I too have anxiety and I am a highly sensitive person. This is a good reminder, to just ask what he needs from me and I'm here to listen.

  • @evershadowvii7848
    @evershadowvii78482 жыл бұрын

    I'm stuck within a situation where someone I care for gets anxious around me. I'm really anxious to let them know that everything's alright though, and I also want to understand how they feel. We both have our problems. I wish I could've done better.

  • @soup_bites_back8774
    @soup_bites_back87742 жыл бұрын

    This just made me feel better c: But still i have anxiety I’m fighting But This is amazing!

  • @maxim_ssc

    @maxim_ssc

    2 жыл бұрын

    I'm sure it made many people feel better too :)

  • @xtinamariem3683
    @xtinamariem36832 жыл бұрын

    "Consent is key" this is very true, especially for those of us who have not been allowed space for self determination, and it allows the person experiencing anxiety to determine what kind of support is helpful in the moment

  • @chrisw207
    @chrisw2072 жыл бұрын

    On number 2, it's important to follow through. I've heard this a lot, told people what I need, and found it was too difficult for them to do, even of it was as simple as knock on my door before entering, or pre comminocate items for meetings and it killed my faith in even the idea I can get help when I need it.

  • @therealcosplayqueen
    @therealcosplayqueen2 жыл бұрын

    Big thanks to Phoebe for animating this one! You’re doing an incredible job, and personally you’re my fave animator so far! ❤️

  • @greatwavefan397

    @greatwavefan397

    2 жыл бұрын

    Markiplier pfp

  • @kautsaraliandra1396
    @kautsaraliandra13962 жыл бұрын

    I just want to say that's a very nice art style. I love it.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much 😀

  • @anastasiaanjelita2844
    @anastasiaanjelita28442 жыл бұрын

    Actually it's hard even to see people just walking towards me... So many things happen in my head that time like "how i should deal with them?" "What if they talk to me?" "What i must answer them if they asking?".... You know, like i don't wanna make them feel bad cause my anxiety... So, that time i just smile and that smile became weird😂 (Sorry bad english... Hope you understand what i mean...)

  • @riverly7275
    @riverly72752 жыл бұрын

    I have bad Anxiety, and It would be nice to hear these things, and for someone to let you talk to them without them talking, or reacting. Or, them telling me I’m perfectly fine, It will be okay, calm down, nothings wrong, or are you okay. It really just makes the problem worse. Mainly because some of these things I said make it seem like we have a problem, and it’s easy to fix. But, we just can’t. But, I hope to, one day, have someone in my life that will listen, and try to help like this when I need it. Thank you.

  • @spooky1487

    @spooky1487

    2 жыл бұрын

    What advice would you give to someone who is trying to be a good supportive friend to someone with Anxiety? I've never dealt with it and don't quite understand but when I ask my friend questions to understand it more they get distant and aren't really good about communicating how they feel.

  • @riverly7275

    @riverly7275

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spooky1487 Don’t ask questions about it, thinking about what your dealing with can, most times, make the problem worse. Also, people don’t experience it all the time. One moment the day is going great, and the next, you feel like you’re dying. And, most times the person doesn’t even know what’s going on themselves. Maybe try asking if they need anything, or silly random questions, while in the panic. Try giving them some water. But, only do this towards the end of it, or when it is just beginning. Just, don’t leave them alone, don’t try to reassure them that everything is alright, and just be there to comfort them when it’s happening. But, DO NOT ask ANY questions about it. Answering these questions makes the person feel stupid or like they’re faking the whole thing. I hope this helps any.

  • @spooky1487

    @spooky1487

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@riverly7275 Definitely helpful but probably too late. I've already done most of the things you mentioned not to do because they make logical sense but emotions aren't supposed to make sense so that would explain why she's been distant probably :/ Ig I'll know for next time :( Thank you so much for the reply

  • @riverly7275

    @riverly7275

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@spooky1487 You’re welcome! I hope things get better with her.

  • @rebeccajoyner3858
    @rebeccajoyner38582 жыл бұрын

    I’ve definitely heard these phrases in my struggle with anxiety. It’s always comforting.

  • @nina4683
    @nina46832 жыл бұрын

    I love how you post everyday! It helps me so much please continue making these vids!

  • @aza7813
    @aza78132 жыл бұрын

    I knew someone who anxiety but unfortunately we aren’t friends anymore. I feel bad for her sometimes but I am not her friend anymore so things are different now. I tried to help her but she just kept pushing me away

  • @aiiiia9971

    @aiiiia9971

    2 жыл бұрын

    Mmm I know how that be. My best friend has anxiety issues and has tried to convince me to leave them or to trick me out of being friends with them more times than I can count despite craving my company. I love them but it is something I definitely took notice of so I totally feel where you are coming from. People often can't accept love that they don't feel they deserve. It's sad to see but you can't make it change out of force of will. Anyways I wish you luck and I hope both of you are doing well wherever you are

  • @aza7813

    @aza7813

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@aiiiia9971 thanks u too. and i agree u cant change everyone

  • @zaraharis
    @zaraharis2 жыл бұрын

    I always feel like it's my fault for i have anxiety. Everyone struggles. The world doesn't only revolves around me. I just want everyone to be happy.

  • @BunnyBounce161

    @BunnyBounce161

    2 жыл бұрын

    Anxiety isn’t your fault. What can I do to help?

  • @zaraharis

    @zaraharis

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@BunnyBounce161 your words already helps. Like, a lot. Thank you so much :')

  • @BunnyBounce161

    @BunnyBounce161

    2 жыл бұрын

    Glad I could help! 🖤🤍💜

  • @ruru_kmgsn
    @ruru_kmgsn2 жыл бұрын

    This video actually helped me alot- my friend is usually always sad and I feel a lot more confident when trying to comfort them now

  • @jokeloy4916
    @jokeloy49162 жыл бұрын

    You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

  • @laniakea3393
    @laniakea33932 жыл бұрын

    OH GOD!! I CAN'T HELP BUT APPRECIATE EVERY ANIMATER'S WORK IN EVERY VIDEO. Plus I love the thumbnail...

  • @maxim_ssc

    @maxim_ssc

    2 жыл бұрын

    yeah, me too and 2:44 ist just a masterpiece

  • @laniakea3393

    @laniakea3393

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@maxim_ssc Ikr. I love the lighting...and....the way their plants on their head is moving.

  • @rya2037
    @rya20372 жыл бұрын

    There are many people with anxiety. There are lots of people to love them but few to help them.

  • @localhuman8566
    @localhuman85662 жыл бұрын

    Don't you love it when people say they will listen and you could always talk to them but then they don't listen and make fun of you or get mad when you open up

  • @lettheworldburn2998

    @lettheworldburn2998

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is basically what happens. Get used to it.

  • @birbhay
    @birbhay2 жыл бұрын

    as someone with severe social anxiety, I really appreciate this video. tysm

  • @popyye
    @popyye2 жыл бұрын

    I’m have a SEVERE case of anxiety, I literally shake and cry till im so drained to the point of giving up everything. This would have been so help for all of my friends that didnt care about me

  • @popyye

    @popyye

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go yes! All of them!

  • @sianyandemoh6787

    @sianyandemoh6787

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sending you much love 💛🙌

  • @popyye

    @popyye

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sianyandemoh6787

  • @reddragonlegacy
    @reddragonlegacy2 жыл бұрын

    #5...it's why I don't feel like I can talk to any of my friends online. I took a break from a group chat because it was too much and overwhelming. When I mentioned dealing with anxiety and depression, I was met with "We're here for you"...but I never hear from them anymore...and when I could really use them most...with friends like these, who needs enemies, right?

  • @ridamdahiya6591

    @ridamdahiya6591

    2 жыл бұрын

    exactly 🥲

  • @reddragonlegacy

    @reddragonlegacy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ridamdahiya6591 I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with something like that too. When I confronted them all about it, one gave me "I don't really talk to anyone", another gave me "I don't really talk to anyone except ______" and then the 3rd one didn't even give me a reason. The only person I'm not mad at or disappointed in is the one who 1st checked on me when I left and continued to do so afterwards. I keep deleting and reinstalling social media, I left the main chat room on Discord (still have a few that have at least 2 of them in them, and not many others). I keep logging out ofy sites too so I don't get passive-aggressive more. Not that they'd tell me they had a problem with it. You'd think I'd be able to let them all go, but I can't. I care too much about them, even though they clearly don't care about me. I hope you're able to find the right kind of people to surround yourself with. Seems like this channel might not be a bad start haha

  • @ridamdahiya6591

    @ridamdahiya6591

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@reddragonlegacy Yeah may be :) Thanks for your reply .

  • @reddragonlegacy

    @reddragonlegacy

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@ridamdahiya6591 you are most welcome :) honestly can't make promises on time or frequency, but I'm available if you need to chat

  • @mattwells9904
    @mattwells99042 жыл бұрын

    Will definitely be sharing this thanks for the video guys keep up the good fight

  • @Owibi
    @Owibi2 жыл бұрын

    This is a very helpful video. My beloved online bestie suffers from anxiety and depression, and I’m always trying to help her in different ways. I truly care about her and would literally die for her without hesitation, so learning things I can use to help her is very appreciated. Thank you :)

  • @miaumiau9624
    @miaumiau9624 Жыл бұрын

    i always try to be nice and include everyone because i know social anxiety sucks

  • @Shirin1128
    @Shirin11282 жыл бұрын

    im literally watching this for myself, my cat passed away 2 days back and I just feel sadistic :D

  • @JFoch8014

    @JFoch8014

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your cat.

  • @Shirin1128

    @Shirin1128

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@JFoch8014 its okay we cant change it :)

  • @rere11345
    @rere113452 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for makeing this :) my friend has been struggling with anxiety and low self esteem I want to help so much but I never know how to say something they would believe. This helped :)

  • @grass750
    @grass7502 жыл бұрын

    Been struggling with severe anxiety the past week. This video came in such great time!

  • @paige172
    @paige1722 жыл бұрын

    guess i gotta say these to my self then.

  • @x.nonbinary_nightmare.x8379
    @x.nonbinary_nightmare.x83792 жыл бұрын

    HI! How is everyone?

  • @dmcatakedownstrikeonsmilingdog

    @dmcatakedownstrikeonsmilingdog

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m good :)

  • @somebodyimportant7224

    @somebodyimportant7224

    2 жыл бұрын

    Tired but good :]

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    2 жыл бұрын

    Good

  • @mscosnelmar04

    @mscosnelmar04

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi!😊

  • @blaney1014

    @blaney1014

    2 жыл бұрын

    Not to bad my friend. How are you?

  • @OldRob3302
    @OldRob33022 жыл бұрын

    So thankful for this channel.

  • @veronikajohansson4303
    @veronikajohansson43032 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this video. Sometimes it's really hard to communicate those things that might trigger anxiety rather than comfort.. so thank you all for this tool that can make it easier

  • @lynossa8130
    @lynossa81302 жыл бұрын

    Wish I could do all these to my friend who is suffering with anxiety right now but we are still in (some sort of) lockdown. Is there a way to show our support from afar? Sometimes I’m afraid they would think my words are empty.

  • @thebluejay5016
    @thebluejay50162 жыл бұрын

    My best friend is dealing with anxiety, and I really want to help her, but it seems like every time I ask if she’s ok, if she wants to talk about it… she always has to go. Idk if she’s purposely being evasive or if shes actually busy. I really hope she’s doing alright. I’ve really screwed up sometimes, and now that I think about it, I’ve been kind of saying the kind of thing that can be a little triggering for someone with anxiety. I screw everything up, and I feel really bad about that. Maybe it’s my fault that she doesn’t want to talk to me. Shit, that sounds really self-centered… idk anymore

  • @dewaparkha4612

    @dewaparkha4612

    2 жыл бұрын

    Just give her a hug 🤗 Also you didn't screw anything up, you were just trying to help.

  • @thebluejay5016

    @thebluejay5016

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@dewaparkha4612 thank you

  • @dewaparkha4612

    @dewaparkha4612

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thebluejay5016 Welcome ☺️

  • @naseemashfaq7574
    @naseemashfaq75742 жыл бұрын

    Being helpful and being there for someone will be good for them.

  • @BrokenEvil
    @BrokenEvil2 жыл бұрын

    this brought tears to my eyes, so true

  • @cube4547
    @cube45472 жыл бұрын

    Try not to you use your own perception and experience when trying to show that you understand them. This might actually make them feel misunderstood.

  • @rjlupin.variant
    @rjlupin.variant2 жыл бұрын

    I have horrendous anxiety along with ADD and ADHD… and most of my friends don’t look like they care or know…

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    2 жыл бұрын

    Sorry you have to deal with those things. Have you shared with your friends?

  • @rjlupin.variant

    @rjlupin.variant

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go my mom works it out with their parents and then they understand more because I’m not the best at explaining

  • @millerelena8674
    @millerelena86742 жыл бұрын

    This video is not only heplful, but also it's so heartwarming. I deeply love the animation! I was crying just watching how one person was trying to help another to make them feel better. I have Anxiety as well and atm I'm some sort of mental crisis. I'm fighting, I'm trying to fix it. But this video made me feel better. Thank you, Psych2Go.

  • @gokumidoriya6340
    @gokumidoriya63402 жыл бұрын

    I also suffered from anxiety for almost 2 years and had no one to talk about it because I was afraid of everyone, and no one was close to me(that's what I thought). Now I am great and in the journey of making myself happy even in alone times and I don't want to see someone suffer like I did with anxiety. Thanks Psych2Go!

  • @shashwata.s3667
    @shashwata.s36672 жыл бұрын

    Sometimes I feel like life is beautiful , Then I realized that I am just drunk!

  • @bc8724
    @bc87242 жыл бұрын

    This video was really nice:) As an anxious person i assure you that i would appreciate someone saying/doing such things for me:))) *[Hah if only i had friends:')]*

  • @bc8724

    @bc8724

    2 жыл бұрын

    @sosooorna aw thx you're so sweet:))))

  • @bc8724

    @bc8724

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@janita5262 aww really???that would be very nice haha:))))

  • @bc8724

    @bc8724

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@janita5262 Awww thx there's no need haha^^ You're really nice:D *[Imma sub to you too]*

  • @bc8724

    @bc8724

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@janita5262 :D

  • @mielli2791
    @mielli27912 жыл бұрын

    This is so so helpful, thank you sm! My friend group is basically just made up of introverts, including myself. And as much as I want to help them feel better, I don’t know how. I always try to say something but it’s hard to think of something not too dramatic or vague for that specific person while the other needs actual hands-on help.

  • @SwiftKey_253
    @SwiftKey_2532 жыл бұрын

    just hearing these from this video feels calming.. thank you

  • @theblackowl555
    @theblackowl5552 жыл бұрын

    All I'm thinking about is Isolde, Chione and Renee.

  • @DepressionTalks1
    @DepressionTalks12 жыл бұрын

    If you’re reading this, please know you are not alone🧠✌🏾❤️

  • @Niceguy11sep
    @Niceguy11sep7 ай бұрын

    NOW I CAN HELP OTHERS EVEN MORE THANK YOU SO MUCH

  • @lizillusion2318
    @lizillusion2318 Жыл бұрын

    Both my bf and I struggle with anxiety, so we have some of these in our arsenal already. It’s nice to see these phrases shared more, because it’s really important for somebody with anxiety to feel heard, valid, and in control.

  • @arielmaule
    @arielmaule2 жыл бұрын

    I have social anxiety.

  • @moisterthananoyster7048

    @moisterthananoyster7048

    2 ай бұрын

    Nooooo SpongeBob

  • @shel3535
    @shel35352 жыл бұрын

    Everyone in the comments: now i can help my friend with anxiety! 😊 Me: I AM the friend with anxiety *dies*

  • @CoasterQueen8799
    @CoasterQueen87992 жыл бұрын

    I needed this! I have several friends with anxiety and I have always been unsure what to say to them when they deal with an attack.

  • @m.s9875
    @m.s98752 жыл бұрын

    That's amazing...it helps me reflect on myself...and all the decisions ,I try to make..thank you,as always ‼❤

  • @ausy5903
    @ausy59032 жыл бұрын

    Do you see people with anxiety? Slap them hard. They will ask why you do that instead of what if 🤣

  • @xoch9372
    @xoch93722 жыл бұрын

    Hey psych thank you so much for making these videos!! I love learning new things from your channel!!💛

  • @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    @lonewolfnergiganos4000

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @marielsea2292
    @marielsea22922 жыл бұрын

    A hug and a good shoulder to cry on is always nice! Don't ask me what's wrong because a lot of the time I don't even know.

  • @sage_..
    @sage_..2 жыл бұрын

    Love y’all’s channel

  • @valh4196
    @valh41962 жыл бұрын

    This was very helpful!! Thank you!

  • @bellatvlover610
    @bellatvlover6102 жыл бұрын

    I don’t have any friends to comfort me,but watching your videos make me so comfortable 😊

  • @flimsyjimnz
    @flimsyjimnz2 жыл бұрын

    Subscribed -how can anyone (well, any male) *not* subscribe to such a well composed softly spoken intro! (I clicked on this thinking: "Great, I'll say these reassuring things to myself...")

  • @jchrismoonlitshineworld1889
    @jchrismoonlitshineworld18892 жыл бұрын

    Perfect. Thank you.

  • @itsmegrayce
    @itsmegrayce17 күн бұрын

    I've been watching alot of videos about it nowadays, so I can support my bf with anxiety, I love him and I don't want to lose him because of this situation it's wasn't easy and need alot of patience , but I know it's worth it ! Sending love to all of you guys who experiencing with anxiety ❤

  • @Sn0wyy_
    @Sn0wyy_2 жыл бұрын

    I got diagnosed with anxiety a while ago and these kind of videos is really helping me because I can send them to my friends so that they know how help, so thanks:)

  • @AmaryonsWorld
    @AmaryonsWorld Жыл бұрын

    This made me feel understood so well, the examples you gave of touching made my anxiety go up but then explaining how someone can help resolve this calmed me back down. I got into an fight with my girlfriend, because I was having an anxiety attack and she didn’t know, and she tried to grab me and tried pulling me towards her and immediately jerked away.. she got upset I pulled away from her, but I was freaking tf out and that triggered me. I’m definitely sending her this video.

  • @ninalim471
    @ninalim4712 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video. The above words are really reassuring for people with anxiety. I hope to apply above tips when I can.

  • @chionItz
    @chionItz2 жыл бұрын

    Completely agree and find it helpful for people to understand people with anxiety more

  • @7thwar
    @7thwar Жыл бұрын

    You’re voice is so soothing.

  • @jayfaygurl3185
    @jayfaygurl31852 жыл бұрын

    Your voice is so calming ty

  • @kevindavis4709
    @kevindavis4709 Жыл бұрын

    It takes truelove commitment to stay around somebody like that and not walk away.