7 Mistakes Married Women Make | Part 1 | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • @mildredkingsleyokonkwo
    @mildredkingsleyokonkwo3 жыл бұрын

    This is my only KZread channel " Mildred kingsley-okonkwo". I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.

  • @ifemejecynthia5711

    @ifemejecynthia5711

    3 жыл бұрын

    Interesting. I learnt alot

  • @fortunatenamat7770

    @fortunatenamat7770

    3 жыл бұрын

    I cant believe someone has tried scamming me hardly an hour ago with a false prophesy using apparently Pastor Kingsley Okonko's account. Thank you for this disclaimer.I almost fell victim.

  • @chichiezzy6942

    @chichiezzy6942

    3 жыл бұрын

    Matilda Namboozo it’s not pastors account it’s a fake account using his name. I got the same copy and paste message lmao

  • @successj2948

    @successj2948

    3 жыл бұрын

    I just saw one imposter asking me to pay money into an orphanage Acct. Even before I finished reading I knew it was scam lol

  • @ebukandehigwo2278

    @ebukandehigwo2278

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have received 4 scam messages in one week. Wetin I do wrong? 😅

  • @LekeAdeboye
    @LekeAdeboye3 жыл бұрын

    i loved!!!!! it. please what about the 7 mistakes we men make. so as i'm forwarding this link to my wife i need to learn my own side too. equation must balance.

  • @carmelwine7610

    @carmelwine7610

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are a smart man. Many blessings on your love and marriage.

  • @crissoa

    @crissoa

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @idowu0704

    @idowu0704

    3 жыл бұрын

    Pastor Kingsley did that one, check him out on KZread as well. The Lord will make your home heaven on earth in Jesus's name amen

  • @Godisgood683

    @Godisgood683

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very good one sir

  • @bibiharusi2983

    @bibiharusi2983

    3 жыл бұрын

    beautiful man....kudos

  • @tomaoekanem8047
    @tomaoekanem8047 Жыл бұрын

    By choosing marriage, we "decided to dedicate our lives to partner with God to make one man's life special". This one hit me. I gotta work on keeping that commitment.

  • @oreoluwaoyadiran
    @oreoluwaoyadiran2 жыл бұрын

    I watched this when I was single, I newly got married so I’m watching again 😁😁😁

  • @tkbest4743

    @tkbest4743

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations. Hope you are enjoying the marriage journey. I wish you many blissful years

  • @DaintyAbby

    @DaintyAbby

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratssss

  • @modrikisadopted6337

    @modrikisadopted6337

    Ай бұрын

    Hey, Mrs Ore. I just came across your comment and curious to know how far in your marriage. have the lessons worked to your satisfaction?. Will be good ton have feedback. Church and media place can be a plane out there.

  • @PheonahE
    @PheonahE Жыл бұрын

    I watch this video every 3 months jut to remind myself of all the wisdom shared here. Thank you Pastor M

  • @theresatheresa7315
    @theresatheresa73153 жыл бұрын

    There's no marriage without God. But with God it moves smoothly. May the Lord Jesus Christ grant us the grace to make things right in marriage.

  • @ahmedasigri7703
    @ahmedasigri77033 жыл бұрын

    When you show a woman “affection and attention “ she sees love. When you show a man “ humility and respect” he sees love. Men need RESPECT... Women need ATTENTION

  • @preciouszikhali4749

    @preciouszikhali4749

    3 жыл бұрын

    Very true

  • @gladysamofah4565

    @gladysamofah4565

    3 жыл бұрын

    Well said dear

  • @user-tj3vj7lp5h

    @user-tj3vj7lp5h

    3 жыл бұрын

    I love this ,, but then i think that the whole relationship should be based on respect from both side .. maybe maybe you mean allow HIM to feel like he is on charge of things!

  • @sanyubetty1634

    @sanyubetty1634

    3 жыл бұрын

    True

  • @uchediri7193

    @uchediri7193

    3 жыл бұрын

    My brother may God bless u. Amen! U really have wisdom this is only what a man and a woman need in marriage! Thanks

  • @hausofrlateish
    @hausofrlateish3 жыл бұрын

    Very informative. My husband is still the same from day 1 (thank God)! I must say we are a very good team and support system for each other and I pray it just keeps on getting better 😇🙏

  • @rebecca6984

    @rebecca6984

    3 жыл бұрын

    Lucky you. May God continues to bless u guys

  • @magnusemori4266

    @magnusemori4266

    3 жыл бұрын

    So far so good with you, and I call you blessed vetuose woman of honour. May you continue staying blessed now and forever more iJCMn amen.Pleasr thanks so much for sharing!

  • @hausofrlateish

    @hausofrlateish

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@magnusemori4266 yes luv. Thank you😇🙏

  • @mercynyoni5727

    @mercynyoni5727

    3 жыл бұрын

    You are one lucky gal 😚

  • @beautifulbeautymafuta3056

    @beautifulbeautymafuta3056

    3 жыл бұрын

    May God continue to bless your marriage

  • @Abeikirt
    @Abeikirt3 жыл бұрын

    This lady's husband is one of the luckiest people on the face of the earth

  • @jamaica2010ism
    @jamaica2010ism3 жыл бұрын

    1. Thinking that you are the project - men are project oriented. Once he completed the project he moves on to the next project. 2. Support wrong decision 3. The state of familiarity which makes you forget to honor him. 4. Not taking care of ourselves. God looks at the ❤ but men are moved by outward appearances.

  • @bc1248

    @bc1248

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love n Light Yeah, but men don’t take care of themselves. They age too and it shows. They let themselves go too, unkempt, and with their beer bellies standing out a yard in front of them. So what about that?

  • @jamaica2010ism

    @jamaica2010ism

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bc1248 I was just listing what the video says.

  • @bc1248

    @bc1248

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love n Light I know. But I was just stating my view of it.

  • @jamaica2010ism

    @jamaica2010ism

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bc1248 oh ok. Got confused because you replied under my comment. Usually ppl just start their own thread when stating their own views. I like the comment though, it brings a balance to the discussion.

  • @bc1248

    @bc1248

    3 жыл бұрын

    Love n Light You are right. I should have put it in the general comment section.

  • @sophia4christ
    @sophia4christ3 жыл бұрын

    I'm single, but I'm watching for my future marriage.

  • @obasafunke2555

    @obasafunke2555

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes o...you're not alone sis

  • @ipsobond21

    @ipsobond21

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too sis!

  • @ellenssebs6831

    @ellenssebs6831

    3 жыл бұрын

    Haha welldone sis

  • @zehrakazanc3300

    @zehrakazanc3300

    3 жыл бұрын

    Nice one

  • @phumymatau3284

    @phumymatau3284

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too 🙆🏽‍♀️😁

  • @ashleyrivera3490
    @ashleyrivera34903 жыл бұрын

    Clicking on this video was the best thing I’ve ever done I am guilty of all of these things. Thank you for this, you are amazing ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wendyorji9751
    @wendyorji97513 жыл бұрын

    My mum was so blessed she said this generation is so blessed and would hardly make mistake if they follow you, she said I now know why you don't joke with this woman😍😍😍😍

  • @fadekea3863

    @fadekea3863

    3 жыл бұрын

    👍🏽My mum said almost the exact same thing.

  • @sonnyosifo8237
    @sonnyosifo82373 жыл бұрын

    I stumbled on this teaching, I was totally hooked on it. My wife and I learnt a lot. Thank you!

  • @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan
    @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan3 жыл бұрын

    Married for 3 years and I pray for more blissful years ... loved this video.

  • @momentoftruthchannel2045

    @momentoftruthchannel2045

    3 жыл бұрын

    God bless you and your family.

  • @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan

    @GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnan

    3 жыл бұрын

    B OK Amen

  • @tkbest4743

    @tkbest4743

    Жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @mangunduprince3781
    @mangunduprince37813 жыл бұрын

    thanks alot for this video I always disrespect my husband but from today I promise I will be a good wife in Jesus name I will learn to respect him Lord Jesus strengthen me as I apologise to my husband please as I go out with my hubby pray for me.

  • @Ginettensoh

    @Ginettensoh

    3 жыл бұрын

    Your husband truely loves you. U said u disrespect him, meaning u do it knowingly. Count yourself lucky that upon the disrespect he's still there for and with you. Most men in this generation will just dump u or even if there are still there, their mind is somewhere else. It's very good u are amending it ways. Please don't try it and do your best to respect him. The world we are living going crazy. If u have a good man never ever take it for granted. Because even the most submissive and humble women are being mishandled and maltreated by horrible men who can't appreciate what they have.

  • @rxnees

    @rxnees

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@Ginettensoh Yes, YES, so true. You worded this very well!

  • @Ginettensoh

    @Ginettensoh

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@rxnees ❤❤

  • @abediewomutai3812

    @abediewomutai3812

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Ginettensoh True, though sometimes we disrespect our husbands without knowing. Information is power...... I appreciate Mildred for empowering us

  • @eunicedaniels277

    @eunicedaniels277

    2 жыл бұрын

    So me, I’m less than a year and honestly I’m not giving him the respect he deserves

  • @mariahakwe
    @mariahakwe2 жыл бұрын

    One year later,I am newly married and I find this to be so helpful, thank you

  • @taneenswindell8274
    @taneenswindell82743 жыл бұрын

    Hello, THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH for this!!! I am guilty of quite a few things on this list, I pray the Lord helps me with my idiosyncrasies & get me on track! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you & God bless!!!❤

  • @annengendo6819
    @annengendo68193 жыл бұрын

    I love you already... So candid, pure tough love to us married women. I appreciate that I got to see your channel. God bless you. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @elizabethmonday3751
    @elizabethmonday37513 жыл бұрын

    Such a lovely message,,, I love the way you teach calmly ,ur accent and your lively smile ma,, more grace 😍

  • @margaretfreeman6853
    @margaretfreeman68533 жыл бұрын

    Thank God for this message. Thank you for the wisdom! I learned how to solve a major problem my husband always complained about. Looking forward to more of this....

  • @janechibesakunda7437
    @janechibesakunda74373 жыл бұрын

    Wow .....i have learnt alot ....i am glad to have watched this 🙌🏻🙌🏻 i got engaged 2 weeks ago and i am learning thanks 🧡💛💚💙

  • @shellyjoe
    @shellyjoe3 жыл бұрын

    Omg🤣🤣 Pastor M, please resume from ⏸ and keep spilling the ☕ . I love your honesty!

  • @rachealokai1583
    @rachealokai15832 жыл бұрын

    Let's teach men to be teachable and leave ego. Some will either be threatened, feel proud or say women talk too much. That is why some women take that standpoint for their mental health. :) Great watch.

  • @joyceogunlade7571
    @joyceogunlade75713 жыл бұрын

    Im not married yet but this is eye opening! Glad to be learning this at this time! Thank you for sharing!

  • @joydar4885
    @joydar48853 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh 😮 my God I love ❤️ this woman 👩 lord who’s she oooo I love ❤️ your message

  • @pindirushwaya1324
    @pindirushwaya13243 жыл бұрын

    I have heard people speak but this lady has an anointing... Mmmmm I'm even crying listening to this

  • @nditchienditchie5533
    @nditchienditchie55333 жыл бұрын

    I love u Ma, I'm happy I listened to this before I got Married...you are very wise

  • @shakeeraduncan9814
    @shakeeraduncan98143 жыл бұрын

    I love this, I pray God continue to bless your ministry. I pray also that I will not make these mistakes in my upcoming marriage. Thank you for this information.

  • @ogbonnahchiamaka
    @ogbonnahchiamaka3 жыл бұрын

    I'm in love with you mama 💜💜. Your bluntness and sense of humour is on another level. I also love the way you use scriptural backups. Ma please when can we press the play button 😂.....I'm not married but I'm enjoying this and learning a lot.

  • @gloryaiyanyo2685
    @gloryaiyanyo26853 жыл бұрын

    The truth is always bitter, but it’s needs to be told. Thanks for the reminder Pastor M.

  • @kaniahthepioneer6458
    @kaniahthepioneer6458 Жыл бұрын

    Wow, this is amazing! I got rebuked a lot but this is going to help my marriage so much! Thank you 🙏🏽 by the grace of God I will grow and change into the wife God called me to be

  • @nokwethembambatha630
    @nokwethembambatha6303 жыл бұрын

    I'm not married as yet but I learnt a lot. God bless you Pastor, I love your spirit. Thanks to youtube for recommending this video for me.

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @abigailadu6183
    @abigailadu61833 жыл бұрын

    She is so real, it hurts💔😂😂.. But this is what we needed to hear, y'all😂. Bless you Pastor Mildred❤️. I love your bluntness👏. I couldn't stop laughing cause I could so relate. Here's to learning and improving to be the best versions of ourselves 🥂

  • @ulomachukwu1332

    @ulomachukwu1332

    3 жыл бұрын

    PastorM its okay Ma, please off your mic God Bless you Ma 😁❤️

  • @fujiriefeurhievwe364

    @fujiriefeurhievwe364

    3 жыл бұрын

    Uloma Chukwu lol 😂

  • @tillyanndickson2233

    @tillyanndickson2233

    2 жыл бұрын

    Oh Yes,She is sooo real ,it hurts🤩🥰

  • @livingstonmorgan8453
    @livingstonmorgan84533 жыл бұрын

    Wow these Counseling sessions are very powerful and is required for our females to the Queen they are created to Be!!

  • @japarimodibboyusuf6912
    @japarimodibboyusuf69123 жыл бұрын

    Can't wait for this. Thank you Pastor Mildred♥️♥️

  • @johnobasi2195
    @johnobasi21953 жыл бұрын

    God bless you and your family this year. This is very very very grateful. Thanks

  • @nonduduzomaziya190
    @nonduduzomaziya1903 жыл бұрын

    I'm a newly wed and I'm glad I found this in my reccommendations. These points are so important.

  • @honeyhoney8400

    @honeyhoney8400

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amhlophe

  • @olayinkasolomont
    @olayinkasolomont3 жыл бұрын

    Yaaaaaay😍... women who have dedicated their lives to partner with God to make one man special Less than 3months here🥰

  • @mfonwilson5380
    @mfonwilson53803 жыл бұрын

    You're truly a gift to women in this generation. Any woman that takes your advice must surely be a good married woman

  • @keepingitreal6878
    @keepingitreal68783 жыл бұрын

    I just love this woman of God ❤️

  • @DennisDenis
    @DennisDenis3 жыл бұрын

    Thank 👍 you,so much for this counseling, you are 'God sent' , every women should listen 👂.

  • @rhondatownes2013
    @rhondatownes20133 жыл бұрын

    AMEN Lady 🎉 Not this is a channel I can really ENJOY and LEARN From. Thank you for your Obedience 🎊

  • @xandilo
    @xandilo2 жыл бұрын

    I love her! So frank and her theology is on point!

  • @barimarepublic3299
    @barimarepublic32993 жыл бұрын

    this hits hard on the side of men as well... mama your word hits differently

  • @tithemidozard2854
    @tithemidozard28543 жыл бұрын

    As long as I get videos like this I will keep sharing ☺️. You also talk from personal experience and that is more educational 🙌

  • @kokog5690
    @kokog56902 жыл бұрын

    You just make me remember late pastor Mrs odukoya who was an inspiration to lots during her time.. God bless you for all you do

  • @chosensiwale4293
    @chosensiwale42933 жыл бұрын

    What a blessed woman you are, Pastor! May God Almighty bless you and your husband much more!!

  • @successj2948
    @successj29483 жыл бұрын

    I almost didn’t want to play this video, but thank You Holy Spirit for making me press the ‘play button’ am Blessed! Thank God for your wisdom and I tap into it. God bless you ma ❤️

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @jocypare6019

    @jocypare6019

    2 жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @SmilesfromGod
    @SmilesfromGod3 жыл бұрын

    This video has been a blessing to me. Thank you so much for sharing. Blessings to you.

  • @SamuelNKiap
    @SamuelNKiap3 жыл бұрын

    My sister Pastor, you are speaking wisdom for all woman. Yes, humility and respect draws LOVE from man.

  • @christabelbenjamin9892
    @christabelbenjamin98923 жыл бұрын

    More single and married people need to watch these videos. Not just for marriage but pastor KM keep dropping Godly nuggets

  • @isiomabamidele7611
    @isiomabamidele76112 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Pastor Mildred. You really hit the nail on the head. We are guilty of almost, if not all that you have talked about. One concern I have is the second mistake you mentioned. Women should not support their husbands' wrong decisions. This has caused a lot of problems in marriages. Most men don't see it this way. They feel they are not being supported by their wives. My advice most times to women is that they should air their views respectfully but shouldn't stop there: rather, they should also go on their knees and pray for their husbands. God always honours our prayers when we're sincere. May God continue to bless you as you bless others.

  • @thesoultouch.639
    @thesoultouch.6393 жыл бұрын

    This message was really timely to save my marriage, I thank God for it BSE it's highlights all the 7 issues that were almost tiring us apart.

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..

  • @emmanuellanwanze5084
    @emmanuellanwanze50843 жыл бұрын

    I am still single but blessed listen to you Beautiful Mama. Thanks a lot Ma & more blessings Amen

  • @amanas4653
    @amanas4653 Жыл бұрын

    Now I see Too much familiarity is the problem... By God's grace I will get it right dis time..Amen

  • @lucyngoma2352
    @lucyngoma23523 жыл бұрын

    So profound. Thanks for sharing and God bless you

  • @connievictor1803
    @connievictor18033 жыл бұрын

    my husband and i watch your husband a lot and then i came across your channel and i’m glad that i did. I decided to check it out and i don’t regret it. you are as amazing! i appreciate you guys! thanks for telling us the truth. i am guilty as well when it comes to some of these mistakes you have highlighted and i intend to change them. thanks for the guidance. I think God put this channel on for me for a purpose cos i did not. i held my phone between my legs cos i was busy with my hands and your video started playing. I decided to keep watching when i saw the name and i’m glad i did. Amazing right?!😃

  • @nwegehyigillian5416
    @nwegehyigillian54163 жыл бұрын

    I am so blessed with this teaching Thanks so much woman of God

  • @kingsleyokposin8491
    @kingsleyokposin84912 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful message Mildred!! you have found your purpose God be with you! while you help people discover their weakness & strengthen themselves. good job

  • @laoluadegbesan9794
    @laoluadegbesan97943 жыл бұрын

    Simple content with amazing delivery, I appreciate your down to earth practicality. The Vashti part really got to me. I pray and hope women realises how this part plays out, better to learn than to experience same. Part of why many discover their husbands had other wives with children after his demise. Better not be too familiar with your husband, deliberately reserve admiration and honour for him. No wife is honoured being equal to her husband, honour goes to wives in humility. Pepper body changes no real man. I am a man, and i pray and hope every wife will learn from your submissions in this broadcast. Thank you.

  • @ladynaomi8919
    @ladynaomi89193 жыл бұрын

    My prayer is to be part of this special group of women. I'm 33 years and still single. Lord show me mercy......😔Amen

  • @marykimani8375

    @marykimani8375

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @sarahjames3601

    @sarahjames3601

    3 жыл бұрын

    From your mouth to God's ears..may you celebrate soon.

  • @davidmarcus3145

    @davidmarcus3145

    3 жыл бұрын

    I can refer you to someone who helps people in relationships through social media, he gives splendid topics and advise

  • @merrylineanyanzwa3318

    @merrylineanyanzwa3318

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @nalubegajosephine3567

    @nalubegajosephine3567

    3 жыл бұрын

    May God show me mercy too

  • @TheBAHUBSA
    @TheBAHUBSA3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this vlog especially coming from a christian & biblical perspective, Marriage is challenging

  • @sulaimanlaminkamara6612
    @sulaimanlaminkamara66123 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for your presentation. It's very educative and touching. Keep it up. Of course I am a victim of those mistakes you mentioned about married women. These guys are our mothers, Aunts, sisters , daughters etc ,but very difficult to deal with when it comes to love or marriage relationship..May the Almighty God continue to give you the wisdom to impart these sacred words of wisdom to women who have ears. Thanks and stay safe.

  • @titilayoojo8297
    @titilayoojo82973 жыл бұрын

    Wowww!!!this is amazing. I wish I had come across this video much earlier in my marriage but I'm glad I've found it now. Thank you. New sub 👍

  • @v.chioma
    @v.chioma3 жыл бұрын

    Already saved this in my archives. I know I will need to be reminded of this! Thank you Pastor Mildred❤️

  • @olufunkeoyeyemi9066
    @olufunkeoyeyemi90663 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. I have always seen you but never watched your talks. Thankful for this...maybe someday, i will visit your church. God bless you.

  • @zeea1249
    @zeea12493 жыл бұрын

    I love you pastor M, a woman that speaks the Truth!!! God bless you

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @abiolab5043
    @abiolab50433 жыл бұрын

    Loving this. The PAUSE part was needed, Watching at 10am and I was still in bed, hubby at work. I quickly got up to have my shower and brush my teeth, ready for part 2! THANK YOU so much for this. Your ministry has been a huge blessing to me. I met my husband at the conference Pastor K and you did in London last year. May the anointing and grace on you and Pastor K continue to overflow IJN. We will def be visiting your church whenever we travel to Lagos to thank you in person.

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @abiolab5043

    @abiolab5043

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 why are you impersonation a man of God and using God's for falsely gain? Repent from your mendacious ways, or hell awaits you. Satan is the father of liars.

  • @Lina.88

    @Lina.88

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 llllllll

  • @Heart2HeartwithGeo-ds7km
    @Heart2HeartwithGeo-ds7km Жыл бұрын

    This video is so insightful! Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo really breaks down some of the most common mistakes that married women make in their relationships. It's refreshing to see someone talk about these issues with such honesty and clarity. I appreciate that she doesn't just point out the mistakes, but also provides practical solutions for how to avoid them. Every woman, married or not, can benefit from watching this video and taking note of the mistakes to avoid in their own relationships. I can't wait to watch the second part!

  • @wambuiwinnie99
    @wambuiwinnie992 жыл бұрын

    Am not married, but am here watching the video again and again. Thanks Mildred

  • @DebModelz
    @DebModelz3 жыл бұрын

    Wow..this was good,simple and practical tips. So glad i found your channel pastor M💜💜

  • @courageogie8569
    @courageogie85693 жыл бұрын

    I am a man listening to your advice to women, I think we men should also listen to this message because you’re a good mentor. Husbands should be referring their wives to you for mentoring. God bless.

  • @oto-obongumoh9023
    @oto-obongumoh9023 Жыл бұрын

    I just listened to this. I am extremely blessed. I have decided to make the needed corrections. Thank you @ Pastor Mildred Okonkwo . May God continue to bless your ministry. You have impacted so many lives .

  • @lewinmukui70
    @lewinmukui703 жыл бұрын

    Beautiful teaching from a beautiful lady about the reality. GOD bless you madam

  • @beam-biblicalencouragement8812
    @beam-biblicalencouragement88123 жыл бұрын

    This is powerful....thank you pastor❤️

  • @Slighttalk
    @Slighttalk3 жыл бұрын

    I loved your talk, but there was something you said that caught my attention, I quote "he his my pastor first of all before he is my husband." I feel its suppose to be the other way round, that's me anyway. I will really like to hear mistakes married men make too.

  • @seleinashurake1498

    @seleinashurake1498

    3 жыл бұрын

    I noted that too but I'll just pick what's important and leave the rest.

  • @azegeaustin5615

    @azegeaustin5615

    3 жыл бұрын

    Interesting, however the statement emphasized, could encourage women to see the pastor first before the husband. Her massage was ok. Nice job to her.

  • @mariegenius

    @mariegenius

    3 жыл бұрын

    According to the Bible she is correct ❤️

  • @lebonthite

    @lebonthite

    3 жыл бұрын

    There's no first or last. These things run as a package. We must learn to see this as a package.

  • @eniolagreat6349
    @eniolagreat63492 жыл бұрын

    Wow....this is so inspiring. More anointing to you woman of God. You've indeed blessed my heart.

  • @hrhrose1524
    @hrhrose15243 жыл бұрын

    Pastor M. I am so honoured to have stumbled over your channel. Will pass on the gracious knowledge to my budding newly weds.

  • @diasporavoice8641
    @diasporavoice86413 жыл бұрын

    DO NOT SUPPORT YOUR HUSBAND IN WRONG DOINGS......my sister, I wish this message can get out to more Nigerian women. What a change of heart will come to our politicians if their wives at home are not telling them the truth about their wrongs doings.

  • @crissoa

    @crissoa

    3 жыл бұрын

    Correct. They’re too busy enjoying the spoils of corruption.

  • @angelinaserwaa1436

    @angelinaserwaa1436

    3 жыл бұрын

    It will interest you to know that most men when they are doing something evil or bad, their wifes will never know until they are caught. Just like cheating

  • @butterflyworld.594

    @butterflyworld.594

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ok

  • @hlengiwengqotheni7530

    @hlengiwengqotheni7530

    3 жыл бұрын

    My husband is cheating known and again

  • @pinkydlamini9414

    @pinkydlamini9414

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@angelinaserwaa1436 trust me they know.

  • @roselynchukwu4784
    @roselynchukwu47843 жыл бұрын

    I just love her realness. Pastor M you are now my mentor. God bless you.

  • @roselynofosuabosompem7049

    @roselynofosuabosompem7049

    3 жыл бұрын

    I tell you oooo my sister

  • @karengacheri9716
    @karengacheri97162 жыл бұрын

    Offlate been learning much on marriage ...not married,hence am glad am getting prepared before the time...things the spirit has been talking to me and making me land on platforms I can learn...these are things my marital mom may not teach me,not even my mom.... God bless you WOG....Born again women got alot to learn ..they always complain our marriages end in doom...and glad we are sharpening each other... kindly,release a book well published ..am here to buy...God's grace is sufficient 🧡💜

  • @martintokau7326
    @martintokau73262 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for this I feel more ladies need to hear this, speaks to the heart, and I'm sure all men will agree with this. God bless.

  • @emilywood9131
    @emilywood91313 жыл бұрын

    Wise words my sister! God bless you ❤️

  • @intifadhabashir500
    @intifadhabashir5003 жыл бұрын

    I am a muslim but enjoying your advices.beautiful words .thank you

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @cocosmith12

    @cocosmith12

    3 жыл бұрын

    God bless you 🙏

  • @jesusislordgodisgood4408

    @jesusislordgodisgood4408

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 haba !!

  • @tripplebben8781
    @tripplebben87812 жыл бұрын

    Pastor, this is the best study I heard about marriage counseling , blessings Pastor 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @georgewallace4004
    @georgewallace40043 жыл бұрын

    I just love your massages, you are so blessed. I wish all the ladies should come across to this channel

  • @mitchmaganji4383
    @mitchmaganji43833 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your amazing words they encouraged me so much as a wife

  • @nopysango8752
    @nopysango87523 жыл бұрын

    The world needs women like u. GOD bless u.

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you

  • @victoriachiamaka6484
    @victoriachiamaka64842 жыл бұрын

    I love you Pastor M. You've been a blessing to me.

  • @Glowie20
    @Glowie203 жыл бұрын

    I really love how you drive the point home...enjoyable and very insightful

  • @Honeyisle
    @Honeyisle3 жыл бұрын

    Love this, thank you for your wise teaching. I will pass unto my family and friends.

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @SholzTV
    @SholzTV3 жыл бұрын

    Grassland & merged together 🤣🤣I can't. I'm not married yet but learning alot. This respect thing alot of us don't understand it. I'm reading a book called "Love & Respect" by Dr. EMERSON EGGERICHS and it opened my eyes to alot. Men definitely need respect and women should even respect thier husbands more than pastors. His grace is sufficient 🙌🏾. GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR M

  • @bc1248

    @bc1248

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sholz TV Yeah, but these guys don’t respect their woman back. And that’s a big problem. I believe that a man deserves exactly what he dishes out. If he is disrespectful to his woman it is dead wrong for her to respect him. Dissing him back is the way. If he is free to express himself than so is she. I think of the old TV sitcom Honeymooners with Ralph and Alice as the model. Ralph was disrespectful to Alice and Alice dissed him back.

  • @diasporavoice8641

    @diasporavoice8641

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bc1248 what you say here about disrespect goes back to the foundation of the relationship. Was he respectful of you at the start of the relationship? A lot of women forge ahead in bad relationships choosing to overlook bad behaviours telling themselves he will change once we are married. Have you heard the saying, Love is blind, Marriage is the eye opener? The truth is that it only gets worse. You cannot change what you choose to tolerate. I say to the young ladies I mentor, to always very carefully scrutinise how the man in your life behaves around his sister, his aunties, his mother and his grandmother as well as other women in general. Yiu can almost be certain that how he treats other women in his life, is how he will treat you. If you are not comfortable with how he responds to other women, do not tolerate it. Walk, because if you choose to ignore it, you will soon discover that you already saw the warning signals but chose to ignore it.

  • @bc1248

    @bc1248

    3 жыл бұрын

    diaspora voice I understand what you’re saying and you are right. But I was just saying that a woman shouldn’t respect a man who doesn’t respect her. I believe that people are best suited to their kind. Sometimes two people love each other but they on a different level in being. They may be disrespectful to each other but still love each other like Ralph and Alice really loved each other but dissed each other. So I do not believe that a woman should be sentenced to respect when a man does not respect her. If he disses a woman she should diss him back. A man might actually a respect a woman who socks him with truth. Knowing that she’s not dumb enough to respect him when is blunt to her. Never mind that respect foolishness bcuz he’s not on that level. Wallop him left and right with truth. Be as blunt to him as he is to her.

  • @thatcoding_teacher1258
    @thatcoding_teacher12583 жыл бұрын

    Am a newly married.... The gray of God brought me here.... Am about to subscribe 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @henryanozie3787
    @henryanozie37873 жыл бұрын

    You are just real and truthful. I love your programme. Ride on beautiful woman

  • @portiakobd1649
    @portiakobd16493 жыл бұрын

    Yho, u know watching this video I become emotional, because I'm married n I'm 31years of age, n now I didn't see the wrong things that I was doing to my husband, disrespect is the only thing that breaks things and lead our husband to cheat n change towards us, n I salute you, every thing you said it's true need to stand up and start making right things, thank you for the good tips or can I say advice, dankie 🙏

  • @ikupamercykabigumila1377
    @ikupamercykabigumila13773 жыл бұрын

    1. I am not the project. Marriage is never about what I can get but it is always about what I can give. I am to help him achieve his other projects. 2. Supporting the wrong decisions. Being the voice of reason in my husband's life. Acts 5:1-11 Stand up for the truth. I determine the legacy my husband leaves for the children. Tell him the truth prayerfully and respectfully 3. Familiarity. Respect is the major need of a man. He is to be treated with honor and respect. 4. Not taking care of myself. Looks: Men are moved by what they see.

  • @matildachigbata5654
    @matildachigbata56543 жыл бұрын

    The truth might not be easy to hear but it has to be said. Loved the message Mama thank you. I have learnt alot and I am so going to share this video...

  • @mariasono6117
    @mariasono61173 жыл бұрын

    This is a powerful and helpful teaching,we needed to hear that.

  • @agapeshekinah4444
    @agapeshekinah44443 жыл бұрын

    I needed this. Thank you so much ❤️ God bless you Mama My life will never be the same honestly

  • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218

    3 жыл бұрын

    Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........

  • @peacea236

    @peacea236

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 fraudster

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