7 Biblical Qualities To Cultivate As Christian Women | A Bible Study On The Proverbs 31 Woman
What is biblical womanhood? What are some godly qualities we should look to cultivate as Christian women? ✨
This counterpart to my "6 Biblical Qualities To Look For In a Christian Husband" video is also inspired by the Jonathan Pokluda "Fantasy" sermon series. Essentially, he breaks down Proverbs 31:10-31 (the famous passage on a wife of noble character), and from it draws application of what type of qualities Christian men should look for in a future wife. I'm framing this more broadly as qualities to cultivate as Christian women because at their core, these are godly qualities we can all seek to grow in, regardless of relationship status. 💛
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What did you think of this list? Comment below any other godly qualities you think are important to cultivate as Christian women. 🌼✨
@anessarodriguez1320
3 жыл бұрын
Meekness is a big one, I believe. Gentleness, humility, kindness, submissiveness, modesty, obedience all easily tie with this quality. A mere observation I've made throughout my life is that I've seen women more bold in speech and self-assertive. Honestly your video, "taming the tongue" comes to mind. Not that there's anything wrong with being bold, as long as it's a quality used to shamelessly proclaim the gospel! However, I've only met a few women in my life that were actually gentle and meek. I think this is a priceless attribute we can cultivate. 😊 "Do not let your adornment be merely outward-arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel- rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." I Peter 3:3-4 NKJV
@sarahcoons648
3 жыл бұрын
I would love a part 2 that breaks down each quality and gives practical tips on how to implement them in our lives! A quality I've been trying to learn more about and practice is having a quiet spirit. From shifting my schedule to have slower mornings, allowing more time for prayer and Bible study, to learning to stay silent when I'm tempted to speak. I think these are often overlooked in our "hustle" culture.
@jamesthonger2307
2 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord 🙏
@asifmuniruniverse7732
2 жыл бұрын
Nicole these days much in my project I come here just for Short moment I'll see after my project please
@jpanicacci
2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽💗I love this. I'm 58 years old and I've known the Lord since I was 14. So what's that: 44 years? Goodness. I went down the list (and checked the whole Prov 31 passage in my Bible). It looks like so far, the Lord's helped me tick all the boxes. Imperfectly, of course. But the Lord is so kind and He's led me through it, forgiving my mistakes, tuning my ear even more finely day by day to His wishes, His will. I'm glad to be His daughter. Thank you Kaci, for being a young woman with such a finely tuned ear to His Word and His will and speaking this truth publicly. This was a good one. ✝💒🧔🏽♀ Love from California💖
Women who have God in their lives really glow differently
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
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@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
XX not allowed
@lillymhb
Жыл бұрын
This is so true
@caylalily6872
Жыл бұрын
Jesus loves you John 3:16, Jeremiah 29:11, Proverbs 29:11
@caylalily6872
Жыл бұрын
Jesus loves you
Proverbs 31; 20- 31 3:27 1. Faithfulness 5:28 2. Attentive to the needs of her home 5:42 3. Not lazy (Hard-working) 6:15 4. Tender to the needs of others 6:47 5. Aesthete 7:05 6. Sensible in preparation 8:41 7. Yielded to God 9:16
@dr.stevenlynne
3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!! This will inspire women also. Women are spiritually equal with men: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gYCol9aOkcyfY7Q.html
@adailydaughter6196
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I will certainly come back to this 🙂🙏
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified Ect
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
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@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
@@dr.stevenlynne XX not allowed
On my way to finding myself back as a Godly woman. I hate that I strayed so far. Thank you for this ❤️
@mellisaastbury5720
Жыл бұрын
God is with you on your journey
@doodlingsongbird
Жыл бұрын
Hey there! I hope that you’re doing well and am praying for you in your walk with God, remember that even though you may have strayed, God leaves the 99 to find the 1 to bring them back to him, no matter how far we stray
@Somebodysomewheresometime
8 ай бұрын
Me too❤ see you there
As a young girl who has just properly discovered God, this is very helpful to better myself! Love from Australia 🩷🩷🩷
Being a Christian woman, I oddly found that these qualities somewhat reflect me, but as stated, could and need to be worked on. The beauty part was especially interesting since I am an artist who likes to create beautiful things.
I absolutely LOVE this list! Self-respect & control are other qualities that we as Christian women should always cultivate! ❤️
I really liked how this passage does not just promote a godly woman but a godly family as shown in Proverbs 31:23 and 31:28. It is comforting to know that this passage promotes women, and that God commands women to be part of society just like men.
Yes! I love teachings like this...for Christian women by Christian women....us single gals need to hear this too 😊
@dr.stevenlynne
3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!! This will inspire women also. Women are spiritually equal with men: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gYCol9aOkcyfY7Q.html
@samp2651
Жыл бұрын
What a load of rubbish ahahahah hell
This about my mother, this proverb.......here it is so many years later than when we were all seated at the dinner table, joking, fighting, discoursing, loving.....I had loving catholic parents, they put us thru seven ivy league colleges, my mother was a super-mom....on our yearly vacation, she would load up the station wagon, and then have the whole roof loaded with stuff!!!......she was the den mother in boy scouts.....then when we were all in college and looking pretty good, she took the job of water chemist at our areas water supply....to pay the tuition..... then a bit later, my dad (who was awesome) had a stroke and became bedfast and incontinent.....my mom was his primary caretaker....a full-time job in my opinion....then my dad died, now she is 88 years old.....I wonder about my role...i try to do my best in my remodeling business, and wait on her.....I have screwed up alot over the years, and she was there the whole time, i am so glad to God who is Jesus....that I have a few years to present to my mother a son who is proud of accomplishments, and doing good, and also having fun!!
I love what you said in the beginning, "we cannot hold somebody else to a standard that we ourselves are not meeting or at least working towards". God bless you, keep up the good work ❤️💪✨
@migzy4704
Жыл бұрын
I agree with that as a Christian Man. I've been seeing lots of Men being promiscuous meanwhile they want to marry a girl that isn't promiscuous and to me it just seems wrong. If a man doesn't want a promiscuous woman then he shouldn't be promiscuous and vice versa.
Thank you Kaci, for sharing this with us. I'm young lady who still praying for my patner. Blessed😇
Truly exceptional and eye-opening. Thank you so much for taking the time to share this with us. Katherine x
I've just started watching Michael Todd's series on Relationship Goals! This video came at the most perfect timing. Thank you Kaci! 😊❤️🌼✨
God bless you more Kaci..continue to inspire us with your motivational in depth Bible reading
So beautiful ♥️ thank you for being a voice to the younger generation. Women young and old need to see the true beauty of being a women that tends to the home, children and her husband. Thank you
@dr.stevenlynne
3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!! This will inspire women also. Women are spiritually equal with men: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gYCol9aOkcyfY7Q.html
This is the only video on this verse that did not trigger me like at all. You are so warm. I did not feel overwhelmed at all
I come downstairs to unwind from a long day looking after my 4 years old and all I can think of is another 'to do' list, for the night...I find your video sister and It moved me to change the focus from an anxious wife to someone who needs to draw near to God and aspire to be this type of woman writen in Proverbs. Thank you so much sister Kaci.
I love the porch and I love Jonathan pukloda preaching on marriage and relationships... I love your channel too. Thank you for all you are letting the holy spirit lead you to do ✨✨
@kacinicole
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he has such great content! 🙌🏼 Thank you so much for your kind words 🤗
Hi Kaci! You know, I already watched this vlog once but today, I felt like rewatching this because it seems like I did not take the time to understand this. Thanks for doing this. Continue to inspire how to be a Christian Woman. To God be the glory!
Really great video, I love that you leave room for us to expand on these and take our own notes. Thank you!
Thank you for reading Scripture out loud ☺️
Your channel is such a blessing and so was this Bible study! You have a peaceful vibe, I praise the Lord for your life and channel.
By grace of God I got this video in my Recommended, and wow, did I need it. Ever since I learned about Proverbs 31, I've been severely intimidated by it, for it pretty much describes a wife who makes zero mistakes in how she speaks and conducts herself and home economics, and I knew that I would make mistakes in my marriage... but the way it can be compressed into 7 tangible and very practical qualities that we can cultivate, this helps so much and gives me inspiration to strive to be that Godly wife for my husband! Thank you for making this video, and Glory to the Lord for working through you in helping us understand His will better! God bless 🙏
This list is so helpful! Thank you for sharing ❤️
I love this video. Needed to hear this today. Thank you.
@kacinicole
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it was timely! 💛
Always feeling encouraged after watching your videos 💛💛💛
@kacinicole
3 жыл бұрын
Aw praise God! I'm so happy to hear that 💛
@dr.stevenlynne
3 жыл бұрын
Great!! This will inspire women also. Women are spiritually equal with men: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gYCol9aOkcyfY7Q.html
This was extremely helpful, thank you!
I really needed this today. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing this video.🙂 It was very concise and helpful.
Thanks for sharing. Blessings 💛
Awe! Great video!!!! Thank you!
Felt like I was listening to a friend, thank you.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING WITH US. GOD BLESS YOU.❤
yeesss. I love this
Thank you for this helpful and encouraging reminder to be women who submit to the biblical definition of what God defines us to be :)
I truly enjoyed this so much I can’t wait too watch more. This was so clear for me too understand the passage and really diving into his word ❤
@johnkelly6994
Жыл бұрын
Understanding the passage. Help me understand that if God is invisible how can Jesus or ANYBODY be the image of God when God cannot be seen. Make ends meet with that. kzread.info/dash/bejne/mKWfutaddbnKfMY.html
This is fantastic....totally word- based...the best one on this topic ever......ever.
Thank You Lord for Kaci!
I am looking for character building content to study in my small group and I sincerely appreciate this video. Thank you so much for sharing. God Bless You! 🎀🤎
@TriciaRP
Жыл бұрын
Danielle. I want to get back and restart i wish I didn't ever leave and need Spiritual help. Please I know I am being taken advantage of by spirits if this world. I hate I was so naive and gullible.
Thank you for making this informative video! ❤❤❤
I love this message thank you for sharing this !
Hii Nic, i love this video! Thank you so much for share! I'm daily trying to be a women who fears the Lord and have all theses qualities.🌸
This is so helpful! 💗
Im glad you are detaching this from specific tasks and duties. Reframing it to be about the OBJECTIVES of this woman...its about living IN SERVICE of others...that being the Family! I hope we hear more conversations about reframing what a good Man is...because I also feel it is about living in service of my wife and family too, not being a selfish immature baby that cries and complains when they dont get what they want and only what material posessions lol
This video was very helpful❤️ I just became a Christian and I wanted to know how to become a good Christian woman!! I’m married so I wanted to know how to be a better wife to my husband!!❤️🙏🏻 this was a great video. Thank you!!😊
I am blessed by your teaching 🙌....it amazing 🤗 . All Glory to God ..God bless you sister 😊❤✝️
I love your videos ever since I found you on here last night! I loved the list and know what I need to work on.
Thank you for your video! You helped my understanding of a Christian woman.
Thank you so much for your videos, Kaci! I truly appreciate all the biblical wisdom you bring to each video-God is using you as His mouthpiece, and I pray you continue staying strong in Him and in the KZread ministry He has blessed you with❤️
@kacinicole
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is truly so encouraging - thank you so much! Your prayers are much appreciated too 💛
I love this video!
Thanks for this video. GOD bless you❤
Great videos was really helpful 😊
👏🏾Thank You for sharing🤗
Love this praise the LORD
Thank you for this and God Bless,
Love your interpretation! 🤍
As a christian man that seems to always pick the wrong one, Im watching this to remind me of the things that I should care about when looking for someone to date and eventually marry. Thanks for the video!!
Thank you for this ❤
Also being humble counts as well. ❤ Your video thank you blessed child of God ❤
I really enjoyed your video. I am being called to change my life and become a good Christian woman. I have been filled with evil for years. I had a sort of out of body experience while watching a KZread video about Jesus on the cross. I saw myself throw up black evil and since that day I have been seeking the lord in a new found happiness and excitement. Before I couldn’t see a good future but now I see it is a beautiful day everyday as long as I do godly things everyday. Thank you for instilling new ideas for me.
wish I had your wisdom at your age. Probably about a decade older, trying to be more Godly in my life & marriage. This video was helpful, thank you.
Fantastic FANTASY!
Another great resource is John MacArthurs book “12 Extraordinary Women”. He highlights examples of extraordinary biblical women that we can look to as inspirations for how to be a Good Christian Woman. 😊🙏✝️
@dr.stevenlynne
3 жыл бұрын
Great!! This will inspire women also. Women are spiritually equal with men: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gYCol9aOkcyfY7Q.html
Great content! We are all God’s daughters and we deserve to be valued🙏🏽 This is great information to help get positioned for our Kingdom Spouse🤵♂️💍👰♂️
Excellent video
Deep lesson
love your channel
Very helpful
Great video
I loVe your heart for Lord! Thank you for your gift of encouragement. ❤
Praise God!!!
@johnkelly6994
Жыл бұрын
And praise him ONLY! kzread.info/dash/bejne/mKWfutaddbnKfMY.html
A women that nurtures and is willing
New Subscriber. Thank you
Awesome 🫶🏻
Right on. ❤
Faithfulness Attentive for what's in her care Not Lazy Tender to the needs of others Aesthete Sensible in preparations Yielded to God I myself have a long way to go Thanks for this ❤ Yeah, an awesome*, Godly woman is FANTASY 💜 I love how you put it so well in & completed everything... will def see that sermon ❤
Thanks a lots!
Proud of you dear.
I'm called to the home. Taking care of my parents and daughter with autism and epilepsy. ❤❤❤❤
Thank you❤
I love this thank you!
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
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2 жыл бұрын
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@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
Dr zakir Naik understand him
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I like that you said while we are looking for these qualities in Christian men, it is equally important that we cultivate qualities in ourselves. It’s so easy for us to point out something in someone else but we should hold ourselves accountable too. It’s refreshing to see this because I’ve been in conversations when the topic is about us but it always gets deflected back to what men should do. Everyone is getting held accountable when it comes to The Bible. There are messages for everybody too. If the someone is targeting a particular audience, then it’s meant for that audience. I watch videos like this because I like grounded advice on what I can do better as a Christian wife and mother. God bless you and anyone seeking biblical advice ✝️🙏💕🕊
@kacinicole
2 жыл бұрын
Yes, preach! So good 👏🏼 God bless you as well and thank you for this encouraging comment 💛
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
@@kacinicole Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
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@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
No bearer of burdens will Bear the burden of another
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2 жыл бұрын
@@kacinicole XX not allowed
I found this video veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy* helpful. Thank you and may the Lord bless you continually in Jesus name. Amen.🙏🏾
Amen!
The best comment I have ever heard, and I wish I remember where I read it, about the Proverbs 31 woman, is that this list is not about what a man wants in a woman. This is not a "man-created" list. It is a list from a WOMAN. A woman created this list, not some man with imagined and unrealistic ideals. This is from a woman who walks the walk she is distilling in her son. All women are capable of this and it is attainable with God's help.
Nice content
How can you distinct between your personal desires for marriage and to be a wife and Gods will for you to marry and be a wife? Lately, I’ve been feeling the desire for marriage and for a Godly man as my husband. I’ve undergone some changes and I am finding myself to become a Godly woman in preparation for marriage. But I am overcome with insecurities still and struggle with feelings of unworthiness. How can one pray to God for clarity on this situation?
I hit the thumbs up 👍 because I cannot wait to see your claw clip tutorial on KZread and you wear claw clip all of the time on KZread and that’s true as shown on 5:43 you definitely called the right person for the claw clip watcher hopefully 🙏 you will do the claw clip tutorial and once when you do the claw clip tutorial and post it on KZread then you don’t have to worry about it but first you have to do the claw clip tutorial on KZread just to keep in mind.
Yes and Amen 🙏🏼👍
proverbs 31 is also for men, I know that sounds weird, but if you look at it in the light of the bride being described is actually Christ's bride, the church, then it paints a whole new picture. Which includes the men who are in the church. I heard that from somewhere and thought that was really interesting.
You are so beautiful sister. I'm blessed by your sharing. God bless you more.
aww this is so encouraging thanks for sharing!! i'm a christian youtuber as well!!:)
@dr.stevenlynne
3 жыл бұрын
Great!! This will inspire women also. Women are spiritually equal with men: kzread.info/dash/bejne/gYCol9aOkcyfY7Q.html
Wow thank you so much for this
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified Ect
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
Fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 never ends for disbelievers
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2 жыл бұрын
Many prophets u denied many prophets u killed
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
Dr zakir Naik understand him
@ibrahimghibihisab4502
2 жыл бұрын
Any girl wants to be my grave wife
God bless amen.❤
Thanks
T hank the father. I honour you thanks g
I'm an Orthodox Muslim woman and I absolutely love your channel. I've learnt so much from your videos, especially on how to make my life God centric and be a woman of God. Thank you so much sis. God bless. ❤️
@ralffischer4950
2 жыл бұрын
"Orthodox Muslim" Bruh you can't be Christian and Muslim that's not how it works
@drayle.2078
2 жыл бұрын
@@ralffischer4950 Orthodox doesn't mean that you are Christian. It means you adhere to your religious practices/traditions as what should be normal. (Think of Orthodox Jews, they're certainly not Christian)
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