7 "BAD” Beauty Habits I Quit That ACTUALLY Improved My Life…

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I filmed this video a few weeks ago and I feel ready to share it now! I wanted to open up about some of the ways I have been treating myself better and although I am tying things back to beauty The root of all this is so much bigger and more complex than that!! If you are struggling with your mental health I get it and I am sending you my love!! You are not alone!
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  • @rachellewatson01
    @rachellewatson01 Жыл бұрын

    I’m a therapist and this is such a beautiful video. Self care isn’t just being gentle with ourselves. Self care is also pushing ourselves to do things that we know are good for us even when we don’t want to. Sometimes we have to show ourselves that we’re worth it even if we don’t believe it in the moment 💕

  • @arwabagerlmhc2589

    @arwabagerlmhc2589

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes!!! As a fellow therapist I’m so happy Lauren made this video ! Bringing more awareness to something I feel so strongly about (and that comes up a lot in sessions )

  • @brookekivi

    @brookekivi

    Жыл бұрын

    “Sometimes we have to show ourselves we’re worth it even if we don’t believe it in the moment.” - this really struck me. Thanks for sharing that with us in the comments!

  • @KarenDugas

    @KarenDugas

    Жыл бұрын

    This!!!

  • @HaydeeSophia

    @HaydeeSophia

    Жыл бұрын

  • @RlRdHd

    @RlRdHd

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@brookekivi this statement brought tears to my eyes.

  • @jennypie1903
    @jennypie1903 Жыл бұрын

    The aversion to showering is a real struggle when you have a mental illness. It's so refreshing to hear someone else talk about it. I struggle every day. Xo

  • @echoseeslight-wh9xe

    @echoseeslight-wh9xe

    Жыл бұрын

    This makes me feel so much less ashamed...... After a lifetime of trauma, Showering is the first thing to go for me.... It's almost as if it makes me not attractive to men and I like that

  • @tvmayer
    @tvmayer Жыл бұрын

    Your honesty is so beautiful. I totally feel you about showering. When I’m in a depressive episode, my hygiene is one of the first elements to be limited. I love using a shower cap so I can get in the shower and focus on body care without washing my hair if I don’t have the energy. I can make it a few days without a hair wash but you’re so right, a daily rinse, some body oil, and a bit of lotion do wonders for me, and it isn’t as exhausting as I anticipate. Love to you, lovely!

  • @jennypie1903

    @jennypie1903

    Жыл бұрын

    yes

  • @agingophelia9812

    @agingophelia9812

    Жыл бұрын

    I get that too. For me, with a muscle disease & arthritis, it's physically difficult and sometimes exhausting to shower; showering at night instead of in the morning has become a helpful strategy.

  • @katieharris7219

    @katieharris7219

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes. This is me too. ❤❤❤

  • @jessicalevy2415

    @jessicalevy2415

    Жыл бұрын

    Realizing I didn’t have to wash my hair every time I shower was legit GAME CHANGING.

  • @brookekivi

    @brookekivi

    Жыл бұрын

    Agree that shower caps are game changers for those of us with hair.

  • @hayleypflug7384
    @hayleypflug7384 Жыл бұрын

    Your vulnerability in this video is inspiring. Personal hygiene is both important and SO HARD for the neurodiverse crowd. If you’ve never understood why some people don’t shower or hate showering… consider yourself BLESSED. Anything I can do to improve my shower experience helps. The smells and textures and the idea that I’m paying attention to my body, just for me. No one else.

  • @AmaniMaharet
    @AmaniMaharet Жыл бұрын

    It’s been a bad week & I was planning on not showering tonight, until you got to that point & I realized exactly what I was doing. Now i’m getting ready to go shower. Thank you for calling me out without knowing you were calling me out.

  • @dovafoos7513
    @dovafoos7513 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video!!!!!! It’s really brave of you to be honest about these things on the internet! I am just climbing out of some of these places, the not showering often and all. I honestly started pretending like ridiculous scenarios, like I’m an ancient queen or goddess bathing and doing luxurious exotic treatments. Yes, it’s Neutrogena, but not in my fantasy 😂

  • @voodookitty2137

    @voodookitty2137

    Жыл бұрын

    This is what I have to do when I come out of an episode, your not alone in this. A phsyc nurse gave me the idea to try it as it helps other patients she worked with.

  • @laexe2

    @laexe2

    Жыл бұрын

    Wow thank you both, i'll try this!

  • @angiemcadam65

    @angiemcadam65

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! I'll try to remember this for the next time my depression tries to get the better of me

  • @lizisasleep

    @lizisasleep

    Жыл бұрын

    Omg I do this too! My tree hut scrub becomes a ritual potion lol

  • @janvann8386
    @janvann8386 Жыл бұрын

    Lauren, hearing you discuss this “at your age” (I know that sounds condescending but I’m honestly not being condescending) is amazing!! I’ll be 46 this year and I have grown children and grandchildren and I’ve only just figured these things out in the last few years. We learn so much as we age and for you to have figured this out so soon is amazing and leaves you open to learning more about how to be happily you!😘

  • @kristentrep5038
    @kristentrep5038 Жыл бұрын

    Oh Gurl! When you know.., you know! Im choosing to vacuum and mop my floors, and cleaning my closet! Bc I’m putting off hopping in the shower right THIS moment! I hate having to think about drying my hair, and being all damp getting out of the shower! It totally feels like a HUGE chore!

  • @rishibeauty8889
    @rishibeauty8889 Жыл бұрын

    I struggle with BPD, PTSD, SAD- I am a disabled veteran of the USAF. I totally hear you & understand what you are saying. I have been a sub of yours for a few years. You are looking so good! You can see that you are feeling better & prioritizing YOU. I really look forward to you vids. They lift me up & want to put me first too. I use a walker & it is really hard- totally easy to feel bad on myself. I get what you are saying. Keep up all your growth! Its ok to have bad days- just make it a priority to love yourself!❤

  • @dizzieblonde

    @dizzieblonde

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your service. I hope you find peace, comfort, and contentment.

  • @claudialevesque6993

    @claudialevesque6993

    Жыл бұрын

    I second what dizzieblonde had to say, 110%!

  • @lelalu101

    @lelalu101

    Жыл бұрын

    I have a bunch of mental health issues and am also a disabled human. Using my walker has been freeing and I try to focus on that. Being a human is hard, but finding ways to take care of ourself shouldn't have to be 💕

  • @claudialevesque6993

    @claudialevesque6993

    Жыл бұрын

    @@lelalu101 ♥️👍

  • @mariannemilkshines2390
    @mariannemilkshines2390 Жыл бұрын

    Such a great video- I have suffered with chronic depression and anxiety as well as being a mental health therapist who is very good working with my clients but not taking my own advice. I don’t know what it is about taking showers, washing brushes and even putting on makeup when I am not working. All of these activities make me so happy once I start them but taking that first step seems so impossible sometimes. On the outside you can look fine and put together even when you are not showering every day and I don’t think a lot of people realize that. So it can be easy to hide that low lever of depression that people don’t see you struggling with. I hope this is understandable and helpful.

  • @sea_g0at
    @sea_g0at Жыл бұрын

    the shower thing is so real!!! i hate feeling wet (heh) and have always just not loved showering. but i realized showering more regularly has helped my body acne and kp TREMENDOUSLY. things i’ve found that help: finding shower products i love using and!!! super absorbent towels as well as using a hair dryer on my body. sounds weird but gets me feeling dry quickly so i can put my clothes on and feel comfy and clean ! seriously y’all. it’s so great to figure out what it is in particular that you hate about something and then finding sometimes unconventional solutions. similarly- i would let dishes pile up in my sink and then i realized i did it because i didn’t tlike touching the dirty dishes. solution? GLOVES! literally (like not even hyperbole) changed my life. good luck to anyone struggling and if anyone is reading this pls share any similar epiphanies y’all have had because maybe i will learn something helpful ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @FacesByGina
    @FacesByGina Жыл бұрын

    One of the most important things I learned (and honestly had to work hard to internalize) for my mental health is: "Anything worth doing is worth doing badly." I'll leave it here for anyone who might need to see it. 💚

  • @fourducksoriginal

    @fourducksoriginal

    Жыл бұрын

    I've never seen that phrasing for that sentiment, but it's catchy. thanks for posting it.

  • @LaurenMaeBeauty

    @LaurenMaeBeauty

    Жыл бұрын

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @FacesByGina

    @FacesByGina

    Жыл бұрын

    @@fourducksoriginal you're very welcome. One of the best memes that ever graced my Facebook haha

  • @kyeoptawerk93ah

    @kyeoptawerk93ah

    Жыл бұрын

    i've seen that before too! for hygiene routines, i always think doing it half assed is better than not doing it at all. if i don't feel like a full shower, washing my hair or just doing a quick rinse is better than nothing. if i don't feel like doing my full oral hygiene routine, a quick brush of my teeth is better than nothing

  • @ericaschiffler2425
    @ericaschiffler2425 Жыл бұрын

    Love your honesty. Also face wash wrist cuffs from Amazon are a game changer for splashing water everywhere and getting your arms and clothes wet.

  • @liviamusolino2573

    @liviamusolino2573

    Жыл бұрын

    I ordered face wash wrist cuffs yesterday and I can't wait to try them!

  • @blendofdays
    @blendofdays Жыл бұрын

    As someone who is nd & struggles with bipolar, I completely relate to ALL of this 😅💜*also... As someone who used to only wear makeup as a creative outlet to take pics, YOU got me into actually wearing makeup daily! I fell in love with neutrals & sparkly one & done shades. It completely blew my mind ngl. That's all down to you 🫶

  • @kmonkey1
    @kmonkey1 Жыл бұрын

    I can struggle with the shower sometimes too when my anxiety is up. I found that if I shower with just a candle or small light on instead of having all of the bright/harsh lights it helps so much. Also, I NEED to know what eyeshadow you have on in this video. It's so pretty!!

  • @colleenjennifer-lynn

    @colleenjennifer-lynn

    Жыл бұрын

    OMG YESSSS a candle and no lights ❤

  • @isadorasmiles9339
    @isadorasmiles9339 Жыл бұрын

    To expand on your last suggestion about your thoughts changing about your makeup, I definitely can relate to your point. I was getting lost during the surge of minimalist content and declutters. I was getting rid of stuff because I told myself I had too many duplicates or you don’t wear this enough or I only need so many. Although some cases it’s true, I also felt like I stripped too much where makeup wasn’t what it was for me. Now I feel true resurgence of why I love make up. For me, I love variety, textures, color, techniques, changing my look from day to day to fit my mood. I also like to be apart of the beauty community space here on KZread a lot and like to buy certain influencers makeup releases to support and feel a part of something. To me make up is an art form. Sometimes I felt bad before spending like an 1.5-2hrs doing my makeup and hair to not really do much for the day. But for me, it’s a time of loving myself, self expression, and just having fun and to feel good. I’ll even wear a more done up look to the grocery store. Idc anymore. So while other people may think it’s crazy, for me it brings value. My mind set now is not “do I need this” but instead “does this add value to my life and is it worth investing in”. This has helped a lot and has allowed myself permission to explore and try something new. Since then I’ve finally gave myself sweep bangs again after a long time of debating, wearing brighter colors and patterns. It’s helped a lot and I feel the most like myself in awhile. It’s true mindset is everything in order to make changes. Thanks for sharing your struggles❤ Side note of the showering topic, I always play music while showering like Lofi music and I think that really changes the game. It puts you in zen mode

  • @lisamc2820
    @lisamc2820 Жыл бұрын

    You know something - I REALLY needed this video. Everything you said is something I can really relate to. Thank you so much for saying all you’ve said - it has made a difference. At least I know it has for me & all the rest of us here who appreciate your genuine compassion. You’re a true blessing!

  • @jilliancampbell6742
    @jilliancampbell6742 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for talking about this and posting it!!! It’s worth mentioning too that these things take time and it’s not like you tackled all 7 of these at once. You didn’t start them all on the same day. That can feel like such a hurdle. I too remind myself to start with one thing, take a step. And some days I can’t and that’s ok too. I appreciate your vulnerability and that you’ve not only taken time to reflect on these things for yourself but that you shared them with us. It’s encouraging! Way to go Lauren! You’re beautiful inside and out!!

  • @moriganna67ify

    @moriganna67ify

    Жыл бұрын

    You really are a beautiful soul! Not sure why my gut told me you need to get past this hurdles and just tackle them all! Like I said. A beautiful soul.

  • @Arbee1000
    @Arbee1000 Жыл бұрын

    I thought not showering every day was my dirty little secret 😊 I started working fully from home about 5 years ago and I stopped showering every day. When the pandemic hit it got worse since I’d go days at a time without leaving my apartment, especially in the winter. I would simply forget to shower sometimes or just keep putting it off until it got so late that I would decide to wait until the next morning. I know a big part of it is that I live alone and I don’t like silence, so I always have to have a show or podcast playing during all non-working, non-sleeping hours. Taking a shower is a long stretch of time where I can’t distract myself from the silence with any media, especially if it’s a long shower where I’m washing my hair or shaving. I keep Parks & Rec playing on my phone on the counter so I can at least hear it after I turn the water off, which comforts me. It’s strange how the loneliness that I sometimes feel plays into my reluctance to shower at times. But I do love being showered and feeling clean, even if I don’t love the process. I try to buy nice smelling body washes to make the experience more enjoyable. Right now I’m showering at least every 3rd day since that’s how often I wash my hair. And then the rest of the days it mostly depends on whether I went to the gym or not.

  • @simplythebestgirl

    @simplythebestgirl

    Жыл бұрын

    I understand and relate so much. 🩷💘🩷

  • @jennabellerhiannon
    @jennabellerhiannon Жыл бұрын

    For some reason, I also can really struggle with getting into the shower. Something that's been really helping me is having a cup of coffee to enjoy before and in the shower. Idk what it is with the anticipation or just the build up to get in there but warm drinks and a podcast have been doing wonders for my pre-shower routine

  • @danieller.r.m.1853
    @danieller.r.m.1853 Жыл бұрын

    LAUREN ❤️ I’m only on the second habit so far, but this is already so incredibly relatable. Thank you so much for this video! Sending you a virtual hug ❤️

  • @hellogovna91ify
    @hellogovna91ify Жыл бұрын

    With washing my face I absolutely hate water running down my wrists and arms. I bought a bunch of wrist sweat bands on amazon and it makes such a difference! I can tolerate it so much more now.

  • @BeckyReynolds
    @BeckyReynolds Жыл бұрын

    This is the realest video. I’ve never been a fan of showering, my skin literally burns afterwards but I’ve saved for a new bathroom and am now trying new products, same with brushing my teeth… peach toothpaste for the win!

  • @mariad.6618
    @mariad.6618 Жыл бұрын

    This was a much needed video - I admit that I have a small hoarding issue with makeup - I have too much but I'm working on using it up and not buying as much. I have firced myself to date when I start using an eyeshadow palette and consistently using it for 3 months and then throwing it out. You touched on one issue that I feel is almost a generational thing - self care - showers (baths), skin lotion and all that stuff can be overwhelming because it takes time if you do it right and I was brought up in a house where taking self time was considered selfish if you were in the bathroom for more than 15 minutes so even though sometimes it feels exhausting - I have given myself permission to take time for myself and I always feel better afterwards.

  • @tossefin
    @tossefin Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for mentioning the shower part! Sometimes I feel alone in that. Having dry skin and eczema, I feel like it's a huge chore every time I shower. I have to use a rich prescription moisturizer all over my body within minutes of exiting or I'll dry up like a mummy. I also have a dry scalp and eczema there too, so it's dry like the Sahara desert (and itchy) after I've washed my hair. I envy people who can just take a quick shower, get out and get dressed with no hassle.

  • @lisahart1267
    @lisahart1267 Жыл бұрын

    I’m really slacking in the shower and sunscreen department. I have treatment resistant depression so that doesn’t help. Great great video Lauren!!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Leelo20
    @Leelo20 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this. I am so glad you decided to post this video. You are creating such a beautiful space on your channel. A space of acceptance, understanding and empathy. You deserve all the love. 💚💚💚

  • @MuddledMind
    @MuddledMind Жыл бұрын

    Gimme the eyeshadow. Gimme the hair. Gimme the skin. Sharing this means the world to someone who deals with intense mental illness. Thank you for the vulnerability.

  • @samantharuber9498
    @samantharuber9498 Жыл бұрын

    For me this list is completely accurate with how I have been lately! The only struggle I don’t have is sun screen but you can replace that with washing the dishes or folding and putting away my clothes. Then I put off the dishes by saying- ooohhh can’t run appliances from noon- 8pm. Thanks so much for sharing such deeply personal issues with depression. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @JoolsVoiceOver
    @JoolsVoiceOver Жыл бұрын

    Due to my Fibromyalgia showering is not a daily thing sadly but when I do I have a brilliant bluetooth speaker on full and have a great sing song in there and love it. Also someone suggested once having rock salt and hold it over your head and let it wash over you and the negative ions make you feel so much better.

  • @tdsollog
    @tdsollog Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being so honest. It’s refreshing to see and hear vulnerability like this. I hope other creators can do their version of this. As for me, I’m neurodivergent, and those points you made are completely relatable to a lot of us… the textures, smells, temperature changes, and so on. ❤ Love from the spooky Pine Barrens in NJ

  • @beauty_enthusiast
    @beauty_enthusiast Жыл бұрын

    My other favorite beauty Yter is HLP and this year she has really come into herself and that has refined her channel in a way that always brings something to the table worth talking about / considering. Videos like this, Lauren, align so well with your passion and path. Keep going! (And no need to apologize☺️)

  • @BobbieLovesBeauty
    @BobbieLovesBeauty Жыл бұрын

    This was so helpful, I’m struggling with basics right now my mother just passed and I feel so out of my normal. Like I’m struggling to take care of myself. I have so many others to care for I just don’t have the energy for myself. The small things really help me push through. Washing my face even just having clean hair is so nice. Thanks for all you do ❤❤❤

  • @fourducksoriginal

    @fourducksoriginal

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm so sorry for the departure of your mother, may she rest in peace. Of course nothing feels normal; for most of us, our mothers are the first thing we ever knew or remembered, and we have never known life without their existence. I wish you peace in your adjustment to this part of life without her earthly presence. God bless you

  • @LaurenMaeBeauty

    @LaurenMaeBeauty

    Жыл бұрын

    I’m sending you my love!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @BobbieLovesBeauty

    @BobbieLovesBeauty

    Жыл бұрын

    @@LaurenMaeBeauty thank you

  • @Letty4
    @Letty4 Жыл бұрын

    Kudos to you for taking your walks and wearing sunscreen! It's wonderful self-care to take time to enjoy moving your body and protecting your skin. You're worth the effort!

  • @imjustanasshlesometimes3488
    @imjustanasshlesometimes3488 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so guilty of not using sunscreen consistently until recently. Love the one from Apostrophe. Then I love Sun Bum face mist for reapplying. Both work beautifully. I was diagnosed with ADHD about a yr ago. I get horrible anxiety where I just freeze... And doing the littlest things (like jumping in the shower) is debilitating. Been going through a rough depression lately... But I've been forcing myself to shower almost daily, and to do my makeup almost daily. It really does help. Love these vids ❤ Klarissa

  • @EnvyBlu

    @EnvyBlu

    Жыл бұрын

    I love Apostrophe’s sunscreen! I’m surprised I haven’t heard more people talking about how good it is 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @lovemesomeslippers
    @lovemesomeslippers Жыл бұрын

    A lot of this resonated with me. I don’t have any particular issues but I’m a later bloomer who needed some maturity to get to know myself. 1. My skin feels too hot and dry without sunscreen so using it is a comfort thing for me. You may like it! 2. I live in an old house in the north so getting out of the shower is my issue. It’s cold when I get out in the winter and the A/C is freezing me in the summer so I hate to shower. I block the vent in the summer (I don’t know why it took me so many years to think of doing that) and I got a towel warmer and it’s a lot better now. You can get one shaped like a trash can with a lid and the towels are toasty. I had also been forcing myself to do the spa things, like scrubs, but I stopped. I really just want to get in and out quickly. I bought scrubbing mitts to get the job done quickly. I hate having to lotion up and I have dry skin so I’m experimenting with moisturizing mists or just skipping it sometimes. I lotion any part that’s visible when I get dressed. 4. I use a washcloth to clean my face. No drips and I hold the warm washcloth on my face for a minute and it melts the balm. I have some washcloths only for my face. I bought them in a dark color so makeup stains aren’t bothering me. 7. I don’t have a lot of makeup so I get fomo. I’ve tried to change my mindset about things. I now call my limited jewelry my signature look so people kind of expect to see me in it. I change it whenever. I call my clothes my uniform for the season. I wear a very small selection and I’ve actually had people say that it’s a good idea and freeing. I get a few things that really speak to me. I’m not really a minimalist though. I have no rules about quantity. I don’t get anything I’m not thrilled to own. This means I don’t ignore many items. Some of these changes took time and some clicked right away.

  • @trdewey
    @trdewey Жыл бұрын

    Really enjoyed this video coming at the perfect time. I’ve had lung disease my whole life, and worked as a nurse for 30 years in the Pediatric ICU. I was diagnosed 20 years ago with PTSD. Learning how to cope with self care is essential. We all have things we have to overcome, and I enjoyed hearing your thoughts. We don’t need to be ashamed about this. I am 65, and currently am having health issues, which is triggering my mental health. Makeup is great therapy, so is my work as an artist. I am active physically-just got my second black belt in Taekwondo. Just want to say how much I love your channel! And, as we age, showering is not recommended every day-itbstrips away all your skins protective barrier. I am trying to be better about body oils and creams. But I skip out on a shower about once a week unless I’ve been to TaeKwonDo-then it’s a necessity.

  • @sireorcry
    @sireorcry Жыл бұрын

    One harmful habit I've quit is using filters. This is the real me in my photos, imperfections and all ❤

  • @katewank8254
    @katewank8254 Жыл бұрын

    This, all this. Everyday...ME! These are all challenges I face as well. Sunscreen every darn day has been so hard to learn, and the simple act of showering has taken so much energy. I've allowed myself to get into shower products that smell good and are great for my hair. It's made me more excited to take care of myself 😊

  • @MadisonAnne
    @MadisonAnne Жыл бұрын

    Putting a separate face wash in the shower really helps when trying to do skincare, and not washing your hair everytime you shower really cuts down on having to feel like every shower is a chore, depression sucks but hygiene is necessary to feel better about one’s self, much love hope you get your spark back❤

  • @MadisonAnne

    @MadisonAnne

    Жыл бұрын

    Also there’s glitter sunscreen to make it feel more fun and I highly recommend the olay Shea whipped body wash or the Olay with hyloronic acid body wash, both help w dry skin and not having to always feel like you need to use lotion, I say make everything feel more luxurious or fun and it helps the habits fall in place

  • @Kitteh342

    @Kitteh342

    Жыл бұрын

    A luxe shower cap helps with that too. 😊

  • @Thejennmachine
    @Thejennmachine Жыл бұрын

    Unfortunately putting in some work towards our self care like showering, making better choices with food, moving our bodies , cleaning makeup brushes does actually help us feel better. I widened my window of capacity by focusing on my health

  • @chamorrojen1905
    @chamorrojen1905 Жыл бұрын

    I'm a newer subscriber that has always appreciated your fun personality and sense of humor, but I have to commend you on your honesty and vulnerability in this video. I've dealt with these same feelings and I'm sure i will in the future. Pushing through, getting cute and having fun with my makeup always seems to help but its so hard to remember that when you're in the eye of the storm. Thanks so much for being brave and sharing with us. I'm an even bigger Lauren fan after this video! Sending lots of love ❤

  • @laurenb6156
    @laurenb6156 Жыл бұрын

    Wow. The tone of this video was so perfect. No shame. Great tips for those of us that struggle ❤You are an inspiration!

  • @Kupo923
    @Kupo923 Жыл бұрын

    Very rare to find someone speaking so honestly online these days, kudos to you. Hell even the shower thing is waaay more common than we think in this hygiene olympics society of ours. Btw you are absolutely stunning, geez.

  • @claribelhernandez8114
    @claribelhernandez8114 Жыл бұрын

    You hit the nail on the head on many of these for me!! Thank u so much for using ur space to take time and be real with us. I truly appreciate it! Not many people are confident enough to speak on these topics.

  • @melissap7369
    @melissap7369 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for talking about this! 💕

  • @Allypooh88
    @Allypooh88 Жыл бұрын

    I really needed to hear this today. THANK YOU!!❤❤

  • @MsAdrammelech
    @MsAdrammelech Жыл бұрын

    This is such a great video ! Thank u Lauren. Lotsa love 🩷

  • @billieosha7309
    @billieosha7309 Жыл бұрын

    Laura, thank you. Your honesty has been a blessing.

  • @carolynnemilmine4147
    @carolynnemilmine4147 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this vid i can totally relate! I really needed this chat because ive been very low lately. Thanks Lauren ❤

  • @allykath2801
    @allykath2801 Жыл бұрын

    love this video and love you!! 💖 so many of these habits are so soooo relatable and it’s so difficult to deal with them during a depressive episode so thank you for talking about them

  • @BeautyRepublicUnited
    @BeautyRepublicUnited Жыл бұрын

    You have NO IDEA how much this videos helped me! Thank you so much!

  • @kayla4702
    @kayla4702 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video, I too have struggled with many of these and am still getting used to the routines.

  • @KarenDugas
    @KarenDugas Жыл бұрын

    I loved this Lauren. Thank you so much! Your content is so fun because you always keep it real, but this was extra real and vulnerable and I’m here for it. Deep gratitude to you!! ❤

  • @sarahpratt378
    @sarahpratt378 Жыл бұрын

    I needed this video, thank you so much for posting. I dont feel so alone and am so inspired to take care of ME! ❤️

  • @brckaboo
    @brckaboo Жыл бұрын

    Lauren, I so appreciate this video. A lot of this resonates with me and your approach to the discussion is so refreshing!! Thank you! ❤

  • @KellieRyan
    @KellieRyan Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing this! It is beautiful, and something that I needed to hear. Again, thank you for sharing. It means a lot.

  • @stephanieschwartz6213
    @stephanieschwartz6213 Жыл бұрын

    Such a great video idea! Thanks for sharing this with us.

  • @lynnkayseas636
    @lynnkayseas636 Жыл бұрын

    This is relatable to my own life, I thank you for sharing and being vulnerable, you are truly a solid human being

  • @AngelaJeanBTW
    @AngelaJeanBTW Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this Lauren. I have been feeling a lot of the same things, and trying to finding ways to pull myself out of it. It feels good to know that I’m not alone. 😊

  • @janetdunleavy3926
    @janetdunleavy39266 ай бұрын

    I just found your channel and I am SO glad! I absolutely can relate so hard to so much of this! Thank you for talking about this! So nice to know I’m not alone. 💖

  • @CJ-gf3yl
    @CJ-gf3yl6 ай бұрын

    This is such a helpful and important video. Thank you for this!!

  • @Southernpeachxo
    @Southernpeachxo Жыл бұрын

    Loved this topic and video! Love you getting raw and REAL, I love that about you ❤ I have a lot of the same feelings you do about these things so I appreciate this video so much!

  • @ellelovescats3
    @ellelovescats3 Жыл бұрын

    I really needed to see someone discussing all this. Sometimes i start to feel like im awful and the only one who has a problem doing these things even if i know tons of people have mental health problems. You are so brave for sharing your struggles! Thank you 😊 this really made my day.

  • @SharrellKline
    @SharrellKline Жыл бұрын

    I really appreciate your honesty. I've been there a lot over the years.

  • @smalltalker9710
    @smalltalker97102 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for posting this ❤

  • @tillythehun
    @tillythehun Жыл бұрын

    I love your videos girl, great job. I’m always happy to see you.

  • @catherinebyrom6307
    @catherinebyrom6307 Жыл бұрын

    You've reframed things really nicely here, and I don't doubt it has helped other people ❤

  • @candicemorrison304
    @candicemorrison304 Жыл бұрын

    I hear you, on SO many of these struggles! 😅 I love the motivation this has given me! Great Job, Lauren! And THANK YOU!! :-) ❤

  • @depresseddinosaur
    @depresseddinosaur Жыл бұрын

    You glow girl! Honestly, love the hair with the hair band detail 😊

  • @ScaraScream33
    @ScaraScream33 Жыл бұрын

    👏❤ I also has a hard time getting into sunscreen! I have been trying the Unseen Screen and the First Aid Beauty one.. just seems so hard for me to layer it with my skin care and then my makeup routine. Slowly getting there. Love this honest open discussion. Mental health is such a hurdle and having content with some encouragement, it really is wonderful.

  • @seaflwrz
    @seaflwrz Жыл бұрын

    Love the honesty and the last section about loving what you already have was especially spot on for me! I’m about to clean my brushes! 😂 Thank you for being such a genuine person!

  • @Observette
    @Observette Жыл бұрын

    THIS VIDEO IS SO GOOD! You are speaking my language girl! 👏

  • @stephaniec4766
    @stephaniec4766 Жыл бұрын

    The types of things you’re describing are so relatable, even if the specifics vary. Love this concept for a video, love your honesty 💖

  • @laurac86
    @laurac86 Жыл бұрын

    I relate to so many of these habits you’re talking about and while I hate that you struggle feeling the same way I do, it makes me feel like I’m not the only one and motivates me to make much needed changes. Thank you for being so open and honest ☺️

  • @jessbz
    @jessbz Жыл бұрын

    I love that you did this video. I suffer from anxiety too. It reaches into every part of your life, even makeup so I get it

  • @dnaturalartist546
    @dnaturalartist546 Жыл бұрын

    The transparency and truths in this video are appreciated. For those of us like myself who deal with depression, I felt everyone of these and thanks for your bravery discussing it. Good luck on your continued journey and I am working on the same things as you are. Love and light

  • @crystalcarreon88
    @crystalcarreon88 Жыл бұрын

    Omg I can totally relate.. I'm so happy to know I'm not alone.. thank you so much for sharing you are such an inspiration ❤️

  • @kiitos7904
    @kiitos7904 Жыл бұрын

    I always love how you do your makeup!!!😻 just something about the shimmer and the colours that you choose. I especially like how you do your eyeshadow and blush. But in this video the makeup+the hair+the hairband are just an incredible look, I just can't get over it💞

  • @NaharaVensar
    @NaharaVensar Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing. I've been struggling with chronic health problems in the last few years. Having routines and making time has really helped me as well.

  • @judyhechinger-5946
    @judyhechinger-5946 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your honesty! I appreciate you so much. I am sure this video will help everyone who is struggling.

  • @phos5990
    @phos5990 Жыл бұрын

    wow, this is such a good video. I can't put into words how I appreciate this. btw I also struggle with getting in the shower, washing my face...all that with the wetness and textures feelings... so I'm happy for u making progress!!! I'm kind of on a similar journey, and I love that so much for us 🥹🥹

  • @oliviademarest1755
    @oliviademarest1755 Жыл бұрын

    Girl you got me to wash my makeup brushes for the first time in probably months (😬) definitely needed to hear that!!

  • @Eva_Lauren
    @Eva_Lauren Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for being so honest and open in this video ❤ a lot of the topics you covered are ones I struggle with as well. It's so refreshing to hear someone share their struggles, and then also share how they've been able to improve 😊❤

  • @renemurphy4244
    @renemurphy4244 Жыл бұрын

    Oh my gosh, I have struggled with every one of these points, at one time or another! And you are so wise and gentle and a beautiful soul, Lauren. I am much older and it took me much longer to get to where you are and I find some of these cycle back on me (I think they are depression related). So thank you for giving us something we can revisit in the future when we forget or backslide or whatever. You are a treasure.

  • @faithruntz2969
    @faithruntz2969 Жыл бұрын

    Literally every single point applies to me lately. Saving this video to reference over and over! Thank you!!

  • @EH012
    @EH012 Жыл бұрын

    All so relatable and so affirming to hear. Thanks, Lauren 💚

  • @becktheruiner
    @becktheruiner Жыл бұрын

    Wow.... Absolutely shocked how similar we are, and I really didn't think that there were people out there like me because no one wants to talk about these serious issues but You having the courage to just open up and talk about this really helps me😊 I really appreciate you, your honesty, and your uplifting comments❤ They truly mean the world Stay beautiful girl You got this, I'll be here watching ❤️❤️

  • @irisflentroy3202
    @irisflentroy3202 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. Ive been depressed lately and all of the things you say apply to me. One step at a time every day to feel better about ourselves.

  • @shannondeppen1343
    @shannondeppen1343 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing and being so very honest with us. So many of us can relate to how you've been feeling. I think self care is so beneficial and for me, it's essential to my mental health as well as my physical health. You truly seem very genuine and are such a lovely person. You are beautiful inside and out. 😊

  • @oritigra
    @oritigra Жыл бұрын

    thank you for this, I can relate to most of the habits and underlying issues about them 💜

  • @michellejames6133
    @michellejames6133 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for putting yourself out there. I was feeling so alone in the struggle. I appreciate hearing that I'm not. It's normal to struggle with life sometimes. Needed to hear this and you're advice was extremely helpful. ❤

  • @tammynoganosh8875
    @tammynoganosh8875 Жыл бұрын

    I really loved your honesty and so happy you've said it..because I have had so many of the same issues ❤ Thank you so much for a real and honest video and getting to really know you even more. Your beautiful inside and out❤

  • @kristigibbons8520
    @kristigibbons8520 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing!!! My makeup routine is an escape, a time for me to relax and just enjoy myself and my "inner beauty" as well as feeling my best on the outside! As far as cleaning brushes, it's actually one of my "favorite" things to do, it's so satisfying for me! I know I'm weird

  • @susanpeltier3333
    @susanpeltier3333 Жыл бұрын

    Wow this is such a refreshing & lovely video. Reminds me of Samantha March’s approach to things on here too. You both are such good examples. Ang N has been talking about her emotions & needing a break on YT & how people leave rough comments & how those affect her. I just want to say I appreciate the open honest discussions. We all need to be more accepting & empathetic towards each other. Sending grateful hugs.

  • @planningkitten
    @planningkitten Жыл бұрын

    Wow this video really hit home for me! I’m struggling with burnout /depression and things like showering can be so hard! And I also started to get into sunscreen more this year and using sunscreen actually makes me want to wash my face and do my skincare routine at the end of the day! I’m glad that you use your channel to talk about these topics!

  • @sandrapaul4828
    @sandrapaul4828 Жыл бұрын

    Ciao Lauren, I feel the same as you feel about the shower thing. I bought wrist mini towel so I do not get water all over my arms when I double cleans my face at night. Thanks a lot for your videos. I enjoy them and your personality as well.

  • @TheMunchkinita2509

    @TheMunchkinita2509

    Жыл бұрын

    I was gonna suggest this! Exercise wrist bands work SO well to stop the water from getting all over your arms :)

  • @sandrapaul4828

    @sandrapaul4828

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheMunchkinita2509 Yes it works well. It also remind me of the wrist towel used by the tennis players in the 70's 80's

  • @dominiquebright4790
    @dominiquebright4790 Жыл бұрын

    Omg thank u for sharing this lauren❤ most of us definitely r right there with u❤

  • @rabbiroz3806
    @rabbiroz3806 Жыл бұрын

    As always, you have spoken right to my heart; it is as if you are speaking directly to me. Mental health and self-care (which includes doing my makeup) are so inter-related. Thank you for sharing so honestly. You have helped me so much.

  • @imperfectlyEm
    @imperfectlyEm Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video Lauren! And thank you both as a viewer and creator, for speaking on your mental health. Not only is it lovely to know I’m not alone but it makes space for others to feel less alone too and that is magical. ❤❤❤

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