Strangely enough, these younger women don’t want a man to tell them anything about themselves. No guidance, no corrections.

@rogerringold616

12 күн бұрын

Crazy or wore out....😢 salvage yard picks

I had dinner with my 55 year old mother last night. She saw how I treated my wife and said I want a husband as good as you. I'm ready to be married . I think I found my person. When I asked her about him. All she could say was what he does for her. What he gives her. I asked what do you do for him her mind went blank. Just for her to say I know I like he bc I haven't tried to finesse him. I looked at my wife with a blank face and said see. This is why no one wants to get married, period. Dude is a victim...smh

If you are 60 you should be guiding the youth not trying to compete. I can't compete with a 30 year old me. Delusion is a hella drug

@yusufuadimu1209

11 күн бұрын

@@rickymcdonald2669 if you ask them, they would swear that they are not trying to compete. The same way that they swear that they get cosmetic surgery “for themselves”. Of course it’s NOT to attract a man…. until it’s botched of course… then they’ll say that it’s men’s fault that they were trying to reach some unrealistic standard of beauty.

kevin samuels was right about older women and younger women competing for the same group of men

@thomaskaren

14 күн бұрын

If the older woman wants to find a partner,nothing wrong g with it as long as she is realistic. Bbls and all the crazy stuff is ridiculous. But if the older woman dates she should still be that example to the younger ones.Not compete with them.A little tweeking is one thing but all this extra is gross.Also,if they were classy as a young women she is probably classy older and should not have to date a trash bucket.But I agree that we have few older women examples.

@davemcduckful

14 күн бұрын

And the men want a different group of women.

@colbylinton2714

14 күн бұрын

I date both groups. Why not🤷🏾‍♂️

@Sound_Pusha

14 күн бұрын

Seems like he was right about a lot of things

@higherstandards8059

13 күн бұрын

Old ladies are cool until you want a child...

I recently experienced some tension when an older woman saw the most beautiful girl in the area walk up and talk to me. She was totally caught off-guard and clearly had to recompose herself. Beware out here fellas.

This is why older women are telling the younger women not prioritize marriage and enjoy themselves, because if younger women in the 20s were demanding marriage, then the older women wouldn’t have no one to date.

@les907

14 күн бұрын

Only if they're actually getting "dates". These older women are behaving like they want Netflix and chill, not go out, seen-in-public dates

@strongwoman2668

13 күн бұрын

You are a lie and the truth ant is you!!!!✌️

@trombonefellow

13 күн бұрын

Yep hit the nail on the head absolute facts 💯

@abrahamsmith4248

13 күн бұрын

No one wants to date an older woman because they are bitter and jealous

@cyiaslappy8596

12 күн бұрын

@blackups__6554 So true! And if today's young women were prepared for and demanding marriage like the women of my mama's generation (I'm 52), more men would be ready to marry them. In her day, good girls didn't so willingly put out. Especially to men who just wanted to play the field.

All you younger sisters in your 20's, early 30's, Take a good long LOOK at a significant amount of these single females in their 40's, 50,s and 60's and ask yourself if that's what you want for your future......

@strongwoman2668

13 күн бұрын

Alot of them don't live to see 40 !!!!! These dudes are killing y'all like it's a SPORT!!!!✌️

@davidcruz2346

13 күн бұрын

​@@strongwoman2668You are Delusional

@trombonefellow

13 күн бұрын

Well I guess that's to be expected when you ask for smoke and have nasty and entitled attitudes

I'm here to see how the 60 year old with the BBL looks

@dorannelson9161

14 күн бұрын

like army ants

@LanierHale-oq3dr

14 күн бұрын

This is why "arranged marriages" were so popular.

@rickymcdonald2669

14 күн бұрын

A hot mess

@sayitaintso7544

14 күн бұрын

LoL really want to see? Ok I dont think shes quite 60 but maybe 50. Type in 'BBL at skating rink"... and no, your eyes are not deceiving you

@colbylinton2714

14 күн бұрын

​@@sayitaintso7544 I just did it and you're SO wrong for suggesting it. Next time just dont😂😂😂😂😂😂

The sad thing is men noticed way before women did how the younger women can’t come to older women for advice, not even the married women. They won’t tell us nothing useful because they can’t. At work I started noticing how the older women would “ice” or be rude and disrespectful to the younger women. It’s a w@r out here.

@rickymcdonald2669

14 күн бұрын

It's old bitter b. That's what it is

@buttercup5920

14 күн бұрын

@@rickymcdonald2669facts they do carry bitter energy

@JosephChandler-vd1cs

14 күн бұрын

Wow, sad

@bellefemmenoire5508

13 күн бұрын

Keep it a buck, younger women don’t want to listen to older women. What I’ve witnessed to many times is how younger women belittle and disrespect older women. Also why aren’t you getting advice from the women in your tribe? Does their advice mean so little to you? And here’s a hard truth, tons of women in our community Simply don’t have the answers you are looking for. They are still searching for the same answers themselves. 😏

@bellefemmenoire5508

13 күн бұрын

Keep it a buck, younger women don’t want to listen to older women. What I’ve witnessed to many times is how younger women belittle and disrespect older women. Also why aren’t you getting advice from the women in your tribe? Does their advice mean so little to you? And here’s a hard truth, tons of women in our community Simply don’t have the answers you are looking for. They are still searching for the same answers themselves. 😏

Nothing cracks me up like a woman who's like 45 plus asking for a man to provide for her. Like you missed that boat 20 years ago you should be grown and on your own by now 😂

I’m a fit 60yr old, and no unfit 60yr old woman with a BBL wil qualify. Someone tell them to be natural.

@amancalledhawk5575

13 күн бұрын

They won’t listen lol

I'm 65 I have a 30-year-old daughter and teenage granddaughters my job now is to guide them.

When the child support checks end and they do it's a real shock to system I had the pleasure to see it first hand

We are lost😢

@1:22:14 - HIGHER STANDARDS FOR THE NEW MAN THAT HAS EVERYTHING TO LOSE!!!! 😂😂

When they say they don’t care how you look gentlemen, they just want HELP!

@DarryllThompson-ow7sf

13 күн бұрын

Figured that why girls be dating The Hunchback of Notre Dame looking dudes. They be on the come up.

After decades of men, seeing what the court systems have done, and what black women have done in regards to keeping them away from their children… A lot of men have really tried to make relationships work. We are finding that no matter what we do black women are still a problem. we are being forced to analyze this problem and yes, now we are finally seeing. They openly hate black men. I’m not saying it… they are

@samueljenkins6288

13 күн бұрын

Sadly, it's been this way for generations. As long as she can call the cop(symbol of white power), she would disrespect him and call another man(white) to tell him, "Boy you better stop beaten' on my woman!" And then the white fella have his way with her and the husband can say nothing. How do you think all of these older high yella black women get here?

@rogerringold616

12 күн бұрын

Its warfare....

These women need to marry the baby daddy.

Hello! I just happen to run across your video today, and had recently been thinking about how and what I could do to speak to the younger women so that y’all don’t repeat the same mistakes my generation did. We have to start sharing the but naked truth! I’m 63 yrs young & have a lot to share. We are out here and it’s up to us to stop the circus and pass on the knowledge we know & wish someone had shared with us.

Vivica Fox, Claudia Jordan

@bigskeetdogg

14 күн бұрын

Lisa Raye

I've seen it.....a woman (older woman) made a post.....dragging a man because he blocked her. It's actually sad.

I'm nearly 60 and I am happy to help younger women avoid pitfalls of the games men play

Book of Proverbs States the older women supposed to teach the younger women

I'm not babysitting 😂

So happy I found you, you are 100 percent right! Finally, a sister who gets it!!!!

P.S. I want to add when I met my husband I was 4 years in remission from cancer so the last thing I was looking for was a husband...God is so good!

If you were to interview teens in mentor programs, many of them will speak on the absence of a father or positive male role model, especially the boys

They will learn. The hard way

All I can say is PREACH! It's so important to hear women like yourself telling the truth.

60+ can’t compete with 20/30 yr olds no matter what they do

@femininevibes2213

13 күн бұрын

They can't compete with 40 year olds either

@ndleinahaystack

12 күн бұрын

​@@femininevibes221340 - 60 is no difference. All are undesireable. You must be 40+ 😂😂

I am a 60 yrs old women and thank God I am in my right mind. As a matter of fact I have never been better than I am right now at this age. It's just insane how insecure these older women are they look foolish.

@SheritaLee-er4sp

12 күн бұрын

They were probably that way when they were younger as well.

Women need to prioritize marriage before 25. When you graduate from college you should have a marriage prospect or proposal.

Father definitely helps with discipline. Eventually my father died and i know for a fact i wouldn't allow myself such unresponsible life i am having now if he was still around.

Why would you pay for a car that had 7 previous owners? With 7 wrecks? 7 salvage rebuilds? No one would pay for that damaged machine.

So much wisdom coming from this young lady. I'm 52 and am now comfortable in my role as an older woman. Older is pretty fab! I've been married 22 years. Our 4 kids are ages 6 - 21. Thankfully, I had my mom and aunts as great examples growing up. They were all married to their same husbands til death parted them. Most of us in the next generation of my family are doing the same. Older women must embrace the experience and wisdom that time brings. I'm blessed to be aging gracefully, but I'm well aware that I'm aging! I stay active because I always want to be healthy and physically attractive to my hubby. However, I'd be silly to compete with my beautiful 20 & 21 year old daughters for attention from men. It's a foolish and immature mindset that makes older women think this way. If I were a single woman, at this stage of my life, I'd be way more focused on improving my life, education, and income than finding a man anyway. Today's advanced cosmetic procedures have made some women delusional. A BBL will never stop the clock from ticking!

@tamid2225

13 күн бұрын

Exactly. However if someone wants to get surgery to make themselves feel better, I don’t have an issue.

Who saw the video of the video of Vivica Fox with a BBL at a WNBA game looking like a 60 year-old clown show?

@sabrinar.purnell3869

8 күн бұрын

😳

I’m a black man and I just wanna let you know I appreciate you queen

You are delusional if you think that 60 is aging out. I have an amazing life and empty nest. The real question is why are 30 year old women dating a 60 year old man? Why is she not dating 30 year old man.? Oh I get it she is chasing coins.

@bakarigriffin6968

12 күн бұрын

Never before in history except 4 the 21st century have women dated overwhelming within their age bracket .

Ask her this: what REWARD do you want for MAINTAINING a ROUTINE? Relationship are routine. Routine is stability. Stability is safety. “MAINTENANCE is BORING”. “MARRIAGE shouldn’t be about constant STIMULATION” The “SHOULD” versus THE “IT”.

So true; a lot of people are mistakes, but they say, " You are here for a reason." 😅😅

Some of us do. I'm a proud Auntie at 43 😂 I've been successfully married to the type of Man these women want for 17 years. Most of the time I try to drop some advice, these whippasnappas come for my throat 😂. I ALWAYS say it with tact, yet they get so offended. However, it's sometimes well received. My Mom, Aunties, & Big Mama poured into me. As well as my Grandfather, father, & Uncles, who also gave me so much wisdom that saved me from many stereotypical pitt falls. These young ladies are hell bent on using their own recipe to get their desired result, when the OG recipe has been proven to work 🤷🏽‍♀️ You can't force feed them the game. 🩷

@demetrius.w11

14 күн бұрын

I believe this too. I have two younger sisters… A lot is going on nowadays.

I have layovers in the Miami airport quite often. There really are whole grandmas with BBLs out there. And it's not just black women.

This is one of your best shows......😂😂😂

I never looked for a man that's the first mistake...The bible said he who find a wife find a good thing...My husband found me and had to convince me he was serious about me... Because I wasn't looking and he was looking for a wife...We used to talk about a lot of things I'm thinking friend and he thinking wife...Hey before I knew it I was falling in love with him...I always tell him he found me...Now I have a husband that I respected before I loved him...The word of God is always true and if we live our life by his word we will never go wrong. Facts!

Us older guys 50+, have retirement & Airbnbs in different countries, We can rent a condo & 25yr old for $1000/mth, in DR, CR, Rio, Thailand……

60 year old women should be married

Y'all killing me with the elephant mask 😂😂😂😂

Aye...get in where you fit in. 20, 30, 40, 50, 60....Do you. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Dee Dee you're fortunate to have unlimited content covering "Keisha Culture". You appear to be rich in family, Keisha is going to make you rich financially. Great Work.

You say drop it like it's warm not like it's hot😂😂😂😂😂

Excellent podcast 👏🏽 👌🏽 Keep up the great work.

I’m glad I subscribed to your show today 7/11/24 Thursday… You are G 2 G with me; I enjoyed your perspective and I’m an OG 😊 Keep your mind the way it is and you are always going to win… New subscriber to your platform

most women want the same 458 things on a rotating Carousel tray.

Her baby daddy will tell her to tell the new man to buy the kids some new clothes and gym shoes so he can take them to the family reunion... At pretend like he keeps them dressed fresh😂

Only just stumbled across yout channel and i gotta subscribe The reason i know youre genuine is because you made a freudian slip just before the hour mark, you said "If I" them corrected yourself, the passion really leaking out every pore

Dee, they would rather put in the WORK, to get a gigantic mutant sized BBL in order to TWIRK!!

Papa or Mama was a Rolling Stone

Thanks!

Married and 45 👋🏽. I take the time to answer questions from young people. It’s interesting hearing their stories and concerns. But sometimes it is alarming. One young lady told me how her mom wanted her to do p*** because she was so beautiful. Told her to use her body, there’s nothing wrong with it, no consequences. When the young lady tried to resist, her mother chopped off her hair. In my mind, her mother was jealous of her, and wanted to ruin her. She ended up running away to her dad’s family. The jealousy is real out here. They need us because some of the youth truly have no one.

To be quite honest, I know too many people who were raised by stepfather’s for me to have any bad feelings about raising someone’s child… Especially if you have your own children biologically also. Children need fathers and if single mothers learn to let stepdads be actual fathers then it has overwhelmingly positive results. For a lot of men, the baggage that is more concerning than the actual physical children is whatever trauma came from those (and other) relationships not working. That trauma is hard to get past. These women are older the kids may be 10 or 12 years old. They’ve been dragging the trauma for all the years that they were with that man and for the years after… It’s unresolved, and it would be hard to fix. Women need to make themselves available when they are healthy. The same way they say that men shouldn’t date until they are financially up. And just like a man doesn’t have to be rich neither does a woman have to be emotionally. Perfect. That’s impossible. But you should be emotionally healthy. They say they’re older they say they’re wiser. They say they know their worth. They say they know what they want now… But they are not healed, and they are not emotionally healthy. Sometimes they know what was done wrong to them, and they’re hypersensitive to that which leads to them being overly critical and defensive and accusatory. Most times it was their own fault yet they have taken no accountability. Either way major healing needs to be done.

😂😂😂😂😂Eeeeheeeeee

They have to retire and child support is ending. So right about their need for income.

@janyahyahudah7894

11 күн бұрын

If they are retiring, child support stopped years ago. And the retirement check is probably way more than a child support check ever was ! What a clueless nonsensical statement to try and down older women 😏

It's very sad, where we are as a people, because if a 60-year-old woman is getting BBL, 😂😂😂 WOW. But I can remember at one point back in the '80s and the '90s when black females would laugh at white females for doing BBL and now the shoe is on the other feet. 🙏 really.

They were both absolutely correct

It is a wrap for American Black women. You all have put yourselves in such a horrible state.

It won't stop because they choose a career first now when they're old and leftover .. they are looking for a high value man

Great show

And then they want us to pay for it because they're materialistic

Your a blessing.

That stomach was jiggling 😅😅😮😮😮😮😮

Very good keep going

Dee, you mean they drop it like its lukewarm and when it is dropped then it cracks like its frozen!!!

A 60 year old getting a BBL⁉️No wonder they named it MENOPAUSE 😂😅😊What happened to wearing the fancy hat in church⁉️✈️💸✈️💸✈️🌎

What up, DEEDEE!!😂❤

Its not a crazy phenomenon if you look at South Korea, Brazil,Columbia and Argentina

Personally I think the southern baptist mentality has had one of the worst affects on the African community. I believe thats where the "prize" nonsense derives from. I also believe thats where the unrealistic expectations and delusions stem from. Unlearning all of that is imperitive; if we cant then we're headed for doom.

Keep it real sis

Your speaking the truth

DeeDee this why i cant take most women seriously anymore !! 🤦🏽‍♂🤦🏽‍♂

11:11that was Kat Williams level funny.

Men deserve to be RESPECTED AS WELL 🥺.

22:51 💯facts

60??? It's over!! Nothing can help😢

"Hell on Wheels", sister. That's the phase.

I just turned your show on wow. I have been a single father for a very long time my wife passed away in 1996. For a long time I look for that good woman to help me and me help her I'm old school. Now I'm a passport boy I rather feed a woman then pay for some red bottom shoes. American women know nothing about passport boys.

Good video 🎉😮❤❤❤❤❤

Would like to say that if a woman is Older and Mature, then she feels Complete within herself, with or without a Man! If she's single, she would still like to have one but she's not on a Hunt because she knows she deserves a King of a Man and those are very Rare!

Changing your outside doesn't change what's inside, ladies. KS said the "software is bad." SMDH!!! 😒😒😒

They used to say floosy lol

I disagree with the Title black men has been dating out for years also has to do with alot of insecurities 1 example is skin color still colorism in our culture

Green Family,I'm Glad 😊 that's not me Lol!? 😄.

Just check out Arlette pop balloon dating Show, for example, episode 15. The youngest woman was 34 😂😂 and all got kids

I get rejected by women all the time dang 😢

If young women are not surviving this surgery, what older women think is going to happen to them.

I just love a beautiful intelligent black woman

It all ways makes me laugh when women hear their WANTS repeated back they're thrown off because they realize how silly it sounds. She wants to be a child again... Old school men used to get a WOMAN with children that was okay living modestly but the modern woman wants to live Wealthy. That's why men are passing on single moms because they offer nothing in return for men taking the RISK of getting into relationships with them.

Hell On Wheels!

2 Weeks Ago X ? Aids, Sida, STD's, She Must Pay Her Way, UnTill Agreement Is Done. 😢

Who the biggest fool? The young new ones or old ones leading the way? This is rebellion running amuck

I always thought cosmetic surgery was for the aging body, or the postnatal body. I tell younger women they shouldn’t have cs till later in life because the 🍑 usually comes later or after pregnancy. I’ve seen a lot of women have surgery before then and end up with two🍑🍑 also end up needing a breast reduction because they had surgery too early in life.