6 Years After Nirbhaya, Men Tell us Why Men Rape | The Quint
The Quint went out on the streets of Delhi, in the month of December at Night - to ask men why rapes happen, who is to blame, what makes someone commit rape.
The Quint went out on the streets of Delhi, in the month of December at Night - to ask men why rapes happen, who is to blame, what makes someone commit rape.
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According to their logic, if I get robbed by someone, it's my fault for being rich.
@vinitasingh378
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@aibalbijukonuparamban9358
2 жыл бұрын
Now that's a point 🙄
@cherry-wg7nx
2 жыл бұрын
And if someone is murdered , it's their fault to be murdered not the murder .
@ovepreetkaurhahal2918
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@saltyuser_
2 жыл бұрын
You got the point
Him : I'm worried about my sister Also him: girls invites rape *wtf*
@riyaesthetic
2 жыл бұрын
Ikr, that doesn't make sense. Me to that guy: Harami manus do minute me badal gaya
@hobiadaykeepsthesadnessawa2398
2 жыл бұрын
The amount of stupidity these people have is astronomical
@walterwhite2763
2 жыл бұрын
girl did ! if you don't believe me go see a therapist
@saltyuser_
2 жыл бұрын
He's a hypocrite
@chirpingswallow3720
2 жыл бұрын
He is illiterate...
To the man who said women invite rape, How does a woman in a burkha , how does a 3 year old girl , how does a 80 year old woman invite rape ? Men with a thinking like this are nothing but a shame for mankind as a whole .
@souradeepdas8195
Жыл бұрын
A woman walking on the road in a bikini and another in a burqa, which one of them do you think a predator more likely has eyes for?
@barirahusmani9522
Жыл бұрын
@@souradeepdas8195 it LITERALLY depends on the rapists because a women in burqa is as likely to get raped as the one in the bikini and it is not even a hypothetical situation anymore as it has happened multiple times in the country. Now this doesn't necessarily mean that women who go out at midnight wearing hot pants are doing a very sensible and unquestionable thing but the point is, as i mentioned earlier, women in both the scenarios ARE getting raped nevertheless so how does her clothing even matter? So holding women accountable for it would probably be the sickest thing a man can do.
@souradeepdas8195
Жыл бұрын
@@barirahusmani9522 Going out at night can be dangerous for both men and women. My two friends were out at 3am catching a train and found themselves walking alone on the road when four individuals approached them with knives and demanded money. They could have fought back, but it could have put their lives at risk. Unfortunately, in our country, there are no laws allowing citizens to carry guns, making it difficult for us to defend ourselves. We live in a society where criminals have access to firearms, but as civilians, we do not have the means to protect ourselves. As a result, my friends were forced to give up what they had on them. This type of situation is becoming increasingly common in India. There is no way to stop criminals, they have existed throughout history. Where there are good people, there will also be bad people. The best way to stay safe is to take preventive measures.
@barirahusmani9522
Жыл бұрын
@@souradeepdas8195 this would've been a great example had we been discussing crimes in general and not a specific type of crime which in this case is rape. in that particular example your stance stands vague and irrelevant. ofc protecting ourselves is on us (for both men and women) but the same question arises again which is are the women who are not wearing such revealing clothes on a safer side? the answer to which is no. a rapist will a rape a women regardless of what she is wearing so the problem isn't clothes but the men who rape and a society which still holds the victim responsible. end of discussion
@souradeepdas8195
Жыл бұрын
@@barirahusmani9522 In Indian society, it is not common for women to wear revealing clothing such as bikinis in public. However, now, due to the influence of Western culture, some women may choose to wear more revealing clothing in order to gain attention from others. Additionally, Rape occurs in isolated and dark places, not in crowded places, and has no correlation to what a woman is wearing. Given that we live in a flawed society, it is important for both men and women to exercise caution when going out alone at night or avoid going out at night altogether. As we discussed everyone's mindsets are different. Someone gets triggered by some dresses some by others which we don't know, so now if my chicks want to go out at night in a short dress half nude then as a man I will object as I don't want to risk my girl when I know 70 percent of people are illiterate and poor, unemployment along with ranking lowest as under stuff policeman in the world index. I love her so I can't risk her life in society education or criminal mindset. So I will request my girl not to go out at night unless it is necessary. Now if you say I am controlling her body and her rules theory then you need to come to reality. Even in modern society, In every war women are the victim of rape. Criminals have existed throughout history and they will exist forever. No punishment or education can stop them so take preventive measures as much as possible. "Hate the sin, not the sinner." -- Mahatma Gandhi
"A man rapes a stray dog in Patna." I would like to ask those who comment on girls dress or returning home late night, should these dogs also put on salwar kamij and go take shelter in your home. Please come out of your pervert mindsets.
@occultsupport
3 ай бұрын
how do you even get hard to a dog
@ishitasharma7025
3 ай бұрын
Kya salwar kameez waliyon ko baksh denge, those bloody devils? 3 saal ki bacchi, 70 saal ki aunty, wo kya karein?
@ananyajere
2 ай бұрын
💀💀
@user-lj3hg6nl8e
14 күн бұрын
@@ananyajere You think its funny?
@ananyajere
14 күн бұрын
@@user-lj3hg6nl8e um..nope , why would I think its funny?
The interviewer was trying so hard not to slap those guys
@yurileihang3754
3 жыл бұрын
Especially the guy who said women invite r@pe
@shikha918
3 жыл бұрын
She should have slapped him
@shikha918
3 жыл бұрын
@@varundixit6426 yeah i agree but watching him saying things like that i wish i was the reporter i would have definitely slapped him, after his opinion
@asmitagaste8246
3 жыл бұрын
@@shikha918 that's true I would have slapped him too he said he is scared about his sister and then he said girls invite rape Like wtf?
@WHATEVER-cr9ix
3 жыл бұрын
@@varundixit6426 I get what you are saying .but one girl would really wanna slap him after hearing that . speaking about myself I would definitely not because he has horrible mindset for girls and I am not physically stronger than him .he could do more harm to me .
1= I'm worried about my sister 2= girls invite men for rape what a level of hypocrisy and double standards 👏
@mahamkhan7365
3 жыл бұрын
This actually shows his inside. Literally all men behave civilized in front of media and in reality they thought their thoughts are same as any rapists
@Gamerboy-gl7di
3 жыл бұрын
@@mahamkhan7365 true Bhai Lund kadha ho jaata hai hot ladki ko dekhe inshallah bahut Maja aata hai
@thedeadman4409
3 жыл бұрын
@@Gamerboy-gl7di control krna sikh vrna jail jayga tu
@nawshadnasreen6825
3 жыл бұрын
It's actually the problem of people's perspective... If a girl is raped she's the only one to be blamed... Everyone keeps saying that girls should not be going around wearing revealing clothes and all.. bt that's not even true.. there are such People who rape a 5/6months girls also! ! I don't know how .. those are just Little baby girls... Can you blame those babies ? The problem is of men... They think that problems are only with girls that drive them to rape.. They want them to come home early.. bt girls are also raped in broad daylight...even if a guy just randomly pick up a girl, the People around there would remain silent.. they'll just watch silently. And when the issue becomes big.. they start to protest for justice... What's funnier is that the rapist could also be protesting for justice and we don't even know... The World is developing definitely bt for women the world is becoming more unsafe day by day...
@saminhaque13-52
3 жыл бұрын
@@mahamkhan7365 "all men"? Bit too quick to draw the conclusion there. There are good-bad everywhere, swift generalisation of a category doesn't help in improving society.
Women invite rape, how can a CHILD invite rape? Ask this question to these people who think women invite rape,it's disgusting
@PaulSurendar
8 ай бұрын
Well that's why education regarding this topic is very important since kinder garden grades itself.
@perfectpersona6913
7 ай бұрын
The one who told that women invite rape is so disgusting height be thinking that it's manly to attend the invitation. If the one is that correct then why can't he slap that girl who is expecting something else from him or question her or avoid her but who gave the right rape her! Ise bolte ki aur kuch dino mein isko haak bhi malenge shayad vo invite ki isliye apni maradpan dikhaya karke boldenge aur kuch hi dino mein!
@rakhimukerji7937
2 ай бұрын
Thd position of women has always been vulnerable In India often newfound freedom and its expressionis frowned upon by men who think those should be reserved for men only and women should be subservient.
Blaming the girl for being raped is the lowest ever a men can thinkk…. They have equal rights to wear whatever they want wherever they wanted to go….
@abirdas2842
8 ай бұрын
Bhai galati na ladki ki hain nahi ladko ki. Galati in buddho ki hain. Jawan ladko se zada hawasi toh ye budhe log lag rahe hain. Ghar ke ladko ko ladkiyon ki izzat sikhane se pahele ghar ke buzurg logo ko sikhana chahiye.
@zappy9880
8 ай бұрын
I mean if you are driving at 200 kmph on a city road and then end up crashing, I think some responsibility falls on the driver as well. This ain't a fairyland kiddo, this is real life. You can't change every evil person to be good because if that were the case there would be no stealing, m*rder, assault and SA today. If you really hate victim blaming, then just start keeping your door unlocked at night. Surely if you are robbed, the entire responsibility falls on the robber right?
@RahilGobora
8 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880 giving a bullshit example of car road in a case of rape does show your stupidness…. The way u blame a girl for being raped is the lowest trench that u can think….your sister is being raped don’t do fir on police station its the fault of your sister not the fault of the accused
@padmamanikundala
8 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880Yes real life India is bad and needs cultural revolution
@Sushi_Lover456
3 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880 yes you fucking dumbass, the entire responsibility falls on the robber for stealing something that isn’t his. Looks like the point went in one ear and out the other. Men like you have rapist mindset and nothing can be done about it
that one guy said "i'm worried about my sister" and next moment he said "girls invite men for rape", i hope when his sister heard about this she must have slapped him. what double standards mannn!!!!!!
@Annpurna818
3 жыл бұрын
Yup instead of teaching girls to not wear short clothes teach your boys to keep themselves in their pants
@imbored908
3 жыл бұрын
@@Annpurna818 I get your point, but you realise women also r@pe?
@Ichigo-dh9rd
3 жыл бұрын
@@Annpurna818 short 👏 clothes 👏 is 👏 not 👏 an 👏 invitation 👏
@Annpurna818
3 жыл бұрын
@@imbored908 yes i know
@Annpurna818
3 жыл бұрын
@@Ichigo-dh9rd wdym?
Blaming a woman for being raped is like blaming accident victims for travelling on road.
@kritikaprasad2410
3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@azizfathimajaved1092
3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@rishavbhowmik8163
3 жыл бұрын
@@drishyashrivastava You can not define everything that way. If I start walking in a forest and attacked by bunch of Hyena. Who is the Victim & who is responsible...? Legally I am innocent one, but isn't it also my duty to ensure my safety. I can not turn those Hyena into vegetarian creatures.
@drishyashrivastava
3 жыл бұрын
@@rishavbhowmik8163 Well, I wasn't really calling men "HYENAS" but now that I think about it, its actually quite right. Thanks👍
@rishavbhowmik8163
3 жыл бұрын
@:D How many? You think that people who committee these crimes never got the chance to learn how be well mannered? Which is why I said you can not turn Hyena into vegan.
So when a girl wears less it said they tried to provoke, and when she covers themselves it makes 'men' curious on what is inside. Heck, women can never win here 😭.
@Krankenwagen571
2 ай бұрын
Of course not 😂
I went through physical abuse as a young teen. I had sworn to raise mentally and emotionally healthy children. Today, as a mother of a 19 year old young man, it has been my responsible to raise a respectful, empathetic, wise and confident man. Raise such a boy that every woman feels safe and protected around him!
@Elly3121
Жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏
@beetroot9934
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU Also so sorry u went through abuse. No one deserves that. Hope you're doing well♡
@devraajmoran5969
10 ай бұрын
" Raise such a boy that every woman feels comfortable and safe around him " The best line !!
@Jasmind06
9 ай бұрын
Well said . I respect your efforts . You are a strong mother . Power to you ❤
@xdkankaxd5427
8 ай бұрын
Sadly you cant really control or see what does your son does, there are hidden devils among us. You can never know what kind of man you raised. Hitler was sweet with kids and has a good heart but he still did the genocide.
*Girl: wears skirt *Guy: does something inappropriate *Guy: she was asking for it *Girl: punches guy and his jaw breaks ............he was asking for it
@saimaharaj109
3 жыл бұрын
Makes sense for you to say that, you are a Japanese fanboy. Japanese women showing off skin is the way of the female ninja.
@rashishree721
3 жыл бұрын
@@saimaharaj109 shut up incel
@samriddhibhatia9314
2 жыл бұрын
@@saimaharaj109 who tf do u think you are. Shut up
@peachyaesthetic8918
2 жыл бұрын
@@saimaharaj109 👉🚪
@bellatraumatic2407
2 жыл бұрын
@@saimaharaj109 👉⚰️*
One man said that he was afraid for his sister and the same man said that women invite rape.. Pro level of hypocrisy 🙏🙏
@sharvilad5116
3 жыл бұрын
I swear
@tanishaagrawal7291
3 жыл бұрын
Swearr hate that guy
@Sakshi-gr6eo
3 жыл бұрын
I wonder how the interviewer resisted herself from punching him in the face
@jabeenashirin4608
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah my jaw dropped when I heard the same guy say that
@samrudhisharma220
3 жыл бұрын
And now he will beat his sister for talking to boys. Feels bad for her.
Men understand all the hints that women give but doesn't understand a simple " *NO* "
@zappy9880
8 ай бұрын
Imagine saying "please don't rob me" to a masked man with a knife asking you for money. And wtf do you mean by Men? Women aren't some born angels. Like the guy in the video said, "taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti".
@uyuniangels
6 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880 rape apologist
@nisthabhattacharya4854
2 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880Fine it's women's fault that she was raped...okay...got it....🤬🤬🤬
I am a 18 year old girl living in delhi and after seeing the first 3 mins of this video i got so scared that i started crying. I just wish no woman or girl has to face these predator men anyday .
@sanmartinella4933
Жыл бұрын
Get out of India, i'll pray for you.
@butterfly_squats5425
8 ай бұрын
I am so sorry. All of us are scared and we are trying our best. I hope you can find the strength in the communities that protect each other, girls who support each other. I hope you can know there is still hope for all of us.
@ringofsolomon268
7 ай бұрын
Be careful and stay strong. Don't show your fear outside, it will make them think you're an easy target. May you always be safe, take care girl!
@hanzu330
6 ай бұрын
🗿🗿
@JasonTodd2304
3 ай бұрын
Mehak Singh dear we are desperately sorry for these monster like they treat girls with lust. Pls learn self defense and be bold , men sould learn to control themselves instead of thinking what women wears.
When you realise that autorickshaw drivers are more "educated" than college students....
@Empy003
3 жыл бұрын
@m amin well even if you are right, it won't change the fact that literate ppl also rape women/men and that literacy doesn't change the character of a person. Agree?
@micasa5633
3 жыл бұрын
Parants are responsible for how they raise their child. Please teach your child, your lil brother, your cousins, your friend about how we have the right to dress how we want. We love fashion. When I wear clothes i don't realize that I'm wearing a short dress or maxi. I just want to know that I'm wearing a dress I love. And that's it. I don't want another good man turn into a rapist because some people didn't bother to teach him the right thing. Please 🙏
@Empy003
3 жыл бұрын
@@micasa5633 we need this reply as a comment. Comment it again!!! Cuz replies are often unnoticed! Any misogynistic parent needs to read this comment! They are ruining this world!
@micasa5633
3 жыл бұрын
@@Empy003 comments go unnoticed too. Your reply was on top that's why I replied it here so people can see this.
@Empy003
3 жыл бұрын
@@micasa5633 hmm....true things always get unnoticed....
" protect your daughter"❌ Instead "educate your son's".✔️
@kellyteng4647
3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@samarjeetbhonsle6000
3 жыл бұрын
I'd say for now, both, then eventually there will come a time when "protect your daughter" won't be used in the context of rape
@hyyhenthusiast07
3 жыл бұрын
@Ashkan Zahoor that too
@hyyhenthusiast07
3 жыл бұрын
educate your children, not just sons, girls need to be educated too
@usrabanu8419
3 жыл бұрын
@Ashkan Zahoor here im only talking about rape content. Where society blindly blame for womens too for getting raped. I Mean like yy??? What's her fault???
2:06 these are the same words that those monsters said in Nirbhaya's case. I applaud you dude you took inspiration from an amazing personality.
@Euphorbia324
Ай бұрын
That boy is a lunatic 😂 By saying girls invite rape i say he invites me to murd*r😂
Huge huge respect for the gentleman who says he's an autorickshaw driver by profession. Even highly educated men from well-to-do families often don't understand this concept of equality as well as he does. If all men were like this, cases like Nirbhaya would never have happened. Goes on to show that a good society is not just built on education but introspection and self-reflection. I'm sure he must've passed on these values and ideologies to his children too. God bless them all!
That awkward moment when the rikshawwala is more human than the 'literate' people
@fersang2398
3 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@aste9176
3 жыл бұрын
How is it awkward?? He is sensible and every man is supposed to be, job or education shouldn't matter here.
@spade3798
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom comes from within
@a54tanishasingh31
3 жыл бұрын
Why is it awkward ???
@ilishas1928
3 жыл бұрын
I am proud of that rikshaw wale bhaiya
Whoever is blaming a girl for rape, has the same mindset as of a rapist.
@priyankabhatt9274
3 жыл бұрын
I can agree no more to anything than this . 😔
@diallo9668
3 жыл бұрын
@Sujal Nagpal what does porn have to do with this?
@evasingh9223
3 жыл бұрын
@@diallo9668 i don't know about that but there is literally no se education in india and children resolve to porn sites to learn about s*x and stuff. and porn shouldn't be education.
@diallo9668
3 жыл бұрын
@@evasingh9223 if there isn't an alternative, what's to be done? It's either something or nothing. I don't think sex Ed would never be implemented in a conservative Society like India's.
@evasingh9223
3 жыл бұрын
@@diallo9668 but porn should not be a substitute. Porn is like the most unhealthy and unrealistic form of sex. It doesn't teach us the importance of safe sex and consent. Porn is not education.
The guy saying women invites rape is the most disgusting and terrifying thing i have seen in my life
I'm from rajasthan, just 3 to 4 days ago i was returning back from a movie it was around 8 and summer time in a crowded area three guys were continuously honking i was on a activa they started cat calling me saying me disgusting stuff like mere saath chalogi, i love you,kitna logi and i was wearing a dress that was knee length long. I wanted to report the incident and even noted their car number down but due to lack of family support i couldn't do it. It doesn't matter what time we go out what clothes we're wearing its the men out there that need to be controlled and not the women
@AH-ej3rx
9 ай бұрын
Sorry you went through that Can you not secretly report it I was 8 when I was sa'd
“WOMEN INVITE RAPE” go say this to the infant who was raped who can’t even talk SOME REALLY NEED TO STOP VICTIM BLAMING
@sonalidalal3392
3 жыл бұрын
They do unintentionally sometimes that's what they are saying 😅
@pacificfinder
3 жыл бұрын
Quint is a propaganda machine, save yourself from it.
@raavivamp.6784
3 жыл бұрын
Yes thts my point to...choti bachhiyo ko kyu krte hai fir..aab unko bhi tum burkha ya saari mei rkhoge
@ankita7342
3 жыл бұрын
@Vanshika Oberoi EXACTLY. LOUDER FOR PEOPLE AT THE BACK. These idiots think a girl smiling at them is asking for it. Damn it! Doesn't matter if she's roaming butt naked(which nobody does btw). Doesn't matter if she wanted to kiss you initially. Once she's showing signs that she doesn't want to proceed anymore and you don't stop, that's rape and just wrong. No means no.
@angelanju8085
3 жыл бұрын
It is honestly so sad that there are people out there talking about inviting rape..Do they think we are public property? As a 16 year old girl, I am extremely uncomfortable even wearing sleeveless because old men catcall me😡
2:35 if she slaps him, she'll probably have acid thrown on her the next day
@gmi3204
3 жыл бұрын
Wtf he said! I wanna slap him literally :/
@sakshigarde6125
3 жыл бұрын
Yeah really I felt the same
@natashinithegreat
3 жыл бұрын
Some men never change or evolve.
@aakrutiverma9tha658
3 жыл бұрын
Words have been spoken.......
@Hannah-hg7xr
3 жыл бұрын
Yea chances are there ;-(... I have not shown anger to anyone who misbehaves and will just stay away from them because I am so scared ... I will just alert elders.. A guy who is misbehaving is already a beast...a slap can't stop him :-/
As a man i would like to apologise to all woman.... because of some of us they feel unsafe and these incidents happen. We as men should change
@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984
11 ай бұрын
As a man, I would like to laugh at all women. They deserve it. 🤭
@Watchmenay
11 ай бұрын
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984I think you were brought up in a violent household so your mind is actually fucked liked so much fucked that you're mentally disturbed and need some enlightement because no stable human can say that even as a joke
@playmobilegamescodm
7 ай бұрын
Men also feel unsafe due to false accusations.
@__explorer__13
7 ай бұрын
@@playmobilegamescodm don't play victim here rape is discussed not false accusations. And secondly no one says that men should only stay at home , no outing= no female interaction = no fake allegations
@playmobilegamescodm
7 ай бұрын
@@__explorer__13 why do I care about your opinion?
I lost hope while watching this video until I saw some of the brave men out there speaking what should be spoken. Kudos to all the gentlemen out there, thank you for making us feel a little bit safe in this country. Wish more men were like this. :)
If a woman is "inviting rape", then it's not rape anymore. In that case the man has her consent... That's the whole point. Do me a favor and open a dictionary will you? 😑
@sonalsharma9030
3 жыл бұрын
exactly
@yve4889
3 жыл бұрын
@@sonalsharma9030 Finally someone gets me... Thank you.
@JohanLiebert-mc6sl
3 жыл бұрын
What do you expect from a illiterate person
@monikavashishta7541
3 жыл бұрын
Yes👏
@yve4889
3 жыл бұрын
@@JohanLiebert-mc6sl I don't know anymore at this point... You'd think they'd at least show some basic human decency.
The guy who said "girls invite rape" need to be slapped
@VivienLawrence
3 жыл бұрын
I believe you mean castrated
@usernamenotfound189
3 жыл бұрын
woh kuch aur kehna chahta tha... kuch aur he khediya.... woh bas girls ko strong rehne ko bol raha tha
@usernamenotfound189
3 жыл бұрын
@todoroki kunUWU sad reality
@hoperighthere4636
3 жыл бұрын
@todoroki kunUWU agreed
@shriyanshtripathy7711
3 жыл бұрын
*killed
2:17 is that why a 8 month old baby, chutkki got raped by her cousin? She seduced her cousin by crying?!! Same on this man for having such midset. The only reason i see for the occurrence of rape is the nasty mindset of those pathetic creatures. They should not be called as men, cause a real man knows his value and knows how to control himself. Those ppl should be labeled as monsters. The sad reality of India is that victims are mostly blamed for the actions of the other
@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984
11 ай бұрын
That never happened
@jenxxms.
11 ай бұрын
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 it did go cry
@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984
11 ай бұрын
@@jenxxms. Quiet plastic lover
I respect what the driver uncle said . Lots of power and love to him ❤ He is a lot educated and open minded person . The way how he said that he gaurds girl passengers as bodyguards and how everyone should be treated equally is 🫡🫡🫡
The fact that a guy said uneducated people are the cause but himself blamed girls for rape and an auto driver is much more clear and understanding about rapes
@ipsharoy7398
3 жыл бұрын
Irony at its finest
@hardcorepreparation6740
3 жыл бұрын
but it is true most of the rapists are uneducated
@jackyjo5395
3 жыл бұрын
@Darth Skywalker what do u mean by culture?
@jackyjo5395
3 жыл бұрын
@Darth Skywalker well..... Is culture somehow getting associated with religion here?
@misaki7588
3 жыл бұрын
It's all about people's mindset you know lol 😂😂😂😂
Shoutout to the beard rickshaw uncle who has the real equality thoughts for both men and women.
@ashu790
5 жыл бұрын
Melted my heart. Teared up too. More of this quint. More of this India.
@khushijain2069
5 жыл бұрын
@@ashu790 couldn't agree more ☺️
@shakthishivaniks8798
5 жыл бұрын
khushi jain yeah! that person deserves a applause
@lion2610
5 жыл бұрын
Hi khushi ji
@HOENUMAN
5 жыл бұрын
Yes
'they are only equal when boys and girls can wear the same clothes' - wise man, THANK YOU.
@War-Zone01
2 ай бұрын
Equal by competing with mens in every aspect ...it's like they want be like man 👍
When will people understand, clothes doesn't define safety, I've worn fully covered clothes and still have been touched and groped in public, was it my full sleeve hoodie and sweatpants fault? Also was it wrong of me to be out at 2 pm in the afternoon with my friends? In the society filled with people who are still mentally in the 90's and 80's I will never feel safe:)
@emotionaldamage3954
Жыл бұрын
I hope you're okay now! :)
Auto Rickshaw driver was wisest of them all.
@psaiprateek1417
5 жыл бұрын
d k ladka rape kar sakta hai toh ladki bhi rape kar sakti hai. Log offend honge kyu ki voh dark humor nahi samajhte.
@international_fraud
5 жыл бұрын
@@psaiprateek1417 haha
@hrithikmishra3562
5 жыл бұрын
Guys and girls, I don't think girls will be ever safe in India until girls themselves become violent. I am no priest so I don't preach. Fuck if anything threatened me, I'll beat the fuck out of that thing. But remember girls, when you raise hand on a man, he will fight back ! So fuck the ego inside of yours , fuck the attitude and help each other. Your father, brother, cousins or boyfriend won't be with you 24/7. Learn to be humble towards each other and help each other. Girls alone are weak, but girls together are very strong. Don't underestimate your hands. Beat the fuck out of anyone who threatens you. But if you could get police on time then it's all better. Even we boys rely on police when facing powerful enemies. That's just the flaw of our judiciary system. Girls be powerful. Remember, even when we homo sapiens just started here on earth we relied on strength of togetherness. There's nothing to be ashamed of. Help each other. Atleast girls don't lynch perverts. We cannot expect perverts to change their mind by themselves.
@karunavidyadhar4225
4 жыл бұрын
Very true rickshaw ji is wisest of all
@myngnas007
4 жыл бұрын
lets start a gofundme for him.
4:24 the auto driver is more sensible and seems educated than most of the people in the video.
@Cspv92
2 жыл бұрын
True
@iamagoodboy1929
2 жыл бұрын
I wish we had more men like him :(
@subhadipkar672
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👍
@blackpanther3676
2 жыл бұрын
@@iamagoodboy1929 be like him!!
@iamagoodboy1929
2 жыл бұрын
@@blackpanther3676 I am a girl 😂 my username is like that
Bro the rickshaw wale bhaiya is more literate than the actual literate people out there
It's not the eduction that matters,it's the mindset of a guy that matters
Can we have the autorickshaw driver come and speak at talk shows? He's wiser than MOST "educated" men and women I've met in my life.
@kalpanshah281
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-zh3wv2bw8x The uncle and the guy were talking about equality, though there needs to be a certain precaution to be taken for a threat like theft or a similar crime, for the topic that is discussed here, the mentality is the problem "Khali dimag shaitan ka Ghar Hota hai".
@anushreepitre3978
3 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@harshanaidu5445
3 жыл бұрын
@Manali very well said, he proved that wisdom and education are not essentially the same.
@Hiraeth83
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-zh3wv2bw8x It is not the support of girls in shorts that make humans "god Ka avatar". It is the support of a mentality which does not see all women as sex dolls but as people with equal freedom as their male counterparts. Think a little beyond, will you?
@Hiraeth83
3 жыл бұрын
@@user-zh3wv2bw8x Not all women wear shorts. Not all women love make up. Ap jaiso ki problem yahi hai, ek ne kya shorts pehen liya aur make up laga liya matlab sare aurat aise hi hai. Meri marzi mai shorts pehenu, make up lagau ya burkha pehnu. Aap se matlab? Aurate peeche isiliye hai kyunki unki body ke alava dusro ko aur kuch dikhta hi nhi hai. Khair ap kya samjhoge.. agar samajhte toh yeh discussion hi na hoti. 🙏
Auto drivers talking better than those educated young men .
@milevenendgame
3 жыл бұрын
That's what
@milevenendgame
3 жыл бұрын
@Be Yourself that's what
@mahisharma2594
3 жыл бұрын
Ys
@noobplaysyt2067
3 жыл бұрын
@Be Yourself wtf education matters the most. If they don’t know what consent is, how to talk to girls, how to handle your emotions then these things would keep happening. Education isn’t just for getting a job. If Indian society would be more open towards the topic of consent and teach about sex these things wouldn’t happen. They are right that people from lower classes generally molest women because of lack of education but still they also ain’t wrong that people with knowledge don’t. That’s why education is a *MUST*.
@ApexArtistX
2 жыл бұрын
They have seen how woman dress. Including me. Some girls wear dress as if they are about to go to bed
Victim blaming as usual. If someone is horny, that's their problem, no one else's. If these men with their perverted minds cannot keep it in their pants, do the world a favour. Get therapy because this is not acceptable behaviour. This is CRIMINAL behaviour. Your freedom to want to SA someone ends where the other person's freedom to walk freely begins. If in spite of everything, you can only think of SA someone, go to a prison. You'll be in good company. There are plenry of men who would be happy to give and receive. Do it amongst yourselves. Nobody will stop you.
@abirdas2842
8 ай бұрын
India me sex dolls jitni jaldi ho sake large quantities me import karna chahiye. Seriously Indians ko sex dolls ki zarurat hain. Aur in backminded logo ko dekhkar lagta hain ki kam se kam 1 crore dolls ki zarurat paregi.
@zappy9880
8 ай бұрын
I mean if you are driving at 200 kmph on a city road and then end up crashing, I think some responsibility falls on the driver as well. This ain't a fairyland kiddo, this is real life. You can't change every evil person to be good because if that were the case there would be no stealing, m*rder, assault and SA today. If you really hate victim blaming, then just start keeping your door unlocked at night. Surely if you are robbed, the entire responsibility falls on the robber right?
@drakk2706
8 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880 rare display of intelligence in the internet.
@Uff1234
8 ай бұрын
@@zappy9880 First off, if someone is driving at 200 kmph and ends up in a crash, 'all the responsibility, not some' falls on the reckless driver. There's a reason why there are rules in place. So your analogy is irrelevant and weak. However, the issue here is someone driving at 200 kmph crashes into a person driving at 50/60 kmph well within the speed limit. Then people like you blame the second person for driving where the first idiot was driving. That's the excuse you're trying to make and I'm sorry, that doesn't fly, kiddo. This ain't a lawless country where people are allowed to let their intrusive thoughts win every time. This is real life with real consequences for unlawful actions. Second, nobody is claiming this is Utopia where everyone is well behaved and nothing is wrong. There's a difference between irresponsibility and 'asking to be raped'. A person not locking the doors at night is most definitely irresponsible but does that mean the thief is absolved of their crime? No. The thief will be punished once caught. Do you know why? Because that's not their house. So no matter how many times a person is irresponsible and doesn't lock their door, they are not at fault for being robbed. Are they stupid for keeping their doors open? Most certainly. Who keeps their doors unlocked? But can the criminal use that as an excuse? Most definitely not. Third, instead of blaming the victims for not being careful, why don't you advocate for harsher laws against SA perpetrators? Why so sympathetic and willing to present their case? Take a long hard look at yourself and do some serious introspection. If you are willing to accept such sick perversion in society, I'm sorry you are part of the problem. If you are not willing to help build a safer society for everyone and instead use energy on victim blaming and shaming, you are part of the problem. Grow up.
@Uff1234
8 ай бұрын
@@drakk2706 your standard of intelligence is certainly not very high.
Teach your boys not to rape instead of teaching your daughters to cover up. Literally every guy in this video who blamed it on the women for whatever reason is strongly misogynistic and no doubt have a rapist mindset. To all my girls out there: Baby girl, it’s never your fault. It’s not your fault for staying out late, its not your fault for wearing what you want, its not your fault for ‘provoking’ men, IT. IS. NEVER. YOUR. FAULT
@PKL2006
3 ай бұрын
YESS GURLIE, IM COMPLETELY WITH YOU. MEN NEED TO DO BETTER!
@rohankumar9034
3 ай бұрын
I'm saying a lime .plz tell me if I'm wrong or right. These days these women are wearing Over short dresses... I'm not someone ordering anyone how to wear but there's a fine line between Wearing short dresses and showing Vulgarity. Over short dresses exposing cleavage show Vulgarity. I don't know from where these women studied that Wearing over short dresses are attractive. U can still be attractive by wearing Attractive Clothes. Short dresses showing Vulgarity is not equal to attractive. Do u agree with my opinion. ( This opinion is not about r@pe or it's context tho...think it as from neutral POV)
@Sushi_Lover456
3 ай бұрын
@@rohankumar9034 I think you’re entitled and in way over your head to think that all women dress up for you. They’re not, they’re dressing up for themselves and are being expressive. You need to get the mindset that ‘women are only dressing up for boys’ out of your head. And its not my place to judge women by what they wear cuz i do not give a shit
@rohankumar9034
3 ай бұрын
@@Sushi_Lover456 did u even read my whole comment? I already said I'm not someone ordering women how to dress but there's a difference between Wearing short dresses and wearing Dresses exposing Cleavage and showing Vulgarity. Don't u agree? Women ( even men) shouldn't wear any dress that shows Vulgarity....this isn't UD , this is India. Har jagah being Independent and Women empowerment ko use krke useless cheeje justify krna is wrong. (Even my sister agress with my line)
@Sushi_Lover456
3 ай бұрын
@@rohankumar9034 I don’t care if your sister agrees with your line. And yes, i did read your comment before. You didn’t directly say it but you certainly implied it. And you asked for MY opinion, why are you bringing someone else into this discussion? I already told you that I don’t agree with you and that your statement is wrong. Periodt
U know what!! When a shadow lurks Men fears it a ghost and Girls fears it of a men!!😭😭
@santosaverio4762
3 жыл бұрын
Wow that's deep
@vidyasuresh69
3 жыл бұрын
not all men are bad..................
@Sakshi-gr6eo
3 жыл бұрын
True af
@Sakshi-gr6eo
3 жыл бұрын
@@vidyasuresh69 I agree but how do we know if one's gud or bad
@mtgamer2.041
3 жыл бұрын
@@vidyasuresh69 you are right 👍
Simple answer is ... Lack of sex education.. sex is literally considered as taboo in india ..
@vishwajith5229
3 жыл бұрын
I agree and with that mindset , it's only going to get worse .
@harikrishnanr1971
3 жыл бұрын
I don't think that's the "answer", if you teach a child how to fire a gun that doesn't necessarily mean they'd use it for peacekeeping
@harikrishnanr1971
3 жыл бұрын
It's a question of morality
@kuhu7130
3 жыл бұрын
@@harikrishnanr1971 nah bro sex education is the first step and vo necessary hain toh hain, whether the child wants to fire the gun or not is his own choice the least we can do is teach him that firing a gun is wrong unless ofc its self defense but voh alag baat hain.
@siddharthg.5833
3 жыл бұрын
@Abin Abraham dude wtf? "U need sex for sex education" ???? U high bro? Sex education is taught in schools too.. it'll be fun in schools if ur statement was right lol
2:19 The absolute gall of this bastard-
1:28 completely agreed with the guy. Although he was hesitant that he might be saying something wrong people might take it in a wrong way. You were right man absolutely. Treating both girls and guys same way is a solution to this. Trying to protect girls is not an option. Teaching what is right is important. Importants of ones feelings respect towards each individual no matter what the age is.
@DJISBEST
Жыл бұрын
Lmaooooo bruh How tf dumb can you be?
@perfectpersona6913
7 ай бұрын
For the equality 1st of all the man should normalise & they should make the surroundings safe for their female frnds or colleagues. Meanwhile Equality can be achieved in profession, knowledge, education etc but in safety women need some support from men to make the environment safer it might be becoz of her sensitivity, appearance, etc.
@raya-1
6 ай бұрын
I don't think it has anything to do with the point he mentions. You'd refrain from doing such a thing out of respect for another person. This was meant to cause harm and was just a malicious act on their part.
Some of these men are so justifying rape so casually and blaming it on women, it disgusts me. Every woman deserves to live freely.
@saltyuser_
2 жыл бұрын
@@mukul.niranjanparekh3954 delete your reply, it's a sensitive vid.
@mukul.niranjanparekh3954
2 жыл бұрын
@@saltyuser_ Ohh ok sorry
@saltyuser_
2 жыл бұрын
@@mukul.niranjanparekh3954👍💜
@hitthejiminonthegooddayime1455
2 жыл бұрын
@Mr thomas Props to you, sir. 🙇♀🙇♀
@vvvvvvvv1645
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah 🤧
"I tell my girls to come home by 10" While his boys are out till 1 probably harassing girls
@ariitannie
2 жыл бұрын
for real. this is so... disappointing where is india going to
@adityeahh2135
2 жыл бұрын
Tbf if the guys and girls are both less then 18 neither of them should stay outside after 12 in the dawn India isn’t a safe place tbh, there are murderes/criminals everywhere
@hulk8384
2 жыл бұрын
@@adityeahh2135 yeah
@nirajpathak99
2 жыл бұрын
probably working hard to earn money so sisters can get married. Well, I'm now sure what men in your family do when they are out at night. Tell them it's bad to harass women 😎
@shea1603
2 жыл бұрын
@@nirajpathak99 ??
What scares me is the fact the girls are being blamed for "inviting" rape like wtf? Can we Indians ever talk sense?
@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984
11 ай бұрын
Based
@user-uz1xg1jp1m
11 ай бұрын
India is a backward country
@Shootingbloodfromyourc0ck
10 ай бұрын
@@user-uz1xg1jp1mfacts
The guy who said that less clothes provoke men, I wanna say 1 thing so if a man gets turned on by a girl should he just rape her? Wtf? We women have sexual desires too, if a guy is hot, should we just rape men just because we got turned on? Total bull. Where is the logic? THIS SHOWS THAT MEN HAVE NO SELF CONTROL
Short dresses? Can't wrap a baby more than a diaper. Did that baby flirt? U ppl are completely clueless.
@gowrinairas6987
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly... 😕
@suneashaa3636
3 жыл бұрын
Right
@Angel-oo9bn
3 жыл бұрын
Yes...But after watchng ur half naked dresses in roadside as well television is one of the most dangerous reason which boys cary their lust & show it to some another innocent women/child...Plsss dnt frget that there are evil spirits behind such act...Thanku
@potatowarrior747
3 жыл бұрын
@@Angel-oo9bn such men should poke out their eyeballs then, if everything they look at makes them lustful. Even a kid? Smh.
@wia8ja8j
3 жыл бұрын
@@potatowarrior747 exactly. We are gonna wear whatever tf we want, men need to know how to keep it in their pants.
Every father says his daughter to be safe but he doesn't say to his son not to torture any girl. And that's where everything happens
@utubenagarjuna9
3 жыл бұрын
If I does something like that and my father sees that , he will shoot me.
@nehashish2116
3 жыл бұрын
Ye comment nhi ....sachai hai Jo koi nhi bolta
@prasannapandramish4732
3 жыл бұрын
@@utubenagarjuna9 every father will shoot after seeing that but he won't prevent his son before itself. Prevention is better than cure is proverb that can be used here also. Please give your son's sex education as soon as possible
@prasannapandramish4732
3 жыл бұрын
@@nehashish2116 thank you
@arkaprabhadeb2432
3 жыл бұрын
@@prasannapandramish4732 agreed. I was taught about what is appropriate what is not, early on and it makes proper sense to me now. It all stems from how a family treats such social issues right at home. What you seed is what shall you reap, right? That's about it!
As a psych major, lemme tell you that rape happens purely out of hate and aggression, it has nothing to do with sex. Maybe while teaching safety measures to young girls, we might as well teach young boys how to see women as individuals who should be respected.
@idkreally-
7 ай бұрын
@@jinx.305 And you know who are the biggest consumers of pornography? Men. Keeping that aside, I just said it's not lust, but hate but anyway.
@foreverbooked2964
7 ай бұрын
@@vengeance.19 pornography is consumer's market. When something is sold to you for free, you are the product. Majority of porn watchers are men.
@piyu2003
6 ай бұрын
I would like to know more. Can you justify why exactly it's out of hate and aggression
@idkreally-
2 ай бұрын
Information is free these days. Look up research papers online. @@piyu2003
Don't ask your daughter to be back soon Keep your son at home
@namangautam45
Жыл бұрын
👍
"If she is asking for it, she can just *ask* for it." - Vir Das
@avantikasingh8303
3 жыл бұрын
Seriously!!
@juliebella1221
3 жыл бұрын
Now that's too logical.
@sharukhkhan1317
3 жыл бұрын
According to world women are tooo shy to ask like that ............women will give some signs ....men should make the first move .......in India women act like they are not interested in sex .......women won't even propose first .....how can you expect women to ask like that ?
@sourabhtripathi0986
3 жыл бұрын
@@sharukhkhan1317 Use some logic, she wont ask you for BDSM in the corner of the street. If you think she's interested ask for her number, if she says no stop bothering her.
@sourabhtripathi0986
3 жыл бұрын
@@sharukhkhan1317 Depends how you ask
That autowala is more educated than most.. He knows what exactly is meant by equal Rights
@crazydrofastronomy007
4 жыл бұрын
True...
@pruthviraj9095
4 жыл бұрын
😁 who asked boy to drink wine then.. don't our conscience know that smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol is injuries to our health? If we know then why do we encourage to explore the thing's were actually meant harm to the flesh? In the same way why the flesh is not adopted to moral values? Just think haven't you lie from ur childhood? I am so sry to say this, our society is not aware of moral values first. We always show other's log in their eyes but not ours. For the sake of this we say equality and all such stuff.. that stupid is saying that when boy drink wine, girl should explore that taste. Etc., Very pity about this view.
@jayasrimanoharan5078
4 жыл бұрын
@Mohini Kumari xactly... Well explained... Ters difference between self discipline n abusing others.... U hav rights on ur body but nt over others... Which people fail to understand
@pruthviraj9095
4 жыл бұрын
@Mohini Kumari well said that was my next point U raised it...we must feed it to brain but choices are made wisely... If a made a choice to drink wine she can harm herself in the long term... Later she could realise that all it hpn bcz of what I made in past... She can be addicted, cancer, unconcious (rape can happen) etc., Knowingly no human being should feed their brains to harm their own flesh... Applauding culture is raising because of free spirit towards destruction and immorality... Pity view 🥺
@zabikhan5020
3 жыл бұрын
True
1:45 that guy won my heart ❤
@whoshere5008
7 ай бұрын
Stupid logic 🤣🤣🤣
The fact that SO MANY people blame the girl, the victim. They tell her that HER respect will get ruined. About the second fact, they are not even wrong and its the fault of our own society. The society instead of keeping leash on girls and just telling them that its gonna be their own fault, it need to be more focused on educating the boys. Teaching them what is right and what is wrong depends on the society. A guy should ALWAYS know the meaning of consent and respect it on all terms.
"She's wearing it from her own money, not ours. It's her wish. But the boys shouldn't get any thoughts about doing something wrong to her." He said what had to be said.
@yousuck8701
2 жыл бұрын
Of course right
@thajamulhussain5787
2 жыл бұрын
U r absouletly right
@bobo_ncca7912
2 жыл бұрын
@@roysharma8686 No one's judging anyone in here. Idk what ur talking about.
@roysharma8686
2 жыл бұрын
@@Aiibh It's my opinion what's your problem
@Aiibh
2 жыл бұрын
@@roysharma8686 i have no problem. Sorry for hurting your baby feelings.
The guy who said "girls invite rape" His sister would've slapped him lmao 😂
@k-kaepjjang1876
3 жыл бұрын
she should
@vb6136
3 жыл бұрын
The mother!!!
@MeenakshiSharma-hj3dh
3 жыл бұрын
Yes....
@Lost_Scarf
3 жыл бұрын
I'm scared for the fact that, that guy even had a sister.
@Annpurna818
3 жыл бұрын
@@Lost_Scarf He's such a shame for his mother
Will say, that when you go from Mumbai to Delhi, you can feel the difference in culture and attitude of men to women. The confidence I feel traveling at 2-3 am in the night in Mumbai is absent in Delhi. It's sad that the capital is like this. If 90% of the city's population doesn't think like that rickshaw wala uncle, nothing will change.
4:42, 5:10, and 5:25 have my utmost respect. Other men should learn from them
@himansurai4179
2 ай бұрын
3:38 hey hey what's about this
That uncle.... He's a autorickshaw driver but he seems to be more educated by thoughts than the others....❤️
@aadhyagupta1868
3 жыл бұрын
Trueeee
@leeladhar4830
3 жыл бұрын
There are psychopaths like that who wear the mask women like to gain their trust and to get them into situations where they can be taken advantage of. Of all the guys you hate for speaking up what you hate, at least you can be sure they don't have ulterior motives. Be very careful of sweet people. I'm a guy who's views on such subject is disliked by women like you, and I know many black hearted guys who talk very decently with women only to use and abuse them later on. According to various stats, in India more than 90 percent of rapes happen where women previously knew the perpetrator and trusted him. So, :small clothes so raped', such cases are far less than rape by trusted fellow. This rape by trusted fellow or uncle is what gives you most psychological trauma and renders you incapable of healthy relationships by giving you trust issues for life. So please stop blaming other and take some responsibility for your own safety.
@SwatiSingh-bn3el
3 жыл бұрын
@@leeladhar4830 ..... For ur kind information mr. is this wrong to trust someone... The one who breaks the trust is wrong.... So u can't say that it's our fault to trust and let that thing hppn.... The guys who take advantage of the trust of a girl should get punished for wht they did.... Ppl who don't even now how to maintain the dignity and respect don't have the right to stay in society.... We aren't disliking anyone's perspective... But those who are wrong they areee wrong.... Open up ur mind a little bit u would also have a sister and mother at ur home....
@leeladhar4830
3 жыл бұрын
@@SwatiSingh-bn3el it is wrong to trust wrong people. And you need the skill to learn to accurately differentiate between good and evil people if you want to venture out into the outside world you you can be a stay at home daughter/mom it's not like you won't get married if you don't work, you have privilege of marrying into a good family with a good guy without any employment, a privilege guys don't have. There are far greater problems and crimes in India and law enforcement is so little and already overworked. We just don't have enough resources to put a police man in every isolated nook and corner where a woman might feel like going alone or with her 'trusted' guy. It will be more practical and responsible for women of good families to put their sincere effort in staying out of trouble, they, being an adult should learn to take care of themselves so that police and law enforcement would have time and energy for women who are actual victims of crimes and could do very little to nothing to protect themselves. The upper middle class women are taking away all the attention away from real destitute women only for their provocative dresses, drinking, late night parties and hanging out with lose character or questionable character 'friend's.
@SwatiSingh-bn3el
3 жыл бұрын
@@leeladhar4830 that's totally rytt and that's the reason why women need to be educated cause when u educate a men u just educate him but educating a women means educating a whole future family..... But u must be well aware there are still some regions where women aren't allowed to study..... After that many women aren't aware about their rights law and enforcement.... Trusting someone i don't think it is wrong bcoz if u won't trust anyone u won't be able to stay in this world.... The thing is u must wisely trust anyone but still that person breaks the trust it's not our fault then..... It's that person's fault....
The one who says- girls invite rapist is like saying , If anyone is murdered is their foult why is he living😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@daysVids
2 жыл бұрын
Baccha hai abhi wo Time lagega usko samaghne me Ki ladki agar chahti hai (whatever he said) ki baat kare to baat kar na Rape kyu kar raha hai Baat karni nhi aati matlab usko
@sutsha83
2 жыл бұрын
He is talking rubbish
@hulk8384
2 жыл бұрын
💯💯🤣🤣🤣
@omkarwalavalkar429
2 жыл бұрын
Idk why this sounds like line from stand up
@shalumishra7952
2 жыл бұрын
by the way aise kon se gestures hote hain jinse aise logo ko ye indicate hota hai tht the gl is saying cm n rape me... grt mindsets... actually gutter mindsets
we, for some reason whatsoever has just decided as a society that men can't be changed but women can be restricted and that's where this whole issue generates from in my opinion.
3:20 to 3:53. MORE RESPECT TO THESE BOYS MOTHER WHO RAISED THEM LIKE A GENTLEMAN🙌🏻 HATS OFF TO THOSE
To the guy with the red jacket and to all others reading this, if a girl smiles at you or talks to you then it does not mean that you have been given the access to touch her. A women is not written in brail that you have to touch her to know her. Be the change you want to see and a NO always means a NO!
@nabanitar2431
5 жыл бұрын
The guy in red jacket and to those people with such mentallity...they are sick in their mind.
@freetibangalia8257
5 жыл бұрын
@Advait Bhatkhande I agree and it's also the parent's responsibility to teach their sons to respect women and understand that no means no. If the parents aren't teaching their sons about consent that is also the problem.
@Thelifeofpath
5 жыл бұрын
exactly!A guy better know the difference between a friendly smile from a girl and an inviting smile from his wife.Its sick that behen hote huye bhi uske aise thoughts hain.
@PalashNandigame_chenger
5 жыл бұрын
yeah! better just ignore them
@sweetynegi13
5 жыл бұрын
@Advait Bhatkhande hahah dude every second person watches porn. But the thing is not every second guy rapes a girl or intends to do.'sanskaar' is principle of life. If youre not familier with it, no matter you watch porn or not, no matter a girl shows off her legs,cleavage or not he will try to touch her anyway and look at her with the same intentions anway, even if she's covered her body. Examples are there. Those morons can rape anyone
Now I'm also scared for the red jacket's sister.
@shayanshreeray9087
3 жыл бұрын
Yes because he thinks his sister is inviting the men to hangout with her
@sabeekabhandale7053
3 жыл бұрын
Same herr
@prativapradhan316
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly... ... If anything happens to his sister any day... he will basically blame her instead of supporting her... Shameless guy.. 😡😠🤬
@MonishaKavita
3 жыл бұрын
Same!!
@saimatahsin7354
3 жыл бұрын
True
all the men trying to put the blame on girls disgust me, but it's nice to know that atleast a few men are trying to understand the problem and trying to make it safe while blaming the actual culprits.
@frostbite4019
10 ай бұрын
Lol women will themselves wear revealing clothes and then complain
@Sarah-yc4oo
8 ай бұрын
@@frostbite4019 You disgust me
@thenotoneandonly
4 күн бұрын
@@frostbite4019 grow up dumbass. In india most women still dress quite well, if u actually travel around the world and observe how women dress you'll realise that its actually indian women who are missing out on freedom. And man in ure country even kids are and perfectly dressed women wearing sarees and burkhas are still raped so quit whining
The fact that they immediately think of rape when seeing a woman wearing revealing clothes proves a lot.
That auto rickshaw driver proves that there's a huge difference between being "wise" and being "educated". He understand things better than most of the people. Our society needs more people like him.
@MOON-zp2le
11 ай бұрын
Are u an iitian?
@t_kid
11 ай бұрын
💯
@rohankumar9034
3 ай бұрын
I'm saying a line .plz tell me if I'm wrong or right. These days these women are wearing Over short dresses... I'm not someone ordering anyone how to wear but there's a fine line between Wearing short dresses and showing Vulgarity. Over short dresses exposing cleavage show Vulgarity. I don't know from where these women studied that Wearing over short dresses are attractive. U can still be attractive by wearing Attractive Clothes. Short dresses showing Vulgarity is not equal to attractive. Do u agree with my opinion. ( This opinion is not about r@pe or it's context tho...think it as from neutral POV)
@demonunderyourbed9616
3 ай бұрын
@@rohankumar9034 what you consider attractive and/or vulgar isn't the same as everyone else. not just women, but everyone should be allowed to wear what they want without being judged or looked down upon for it.
@ananyajere
2 ай бұрын
For real
In the dark when a shadow lurks.. Men fear its a ghost.. Women fear it's (some, those) Men..
@FabGamer
3 жыл бұрын
.....
@hardcorepreparation6740
3 жыл бұрын
men also fear it's men yeah chor lutera se bhi to dar lagta he
@atulsingh5338
3 жыл бұрын
I being a man fear with 'Fake Feminist'.😐
@lonelyfox1893
3 жыл бұрын
👍😓
@masterchief4421
3 жыл бұрын
Men also fear other men. Look at the high rates of men getting killed by gun slingers hiding in the shadows ready to BOP! You with their glockz
Crime comes from hate or selfishness or madness. Lack of love is common in any crime. Darknes fills the heart and burns the conscience of the one who imagines evil
Those 3 men who blamed victim, have the same mindset as those rapists of nirbhaya. Bloody hungry predators.
4:39 I'm so proud on this guy...We need more man like him in our society. Such an old man but more smarter than the college students
@prajwalh8823
3 жыл бұрын
Korean??🤔
@akankshachauhan9567
3 жыл бұрын
@@prajwalh8823 I'm indian bro
@nitayaharipriya2446
3 жыл бұрын
@@akankshachauhan9567 army💜💜
3 жыл бұрын
He's an actor po or people are the ones who com mit most of the cri me they are evi l and disgusti ng
@devroopsaha4020
3 жыл бұрын
"We need more people like him" Why don't u BE like him.....
Imagine going to school, college, office, grocery store, or riding a bus, train, car and you constantly feel as if you're at gunpoint. That's how we women feel on the streets.. Those stares, remarks and vulgar attention are extremely uncomfortable.
@sandhyabaindur
3 жыл бұрын
It's even worse when you live in a small village... And those same stares are by the people you know.....
@userismad001
3 жыл бұрын
@@sandhyabaindur sister, I wish you safety 😞
@sandhyabaindur
3 жыл бұрын
@@userismad001 Thank you so much! But they can't do anything if they want to preserve their dignity. Coz my village is so small that everyone knows everyone and everyone knows everything! Literally. Ppl I have not seen in my entire life know my whole history. It's frustrating
@userismad001
3 жыл бұрын
@@sandhyabaindur I understand dear sister.. It's Suffocating... I understand how horrible it must be for you.. I also belong to a small town and here everyone judges everyone.. All eyes are on what we do and it's as if a topic of gossip for those jobless aunties and uncles.. Moreover there are some vultures in the disguise of men who are as if always prying. It's disgusting how men 4-5 times our age can look at us so vulgarly.. Eww😖😞 I really pray for your safety.. This is what our society has become. From a young age we are used to catcalls, eve-teasers and molesters.. They've caused us enough mental trauma. I have even stopped trusting strangers due to some incidents.. Please stay safe with your family. I wonder when it'll stop. And another thing ARMYYYYYYYYYYYY SARANGHAE💜BORAHAE. I'M ALSO AN ARMY OF 3 YEARS😁💜💜💜💜
@Sakshi-gr6eo
3 жыл бұрын
True girl soo true
Here to watch this video after finding out my 56 year old granny was groped in work. Sexual misconduct has no age and gender. We need to instill in everyone’s mind that the victim is not the one to blame. Even guys, old people, infants etc get raped. Clearly indicates that blaming the clothes is literal stupidity.
Anything about clothing is illogical at this point because children are getting raped and catcalled... Children wear diapers... Are diapers provoking men... Literal animals are getting raped... ANIMALS! As a teenager livin' in UP... 16 to be specific... I use public transport... I get catcalled when i am wearing a kurta...when i am wearing jeans and a top... I haven't ever noticed the clothes i wear making a difference in how these prefatory men assault me on the streets... This video was just heartbreaking to watch... Let's all come together and educate the next generation of all genders to treat everyone with respect and PLEASE teach your daughters self defense... We must protect ourselves as people like these will ALWAYS exist in some capacity 🙏
Instead of teaching my daughter to be safe, i will teach my son to make a safe environment for her female friends.
@mightyraju6058
2 жыл бұрын
Good!!
@gaurakshak653
2 жыл бұрын
daughter should not go out and tell her to not wear small clothes we must preserve our culture
@ritzzzblitzz6833
2 жыл бұрын
@@gaurakshak653 incel
@shaku2013
2 жыл бұрын
@@gaurakshak653 oh god what will be future of your daughter
@saltyuser_
2 жыл бұрын
@@gaurakshak653 walk off
The last guy(who might have a stammering problem) said that in the last 6 years, he has changed a lot. That's how society changes.
@rit8033
2 жыл бұрын
the world revolves around him, don't you know ?
@CrazyMantriOfficial
2 жыл бұрын
@@rit8033 The world belongs to us… You just can’t change a whole race within a day. Just be patient!
@shrutikaswami8374
2 жыл бұрын
@Crazy Mantri sooo true.. And i think this is the only way to change. "Be the change you want to see in the world"
@CrazyMantriOfficial
2 жыл бұрын
@@shrutikaswami8374 exactly!
@pradiptasahana2032
2 жыл бұрын
@@rit8033 he expects the people have changed thats all he meant idiot
That's why upbringing is so important. We need healthy masculinity, we need strong men. A gentleman is always protective and secure.
It all starts at home. This needs to be taught at home. A peaceful family unit is a must where the lady of the house is respected and treated well.
The auto wala uncle is an example of how men should be brought up... educated and otherwise. Hats off to him👍🏽
@atheistrepublic4072
3 жыл бұрын
The guy in red jacket is example of educated chutiya
@dumplingsnpizza9452
3 жыл бұрын
@m amin maan lia that it's scripted...we still need to learn from these scripts brother.
@dpb4481
3 жыл бұрын
I was being followed by five full grow men, when I was fifteen, (returning from my school programme in saree in case anyone questions what I did to tempt the predators), in broad daylight, and not a single person came out to help. I legit ran, crying, to this elderly auto rickshaw driver who then picked out a few of his friends and warned those guys and then dropped me home. Everyday, I am thankful to that stranger and have learned that the disease of this civilization is indifference.
@dumplingsnpizza9452
3 жыл бұрын
@@dpb4481 I cannot begin to imagine the horrors you must've faced but unfortunately the more unorthodox times are becoming,the more cases of eve teasing,sexual harassment and rape are being normalized. I too am a victim of sexual harassment and that too from members of my own family. I really hope that people like this autowala uncle and the strangers who saved you increase in this world.
@dumplingsnpizza9452
3 жыл бұрын
@animesh singh oh the people we know really can manipulate you...in fact they're the only ones who do. 99% of the time.
Last dialogue is really super.. three cheers for it "mein badla hun" Because if we will change then only this society will change
@hareeshkumar3072
5 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more
@sanyakhanna171
5 жыл бұрын
Very true
@kyasoorathai
5 жыл бұрын
Yea scumbags in society will suddenly decide one day being badla Hoon? comedy 😂😂😂😂😂
@urwahi4534
5 жыл бұрын
He’s so adorable! And very true
@urwahi4534
5 жыл бұрын
john I’m dead 😂😂😂
This video made me cry. The mindset of some people made me scared.
@pratyaksha7792
6 ай бұрын
@@CADeepakkapoor-qx3di I said people... not men. I very well know the situation and this society.
We need such vedios to be spread all over... society needs to know what we are how we feel and what we want!
That bearded rickshaw uncle though. When a girl is travelling alone, when she looks at his face for the first time, they might think that no he does not look really civilised. He is not safe. But he is actually a really nice person. On the other hand, people who look civilised and well dressed can have a very wrong thinking. What r we even supposed to do. We can't judge by looking at their face.
@manjistha4707
3 жыл бұрын
So true ! @ajit kaur
@marufsiddique9613
3 жыл бұрын
So called degrees can't make people civilized bro
@aakashvyas8034
3 жыл бұрын
if people still judge on the basis of looks- face,clothes , then they are equally dumb!!!
@shubhamchoudhary1612
3 жыл бұрын
Hn ..ye sch baat h
@randomgoose3704
3 жыл бұрын
So if a person can not afford to look good or dress well he must be a criminal minded person. Makes sence.
"all places are unsafe and safe also. the main thing is how the men are" EXACTLY!!!
@anee7558
3 жыл бұрын
@@d_dimensionseye6080 the sentence doesn't mean there should be no men. it means that any place can be safe as long as the men there are good, and any place can be unsafe if the men there are bad. please understand what is said before commenting
@uhuhu523
2 жыл бұрын
Feminazi
@Liam-ki7sw
2 жыл бұрын
@@anee7558 go to red light zones, place is unsafe because of women NOT BECAUSE OF MEN
@anee7558
2 жыл бұрын
@@Liam-ki7sw nope. I am not scared of the women in red light areas. I am scared of the men who go there as clients to the prostitutes, who also exist because men want prostitutes. Im not saying men cant be prostitutes and women cant be clients, but these districts exist because of the reason i said. And i know there are some horrible women who live there who buy and sell girls, but who buys those girls? Men. So no, even red light areas are unsafe because of men.
@Liam-ki7sw
2 жыл бұрын
@@anee7558 so you are not less than the guy who was justifying rape case Lol come to NCR see yourself, what we go through once i was going through a red light area, women were just coming at us, we said No, still they didn't understood, just kept saying "we know you want it" + add the price Women talks about self-respect, then go into porn industry, prostitution, etc. Also why would you be scared of women in red light area, you are women yourself. Same as men who aren't scared of rapists but women are. STOP YOUR DOUBLE STANDARDS Both are at faults, cannot forget the misuse of article 498a, my uncle faced it.
Salute to that rikshaw driver for his great mentality and thoughts about women Liberty ♥️
Change starts from us the way the last guy said is what our society needs
Girls and boys sitting near classroom. Teachers: Complains to their parents.
@Pumpkiwi47
3 жыл бұрын
This literally happened in my engineering college. We were fucking 20. Wtf. And the irony is, in school they made us sit with boys for "discipline" so that we don't talk but if we sat next to the guy who wasn't assigned to sit next to us we got in trouble
@Pumpkiwi47
3 жыл бұрын
@@debayanhalder7858 lucky you, looks like either times have changed or you're in a good school or you have a good teacher. I was in 12th 8 years ago so yeah been a while :P
@redskullxyt3330
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣but the teachers put it like a punishment and I thought not getting close or talking to girls is great person....now I don't know how to talk to girls 😂
@shubhama4757
3 жыл бұрын
Not in School but also some work places. A friend of mine was chatting with a lady( she was his friend ) in office, a lady HR passes by and notices the act. She immediately complained the Line Leader, the Supervisor and Enlightening us that this was unethical and immoral. The colleague had no objection.
@sofiarave631
3 жыл бұрын
Are you people serious? Is that how India is?
The guys who pointed out that guys were the problem and not the clothes from the girls made me tear up like... I was really not expecting that to happen and that's sad
@krrishjadhav6298
3 жыл бұрын
Correct and we all are Army's 💜
@eugenewithm1630
3 жыл бұрын
@@krrishjadhav6298 >people talking about rape >uneducated BTS Stan be like oMg ArMy
@partyfavours3534
3 жыл бұрын
@@eugenewithm1630 Ikr? Like ye lol I'm an army but I don't remember mentioning bts in any of my sentences...
@eugenewithm1630
3 жыл бұрын
@@partyfavours3534 toxic people in all fanbases, forget it.
@partyfavours3534
3 жыл бұрын
@@eugenewithm1630what u mean
A wonderful effort 🤝. " We should teach our boys to respect women " Well said.
The guy who said girls invite rape doesn’t understand what rape is. What he described is just consensual sex. If a girl is giving true signals and is welcoming to the guy’s approach then it is just sex. But if the guy is not sure or knows she is against it and still goes for it, then he commits rape. Rape is forced not invited. He needs to go back to school.
5:42 this guy said that he has changed and that's why he feels the society has changed, he wanted to say that "changes will start from us" and that's so accurate
@afterdark6725
3 жыл бұрын
Yup.
@scientium8770
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, Change oneself and change the world.
I m 15 year old teenager .I was nearly raped once , assaulted twice .I was 5 and i wasnt strong enough to hold him off from putting his hands under my dress ,it wasnt until he tried to go down that i regained myself and pushed him off .It was diwali and i can say that i didnt wear any revealing skirt or clothes .I didnt provoke him .I didnt even glance at him .Please educate the people of India .Sad to see that a autorickshaw driver is more sincere and respectful than literate college students and modern age people .
@malininandimajumdar6054
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear maam
@iamanoushkajolly
3 жыл бұрын
sorry to hear maam tc we are here to support u
@malininandimajumdar6054
3 жыл бұрын
@@iamanoushkajolly so sad to hear about the fact that she was almost eaped
@iamanoushkajolly
3 жыл бұрын
@@malininandimajumdar6054 yes
@youttt27
3 жыл бұрын
That is so sad to hear.Take care of yourself,memories like this can do deep psychological damage.Please, please be aware of this and try to understand your feelings or seek the help of a psychiatrist ,if you need. Bless you my child 🙏
1:09 same thing I have read in dainik bhaskar that rape video was trending after hydrabad rape case in 2019....and I remember all most 22 lakh people have watched this....I was so so so disturbed I went through many sleepless nights after reading this....at that time I was feeling so weird that even thought of dying had come to my mind
@AH-ej3rx
9 ай бұрын
Currently I am feeling sucidal too I was a sa victim when I was 8
Seriously shame 🤬on that uncle who said ki ladkiyo ko control mai rehna chahiye aur ghar time pe ana chahiye jaise sara duniya to iske baap ka hai😡😡