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Leaving a job that isn't right for you can be hard. This week, Chelsea explains the red flags to look out for that let you know your "real job" isn't the right fit. She shares some important questions to ask before accepting a new job in this video: • 7 Questions To Ask You... .
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  • @thefinancialdiet
    @thefinancialdiet4 жыл бұрын

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  • @JakDRipa
    @JakDRipa6 жыл бұрын

    Biggest warning sign: you clicked on a video explaining when you should leave your job :/

  • @TCt83067695

    @TCt83067695

    6 жыл бұрын

    JakDRipa haha

  • @thickandcutie14

    @thickandcutie14

    6 жыл бұрын

    Yass! Me. I'm ready to go!

  • @mmtruooao8377

    @mmtruooao8377

    6 жыл бұрын

    *doesn't even have a job yet*

  • @jetto234

    @jetto234

    6 жыл бұрын

    Haha So simple. Yet so true.

  • @thickandcutie14

    @thickandcutie14

    6 жыл бұрын

    Update I was termed. 😅

  • @empanadascamotes4674
    @empanadascamotes46744 жыл бұрын

    When you wake up in the middle of the night having a dream about work. Time to get out

  • @Nastjonaslastjona

    @Nastjonaslastjona

    4 жыл бұрын

    xD ((((

  • @queedelisa

    @queedelisa

    4 жыл бұрын

    Facts

  • @starpilotalliance

    @starpilotalliance

    4 жыл бұрын

    That can't happen when your stress about the job is keeping you from sleeping at all.

  • @akashraghav4405

    @akashraghav4405

    3 жыл бұрын

    Was literally suffering from this syndrome, would abruptly break sleep and wake up in the middle of night 2-3 am, that i have work to finish. Been sleeping well and happy since I quit. If you're waiting for friday on Monday mornings. It's time to switch.

  • @Dark_Abyss375

    @Dark_Abyss375

    3 жыл бұрын

    More like wake up in the middle of the night having a nightmare of work lmao 😂 it always would make me laugh when I would wake up like that. I legit even lose sleep as well, like lying awake all night

  • @Ayaforshort
    @Ayaforshort6 жыл бұрын

    To me the most important one was when the job makes your life unpleasant. I don't want to work for a company that expects me to stay late without warning or having me on call. Or expecting me to do more work because they don't want to hire enough workers to split the work into manageable roles.

  • @underrated7725

    @underrated7725

    4 жыл бұрын

    Dam,girl i feel you

  • @jurusoca3323

    @jurusoca3323

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yeah I agree......!

  • @brendaechols2228

    @brendaechols2228

    4 жыл бұрын

    Yep

  • @JavaScriptJolt

    @JavaScriptJolt

    4 жыл бұрын

    Amen!

  • @codacreator6162

    @codacreator6162

    4 жыл бұрын

    Nobody does. My company is currently "selling" our additional tasks as "skill building," creating "super agents" without any benefit to us in compensation, better schedules, or additional resources. New CEO thinks he just has to replicate the process he used to drive growth at his last company. The rest of us wonder why he left if it was working out so well. Meantime, he's sowing a lot of discord in the ranks. The future, at least for me at this company, does not look good.

  • @livealifeIRL
    @livealifeIRL6 жыл бұрын

    So true - negative work stress was why I left my last job. No job is worth your health and wellbeing.

  • @sapphirecamui6447

    @sapphirecamui6447

    6 жыл бұрын

    I can't agree more. I felt it on my own, and i wish i saw this video BEFORE i had to experience what i went through. but that's basically impossible :(

  • @mayphoenix4725

    @mayphoenix4725

    5 жыл бұрын

    @Renee Quirk + I thought the same thing, not everyone can afford to quit especially if their's isn't many jobs hiring.

  • @josephlupus8798

    @josephlupus8798

    5 жыл бұрын

    My job was so horrible i left after a year. Everyone was treating me horribly and yet it paid so much more than all the other jobs ive found. I wouldnt even eat some days. 12 ppl quit after I quit. They had mandatory weekend meetings. One guy had a heart attack the day before work and yet fired him for not giving them 2 weeks notice. That's the thing we had to do even if we had a doctors appointment in a week. It didnt make sense even if the managers were tryimg to explain it like it made sense to them.

  • @mayphoenix4725

    @mayphoenix4725

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@josephlupus8798 + It's terrible that we have to endure so much abuse just make some money. People will take advantage of our vulnerabilities. I thought slavery was over, but it's still here. How are things now for you? I hope it gets better.

  • @harambeharambee8138

    @harambeharambee8138

    5 жыл бұрын

    Muñoz there's a lot of jobs out their

  • @afhyoutube
    @afhyoutube6 жыл бұрын

    Your shit is so on point I can't take it. No clickbait bullshit, just quick, clean information. God speed financial women wizards.

  • @Atlanta718
    @Atlanta7186 жыл бұрын

    Know when to leave 1. Care or #Apathy for job 2. Clear #metrics allow you to #advocate for you 3. Hampers your health or burnout 4. Boundary less work environment 5. No learning or new skills ( mentor, goals, metrics) Present and defend why you're #essential 6. Not what you signed up for / Not #honest ( over qualified and underpaid ) Add tangible #skills to become #indispensable.

  • @maiachew902

    @maiachew902

    4 жыл бұрын

    Oh shoot. Current job checks all these boxes. Thank god I am serving my final week of notice next week....

  • @StandupGirl-ym3ey

    @StandupGirl-ym3ey

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yep Its time to go!!!!!!

  • @VictoriaFilmsgroup
    @VictoriaFilmsgroup5 жыл бұрын

    small companies suck for employees because of one reason only: they have no procedures in place, so everyone does whatever he thinks is right and then the unhealthy competition starts.

  • @janethockey9070

    @janethockey9070

    5 жыл бұрын

    Victoria Films Start acting like its cosmisson based

  • @harambeharambee8138

    @harambeharambee8138

    5 жыл бұрын

    Don't forget the gossiping

  • @Authorthings

    @Authorthings

    4 жыл бұрын

    You are so right!! I just quit a small company (for this reason) and gave them 5 weeks notice (was guilted into giving that but still) and I know I never want to work for a small company again. There's 8 executives and 7 workers.

  • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@Authorthings lol. there are so many companies like that. inflated titles and everyone there is a kindergartener playing dress-ups.

  • @pm0697

    @pm0697

    4 жыл бұрын

    Legal Fiction Natural Fact just described my workplace lol

  • @jirenuniverse116
    @jirenuniverse1163 жыл бұрын

    I swallowed my pride and handed in my resignation letter after putting up with my work for 3 months, my team were full of complainers, The manager avoided me like a plague, never started a conversation with me. But she always wanted the job to be done on the same day, which sometimes forced me to work overtime unpaid. My senior coworker was also toxic, always talking about me behind my back. I was sick for few days due to work stress and anxiety. Don't force yourself to stay on a shitty job you don't like! Good luck for those who are planning to resign!

  • @darklady2473
    @darklady24736 жыл бұрын

    A seventh: the new boss doesn't like you. Seriously. The single time I was fired in my long career was due to thinking I could outlast a new boss who had no morals, had taken the position by destroying our previous boss, and was paranoid that I was after the job. She ultimately fired EVERY person at my level and filled the place with entry levels who were her friends. Then she was fired for immoral behavior at work. The second time I felt those winds, I bolted. Don't try to stay.

  • @dm5129

    @dm5129

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aint this crap that happens at these workplaces downright scary? Seriously

  • @Nabila-dx8xf

    @Nabila-dx8xf

    2 жыл бұрын

    yup..this happens to me..new boss didn't like me and she fired me..I have worked for the company for 2 years 4 month..and she wants to take new employee that she trust..worst is she given me PIP..now I quit and have to find new job

  • @AceMyPlace
    @AceMyPlace6 жыл бұрын

    Literally just turned in my resignation yesterday. All 6 points reassured me it was *definitely* the right thing to do. Thank you.

  • @BarbzLpz1997
    @BarbzLpz19976 жыл бұрын

    Girl I dont think you realize how much youre helping the world. You are very smart and work with intelligence. I love you and your videos!

  • @phoebella
    @phoebella6 жыл бұрын

    Today is my last day at work 😍

  • @taoist32

    @taoist32

    6 жыл бұрын

    pichipichi30 Yesterday was mine!

  • @chitrabindumadhavrao4691

    @chitrabindumadhavrao4691

    5 жыл бұрын

    How's your new (now old) job going?

  • @lucymbutu4178

    @lucymbutu4178

    5 жыл бұрын

    I have 2more weeks.... We do give one month notice😭😭😭

  • @atmosrepair

    @atmosrepair

    5 жыл бұрын

    Go for it

  • @RJ-ew9fl

    @RJ-ew9fl

    4 жыл бұрын

    Omg reading this I envy you and I know I want to leave my job, it’s so toxic

  • @tree8779
    @tree87795 жыл бұрын

    My first job was receptionist/admin. The basic salary for entry level in my country is about 200/300 dollars a month. I was promised 200 but started off with 100 on probation. It was to be increased to 200 after the 3 months but they only increased to 130 saying that they had to cut costs. This was a bummer since life in my city can be expensive. Over half of my earnings was spent on bus fare and lunch. Sometimes I'd have to choose between lunch or sanitary products. On top off it all, I was working 6 days a week, constantly burning out and I slowly fell into depression. To make matters worse, there was no chance of climbing up the ladder. Eventually I quit, without a plan, but just for the sake of sanity. I can say I'm so much happier even though I haven't yet found a good place. I was later told that they increased salary to 300 because after I left no one would accept the 130

  • @sofielinnea5869
    @sofielinnea58696 жыл бұрын

    I am looking for a new job so that I can leave my current one. What you said about just accepting a job because you're just so excited to have gotten a job was exactly what I did - so dumb. Next could you maybe make a video on how to quit your job gracefully? Like the do's and don'ts.

  • @adela3153

    @adela3153

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sofie Linnea it's already on the channel

  • @roxyqueen2

    @roxyqueen2

    6 жыл бұрын

    So true! I just spent a year in the wrong industry because the one I wanted to be in was crazy competitive. However, remember that you can leverage the experience you got in the naff job into experience for the better one. That was a large reason behind me finally getting a new role in that competitive industry.

  • @wiiiz3

    @wiiiz3

    6 жыл бұрын

    Roxyqueen2, what is that super competitive industry you speak of?

  • @Christel_unepersonne

    @Christel_unepersonne

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sofie Linnea same here

  • @eeyoresv

    @eeyoresv

    6 жыл бұрын

    I'm in the exact same boat! Now comes the hard part of quitting.

  • @Hypothisos
    @Hypothisos6 жыл бұрын

    My problem is that I love my job, but it just doesn't pay enough. I can't go forward in life without finding a job that pays more. I'm just sad that I'll be losing a job I do love.

  • @dshae2293

    @dshae2293

    5 жыл бұрын

    They say "If you find a job you love, you'll never work a day in your life." So really consider leaving a job you love. It is your happiness that matters most. You may struggle a little financially at times, but you will be happy doing something you love.

  • @bronsolo6941

    @bronsolo6941

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@dshae2293 sort of. It's a tough balance. If you can't pay your bills or make a savings, then it is just as justifiable to leave. You work to make money, you make money to live, so if what you are doing isn't helping you live, then change.

  • @dshae2293

    @dshae2293

    5 жыл бұрын

    @@bronsolo6941 I see what you mean. That is just part of the working world I guess. It would be nice to have a job you enjoy going to and getting paid well enough to live.

  • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    4 жыл бұрын

    james graeber is a cool resource on the philosophy behind underpaying employees. so often it's because you love your job or because it truly makes a difference.. those jobs are their own reward, of course! :/ very stupid. as soon as i hear an interviewer talk about how i shouldn't be about the money, i'm like BYE FELICIA.

  • @aleks-33

    @aleks-33

    4 жыл бұрын

    That's why I'm considering leaving my job too. Ingot hired to do 1 thing, but now they have us doing the role of like 4 people and they only gave me a 2% salary increase? I love this job but I have really big important short-term plans that require lots of savings and I'm being underpaid according to my industry standards(web designer) so I think I should go by next year.

  • @justalurkr
    @justalurkr6 жыл бұрын

    Shifting goalposts are also indicative of discrimination. Look the people over who aren't having trouble meeting goals and see if they're more in the boss's comfort zone.

  • @21minute
    @21minute6 жыл бұрын

    I'm thinking of resigning because my depression is getting worse. I've already committed absences because of it. 😔

  • @phoenixdoes1438

    @phoenixdoes1438

    6 жыл бұрын

    If you can afford to quit (i mean not risking being homeless by doing so) please consider quitting. Depression can take a long time to recover from so please don't add any more burden to it. Take care xo

  • @aanchalbaranwal

    @aanchalbaranwal

    6 жыл бұрын

    21minute I've quit two jobs because of depression but I made sure to understand what about that job was causing me most anxiety. After my first job I switched from brand management to graphic design (and from working alone in a cubicle to working at a startup with 10 people sharing my desk) and after the second job I decided to become a freelancer. There are still ups and downs but I feel like I have learnt so much not just professionally but also personally. In the beginning I sometimes felt that I only disliked my job because of my depression but once I moved I realized that the job that was making it worse. Best of luck with whatever you decide.

  • @VirgoVibe

    @VirgoVibe

    6 жыл бұрын

    Have you thought about going part time? I don't know if it's doable but I went down to 3/4time because of my anxiety and feel much better. Yeah I took a pay cut and I had to convince my employer it was best for the both of us (which created more anxiety) but it worked out in the end.

  • @ojiverdeconfleco

    @ojiverdeconfleco

    6 жыл бұрын

    First of, hi fellow blackjack!! I'm sorry you're feeling like this. I advice you to seek help about that depression, so you can asses more objectively if the job is making it worse, causing it, or something else entirely is happening to you and your job is just suffering the consequences, or a combination of all of these; besides, it can help you make whatever transition necesary less stressful and in a way that doesn't put you at risk (financialy or otherwise). This happened to me too, and with help I was able to isolate what I did and didn't like about my job and how that affected me, and I ended up quitting to pursue a different path. I wish you the best. Take care!

  • @nude_cat_ellie7417

    @nude_cat_ellie7417

    6 жыл бұрын

    Oh yeah going part time is definitely a good move if you can do it, I agree. The other thing I suggest is to see if you can get FMLA protection for your job. Ask the doctor who if treating your depression if they can fill out the paperwork for you. That way when you miss days you won't get fired for excessive absences.

  • @rita2506
    @rita25066 жыл бұрын

    You're description of the first point that the job should not/does not have to be the most satisfying portion of your life is SO IMPORTANT to remember.

  • @SarahFletcher12
    @SarahFletcher126 жыл бұрын

    Her talking about the boundaries with coworkers makes me think of the Japanese working environment... *shiver*

  • @jeniferjoseph9200

    @jeniferjoseph9200

    6 жыл бұрын

    Sarah Fletcher Go watch Aggretzko on Netflix

  • @ItsthatEringirl
    @ItsthatEringirl6 жыл бұрын

    I needed this! A great follow up to this video would be something about how/when to respectfully leave and how to carry out a job search while you're still working your current full-time job. Finding time during the work day to go on job interviews or to even follow up on applications I've submitted has been really challenging.

  • @sheryls7782
    @sheryls77825 жыл бұрын

    Good advice, thank you for sharing. I have been in a job for 15 years that I hated. I hung on to be able to lock in a pension. I now can pursue my other interest. Was it worth it? Not when my youth and health was compromised. Enjoy your youth and your best health.

  • @JMCNYC79

    @JMCNYC79

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s amazing how people kill themselves for a pension and spend years miserable when life is so short and fragile.

  • @HeyCuteEarrings
    @HeyCuteEarrings6 жыл бұрын

    Great video. I don't think it has enough pillows in it, though. ;)

  • @BadBrad119

    @BadBrad119

    6 жыл бұрын

    but the sleepy pup was a good addition..

  • @Flicka1April2

    @Flicka1April2

    6 жыл бұрын

    Farquharson e

  • @kimcham9949

    @kimcham9949

    6 жыл бұрын

    @ Kheasl: That's funny. :)

  • @kellyferguson7350

    @kellyferguson7350

    6 жыл бұрын

    Kheasl I

  • @blackcurrantpop

    @blackcurrantpop

    6 жыл бұрын

    Loll

  • @jalabi99
    @jalabi995 жыл бұрын

    Biggest warning sign: seeing an HR person waiting in an office to see you, especially since the last time you saw anyone from HR was when you were hired.

  • @MBarberfan4life

    @MBarberfan4life

    4 жыл бұрын

    That’s when you know you’re fucked

  • @dm5129

    @dm5129

    3 жыл бұрын

    Sh.., if it happens it happens, not loving the job, hanging on until I make Social Security, already older and I know how absolutely ridiculous job searches can be. But if it happens it happens, I have never been one of the sheep. If having to move onto something else I will, otherwise I will just have to make a smiley face in a stupid working environment. Not easy, but there are absolutely no guarantees that the new job would not end up being pretty much the same anyways. Know what I am saying?

  • @shutit4024

    @shutit4024

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@MBarberfan4life facts 😂 but my job didn’t have an HR

  • @BookishBeauty
    @BookishBeauty6 жыл бұрын

    Great video, could you guys do one about how to look for a new job while still having your old full time one? (searching, interviewing, etc)

  • @sudheeshmohan4357

    @sudheeshmohan4357

    6 жыл бұрын

    Good suggestion. T hey should do a video on that.

  • @mgsanz410

    @mgsanz410

    5 жыл бұрын

    Great idea!

  • @eastcoast26

    @eastcoast26

    4 жыл бұрын

    That would be a great idea. I don't know everything, but here is how I did it. Usually you can job search during the weekend or after coming home from work to fill out a application. If you are interviewing and you work day shift you would have to use your vacation or sick time if you have it. But if you work afternoons and nights, you can interview in the morning. That's how I did it. But that is if everything goes according to plan. I kept my sick days handy.

  • @WhimsicalPictures
    @WhimsicalPictures6 жыл бұрын

    It's funny how many of these "red flags" are just normal parts of the working culture here in Japan xD Things like being expected to stay long or come in for uncompensated overtime, and of course getting drunk with coworkers at nomikai, are just business as usual here. I think there are good things about these cultural differences too, but Japan is infamous for its problems with karoshi (death by overworking) for a reason.

  • @bloodmajesty414

    @bloodmajesty414

    5 жыл бұрын

    Asian country in general are quite behind in work ethics I would say. I am from Malaysia and the intrusive on boundaries, office politics, lack of respect for worker's health etc is very common it is almost normal.

  • @zl4048
    @zl40485 жыл бұрын

    6 warning signs, 5 appeared on the job I’m currently work at.. but still scared to quit because I’m need that paycheck .

  • @voltaireon
    @voltaireon6 жыл бұрын

    My first post college job hit almost every one of these points but the friend point. I lasted 9 months before I finally put in my two weeks. My boss was controlling and had way too many one on one meetings (once per twice a week), the job was a massive bait and switch, and I wasn't learning anything. After I put in my two weeks my manager wanted me to document everything I did so the next person could come in. It took less than half a day to document everything, and Monday of my final week they already had my replacement and I was to train her. It took me two days to train her and I'm so glad I no longer work there. Now I'm at a company with better benefits, a better team, Constant chances to learn, and just all around better.

  • @taoist32

    @taoist32

    6 жыл бұрын

    Taryn Good And now it sucks for the new person in your last job. That sucks for him or her.

  • @paigebostick5708

    @paigebostick5708

    6 жыл бұрын

    You give me some hope.

  • @atmosrepair

    @atmosrepair

    5 жыл бұрын

    Bait and switch is so common! I hate that. And it bothers me that they dont list the salary or wage rate in the job posting description. That's just a way to get you into interview moving along the process, and then they figure you have gotten too far to back out when they reveal they're pay is crap.

  • @smarke76
    @smarke765 жыл бұрын

    Quiting a job gracefully is an oxymoron. Companies are not going to fire you gracefully. It's a two situation.

  • @Gumbier_Than

    @Gumbier_Than

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was fired very gracefully from being barista. He didn't yell or belittle me and this guy found me to be a weirdo he didn't like much. He said for the record I'd keep you and just have you replace the property broken. I will agree with you that most companies are not graceful about firing someone.

  • @eibbor171

    @eibbor171

    5 жыл бұрын

    i was able to quit my job with grace but then again i was kinda detrimental i was practically getting begged to stay so i said yea ill stay for 25hr at least...no,see ya

  • @SA-nt9kl

    @SA-nt9kl

    3 жыл бұрын

    Exactly

  • @heatherclark2701
    @heatherclark27016 жыл бұрын

    I recommend reading 'women don't ask' for help on negotiating starting salary, raises, and other job needs such as different hours or more work from home time.

  • @atmosrepair

    @atmosrepair

    5 жыл бұрын

    Women make the best employees and students.

  • @MarielIsabel
    @MarielIsabel6 жыл бұрын

    I always look forward to TFD videos. As someone who is often very scared by new jobs, by money and by being assertive I am encouraged and challenged to be a better me. Thank you.

  • @Eliszzyy
    @Eliszzyy6 жыл бұрын

    I have to be honest, as a millennial I am so disappointed and sad about the truth that we are all over qualified and under paid. Especially with those super fun student loans.. I see so many of my extremley qualified friends still struggling to make it by on a duel income, how are us single kids supposed to get by?? Millennials are known to be spoiled, but I don't think people realize the struggles that we go through in different ways =/

  • @alisa22x

    @alisa22x

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cindy Luu I know where your coming from but luckily student loans can be paid off within 3-5 years. I think the main issue is not enough people know how to talk about their personal worth & economic value to hiring companies.

  • @Eliszzyy

    @Eliszzyy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Annalisa Murray how much did you owe? That's incredible! I will graduate with 45k :/

  • @alisa22x

    @alisa22x

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cindy Luu I'm still studying atm actually on my second year. My course is a HR & Psychology degree which is mostly online based & the tuition is 4K a year. I took an care assistant job which pays slightly better then most retail jobs around £10-15 an hour depending on the client. This has really helped. I'm so thankful I took the health & social qualification alongside my normal high school exams. I'm paying per module.

  • @Eliszzyy

    @Eliszzyy

    6 жыл бұрын

    Annalisa Murray wow that's great! Yeah I wish my schooling was that inexpensive but it's nowhere close to that. Even while making payments while in school it's still a lot =/

  • @kseniav586

    @kseniav586

    6 жыл бұрын

    Cindy Luu not sure since i'm not american, but there's a possibility that you're not overqualified/underpaid, it's just that college fees are unreasonably high

  • @dawnhapgood2907
    @dawnhapgood29075 жыл бұрын

    My unhealthy boundaries in my previous job were with my bosses. My first boss called me an idiot in front of everyone and made fun of me. The second wanted to be close friends but then acted harshly towards me once we were in the office saying things like I don’t deserve a job to the directors and generally being controlling of how I sit for example. I’m freelance now haha:)

  • @americanpriness1

    @americanpriness1

    5 жыл бұрын

    Dawn Hapgood that’s red flag

  • @dm5129

    @dm5129

    3 жыл бұрын

    My problem is always with workers that carry on private relationships at work, with me not being interested in the least to do the same. Then the attacks of females begins who attack me for whatever reason and all I ever do is my job. It is so fricking ridiculous I could laugh and cry at the same time. Any kind of guy that they already have had relationships with or they think they might have relationships with at work (and I swear that is all they talk about all day instead of talking about work) those are the guys these women watch like a Hawk. I innocently carry on a conversation it is like : Incoming, female here, female there, jealously alert. I swear if I could I would just tell them to stop behaving like Toddlers. To see those people just maybe do their work and leave their private lives out of the workplace would be a blessing.

  • @themoneytamer1154
    @themoneytamer11546 жыл бұрын

    These are great signs it is time for a job change, however, let's be very objective here --- is it the company that you need to change or is it careers you need to change? Many times, if we are not challenged on the job, it could well be that we are in the wrong career. There is nothing wrong with going back to the drawing board to figure out what exactly it is we love to do and go for it.

  • @taoist32

    @taoist32

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Mrs. Amah Show True. For me, it was the company. The career is just fine especially with growth.

  • @justtrina3700

    @justtrina3700

    6 жыл бұрын

    Mine is job change within the company but it's been a processes trying to transfer positions

  • @hybby

    @hybby

    6 жыл бұрын

    Or is it your PERSPECTIVE that needs to change?

  • @lpoll

    @lpoll

    6 жыл бұрын

    The Money Tamer h

  • @vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192

    @vanessatheurbantarotgoddes2192

    5 жыл бұрын

    Career for me

  • @MakeupByDiana529
    @MakeupByDiana5296 жыл бұрын

    I feel like this is a sign since Ive been wanting to get out of my job for so long! thank you1

  • @op6119
    @op61195 жыл бұрын

    Just left my job today. Feels too damn good.

  • @LadyNerdyLegalPants
    @LadyNerdyLegalPants6 жыл бұрын

    100% agree with everything you've said! I've noticed in my own career every time one of these red flags do come up the job quickly goes down hill after.

  • @Cutie8Girl
    @Cutie8Girl6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this! Just made the transition to a new position because of these reasons. I was scared to make the move, and this video would have boosted my confidence, but I am proud to have made the decision to put my career goals first. As always, I love watching your helpful video's and thank you for doing what you do!

  • @khardyu006
    @khardyu0066 жыл бұрын

    It's almost like you know what I've been dealing with the past couple months and decided to make this video for me lol

  • @Mars101001
    @Mars1010014 жыл бұрын

    This was nicely explained. I've been watching a ton of these types of videos and reading articles. This is the one I will share. Thank you. 🙌

  • @rebelendeavors6484
    @rebelendeavors64846 жыл бұрын

    This video could NOT have popped up in my "suggested" feed at a better time! I've hit several of these points in my current 9-5 and it's killing me!! BUT I am in the process of rebranding my photography business and I will be ready to go no later than the first of the year. So I'm just biding my time right now until I have all my ducks in a row and can go solo! Thanks for a great video!

  • @nigelwang2447
    @nigelwang24476 жыл бұрын

    Can I just say how much I wish I had watched these videos 5 years ago? These videos are amazing advice Chelsea, thank you so much.

  • @jjmarz10797
    @jjmarz107976 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had seen this a year ago!!! I was working full time and studying, straight out of high school (year 12), and it was just too much. My role kept changing and additional tasks kept being given to me. It got to the point where I was clinically diagnosed with depression and I felt sick every time I drove the route to work. Getting up the courage to accept that I had to leave was really hard and I think it's definitely important to publicise that if you're resigning for the right reasons and you've given the job your best, there's no shame telling it like it is and respectfully resigning.

  • @kayleighc3159
    @kayleighc31596 жыл бұрын

    this fits so well with the previous video about having an emergency fund

  • @paulapaixao3928
    @paulapaixao39286 жыл бұрын

    This video resonated so much with me I don't have enough words to thank you for this

  • @dandennis4602
    @dandennis46025 жыл бұрын

    Man this is such a brilliant video. Speaking as someone that was fired from a soul-crushing job last week, these points were so spot-on.

  • @altairjones5169
    @altairjones51696 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had this information years ago. This video lays out the clear and practical reasons to move on and underlines the importance of setting appropriate boundaries.

  • @karolinagrygiel178
    @karolinagrygiel1786 жыл бұрын

    This video is all about my previous job... I'm so glad I left, it was a soul killer. Thank you !

  • @barbarafeliga
    @barbarafeliga5 жыл бұрын

    I have just made the very hard decision of leaving my job and this video reminded me that I DEFINITELY made the right decision. Thank you for this. I love you all at TFD!

  • @emanuel12345678901
    @emanuel123456789016 жыл бұрын

    Those are exactly the reasons why I've quit my current job and moved to another position. I was in line for a promotion but I took the same salary and more responsibilities just to get away from an ungrateful and unmotivating boss. He knew for a year I was unhappy yet he never tried to fix any of the problems. I was a yes sir type of guy in the first year that pulled shifts as long as needed to keep projects in line. I'm thinking he took my dedication and motivation as a weakness and still tried to convince me I could do more and I should account even less overhours on my projects just to look even better

  • @BenShutUp
    @BenShutUp6 жыл бұрын

    Chelsea, my goodness you have outdone yourself. This video has such a wealth of knowledge its astounding! Thanks for making this. I seriously need to rewatch this like 5 times to let it all sink in.

  • @dallasrobinson2817
    @dallasrobinson28176 жыл бұрын

    OH MY GOD! I HAVE NEVER LOVED THIS CHANNEL MORE! this is NEVER talked about enough! thank you so much for saying all of this!

  • @sangeeta
    @sangeeta6 жыл бұрын

    I needed this video right now. Thank you!

  • @rjgordon77

    @rjgordon77

    6 жыл бұрын

    This is a good video...but don't leave a unfavorable situation for any other new job because career steps are important.

  • @amnaayub93
    @amnaayub933 жыл бұрын

    Man! Listening to you guys always feel like im listening to a good friend! ❤️ No BS! Just straight up truth! 🙌🏼

  • @SomebodyRandom717
    @SomebodyRandom7176 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video, watching it made me feel so much better! I had a very hard time leaving my last job, and was eventually let go. Even though my last workplace hit every bullet on this list, I've felt terrible because they didn't keep me on. I thought it was my fault, not the toxic environment or poor management. I realize now how toxic and unfulfilling it was, and am glad to no longer be there. Thank you!

  • @taoist32

    @taoist32

    6 жыл бұрын

    Lyssa Mitchell That's a sign that your mind was too clouded from misperceptions. Not being able to see or feel a toxic work environment will keep with you until you start becoming more aware of what you need to do when it comes to work.

  • @zephyrkhambatta
    @zephyrkhambatta2 жыл бұрын

    Priceless. Loving the honesty about professionalism! Thank you!

  • @aggg17
    @aggg176 жыл бұрын

    Great video, these are the exact reasons I changed my previous job.

  • @ItsFranci

    @ItsFranci

    6 жыл бұрын

    aggg17 girl, same! I had a potentially life long career at 21 y/o but I was so miserable. I was entering the accounting world, ended up basically being a data entry clerk. 😒

  • @Marley2006
    @Marley20065 жыл бұрын

    This is a brilliant, brilliant video. Can't express how pleased I am to have come across this video.

  • @davee8527
    @davee85275 жыл бұрын

    I'm having that exact same issue, I'm feeling guilty about leaving my job and now I can look at it from a different perspective, thank you

  • @heatherrose9437
    @heatherrose94376 жыл бұрын

    Thank you that was a real confidence booster. I just left a job that was really burning me out and what you said really put my reasons into better wording

  • @LydiaAlexandraThomas
    @LydiaAlexandraThomas6 жыл бұрын

    All fabulous advice and points. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge!

  • @vishwa_priya
    @vishwa_priya6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you. I could relate to this video. Great work TFD!

  • @valzahnzahn
    @valzahnzahn6 жыл бұрын

    What helps me get through the days at my current job when I know at the right time I will put in my two weeks, I remind myself that nothing is forever. I'm not stuck in anything. I can change my life whenver I want!

  • @larat767
    @larat7676 жыл бұрын

    Felt all of these at my previous job...glad I listened to them because now I'm in my dream job!

  • @rosemarykusak2812
    @rosemarykusak28126 жыл бұрын

    that is the cutest little doggie. LOVE. What is his/her name? What kind is he/her? So adorable. How about a video on financial cost of pet ownership?

  • @4mpersan

    @4mpersan

    6 жыл бұрын

    Rosemary Kusak the video said "Mona".

  • @justtrina3700

    @justtrina3700

    6 жыл бұрын

    She does have a video about owning a dog cost video

  • @mmtruooao8377

    @mmtruooao8377

    6 жыл бұрын

    Omg I couldn't find the dog until near the end of the video??? It blended into the pillows

  • @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    @legalfictionnaturalfact3969

    4 жыл бұрын

    *her pronoun is ze you transphobe!11!!!*

  • @oblivion2967
    @oblivion29675 жыл бұрын

    You're providing very valuable information with all your videos, thank you!

  • @EdwardThimbleHands
    @EdwardThimbleHands5 жыл бұрын

    Number 6 is every normal job I've done. But there should be two more- Number 7: there is no advancement unless someone leaves. This happens in smaller companies or larger ones where they are constantly bringing in new employees or employees from other locations. It shows lack of trust in the whole team or failure to properly train and evaluate people in that location in lower level positions. Number 8: you are locked into do tasks that anyone could do. I was in the tech support department at a local chain of stores. I wrote manuals and procedures to guide others in doing the jobs I was assigned so I could move into more technical things. Even after completing all of this work so that anyone could take over, I was told that "it would all need to be tested first but everyone was too busy" so I had to keep doing mind numbing work. I stayed working there an extra three months attempting to persuade my boss, but nothing changed. In the end I was in a job that lied to me about the tasks and potential for learning/advancement. I used the 1 month unpaid leave the company gives you after working there for 6 months(I had been there 9) to line up other work without quitting. Always try to have some money saved so you can live for a bit without worrying in-between jobs.

  • @12XxXHandlesAreStupidXxX123
    @12XxXHandlesAreStupidXxX1233 жыл бұрын

    You said exactly what I needed to hear, thank you!

  • @thegordonedit6618
    @thegordonedit66185 жыл бұрын

    I know - a year late! I'm the classic new grad that has a job that I didn't sign up for and is just not right for me and stresses me outside work! Thank you so much for this video

  • @jessicajacobson8881
    @jessicajacobson8881 Жыл бұрын

    I’ve watched this three times this week. So helpful for people who aren’t sure why they’re hesitant to leave.

  • @VapidVulpes
    @VapidVulpes6 жыл бұрын

    This is so nice to hear. It fits completely with my experience with previous jobs, also, that jump cut around 8:07 is the cutest thing I've seen all day :-D. Please feel free to fill your jump cuts with as many dogs in as many different places as possible :-D!

  • @neerajchopra6809
    @neerajchopra68094 жыл бұрын

    Expressed with an unmatched candour ma'am. Precise and realistic . This should help a lot of us. Keep the good efforts .

  • @breve711
    @breve7115 жыл бұрын

    it took me almost a year to work up the courage to leave my job and i finally did it a month ago. this video has so much truth in it, i really wish i'd found this a year ago

  • @jenx818
    @jenx8182 жыл бұрын

    I like how after #5 a dog suddenly appears in the background 😆🤣😂 funny fur baby!!! I want to thank you for making this video. I was offered a huge opportunity with a big corporation and where I’m at now is a family owned company. Everything you listed, including not having an HR & no clear direction & being taken advantage of... that’s me!!! I was grappling with “should I stay or should I go now?”... you just helped me decide. You do good in the world by making these videos. Your helping others. Thank you for helping me 💞🙏🏼

  • @aliciaunaryan4751
    @aliciaunaryan47516 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing these great tips. This video was so informative. Greetings from South Africa

  • @emmyrodriguez5228
    @emmyrodriguez52284 жыл бұрын

    To the point and clear with great examples, thank you!

  • @roekinn
    @roekinn5 жыл бұрын

    #7 Your employer hands you bad payroll checks that bounce every payday and put your checking account into a negative balance for WEEKS.💩☠️😑

  • @dantae666

    @dantae666

    5 жыл бұрын

    Sue the scumbag

  • @trackee2024

    @trackee2024

    3 жыл бұрын

    RUN!

  • @auriannaharrell3057

    @auriannaharrell3057

    11 ай бұрын

    I had a boss like this too

  • @aleksandrazwonarz3446
    @aleksandrazwonarz34465 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the info. It’s very helpful. I needed that assurance that my work environment is not for me... and Yep! all red flags apply to my relationship with my job.

  • @nude_cat_ellie7417
    @nude_cat_ellie74176 жыл бұрын

    I've really come to count on the advice given by these ladies. It's perfect for the younger generation.

  • @JazzySingz
    @JazzySingz5 жыл бұрын

    Love this video and great advice, but omg the puppy sleeping on the pillow is so cute!!!!

  • @saurabhgaikwad3057
    @saurabhgaikwad30575 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a million for this informative video..I checked all points and honestly all of them checks out in my work life which I was tempted to leave from a long time.. This gave me enormous confidence boost..

  • @k.l.8804
    @k.l.88046 жыл бұрын

    Very good video indeed, very real & valid points. I quit a toxic job after being miserable at it for 6 years. Ticking off 3-4 of the points (point 2, 3, 6 & 4 to a small degree) on your list! Such a waste of years of my life that was! Once I finally let go of it, knowing what I wanted instead, I found the perfect job for me :-)

  • @cheesey712
    @cheesey7125 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for this, the thoughts, ideas and evaluation of one self is re-iterated through your knowledge.

  • @fegrace_1
    @fegrace_16 жыл бұрын

    Great video, I agree with each of your points; very well stated! Thanks for sharing.

  • @karabellaellaellaella
    @karabellaellaellaella6 жыл бұрын

    Your channel is amazing! Thank you so much for making these videos. It's helped a lot!

  • @jourdandolan2939
    @jourdandolan29393 жыл бұрын

    Love this video! SUBSCRIBED. Can you make one that offers some pointers of quitting a job and what to do next during mid life?

  • @angelrosales8792
    @angelrosales87926 жыл бұрын

    Hello Chelsea! I can totally relate to the things you said. Esp about the being guilty part. I will re-examine my current job and see If I should be moving on to a different path soon. Thanks for this very helpful video. 😄

  • @tanarri88
    @tanarri883 жыл бұрын

    Thanks a lot for this video! I've started looking for another job after two bad years of having insomnia due to stress at my work. The only thing that sadden me is that I don't want to step up into the hiring processes with the high level of bitterness and anger 💢 Pro tip: when you're already looking for another job, It is good to try to develop more assertive skills, just play with it and act (until it's healthy ofc.).

  • @tamaras5084
    @tamaras50846 жыл бұрын

    I really needed this video. I spent sooo long and so many hours and applications trying to get a specific type of job which I did end up getting and have been in for the past 6 months but I am so immensely unhappy and unsatisfied in it. I am bored out of my mind and have no motivation. There's no room to grow or change or even be promoted. It's a stagnant position and having just turned 19 it's not the position I should be in. I thought I wanted a quiet easy job but I've realised o want a job that's stimulating, challenging which the opportunity to grow and move up. I'm really nervous about leaving because I've been there for such a short time and I hate leaving jobs before I've been there at least a year. But I dread going to work and I only do like 15 hours a week. I have an interview in a few days for an exciting new job that I really hope I get. Thanks for making this video bc it helps to validate my feelings and my desire to leave.

  • @francescap2340
    @francescap23406 жыл бұрын

    I needed to see this video today. I am literally exhausted to the bone at my current job and have been for some time. My motivation seems to have taken an extended break and some days I dread going in. Whew.

  • @NoraTKD
    @NoraTKD6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the video Chelsea! So many great tips, and it is so nice to see the sleeping puppy :)

  • @GolgeIncelemesi
    @GolgeIncelemesi5 жыл бұрын

    I actually liked most of these points! I don't usually stay watching until the end in these kinds of vids but it was well done and engaging lol

  • @i0like0trains0kid
    @i0like0trains0kid6 жыл бұрын

    Volunteer in your interests where possible. Especially in things that relate to your career path. Experience looks awesome on a resume!

  • @yihuixiang
    @yihuixiang6 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video! Thank you - great job! Keep up the good work!

  • @DuluthTW
    @DuluthTW6 жыл бұрын

    Sage advice for someone so young. Thanks for sharing!

  • @ascorpio1395
    @ascorpio13956 жыл бұрын

    I needed this video so much!!!! THANK YOU

  • @jennamartin8459
    @jennamartin84596 жыл бұрын

    super cool video, recognised some situations you described. But OMG I juste saw the tiny sleeping doggy on the pillows ! so cute

  • @arguchik
    @arguchik6 жыл бұрын

    OMG. I didn't notice until almost 8 minutes in that Chelsea's little dog is asleep right behind her! So adorable.

  • @GRazzaq
    @GRazzaq6 жыл бұрын

    Your sleepy dog though 😅😍

  • @mcnc1221
    @mcnc12216 жыл бұрын

    Had to listen to this several times. Big help. Just dont know when to decide.

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