6 Tips For New School Counselors: Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started As A School Counselor

🎉Are you a brand new school counselor, graduate student, or veteran counselor in a new school?
6 TIPS FOR NEW SCHOOL COUNSELORS: Things I Wish I Knew Before I Started As A School Counselor
6️⃣After watching this video, you will leave with 6 tips on how to begin the school year positively and be prepared. Within the 6 tips are also other helpful nuggets of advice.
Get comfortable, grab your pen and notebook, and take notes!
❤️School Counselors are the heart of the school and wear many hats. Counselors do so many things that some may not even realize. Counselors prepare lessons, teach skills related to academics, social emotional learning, and college and career readiness, and do so many other things.
😩Starting as a new counselor can be stressful. There’s so many things to do to prepare and get your mind, body, and spirit ready for the new school year. New counselors may be feeling confused or stressed and may not know where to start.
👋🏾My name is John Burnett and I am a middle school counselor. This is my 11th year in education overall. This year marks my 5th year as a school counselor. Ive worked in elementary and middle school environments and I’ve learned many things along the way.
❤️Many of the lessons I learned the hard way and it is my desire that you go in knowing what to expect from your role.This profession is one where grad school can only prepare you for so much. You may have questions.
⁉️If you have any questions, please feel free to email me at j.eburnett7@gmail.com

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  • @CoriLuvTV
    @CoriLuvTV3 жыл бұрын

    Yes to the years. I’m so glad to see a male counselor. You’re needed in the schools. ❤️

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I ❤️ my job! I have an opportunity to make a positive impact on SOOO many lives!

  • @CoriLuvTV

    @CoriLuvTV

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb Yyyesss and I know you will!

  • @CMOOFFICIAL954

    @CMOOFFICIAL954

    2 жыл бұрын

    Im glad to see him as well. It’s discouraging being the only male school counseling student but once I found him it made me feel more comfortable.

  • @alejandrozendejas9818
    @alejandrozendejas9818 Жыл бұрын

    My favorite tips that really resonated with me are stay organized, set boundaries, and know students names - but all the tips were really great! Thank you! I hope we both of a great year!

  • @amavon1213
    @amavon121311 ай бұрын

    Great advice! Thank you

  • @staceybishop308
    @staceybishop3082 жыл бұрын

    Hi! Thank you so much for your video! It was so helpful. What stood out for me is #5 and 6. I am trying to be more organized and this helps tremendously! I look forward to hearing more

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! Thank you. I’m still working on systems to be more efficient too. Let me know if you’d like to see a video on tips :)

  • @shelleymoore1539
    @shelleymoore15392 жыл бұрын

    Loved all of the tips! Setting boundaries was the one I needed to hear, but also the one that will be the hardest for me to do. Thanks for the videos. As a new counselor, I need all the tips :)

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Shelley! Thanks for watching. And yes, setting boundaries takes practice. I just opened my laptop and my work email was still up and for a split second I was tempted to read my email. Then that voice in my head said “nope, close it” 😂 What grade level do you work with?

  • @mayray3077
    @mayray30773 жыл бұрын

    Love these tips!!! Thanks so much!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    I believe in you friend! You are destined for greatness. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @RGbyDesign
    @RGbyDesign2 жыл бұрын

    Excellent list! This is helpful for teachers as well on so many levels. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with the world!💛

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I agree, teachers and administrators can take this advice too😊

  • @RoyalDivine
    @RoyalDivine2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for these tips. Very insightful :).

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! ☺️

  • @carmenvenegas16
    @carmenvenegas162 жыл бұрын

    You are amazing for taking the time and share your thoughts and knowledge!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I’m honored to help ☺️

  • @user-xr7bi7qt1k
    @user-xr7bi7qt1k7 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much. Really helpful!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    7 ай бұрын

    I’m glad it was helpful!

  • @joannakaplan1916
    @joannakaplan19162 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for creating this video for future counselors. I am so appreciate for the time you spent sharing relevant and helpful information!! I will be taking it with me in my future work. I hope you are having a wonderful school year!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I’m glad you found this video helpful. ☺️

  • @linnettebracero2278
    @linnettebracero22782 жыл бұрын

    Awesome tips. Thank you so much!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Linnette, Anytime! What was your favorite tip?☺️

  • @linamaldonado8152
    @linamaldonado815211 ай бұрын

    This was so great!! Thank you for all these tips!!!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    11 ай бұрын

    Thank you!☺️

  • @melissakathleen5821
    @melissakathleen5821 Жыл бұрын

    Glad I found your channel! I start my new job as a school counsellor on Monday and I’m very nervous! Thanks for the tips!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    You’ll be awesome! What grade level? And check out this playlist for new counselors⬇️ kzread.info/head/PLyLl5RV3cWYsKkdRrYyE6JZIday3IEgqm

  • @heatherlethbridge3543
    @heatherlethbridge35435 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much for your videos! I start next week and I am a bit overwhelmed to say the least. These videos are so helpful!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    5 ай бұрын

    Hi Heather! You’ll be amazing. In the meantime, check out my new counselor playlist. You’ll learn everything you need⬇️ kzread.info/head/PLyLl5RV3cWYsKkdRrYyE6JZIday3IEgqm&si=uhKHV44jD8Tjt-QK

  • @raynoldskusi
    @raynoldskusi Жыл бұрын

    I like all the five tips John. They were great. Thank you and I hope to keep in touch someday when I start to work!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed the video. Thank you ☺️

  • @melissasainval5174
    @melissasainval51742 жыл бұрын

    I’m new to being a school social worker this year in a behavioral/alternative school. It has been challenging but I like how you mentioned to give myself some grace. I’m always hard on myself and it’s true that no matter what you do, someone is always going to critique what I do. But I need to learn that whatever anyone else thinks, the student comes first. Thanks for the tips!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Melissa! Learning to give yourself grace is one of the most important lessons in my opinion. Our job is so important but the load can be heavy. Take care of yourself ☺️

  • @llw310
    @llw3102 жыл бұрын

    Hi John, thank for taking the time and energy to make these helpful videos! I am currently in Master program in school counseling. This in a good introduction to what expect as a new counselor.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I’m glad you liked the video and I wish you well in your program. I’m here if you have questions. In the mean time, I hope you check out this video on how to be a counselor. I share more about my journey in becoming a counselor ☺️ kzread.info/dash/bejne/e3met9yjqMa0fcY.html

  • @DrChristie
    @DrChristie2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for what you doing!!! I love being a School Counselor! Love the very 1st tip of building relationships it is essential! Kids share more when they trust you and know you care!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Definitely! They need to feel comfortable, then they’ll tell you everything 😂 ☺️

  • @candiceelrod2191
    @candiceelrod2191 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing! I need to get organized in a manner that makes sense to me. This is my second year and I have trouble with organizing and setting boundaries.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Congratulations! You’ll be amazing. Check out this video for organization tips ❤️ kzread.info/dash/bejne/amGOj8GQc5bRcqg.html

  • @LPsmile3838
    @LPsmile38382 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for impacting- very helpful tips 👌

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! It always brings me joy to know that I helped someone. How is your school year going?

  • @tarajihoon4350
    @tarajihoon43502 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much. It was very helpful!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! ☺️What was your favorite tip?

  • @ropateraiyawafoiakau4011
    @ropateraiyawafoiakau40115 ай бұрын

    Thank you sharing just started my classes major in counselling looking forward to your videos

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    5 ай бұрын

    That’s awesome! Let me know if you have questions 🎉

  • @alfredorosado8546
    @alfredorosado85462 жыл бұрын

    Great video! Thank you so much for taking this on and being a role model for emerging professional in our oh-so important profession!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for taking the time to watch it and comment! I appreciate it.

  • @betsysantacruz3671
    @betsysantacruz36712 жыл бұрын

    So happy to come across your channel! I currently in grad school to be a school counselor and so very excited!!!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! Let me know if you have questions!☺️

  • @jessicachavez747
    @jessicachavez7472 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for these tips. I feel so much better preparing for my first year.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Definitely! I’m so happy to hear that. If you have any questions or need anything, please feel free to reach out. I have a video I’m sharing Wednesday that will talk about the meet the counselor presentation. Hope you watch it!

  • @oliviasatler2933
    @oliviasatler2933 Жыл бұрын

    Oh wow, thank you thank you thank you!! I just moved to a new state to start my first school counseling job and I am beyond nervous. My favorite tip was to set boundaries between your work and personal life. I love my alone time and me time and I think setting those boundaries are going to be so key for me. Thank you for this video!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Hi Olivia! Congratulations. You’ll be fine. Check out this video as a guide to success🥳 kzread.info/dash/bejne/qX5ms6p_g662hto.html

  • @lakeshaearl9659
    @lakeshaearl96593 жыл бұрын

    Great job John! I am a 20 year veteran entering into a new school and environment (virtual) and these tips served as a great refresher! My favorite tip was “setting boundaries” as this has been something that I’ve had to learn over time to ensure my cup is full. 😊 Thanks for the video!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Hi Lakesha! I know you’ll be awesome at your new school!!! Thanks for sharing your story. To me, last year reminded me of first year as a new counselor. It was so new, different, and…interesting. I had to remind myself of these tips in order to be successful 😂

  • @anitalagrone7532
    @anitalagrone75322 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed you video! This was very helpful. My favorite tip was, "Give yourself grace" Very encouraging.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! It’s so true. This job is rewarding but can be hard at times ☺️

  • @zirahsurayabalqis8478
    @zirahsurayabalqis84782 жыл бұрын

    I just found your youtube channel. I'll be a school counselor the next 2 months and your videos really really help me to prepare myself. I hope you won't stop to make a new videos. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the encouraging words. Good luck! You’ll be great ☺️

  • @philomenaart3465
    @philomenaart3465 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this. I love your calm demeanor.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! ☺️☺️

  • @juliodelascas6215
    @juliodelascas6215 Жыл бұрын

    This was so simple and helpful. Thank you so much sir. Wonderful tips. God bless you.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Glad you enjoyed the video☺️

  • @marprisamariner6940
    @marprisamariner694011 ай бұрын

    Great videos! I'm a 20+ year vet, leaving secondary ELA beginning my first year as an Elementary School Counselor and I'm trying not to freak out! All the tips were great---Building the Program & Setting Boundaries most resonated with me. Thanks so much for your very insightful and helpful videos.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    11 ай бұрын

    You’ll be great! Have an amazing school year! 😊

  • @edzaidacolon5220
    @edzaidacolon52202 жыл бұрын

    As always! Fabulous!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! 🤗

  • @laurettaani9356
    @laurettaani93562 жыл бұрын

    Insightful tips. Subscribed!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! I’m always here if you have questions. I’m passionate about helping other educators.

  • @Kenus_L
    @Kenus_L3 жыл бұрын

    My favorite point was “setting boundaries”. This expectation can be applied to all professions. It’s important to set reasonable boundaries in the beginning. Healthy Boundaries allow you perform at your best for all stakeholders - parents, teachers, students and community partners! Great video and even better insight! 😊

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! My real life experience definitely helped me understand the importance of setting boundaries.

  • @jillzitt3484
    @jillzitt34842 жыл бұрын

    My favorite tip, "Ask Questions." As a school counselor coach, I know how important it is for new counselors to ask questions! Great video, will be sharing link with our school counselors! Thank you.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Monday I’m sharing a video on the 4 questions I ask during EVERY interview. I hope you come back and watch it. ☺️

  • @dorjichoedra8728
    @dorjichoedra87282 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for those valuable tips. I am a new counselor here struggling to implement the counseling program in the school. If you could do a video on how to integrate the counselling programs and activities in the school setting or if you could share your current practices regarding the programs related to social-emotional , academic and career, it would be of much help.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! I plan on heavily focusing on this during the summer ☺️

  • @andrewnash4970
    @andrewnash49702 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this! I am starting my masters degree for this field and feel nervous but excited to get started !

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Andrew! That’s awesome. Let me know if you have questions.

  • @bilqissulthanannasira4905
    @bilqissulthanannasira490510 ай бұрын

    Ugh... this is all true.. I came across ur video right time when i needed it! Glad i'm not feeling lonely anymore. My favorite tips is about boundary. You're right, being student counselor is like wearing so many different hats. And i almost forget myself for the past 3 weeks. I feel so uncomfortable bcs i push myself too hard to be available for everyone. But no one happy, no one pleased, including myself. Then i get burn out & not being present in my work. It's really really important to set boundaries. Not just physical boundaries but also emotional, energy, and time boundaries!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    10 ай бұрын

    I hope you do what’s best for you this year 😊🤗 thanks for watching

  • @anvif4537
    @anvif45372 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all your tips! I'm nervous about my new role at school. I'm a Psychologist and used to work as a Psychologist but now I'm gonna be one of the counselors...

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    You’ll be fine! Take it one day at a time. ☺️🥳

  • @speaklifemore
    @speaklifemore2 жыл бұрын

    This is so exciting to see! I am a school counseling student and appreciate your video

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! If you have any questions, please let me know.

  • @jeromepringle4949
    @jeromepringle4949 Жыл бұрын

    I am so glad that I found your channel! I am a Counsellor in training.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Great! Let me know if you have any questions.

  • @TheKOALACounselor
    @TheKOALACounselor3 жыл бұрын

    Great video, John! I see we are in parallel fields (school and mental health counseling). I'm looking forward to your insights! *(subscribed)*

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! And yes mental health is extremely important now more so than ever!👏🏽

  • @Huedtunes
    @Huedtunes2 жыл бұрын

    Such great advice on organization and self care, current school counselor intern at a MS. Had a rough first quarter but this is helping me prep and recharge during winter break!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I hope your 2nd semester is better. Check out this video for support 2nd semester kzread.info/dash/bejne/Z4hrzNOdn9PAqNY.html

  • @Huedtunes

    @Huedtunes

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb Thank you so much for this, just got around to watching and will be following your channel. So encouraging and applicable : )

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@Huedtunes thank you!☺️☺️

  • @mahertamana5806
    @mahertamana58062 жыл бұрын

    Great tips! My favorite tip was to participate in grade level and leadership meetings. This is something I didn’t do in my first year. Now going to second year, I will make sure to do so, but my concern is that in my school some teachers have cliques and they don’t want another individual in their meetings. I will try this year to see how it will go😃.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Even going to their meetings takes time and preparation. It helps if you start building a trusting, genuine relationship with teachers. ☺️

  • @diedrewedderburn8894
    @diedrewedderburn8894 Жыл бұрын

    All the best for the upcoming year..stay well

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    It’s going well! How about you?🤗

  • @ernestoespinoza6199
    @ernestoespinoza61992 жыл бұрын

    You dont even know how helpful your videos have been for me these last few days! This is my first year as a K-5 school counselor and am currently going through a standalone PPSC program (already have M.A.) I worked in higher ed for 4 years prior and let me tell you, COMPLETELY different environments. High-key wish I had a site supervisor like you to learn the ropes from! Thank you for doing these videos.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I appreciate the kind words. And trust me, I understand. Working in school counseling has its learning curves. What’s your biggest struggle at the moment?

  • @ernestoespinoza6199

    @ernestoespinoza6199

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb The admin mainly. They micromanage the counseling team and make it very difficult for team culture to develop, among other things. My site supervisor (an admin) has virtually had no time to teach me the ropes, so I have been left to learn on my own through what little my PPSC program has taught me so far. This makes me feel like I am too under-equipped to properly help our students at times!

  • @jasenokunnuga9532
    @jasenokunnuga95323 жыл бұрын

    My favorite tip is about boundaries and as a person that case managed for several years I made sure not to check my voicemail or emails and to leave work at work so that my personal life Wouldn’t get consumed by work life. The most useful tips for me is about organization and a needs assessment. I need to make sure I have a system of capturing everything that comes my way so that I can use it when the time comes for it to be useful. In the past I been caught up with receiving a good resource but not being able to use it later on because I lost the info. I feel the needs assessment will help identify what is needed today and priorities can be placed.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    I do a simple google form now for collecting needs assessments because google makes the charts and data in an organized way! And I’m glad you found a way to create work life balance. It’s necessary!

  • @Stars12291
    @Stars122912 жыл бұрын

    I'm 25 and going back to college and I feel a push to go back for a school guidance counselor. I'm excited and thanks for sharing your tips and experiences!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have some video ideas planned just for people in your situation ☺️ stay tuned!

  • @Stars12291

    @Stars12291

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb Thanks, I will be looking forward to them!

  • @noratorres611
    @noratorres611 Жыл бұрын

    Omg..! You are amazing.. You should be my mentor..!

  • @ebonykennedy3796
    @ebonykennedy37963 жыл бұрын

    Great Advice!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Ebony! I’m hope one or more of the tips resonated with you.☺️

  • @Nelsiss007
    @Nelsiss007 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this information! I love the simplification of what is expected of a school counselor overall 🙌🏼

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    👋🏾Yes! Are you currently a counselor or aspiring to be one?

  • @Nelsiss007

    @Nelsiss007

    Жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb i am aspiring to be one, I am currently completing my masters in school counseling for the state of Florida

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Nelsiss007 that is so awesome! I’m excited for your journey. Let me know if you have questions ☺️🥳

  • @Nelsiss007

    @Nelsiss007

    Жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb will do! Thank you for your insight 😃

  • @byambatsogtdavaatseren1446
    @byambatsogtdavaatseren14462 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your suggestion. I like it all

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!☺️

  • @nadiraudugama3357
    @nadiraudugama3357 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for your tips. Super useful. I have been a teacher in Sri Lanka for 15 years. I have an interview for the position of counsellor at the school where I teach. So your advice really helped me face it with confidence.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    I hope you do well! Congratulations. Let me know if you have questions. I also have an interview tips playlist⬇️🎉🎉 kzread.info/head/PLyLl5RV3cWYvC95_NgE6PyvXUgTsBMAhj

  • @kmackey2292
    @kmackey22926 ай бұрын

    Great tips I guess if I had to decide which one resonate with me will be give yourself Grace and self care. Enjoyed watching the video.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    6 ай бұрын

    Thank you! Are you an educator? 😊

  • @kmackey2292

    @kmackey2292

    6 ай бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb you're welcome. Yes, I'm a 1st year school counselor (elementary).

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    6 ай бұрын

    @@kmackey2292 awesome! I love first year counselors. Have you seen my playlist for new counselors?⬇️🎉🎉 New School Counselor Guide to Success! kzread.info/head/PLyLl5RV3cWYsKkdRrYyE6JZIday3IEgqm

  • @kmackey2292

    @kmackey2292

    6 ай бұрын

    ​@@counselingwithmrbyes. I haven't finished the whole playlist but I am definitely looking forward to finish watching the playlist for new counselors and the rest of your videos and other platforms. Your videos are a fresh of breath air & confirmation of why I am a school counselor. Thank you so much!!!!!!

  • @divayoung5394
    @divayoung53942 жыл бұрын

    This was the best video l agree self care is important!☝🏾🤩

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing your favorite tip! Self care is a MUST!

  • @susanjackson-beck2287
    @susanjackson-beck2287 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you this was so helpful! I've started my new job as an Academic Counselor and your tips were spot on! My favorite tip (s) are Relationships are Key Also, give myself GRACE!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! I hope it’s going well for you so far 🤗

  • @rihki0kennebrew
    @rihki0kennebrew2 жыл бұрын

    Awesome job!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Are you already a School Counselor or hoping to become one?

  • @akponyechinonso9075
    @akponyechinonso9075 Жыл бұрын

    I'm so glad to come across your Tube this morning. Kudos bro. Counseling is a course I love so much, i really want to become a professional counselor in order to impact on others. I based in Nigeria.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching! I hope you achieve your dreams ☺️

  • @Goatsuniversity
    @Goatsuniversity2 жыл бұрын

    School counselor in training, thank you!!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! I’m here if you have questions.

  • @suzaruwrx81
    @suzaruwrx812 жыл бұрын

    thanks these are great tips. I'm not a new counselor ( been in the mental health field for 20 years) but I'm a new school counselor (fingers crossed).

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome. That experience will definitely help you. Be sure to talk about that in your interviews so you can clearly speak to how you can support students with their mental health. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @schllegelesenam7852
    @schllegelesenam78529 ай бұрын

    Like all these tips Thanks so much But just graduated so I will please need your help as a school counselor.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    9 ай бұрын

    Congratulations! That’s awesome! 🎉🎉🎉 are you job searching?

  • @vladstoica2252
    @vladstoica22522 жыл бұрын

    Hello! This is very helpful. Thank you! This is my second year as a counselor. In my first year I was in an elementary school. I had 1000+ students, 90% minorities, struggling with social adaptation. I took too many responsibilities and I collapsed at the end of the year, with depression, anxiety and lack of motivation. I took myself a sabbatical year, I reorganized my life and developed my self-compassion and now I am a highschool counselor and is way better. It's very important to be very organized and open at school, but when you finish your 8 hours of work you must set firm boundaries and take care of yourself.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Definitely! I’m so glad you were able to find your balance. I know how tough it is working in a large elementary school. It was definitely a lie and took it’s toll.

  • @angelicaperez2031

    @angelicaperez2031

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb why did you say "it was a lie"?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@angelicaperez2031 lol my apologies. I meant “it was a lot.” So it’s a typo😅☺️😂

  • @arshabanu5936
    @arshabanu59362 жыл бұрын

    This is really helpful! Thank you so much for this video. If you don't mind, can you please share any groups or community of school counselors. I am starting as a school counselor, and am very tensed about how to do.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Arsha! Please join my Facebook group, the Learning Alan facebook.com/groups/858983358353597/?ref=share_group_link

  • @CMOOFFICIAL954
    @CMOOFFICIAL9542 жыл бұрын

    I’m in school to be a school counselor, I’m glad to see that you love it!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! Let me know if you have any questions. If you’re on IG, look me up ☺️ Www.instagram.com/Counselingwithmrb

  • @CMOOFFICIAL954

    @CMOOFFICIAL954

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb I sent you a dm, I look forward to learning from your videos!

  • @reganstandlick7520
    @reganstandlick75202 жыл бұрын

    Every tip. I am about to go in to grad school to be a school counselor but have been working in the school system but graduated with a social work degree. I found that there was just so much more I wanted to give the kids and be more involved.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations! Please know that you are needed. Let me know if you have questions or have video topics you’d like to see!☺️

  • @reganstandlick7520

    @reganstandlick7520

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb any tips for grad school would be awesome, also play therapy, and what your clinical experiences were like

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@reganstandlick7520 great suggestions! I’ll work on some ideas over the summer. Thanks

  • @romanrussell4165
    @romanrussell41652 жыл бұрын

    Enjoyed your video. It's great to see a male school counselor. Very encouraging. Do you happen to have videos on what type of classes we should expect to take when entering into a Masters degree program, internship experience and the required tests to receive a license?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Roman! Thank you. Most programs feature classes on theories, and child development. I would focus heavily on lesson and program design. As far as internships, I’d recommend visiting elementary, middle, and high schools. Let me know if you have other questions.

  • @eunbyeolgo2341
    @eunbyeolgo23412 жыл бұрын

    hello, sir john. i rarely see counselors for high school students here on youtube. i was wondering if you could suggest guidance lesson topics for high school students. thank you!

  • @boysrtc8374
    @boysrtc83742 жыл бұрын

    Set boundaries!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Super important tip👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏾

  • @ItsRuthieM
    @ItsRuthieM3 ай бұрын

    This is awesome! I am high school based therapist possibly transitioning to a middle school counselor role next year. The school is a brand new school and I would be their first school counselor! I will have to build the program from the ground up😅. I'm excited but so nervous!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 ай бұрын

    You got this! I gave a few videos to help build your program. Let me know if you have questions.

  • @ItsRuthieM

    @ItsRuthieM

    3 ай бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb thank you, I will! I've been binging your videos ❤️

  • @jessicasmith2912
    @jessicasmith29123 жыл бұрын

    Yessss 80s and 90s R&B!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes! 😂 you have a favorite? I ❤️SWV!

  • @cs0779533
    @cs07795332 жыл бұрын

    I like it when you said " you cant pour from an empty cup" that stuck in my head.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! This message is specially true now because there’s a lot of needs. Are you currently working in a school setting?

  • @cs0779533

    @cs0779533

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb I am a teacher who wants to get a 2nd masters. social work or counseling. i want to leave the classroom.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cs0779533 that’s awesome! Thank you for all you do to educate our youth. My next video series will be on self-care, burnout, and boundaries. Hope you stay tuned.

  • @godfredowusu-ansah701
    @godfredowusu-ansah7016 ай бұрын

    Thank you for this. I’m a new school counselor, how do I get age appropriate materials for my kids?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    6 ай бұрын

    What grade level? And do you mean worksheets or fidget type materials?

  • @laneberg6574
    @laneberg6574 Жыл бұрын

    thanks my guy

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching!

  • @MhFha
    @MhFha Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the great tips. I have a question about the academic resources. Where and how can I get good evidence based resources to build materials on different issues such as anxiety, bullying ….so on.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    I have a video coming up about this. I’ll tag you once it’s done ☺️

  • @cameronwhite6865
    @cameronwhite68652 жыл бұрын

    Great video. I’m a Day Treatment Associate Professional in a clinical facility and I work with kids and do interventions with them. I always wondered how my experience could help as a school counselor since I want to go to Graduate school for it.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    You should definitely look into it. I’m sure many of your skills are transferable and needed in education.☺️

  • @angelasmith594
    @angelasmith5942 жыл бұрын

    I like this video. I wish the music was lower but still I am a fan.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the feedback. It was one of my earlier videos and I’ve since learned how to control the volume on the music. ☺️☺️

  • @diandra6935
    @diandra69353 жыл бұрын

    I live an hour from my school too! Def some time for self care

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I usually listen to podcasts on my drive ☺️

  • @cs0779533

    @cs0779533

    2 жыл бұрын

    I am grateful that I do not live an hour from my job. its just 30 mns.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@cs0779533 yea..sometimes I enjoy the commute because I listen to podcasts. ☺️😂

  • @barbarabartlett9850
    @barbarabartlett98502 жыл бұрын

    Favorite: Get organized early on. And adjust lesson plans for each grade.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes! It’s so important. I still do both to this day ☺️😂

  • @mindfulmovementmethod
    @mindfulmovementmethod4 ай бұрын

    Hi Mr.B! Is the job security something that is a pro or con when it comes to being a school counselor? Thank you!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    4 ай бұрын

    There’s lots of job security depending on where you live and work! It’s a pro because you can leave or retire when you choose!

  • @jellyfishie1
    @jellyfishie12 жыл бұрын

    I never knew the 2 schools I went to had counselors I only need one in my second school because I needed to switch classes (which they didn’t bother to help me with btw) like they never came around to see or talk to any students until senior year to talk about college

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry that was your experience. Mine was very similar which is why I became a counselor.

  • @deannatonn8570
    @deannatonn85702 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for all of these great tips!!!! I'm a substitute teacher starting my masters program this fall for school counseling. This is greatly appreciated and encouraging. I'm also 51 but super excited to take my passion to another level and help others as a counselor. Great job!!!!!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m proud of you for taking the steps to further your career and reach for your goals! Age doesn’t matter! Let me know if you ever need anything. YOU GOT THIS!🎉🎉🎉

  • @deannatonn8570

    @deannatonn8570

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb thank you so much and these days we all need kindness and encouragement ...appreciate it! I'm thankful I work for a very supportive district and love the experience and variety of job placements that I know will help in the future to help teachers ...support staff...and students:) my greatest passion is for the the kids that don't hear a proud voice for not only what they do but who they are becoming.

  • @johnburnett3714

    @johnburnett3714

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@deannatonn8570 yes that’s one of the reasons I became a counselor. I have witnessed students who come from environments where they received only love from school staff. It’s my duty to continue to serve our students, staff, and community!

  • @sarahchapie673

    @sarahchapie673

    2 жыл бұрын

    Congrats on entering the program! I am in my final year of my masters and coming from a healthcare background so I’m really starting from scratch 😄. We will do great things!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@sarahchapie673 that’s awesome Sarah! Let me know if you have questions or need anything!

  • @noratorres611
    @noratorres611 Жыл бұрын

    Setting “boundaries “ and “self care” We’re the best favorite things

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Boundaries and self care are super important 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @maryanninsall8207
    @maryanninsall8207 Жыл бұрын

    May you include a video of what material, study guides, or resources you used to pass the school counselor Texas

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ll research it and make a video. I took the praxis in 2010 😱😂😅

  • @mathematicaleconomist4943

    @mathematicaleconomist4943

    Жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb What sounds harder to your ears? 1. Certified Public Accountant or 2. Masters Degree in Statistics?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mathematicaleconomist4943 not sure 🤔 maybe stats? What do you think?

  • @mathematicaleconomist4943

    @mathematicaleconomist4943

    Жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb I assume the stats sounds harder to most people. You live in the USA. Is that correct?

  • @danie4819
    @danie48192 жыл бұрын

    This position doesn't pay well but it's rewarding. I'm looking into a master program for this

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Honestly it depends on where you live. I make REALLY good money as a counselor living in Texas. ☺️ I do know that some states don’t pay well though.

  • @felicianothorpe8998
    @felicianothorpe89982 жыл бұрын

    Wow a male school counsellor.A big shout out from Jamaica.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi there! Thanks for checking out my channel 👋🏾

  • @DreamBelieveDiscoverExplore
    @DreamBelieveDiscoverExplore2 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. As a school counselor are you a 12 or 10 month employee?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m an 11 month employee because I’m a middle school counselor. We make student schedules in the summer 😊

  • @DreamBelieveDiscoverExplore

    @DreamBelieveDiscoverExplore

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb Ok, thanks. Also how long was your program? I currently have a MS in Clinical social work. I’m looking to transition but don’t want to attend a lengthy program?

  • @pcsolis23
    @pcsolis232 жыл бұрын

    When you become a counselor did the count your years of esperance as a teacher towards your salary,or did you have to start from zero years of experience on the pay scale?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes they counted my years as a teacher and assistant principal but it varies by state I believe. ☺️

  • @kimraniaotakus4579
    @kimraniaotakus45792 жыл бұрын

    Hey I have master psychology school in algeria and want apply for job of counselor in elementary in us Is it normal with algerian certification or must be in us

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Kim! Each state has different rules for out of the country certification. You would have to research the state’s department of education. Hope this helps!

  • @mariefrancelegiste6291
    @mariefrancelegiste6291 Жыл бұрын

    I live the Bahamas and I will be working in public school systems where there are many students and my desire is to wokr with my student s and teachers alike

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    That’s awesome! What grade level would you like to work with?let me know if you have questions☺️

  • @mariefrancelegiste6291

    @mariefrancelegiste6291

    Жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb I would like to work with elementary (primary 1 to 6 grade). In the Bahamas most elementary schools (primary school) starts from grades 1 to 6 but some of our schools have preschool in them. Is there a way to get tips or mentor with you

  • @temitopeadeleke929
    @temitopeadeleke9293 ай бұрын

    Thanks for this sir. How can i chat you privately,i have case presently at hand which i need you to put me through.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    3 ай бұрын

    You can send me a dm on Instagram instagram.com/counselingwithmrb

  • @schllegelesenam7852
    @schllegelesenam78529 ай бұрын

    What is the first thing to do as a school counselor when you report.

  • @bamadevim3552
    @bamadevim35522 жыл бұрын

    Sir i dont have experienced in school counseling, I will get an opportunity to work with students in school, I finished M.Sc psychology and school counseling too also b. Ed finished, can u guide me, how to start

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi! What’s your specific question or concern? ☺️

  • @Jacky22_
    @Jacky22_2 жыл бұрын

    If you get a masters in educational counseling with PPS can I be a counselor in any state?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Every state has different standards. Check with your state’s board of education ☺️

  • @jeezduts
    @jeezduts2 жыл бұрын

    All great advice! It is so much harder to learn student's names when they are wearing masks, I can't tell them apart quickly. Can't wait until it's safe for them to be unmasked again!

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    That is definitely a barrier. 😂 I usually try to find other ways to identify them like their hair color or length ☺️

  • @ashleyman2733
    @ashleyman27332 жыл бұрын

    My counselor submitted my Common App forms weeks late, almost a month. I may not be considered for 10+ schools because of her doing this. What should I do? I am so angry and frustrated.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    I’m sorry to hear that. I’m not familiar with Common App. Are you in high school?

  • @matttttt63
    @matttttt632 жыл бұрын

    I am considering going back to school for a school counseling degree. In your opinion, is the job market good?

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    It really depends on your area but there are lots of vacancies in education right now ☺️

  • @matttttt63

    @matttttt63

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@counselingwithmrb Thank you for your prompt response. Appreciate it.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@matttttt63 no problem! I’m here if you ever have questions.

  • @ebonezar1713
    @ebonezar17132 жыл бұрын

    My favorite part was about utilizing lunch duty to build relationships and ask random questions to casually learn about students.

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    2 жыл бұрын

    Yes I used to hate lunch duty my first year as a counselor. Now I love it! It’s a great way to see the kids in their “natural state.”😂

  • @justbeyourself7075
    @justbeyourself7075 Жыл бұрын

    I want to apply to good level school in UAE for the job of counsellor can u recommend me some

  • @counselingwithmrb

    @counselingwithmrb

    Жыл бұрын

    Check your local job board ☺️ it all depends on your area