I am now 80 years old and when I look over my life I realize that my faith in God and adherence to my deep rooted Christian principles, never wavering from my core beliefs, has ensured my well being all along the way.

@JonathanValdez92

3 ай бұрын

Amen God Bless

@maxless6655

3 ай бұрын

And lots of luck. First you could be born in Central Africa, second you were born in normal family.

@fredstriker2042

3 ай бұрын

Amen brother!

@CATALYSTMACE

3 ай бұрын

I needed to read this, thank you.

@mikemay777

3 ай бұрын

Amen! Amen!

remember a relationship built on the foundation of mutual respect for each other's freedom and individuality is not just strong it's enduring

@StoicAMG

20 күн бұрын

Absolutely! A relationship grounded in mutual respect for each other's freedom and individuality isn't just strong, it's enduring. It allows both partners to grow and thrive while fostering a deeper connection built on trust and understanding.

@adrianrobinson7953

18 күн бұрын

I agree with this!

@stoicdeed

15 күн бұрын

What does stoicism do for you? I really admire and want to learn from you

One must find oneself first before finding others

The 6 points really highlight the importance of maintaining self-respect and balance in relationships, from a Stoic perspective. It's a valuable lesson in not losing oneself while navigating connections. Appreciate the wisdom shared here!

67 and just found out I was stoic

@anubis1949

25 күн бұрын

Lol 😆

I really enjoy learning this stuff. At 80 years old, wish i new it when i was a lot younger!.That kind of stuff was never taught in any schools, that i know of. but with insight, and hind sight, wisdom comes from experence, and age.

@osvaldocaraballo7640

2 ай бұрын

Today why they teach is garbage, kids won't learned anything about life , good behavior respect moral ethics empathy emotions etc etc is really sad

@Krishna-bj1iy

2 ай бұрын

same 100%!

"Do not waste the remaining part of your life in thoughts about others, when you do not refer your thoughts to some aspect of the common good." - Marcus Aurelius

"The Stoic practice of mindfulness has brought greater clarity and peace to my life."

@RicardoMartinez-oh9sq

5 күн бұрын

The issue of resentment is big as in Nietzsche's philosophy.

Please turn off the background music loop - it really distracts from the message! It's unnecessary ...

"The key to happiness is accepting the present moment as it is." - Epictetus

@abelardogreen

3 ай бұрын

Even if you're a slave? I think not.

@mikecarr1378

3 ай бұрын

@@abelardogreen That is your choice...

@marklowe5939

2 ай бұрын

@@abelardogreenI think you’re misunderstanding the statement. The acceptance of the moment doesn’t mean that you’re plotting a static life. In other words you can accept the moment as single point in a trip to freedom and happiness.

I don't necessarily agree with #5. Healthy relationships do sometimes require compromise, but ONLY if your partner reciprocates this. Sometimes you do things for her that you don't care for because it means a lot to her (going to see a play, for example), and she may do something for you in return that means a lot to you, like going to a car show or something.

@user-rh3hn5ci7f

2 ай бұрын

you do not need to compromise if you are doing something with love

Emotional expression.....my key take away! Thanks for this.

Very useful and worth watching!!! Thank you very much for this video!!! 👸🏼💃🏼🙌🏽🙏🏻♥️

A cogent summary of these six core beliefs in a single statement is : avoid marriage. You can't agree to disagree with a sibling from same womb let alone a complete stranger you met because you are looking for double reciprocal incarnations. Even the son of man was wise enough to stay away from women

@DrBesh

3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂. It's to avoid sex in total. The first mistake a man makes is to have sex. Once tasted, he is glued forever and all his actions will be rooted in getting laid effortlessly, this the mad rush to get money and other things money can buy to attract the best among women. One who has side stepped sex or can regulate it so tightly is the one that is free.

Very good information on life, I have spent all my years giving out to others and seeing them waste my time and money. Not no more!

Strong Message! Keep up the good work and stay stoic!

This is deep. Thank you.

Please, future videos, STOP THE BACKGROUNG MUSIC! OMG, it's so distracting from the message.

@JackieLastrada

3 ай бұрын

IKR...At least change keys!!!

Schools should have mandatory stoicism lessons

Thank You For The Stoic Lesson On Relationships it's An Eye Opener😊

This is incredibly powerful. It should be taught in schools, regularly, from a young age. Thank you for putting these points into one clear and concise lesson.

Thank you so much for sharing.

I'm 69 and start learning about this stoic wisdom. Thank you for uploading.

thank you for sharing

Amen! Love this video ty

1..30pm it's all good stuff.think keep coming.❤

Insightful ❤

This is SOLID man! Totally my toxic marriage for 16 years

Thanks, very useful! But please delete the very distracting background music and the message will stand clearer.

The information in this video is just soooooooooooo very deep and very knowledgeable for me … it has already helped me too understand the behavior of someone that I know but that I didn’t understand not until I watch this video for the first time … which is truly amazing! 👀🧐😊💯

Could have used this great advice some years ago. Some good stuff here.

Very informative and insightful. Thanks continue to produce more of these videos. Looking forward for more of them.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

I feel the Scilly n Spanish blood ,so European flavours in an Australian culture have their own battles in what is culture effics ,to my UK side of life it works well in its own way Scottish n Irish being a English place till more multi culture was accepted n became less victims of prejudices ,humour n more accepted has a greater good but the first take it hard n push on n there children more so it pans out n we move on better for it , so we learn to be n to grow in our environment n this apples to these basics of strength and commitment that does attract n give you a like I say very little n it spoke involumes by actions n straight simple words that can be clearer than a detailed description ,I see where I did too much but also others can take you away till u see its for there objective ,a sway in knowing you too well n agree to often ,great influence to be fresh in your body and mind 👍

Thank you

Good one

Fantastic. Amen.

Well said

You had me at #5. I just couldn’t handle the background music.

Thanks.

Men pay attention. This is an excellent video

Wise sayings

Best lesson in life 💪

Thank you.

Good Advice for men and women.

I believe the message would be audible and prominent if you removed the unneccessary background music that keeps playing out

Keep walking towards the light.

Nice one

Self Confidence !!!!! .......... nakas Forever

"Circumstances don't make the man, they only reveal him to himself." - Epictetus How does the Stoic philosophy of focusing on self-mastery and virtue apply to the concept of avoiding actions that compromise personal integrity in relationships?

Good lesson for everyone

Happiness is not something that you get somewhere but it's something that we create for ourselves.

Blessed be so mote be amen

Words to live by

Communication and compromise

LIFE IS GOOD!

Great stoic info but don’t put back ground tracks on? Not good

Heed this advice; or pay the price later. Salutations, from Kensington and Chelsea; in London. 🇬🇧 🤝 🇺🇸

Good morning everyone ❤❤❤❤

Interesting

Be well...

Stoicism offers a profound philosophy of resilience and inner strength, guiding individuals to navigate life's challenges with composure, wisdom, and a focus on what lies within their control.

Par excellence.

"Freedom is the only worthy goal in life. It is won by disregarding things that lie beyond our control." - Epictetus In the context of relationships and personal freedom, how can this stoic insight guide us in establishing boundaries and maintaining our autonomy?

I recently found myself forced into a close living environment when my landlady was an obvious controlling character, who had a sexual attraction towards me. That was a really frightening experience. I got out of there after 2 months. The memories are still haunting me. I got something out of it in the short term, but I think I would have lost my mentality in the long term. As a Sigma male, this was a very disturbing experience.

My ex-wife did not want me to have friends, she was jealous, which in real life means she never loved me. Jealousy is about power and control, not love.

I have daughter granddaughter mother and can this doesnt apply the sacrifices we do for our family . Relationships require compromise but not if they are against your values . All my exes all wanted me compromise by drinking or getting high with rhem but after 21 i decided it wasnt good for me . Compromising to having a dinner that you wasnt your favorite is fine . It doesnt matter .

This advice works for all Adults...including women. Understanding the costly nature of Instinct/Tribalism and the benefits of Reason/Individualism is the goal. "I swear, by my life and my love of it, that I will never live for the sake of another man, nor ask another man to live for mine." - Ayn Rand

Great content and great voice but the music is distributing

Stoicism is an ancient philosophy ? I got to look that up bc this is being referenced on all these videos.

oh sweet irony - a stoic channel using clickbait in desperation for their google paycheque. Channel avoided.

So far atleast the top 10 comments I've read here,, not one person admits to any of these mistakes. I've been with many women in my life,, and about 5 or 6 serious relationships. In those serious relationships I've made most of these mistakes. What I called "not understanding women" was really me making these mistakes at one time another within the serious relationships that failed. My number one mistake that's not on this list is putting my faith in my lord first. And setting boundaries around them understanding and or being a believer in the same faith as myself. I admit I've made these mistakes on this thrope. This taught me it's me not them.

I am trying to help a homeless woman who seems content to remain homeless. I am not going to help anymore after over a year unless she decides to come to a shelter, which so far, she would rather sleep at the City's bus stop benches. Tks. much.

Lose the background music loop - it distracts from the message

For those of you who are Americans, these lessons are tricky because we live in a philosophically atomistic society. Atomistic means that each and everyone of us is an isolated atom: This is the American sense of freedom. Other Western societies are more cohesive because they are not atomistic, even in Europe. The lesson for us Americans to learn is that being selfish is not a virtue, least of all greed is good. We need to reinvent Capitalism under entirely different values or it will die.

Have you ever thought that if each partner will not step forward to meet one another’s needs ,,, the string that hold the relationship will get most tension and eventually that string of relationships will break ,, Relationship is about give and take,,, both party have to come to term of commitment,,, then work toward of being together happily,,,

@tallcedars2310

3 ай бұрын

Yes, these videos are designed to train brains to one mind globally. No more individualism, eventually.

@naowaratmarshall2154

3 ай бұрын

@@tallcedars2310 then single life will be as you wish 😉,,,

Apt!

what ai program/s do you use to make these?

@martincroker490

3 ай бұрын

I'd like to know that too.

I am a man, on the 60's. As long as can evaluate, an happy guy. Women!!! That always had been a big issue for me. Forget Philosophy: Biology takes care of oneself.

Been there done that that why i am single now !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

slow and sure

😂👍🏻

reign

Thank you thank I wish I'd known this all a long time ago I was married twice both of them I'm a Christian woman if I run into another Christian woman😊 Christian woman everybody wants to play the I wanted to so many women want to play the Jesus want to play the I want to tell me who I can be with and where I can go and what and my last wife I was so glad to get rid of her I was going to pay to go away but I learned through all of that I'm a better man now no woman can play me or tell or tell me what to do and what friends in what I look at my friends my friends been with me from the beginning and I do have some good go Once we separated and divorced I end up winning the lottery and wanted if my word are my words I can't help you😂

Independents vs co-dependents

6:48 "..ensuring that neither is given unchecked..." REIGN. As in governing or dominating power. like A KING (e.g. REX) would do/have (sovereign, governor, dominator, etc = REGNATOR, from which we get the word 'reign'.) I like unchecked rain. Sudden showers can be a blessing that equalizes everyone, particularly in warm weather. Maybe not acid rain, though. I guess that should be checked. ^^ j/k like the vid. But please consider using grammarly or something to run your future texts.

It means we are all "great pretender"..

what's up with the sudden accent in the end? XD

@addemoss7684

3 ай бұрын

yea that threw me off, i was having some goose bumps and then the AI messed up the text to speech, moment ruined

Weak people are going to be weak, there isn't anything you can say to them to be different. they usually know it. I had a friend that didn't get a lot of female attention and when he did he was used. he knew it and there's nothing I could say to him to be different. some girls that used him should be in jail. that was the first time I realized you cannot change that person or the situation its just going to happen

No more for me.. I had enough of woman's lip..😮I sorry but, I've been there four times already... And, I'm done ✅😢

You can never be independent inside a relationship as independent is seperate which is the opposite basis of relationship two that join and work together. Together is never independent

@edgardovillacorte7012

3 ай бұрын

Yes that's true. So the best advice is DONT GET MARRIED😊

I've come to know this girl for 4years,and now she seems that it's time she wants a relationship with me but as for me will she be able to accept me as i love to be alone.She works in the F&B and has lots of male friends but she had told me that's its her job to have a close relationship and should not be jealous. I replied that we are not in a relationship so it's alright & so it has been 4 years and now she's making a move and asked me but my response was it's good that we are best of friends and my preference is maybe in the future as time goes along who knows but she responded we might be older by then where women features becomes like an old oak tree.My response was who knows what will happen as only true love will prevail and love never dies.

@KingStoic101

2 ай бұрын

Your comment displays a thoughtful consideration of the situation and communicates your feelings clearly It's important to acknowledge her perspective while also expressing your own boundaries and preferences How do you envision navigating the balance between maintaining your independence and potentially exploring a deeper connection with someone who values close relationships differently?

That's I believe in god ever day all day

...In my humble opinion "6 Things MEN should NEVER do for WOMEN" would have been a more appropriate title for this video...

NEVER pee in her face😐

I suspect that everything in these videos, including pictures, text and voice, is generated by AI

@Hansblinkers

3 ай бұрын

All the stoic videos on here are AI generated

@user-jx7cv2td4y

3 ай бұрын

​@@Hansblinkers So AI is telling us how to live now

@dusengejmv250

3 ай бұрын

yeah you said it yourself that you suspect it to mean you're not sure thus do not criticize without fact

@HighhPlainsDrifter

3 ай бұрын

​@dusengejmv250 ...but he's NOT criticizing it, but simply saying that this is likely AI generated!😮😮😅....& it IS!😂...But it doesn't matter because it's only the computer repeating what a real human has analyzed & has programed the computer to repeat.😁😉

@HighhPlainsDrifter

3 ай бұрын

​​@@user-jx7cv2td4yOnly indirectly...AI is repeating what an intelligent person(s) has determined/analyzed what Stoics believe. So relax, the advice is real & quite good.😮😅

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Being a woman, these are good rules for everyone, both male and female. The part of this I would like those men who practice Stoicism to reexamine noted in this video is the piece about emotion. Stoicism practice in its true form does not include being devoid of emotion or ignoring emotion, it is the healthy expression of emotion through clear communication. Men have historically been taught that if they are “real men”, they are “STOIC”; showing little in the way of emotion. This is not healthy for the man himself or the relationship. Conversely a male or female in a relationship should not vomit their emotions onto another in order to seek attention or control.

To uphold women's independence and autonomy, never engage in these 6 actions.

NEVER do this for a man either.

@off-the-record6613

3 ай бұрын

Hahahahahaha….get your own material …..

@phantasma669

3 ай бұрын

how stupid this title is

@aarone9000

22 күн бұрын

HEY! Let's not get crazy!

Same applies to women.