6 Factors That Contribute To The TOXICITY In a Rebound Relationship
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Rebound relationships, which occur when someone enters a New Romantic relationship shortly after a breakup, always turn toxic due to several factors:
00:00 INTRODUCTION
1:17 1. Speeding Up The Relationship
In a rebound relationship, the partners getting into the relationship before they are getting to know each other.
2:50 2. Emotional Vulnerability
Individuals who jump into rebound relationships still processing emotions from their previous relationship.
They are seeking distraction or validation to cope with feelings of loneliness, rejection, or low self-esteem.
This emotional vulnerability lead them to overlook red flags or settle for partners who aren't compatible in the long term.
4:35 3. Unresolved Issues
Without sufficient time for self-reflection and healing, people in rebound relationships carries unresolved emotional baggage from their previous relationship into the new one.
These unresolved issues manifests as communication problems, trust issues, or unresolved conflicts, creating a breeding ground for toxicity.
7:31 4. Comparisons and Expectations
Individuals in rebound relationships unconsciously compare their new partner to their ex or have unrealistic expectations for the new relationship to fill the void left by the previous one.
This creates pressure on the new partner and lead to feelings of inadequacy, resentment, or frustration, ultimately contributing to toxicity in the relationship.
9:33 5. Lack of Boundaries
Rebound relationships often progress quickly, with partners rushing into intimacy or commitment without establishing healthy boundaries or getting to know each other deeply.
This lack of boundaries results in codependent behavior, emotional dependency, or a sense of suffocation, leading to toxicity in the relationship.
11:34 6. Escapism and Avoidance
Some individuals use rebound relationships as a way to avoid facing their emotions or dealing with the pain of their previous breakup.
However, unresolved issues and emotions have a way of resurfacing over time, potentially fueling conflict, manipulation, or passive-aggressive behavior in the new relationship.
14:54 Conclusion
To avoid the toxicity often associated with rebound relationships, it's essential for individuals to prioritize self-care, healing, and introspection after a breakup.
Taking time to process emotions, reflect on past relationships, and establish personal boundaries can set the foundation for healthier future connections.
Additionally, seeking professional support which can provide valuable perspective and guidance during this transitional period.
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Just sit back guys, relax, we're all in a similar position. It might not happen next month or even this year... But one day the rebound will backfire and we'll all be there laughing at the karma of betrayal
@Frank-qq7vu
2 ай бұрын
And please just smile at the social media posts... Trust me, they're fake
@ruthramirez7217
2 ай бұрын
😢
@rosemariefelgenhauer6957
2 ай бұрын
Can't wait for it..
@rosemariefelgenhauer6957
2 ай бұрын
They looked so happy and looks like they walking on the sunset.. ya.. he's so happy bec he found younger Lady. They're moving forward 11/2 yrs. Now...
@mattlu5493
2 ай бұрын
Hell yeah 😂
God damn, i dated a girl who got out of a 6 year relationship and was engaged. At first she promised me she didnt had any more feelings towards her ex and she showed signs of speeding the dating process, cried everytime i told her we should take things slowly. i ended up giving her the relationship because i thought our plans aligned soon after i felt i wasnt being nourished the same way i was pouring into her this led to alot of conflicts and i ended up walking away. but i felt used and emotionally abused all the time with the gaslight, took me 6 months to see for what it was and even pointed the facts to her which she showed me she didnt care about how i felt. Now im dealing with so much emotional turmoil within myself since i had to endure everything in the relationship and did so much to get her to a better place. We are not even friends anymore and im blocked which makes me think that everything was fake. i take full responsability for allowing this person into my life
Unhealthy people fast jump in relationship by not knowing each other and learning about each other.
The point you made about rebounders NEEDING the relationship and not WANTING it made sooooo much sense...this is a very nuanced point that not many people speak about in their videos..thank you for taking the time to make videos that are not just fishing for views but are actually very informative :)
My ex monkey branched into a new relationship and they got engaged before we were even divorced.. a friend told me once: Look at it this way- he is still married and is already asking someone else to marry him - that’s messed up” This really opened my eyes and actually helped my healing process …. All I can say is this - step back and focus on yourself and find the strength to live alone for a bit - it makes all the difference in the world… like Paz said: Pray for them but move on
@LorenaBerrenbaum
2 ай бұрын
Be happy he is now someone else problems
My ex FA monkey branched into a relationship with a victim of narcissistic abuse to "see where it goes ". My oh my, what a combination!
@Flufero23
2 ай бұрын
I moved on immediately, but it has taken me nine months to heal. I am focusing on myself now, and don't even have the time or interest in dating or getting into a new relationship. I have no idea what my ex is doing, and I don't care.
@ibrahimabdo9700
16 күн бұрын
@@Flufero23 why are you watching these videos then ?
When your discernment increases, so does your ability to spot all of those red flags in a connection.. ❤
Omg your doggo was the cherry on top 🥹
My ex and I dated for 4 years. Developed a strong bond, went through a lot of stressful life events together. So it was a tested relationship. We both still loved each other but she thinks things will be better if she jumps ship. She started dating a guy the same week we broke up who was a family friend. 4 months later they are engaged and 3 months after that will be married. So in 7 months they got engaged and will be married. While I'm 5 months out and can't even go on a date! She had called me on the phone a couple times during her dating this guy. And even a month ago called me and cried and told me she missed me. A month later she was engaged. I can't even wrap my brain around how fast this happened while I'm still trying to heal and still love her. I was going to marry her. Had an engagement ring for her but she left before I could give it to her. She found out I had it but didn't come back. Instead stayed with this guy. And this guy has had a rocky history his whole life. She settled on the first guy who would give her a ring. And this guy is just a dumb to date a girl who literally just got out of a 4 yr relationship the same week!
@Champman543
2 ай бұрын
Sounds very painful. I hope you can slowly process it. But exactly why did she breakup? She seems emotionally weak if she starts dating and even engaging another man, right after the breakup. She doesn't want to feel the grieve or maybe she lost feelings long before and was probably planing it(breakup) months before. My fiancé left me after 7 years, started dating again after 3 weeks. Had to tell me this, to make it "easier" for me to let her go, her words. Told me she has no time to grieve and wants to be happy and feeled loved again and if she sees a future with this guy, marry and have children(always her dream). After reflecting on my relationship, i have to be honest and say it was probably over a long time ago, before the actual breakup. Still i went to hell. Breakup became very nasty. A lot of guilt tripping and blaming... Nonetheless, stay strong bro💪
@Sevoflurane2014
2 ай бұрын
@@Champman543 similar to me man. Said she wanted to start over, fall in love and start her own family. I had 2 kids already. She wanted a fresh start. But we had a lot of stress from my ex wife and kids but nothing that couldn't be worked out. She just gave up. We were tested. Went through a lot. She gave up. I didn't. I was willing to do therapy or anything. She wasn't. So I'm starting over at 48. Sucks. Hard to deal with knowing I'll never see her again, talk to her, hug her, kiss her... Ever again while on this earth. That she was able to just leave me and jump to the first guy and marry him. She settled. Plain and simple. They are still in the honeymoon phase. Making decisions without being actually tested. Huge gamble because this guy has never had healthy relationship. So they are rolling the dice.
@ajimadnan
Ай бұрын
I hope you’re going to meet a new person who truly appreciate you no matter what.
@Sevoflurane2014
Ай бұрын
@@ajimadnan thank you. I appreciate it. I have since found out she was cheating on me in the 4 years and keeping her ex boyfriend on the hook just as backup
@ajimadnan
Ай бұрын
@@Sevoflurane2014 we’re in this battle together. I was with someone for 10 years. Not long after she said she found someone else that can fulfill her needs. Let’s stay strong.
Your English is great,,your videos are a big help
My ex left me a month and half ago and shes in a rebound relationship now yesterday she posted on her story " that weird shit don't surprise me no more i just be like damn you one of them too." Lol
Very good and practical content Mr. Goldman!
@robertwere8113
17 күн бұрын
❤❤❤This is the best video on Utube about rebound relationships. Keep up the good work Coach Paz😊
Love the analogy
@PazGoldmanOfficial
2 ай бұрын
Thank you for letting me know! More is coming ;)
Love it
@PazGoldmanOfficial
2 ай бұрын
Thank you my friend!!! 🙏🏽
I can’t tell if she’s in a rebound. The guy works with her. She was still texting me over the last few months. Even when I found out she’s text me and sent me a pic of herself showing me an injury to her stomach I’ve just ignored it - not sure if it’s a rebound because we broke up a year ago but she just didn’t stop texting me
What if my ex bounced between me and a rebound four times and still returned to him ? 3 months has passed since last time she returned.
What if they were cheating and left me for him.
My Ex monkey branched into a long distance relationship because wasnt ready to move in with him yet.
@PazGoldmanOfficial
Ай бұрын
Watch this to see how his relationship is going to fail… 14 Reasons WHY Monkey Branching Relationships ALWAYS FAIL! kzread.info/dash/bejne/jIan27qJgrmfm5M.html
@honeymw6972
Ай бұрын
@@PazGoldmanOfficial i ve allready seen it and I agree. Just wondering if a long distance relationship monkey branch will end sooner or maybe later as they dont have an everyday life.
What is the time frame after the breakup that it’s usually considered a rebound?
@dianacrafts5660
2 ай бұрын
One to three months
And when it happens, they can't live with the depth of their failure, and where does that bring them? Back to me.(Us who have been dealt the hurr and pain)
@PazGoldmanOfficial
Ай бұрын
Yes my friend! That’s exactly right !!!
@PazGoldmanOfficial
Ай бұрын
But hopefully you’re smart enough NOT TAKING THEM BACK!
@senatorarmstrong9459
Ай бұрын
@@PazGoldmanOfficial that is the real question,hasn't happened yet, she's too busy in her bs with her new fiance(less than a year in a relationship and engaged) moving awfully quickly is a recipe for a total meltdown.
What about if it was someone they have known for a long time as a family friend? But they werent close friends and never hung out or anything. They knew each other as kids. The families think its awesome and think its a fairytale or something.
@dianacrafts5660
2 ай бұрын
Still won't work, knowing someone you haven't dated is not knowing them
@Sevoflurane2014
2 ай бұрын
@@dianacrafts5660 they got engaged in 4 months and will be married in 3 months. So within 7 months will be engaged and married. Insane
@dianacrafts5660
2 ай бұрын
That's too fast
What if my ex is dating a friend of ours straight after our breakup. She always said there was nothing. I'm very sure she never cheated, but it sounds like monkey branching..
Is it still rebound relationship if she goes back to her ex?
@EEMonesE1
2 ай бұрын
That means you were the rebound.
@jeremiahrod363
2 ай бұрын
You were the rebound
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2 ай бұрын
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