58. Burn Your Toast, Don't Be a Frozen Pizza & Other Lessons We Learned From Our 20s

Ойын-сауық

This week, Deepti and Natalie explore the latest half-baked internet theories and offer some sage advice to their younger selves. Join them as they navigate the differences between men and women, and share their (conflicted) anticipation for the upcoming season of Perfect Match. Plus, tune in to hear Natalie give Deepti the lowdown on her latest dating escapade with a Harvard grad.

Пікірлер: 70

  • @TygraxDraws
    @TygraxDrawsАй бұрын

    You two have officially become my morning podcast. I see your video pop up and start my day 😁

  • @EshaChauhan
    @EshaChauhanАй бұрын

    I so needed this podcast today. I’ve had such a shitty week, and this conversation just made me smile. So thank you!

  • @silviflores3714
    @silviflores3714Ай бұрын

    You girls are so honest, funny and unpretentious!! ❤ Had me laughing out loud with the this episode. Watching you from Brisbane, Australia 🦘🇦🇺

  • @simplayssstwitch
    @simplayssstwitchАй бұрын

    what deepti said, dont go for the first guy that gives you attention. my first relationship was when i was 15, we were together for 4.5 years. the last 6 months he was cheating on me in many ways. it was easy to get the ick and get over him as i had no attraction to him what so ever, but i wouldnt admit that to myself as i kept telling myself i love him. i was a very caring gf. when he went abroad i would deep clean his family home. i even added some new shelves and organised his wardrobe for him. it was a very pg relationship as i kept saying 'wasnt ready', but the issue was that he was unattractive and a bum of a person. he still appears in my nightmares sometimes as he tried to contact my mum to get to me once, and he was telling her that he still loves me and is very sorry. i didnt respond and i got my mum to block him too. i never want to see his face again

  • @TheEmilyMonster
    @TheEmilyMonsterАй бұрын

    Deepti looks cute with this hairstyle

  • @raeraemillstone

    @raeraemillstone

    Ай бұрын

    Couldn't agree more!!❤

  • @holyhiphopper

    @holyhiphopper

    Ай бұрын

    Yes! I was noticing her pink top and glowy pink cheeks are 👌🏻🌸

  • @dkkk1111
    @dkkk1111Ай бұрын

    I swear I can listen to you both for hours. You're both so funny and random 😂😂😂

  • @103bribri
    @103bribriАй бұрын

    I listened to several podcasts while doing errands and just want to say that you two are gems. Love the authenticity. Keep being you, it’s enjoyable

  • @mollymc
    @mollymcАй бұрын

    Other people's customer service voice is Natalie's McDonalds ordering voice 😂 🍟

  • @82Ruth
    @82RuthАй бұрын

    You ladies had me laughing out loud at work when talking about the "Juicy" pants 😂

  • @monicasangco5887
    @monicasangco5887Ай бұрын

    as a flute girlie myself I LOL'd at the flute impression we dub nat honorary flute girlie

  • @charlenedelange3934
    @charlenedelange3934Ай бұрын

    Yes! I was hoping to listen to something great and here you popped up keep up the great work!

  • @pixieinx
    @pixieinxАй бұрын

    “Can you afford this or are you in debt” I need this as a sticker, credit card sticker specifically lol

  • @The-Wrights
    @The-WrightsАй бұрын

    I am very happily married, but my past was extremely traumatic. I wish I had learned the frozen pizza theory in my teens! Even being married I will still employ this with my husband and all other relationships. ❤

  • @GCzene
    @GCzeneАй бұрын

    I went to Cal and my daughter went to Harvard and I try never to bring it up. However, when it does, it always feels like a humble brag. BTW, I also dislike braggers. In my day (30 years ago) it was the guys who used $100 bills to pay. Ick! Next!

  • @tatumward13
    @tatumward13Ай бұрын

    Deepti making a Gilmore Girls reference is so good ❤❤❤

  • @emitouzumaki2822
    @emitouzumaki2822Ай бұрын

    Hi! i also have adult acne! i typically get blackheads and general skin irritation. What helped me the most was using less products, cutting out dairy and gluten, and breaking up with the stinky man that caused me to break out from stress and dirty skin

  • @g.d.2059
    @g.d.2059Ай бұрын

    40 here, and I never stopped having acne! It's horrible. Especially when my period is coming... I was lied to when I was told it will go away when I get older. I had terrible acne as a teen. I use moisturizer, I tone, cleanse, I use masks. I eat well enough like everyone else. I have good skin weeks and then bam, hello.

  • @raeraemillstone

    @raeraemillstone

    Ай бұрын

    Same until I started tretinoin gel!!

  • @Prof_Loredana

    @Prof_Loredana

    Ай бұрын

    Have you tried Biologique Recherche P50? Life changing for me and all my friends!

  • @tyan0509
    @tyan0509Ай бұрын

    Love this episodes!

  • @racheljane_
    @racheljane_Ай бұрын

    42:52 My best friend’s favourite McDonald’s meal is also a filet o’ fish. I have never had one to this day. But every time we would be out driving together she would pull into that drive through and get a filet o’ fish with extra tartar sauce. 😂

  • @GrowingPang
    @GrowingPangАй бұрын

    I too get turned off by men who likes to show off or boasts about themselves!! Been there done that! Like, show (not tell) me you can be kind and humble.

  • @loveeeyari2582
    @loveeeyari2582Ай бұрын

    I HAVE to agree with Natalie I loveeeee the Filet-O-Fish from McDonald’s I tried it for the very first time this year and I had to stop myself from getting it every week lol

  • @angelicamaloney3802
    @angelicamaloney3802Ай бұрын

    I love this episode 😢

  • @tammy7093
    @tammy7093Ай бұрын

    You two are like my only friends not that you’re actually my friends but it feels like you are and I know if we knew each other in real life we would be instant friends cuz you both are so genuine, sweet, and down to earth. So much respect for you girlies❤

  • @Adri7gT
    @Adri7gTАй бұрын

    No no no no I can't with this episode, I laughed too hard!

  • @MaiLeHomeStudio
    @MaiLeHomeStudioАй бұрын

    This s first time I really heard their ad. The first one I think I heard Natalie almost.. laughed😂

  • @ashenal
    @ashenalАй бұрын

    Best comedy duo 😂

  • @aggienatl
    @aggienatlАй бұрын

    Nah, Natalie. That Harvard guy was a narc. He was supposed to laugh not turn the tables and put you on the defensive. Smh

  • @alexandraschorndorf4704
    @alexandraschorndorf4704Ай бұрын

    Natalie I've been there with hormonal acne (peeling and all!) and its incredibly frustrating. I've tried so many different topicals, diets etc over the years. Everyone's different, of course, but the one thing that has completely cleared my skin is Spironolactone - ask your dermatologist/doctor about it.

  • @sjjws
    @sjjwsАй бұрын

    Lol, now i want a filet o fish. I definitely am a people pleaser, too. It's hard to break this habit, but am doing much better.

  • @Carmendot2
    @Carmendot2Ай бұрын

    9:32 idk, I “show off” that I’m in uni and it’s a local uni and I’m in year 6 of 4 lol. I am not the same type of proud I was in year 2/4, but it’s here.

  • @neha2828
    @neha2828Ай бұрын

    My husband is the opposite. He has a PhD from an ivy league school and when he introduces himself he’ll just say he is an electrical engineer!

  • @neuman_adventures
    @neuman_adventuresАй бұрын

    Enjoy the process? Please tell me how you got your corporate jobs, like, what was your GPA that got those jobs, did you apply or know someone, what was on your resume that made you stand out? I've been looking for a job and I can't enjoy any process without money.

  • @margaretfk
    @margaretfkАй бұрын

    My uncle used to buy a filet o fish for his dog

  • @chaseacheck727
    @chaseacheck727Ай бұрын

    “can you afford this or are you in debt?” LMFAOOOO😭😭😭😭

  • @ashenal
    @ashenalАй бұрын

    As a woman (also asian) in my early 30s I relate to you everything you say so hard and you crack me up 😂

  • @jacquelinehell8617
    @jacquelinehell8617Ай бұрын

    I was just thinking about your burnt toast theory... A few days ago, I didn’t want to take my daughter to soccer, I wanted to sleep in, but I pushed myself out of bed and got ready and took her. well... I never made it there... as a very pregnant lady rear ended me on the way there. So maybe the universe was stopping something worse from happening to me if I actually made it to my destination? I just googled to see what the news was that day for the city I was on my way to, and found that 1. There was a bear on the loose, and 2. An increase in drive by shootings 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @katiealbers9694
    @katiealbers9694Ай бұрын

    Am I the odd one? I have soooo many hobbies and there are so many more things I want to learn and do.

  • @holyhiphopper
    @holyhiphopperАй бұрын

    LOL @ my style’s rotting 😂🤣😅

  • @KK-ew2qr
    @KK-ew2qrАй бұрын

    Keep saying the intro people like consistency with branding ❤

  • @marymulderry
    @marymulderryАй бұрын

    Girls, we're girlcotting McDonald's, c'mon!!!

  • @CookieDou_gh

    @CookieDou_gh

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah...I get that people have a choice to boycott or not (and also show support or disagreement via other means), but as influencers with reach, they need to take more care and sensitivity in how they bring up brands/labels that are associated with gen.o.c.ide on their public platforms. I saw they had an IG poll about the McD fillet o fish, but it was quickly taken down/deleted. Perhaps people also made similar comments in response. We love you Nat and Deepti, so these comments come from a place of support for the work that you both put on the podcast.

  • @eeshakhan1842

    @eeshakhan1842

    Ай бұрын

    And starbucks. Free Palestine 🇵🇸

  • @Prof_Loredana
    @Prof_LoredanaАй бұрын

    19:27 have you considered watching Married at First Sight?

  • @maryn9167
    @maryn9167Ай бұрын

    Deepti what happened to the arranged marriage situation 😊

  • @BayleeBarnett
    @BayleeBarnettАй бұрын

    mcdonalds boycott tho ☹️

  • @chinadoll688
    @chinadoll688Ай бұрын

    I’m going to get a filet o fish now 😂

  • @kalikayy
    @kalikayyАй бұрын

  • @raeraemillstone
    @raeraemillstoneАй бұрын

    Not me realizing ive been a frozen pizza😢😂

  • @KiwifromOhio
    @KiwifromOhioАй бұрын

    Double filet o fish from McDonald’s

  • @NoraHyde21
    @NoraHyde21Ай бұрын

    My leak happened playing flag football in gym

  • @lauwerz
    @lauwerzАй бұрын

    First.... Didnt have any other reason to comment this early but just wanted to be first lol

  • @thobilembuli8571
    @thobilembuli8571Ай бұрын

    Yuh huh-uh Natalie. Whichever man you were with that was popping themselves is double redflag. There is absolutely no way. That man has something to disclose to you honestly. Who else are they sleeping with?

  • @estephanydavalos1354
    @estephanydavalos1354Ай бұрын

    Wait I'm confused what is wrong with being proud of going to Harvard? I know, I would be so very proud of that accomplishment. Maybe he was done talking about family and wanted to move on to another subject. Also he asked you where did you go to college? It's not like he out of no where said "Hey! I went to Harvard." I'm not trying to be rude, I just wouldn't want you Nataly to miss out on a nice person over something like this in the future.

  • @g.d.2059

    @g.d.2059

    Ай бұрын

    You didn't get it. Nothing is wrong with it, and she was joking about it, but he turned on her bad. You watch this podcast, you know her humor. If he was such a good lawyer, he should have recovered better and not took so much offense.

  • @VeggiesbyEos
    @VeggiesbyEosАй бұрын

    Niagara falls LOL

  • @aricufl2214
    @aricufl2214Ай бұрын

    I kind of disagree with both of you about the Harvard ordeal. The guy is proud about something (as he should be, because graduating from Harvard law is a great accomplishment) and maybe the way in he said it was off, but saying it making it sound less important would have been even worse in my opinion. I also believe Natalie’s reaction was funny, but also kind of petty (trying to tell the guy to take it as a lesson) especially since he was asking her about herself and the conversation was great before. It would have been awesome if she approached his banter with curiosity and playfulness instead of a judgmental attitude that throws off any guy. Honestly, would she rather date an underdog or a guy with a sheepish attitude?

  • @g.d.2059

    @g.d.2059

    Ай бұрын

    He also did poorly and did not flow with her and took it too personally. Not a good match.

  • @precioussimoneinspires

    @precioussimoneinspires

    Ай бұрын

    I agree there was so many ways + directions that conversation should have and could have gone. It’s okay for people to show you yourself. She was being petty! I don’t think he was trying to “brag.” Yes it matters because I was a D1 athlete there is nothing wrong with that! He wasn’t even given the chance to tell you more about it! She led with “I’ve been with guys like that” well this is your first date and he’s not them! We don’t give the healed versions of ourselves a chance! We always move from our wounds and not our scars! We move from trauma and not from better places! • I wasn’t there so I can’t say what she should or shouldn’t feel but my thing is the friend would have never said they would be a good match if she didn’t see something genuine in him and or her! Maybe Natalie is the problem. I have had nothing but love her and rooted for her through all things Love is Blind and even now. My thing is quick acting like we all don’t have blind spots. Take responsibility for our own actions and quit trying to teach a lesson to someone you just met. Learn the lesson yourself and be more curious, open-minded, ask questions. That’s just my two cents!

  • @Alyson542

    @Alyson542

    Ай бұрын

    I dont disagree with Natalie's reaction, but what really gave the ick is how defensive he got afterwards when she was clearly poking fun. Seems like his ego really took a hit 😂

  • @precioussimoneinspires

    @precioussimoneinspires

    Ай бұрын

    @@g.d.2059not a good match and they still don’t know each other so who’s to say he was right or wrong. We wasn’t there and don’t know how he made her feel. You have to be willing to read the room. She was petty out of her previous experiences. Just saying. But I do hear you!

  • @precioussimoneinspires

    @precioussimoneinspires

    Ай бұрын

    @@g.d.2059we all have blind spots. She had to see it from his perspective and vice versa.

  • @Alyson542
    @Alyson54227 күн бұрын

    Harvard guy doesn't know what pretentious means 😂 maybe he meant presumptuous

  • @biancadiangelo1399
    @biancadiangelo1399Ай бұрын

    I usually agree with you Natalie, but you were in the wrong on your date 🤷‍♀️ going to Harvard Law is a MAJOR accomplishment that not everyone can achieve, and people who do, do have the right to brag about it. To diminish it and say “let it go” because it’s been years is pretty clownish.

Келесі