As a trans gay boy I think this video changed my life ❤️ thank you

@Dylan-ig2ez

3 жыл бұрын

@You TubeAccount i transitioned two years ago, when i wrote that comment, and i couldnt be happier ;) and yes that comment was a bit overdramatic but still, here i am

I've had so many gay men saying shit like 'You'll never be a REAL man', to me. Also watch out for partially closeted bi-curious guys dating you, and saying 'He's trans, so I'm not really into guys'.

@jaydxn

3 жыл бұрын

@kia I don't remember asking love

@squeaktheswan2007

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaydxn Jay, is everything okay? What happened?

@squeaktheswan2007

3 жыл бұрын

@kia Kia, what's going on?

@jaydxn

3 жыл бұрын

@@squeaktheswan2007 Yeah lol it was just some transphobe saying that being a trans man and liking men is homophobic or some dumbass thing like that. Kia I believe was agreeing with the "not a real man" quote.

@squeaktheswan2007

3 жыл бұрын

@@jaydxn Oh, sorry bro. If you're a man to you, then you're a man to us too. Don't worry.

I’m jealous of your hair

I am a transguy, bi , this is a great video!

Thank you so much for this video. I'd say its given me some relief. Seems like for many it helps heal some of the hurt & invalidation, to not feel so alone, misunderstood & invalidated. This video has also inspired me to stand up for those in the community... Including myself. Thank you for this empowering and realisticly informative message. -much love & inner peace to you brother.

I am constantly missgendered by my family and it makes me feel like shit :/

You're too funny! I'm trying to educate myself in the best way possible, everybody should feel comfortable around other people :)

I've been questioning stuff recently and I'm digging your channel! You have so much charisma.

As a trans gay dude, it's tough for me to find men who would actually accept me as a man. And that's what hurts the most, some of them don't see us as men...

@Magnocalabro

8 ай бұрын

They see you as a man. They don't see you as a biological male. Most gay men are same-sex attracted, not same-gender attracted. It is how sexuality works for many of us. Plus, people who date trans exist. They are called pansexuals. Go find one.

Well I don't understand whey people can't just be peoplle and love who they want. As long as your partner and you have a loving relationshio, what you DO in NOBODYS business. I am so sorry you guys get it from every angle.I think people should mind there own business and keep their mouth shut.

Thank you for telling the truth! I know this video is old, but very applicable even today

Good, informative video and the guy is a cutie too!

This was a very good video and you are friggan adorable and i want to hug you.

I had a boyfriend before who was gay transgender. I never asked anything I just fell in love and he was the one having some problems with himself coz he always dated girls before me. For me I was dating a man and he was good enough for me. I gave space and tried to help but what a pitty he was always so defensive or felt maybe less masculine just for my existence around him but it was all in his head in fact he was overly masculine in certain situations more than necessary, I thought it was cute to see my bf being so manly it is sexy to see but I think he was in that miserable loop of trying to prove a point :( he was so worried about people's opinion that he wasnt living his true self... we all have female and male energy just embrace it and fuck the world. It is horrible to live in your head trying to please the world for validation. Well I am great and proud to be a man who was born with a penis and like a man and I dont give a flying fuck if I dont meet people's expectations or f*validation. In fact I am more a man than many straight man out there coz I am loyal and respectful and I stand by my words as a man should do. Sometimes I assume transgenders who identify as man over think masculinity and eventually pick the wrong examples of jerk-dudes to be a real man,this might misconcept in their head and they might overly think about their male appearance or genital or whatever. I wish he tried to heal that part while we were in love but he preferred to push me away and get locked up in his ego and defensive mode still pleasing girls and straight environments to seek for validation. For me I loved him for the whole beautiful package soul and connection we had and I was 100% proud to put a ring on his finger and make him my husband. Lesson learnt, if we dont face our demons and own wounds or open up to be true to us and our loved one we will be stuck in a loop of toxicity and unhappiness. We are men or weman or whatever we want to be first in our hearts accepting our true self... nothing outside validate this once you concrete that you must love yourself for who you really became in this rough journey so far. It is the special unique cherry on top of the cake :)

@octabodemes

3 жыл бұрын

Honestly you sound like such a keeper! It is true that many trans men struggle with our own issues and I hope the best for your ex partner. But it is reassuring for me that there are guys out there like you who can be respectful and kind towards a partner who is a trans man so thank you for this!

I want a hair like u and that masculine jawline 🥺

I grew up around the gay community as a kid. before I came out as bi and trans I knew that every person I meet I must be careful around based on personal experiences. And I was fortunate to know the lgbt community wasn't what tumblr etc. portrayed it to be. Losing your innocence can be a good thing. But luckily many LGBT folks are accepting & treat trans folks normally & with respect. Things are getting better

This is such good information

I'm not a gay guy or a trans man but this was really insightful

You are handsome bloke!

Spot on!

Thank you

You are absolutely gorgeous omg :3

I'm in LOVE REEEEEEE333333

Nice video

fabulous

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

You are so handsome!

Don't leave the sisterhood

I am a trans guy and pan tooo.....

In love its all good

Im so confused but not really ?

You're very handsome!

Oof. I had a mustache at 9 years old. O-o Edit: still watching the video- hehe my grandparents are dead rip. Yeah the died..... very sad 😢

This person detransitioned...oh.

Not part of the gay community. Thanks for asking.

I’m a trump supporter and trans and my own family can’t accept I’m a trans guy only my wife family accept me

Wait wait wait hold on a gay trans guy??🧐 I’m sooooooooo confused 🤯

@Gibbon420

3 жыл бұрын

it means A trans man who is romantically and/or sexually attracted to men.

@katarinam517

2 жыл бұрын

Gay trans guy = Straight woman

You're a transgirl?

@maybe.yellow

3 жыл бұрын

No, he's a trans guy. Born female but transitioned into a man.

a gay trans guy is a lesbian not a guy

@TheMentalLizard

4 жыл бұрын

No a gay trans guy is a guy who likes guys. You're not very smart... I pity you.

@Gibbon420

3 жыл бұрын

trans guy = man gay = men who like men so a trans man who exclusively likes men is gay

@ThatHandsomeHorse

2 жыл бұрын

How can he be a lesbian if he's a man who only likes men?

@Charlie-vf8hw

2 жыл бұрын

a “gay trans guy” is a straight woman who identifies as a man.

@Linksutin

Жыл бұрын

uhh he's attracted to men so how can he be a lesbian