I don't have a clue why this video was recommended to me... I have been married for almost 28 years! BUT I agree with it TOTALLY and more importantly, so does my husband! I also believe there is always room for improvement in a relationship. That is why I went ahead and subscribed.🖤

@gabriellatakacs250

5 жыл бұрын

love ur comment😊

Wow! This was spot on for me. Especially number 5. The guy I’ve been seeing has been opening up to me more and more about his family and his past. I sense he feels very comfortable around me and can tell me anything. I feel comfortable around him too. I think this is a very good sign and will eventually lead to an exclusive relationship.

@BrooklynBaby-1

Жыл бұрын

Any luck?

Good video, will watch it again - thanks!

this is the best spoken video from u particulary .. a lot of gestures and exitement ..i like that :) 👍👍👍

I must be awesome since I have them 5 naturally all in me. Just waiting for that man.

Thank you Matt

Matthew you are spot on well done

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

Hi Matthew your video are very rational

great talk

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

When you have been in a relationship long enough (And by that I mean 10+yrs, or have just known each other for such time) I'm wondering why won't they feel comfortable discussing such thing as you discuss here

Great insights, thank you!

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

You're welcome

Awesome video!! You are helping us to have real success!!! 😁

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

Matthew, I find you the least intimidating male relationship coach out of the rest of the others, your approach is direct, kind, and still appealing to your female subscribers. (At least this one)😉 Yes, I like it to have a man that is my protector, an Alpha but also soft with his approach too. I feel so vulnerable and compromised without his full support.

I am learning everything you have said is 100% true! Thank you Matthew Coast for helping me find and now maintaining the man of my dreams. 🙌🏻❤️

@MatthewCoast

2 жыл бұрын

You are welcome 🥰

I strongly agree with you

I hear you That's true.....

i nailed it all

People like the freedom to be themselves and to be appreciated.

@MatthewCoast

5 жыл бұрын

That's true

Especially if they are questioned about things that may be missing. And I don't know about another woman but I feel it when there is something he is not telling me

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

It could be a lot of reasons... it could be that he feels like if he tells you that you're going to start a fight with him. He might think that if he starts asking for things that YOU will start asking for more and he doesn't feel like he can give you more. He may not feel like HE deserves those things even if he wants them. There could be a lot of reasons this happens.

@galinaioffe2250

6 жыл бұрын

Everyone deserves the best to their standards. Especially when love play role. Problem is, if their standards of the best is not known because they are not discussed, those things of course can not be obtained. And as far as fear of argument, there won't be any because I don't believe in them. We may have a difference of opinion but it will still be a discussion

@dontcallmecrazyimjustinlove

6 жыл бұрын

Galina Ioffe yes

1. Noticed for his Masculine traits, protection and provider. Compliment him taking care of you or fixing things. 2. Respect him for who he is and for what he does well. He wants to feel like he’s earned your respect, greatful, attracted, valued. 3. Undying loyalty towards him. A Woman who talks him up. Believes in him. Boosts him up. 4. A Woman who will allow him to have his space. Encourage him to do things on his own. 5. He wants to be able to tell you anything. Without making fun of him. Not worried you’ll get jealous, worried, hurt or upset. The more he feels that the more amazing he’ll think she is! 5.

And it's not that we don't want to be protected. It's that we want to know that we can defend ourselves when he is not around, which he is not going to be 100% of every time we need him to be. Like he is not going to be available EVERY TIME we are in danger

@AnnaLVajda

6 жыл бұрын

It's about letting them take care of you when they can men do like independent women but women should not want a man who is never willing to step up for them either.

Awesome advise I WANT MY MAN TO FEEL comfortable with me I wabt HIM TO know THAT trust IS VERY important to me AND space EVERY relationship shoulda HAVE IT AND THERE shoulda BE boundaries I'n a relationship that's means never DO anything behind eachother BACK AS HAVING affaire WITH a NOTHER person THAT IS SO hurtful AND disrespectabule AND TO ME complementing eachother IS VERY important to me that show YOUR true RESPECT to each other

I agree

Hi Matt 🇦🇺❤

@MatthewCoast

Жыл бұрын

Hi, Tara! 🇦🇺

@taramoygemini

Жыл бұрын

@@MatthewCoast you Rock 💕

Hi Mat..like to ask on #4 re Space. I dont mind letting him go on boys night out but is it ok if it involves other women ? Ie he hanging out w his buddies + a couple of other girls. Fyi i was discouraged to join even after i lightly hinted i want to come along.😡. Pls help explain coz i trust him but this is messing w my head.

@hdiamond7365

6 жыл бұрын

Tina Sharinna if its all boys fine. If girls are part of the outing and he doesnt want you to be there thats a red flag. Dont fight about it just ask him why you cant be there since its not an all boys outing. If you dont get positive response go out and mingle with your male friends lets see if he gets jealous. If he isnt a bit jealous you will need to start rethinking the relationship.

@MelodyAMc14

5 жыл бұрын

That sounds like a huge red flag to me. If he doesn't take enough pride in you that he wants you around in a coed social setting then he never will. You should be on your merry way before things get too deep. He will only see you as more disposable as the relationship progresses.

Hey Matt!! Good morning!! I have a question for you. If I make more money than him and he is really going thru a difficult financial time, is it ok for me to offer to pay for dates? Cause he can't go on dates for lack of money.

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

It depends. But you may also want to consider doing things that don't involve money on the date.

@monicalevyt

6 жыл бұрын

Commitment Connection - Relationship Advice That's a great idea! Thank you!

What do we women do when we've been faithful..loyal...given him what he needs and he still lies and you find out he's cheating with multiple women in less than two months?

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

Giving a man things that he needs doesn't magically turn him into a good man. If a man isn't a good man, he's not going to be a good man no matter what you do. If a man cheats, you should leave him and find a good man who doesn't cheat. Value yourself enough to only be with a man who has honor, is true to his word, and is faithful.

@follwerofthemosthigh1888

6 жыл бұрын

Commitment Connection - Relationship Advice Thank you for your response

@mimianastasia2699

6 жыл бұрын

True,,a man with principles and loyalty can be only be tested if he surrounded by many beautiful woman but still choose to be faithful and think of you and not be carried away by temptations is truly a man that comes from God.its a matter of choice no matter what.. But how about when your in a long distance relationships,different times and days...it's kinda hard,like he is a man after all,I don't believe in man who is single for 6 years without any women he sleep around with.im sure even if he is now in a long distance relationship and super busy at his work ..hanging out with friends like a group date...just curious cause I'm an ldr.😑

I did all the things but still he broke everything now he wants to keep a good friendship but now it's very tough for me to be with him in any kind of relation what i should do now??? 💔😞😒

@vanaphill2454

6 жыл бұрын

Bakhtawar Zahir simple leave him alone

❤

So if we lose respect for him do we still have to show him respect. Can we Eva cover women's needs?

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

If a man falls out of love with you, should he still give you love? And yes, I'll be covering more of your needs and what you should look for in coming videos.

@moondancer3157

6 жыл бұрын

Liz Archer I think it pretty much goes without saying that we want the same things men want. But after 28 years of marriage I have learned all about give and take and it always has been and always will be more giving by the woman and more taking by the man... Emotionally speaking. Men tend to show their love with flowers and diamonds.

Most guys at best get a man cave, lol.

If you act like this a woman be used like a punching bag...and tossed aside. A woman should be a little controlling.😁

@MatthewCoast

6 жыл бұрын

Um, no. You can give a man everything he needs AND respect yourself and have boundaries. Those two aren't mutually exclusive.

@AnnaLVajda

6 жыл бұрын

You want to be a sparring partner never a punching bag.

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