Just to add, I think it’s also a good sign you’re ready to start dating when you realize everyone is imperfect and you can accept them anyway. Knowing that relationships require mutual effort and working through those imperfections. Basically, understanding the reality of relationships and not going into it thinking it’ll be like a movie.

@UnpopularOpinionSports

10 ай бұрын

Great point

@thesingerperson

10 ай бұрын

I wish they credited the artist Zipcy ( 집시) for using her art as the thumbnail for this video. I wonder if they even got her permission to use her art.

@kerbodynamicx472

10 ай бұрын

I understand it well, but that's exactly why I'm not ready to start dating - because I'm not sure whether I'll be a bigot or not

@ajh.4131

10 ай бұрын

@@kerbodynamicx472 one of the best sayings I’ve ever heard is, “the only way OUT, is THROUGH.” It’s perfectly ok if you’re not ready. At least you are aware ❤️

@neverstoplearning14

10 ай бұрын

Totally agree. Entered the relationship thinking it should be ideal (naive), came to the point it requires a bunch of efforts and sometimes sacrifices for the best. Great point that needs to be mentioned more.

Timestamps 5 signs you're ready to date Fresh Start 1:03 Learning from the Past 1:35 Honoring ur wants & needs 2:18 Genuine Curiosity 2:45 Investing in urself 3:21

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Holy cow that was fast. Thank you!

@CarlosAlola

10 ай бұрын

Invest in myself? Should I eat money?

@Ads_1001

10 ай бұрын

@@CarlosAlola click on the timestamp for it and hear why they're saying it it'll be much clear then

@ShikichiAkuma

10 ай бұрын

Aye, something I already do.

@VVeniceMC

10 ай бұрын

​@@CarlosAlolaretard

The fact that I immediately clicked on this is concerning😂 edit: OH MY GOSH THX FOR ALL THE LIKES THIS MADE MY DAY:3

@DizzyT...

10 ай бұрын

Fr

@sof83011

10 ай бұрын

SAME HAHA

@mwalter662

10 ай бұрын

fr fr

@Youhave_Found_An_MDfan

10 ай бұрын

Yes 😂

@rare8643

10 ай бұрын

facts

Anyone struggling with anything, I salute you for keeping the will to live.👍 Edit: Wow this blew up, thank you, and never give up! Remember that if you ever feel lonely, there are people that care, and see you.👍

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. I hope people read your comment and find encouragement they need!

@inf1ni7y

10 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go unfortunately I found the opposite. And I'm not just being a smart-ass, but thanks psych2go👍

@danavixen6274

10 ай бұрын

🙏🏾😊

@DasHeino2010

10 ай бұрын

​@@TheNextCatInLineI dont know if you can/should fix that. Take care of yourselfe has top priority! If you are in danger leave! Or at least have a bag with necesseties and be ready to. Maybe talk to a therapist what can be done. Or cut them from your life instead of letteng the abuse destroy it. It is yours after all. Good luck and stay strong!

@reeses_unicorn

10 ай бұрын

Thank you. ❤️

Timestamps 1). A fresh start 1:03 2). Learning from the past 1:34 3). Honouring your wants and needs 2:19 4). Genuine curiosity 2:46 5). Investing in yourself 3:21 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@sof83011

10 ай бұрын

Haha i can see its still in progress 😂 but tysm

@A55a551n

10 ай бұрын

​@@sof83011not a problem happy to help

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

🤜🤛

@A55a551n

10 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@starfox5352

10 ай бұрын

​@@dhamilton463same:D

Currently in a healthy relationship and hoping we are able to continue to make one another happy

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Congratulations! How's that going so far? :)

@DeRez19

10 ай бұрын

Congratulations! Cherish your partner. People like me can only dream of having what you have.

@konajohnson6182

10 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go we are just living our best lives and supporting one another. That’s my idea of a healthy relationship.

@mahdireza5695

10 ай бұрын

Wow that's lovely! This is gonna sound so cheesy but I had a dream a while ago that I was baking sweet treats in the kitchen with a person I've crushed on before. I would love to make that a reality! I mean dreams can come true right? Ideally it would be around Christmas. Also I think I'm mentally stable enough for a good relationship and love myself well!

@bratzxrose

10 ай бұрын

Happy for you🫶🏼

Got 4 out of 5. I have learned a lot from the past and investing in both myself and my values. Only lack of interest in love hold me away from a new partner now.

@niaretta

10 ай бұрын

Same. Makes me wonder if this ever changes. Don't want to miss out on anything.

@ziggapoopstainpixbee3859

8 ай бұрын

ACTUALLY SAME BRO EXEPT I GOT FIVE OUTA FIVE

Dating is scary and exciting at the same time, but it is a sweet experience for you and your partner. ❤️ The first thing you need to do is to know and understand what you want in a romantic partner and secondly, show a lot of love to them, not just through words, but be playful, and just have a nice conversation with them to get to know them.

I wanna date but nobody loves me

@DizzyT...

10 ай бұрын

Relatable 😅

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

We love you! 😭

@sof83011

10 ай бұрын

Fr 🥲

@yjut-xm8rx

10 ай бұрын

In due time pieces will aline and fall into their place. "Your world's not falling apart, it's falling into place." I have hope love will find its way to you. Who knows maybe it already has and you just don't know it!

@realdescubre

10 ай бұрын

​@@Psych2gofr fr?

I think Ive been letting fear block me from starting a romantic relationship. I need to remember there is a difference between "having it together" and "headed in the right direction." I have this idea that I need to solve my issues/fix my broken parts before I date, but that is unreasonable. Its just easier to believe that than confront my fear

@jd6331

3 ай бұрын

That's true, no one is perfect and most of us are a work in progress. I really tried my hardest in my last relationship. I think my ex didn't realize how much effort relationships take, and he expected me and the relationship to be perfect or close to it... But the reality is there are going to be ups and downs throughout, and sometimes external stressors take a toll. I was willing to work through it, because I felt everything we were dealing with was fixable and the relationship was worth working on, but I guess he felt differently. At the moment, I know I'm definitely not ready to date... It's only been ~6 weeks. I'll probably need at least a few more months, maybe by summer. Who knows.... I'm looking for my life partner, but I have a lot of fear now.

I got 0/5 so yeah, I don't think I'm ready for a new relationship. This video was still great, and it has given me more confidence in my assessment of myself. So thank you! And keep doing what you are doing!

@nathankrech6203

9 ай бұрын

1/5* you are aware.

"Lack of self-awareness is what causes a lot of relationships to end." This. Please learn as much as you can about yourselves. It'll help you so much in the long run. That being said, maybe it's time I let the walls down a little and venture out again..Thanks Pscyh2Go. :3

I needed this, I always get into relationships thinking I'm ready, but I never am, ty for this ❤️

I was trying to exist normally and then this pops up 😭💀

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

You can start dating and still exist normally! 😭

@normalperson9946

10 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go Can’t even exist without Psych2go reading yo thoughts ☠️

@DasHeino2010

10 ай бұрын

​@@Psych2gobut I feel so wierd. Existance is ...

After being rejected by girls so many times, I’ve took some time to reflect. I realized that I’m not ready for a relationship, but I don’t need to worry about it. Because I can take my time to work on myself and build up so I can be in the right mentality.

@potatobird52

10 ай бұрын

right there with you bro just gotta keep your head down and better yourself, and maybe someday someone will notice and appreciate you

I can honestly say I relate to pretty much all of these. Over the past year, I have really made progress in my life and I don't feel as lost as I once did. I think I've really grown as a person and I think I might be ready to take on dating. Although dating has always been a scary thought for me because I've always been quiet and reserved and never let anyone get that close to me. But I've learned to become more open with the people around me and express myself to the fullest. Who knows? Maybe one day I will meet someone and I hope everyone here does too ✌️

I'm 28.. I'm a feminine neutral gay goth and Metalhead guy, I have never dated or been in a relationship... I assume it's because I'm Goth and a Metalhead. I've been a fan of both subcultures for 15 years, I'm not willing to change who I am for some random person, or anyone just so that they will like me.. no can do... I love who I am, I know that I'm a nice, caring, and creative soul who loves nature, painting, drawing, creating music and going to college.. I know that I just want to have friends, or even date, but people see me as a monster, I barely get compliments, many people in my lifetime have said I'm very cute and handsome and I'm a "petite" 5'5 guy... I don't know why I'm not in a relationship, but I do think personally that personality is more impressive and important primarily before looks... I just think that people have high standards for physical appearance and attractiveness.. and sometimes unreasonable ones too... there's a guy who likes me, and likes that I'm feminine, he keeps calling me cute, adorable and beautifully handsome, but my low self esteem won't let me see it because I'm so use to others hating me wherever I go... I've actually told myself to just give up on the thought of finding someone who likes me for me or in general for that matter.. so now if someone does hit on me, I don't feel anything emotionally... I'm just like 🤷‍♂️.. (ok)

The 6th sign : You’ve found someone who is actually available to date

This video came at a good time as I have been thinking about pursuing a relationship again. I feel like enough time has passed since my last relationship ended.

@matijastefanek6083

10 ай бұрын

@GrayGeat28 Great! I hope you many successes!

@violetraven9440

10 ай бұрын

same my last one was awful so i learned a lot from it and finally feel ready i just need to find the right person though

@matijastefanek6083

10 ай бұрын

@@violetraven9440 Great! I hope you succeed in finding someone.

@itzz_somaxX

10 ай бұрын

ohh, me too

Why is your voice so calming

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Amanda's voice has that effect on people 🤭🤭

In this time of my life, this is your most relatable video I've seen so far! I'm looking forward to starting a relationship and I feel ready for it. Always keeping an eye out for new opportunities! Thank you

It's a leap of faith. You'll never know when u will be ready.

Now for the difficult part: finding an eligible person who I actually connect with

I honestly never dated, and the most I had were high-school and college crushes that I never took any further.

@christopherparkin7162

9 ай бұрын

Same. Ive had one brief relationship, but it wasnt one I would have chosen if she hadnt been... insistent. Needless to say, it didnt last long. Other than that, just crushes I let my fear second guess myself into ineptitude.

So no one's gonna talk about the cute and beautiful animation, Naphia did a great job!!!

I sat down on my bed, ready to sleep, saw my iPad get a notification and saw it’s a new vid. All 5 match up with me, I didn’t know if I was fully ready to date but I just watched the vid and feel more ready to date. Can’t believe all 5 match up with me lol

Honestly, I come to this for advice more than my therapist. Thank youuu ❤

I always find it weird when people congratulate someone for having a partner, like it's not an achievement, it reinforces that having a partner is something we need or need to 'achieve'.

@frog6054

10 ай бұрын

But sadly we live in that kind of society (I know this sounds like a meme LOL) People in my country would literally bully adults for not having children.

@aphreyy

10 ай бұрын

​@@frog6054which country was it ?

@frog6054

10 ай бұрын

@@aphreyy Malaysia

@nixelyte4136

10 ай бұрын

hmm maybe rather than thinking that way, maybe they're just congratulating the other person for something happy that happened in their life? like happy moments are meant to be celebrated and congratulated? though I get what OP was trying to say

@fhantom2115

10 ай бұрын

Congratulations doesn't have to be just for achievements right? I think it's fine to congratulate when someone enters into a new relationship because it could be a major milestone in their life, the person they're with now could potentially be their life partner so I don't think congratulations is weird.

Yea I relate to all of them but I still think am not ready yet to start another relationship ,all I need to do now is to continue to love myself and learn from the past Thanks the vid really helped me to see that I am making progress ❤

Recently, I realized its been a long time since I talk to someone new & its true. I’ve been putting in a lot of work for self care & self love, most of what I never prioritize whenever my head’s off the ground trying to tend to the needs of others; I really want somebody to make that time for me, to give me effort back & say the things to be considered or what I need to hear more then what I don’t receive vs what I tell myself with self affirmations. I’m 29, I’ve never dated before, so this is still an uncharted world I haven’t personally discovered on my own yet, other than the feelings & emotions that orbit around two strangers. I’ve been working on having a healthier outlook vs just looking at what it is for what it is & its been showing back to myself someway positively. In terms of dating however, idk. I want a relationship so bad, but I get so frustrated when I can’t decide for myself to wait or go for it, (it’s agony when your friends tell you the one or the other), I’ve just continued to be patient all this time.

I have been single for 2 years and dating still is scary. Its crazy how long it takes to recover from your past.

Hey! I really wanted to say thank you for posting these videos. You really made it easy for me to find out who I am, and just help me in general just a big thank you for helping everyone. Thank you *virtual hugs*

I was thinking about this just today…. It took 3 years to move on from the past relationship and I’ve finally had a crush on someone. Although “your crush probably has a crush on you” videos won’t match with what’s going on, this was relatable and now I know that I’m probably ready for this. Thank you!!

Great Video as always. If possible, I would love for you guys to make a video about trying to differentiate between going through puberty and legitimately having anxiety or depression.

This video comes at the right time. I never had a relationship but was thinking on starting. Got 3/5, sadly I didn't overcome my past (yet;) and accepting everyone is not perfect. Everyone has flaws.

I guess I’m not ready. Thank you for saving me the time!! I appreciate it!

Genuine curiosity is a very valid point

The video I’ve been waiting for for forever

Self care is the one that helps me as well as learning from the past because you gotta check yourself

The genuine curiosity part with mutual knowledge and emotional intimacy rings true for me. The problem is that some people get so smitten after the first few dates and say that they love you even if they don't genuinely know you.

Love your calm and soothing voice!

The last point definitely resonated with me the most ❤!

I just want to say thank you to you guys. I was watching these videos because i had a crush on this girl and i didnt really know what to do. Next thing i know, we've been dating for a few months now. Time really does fly by...

As I'm recently out of a break up from a long term relationship I know I'm not ready just yet. But still I can learn from watching this, knowing I'll find my way somehow. Maybe in a few months I'll feel more ready.

Three of these things relate to having dated in the past, which I haven't, thanks for the reminder.

That thumbnail is GORGEOUS

Zipcy art for the thumbnail is beautiful!!❤

I recently sang/played guitar at my college. Few days later, someone told me there’s ‘someone’ who found it quite nice and wanted to get to know me. I discovered she’s this gorgeous lady from another class and decided we should meet. She got me flowers when we met (I couldn’t stop blushing). We talked about a lot of things and I feel we connected on some level. No clue where it’ll go, but certainly starting to feel that I might be ready to date again.

I'm not opposed to dating again but ive been hurt so i guard my heart very carefully right now

I truly appreciate your platform.❤

This was so helpful, thank you. I haven't dated anyone for 20 years, currently working on myself and working through anxiety and depression so not ready to dive in yet, but am curious.

I believe I'm almost ready to start dating, I have most of the signs down quite well, and am currently exploring ways to take better care and spend more time on myself. the only one I haven't fully gotten through is getting over the previous relationship, she is a close friend of mine now, which is why I think it's harder to get over, but I'm slowing moving towards being through it.

My. My. This reflects a current moment in my life.

What a fantastic video have a wonderful day psych2go 😊❤

your voice is aall the melody i need in this life

I love this channel, it has helped me a lot

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

We're so glad our channel has been helpful for you. What type of content is the most helpful in your opinion?

@PlopDeggy

10 ай бұрын

⁠@@Psych2golove stuff.

Ready for a fresh start Ready for romantic excitement Being honest about how you can make stuff better Knowing your needs

Thanks, i just confirmed that i am not ready for a relationship. Before i thought i was overthinking.

Thank you so much for this video tbh I’ve been contemplating if I’m ready to even date my crush I mean she confessed to me but I was scared so I thank you a lot for this video it helped me a lot

I got I think like 2-3 out of 5. Since a few of them are about past relationships which I've never been in a single one. Hopefully one day! :)

The cover art for this video is amazing!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Good thing, a fresh start is easy for me.

Resonated with the things here, but I know my dating chances won't improve. The things that are "red flags" about me won't change. So, that's that. Which is fine. I knew this before hand. I just enjoyed learning more on this subject. Thanks for the info psych2go.

always a good time whne Psych2Go posts

Love this channel ❤️

I get such a warm fuzzy feeling watching these videos ^^

Thanks for this. I might still be recovering from what happened to me before, but I also want it and I think love could make me feel whole again.

@christopherparkin7162

9 ай бұрын

From my understanding, its best to seek fulfilment outside dating. No one can make you feel complete. Its better to seek out a sense of wonder and enjoyment of life (exercise and sleep are key) rather than seeking "wholeness". We are all broken people after all, but there is beauty in our brokenness, like a mosaic, if we only look for it.

@thepirateswirled

9 ай бұрын

@@christopherparkin7162 Thanks for your kind words, and I appreciate it, however it can't really change my wish. And if my wish isn't fullfilled it's hard to feel that complete feeling or seeing the beauty in things of life or just enjoy when I see that I can't just have what I always wanted and when I had it, even lost it. I understand where you're coming from, but it doesn't seem to work for me in that way at least. Probably I see it a bit dark, but that's probably how things have made me see things. Even though if I try, I always know, no matter what you do, you're not actually getting closer to your actual wish despite of everything else that can be beautiful. But still thanks!

Im gonna be honest this channel is legit making me cry all the time

@thefriendlyelephant1280

10 ай бұрын

Proof that you're human

I hope my third relationship is fine, and I hope its ok

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

If you don't mind my asking, how were your first two relationships?

@user-cybercube1417

10 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go not really well my first girlfriend got jelous after see me being more fun with my other friend while I was already being giving her more attention My second girlfriend are not really well either because we both are always fighting each other because a small problem, she always say her problem to me and make it like hard so yeah I'm broke up with both of them and now I just got my third Girlfriend and I hope it will be well

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

I see.. Thanks for sharing with us. Relationships are never easy but I hope that your third relationship will be more stable and that you'll be happier... It may take a lot of effort but I hope you make it work! :)

@user-cybercube1417

10 ай бұрын

@@Psych2go thx you help a lot

Clicked a bit too fast 😂 Love the new animations! ✨

Let us singles cry together 😢😢😢😢😢

I need to work on investing in myself a bit more and honoring my wants and needs. I'm great at communicating but when it comes down to my needs I struggle at talking about it but ik I'll get better as time moves on

Kinda the advice I was looking for. Although I may not quite still be over my past, I now know there are other facets where I can say, yes I am there.

I think, after years, I'm ready to try again guys.

This is so helpful

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Aww thank you! Did you find the video relatable?

The thumbnail art is very good ❤❤

This is the greatest channel on the internet

The takeaway from this video? I’m ready to date. And best of all, the idea excites me! 😄

Everyone tells me I’m ready, and I believe that for the most part. Unfortunately, it takes two to tango.

I will say this, some people do not know what that did wrong when they have trouble dating cause to them, they don't see it right away either from brain not processing or from no clear instant answers. Those types of people need an eye-opener by someone explaining what they did wrong so they can learn from it and apologize correctly knowing what mistakes they did. I know, it seems unnecessary to tell them and you don't know if they'll brush it off or not even acknowledge your words but some people generally do struggle with finding out what they keep doing wrong so they apologize but don't know what they are apologising for therefore they may not learn and make the same mistakes again not knowing. There's fast-thinkers, neutral thinkers, and then there's the slow processing. The slower may need an eye-opener from a friend or from the partner so they learn. I hope I've made anyone aware of this and will openly tell someone who keeps making the same mistakes during friendships and partners to open their eyes directly. The power of context vs no context of things.

I’m not religious or anything, but I think it’s funny how the universe gave me this video as soon as I started my first relationship in 3-4 years. I have gone through an insane amount in the last 3-4 years as well, and I finally have arrived at tranquility. It’s been such a long journey. Little things like this remind me I’m making so much progress. The universe has a funny way of guiding you.

I've Always Been thinking of either Being in a Relationship or Not, Considering I don't except love or Loving Myself that much. I Wasn't sure if I was Ready until I Met a Special Someone! It Was Starting off with Flirting Feelings until We Spread Our True Loving Feelings towards each Other and as We Continued and Bonding Together, Eventually We Fall in Love and are Ready to be in a Relationship Together! All Points in the video is True: Getting to Know the Person and Before Being in a Relationship with Them, Try to Talk things out Firstly if The Person wants to and If they Do, They're also Ready to be in a Relationship with You! To those who are in a Relationship, Please Take Care and Hopefully Y'all have a Long, Healthy Relationship till the End!!

The dating seas are a wild place to navigate

Yes I am ready to take the step 💚

🥰 I wasn't expecting to find anyone I wanted to date, but here I am. He is a little younger than me (not usually my type) BUT we have so much in common that it is almost ridiculous. We both even do Taekwondo! I am genuinely excited about the future and getting to know him better... Too bad my mom can't see past his age, but I hope that changes with time.

I can now officially, and proudly say that i am ready to date

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Yay! Which of the 5 points helped you realize that you're ready to date?

@thefriendlyelephant1280

10 ай бұрын

👏

i check all the boxes 5/5. i'm ready 😭😭🥺

I really want to take the psych2go’s sudden peek at the “love content” videos as a sign from the universe So help me out here universe

Awesome👍😎 thank you for this video🤩 🙏

I've never had a relationship, so I guess there isn't much baggage, unless we talk about the relationship with myself. That's been a tough one. 😅

I was in a relationship with someone once and I think they still want me back. I don’t want to get back withe them. They were a pretty toxic person and made it so I didn’t feel comfortable telling them the truth, they would often push my buttons and get in my personal space when I clearly didn’t want them too, after we broke we were still friends but they would still touch me too much for my personal boundaries, they would constantly sit laying against me and I would very clearly not like it, (get stiff, lean away, stop talking, etc.) and they will always ask me like what triggers me and what I don’t like but everything I don’t like is stuff they do like, be annoying, touch all of my stuff without asking, come over and eat our food without asking, being overly touchy (not in an emotional way), wandering off without me there, (at my house, which gives me a lot of anxiety to what they could be doing.), constantly asking me to call when I really don’t like calling which I’ve tried to make clear but I have a really hard time telling people how I feel, and in public get really desperate for attention (like so we’re kinda the ‘weird’ kids and people will constantly bark at us and call us names and they’ll just be rude to them and start arguments that could be avoided if we just walked away.).

I still respect my ex and my past but I’ve learned from then and don’t regret the relationship or breaking up with her, I love her but not in that way anymore

all i need for today is to hear your voice

I was so sure i am not ready to date(even sometimes i falling in love.) The video proof i am right about myself.I am not ready for romantic relationship.

Someone new has entered my life and Im wondering if I'm ready to go forward with our relationship

@Psych2go

10 ай бұрын

Ooo very exciting! After watching the video, do you think you're ready?

so coincidental rn. i'm literally talking to someone after 6 months of being out of my past relationship, and i'm still learning again if i'm actually ready to begin with love again, so anyway the moment i open yt, this vid appears, so here goes nothing, lol

Purrrr firstt‼️

Good to confirm it from a psychological stand point

Good video 🍀👌🏾

New vid idea “reasons you always get chills down your spine “