Step 1: Be Bond Step 2: JAMES Bond

@gustafrindestal

6 жыл бұрын

Step 3: ;)

@SiimLand

6 жыл бұрын

Shaken not stirred

@RN-lz6fc

6 жыл бұрын

Free Littlefinger. FTFY

@Woody10719

6 жыл бұрын

Thanks Goku!

@juandelangel1418

6 жыл бұрын

*slow clap*

Rejection is not failure, failure is giving up

@kirilmihaylov1934

4 жыл бұрын

@@thecarenthusiast8886 no....

@kirilmihaylov1934

4 жыл бұрын

@@thecarenthusiast8886 because you can't make her love you

@thecarenthusiast8886

4 жыл бұрын

@@kirilmihaylov1934 What's the harm in trying? 😭😭😭😭😭

@kirilmihaylov1934

4 жыл бұрын

@@thecarenthusiast8886 you can't make her love you....end of story.try and see for yourself

@khurramqasir6815

4 жыл бұрын

In other words "You only lose when you give up" (PM Imran Khan)

He stays who he is no matter what the other person is doing. He doesn't feel the need to artificially draw attention to himself.

@jmcenanly1

3 жыл бұрын

Drawing attention to oneself can be lethal in Bond's line of work

@abdisamadadam288

3 жыл бұрын

The big problem is need of attention in our generation

@bengough6772

3 жыл бұрын

@@abdisamadadam288 infinitely magnified via the cheery picked images we show off through the social media lense

@abdisamadadam288

3 жыл бұрын

@@bengough6772 the cheery picked images we post in social media effect and hurts our personality and confidence

@thecowboy9698

3 жыл бұрын

@@abdisamadadam288 - I think it can be very accurately said that "needing" attention is a form of greed, and like all forms of greed, no matter how much you have it'll never be enough. I think the real secret is trying to be the very best man or woman that you can be, with how you take care of yourself physically, both your appearance and your health, and how you strive to conduct yourself, which I hope is in a positive and decent way, in how you treat others, and how you treat yourself.

3:57 "Bond doesn't waste energy on needless anger, frustration, threats, or worry. If he can change something to his benefit, he'll act, but otherwise he just moves on. This makes sure that he doesn't get stuck in his head reliving past mistakes or worrying about the future." This is an excellent point and is actually a trait of Stoic philosophy, which essentially says, "If something is in your control, then control it. But things that are outside of your control: don't worry about them, since you have no control over those things anyway." It's a remarkably helpful and practical philosophy. I'd never realized until watching this video that Bond does indeed embody the virtues of Stoicism. There's a scene in the movie Seven Years in Tibet, where the Dalai Lama tells Heinrich (Brad Pitt): "We have a saying in Tibet: If a problem can be solved there is no use worrying about it. If it can't be solved, worrying will do no good." That philosophy is very much embodied in James Bond's: if you can take action to solve a problem that's in your control, then you should take that action. But if the thing is out of your control, then don't waste energy worrying about it getting angry about it. So Buddhism, Stoicism, and James Bond: all have much in common.

@witoldschwenke9492

Жыл бұрын

I live by that, started living by it in my late teens. It's not even about making progress or achieving goals. For me it started out being about ignoring the hardships of my life and the endless conflicts with my siblings and bullies. It's a very good attitude and allows me to be a good managerial type as well because it's so easy to move on when meeting obstacles in projects/tasks. Groups of people easily get stuck in cycles of uttering frustration or needles fruitless discussions.

@boostergold3935

4 ай бұрын

Throw Christianity in there too

"That's because you know what I can do with my little finger." DAMN!!!

@bicerpbro55

6 жыл бұрын

Danish Satkut what's that mean

@antonyjp8341

6 жыл бұрын

Danish Satkut Aru u thinking what i am thinking

@samahamara8543

6 жыл бұрын

Omg...

@bicerpbro55

6 жыл бұрын

Ohhhhhhhhhh

@Lithrus_

6 жыл бұрын

what dat finga do

Maybe he just doesn’t spend his first 20years scrolling on KZread.

@LegitPrepperGuruNodoubt

5 жыл бұрын

@@r3str1ctor25 consider it one

@imanmukhlis5241

4 жыл бұрын

Triggered

@06livefast

4 жыл бұрын

Niko Lahajner are you triggrrrd?

@keaeyhechem

4 жыл бұрын

Better late than never

@faraz007

4 жыл бұрын

Ouch! That hurts.

He learns everything he can. When you truly know a lot of things, you will naturally be unreactive because you see through things objectively.

@rrrwwwooo

2 жыл бұрын

Never stop learning.

@oscoe

Жыл бұрын

This is true. Experience develops objective approaches. And move towards the finer things in all aspects of life…..

As a woman, I can honestly say: a man who is confident and does not show he is fazed by rejection is immediately interesting, regardless of how he looks or what he make$. Because it takes strength of character to be able to get to that point.

@keennickolas8575

10 ай бұрын

You know, that this is bull-sh*t? It is ONE particular skill that is trained! AND it is USED by so called pick-up artists! It tells you NOTHING about the person themselves!

@fra2025

8 ай бұрын

Ahahahahahahahahahah

@pr00009

7 ай бұрын

and you would spend the rest of your life trying to bend him to your ego. thats not love. its utter bs

@joanofarcxxi

7 ай бұрын

@@pr00009 You are confused. Try to understand: the kind of man I am talking about doesn't bend. He doesn't have to. He is valuable and in demand because he's already worked on himself. He is an emotinally developed adult. Additionally, I don't need to bend anyone. I don't have to change anyone, that would be exhausting, unproductive, and too much work for me. I like to relax and enjoy life. If a man did not pass my standard requirements from the beginning, he is free to go, I wish him the best. I like my man the way he is, self actualized, mature, and high value. It's why I am attracted to him and love to be with him. I don't want projects. Does that make sense?

@joanofarcxxi

7 ай бұрын

@@keennickolas8575 No. You need to have more experience to understand. Don't be angry. Just learn.

He does excercise, daily. They don't show it in the movies, but Ian Fleming's books are more detailed

@SuperTregs

6 жыл бұрын

Benjamin W. Roberts He also smokes 80 cigarettes a day, and drinks an unspeakable amount lol

@DarinDmarkovic1

5 жыл бұрын

We just assume that he does

@therealboomhauer69

5 жыл бұрын

What is the best book to begai with?

@reinorekkakuski2312

5 жыл бұрын

@@therealboomhauer69 Of course you start with the first one, casino royale. Read them in order

@therealboomhauer69

5 жыл бұрын

@@reinorekkakuski2312 oh ok thanks

Key notes: 1.) He is capable 2.) He is unreactive 3.) Women love him, he isn’t scared of rejection 4.) He is willing to die for what he believes in 5.) He sticks to the mission no matter what

@user-wn3xj4kv1i

4 жыл бұрын

#1. He's attractive

@byronbaldwyn7330

4 жыл бұрын

1. Being capable for the task at hand (very good). Additionally, make it look effortless. 2. Being unreactive (Don Draper). 3. Two Life Philosophies - I. Stoicism. II. The belief that he’ll be okay, no matter what happens to him. 4... Analyze video further (watch the video after 3:30 minutes).

@randomvideosshideos8508

4 жыл бұрын

He is agent and he has govt at his back

@jdmnissan

4 жыл бұрын

Ok boomer

@j.i.s.l178

4 жыл бұрын

That's a point of view 😉 ...

My motto is: "Become the man you need to be, not the the one you want to be." I'm just sharing my motto to help the one who need it.

@MasteryOrder

3 жыл бұрын

Respect to you.

@piyushrawat42

3 жыл бұрын

Do what's right, not what's expedient.

@rashidgaylon1236

3 жыл бұрын

the man you need but not the man you deserve

@mikeandrews8272

3 жыл бұрын

That is a great motto.

@bielasp

3 жыл бұрын

Wtf ? I think that both of these are the same, at least to me

I was diagnosed as a "high functioning" sociopath. And I have been told I kinda act like James bond. Since I struggle with feeling emotions. I tend to keep them bland, and too the point. I don't let outside forces change how I feel. I chose how I want to feel. Iv been told I'm very charming by multiple women in my life. That's why they hooked up with me. (And yes. Unfortunately they ended quickly once they kinda figured out I didn't really care all that much for them) For some reason. Society likes emotionless men. But let me tell you this. Not being able to feel grief, anxiety, sadness, depression, empathy, along with a few others can and will get to you. You feel like you are missing a part of you. So instead of being emotionless, be emotional with control. Chose how to feel. Pick the level of reaction you want. Be...in...control.

@yosuancolon

27 күн бұрын

Interesting. If you could be a sociopath or not, what would you choose? Also, what do you mean you were diagnosed as a sociopath? That is not possible; it’s not a medical term

@ivanstayner8818

27 күн бұрын

@@yosuancolon Diagnosed with ASPD. And IDK. Iv always been this way so it's hard to say if I would like being normal or not

@yosuancolon

27 күн бұрын

@@ivanstayner8818 It’s really interesting to me that you’re a sociopath yet would be open to being normal. Thought anyone with ASPD would never want to be normal. Probably naive from me

@noalane3626

27 күн бұрын

Dude get over yourself you wanna be sociopath can’t tell you how many wannabes like you I’ve met…you can’t handle a real one so just be quiet lmfao you’re a wannabe dude you’re nothing at all

Confidence and getting over things quickly with a sense of humor served me well when I was single and still does married.

@hudibitekthesecond3235

3 жыл бұрын

I think you meant "served me well"

@harveyts3

3 жыл бұрын

@@hudibitekthesecond3235 Indeed I did. Funny how I have not come back to this since making a comment, and it is a pretty well-liked comment. You are the first to correct me, and thank you. I hope this finds you well.

@rogeliorodriguez8518

3 жыл бұрын

Survive should be a common verb now. Yeah those cooking skills, have survived me well. Those street skills? Have survived me well too. Those French language course? Have survived me well too.

@harveyts3

3 жыл бұрын

@@rogeliorodriguez8518 The number of upvotes this has with that spelling is amazing to me. lol Good call out. I don't go back and look at comments often and for sure don't check the spelling apparently.

@IAmTheSupremeEmperorOfFails

2 жыл бұрын

@@harveyts3 I like how you didn’t get upset about it, you just said “oh yeah algud”

He has and shows confidence without being obnoxiously arrogance

@gavinreid8351

4 жыл бұрын

Confidence : knowing you are right. Arrogance: refusing to admit you are wrong.

@---cr8nw

4 жыл бұрын

@gavin Reid, confidence isn't knowing that you're right. Confidence is separating your value and identity from your correctness. A confident person can remain confident even when he is shown to be wrong because he knows that being wrong doesn't diminish his identity or his value.

@j.i.s.l178

4 жыл бұрын

@@gavinreid8351 Nothing to ajout You say all Nobody's is perfect... You perfect yours skills with Time...(experience)

@MylesKillis

3 жыл бұрын

That's the opposite of how the actual characters view him though lol

Bond's usually depicted as someone either in his late 30's, or 40's and 50's He's an ex commander of British navy, someone who's read at Oxford at some time. Thus he had a lot of time in creating a lot of ambigious abilities. And also he's a bit of an omage to WW2 era blue blooded aristocratic army officials who also have a very rough, masculine physical men whilst being a very intellectual, educated and sophisticated fellow. And also, his success at showing prowess usually comes through his sheer will to never relent or yield. Craig's Bond is the most obvious of that, James Bond has that British stubbornness to not let go. And if his ''skills'' won't avail him, he usually finds some smart way to get results.

@AhmedAbughadeer

Жыл бұрын

That's exactly what I had in mind two minutes into the video. And the only reason I viewed the comments, to find your comment. I wouldn't have expressed it better than you did. Well done.

"What he is, is what so many young men are kind of wishing they could become." That has been true since Dr. No was released in 1962.

Bond doesn't waste energy on needless anger, frustration and emotion he just act and do what needs to be done - that was the most enthusiastic line I got my attention stucked on

@matthewtaylor6533

3 жыл бұрын

'acts and does'

@harikrishnan-bi7kx

2 жыл бұрын

Same in my case

@matthewtaylor6533

2 жыл бұрын

Acts and does stuck on

@meacomefeyou

2 жыл бұрын

Bonds a scripted fictitious character

@hindenburg1596

2 жыл бұрын

@@meacomefeyou Are you a genius or something

Reminds me of Marcus Aurelius: 'Begin each day by telling yourself: 'Today I shall be meeting with with interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will, and selfishness....Neither can I be angry with my brother or fall afoul of him...Bond is a stoic.

@agittens

3 жыл бұрын

Agreed

@abhishekgururani6993

2 жыл бұрын

great point, I was thinking about this the whole time!

@antoniopetisce3417

Ай бұрын

Exactly 💯

Omg "letting go" of stuff like anger at someone cutting me off driving is something I adopted before seeing this video and it helped me so much! I will not give someone the power to allow them to ruin my day. It's helped me have a lot more good days and even though I sometimes forget it, I come back to it regularly which helps me be more forgiving, more at peace, and somehow, more assertive.

Regretting past mistakes and worrying about the future instead of living in the present. So often done but rarely discussed. This vid hit it on the head with that one!

James Bond version of Daniel Craig is confident and introverted.

@psn.malgus

4 жыл бұрын

You're correct, his personality type is ISTP (Introversion, Sensing, Thinking, Percieving) :-) Functions: Ti, Se, Ni, Fe.

@rashedulkabir6227

4 жыл бұрын

@@psn.malgus are you sure?

@psn.malgus

4 жыл бұрын

@@rashedulkabir6227 Daniel's Bond is @ the bottom of the list :-)

@rashedulkabir6227

4 жыл бұрын

@@psn.malgus Where?

@sng3939

4 жыл бұрын

He’s the best imo

This is one of your more astute, articulate, ambitious and accurate observations about true strength. Well done.

@Charismaoncommand

6 жыл бұрын

~ Appreciate this! Glad you're digging it :-)

@de8517

5 жыл бұрын

Yep, keeping calm when someone is trying to bait you, harass, etc. I noticed those scenes too when James Bond is not reacting but keeping cool. It's extremely hard to do, not react. Your video is refreshing.

@magyver7890

5 жыл бұрын

Yes I agree

This breakdown is one of your best. I really appreciate your take on healthy masculinity, and your encouragement to reflect and adapt at the end.

Another good message. It's good to remember that the character of James Bond had been through WW2, and would not have been a young man when Ian Fleming wrote Casino Royal in 1952. Bond was a compilation of various commandos Fleming knew during the war, and one human may never be able to be as skilled at everything the character is.

@jakemay637

Жыл бұрын

I think Bond in the books began in his mid-thirties and doesn't age much.

It's a shame this generation doesn't know the importance of James bond

@umont13

6 жыл бұрын

Abhishek Alfred please tell me his importance

@zach2352

6 жыл бұрын

The reason is because most people don't understand the physiology

@csyd22

5 жыл бұрын

Purp purp

@mr.t3520

5 жыл бұрын

Thats because most people from this generation havent really seen any of james bond. The older generation buried those memories and is barely even now releasing some of their past lives, due to kids moving away from home for college, work, or a new family of our own.

@lescamerounais8740

5 жыл бұрын

exactly

The 3rd point always reminds me of the saying "Confidence isn't being sure they say yes, but being able to deal with the no". Great video!

@joshblanchard3719

Жыл бұрын

Confidence is not giving a %$#@.

A superior demonstration of masculinity. Thank you Sir for this video. Bond exudes confidence when faced with challenges, and exhibits courage in the face of danger. These two attributes will take any man anywhere he wants to go....or is forced to go.

I always assumed that bond learned these things as part of a basic training program that he had to master prior to becoming a 00. Not that he just knows how to do it.

@Tyradius

Жыл бұрын

Us introverts just got skills though, focus inwards and get into that flow state and just do. What training, I just decided it shall be done, there finished.

In Ian Fleming’s books, Bond was a good golfer, loved scuba diving, was taught to ski as a boy by his stepfather, and trained in small arms and personal combat for hours between cases of which he had maybe, at the most, one every two years. He also read a lot. Reports on all sorts of things. Oh! He was also an excellent card player. In casino Royal, M said that Bond had been sent to work for months with a famous card “mechanic” Bond said it was agony. Point is, the books are basically better. And that’s saying something because I love the films!

@mercenaryknight5419

5 жыл бұрын

They are especially better than more than half the films.

@calebfuller4713

Жыл бұрын

I'm a big fan of Fleming's novels. One of the best writers of the 20th century, IMHO. But I will say, I'm pretty sure in the novels it mentions Bond getting a field assignment about twice a year, not every two years. Of course, they're not all movie (or even book) worthy assignments, I think a lot would be taking out minor enemy agents or some form of field recon. But yes, between assignments, even James Bond has to work at a desk, doing paperwork and what I guess today would be called "data science", sifting through endless reports and bits of intelligence and trying to make sense of them.

I love Daniel Craig's Bond. He is the only "rough" Bond of them all. The rest are very clean cut, always in shape, and always suave. And there's nothing wrong with that, but Craig's Bond is sort of the everyman's Bond. We all see a little bit of ourselves in him. We deal with personal issues like bad relationships, health (I think Bond fails his physical test in Skyfall), and loneliness. But he stands resilient as we all try to do.

@aikonoklas

4 жыл бұрын

Parker Dodson yes, exactly. Glad craig fits perfectly in this bond.

@meenakavali7378

4 жыл бұрын

No that just takes away what makes James Bond James Bond. Craig’s not as charismatic in my opinion

@ThorstenWieking

4 жыл бұрын

While I do enjoy Craigs Bond, it is the clean cut, suave, well educated and elegant man that started my fascination with him. Just as I prefer Remington Steele to Rick Simon. But at the same time in the real life, I prefer Jeans, Leatherman and sneakers over a suit.

@meenakavali7378

4 жыл бұрын

ThorstenWieking thankyou

@thefruitdealer4970

4 жыл бұрын

You are objectively wrong though, Timothy Dalton did the "rough" bond 20 years earlier, and 10 times better than Daniel Craig. But Daniel Craig timed it better, as the audience wasnt really ready for a darker, more serious Bond in 1987

Bond is so fluid. Like Bruce Lee said “Be like water my friends.” Bond is so focused on his goal he doesn’t care about anything else. That is why he is so successful as well. He keeps one goal in mind at a time and goes at it 100% he is calculated and cool about it as well.

Excellent video! Definitely one of the most inciteful and useful on this channel. I can definitely vouch for Lesson #4: pushing on in the face of adversity. It is one of the most attractive traits can a person can have. Also, I love the message here, that we should strive to emulate the strengths of our idols (realistically), and learn from their more negative traits.

@meganhartmann180

Жыл бұрын

As a side note, Craig's James Bond does eventually learn to re-open his heart to love, which is one of the reasons why his character arc works so well in the latest movie. He gives a final goodbye to the woman who broke his heart and gives himself fully to his relationship with Madeline.

Charisma on command! MAKE A BATMAN PERSONALITY BREAKDOWN!!

@bicerpbro55

6 жыл бұрын

Fight Smart this would be perfect

@RandomGuitarGuy

6 жыл бұрын

As much as I love Batman movies, series and comics, I gotta say that in 90% of the material he appears in, he is by far the least interesting character, personality-wise. He has a fantastic backstory and is a force that nature itself can barely contain. But full of personality? Not really. Would rather see a breakdown of why we all kinda love The Joker, despite the fact that he is a vile, destructive maniac!

@fightsmart6836

6 жыл бұрын

RandomGuitarGuy I agree on what you said, but instead of a personality breakdown, he could do a "Batman characteristics" video. Batman does not have the most liked personality overall since he is NEVER welcoming or has open body language. But he can do a " Why Batman is popular" or "Why we like Batman." From there he could give his characteristics from cartoons or movies such as "Patience, will, motivation, focus, showing no fear, e.t.c

@davidmunoz8215

6 жыл бұрын

Agree, the warmth part of his charisma may not be his main strenght, yet he has a high degree of authority and respect , similar to Tywin. The video could even focus on his detective/ deduction and preparation skills. Potentially,, a duality/ dichotomy video such as the Iron man/ Captain America one could be a good fit for him and Joker.

@fightsmart6836

6 жыл бұрын

David Muñoz Well said.

I'm going through a divorce where my wife cheated on me with multiple people. Thank you for making this video. The ending especially was motivating for me to keep moving forward and to not let this define me.

@thestrawberryshogun8373

6 жыл бұрын

89Husker her loss use this experience for growth

@89Husker

6 жыл бұрын

TheStrawberryShogun thank you brother

@sidharthkasi

6 жыл бұрын

You'll become something truly great. Keep learning and growing.

@nathancarranza9860

6 жыл бұрын

Best wishes, stay strong and God bless you my friend.

@tuomashirvonen8473

6 жыл бұрын

I hope all the best for you man. For a guy like you theres plenty of fish in the sea.

Very well done. Interesting that we have much to learn from our heros from days hone by. Much is about being comfortable in your own skin, not letting others or outside forces control your attitude or emotions. Then the old golden rule...treat others as you wish to be. This is why we turn to our faith. The moral compass. The singleness of focus. The love and empathy for others. This was an excellent piece. Especially for men but not just. Stimulates thought. Good job.

Absolutely love this video. I think a lot of people could benefit from deconstructing the meaning of positive masculinity. I would watch more like this.

a return to some good old fashioned ideals of masculinity wouldn't be a bad thing

@chaosdweller

3 жыл бұрын

Yeah I tried my hardest to do that yrs ago, now I've been forced in a metaphorical panda sanctuary getting my metaphorical rectal tempature regularly checked. In some sorta strange reality were the universe and my slave owners or owners negate or neglect the idea of the definition of discontent everyday, as if im the only inmate in a pink jumpsuit, surrounded by others with the traditional orange, would be a good ex i think? Lol. Yeah that's how I live now, ever since I was told I couldn't get what I wanted, and thats what I wanted to do.

The bit about not getting stuck in our own heads, worrying about the past or future, is a major tenet of stoicism. Much of our worry is built up in our imagination. So much energy is spent thinking about what others think. It took me years to get that point where "I don't care," but it feels good being in control when others are losing their minds...

@dmnnchannel8065

7 ай бұрын

How did you get to “that point”

" Real strength is not walling yourself up from getting hurt It is shown by opening yourself up to getting hurt because caring is worth it All the while knowing if the worst happens you have what it takes to pick yourself back up and move forward"

Some young men who call themselves “alpha” today, can’t even change a car’s tyre😂👌

@tytydonta3541

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexjeon5863 bruh it's brits

@CaptainAMAZINGGG

3 жыл бұрын

@@alexjeon5863 your ignorance in your rude comment was hilarious, just sayin ;)

@mrsalviboy94

3 жыл бұрын

You went too far, these "alphas" can't check the tire PSI....

@tytydonta3541

3 жыл бұрын

@Typically Anthonium different 'part of speech', different meaning. different tire.

@ReachingFullPotential

3 жыл бұрын

You projecting g

I can fix cars, survive in the wilderness, fly a plane, cook (did a professional chef course since I love cooking), do basic wiring, moderate carpentry, drive anything, captain a fishing boat, do your investments as I worked in super and investments until two weeks ago, freelanced as a journalist for a magazine, lived in three countries and 6 cities and I turned 30 last week. You can learn all of these things t just depends on how your life pans out.

@kosarkaroki6515

6 жыл бұрын

So,does capability brings you women ? Or its just the fact that u probably meet many people :P

@OFFICIAL_VIDEO_AWARDS

6 жыл бұрын

kosarka roki I'm not sure. I've always been shy and under-rate myself. Maybe, when I was 14 a much older woman started grooming me, I've had some girlfriends since but then again, I always saw myself as nothing special. That one time I had a 15/10 girl I felt like I was in out of my league Happily engaged now

@IsrarTaj83

5 жыл бұрын

I'm surprised that this comment hasn't already been pinned. it's impressive.

@badcornflakes6374

5 жыл бұрын

I've done these things. But then I woke up :(

@arnabdas7019

5 жыл бұрын

Dude you are awesome.

Thank you, everyone!

@marlo5424

5 жыл бұрын

James Bond you better change that picture to sean

@zizobriencavanough721

5 жыл бұрын

Anytime my man's

Charlie, your down to earth, approach, free of false bravado is what makes 1 of your videos superior to a thousand others attempting to accomplish the same thing. Don't let it go to your head.

To be fair, Bond Background is supposed to be british SOF before he even joined MI6 with its strict selection process. So we just dont see his amount of suffering to gain all his abilities.

Man, this has been an overdue breakdown.

@kapitansiemka

6 жыл бұрын

because?

@ian74747

6 жыл бұрын

kurist Because James Bond exists almost 40 years, and we have yet to discover how to become like James Bond.

I think you should do a video on how Teachers can win over a classroom. Because that is not taught in any way, shape, or form in college. You either sink or swim.

@xplays7992

5 жыл бұрын

good idea

This... To open yourself up and become vulnerable for reasons of compassion, but also knowing you have what it takes to get through it and not be hurt, and not lose your overall resolve.

Being numb and walled up and desensitized to the point whereby you no longer enjoy life just for the sense of strength and control is actually a reflection of not being able to cope when the worst happens. I needed that, thanks for the content.

Daniel Craig is my favorite James Bond.

@anonymoussvp3031

6 жыл бұрын

ElEternoPoetaLuis i agree

@JPCPSeto

5 жыл бұрын

In my opinion though: Daniel Craig has portrayed one of the least attractive James Bonds. Partly he just doesn't have a lot of 'natural' charisma, like for example Pierce Brosnan did have. His version also jokes a lot less and he makes the jokes not work as well. Next, he doesn't have the captivating smile, the fine facial contours or nice hair. Pierce Brosnan was a slick, cool, charismatic James Bond. Daniel Craig is just a tough guy in a suit.

@charlieshin9868

5 жыл бұрын

Sean Connery says hi

@Hardeneer

5 жыл бұрын

Undoubtedly

@MycroMatter

5 жыл бұрын

@@JPCPSeto I like them both. Thier manly and cool in thier own way. Daniel broke the mold that a Bond doesn't have to be this fancy face doll. But a confident unreactive and very capable being.

I find being an authentic man is knowing who you truly are no matter what the rest of the world does, and acquiring wisdom. When you've become seasoned by experience and knowledge you automatically gain some confidence.

I love these videos. You get advice and scenes from James Bond.

Hands down, this short video tought me more than hundred self help videos did. Thanks a lot. Really, this changed something

To be fair, he was terrible at parkour. He was just running and jumping and falling. The entire point of that scene was to demonstrate what a wrecking ball of an athlete he is, compared to the finesse and agility of his opponent. The beauty of James Bond is that he IS the embodiment of masculinity. All the positives and negatives thereof. He's a womanizer, but it always bites him in the butt when he's left betrayed and unsatisfied and alone. He's strong but too insensitive to others. He's wise but untrusting. It's why men are drawn to the series. It's everything they want to be as men, while also being a caution against the challenges that often come with masculinity. This is why a female bond will never make sense or draw a crowd.

@TheGeorgeD13

4 жыл бұрын

They're not making a female bond, though. Just a female 007 when Bond retires. She recruits him for a mission and then after that, Craig goes off into the sunset. Next bond will still be a dude. Bond is a dude. 007 can be any gender or race. They're not necessarily the same thing.

@intelcom4964

4 жыл бұрын

Loooool

@kungfuman82

4 жыл бұрын

@@TheGeorgeD13 Ian Fleming would disagree.

@TheGeorgeD13

4 жыл бұрын

@@kungfuman82 Well, he's too dead to say anything about it, so who cares what he thinks? The franchise right now still thinks Bond is a guy and will always be a guy. 007 can change. It's the BOND Franchise, NOT the 007 franchise.

@TheGeorgeD13

4 жыл бұрын

​@@notlNSIGHT Casino Royale, Goldeneye, and Skyfall make a weirdly good trilogy to watch even though the middle part in this just now made up trilogy has a completely different Bond.

"can you imagine James Bond (practicing)" well yes I can... but he does it off camera... we mainly see him "on the job". I expect every bit of his free time is spent training, or with his nose in a book learning something new.

Love the point about inaction. Incredible breakdown bro!

I always loved the stoicism of Bond's 'failures' by just going to the next thing 😊

Never mistake a quiet man for a thoughtless man if you want to live.

@pranavsinha9739

4 жыл бұрын

Also a quiet man can be planning ur murder in his head

@sguraya7223

3 жыл бұрын

@Jedem Das Seine "Also things great men say". See the difference is in implementation.

@mikeitani8189

3 жыл бұрын

no one plans a murder out loud

@sguraya7223

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeitani8189 lol nice

@valideno9592

3 жыл бұрын

@@mikeitani8189 I am extroverted in some MBTI personality scheme so I must plan murder with my family and friends.

He's skilled at parkour?! I think you should rewatch the scene.

@nicolafeo6139

6 жыл бұрын

true! That was more about taking bad falls and still getting up XD

@jazzx251

6 жыл бұрын

... which was part of his military parachute training. I agree - that scene was about how someone UNSKILLED in parkour was determined to catch someone who had all the silky skills ... favourite moment: the parkour guy does a great move through an airvent .. Bond just crashes through a plaster wall, taking a shortcut. [that whole chase is surely the best chase in all of Bond]

@MechaJutaro

6 жыл бұрын

He's skilled at parkour?! I think you should rewatch the scene. Relieved to read that I wasn't alone in doing a double take there. Swell video otherwise

@MrDavidKord

6 жыл бұрын

He has a few pretty stellar rolls when he hits the ground. He's not a master at parkour, but he's good enough to make it work.

@highestsettings

6 жыл бұрын

To be fair, I think that makes him even more capable, he's not really attempted or practised it before, but he's able to keep up with someone who clearly has. That's being a capable person. If you learn a wide enough web of skills you can pull from each of them to adapt as you need. If there's one thing that people are good at, it's adapting existing knowledge to new purposes. That's how society even exists in the form it does today. Without that innate ability, we'd be fucked.

I appreciate this very much. It connected with me. Thank you.

Thanks buddy. You knocked it outa the park on this one. I like to come back to this video every few months. And Casino Royale has been my favorite flick since about the time it came out.

Above all, James damn intelligent.. you'll see his enemies stronger, faster, more capable than him, but James overcomes them with shrewd quick thinking and sharp wits. That's his power. That's his true intellect. For example, re-watch the parkour scene. His opponent is way better, but James wins only with his quick brain. Remember, intelligence is sexy ;-) (Not new, it's always was and will be)

@14AspenDrive

5 жыл бұрын

He wins the parkour chase because of brute savagery as opposed to agility

@audreyadams9498

4 жыл бұрын

Sudip Choudhury not to mention its just a movie🤷🏻‍♀️

@oapeleftherotisaftistisepo9540

3 жыл бұрын

@@audreyadams9498 and?

The clickbait version of this is "why every man SECRETLY wants to be like James Bond" XD great vid as always

Great content. Thank you for taking the time to be insightful

Yes I can imagine James Bond training every one of his skills. Discipline is just as important as confidence

This was common traits of men when fathers were doing their job.

@aguyfromnothere

5 жыл бұрын

Before they were kicked out of their families by divorce laws and courts. Divorce rate of 50% not fathers fault especially when women file for divorce most often. And doesn't even consider out of wedlock birth where blame rests on both parents. Its a lot of stuff, no easy answers.

@intosilence1773

4 жыл бұрын

Touche

@aplexas4206

4 жыл бұрын

My father never returned from war ☹️

@HelloThere...

4 жыл бұрын

@@aplexas4206 my condolences. That must have been difficult if you were old enough to remember.

@Slidewxyz

4 жыл бұрын

Bonds an orphan

You just saved the James Bond franchise with this video. They would put this video in front of the next movie if they could, but probably reconstruct it with interviews.

Great video..Refreshing after a harsh week at work.

Your end point is absolutely exactly right my friend

Also helps if you happen to drive a DB5

@rhaegal5650

4 жыл бұрын

Or any Aston Martin apart from the crazy racing specialised ones. They just ooze class

@MrCool-qi7cy

4 жыл бұрын

@@rhaegal5650 they oooze money.

Do a character breakdown of Don Draper from Mad Men! Ben if you see this please do it.

@levishhunted7593

6 жыл бұрын

Cool

@nejcrebolj2013

6 жыл бұрын

Phoenix Rising who's Ben?

@gustafrindestal

6 жыл бұрын

Ben is Charlies companion on Charisma on Command. He made the video "4 steps to make people instantly like you" and also has his series on the paid version of Charisma University where he talks about work relationships. Really good content. Well reccommended!

@ArchShockzPS3

6 жыл бұрын

Yessss

@smithsj227

6 жыл бұрын

Yessss!!!! Don Draper is my man!

The video was perfect. Vesper and bond were, for a brief dream, ideal. Now we use the movie to learn about ourselves. Bravo, well done.

Bro, you're channel has an amazing influence on me, even though it includes online courses - these short videos are the most accurate and helpful in UTube on this subject

I can definitely relate to number 2. That’s something that I need to work on. Being able to quickly realize what you can and can’t control and being in complete control of your emotions, shows a lot maturity. Being in complete control of your mind and emotions is HUGE and is a big part of masculinity. Nobody has much respect for someone who loses control over small things that you cannot change. If you can’t control the bad thing that happened to you, have your brief moment of being pissed off for a second, throw that aside and handle it.

“Perhaps you’re just out of practice” dang.. that is clever and smooth. I’ll have to remember that one

@swapneil5549

4 жыл бұрын

What does this line exactly mean

@matsrudeng5355

4 жыл бұрын

Swapneil Basutkar exactly what it says

@johnbingaman3645

3 жыл бұрын

@@swapneil5549 he said to her you're probably out of practice, meaning she probably cheated and has low Integrity from before, but with his charm she went along with him..

This was my favourite video from the channel, thank you

Well said. amazing video, amazing topic, perfect delivery

he's no parkour expert, he just throws himself.

@period5304

6 жыл бұрын

Legions and legends and eventually lands on a haystack The Leap Of Faith

@VinchenzoC

4 жыл бұрын

And how fulfilling it would have been to be a real parkour expert.

@A7xeno

4 жыл бұрын

That makes him even more capable in my opinion. He doesn't know how to parkour and yet following a parkour expert like an absolute badass.

Thanks for this video. I am glad I found this video. Thanks man. I appreciate.

@Charismaoncommand

5 жыл бұрын

~ Our pleasure! Thanks for watching. :-)

@brucewilliams7903

2 жыл бұрын

Frfr this is a great guide to start on what im trying to do

I notice a lot of the traits you said can also be found in top athletes. They don't let small petty things get in their head. They don't care how they're perceived or humiliated. They just remain calm and focused.

Great video Charlie bro

The point ISN’T to shut down, or wall up. It’s to immediately focus on the mission even if it means rejecting “love”. Clearly you’ve never been in a gun fight to know there is a time when you MUST shut feelings down to focus ALL your energy on killing and surviving. THAT is Bond.

@MrDroenix

5 жыл бұрын

For those who aren't secret agents, what is the mission?

@iammrbadguy9706

5 жыл бұрын

I guess the mission are our believes.

@later_daze_4080

5 жыл бұрын

Ok tough guy

@Aldo7899

5 жыл бұрын

Even for the proverbial trained assasin, there is an appropriate time to put the killer instinct aside, if he doesn’t want to scare any potential friends or lovers away.

- Capable (instant skill set without unsexy practice); - Unreactive to words, reactive to life threatens (If he can change he acts, otherwise, goes foward, what action can I make to shift this?) - Unflustered to women rejection, stays playful and charming, not pushy, not coward , not take personally, possible to reconsider - Willing to die from his ideals, stick to the mission.

Watched this video all the way to the end. That's probably the finest compliment a KZreadr could ever hope for 😃 Great job. Great points. Well done and thank you :-)

In any relationship the person that cares the least is the winner. It's a sign of abundance

I hope you're making the bank with this youtube channel, you're really good at what you do.

Make a character breakdown of Cullen Bohannon

@wearevenom6464

6 жыл бұрын

Brett Maverick you here bro

@edwardkenway2652

5 жыл бұрын

I think Brett you want to become like a James Bond

@jessehenderson4922

5 жыл бұрын

YES!!

Very well thought out. Thank you.

I'll be honest, ConC has a point about walling yourself up, it does make it hard to connect with friendships, relationships and romantic attachments. Having said that, I'm a bit like that myself, largely because of some childhood experiences of sexual harassment and assault. When I broke down because of it, I felt that people treated me with contempt, and that taught me the lesson "nobody cares if you're opening up, they'll treat you with disdain, especially if you're male" and I think that there's some truth to this. All too often, society has a two-faced attitude towards that emotional openness because when they start urging it as ConC does - not that ConC does this but some others do - they don't like those emotions and mock them, sneer at them, treat them with contempt which really takes away the incentive to emotional openness. I ended up closing off for fear of being hurt again, and not wanting people to pity me. I hated being in the position of losing control over my emotions and it's very rarely happened since, but it makes the relationship side of life much more difficult, because like Bond at the end of Casino Royale, you feel you can't trust or open up to anyone.

On that last point, I suspect him /not/ adhering to that resolution to wall himself up emotionally in the following movies is probably why he's one of the most popular incarnations of Bond among female audiences. Coldness and detachment is his immediate response to being betrayed, but in Skyfall, Silva gets behind that wall by hurting someone Bond was attached to before he built it. After that, Bond's wall comes crumbling down, because, if he can still be hurt in spite of it, what's the point of cutting himself off from human connection? So then, in Spectre, we find him once again opening himself up to someone, making himself vulnerable to being hurt, but this time, he isn't betrayed. The gamble pays off. Even in Quantum of Solace, the weakest of the bunch, set during the height of his emotional wall, he still can't wholly shake his innate desire for human contact. He stays distant and guarded, but the inner attachment is clearly still there. All of this serves to make him much more complicated and interesting than many previous portrayals of Bond. Women are much more drawn to that than to someone who always views women as little more than pawns to be manipulated or sacrificed to achieve an end.

@DarinDmarkovic1

5 жыл бұрын

Psychology says that woman like it when a man shows his vulnerability, this bond shows a more human side. This bond is also highly criticised than ever before.

Duuuuuude! Yes! This is what I've been looking for. The inner work. The shadows within. Integrating all of what makes us up and looking at it critically for improvement. Your mission resonates with me. I'm gonna comb through all of your videos now. Thank you for this. This was quite insightful.

this is just awesome work....well done....

I can tell you as a musician & tutor. That every skill worth having takes time to aquire... Repetition, practice, frustration but most of all determination

Love the analysis here of masculinity and I couldn't agree more. In the real world, developing mastery isn't sexy, it's slow and difficult but personally rewarding, and being a 'man' means accepting you are vulnerable and that you can fail, be wrong, be hurt badly etc. And yet connecting with people and pursuing what you love sincerely anyway.

I've actually found walling off my emotions to be one of the most useful techniques I know how to do, especially since it has an on-off switch.

excellent vid, love the "take the good, chuck away the bad" approach.

3:05 that scene in Skyfall with Silva was actually all improv, they were several takes in to the scene, they were tired, hungry and wanted a break, director Mendes said one more take before a break and Javier Harden went off script and the sensual touch and innuendos was not on script it was all improve, Craig obviously caught on and continued with the flow hahaha great actors!!!

Please do Vito or Mike Corleone (or both)

@noelserrao9680

5 жыл бұрын

Was thinking to say it

@rein-gameplay

5 жыл бұрын

Yes

Thoughtful social commentary and a dash of public philosophy plus charisma tips? Let's get some more of this kinda stuff! Keep it up Ben and Charlie!

Thank you. You I needed this.

this video is why I subscribed. Well done