45 signs they are NOT for you & you need to leave!!!

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  • @dearxdiary
    @dearxdiaryАй бұрын

    One thing I've realised is your body will automatically reject anyone who's not meant for you so if your heart starts racing or you feel drained around them then they are not meant for you.

  • @lucaspranav

    @lucaspranav

    Ай бұрын

    i was dating someone a couple months ago, and i remember i would feel so anxious around him. there were nights where i would just cry and i had no reason to be crying because he didnt do anything wrong. turns out he wasn't over his ex and i broke up with him

  • @jesusrules9925

    @jesusrules9925

    Ай бұрын

    Yes you are both correct.

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    I get super chubby when someone emotionally abuses me, And basically skin and bones when I’m scared! Guess what my parents are like?

  • @dearxdiary

    @dearxdiary

    Ай бұрын

    Yeah if you get abused you gain weight because your body tries to protect you

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    @@dearxdiaryit tried its best!

  • @simonesquared
    @simonesquaredАй бұрын

    if he is watching this can u click off

  • @darceysinclair8929

    @darceysinclair8929

    Ай бұрын

    absolutely not

  • @fangirlinneverland6335

    @fangirlinneverland6335

    Ай бұрын

    BAHAHAHHAHAHA

  • @ldrgod
    @ldrgodАй бұрын

    THE TIMING OMG

  • @duanriamei2794
    @duanriamei2794Ай бұрын

    Exactly what I needed😔… I recently broke up with my boyfriend who never prioritised me and never felt soo sad ever before but deep down , I realised that I am saved.

  • @anchan_dulal
    @anchan_dulalАй бұрын

    now make a video titled 'signs they are for you and you need to stay together for life'. ❤

  • @richasaini4204

    @richasaini4204

    Ай бұрын

    Agree

  • @shamiram1111
    @shamiram1111Ай бұрын

    another way your body will show someone isn’t for you is when you lose your glow or you even become uglier 😬. i’ve been through this, you can even tell in photos but i love your videos, straight to the point. ❤️

  • @sandydotsea
    @sandydotseaАй бұрын

    a lot of these signs can be applicable to relationships that aren't romantic too. this video was so validating damn

  • @cloud6318

    @cloud6318

    16 күн бұрын

    so real

  • @itshazzybee
    @itshazzybeeАй бұрын

    When the break up feels more right than the relationship....yeah bbg its done for GOOD!!!!

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93Ай бұрын

    Here’s my personal checklist that I won’t ignore from today 6pm ❤. -they say misogynistic things, even in jest, or apologize violence against women in ANY way, shape or form. -comment ur body, ONLY ur body, girl ur a person -one mistake? Ur worthless And if ur friends and family hate them, At least ask them why. I love u

  • @Asistha2
    @Asistha2Ай бұрын

    i cannot even concentrate simone is gorgeous

  • @_taenosaur
    @_taenosaurАй бұрын

    I think i realised he was not for me 1 year into the relationship because everytime something minor or major went wrong in my life i would immediately think oh its because of this relationship and then i would question why did i think that and blame it on me, eventually a year later i broke up with him cuz my gut kept giving me too strong signs

  • @pro.crammer
    @pro.crammerАй бұрын

    omgg queen is back! ♡♡♡

  • @ervinsmoviecorner8748
    @ervinsmoviecorner8748Ай бұрын

    Stunning job, Simone!❤

  • @shimiiisan
    @shimiiisanАй бұрын

    The timing is crazy omg thankyouuuuuuu 😭

  • @Jessica-kn5re
    @Jessica-kn5reАй бұрын

    Simone,your timing istg. Sending all the love in this world.❤️

  • @vladilenanouzen
    @vladilenanouzenАй бұрын

    Amazingly, Queen Simone, you have posted again been waiting! I adore your voice sm. whenever you speak or say something, it seems as though your words and advice immediately come to mind, whether I'm alone or in public ❤🎉 I LOVE YOU! You're my forever queen, sister, and greatest girl friend online here! Stay healthy!

  • @arunimamandal1063
    @arunimamandal1063Ай бұрын

    7:51 omg I could never put this feeling into words. BOY BYE he has always been a red flag ew

  • @urfavgiselle
    @urfavgiselleАй бұрын

    this is exactly what we all need to hear periodt 😙🤚🏻 thank you papi you’re amazing 😝‼️🫶🏻

  • @Audrey-ot2pc
    @Audrey-ot2pcАй бұрын

    i love your relationship/friendship videos PLEASE do more💖💖💖

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094Ай бұрын

    Enjoying this! ❤❤

  • @whitethienpoison
    @whitethienpoison8 күн бұрын

    thank you for slapping some sense into me, you are saving my life girl

  • @Wthrev
    @WthrevАй бұрын

    JUST IN TIMEEEEEE❤❤❤ ILY

  • @BrookeFranklin-bz4my
    @BrookeFranklin-bz4my22 күн бұрын

    This was a great video!

  • @samco63
    @samco63Ай бұрын

    Ahhh literally every single one is my relationship now. I’m 37 and still need to listen to this. He’s so unsafe for me, but I keep trying. I needed this. So thank you!

  • @indigo_diary

    @indigo_diary

    Ай бұрын

    I hope you find the courage and strength to leave him soon ❤

  • @Nk-ob4id
    @Nk-ob4idАй бұрын

    They knawr they knawr they knawr

  • @shunpofx
    @shunpofxАй бұрын

    thanks i needed to see this

  • @tejalsonawane1997
    @tejalsonawane1997Ай бұрын

    I am seeing this video as a "validation" for leaving toxic people behind!

  • @MangoDiorr
    @MangoDiorrАй бұрын

    I love you and I just started subscribing🥺

  • @Boobooboba2506
    @Boobooboba2506Ай бұрын

    Dude seriously I was thinking if he is not for me and this shows up love you babe❤

  • @ud29
    @ud29Ай бұрын

    omg so EARLY!! love you simone

  • @dearjiya4496
    @dearjiya4496Ай бұрын

    At this point I’m the red flag 🚩

  • @Chila-ty9sy

    @Chila-ty9sy

    Ай бұрын

    Me too, damn I feel sorry

  • @ohmygod4410

    @ohmygod4410

    25 күн бұрын

    Same

  • @Finixia.

    @Finixia.

    18 күн бұрын

    I meet individual points myself, but it's a sign that we are aware of it and we need to do something about it

  • @user-dp8uj2je1e
    @user-dp8uj2je1e5 күн бұрын

    it feels like you're describing me. I've been trying to detach from him while being a relationship for over 3 months now and somehow it's not working it's like that heroin addiction you've talked about. He lovebomb one day & I again start imaginging myself getting married to him. It's not that am scared to leave him, I am scared to see him with someone else. IF ANYONE CAN HELP ME GET OVER THIS. you have my blessing

  • @lofisky4355
    @lofisky4355Ай бұрын

    Thanks for saving us girl💪😭

  • @nivedita7589
    @nivedita7589Ай бұрын

    12:38 really needed to know that thanks!!

  • @sarahlidia4449
    @sarahlidia4449Ай бұрын

    I needed this fr :((

  • @martine8455
    @martine8455Ай бұрын

    OMG TYSM, I was so confused when I felt like I couldnt trust my ex bf. Like I thought everything he told me was a lie and I didn't feel comfortable around him. THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED, a confirmation that my choice of leaving was right(even though he was a nice guy and my friends didn't understand but still supported me lol).

  • @asterialumin_2030
    @asterialumin_2030Ай бұрын

    Hi ya Simone! Every time you upload, the timing is crazyyy!

  • @israabenkhelouf8497
    @israabenkhelouf8497Ай бұрын

    Good topic

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohoriiАй бұрын

    MOTHER❤

  • @savageornah7696
    @savageornah7696Ай бұрын

    Everytime I met someone like a date and I get sick a day after really sick o know that god and my body is telling me he is not for you it’s super crazy because I had a feeling or signs but I ignored it I don’t want to seek someone so no dating apps only dustys are on there ! working on me !

  • @rowan.marie.forsythe
    @rowan.marie.forsytheАй бұрын

    The timing is insane! how did she know

  • @NotebookMapofLemon
    @NotebookMapofLemonАй бұрын

    Thank you i needed this. 😭😭😭😭😭I was going back and forth abt this guy. Now i know. I M LEAVING HIM 🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡

  • @amahleinathilande
    @amahleinathilandeАй бұрын

    how to leave is the question 💔

  • @ludovicaangotti8452
    @ludovicaangotti8452Ай бұрын

    literally everything

  • @glowupgirliee
    @glowupgirlieeАй бұрын

    MOTHERS BACKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

  • @honeymayfair-rt9tc
    @honeymayfair-rt9tcАй бұрын

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍excellent analysis

  • @keii3561
    @keii3561Ай бұрын

    Timing was never more perfect.

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohoriiАй бұрын

    okay mother I'm taking this as a sign from God:O

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    Same :s

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93Ай бұрын

    He was so attentive. Like literally, I felt ugly, I told him so and he said „ur always beautiful“, now suddenly (like a hot minute after confessing to me that he likes me), he ignores me and never has time to phone anymore. Today I told him (after he didn’t even mention the call that we wanted to have yesterday or that we didn’t text for a whole day for no reason, AGAIN), that I don’t want to phone anymore and he was actually surprised. Know what he said: „y?“ Not even anything else, or a „why“. And now he posts s*xist pics, ok.

  • @leighs1nterlude

    @leighs1nterlude

    Ай бұрын

    you dodged a bullet !!

  • @User69362

    @User69362

    Ай бұрын

    Girl leave him. Don’t waste your time with immature men

  • @_Tropical_
    @_Tropical_21 күн бұрын

    Dear Simmone and other readers!

  • @aahanaghoshh
    @aahanaghoshhАй бұрын

    this video is sign enough that i should leave

  • @itschia8518
    @itschia8518Ай бұрын

    What if a guy is doing therapy and also speaks greatly about it and how important it is, but at the same time I have the feeling that he is a playboy?

  • @bh4rti
    @bh4rtiАй бұрын

    NAWHHH I REALLLY NEEDED THIS. I WAS THINKING OF BREAKING UP WITH MY BOYFIE BC OF POOR COMMUNICATION AND DAYUMM UR NEW VID WAS ABT THE SAME FUCKING TOPICCCC

  • @Uhm_huh
    @Uhm_huhАй бұрын

    Simone, who do I contact for help for SSS-society?

  • @irishlivs
    @irishlivsАй бұрын

    The way you are always at the right timing. Posting this on Saturn Retrograde is SO REAL of you! You are our angel 🤭

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93Ай бұрын

    I waited for a sign today, And all he did as reaction to me pulling away was post something about s*x. Nothing else. And this shows up :/

  • @oogaboogass
    @oogaboogassАй бұрын

    where was this video six months ago 😢😭😭

  • @TATAKAEEEE_ey
    @TATAKAEEEE_ey26 күн бұрын

    There was this guy I was talking to he said he likes me and wanted to date me but I was confused I had a feeling he has a gf but he always declined then 2days ago he blocked me on ig and i found out he has a gf guess what I had this dream back in nov 2023 that he and I was in some sort of confusionship and then I found out he has a gf and this exact thing happenedddd!!! GIRLS ALWAYS BELIEVE YOUR DREAMS AND INTUITION ITS A SUPERPOWER AND ITS A SIGN FROM GOD. thankfully I never trusted him fully..I'm kinda sad tho

  • @HamzaHabi-z7h
    @HamzaHabi-z7hАй бұрын

    I like them more when I am with them in real ❤

  • @adelphipanthers
    @adelphipanthers29 күн бұрын

    This describes what my ex girlfriend did to me . She was so narcissistic and self centered . The sex was terrible too. Thank god I broke up with her .

  • @prettylilnerdy6802
    @prettylilnerdy6802Ай бұрын

    But from this list I think that leaves no one for me

  • @drinkingmiranda1831
    @drinkingmiranda183126 күн бұрын

    Dear Simone, will you kindly make a detailed video on "friendship" how it's supposed to be...how to find out if they really are our friend/ best friend or no. Solemnly, Best regards Hiba Api

  • @GargiThakare-y3o
    @GargiThakare-y3oАй бұрын

    NO WAY U READ MY MIND

  • @nalinimaharjan5939
    @nalinimaharjan5939Ай бұрын

    Papa papi❤

  • @prisha4430
    @prisha4430Ай бұрын

    Is he bad at communicating or am I just isolated and on my phone 24/7 while he just has a life?

  • @prisha4430

    @prisha4430

    Ай бұрын

    He interns at this big a$$ company and also is studying at a big a$$ university with the biggest textbooks I’ve ever seen

  • @DaffadilSunshines

    @DaffadilSunshines

    Ай бұрын

    hey i've thought the same at one point. you feel like the you in you is slowly going away? because maybe you feel more focussed on loving him than yourself? imat the same edge r n different situation

  • @alainasarchive

    @alainasarchive

    26 күн бұрын

    okay i’m going through this right now too 😭 i’m constantly conflicted

  • @ira-9181
    @ira-9181Ай бұрын

    are u like psychic (ur videos are always on time)

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    Honestly I had a 6pm timeline for breaking it off, I told him a month ago I want to be cherished, He said I deserve it (but did nothing), Then today I said I no longer want to phone, he only asked why and posted s*xist jokes for some reason. And then this shows up

  • @lucylucy4
    @lucylucy428 күн бұрын

    so…my parents and all my friends are not for me 😔 idk i kinda fake everything when im around them

  • @adrilous
    @adrilousАй бұрын

    Lovee uu💞💞🤍🤍

  • @Sarpy777
    @Sarpy777Ай бұрын

    45 is crazyyyy 😭

  • @zodiacnights712
    @zodiacnights712Ай бұрын

    WHY CANT I FIND ANY OF THESE SIGNS AHHHH

  • @Unknown_person335
    @Unknown_person335Ай бұрын

    Earlyyy finally 🎉✨💕🌷

  • @glowing4lex
    @glowing4lex28 күн бұрын

    But the real question is.. How and WHERE to find such a good man???

  • @finny_and_autum
    @finny_and_autumАй бұрын

    it feels wrong to be this early

  • @prettylilnerdy6802
    @prettylilnerdy6802Ай бұрын

    why didnt you make this video before

  • @Dreamcatcher_7372
    @Dreamcatcher_7372Ай бұрын

    Angellll

  • @sriyanka4915
    @sriyanka491523 күн бұрын

    Actually some things you said in the video i do it.😢😢

  • @Sky-ci9gn
    @Sky-ci9gnАй бұрын

    can this be applicable to friendships?

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    Yes of course

  • @amar.vivian
    @amar.vivianАй бұрын

    💯 ❤

  • @paolasimone6805
    @paolasimone6805Ай бұрын

    Can this be use also in friendship?

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    Of course

  • @kyokohorii
    @kyokohoriiАй бұрын

    ❤😭

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity--Ай бұрын

    Construction work is the same reason as those guys don´t care your "rules".

  • @simonesimmons

    @simonesimmons

    Ай бұрын

    whatever that means dawg

  • @--Singularity--

    @--Singularity--

    Ай бұрын

    @@simonesimmons It´s no accident. It means.

  • @prableenn-
    @prableenn-Ай бұрын

    Me being single but watches anyway

  • @ohohpelia2166
    @ohohpelia2166Ай бұрын

    Simone i woke up with that pit in my stomach ahhhh

  • @carolinavaldez8450
    @carolinavaldez8450Ай бұрын

    45? Wow 😂 interesting, that’s wayyy too much dear😂

  • @drinkingmiranda1831
    @drinkingmiranda1831Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @angelikap8303
    @angelikap8303Ай бұрын

    Earlyyyyy ❤

  • @Seraphina93
    @Seraphina93Ай бұрын

    Feel free to ignore, rant. -he was so kind and attentive. Six months and counting. Then one day I told him my girlfriend asked me to live w her, And he exploded on me, Told me everything he hates about me, And that I deserve the xyz experience I had (many women know what I mean), And that I provoked my ex to do it. And when he made me cry he acted as if he didn’t notice. He was still surprised I stopped talking to him today though.

  • @melisa465

    @melisa465

    Ай бұрын

    Was he always like this when you guys argue

  • @dIvYaa487

    @dIvYaa487

    Ай бұрын

    Wht xyz experience

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    29 күн бұрын

    @@dIvYaa487don’t want to speak about it kind of obvious

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    29 күн бұрын

    @@melisa465no Usually he said „it’s fine we have two different opinions“. I think he felt rejected, But he’s been hardly speaking to me since mid May, Still saying he appreciates me/ just busy but um You’re not a mine worker bestie

  • @Lolcoca
    @LolcocaАй бұрын

    I do not take The Defense of anyone but if you see that a person is not made for you ! Focus on your life and your Goals ! Complaining will not help ! Let their blah blah blah 😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @robert661
    @robert661Ай бұрын

    first?!

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity--Ай бұрын

    I don´t believe in therapy, cosh i know more math than you do. That construction work was a therapy. Got it ?

  • @--Singularity--
    @--Singularity--Ай бұрын

    Jesus said it: Only the sick needs Therapy.

  • @simonesimmons

    @simonesimmons

    Ай бұрын

    everyone is sick dawg...

  • @--Singularity--

    @--Singularity--

    Ай бұрын

    @@simonesimmons Well. Thats true. Manipulated in this simulation.

  • @--Singularity--

    @--Singularity--

    Ай бұрын

    @@simonesimmons So. Who you gonna call ?

  • @mariaaaa180
    @mariaaaa180Ай бұрын

    I was just thinking of you and dmnn you posted 🤌🌝

  • @ud29
    @ud29Ай бұрын

    i love how the videos don’t seem repetitive and same 🫶🏻

  • @irishlivs
    @irishlivsАй бұрын

    I know he is NOT for me because I could literally list SO MANY things. However, possibly seeing him is stopping me from cutting him off on social media (since most likely, we’d be classmates again for law school). 😩

  • @irishlivs

    @irishlivs

    Ай бұрын

    And the way we’re not even together, just had a sort of situationship very much says how I should leave! (I left but still stalk him at times 😩)

  • @Seraphina93

    @Seraphina93

    Ай бұрын

    Doesn’t matter, Don’t even acknowledge the b*tch

  • @Chila-ty9sy
    @Chila-ty9syАй бұрын

    Omg, I´am the red flag

  • @st1tchedheart

    @st1tchedheart

    Ай бұрын

    so real