I’m 64 and live alone, moved alone, fixed my car, changed jobs, painted my house, manage my budget, installed ring cameras, take care of my health, support myself financially, decorate my home…you name it…I’ve done it!! And this is all within the past 4 years! Ladies, there is NOTHING you can’t do!

@Bindi728

9 күн бұрын

Sassy wish you lived down my road we’d make great mates ! I too do it all and love it ! Only difference is I have a beautiful husband x keep being Sassy! You sound amazing!!

@susannefitzpatrick9955

9 күн бұрын

But do your friends and kids help out?

@proudmganda1159

5 күн бұрын

Not everyone has friends or children. I have been living with my 2 children since I had the youngest 35 years ago. Away from my country of birth for 38 years, both my children have left the country for better jobs since they finished University and I am very proud of both of them as a single mother. They do visit, so do I and I can’t ask for more, at 60 years, I still hold a job (in mental health crisis) living alone has given a chance to take myself first .

@Bindi728

5 күн бұрын

@@proudmganda1159 what a wonderful mother! Besides you now have a purpose caring for others and looking out for yourself too! It must be hard missing your children nearer to you but your living life to the fullest! Wonderful!

@belindamurone5516

5 күн бұрын

Thank you, l needed to hear this x

I’m 67 and have been divorced for almost 30 years and loving it. When I was married I felt so alone, now I’m alone but don’t feel like I felt when I had someone. Also, even when I was married, I was the one making all the decisions,working, taking care of the kids, trying to fix things, etc… I know I’m very independent and self sufficient which helped me a lot living alone. I love my freedom and cannot see myself married again. Love my life! Ladies, you can do anything by yourself! Be blessed🙏🥰

I’m 56. I’ve been living alone for 14 years. The peace is immeasurable.❤

I’m 72 today! June 22…I’ve been on my own since 2006 and I love my life! I’m responsible for me and me alone. It’s wonderful!

@user-xg8ut5kh9j

3 күн бұрын

Happy Birthday, my birthday is also June 22 I just turned 57 and separated April 1, smartest thing I've done in my whole life.

@teamginger6359

Күн бұрын

Yay!! Enjoy!

@Jammer411

Күн бұрын

What happens when you're in the hospital for a heart attack or stroke?

@BangtanBangtanBusan

Күн бұрын

​@@Jammer411 She has family

58, never been married. Living alone expert.

@user-xg8ut5kh9j

3 күн бұрын

You're smart, I regret getting married, especially to the wrong guy but I'm legally separated from him now and living on my own for the first time at 57 and much happier🙂

@HaiPham-yn8fm

3 күн бұрын

never married you must be don't like man?

@ncousins2688

2 күн бұрын

Me too!

@MelP3121

2 күн бұрын

Me too... And childfree!

@MelP3121

2 күн бұрын

Me too... And childfree!

I got divorced in 2017 and was left with a lot of debt accumulated by my then husband. I got depressed and didn’t enjoy my life. My mum passed away in May 2019 and in May 2020 I was diagnosed with stage IV ovarian cancer. Am in remission as of April 2021 and am living my best life at 71 yrs old. Thank you so much for this video.❤ Much love from The Netherlands.

@jchiappardi891

3 күн бұрын

Bless you. Gives me hope ❤

@roseoreillysievers6057

3 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry for what you've been through. You have a very positive attitude which has helped you. Blessings for the future

@WeTHINweekly

2 күн бұрын

Yes, congratulations on your remission from stage IV ovarian cancer. Its such an encouragement to learn woman can get past the worst.

@ricardajames5769

Күн бұрын

Blessings to you 🙏 ❤

@GordanaMitrovic-jq9cs

20 сағат бұрын

On you tube try to find Roots of Ortodoxy❤❤❤У част моје преминуле мајке,(Нада),поздрав из Србије

I have been living alone since my divorce 22 years ago. I’m 62 now and honestly, cannot imagine living any other way! I love the freedom of being able to do everything from staying up late to sew with music on to having a martini with cheese and crackers for dinner if that’s what I feel like. The first weekend I was alone years ago, I called a girlfriend and told her I was giddy with content and it’s been that way ever since.

@tammymelvin6254

8 күн бұрын

This is crazy...it reads like I wrote it! I've also been divorced 22 years and just turned 62. I love living alone doing whatever I want to do. I love my PT job in mental health, and I'm perfectly content.

@Myspirit904

8 күн бұрын

@@tammymelvin6254 Kindred spirits! My marriage wasn’t horrible or abusive and we’re still friends…I just don’t think I’m cut out for marriage.

@thisaintsyourmomsaccount9693

5 күн бұрын

Yes living single feels healthy and peaceful…..Love the freedom👍🏻🌻

@thisaintsyourmomsaccount9693

5 күн бұрын

Yes living single feels healthy and peaceful…..Love the freedom👍🏻🌻

@marisolcourtney-walker5480

Күн бұрын

Me too!!!! God my dog and I ❤ 22 living my life

I have been widowed for 15 years and love living on my own. I do what I want, when I want and answer to no one x

I would like to add the fifth suggestion.. Find something to occupy your mind by doing something productive. You could sort the house out by focusing on each room or a corner each day to get rid of the accumulated stuff. Create your own exercise routine, learning from watching videos on KZread. Join a library to start reading books, if you don’t already. It is very important to keep our brain ticking, and body healthy.

I have lived alone for 50 years, and I am happy 😅

@summerbreeze1955

5 күн бұрын

super x

If you are healthy, living alone is a good thing.

Even in rough times ( I’ve had them 😮) Remember… U can do ALL THINGS WITH JESUS!

@godshealed9093

10 күн бұрын

Amen❤👏 👏

@alexandracummings2852

10 күн бұрын

Is that like google?

@jackiedavis6398

9 күн бұрын

Amen!

@lauraalbritton4579

Күн бұрын

Amen and God Bless you always.

1. Take care of yourself 2. Assess your skills/abilities 3. Create personal safety 4. Have fun/Enjoy your freedom

having been in abusive relationships in the past for me it is bliss not having to listen to what is wrong with me :) ....

@karmasutra4774

2 күн бұрын

I had this happen to me once and I understand what you mean. No screaming or holes in the walls either. It is peaceful ❤

I’m 62, my husband passed away this past August. And I’m still not used to living alone. Thank you for this positive and uplifting video. I know in time, living alone will be the new normal for me. I’m so happy I came across your KZread video today. 😊

@meckismicki

10 күн бұрын

I don't know your circumstances. I am a widow. I just wrote a long post. I just want to say make sure you give yourself all the time you need to grieve & lead with your heart & don't let anyone encourage a change you are not ready for. My heart goes out to you for your loss. Losing a spouse to divorce is not the same as losing a loving spouse to death.

@margareth3479

10 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words. ❤

@susanned.9615

10 күн бұрын

My heart feels for you (my husband passed 3 years ago). You will get more used to it, but I still turn around to say something to him. Give yourself time and take care of yourself first. Keep in touch with friends (it's too easy to isolate yourself). Take care.

@meckismicki

9 күн бұрын

@@margareth3479 You are so welcome. Anytime!

@kimberlyberlin4999

7 күн бұрын

God bless you. My husband has a grave illness now and I've worried about being alone after he passes. I know the sadness will be all consuming in the beginning but hopefully you and I can be as happy as she is being single. She makes a lot of good points. Take care of yourself.

Love living alone, being alone, and my freedom. Cannot imagine dealing with another person. Come and go as I please and no one to report to.

@jovickers5313

10 күн бұрын

Totally agree

@sallyrobbins7770

9 күн бұрын

Isn't it great?! :-)

@jovickers5313

9 күн бұрын

@@sallyrobbins7770 it really is. Relaxing, no one getting on your nerves (apart from yourself!) doing your own thing, eating what you want, when you want, silence is therapeutic IMO

@alicecoleman5532

5 күн бұрын

I love living alone. I do live in a high rise apr bldg, which is like a small community. If I want to be around others, I join some if the activities here. If not, I have my primary and no one bothers ne.

@marisol6560

3 күн бұрын

💯 true! I don’t think I’ll ever get married again. It is so nice and liberating!

I'm 62 and have been living alone for 16 years and I have never been happier. I stopped dating then as well.

@tinachristine4573

5 күн бұрын

I think I'm about to join this tribe of women. Dating is a hustle, men don't give as much as they promise 😂😂😂

@user-xg8ut5kh9j

3 күн бұрын

@@tinachristine4573 Most men lie, I just became legally separated in April of this year and much happier in many ways.

14 years divorced, 65 years old…never been happier! ❤

Anybody here living alone but doesnt have kids? It makes a difference, when you don't have kids/grandkids you truly feel alone.

@Angela-tt5ik

2 күн бұрын

I am in that situation too. I don't have kids so the isolation is worse. I don't have any visitors. I do work and that's my social interaction but it's true no one talks about the childless woman living alone. I wish someone would.

@carolinelewis952

2 күн бұрын

I don't have kids either, but I do have sisters and nieces and nephews. I'm looking forward to living alone. I am 55, getting healthier as time goes by.

@denisepfahl3147

Күн бұрын

​@@Angela-tt5ik that's why pets are so popular! Some do foster grandparents program and volunteer, clubs....develop hobbies and interests...explore your options and have fun!

@Myspirit904

Күн бұрын

I also do not have kids…it is tough sometimes when I see former classmates and friends happily involved with their families. I do have a dog and will always have one, I need that companionship.

@cindicobb6598

Күн бұрын

And Even When You DO Have Kids.. Trust That ... 😮😊😊

Thanks Kimberly for this video! My husband passed very unexpectedly 3 years ago now. Since then KZread has been my main man - I have fixed my Dyson animal vac, my washer, and just the other day my garbage disposal jammed - found the fix on KZread and saved myself serious $$$ on a house call. You inspired me when I found myself suddenly alone - I figured if you could get rid of everything, pack up the dog and cat, and move across the country on your own, I needed to get my act together (so I did).

@cherylt5818

11 күн бұрын

Wow, you ladies are so inspiring!!!

@rebella5769

11 күн бұрын

Wow, that's amazing and inspiring. I applaud you.

@jovickers5313

10 күн бұрын

Well done. Surprising what one can do when one has to

@jovickers5313

10 күн бұрын

My family and friends contact me when requiring help with technical things, even changing internet providers!! I moved home on my own, decorated, everywhere and organised things I'm not qualified to do like electrics etc. I was 72 at the time. The removal people came 4.30pm, drove my things to my new home and by the following morning I'd unpacked all my boxes and put things away, clothes in wardrobes and drawers too yet months after I moved people were asking if I was settled and no longer living out of boxes!!!

I have been alone for a long time and I live by the love in Psalm 91. ❤ You Kimberly

@pdnat1458

4 күн бұрын

Psalm 91 is one of my favorite passage of scripture in the Bible! Thanks for sharing!

@kimberlystrickland1029

4 күн бұрын

Just read Psalm 91 because of you! I really needed it....thank you! God Bless- Kim

@user-ry1vi1jc7o

23 сағат бұрын

Psalm 91 is better than the best security cameras or barking dog one could have!

I’m 60 and live with my partner who is 42. I admire anyone who can live alone and accomplish everything on their own but for me I would miss the companionship. I was alone for 8 years and did get to the point where I spent time with myself and loved it but I also love having a loving partner. He gives me the space I need so I can still cook or not, stay up or not etc. He works and I stay home running our business on the books end and our antique business. It works for us! I salute you though strong, single women xx♥️

.... what I need to do to keep myself optimally healthy and happy is ... to LIVE ALONE. Husbands are such a drag when you're past a certain age ... But let's be realistic: Living alone isn't for every woman, be it for financial reasons, emotional ones or a combination of both. The tips you offer are excellent for any woman who is financial stable, physically healthy and emotionally strong to have quality life living by herself.

@BarbaraPavel

5 күн бұрын

My husband died 6 years ago after a 15 year cancer battle - even though it was difficult,, I would give anything to have him here as a "drag on my life" because I miss him so much.

I just found your channel. I have been divorced for 26 years and living alone and loving it.

I love the comment about the food you left in the refrigerator are still there when you go back. I laughed out loud.😂

@Niueniue88

5 күн бұрын

Same. I laughed 😂 out loud too

@user-ry1vi1jc7o

22 сағат бұрын

The comment about food in the fridge is funny. For me though, I was always the culprit, and it was others who suffered the loss of their food. Particularly vanilla ice cream.

I don't mind being alone, but at the same time, I can't imagine life without my husband.

I'm 55 and never married. I love living alone! Nothing like it! 😊💛

@summerbreeze1955

8 күн бұрын

Super well done! blessed be x

I've lived alone for 35+ yrs now! I do it all myself at 64. People just don't get it at all. Its just better. I'm with you all the way girl!!🥰💜💜💜

@user-ry1vi1jc7o

23 сағат бұрын

I have done many things by myself, and I'm comfortable eating out alone, but I have to admit that when I do go to touristy places by myself, I do feel a little embarrassed not to be with somebody else. But this video and the comments here give me some encouragement to not be embarrassed and just enjoy it all the more.

Growing up and watching my mom depend on my dad - I vowed never to be dependent on a man. I’ve been married 32 years and I’m not dependent on my husband. He traveled a lot so I made sure that I can do things around the house and mechanical. If something happens to him or a divorce - whatever may happen, I’m confident I will make it 😊

Im 67, have been living alone since 2001...loving it! "Truer words have never been spken". The freedom is phenomenal.

Thank you. I needed this. I am 56, was a single mom for 20 years, but my daughter is now moving away. Thank you so much. You look amazing. Thank you for the inspiration.

All I can focus on is #1which I have to do, so thanks on that. My husband has dementia & the darker side of his personality has taken over. So every day I have to walk on egg shells. So the idea of living alone sounds like heaven to me.

@JJ-jl1ge

10 күн бұрын

Wishing you health and happiness.

@AyaSmith-rb2hp

10 күн бұрын

So very sorry you have to go through that. Care taking is the hardest job in the world.

@21majc

9 күн бұрын

I’m glad you are taking care of yourself, and hope you have a good support system in place. I watched my father go through this behavior with Alzheimer’s and encouraged my mother to get respite workers in to relieve her periodically. She didn’t go this route. None of us lived in the same state where they did. They wanted to stay put. We helped as we could around our jobs. I also encouraged her to attend Alzheimer’s Association meetings. She tried one meeting but felt the folks weren’t kind. I asked her to try another group but she didn’t care to try again. I wished I’d tried those same meetings where I’d lived. It broke my heart to see my father that way and my mother dealing with him the best that she could, at her expense.

@summerbreeze1955

8 күн бұрын

Take care blessed be x

@tinachristine4573

5 күн бұрын

Don't fear arranging for respite care so that you take a break from time to time.

Hi Kimberly.....This is Kimberly here too!! I just found you today. I will be 66 in August. I am just starting a new job on Monday. I already work part-time at a Health Food Store. So I am now working at a new Community store that is all about local stuff. I feel so fortunate to be working with this amazing gal that came from poverty. She is helping our community here with three gardens with grants from the State. We will be growing food like microgreens and other veggies. This is another good learning opportunity for me to learn and help our community.

I've been married 46 years and through all the ups and downs we've always been there for each other. Some enjoy the solitude of living alone and there's nothing wrong with that...but for me having my life partner by my side has only enriched my life even more. I feel very blessed. And when that one day comes when one of us is ready to pass on, the other will be there to hold their hand, give them comfort and tell them how special they made their life...and be by their side until they take their last breath. 💞

@debraj357

10 күн бұрын

You are a blessed lady!!

@tonimartine7985

10 күн бұрын

That's beautiful.

@barbsinclair7352

10 күн бұрын

I would feel different I'm sure if I had had a great partner, I had the worst marriage, not supportive, not loving, hated to go home each day!

@valeriealmaguer4747

10 күн бұрын

@@barbsinclair7352Best to remain single , girlfriend. Have your own enriched and fullfilling life! Very, very , very few marriages are truly wholesome and truly supportive and truly loving.

@valeriealmaguer4747

10 күн бұрын

@@barbsinclair7352Best to remain single then , girlfriend. Have your own fullfilled and rewarding life. Very, very, very few marriages are truly supportive, truly honest and truly loving.We are fortunate to live in a society where we can make our own choice.🤍

That’s all well and good if you live in a friendly and warm area as you do - try being single and older in dull, grey, rainy and unfriendly UK where no-one speaks to you, smiles or even has eye contact: and if you’re an ‘elder orphan’ people think there’s something wrong with you! I had a bad fall in April and was stuck in bed for 7 weeks - not one of my neighbours came to check if I was OK - and one of them’s a preacher! You are SO lucky.

@kathykaufman1244

9 күн бұрын

Hey Susanne, sorry you are having a bad time. Why not do what you just did? Write to people! No one gets letters or cards nowadays. You could bring such a light to others!

@annanajduch5201

5 күн бұрын

Sorry to hear. :(

@tinachristine4573

5 күн бұрын

I live alone in grey England and I couldn't have it any other way. The Brits are not into each other's business at all. I had to adjust to that.

@ivarodrigues3601

5 күн бұрын

I completely agree to that statement. I live in the UK and feel completely isolated even though I am a friendly person and easy to make friends. People are just so unfriendly here, I have never seen anything like this!

@60sbaby608

5 күн бұрын

You're not alone with that problem, I'm friendly and nice to everyone of my neighbors but have been without a car for a couple of years and now none of them try to speak to me, have never offered a ride to the store, watch me struggling riding transit busses in a small town, not even a big city where many people ride them, I don't get it either. I would have never sat back and done nothing for someone that so obviously needs a hand. Even now I would probably come to one of these neighbors aid if it was needed but that's just me, I know that sounds dumb probably.

I love the idea of starting a group for people 45 plus who are single and want to still live a full and exciting life. So many groups have a focus on romantic connection but I love the idea of like-minded people who want to form a community to be a support and do fun stuff. You have inspired me to start something like that locally. The emphasis is on positive fun-loving people who want to enjoy life and have fun experiences with others to connect and form a community.

@teridebont3747

10 күн бұрын

When I was in my 30s I belonged to a singles group where the emphasis was finding others to go do fun things, romantic involvements happened but were absolutely not the focus…. So fun…. And so needed. I think one of the more intimidating aspects of living alone is the idea of being lonely…. Starting and/or joining a group like this can make a big difference.

Great info ❤I’m 67 and live alone for the last 3 years and I adopted a 5 y/o Labrador and feel so much more comfortable and safe. I love living alone and eating by myself… freedom indeed 😊

@summerbreeze1955

8 күн бұрын

Loved all my companion babies, like you I also like eating alone blessed be x

My husband died over a year ago and I hate living alone. I absolutely can't stand it. I miss having him say I love you, to give me a compliment I know he meant, the companionship, to have someone to talk to, to sound off ideas to, to share things with, to work side by side, etc, etc. You ladies that are happy being alone, that's great and I know everyone's situation is different. As for me, I'd rather have him with me to do the things that are talked about here. No fear here just lots of loneliness.

@debw7120

11 күн бұрын

I understand what you're saying. My husband of 41 years passed away almost 4 years ago, and it has been a difficult transition. Right now I feel like I'm somewhere in between your loneliness and Kimberly's lifestyle. Like Kimberly I find myself enjoying some of the freedoms of living alone. I can keep things clean and organized, eat what I want when I want, etc., but I miss the companionship of having my husband by my side, to talk to, and snuggle with. My youngest daughter got me a rescue dog almost 3 years ago and that has made a difference in my life. I still enjoy those freedoms, but now I have some companionship and unconditional love. Obviously, it's not the same as human companionship and I still miss my husband and always will, but it has helped me. I no longer feel like I'm talking to myself because my little fur baby is there listening, though most likely not understanding. But she's excellent company, and I don't know what I'd do without her. You're still fairly new in your widowhood, so give yourself time to continue grieving and adapting. Things will get easier and you will find what works for you to bring joy into your life again and feel less lonely. I'll be praying for you in your new journey. 🙏💕

@juliepomp5843

11 күн бұрын

There's no short cut through grief. Each person must goes through the process in their own way. 18 years ago I was unexpectedly widowed. It was devastating! 6 months after I decided I had to make an effort to move on and I enrolled in every class that sounded interesting at my community center. I fell in love with line dance, no partner required. Then surprisingly, my previous place of employment asked if I would like to return. Best thing ever! I retired 3 yrs ago at 83. There's still a hole in my heart and a song, thought, or comment will bring tears but with some effort on my part, life slowly became full and satisfying in a different way. I wish this for you. 🤗 ❤

@jovickers5313

10 күн бұрын

My brother died 21 years ago and my sister in law never grieved her loss, kept smiling etc but I believe most need time to grieve in their own way. There again I also believe it's best not to dwell on grief for too long because I'm sorry to say we humans get fed up of people who are always miserable. Life is precious and we only have one go at it, so we have to enjoy what we've got while we have it. Grief is part of life, but time is a great healer

@jthompson-qk6xc

9 күн бұрын

@@jovickers5313 I get what you're saying, and with all due respect, I don't care if someone gets fed up with me. I don't need them. THEY can move on OUT of my life. I'll take as long as I feel to grieve.

@jthompson-qk6xc

9 күн бұрын

@@debw7120 Thank you so much for the kind words and prayers. I'm glad you have your little fur baby to be there for you. God bless you.🙏

I've lived alone (divorced) for over 25 years and I have enjoyed the freedom. That said, I do envy people in a stable, long term relationship. It just wasn't in the cards for me but I wish it had been different. I don't waste time wallowing in misery but I do wish things had been different for me. I have friends and relatives who have had very long marriages or relationships and I'm happy for them but occasionally feel sad that I never managed that.

Great tips but unfortunately not all of us can travel, live elsewhere, go to alot of places unless we have the means and the desire. Also, please never overestimate where you live and deem it safe..... No where is safe these days, even if you are in a "good, safe" area. Self awareness is key anywhere and everywhere. Living alone is not always terrific, it's lonely a lot of times and takes a while to get used to. I applaud you on your journey and joy of living alone, it's just not that easy..... For some maybe for not for all. Thanks for a great channel!

Great advise! Kimberly I was married for almost 35 years and have been living alone for quite sometime and love it as well. I live in Tx in a safe cul-de-sac. All of my neighbors are super friendly and so helpful. I’m an extroverted introvert so I love visiting but relish my alone time! I’m 70 and blessed to be in good health. I live with two very appreciative pets!

@babydollkincaid4584

10 күн бұрын

Can you talk about living alone and being broke?

@summerbreeze1955

8 күн бұрын

Companion pets are such a joy blessed be x

@babydollkincaid4584

8 күн бұрын

Can't afford pets they come with medical bills and food it's like having a child. You must be able to afford to care for them properly. It's not in the budget but I do love them.

@lynnpiazza346

5 күн бұрын

I learned that there's a term for an extroverted introvert... It's called an ambivert! That's me and it sounds like you too!

@lynnpiazza346

5 күн бұрын

​@@babydollkincaid4584 look on KZread for videos on living on a tight budget... There are many tips and hacks out there. 🙏🏻✝️

I’ve been living alone since 1986. Can’t believe it’s been that long! I’m a happy lady. ❤

I’d also add: 1. Leave a spare house key with a neighbour in case you have a fall and can’t get up - it will save the emergency services having to break down your door. 2. ALWAYS carry your mobile (cell) phone wherever you go on your property: if I were to pass out in my rear garden no-one would see me for all the greenery so don’t get caught out - always plan for emergencies. 3. If you live in a concrete jungle and hate it - move. I left it too late and am now stuck in a house I love in a location I loathe because the local authority (city hall) focusses on families, not older people. Don’t make the same mistake.

@helycrisea8189

2 күн бұрын

Very wise advice. Thank you very much.

I am 53 and newly single. I appreciate this video because everything you covered has been on my mind lately.

"The conversation is wonderful because it's all in your head." I love it!

@Niueniue88

5 күн бұрын

Me too. Love that. Also you can leave when you want

Wow, you sound like me! I am 68, living alone and LOVING IT!! I have ZERO problems going out to eat alone, and doing all kinds of things spontaneously. Just discovered your channel today, and I am a new subscriber. Thank you, Kimberly!

Biggest tip: Be WEALTHY!

You look beautiful! Healthy and glowing.

I heard about a study that showed that married men live longer than single men but single women live longer than married women. I am soooo happy, grateful and joyful that I live alone. There really isn't a day that goes by that I am so glad I'm not married. Yes, I had horrible relationships, but dating even after 50 I haven't had good experiences. I'm just so happy to have peace.

@user-ry1vi1jc7o

23 сағат бұрын

Me, too.

Happily single at 63.

@seabreeze7378

4 күн бұрын

Same and same age 😉😎💖

My husband died 11 years ago and I too am 67. I live in north central Fl and yes I'm enjoying life. I need to change my diet, but I'm working on that. Thank you for the wonderful video

Amen! I’ve been single for 9 years and loving my life, especially after moving to my 55plus community in central FL. I like to stay home sometimes and watch what I want to watch on TV, eat what I want to eat and decorate my house exactly how I want it. My ex husband wouldn’t even let me hang a picture myself. I can go out and have fun with my friends or go on vacation wherever I want. I’d love to be in a loving relationship but I am also happy to have my independence and peace.

Kimberly 71 yro living alone 17+ years? Had a flashing light installed 4 safety (hearing impaired) Love the quiet, freedom

I found this video very encouraging. I’m 63 and with my husband since I was 19. So I’ve never lived alone. My husband is older than me and has brought up several times in the last few years the subject of what would I do if he wasn’t around. It breaks my heart to think about that, but we’re not likely to die hand in hand. Hearing your words was somehow comforting.

I love being alone. I have neglected my health a little while caring for my elderly parents. My health is my number one concern. Thanks for reminding me to care for myself!

Hello beautiful lady. Im a widow since 34 and my kids are grown with children ❤. Don't know why but listening to you today. You're words ment so much . I was feeling a bit lost even though im a positive person. The fact that i love living on my own sometimes like all .i get lonely at times. ❤Thank you for reminding me that the world is my oyster. Im blessed i just needed to hear you to remind me of that .love and blessings. 🎉❤❤

Your hair and complexion look great!!! I so enjoy living with myself after years of hardship( long journey) I finally made it into housing if I need something fixed I call maintenance. I dated for a time all disasters. I am so joyful in my sanctuary home that I found by myself. I became so empowered figuring it out by myself. The freedom is exhilarating and I wake every morning so grateful. I never feel lonely or alone but happy. ❤️

@cherylann8292

10 күн бұрын

We are WITH ourselves! Atta girl

I’m 63 and still want a soul mate…I still work and take care of myself…😢

Hi, I'm 78, orphaned and never married, successful retired prof.its not always been easy, but remember there are many senior women who were married, now slone...girls we can do it we are stronger than we think... try to enjoy the years ahead...not moaning and sad..theres life in us yet!❤Remember just because we're alone, doesn't mean we're lonely. Travel, take up a sport fo what you want etc be happy 😊

I'm 61, and have been alone for about 7 years. I'm Absolutely loving my life of freedom. My motto is "Dance to the beat of my own drum!" Thank you for sharing, it's nice to know that there are others out there sharing my experience!

55 year old here who has been living alone (and loving it!) for 21 years. The story of your neighbour made me weepy. 💗💗

All the health steps one can take is no guarantee that bad things won’t happen. Best to have a plan for that.

I love living alone (with my dog) ❤

This is absolutely me ! I'm 65 and have been living alone for 20 years. The only thing that does not resonate with me in all you mentioned is the texting thing to a friend every morning. To me, it would be suffocating but I understand that it could be a safety feature for someone who is not in the same mental space that I am in. Last year, I retired, sold my townhouse, bought a new one in another town and moved exactly 23 days after my last day of work. Of course, that was a lot going on in a short period of time so I needed to rest for awhile after moving so I could recharge my battery. I am single, not actively looking for but open to a relationship BUT NOT at any cost. I have come to a point in my life where even if I met someone, I would choose to continue living alone in my own home. Absolutely NO moving in together. I enjoy my freedom , my health , my children and grandchildren. I have just returned from a 2 week trip to France. SO ladies, go out there even if it can be scary sometimes. Enjoy what you have and where you are now. Learn from every experience !

Yes, I’m 75 & going strong ! Same in my family. I google everything 😂 I also learned to ask for help. Plumbing, electric, garden, paint, wallpaper, flooring, I work on my equipment. I have almost 8 acres, I maintain it. I also run my own business. I just finished raising my Granddaughter, as well. I’ve always loved my time alone. I have no problem living alone or doing things by myself. I’ve always loved my freedom, doing what I want, when I want. I agree with you 100% !! It is wonderful !! I’ve been divorced for 24 yrs & I love it !! ❤ I love my life too! 💖

Thank you Kimberly, My beautiful husband has Alzheimer’s ( he age 69, me 58) and he has had significant changes however is We are fortunate enough to spend every moment together and we do have fun. Its a modified version of pre-alzhimers but we enjoy even though the conversations have nearly disappeared. And yes, a lot of work that I am humbled and honored to do. But you made me chuckle when you said being alone allows you to wear what you want - I laugh because even with my husband’s inability to articulate or converse anymore -he mainly just whistles or smile’s. But recen when I put on an a very expensive brand new gown to attend an out of town wedding -he sure found a way to express his dislike for the gown and shattered my thoughts of how lovely I must look 😆 Luckly I brought with me a backup gown that I could tell he thought was ok. So I wound up leaving the Sachini and Bachi gown along with hotel room tip behind on a hanger. Naturally I am giving my all to keeping my husband around but for a moment when you said that you can wear what you want-I chuckled and thought “ok good at least there is that’. I love both your channels and I benefit so much by listening while my hubby sleeps-your impact is so positive. Thank you

I don't have a car, and cannot afford even a used one. I have to walk to a bus stop to wait for a bus, and then have to tranfer to another bus. I don't own a Smartphone because I can't afford one. I rent a tiny room in an elderly person's house. I am on a super fixed income and even getting to a senior citizen center is two buses each way. Especially hard in hot weather, too hard to be waiting at bus stops to go to a senior center in 90 + degree weather. I have alway lived alone but when I was younger and worked, I rented a one bedroom apt. Now I cannot even afford a studio apt as rents are so high nowadays, on a very fixed income. There is a large senior citizen apt. not too far from me but you have to have 3 x monthly income over the renr to qualify to live there. I think the one bedrooms rent for $1, 750 a month, so you have to have 3 x that. They don't have studio apts. there. So it is very hard to be alone sometimes. My family was never self sufficient type people and we never even camped our or knew how to do things, We always lived in apts anyway, never had a house.

I’m a 50 year old woman. I’ve been living alone and single for 10 years. I love it! Living my best life. I highly recommend it!

Hi Kimberly, nice to meet you. My name is Debbie I live alone I’m 62 and I am in Central Florida Mineola and I’m divorced now for seven years. I am a diabetic and I have a lot of nerve damage on my hands and my feet. I try my best to take care of myself, the best that I can. My problem is I do not drive and it’s hard for me to get out I have to Uber everything but it’s hard to drive when you can’t feel the pedal or the brakes.

I'm 52 and just learning to live alone. I really like the freedom but have been worried about daily duties that he did. I'm somewhat physically limited. Thank you for this video. You are so right!!! Thank you.

You look fantastic. I think your single Florida lifestyle agrees with you. I’ve watched your channel for several years and you look the best ever. Thank you for your weekly inspiration.

I’m about to be divorced and it will be my first time living alone. I plan on adopting a cat, but not right away. I figured I get myself settled first.

I never married, no kids, have been an independent loner for years, and lived alone for 5 years, decorated my whole apt and love, love it. I exercise every day, have hobbies, and have friends .

Side Note: Yes The University 😊 Of You Tube 😊... Teaches EVERYTHING! 🤗👍🏿👍🏿

I live alone and I love it. I can do whatever I want. I’m in charge. No problem. 🙏❤️

Perfect timing! I’m 65 and considering living alone since college. Your video made me think. Thank you for sharing this and suggesting things that might help me.

Please do a video of the fun things you have done…and fun things that are possible on a limited budget for single, older women.

I too am enjoying being just me and my cat at home.

@susanbanton6338

11 күн бұрын

Me and my 2 cats!! Love the freedom.

65 here 😊 living on my own and single for quite a while, and absolutely love it. Total Freedom 🤗

I'm 54 and I absolutely enjoyed your video. Thank you so much for inspiring me. Have a great day.

Thank you for your inspiring words. It's just what I needed to hear. I'm 53 and going through a separation that I never saw coming. It will be a learning curve for me but I will take it one day at a time. Thanks again.

Thank you I needed this today I’m single 67 and I will be doing more things

Thank you for this video this morning. I needed your positive attitude and great suggestions. My husband passed away almost 6 years ago.

We the men our intention is always good even though it does not look so from different perspective. By the time we realize how things work, it is just too late. That is how nature work and I am not going to argue with it. At the end everything things balances out. Hopefully these are the lessons we can share with our kids and prepare them for better future.

I loved your talk👏🏻 Very inspiring! I’ve lived alone most of my adult life. Like you, I love my life! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Thank you for your useful sharing Kimberly. You look amazing at 67! I'm from Malaysia, 55, never married. Love the freedom.

Thank you… thank you. I am in my mid 50s been divorced for 13 yrs. Family does pressure not to stay single to find someone but even though I am open for the right person to share my life but has just not happened and I am ok with it. I so love living alone and enjoy my family so much. I am ok with this stage of my life ☺️♥️

I have been in that situation before and I did love it. It is a sense of such freedom. My mom and boyfriend live with me now and they are such a blessing but if age is a factor I will be alone again one day and I’m not scared by that.

I have almost 10 years of being on my own.My husband died suddenly when I was 57.It certainly has been a challenge for sure but I have adapted. Looking after myself is imperative so that I don’t become a burden to my children.I like planning travel and home projects.Love making those executive decisions. lol. But for the life of me I can’t go to a restaurant by myself. Maybe someday. 👍 .

@susanmurrell635

4 күн бұрын

I can't go to a restaurant by myself either but I can go to a diner. Maybe because it's less intimate, more casual and noisy???? You might be able to do that. See how you feel. Take care.

@deborahpowell3454

4 күн бұрын

@@susanmurrell635 Thanks for the tip.Maybe,maybe.Have a super Sunday.

@LiaJ-ez6rz

3 күн бұрын

Going to a nice restaurant at lunchtime feels different than in the evening. I do go out by myself at night, especially when on holiday. But some people will ask you if you are on your own. Some people even act as though they feel sorry for you. But there is admiration too, especially from the women who would clearly rather be alone than with boorish companions. Sometimes men will try to join you thinking you are looking for company, so it is best to have your no face ready. Still, a smart outfit and a solo lunch has a different vibe. Even when I was in my twenties and married I often had theatre days or park days alone with a nice lunch. My then husband had no interest in my hobbies, and I was happy to go alone rather than argue about it. I do not get the same problems with a restaurant lunch as I do with dinner, and the journey home is safer and easier.

You are glowing! You look better every Sunday!!!!! That Red Light sure helped me too!!!! No sugar!!!!!

@lindalifeetc.5296

11 күн бұрын

She does!!!!!

I love your attitude your positive energy you make me feel like can do anything.

I love living alone! It is liberating!

I'm 30 and watching this. it just popped up, but even though I'm not middle aged, you made me feel better when you said nothing can happen that I can't KZread my way out of. lol these are good tips. I probably will never be married or have children, so I need to know this stuff! thanks!

Kim, I agree with everything you said about being alone. I already told my husband that when he passes, I will be living alone. Not ashamed to say that either. Great video!

I can’t imagine living with anyone. I love people,they love me but don’t think for one second that I am needy..lolol. Love this life and love my son. He’s an independent 31 year old and I’m an independent 70 year old. We need each other’s love,compassion and advice. 😊 thanks gurl

You are very fortunate, I can not say the same for my neighbors

@Debra_Barron

5 күн бұрын

Neither can I . There can be danger anywhere.Even where Kim lives in Florida. Be aware.

@lalsgreen5359

2 күн бұрын

It's gets lonely though. Not having someone to talk to.

I agree with you 100%. Life is so much simpler and so much freer.

Well said... good for all of us!

Hi, I just happened to see your channel for the first time tonight. I also subscribed. I feel this is just perfect for me. I lived alone for about 5 years, and then my brother moved in with me for about 3 or 4 years. I've been alone again since, approximately 10 years. I, too, love living alone, doing what I want, when I want, if I want. I'm blessed to talk to my sister friend every day, and my other bestie we talk almost every day and go shopping or eat out or I take her to her appointments. Sometimes, I do feel lonely, but then I get over it. So again, I am glad I found your channel and to be a part of a group that has similarities or that can encourage one another.

My youngest got married and I've been living alone for 2 years. Been divorced for 21 years. Most of the time I enjoy it but I have my moments. I'm still working on 2 jobs that I do like but hopefully will be retiring from one within 5 or 6 years 🙏🏽 Thank you, this is very good advice, I'm saving this video. Getting ready to go down AC on the boardwalk 🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️ I've LEARNED to ENJOY my own company and do lots of things by myself. In the beginning it felt lonely but It doesn't anymore.