4 Steps to Discovering Your Core Values

McKenzie@mckenziehaglund.com
This video will help you to discover your core values. Core values will help you create the life of your dreams.

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  • @jennijennij
    @jennijennij9 ай бұрын

    Trustworthy, adventure, simplicity, wisdom. faithfulness. This was so helpful! Thank you!

  • @KenLenoir91
    @KenLenoir915 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Mckenzie for this video! I really liked the last part "What does the value mean to you?" That was very helpful. As of right now mine are: 1) Satisfaction - Doing all I can do, doing my best, surrendering to God 2) Happiness - Feeling good physically, choosing to be happy regardless of circumstances, exercising control over my attitude 3) Adventure - Seeing new things, traveling to new places, gratitude/appreciation for it all 4) Love - Seeing the best in people, making people happy/feel good about themselves, receiving the goodness of people 5) Protection - I'm able to deal with any external or internal challenge, I feel safe and secure, I'm physically/mentally/etc strong 6) Abundance - I'm grateful, I'm resourceful, I have faith the universe/God will meet my needs

  • @annonymous9063
    @annonymous90635 жыл бұрын

    Great motivation to redo a values check because, like life, they also change. 1. Balance 2. Connection 3. Spirituality 4. Creativity 5. Making a difference 6. Beauty 7. Adventure 8. Wisdom 9. Pleasure 10. Fairness

  • @MrPaulJacobson
    @MrPaulJacobson7 жыл бұрын

    McKenzie, I used your video with my seniors at Gilbert High School today. Many of them have come up with college majors and job titles they would like to pursue and over the course of a few lessons we have been talking about work values. I want the students to grasp it is there core values that will help determine their happiness, satisfaction, and level of stress. Thank you for your great video. I look forward to checking out your other videos. Great job.

  • @celestialfrequency

    @celestialfrequency

    2 жыл бұрын

    I wish I had a teacher who would have done that with me in high school

  • @abommuaa925
    @abommuaa9256 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mckenzie. I will add that you must have priority among your top 10 values and by that I mean if there is a conflict between 2 values which one you will choose and make your decision in life according to. If you have your first three values as: 1- family 2- work 3- health 4- ... then you found yourself working long hours that it affected your health for example. which one will you chose? As you see there is a conflict, should you work hard or take more care of your health? as one will affect the other, one must be more important to you, then lets say you choose to take care of your health even if your work life is affected, that is your #1 priority. The first 3 values will govern 80% of your choices in life so choice them carefully as conflict will arise later. How to prioritize them? Get excel sheet and put all 10 values in columns and rows then compare one value from each row to all values in columns and ask yourself this question " is (value in row) more important than (each value in column ) ...?" create a situation or scenario in your mind that these two values conflict each other and had to choose only one of then. choose according to your true value deep inside not what you wish it to be. If your answer is yes put 1 in the intersection cell if no leave it blank and do this to all of the values in the column and remember you compare 1 value of one row to all values in columns. do not switch them, 1 row then all columns. Then prioritize them according to how many ones each value (row) have. These are your true core values then you can keep them if you are satisfied or change there priority or even add new ones that you want them to be in your values.Take all the time you need even if it take a month to do it, as it will show you your true current core values in life. Some core values prioritized [ for you to adopt if you want :) ] 01- Inner Peace 02- Awareness 03- Love and Passion 04- Health 05- Family 06- Joy 07- Freedom 08- Adventure 09- Abundance 10- Success Peace

  • @fayezmahfoud1316

    @fayezmahfoud1316

    5 жыл бұрын

    That was really helpful, I needed this. Thank you and I wish you a happy life.

  • @kourtenayt1927

    @kourtenayt1927

    3 жыл бұрын

    nice..

  • @shawnvandevenne
    @shawnvandevenne7 жыл бұрын

    My core values are: 1.Hard work 2.Honesty 3.Service 4.Integrity 5.Diligence

  • @bitingthewall
    @bitingthewall5 жыл бұрын

    1. Communication 2. Understanding 3. New Experiences/Change 4. Love 5. Compassion (Thanks for giving us a place to share :)

  • @donnafox4508
    @donnafox45086 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, i realized through your video that my values have changed from my 20s to 30s to 40s. Your examples are helping me to define my new values

  • @chickencucumbers
    @chickencucumbers7 жыл бұрын

    1. Happiness 2. Love 3. Optimism 4. Friendships 5. Fun/Adventure 6. Authenticity 7. Humour

  • @ugur9289

    @ugur9289

    7 жыл бұрын

    happiness, love are not a value. they are emotions.

  • @chickencucumbers

    @chickencucumbers

    7 жыл бұрын

    Thanks youre right actually

  • @MsxKattyStylex

    @MsxKattyStylex

    7 жыл бұрын

    Why is happiness not a core value? a career can be a value in your life, right? if that is important to you. so it could make a big difference if you value career above happiness or the other way.

  • @avimehenwal

    @avimehenwal

    6 жыл бұрын

    I think they are emotional values which matter to most of the people. Whats important to us is a value, even if its an emotion or feeling

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Happiness and love are emotions, but they can also be values. Living a life guided by love sounds amazing. Sign me up for a world where love is the core value!!!

  • @zlatamilova
    @zlatamilova3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video! I realised today that i lost the connection with my true inner self and i could not find out what my core values were. Now i worked on my list and i have 4 beautiful values that align with me perfectly. I am deeply grateful to you!

  • @Hechoentreencinas
    @Hechoentreencinas10 ай бұрын

    Thank you so much, it has been hard to find my 4 core values now that I am 67. From top to bottom: 1. Body and mental health 2. Curiosity 3. Independence 4. Challenge I find they are very similar to yours. But they are only words, it is important part 4, so I find what they mean form me. For example, body and mental health includes for me: I will make exercise, I will eat healthy food, I will include love , gratitude and happiness in everything I do, I will declutter and make everything simple, I will try to know myself and others, I will love and forgive myself and others, etc.

  • @monicaha827
    @monicaha8277 жыл бұрын

    Thank you SO much for this. This was very helpful for me, you helped me gained more clarity about my core values and why it's important. Thank you!

  • @DirkJFVanDerWalt
    @DirkJFVanDerWalt5 жыл бұрын

    Great. I did not fancy the video in the beginning, but as I listened more I gained respect and now I subscribed and activated notifications. I think I could immediately pick up that our personality types are not naturally harmonised, we are opposites in some respects, but I totally get what you mentioned about your type, and I value you for that, I think you are great.

  • @MegaMonk1992
    @MegaMonk19924 жыл бұрын

    1. Truth- seeing reality for what it is 2. Acceptance- let it be, openness 3. Gratitude- appreciation, love, respect for life 4. Curiosity- wonder, relaxation, child-like, learning 5. Beauty- human and nature, sexuality, elegance, pleasure 6. Exploration- active, insightful, courageous 7. Humor- sincerity, reflexive, vital Thank you so much for this video. I am a therapist working with and learning Acceptance and Commitment therapy and this will be a very useful and simple! 4 step process.

  • @paul-xt5pp

    @paul-xt5pp

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great list, Nick! Do you have a website?

  • @fayezmahfoud1316
    @fayezmahfoud13165 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Mckenzie, great value, I will definitely watch the video again.

  • @rayraystinz
    @rayraystinz4 жыл бұрын

    Life long learner (education/learning), raw connection, service to others, new experiences, gratitude

  • @itsjoy987
    @itsjoy9876 жыл бұрын

    1. Honesty 2. Loyalty 3. Good humor 4. Courage 5. Spirit of adventure 6. Inner peace 7. Serenity 8. Respect 9. Passion

  • @Potencyfunction

    @Potencyfunction

    Жыл бұрын

    I am everything but loya. And you can go to hell if you comment. Neiter faithfull. That is way u need forced landing.

  • @abhishekgupta2619
    @abhishekgupta2619 Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. I stumbled on it. And it's gold for me. Just what I was looking for.

  • @johnd1282
    @johnd12822 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for making this simple, easy and effective.. the easiest one I've found to follow and under 10 minutes. Subscribed!!!

  • @eyezerocool
    @eyezerocool7 жыл бұрын

    1. individuality 2. intelligence 3. charisma 4. curiosity 5. humor

  • @tripplem33888
    @tripplem338888 жыл бұрын

    best video ive ever watched! i think this s gonna change my life.

  • @mattnsim
    @mattnsim6 жыл бұрын

    Hi McKenzie I’m experiencing some depression at the moment. I’m getting psychological treatment at the moment. I figured I needed to establish my core values to help see what I’m about, and hopefully guide me toward healing. 1) Peace 2) simplicity 3) calm 4) Acceptance 5) reliability 6) Awareness

  • @BlackFox15

    @BlackFox15

    5 жыл бұрын

    I am just now starting this process for the same reason. Has it helped you? Do you find yourself in a better place?

  • @lorenzo767

    @lorenzo767

    4 жыл бұрын

    @@BlackFox15 Hey guys, hoping your best, if you have not check out bob proctor material about paradigm shift do it now. It will help you a lot! kzread.info/head/PLvx9sPHQ47JfcYPHX4eiDYZHJYOxQPPO4

  • @nohabasiouny3670
    @nohabasiouny36705 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the great, amazing and simple video! It really helped me a lot!

  • @uarelovedd8025
    @uarelovedd80254 жыл бұрын

    Love this video, thanks for the call out aswell.

  • @simplezindagivlogs5189
    @simplezindagivlogs51899 ай бұрын

    Finally got a clear cut explanation of core values 🙌 😅

  • @saiedhassan4280
    @saiedhassan42806 жыл бұрын

    Free to choice Living healthy Courosity to learn Doing new thing Traviling all over the world Spiritial life doing yoga Helping the other Forgive ness

  • @MGyoutube307
    @MGyoutube3072 жыл бұрын

    Wow. It’s good once you define the value. Thanks for sharing.

  • @ConorSantry
    @ConorSantry3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the helpful video Mckenzie. Your talk really resonated with me. After quite a lot of reflection, I've identified my top five core values as follows: Mental health Excellence Honesty/Authenticity Connection Learning & Growth

  • @abundancemindsetloading
    @abundancemindsetloading6 ай бұрын

    I adored that house metaphor!

  • @frankiebe4818
    @frankiebe48182 жыл бұрын

    You are a great teacher..

  • @asmaaljereb3651
    @asmaaljereb36515 жыл бұрын

    Great video very helpful thank you!

  • @kourtenayt1927
    @kourtenayt19273 жыл бұрын

    Excellent video on the subject !

  • @MeJustinRichard
    @MeJustinRichard6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! This means so much to me! A wonderful video!

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Hope you were able to define your core values!

  • @lynettecrosby1205
    @lynettecrosby12056 жыл бұрын

    I Live this it Really Helped me, I was feeling nervousness about figuring out what core values were thank you.

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! I hope you were able to define your core values!

  • @sethmcvey8325
    @sethmcvey83255 жыл бұрын

    not going to lie i really wasn’t expecting much from this video it just was shorter than most but honestly just you showing what a core value is and how to break it down i learned a lot about myself that i never realized i had mapped out. kudos to you!

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    5 жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear Seth. Look forward to hearing more about your growth in the future!!!

  • @sushmabhandari6161
    @sushmabhandari61612 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for sharing this.

  • @eren_y277
    @eren_y277 Жыл бұрын

    1. Influence 2. Connection 3. Leadership 4. Determination 5. Optimism 6. Happiness 7. Loyalty My List

  • @MiklynGrange
    @MiklynGrange6 жыл бұрын

    1. Independency 2. Individuality 3. Empathy 4. Honesty 5. Stability 6. Pride 7. Bravery 8. Responsibility 9. Impact 10. Loyalty

  • @JuliaJoyTheHealstorian
    @JuliaJoyTheHealstorian7 жыл бұрын

    Compassion. Curiosity. Connection. Courage. Awesome video! Thank you.

  • @kikimen1077
    @kikimen10775 жыл бұрын

    1.Curiousity 2. Passion 3. Individuality 4. Hard work 5. Loyalty

  • @franzhaas6889
    @franzhaas68895 жыл бұрын

    THIS WAS HELPFUL.😊

  • @nachristensen
    @nachristensen6 жыл бұрын

    1. Family 2. Balance 3. Creativity 4. Kindness 5. Gratitude 6. Abundance

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Great list! Thanks for sharing.

  • @elsiemuhumuza395
    @elsiemuhumuza3955 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful thanks

  • @elsalaw4263
    @elsalaw42636 жыл бұрын

    very helpful! thank you!

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for watching. Hope you were able to define your core values!

  • @aurorithusshadowstar8303
    @aurorithusshadowstar83033 жыл бұрын

    Listing a bunch of traits and virtues as core values is only moderately useful. To REALLY clarify what is important to YOU, you need to reflect on what specifically gets you emotional. What you have done that never felt like work. What comes effortlessly to you. What inspires you. What pieces of music or other experience make you cry tears of joy. AND you must be as specific as you can be. Journaling can be incredibly helpful with this.

  • @sarahwang7587
    @sarahwang75874 жыл бұрын

    Honest, independent, be fair, challenge the status, help others

  • @user-tt8xu9ic8i
    @user-tt8xu9ic8i3 ай бұрын

    Plz make more video very helpful

  • @MsxKattyStylex
    @MsxKattyStylex7 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! ^^

  • @salmamabrouk777
    @salmamabrouk7775 жыл бұрын

    Thanku so much♥♥♥♥

  • @donabundance4345
    @donabundance43454 жыл бұрын

    Very helpful

  • @pencil6252
    @pencil62522 жыл бұрын

    1. Modest behavior 2. Respect 3. Awareness 4. Direction 5. Commitment

  • @cchgmkt1745
    @cchgmkt17454 жыл бұрын

    thanks Mckenzie

  • @abdurezakmeka
    @abdurezakmeka3 жыл бұрын

    thats was helpful mis my core values goes like this 1. inner peace 2. courtesy 3. honesty 4. education

  • @zoltan-gero
    @zoltan-gero Жыл бұрын

    Thanks for the great video! My questions are: 1. I can't get the list below 10, but it seems too many, is there any ideal number? 2. One day I feel ths is the top, nex day that priority, but cannot fix prio, is that normal? How to fix priority? 3. A few depends on the other or next values, is this case are they just one Ie Honesty and Accountability, what I think = what I say = what I do, hard to differentiate. Same with Brave and Confidence, confidence is a byproduct when I'm brave, direct cosequence. In these cases, are they 2 or just 1 value? I call 2 value metavalues, referring to other values like Freedom because without them, the rest don't make any sense. Any thoughts on this? Thanks in advance

  • @OoOLithiumOoO
    @OoOLithiumOoO3 жыл бұрын

    1. Justice 2. Decisiveness 3. Achievement 4. Determination 5. Serenity 6. Humor

  • @colleen8927
    @colleen89272 жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @lukaso4644
    @lukaso46444 жыл бұрын

    Good stuff

  • @sinyandanso9552
    @sinyandanso9552 Жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @mattclark7700
    @mattclark77003 жыл бұрын

    To me, Core values are what you actually do day to day that you don’t need pushing to do. Ie if you love to play music, sport or operate your business set your life around that. That’s what your life demonstrates. These re just things in my opinion and to set a goal to achieve simplicity as life is both simple and complicated at all times will ultimately be self defeating. as life has an inherent balance of both. Go do what you love is true value honouring.

  • @Potencyfunction

    @Potencyfunction

    Жыл бұрын

    You bullshiting about ur opinion. What play music with for example a schizophrenia mysophonia and busniess value to honor at a pathologtical lier?? Yu 12 yo

  • @mattclark7700

    @mattclark7700

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Potencyfunction thankyou but i cannot understand a thing you are saying. Apart from you saying i am 12, i am not. Lots of love to you x

  • @touatitbelkais6072
    @touatitbelkais60724 жыл бұрын

    spirituality honestly working hard gratitude independency authenticity

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    4 жыл бұрын

    Those are great. Thanks for sharing!!!

  • @NewLife-qj9mx
    @NewLife-qj9mx3 жыл бұрын

    If you have a value that most likely stemmed from an abusive childhood, is it still considered "core"?

  • @mirrormirror6583
    @mirrormirror6583 Жыл бұрын

    wow sooo useful thanks a lot new subscriber and I do the list, and got six values;- Honour, I noticed that I have an excessive jealousy problem because of this the win, I am so afraid of losing Accuracy, and because of that I am a very skeptical person and this I like Independence, I don't trust the effort of anyone but myself Progress, I'm the type who regrets a lot if I make a mistake, so I evolve and change Peace, I never want to be annoying to someone

  • @jaishreepandey1031
    @jaishreepandey10313 ай бұрын

    Equality is something very important for me but apparently m not able implement it completely

  • @ghizlank
    @ghizlank7 ай бұрын

    i found mine a lil weird 1 competence 2 courage 3 respect 4 freedom 5 love 6 flexibility 7 autonomy

  • @waleedmahmoud722
    @waleedmahmoud7222 жыл бұрын

    try to use via character test

  • @Nick-bm9gk
    @Nick-bm9gk3 жыл бұрын

    My core values were Health Wealth Creativity Variety Spirituality and Athletic

  • @ironhazes
    @ironhazes6 жыл бұрын

    Did anyone notice how she DIDN'T require you to give us your personal top 5.....;-)

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Nope, but I sure like reading them. ;-)

  • @changeishappening8615
    @changeishappening86152 жыл бұрын

    Why Only 5 or 6 when you have allot more 🤔 Why not 40 to 50..? That will be very versatile and diverse. Tell your opinion about that.

  • @bbolivia
    @bbolivia2 жыл бұрын

    I love this video. I was writing and When you said “come on” I looked back at the video and started to giggle

  • @AstroCyprian
    @AstroCyprian4 жыл бұрын

    Many of our core values are actually unconscious and here comes Astrology as a great tool of support, because it shows what our core values are and when we sit with it and live accordingly to them we just build self-love rapidly. I made a video on how to define core values through a natal chart: kzread.info/dash/bejne/p2151Np-nrTFYag.html

  • @azharuddin7873
    @azharuddin78736 жыл бұрын

    But I actually got a pen and paper

  • @MckenzieHaglund

    @MckenzieHaglund

    6 жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Hope you were able to identify your core values!

  • @JonathanCrossland
    @JonathanCrossland7 ай бұрын

    If you value simplicity, would this video not be minimal and straightforward? I am not being rude, but ask this, as to whether you are being honest with your own values.

  • @smrtzttspanishenglishtutor67
    @smrtzttspanishenglishtutor675 жыл бұрын

    Responsibility, Respect, Honesty BUT NOT inspirational, Curiosity or simplicista

  • @smrtzttspanishenglishtutor67
    @smrtzttspanishenglishtutor675 жыл бұрын

    Some are not VALUES.

  • @szymonbaranowski8184
    @szymonbaranowski818421 күн бұрын

    it's not simplicity it's taking own time undistracted