Man I wish you are right...my wife fell in love with another man after 14 years of relationship (including 7 years of marriage). We are at the edge of being divorced. I know I was a jerk in the past 6 months and we argued a lot. I yelled at her terrible things that I totally regret and asked her to forgive me. She forgave me but don't interested in me anymore. She says I killed every positive feelings in her. She seems so emotionless it hurts. I moved from home one week ago, she even asked me - completely neutrally - that if she can pack my stuffs or something? She completely broke my heart. I'd be a brand new person, I came over my personal problems I was being angry and stressful during the past times. That was the reason I was such an idiot to argue that much, but it seems too late. I really really wish you are right. Thanks for sharing your positive words, it gives me a spark of hope in the dark.

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

Hello! I understand your condition now, but the most important thing is not to give up and not to think that this is the end of your relationship. In any situation, even in the most difficult one, there is a chance to get your loved one back. Let go of the past and start building the relationship again. If you watch the video in the course, you will get initial advice on how to get your wife back in the family.

@milanv3588

Жыл бұрын

@@alexbert Thanks a lot, I really appreciate your answer. Well, I try to keep one more week "no contact" and then trying to bring back some funny, lovely memory from the times when we were in love and had a lot of fun together. Not too pushy, not too desperate just in a "normal" way.

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

And rightly so. It is important to be yourself and not be afraid to take the initiative in communication.

How to make a 5:38 video while talking none stop while at the same time saying absolutely nothing at all

@alexbert

4 ай бұрын

Hello! Was this information not useful for you? What would you like to see a video about?

will have been together five years on the 24th of this month... on the 31st of last month he told me he wasnt "feeling it" between us anymore, we both cried, talked it out with friends of ours, hes says im still his best friend but i cant lose him, he goes out with his friends alot now and while he makes time for us to hang like we "used to" its not the same, he says he needs to figure things out in his own head and im trying to give him space and its killing me, he truly is my soulmate and i dont know what to do without him, we live together with another friend of ours and her father, he sleeps in his office and i sleep in the bedroom, im pretty sure theres a girl hes talking to as well, how do i go about re awaking that spark between us?

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

Hello! You have stopped satisfying him as a woman he wants to be with, this has happened because you have behaved in different situations incorrectly. You cannot force, persuade or appeal to him, the only option is to change, to become attractive and desirable for him, to correct yourself and become more attractive to men, not only to him. In every woman there are attractive to men features, and there is the opposite - unattractive. It all depends on how quickly you can remove the unattractive features and replace them with attractive. You need to create an attractive image for him, then there is a high probability that he will have new feelings for you.

@TheFireflyGrove

Жыл бұрын

@@alexbert but correct what exactly? and how do i handle boundries? i would love to start being playful and maybe flirt with him a bit like used to but i dont know to be attractive to him again without stepping over any boundries he may have for us now, i havent really tested the waters as im scared of pushing him away more. Thoughts?

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

Hello! You need to figure out what has changed in you since you met him and get him back the girl he fell in love with.

@TheFireflyGrove

Жыл бұрын

@@alexbert okay i work on that, how do i figure out what he feels has changed about me?

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

You need to remember what you were like when you met him, and what you are like now. That's how you will know what has changed in you. And you have to take into account not only your appearance, but also your condition and your mood.

My husband is overseas on assignment. 6 months into his rotation, he calls for a divorce. I made a mistake and got overly wmotional one night and just blew up his phine with messages. That was the last straw for him. Yet a whole month prior and past that we were flirty, talking every day, sending life ideas on social media, planning a life inna another state once hebreturns home. Now he suddenly wants a divorce and im lost. Caught between gicing up and want tonto fight for the marriage. Help?

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

Hello! I understand your condition now, but the most important thing is not to give up and not to think that this is the end of your relationship. In any situation, even in the most difficult one, there is an opportunity to get your loved one back. In fact, what you need to do now is to stop calling and texting and let your husband know that you have let him go. Let go of the past and start building the relationship again. If you watch the video in the course, you will get the initial tips on how to get your husband back in the family. It is important to remove the conflict and after that it will be easier for you to get your husband back. The course will help you to come to the desired goal, do not doubt it.

@deehildebrandt6390

Жыл бұрын

@alexbert I can't just not text or call. We have 2 children together. Not communicating isn't an option and I rely on his income to take care of our children as we can't afford childcare. So I'm unable to work at the moment.

@alexbert

9 ай бұрын

You can maintain communication on neutral topics. Discuss child-rearing and everyday issues. It is important not to bring up your relationship and your feelings for him.

We had a strong passion. He is never irrelevant towards me. He still cares. But in a subtle way. He is talking about me when being with his parents. That's what he told me. He tells them when we meet. He suddenly prefers going partying, going out. Etc. Was not the case before. Break up was 9 weeks ago. I still hope for our reunion🫂

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

Hello! If you watch this video kzread.info/dash/bejne/a6agqtGAfcXFcco.html, you can probably repair your relationship.

@Txtcyccvdnnvc

18 күн бұрын

How did it went

What if it’s through text they said move on after I tried to convince and be kind

@alexbert

6 ай бұрын

Don't listen and apply all the recommendations from the course. This will be the best solution for you.

Strong emotion, is that also anger like blocking you? I was in no contact for 8 months with my dumper and I finally deleted him from whatsapp. his reaction was to block me. he normally never blocks people and as I said he broke up with me

@alexbert

8 ай бұрын

When a person blocks you for no reason, it means that he is angry at you for lack of initiative on your part. He's still thinking about you.

@DeadMysticx

8 ай бұрын

thank you for your answer. So you mean duringt that time, he still had some feelings for me?@@alexbert

@alexbert

8 ай бұрын

Yes, of course. Feelings can't just disappear.

@DeadMysticx

8 ай бұрын

thank you. during these 8 months he also stalked my whatsapp stories daily, which he never did during the relationship and he also showed jealousy and still had a present I gave him in his car. After he blocked me he also removed the present. So that means, as you said, he was probably hurt and angry. Now, 8 months after his blocking, I contacted him via letter and asked him if he wants to meet and have a coffee. He never answered, not even a cancellation. I know he is still single and isnt doing anything (vacation, hobbies, friends) anymore and his father died, shortly after I deleted him. Is he completely done with me? His not answering my letter, even if he write back "no", doesnt fit to him, and i think after two years of good relationship and because he was the dumper and he hurt me, I have to say that really hurts, that he cant even write me back. @@alexbert

@alexbert

8 ай бұрын

It doesn't matter whether he read the message or not, it doesn't matter whether he answered you or not, what matters is that you wrote him this letter and shared your feelings and experiences. Don't wait for a reply. Take a break for three days and move on to the next step in the course.

He is always because another woman baby and tells and buys them stuff he's trying to get back I think it's true he does not want he just wants we can get if y'all can splain more about it get back

@alexbert

Жыл бұрын

Hello, can I ask you to describe your situation in more detail and email it to me at english@alexbert.eu?

@Kim-zt8di

Жыл бұрын

I only dated my ex for a month. But it was so much passion and sexuality between us we couldnt keep our hands off each other. Then we went on a vacation with his family and he was starting to pull away. His family didnt aprove of me. I'm 44 now. And hes 31. We continued talking and hooking up for months. But it continued to hurt me that he didn't want to date me anymore. I still cant let him go. When I message him, he does message back and wants to come over. But I relize I have to put my foot down. What should I do now. He said he doesnt have feelings for me yet wants to talk and sleep with me?

@Kim-zt8di

Жыл бұрын

Also.i have purchased your couse, but cant dind the link to the videos to watch. Tha k you. Kim

@alexbert

9 ай бұрын

Hello! Thank you for deciding to seek help and it is the right decision. I am truly glad that you trust me. Write to english@alexbert.eu and you will definitely be sent access to the course. Everything will be fine, don't doubt it.