1) His actions show that he likes you. (The most important.) 2) He tries to impress you. A player will seduce you. 3) He invests time and effort into you. 4) He's ok with not sleeping with you right away.

@anneyoung2310

10 ай бұрын

I love Cliffs notes. Thank you tons.

First sign, you NEVER have to ask the question 😂😂😂

@centuryfiles9558

4 жыл бұрын

Charletta Ramono I like someone else saying what I already know... eases the brain 😌😂

@vaishalikhanna6723

3 жыл бұрын

😂😂😂

@jessicathejedi35

2 жыл бұрын

Same 🥰

@toxic-freearmy8949

2 жыл бұрын

True

I love what you said.. 'A good guy will try to impress you' ... 'A player will try to seduce you!'

@galxy3067

4 жыл бұрын

👏🎯great point really...The one needed to hear today...since "mixed signs" not only by words, in fact great LACK of them in texting or so...which is another ACTION actually...so, this enlightens the "missing " point....seduction rather than impress after all.....😩

@sidneyvicious1128

4 жыл бұрын

Yes. I will remember this !

@proteine5412

4 жыл бұрын

Basically facts against words

@DiamondsRexpensive

4 жыл бұрын

Is it not the same? When impressing means that he has to lie, then that is just pathetic.

@kirk1007

3 жыл бұрын

My guy did both. I feel for it

"the job of protecting you, Caring for you, loving you." Players will put in min effort. Got it. Very helpful. Thank you.

You'll know, you can't get rid of him.

@smoothie3376

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly. I mean... Just... EXACTLY!!!!

@coreycox2345

4 жыл бұрын

@@smoothie3376 It may just mean that he is lonely and has a lot of time on his hands. You wonder if he is real, and hope he sticks around if he is.

There was a guy that wanted to "get to know me better". After three months of courting and finally sleeping together, he bailed. Yep, beware of those guys too...

@nairamize4996

5 жыл бұрын

There have probably been signs along the way ,you just didn't see them. Nevertheless I'm sorry that that happened to you.

@olivtrees8749

5 жыл бұрын

There's a certain type of guy who only wants what he can't have and once he has it even he gets surprised over his own loss of interest. These types don't usually have stable love lives.

@vanaphill2454

5 жыл бұрын

Did you at least go on fun expensive dates?

@maxmix-retrodisco

5 жыл бұрын

Sounds like YOU might NOT be that great in bed babes.... He puts in 3 months work, gets a "taste" and immediately walks away? You should inspect your cookie!

@CJ-qj8gq

5 жыл бұрын

He was there for the challenge. There had to have been signs from him. Trip ups he made that you didnt catch. Infatuation can blind us sometimes.

I am elderly now, but I always let men know that I was raised to wait until marriage to have sex. I realize that most people today don't live by that, including this young man, Brian Nox. Doesn't bother me. That was part of my standards. I was never sorry for it. Men who were just wanting sex went elsewhere - made everyone happy! I didn't waste their time and they didn't take up mine. It was a win-win.

@sidneyvicious1128

4 жыл бұрын

Its so true. I always said I'm waiting for marriage even though nobody else did. . I actually just waited till I got engaged at 26. Then realized I would be miserable if I married him. Thank God I slept with him first!! I highly recommend it. One Sick Twist. (Involved an apple and a live chicken WTF)

@emilsemoreno3126

4 жыл бұрын

The true love waits for marrisge for sex

@fionagregory8078

4 жыл бұрын

Cats are best. At least they are furry.

@xodancerxo

4 жыл бұрын

@Rhonda Thompson It's a good way to weed out the jerks!!!!!

@xodancerxo

4 жыл бұрын

I'm 26 and am disappointed that we are seemingly in the minority in our thinking ☹️ Our bodies are precious

I once saw a man go for a walk with his wife who had a babystroller with a cat in it and was talking to it in a baby voice and was like damn he must love that crazy cat women!

@Mszahnclass95

5 жыл бұрын

Lol very true

@chelseajackman7730

5 жыл бұрын

Maybe he's a crazy cat guy and she is the patient one 😂🤣

@bluedeveraux186

4 жыл бұрын

Damn 🤣🤣🤣

@Kevin-vd3bf

4 жыл бұрын

@@chelseajackman7730 Could very well be the case. I am in love with cats.

@DiamondsRexpensive

4 жыл бұрын

Cutest thing i have read today 🌻🌸

He tells everything about his life, childhood experience, first love, how his parents raised him well, all girls in his life, and life achievement.

@mariyashtu

4 жыл бұрын

That's what my colleague does: he told me almost all of his life, but takes no action towards me. And I can't understand whether he likes me or I'm just some free ears for him 😅

@TeacherMelai

4 жыл бұрын

@@mariyashtu He actually revealed his true feelings toward me. But I was hesitant to accept it because I don't trust his words. Even if he sent messages everyday and checking on what was going on me.

@InshasChoice

3 жыл бұрын

@@mariyashtu he's prolly using you as an ear, unless he makes a move. Don't fall into that trap.

@bezimienia6213

2 жыл бұрын

Same. And I also don't trust his words :D

Sometimes guys just want the validation of winning you over. They want to know that you’re impressed or want them, as soon as you give them that *poof* they walk away feeling great and you cry. So cruel. Then they complain that women are bitter.

All 4 signs is with my man. I'm very thankful I found him.😘😘😘😘

Amen. There is an endless supply of time wasters ready to play relationship with us. Listening to his actions instead of his words is invaluable advice. Also listening to our gut when it says he's lying. Our guts are smarter than our brains. I found that out the hard way!

@MissMichSan

5 жыл бұрын

Same here learned the hard way. My gut was telling me I even quizzed him he failed and it's my fault for being clingy, dumb and naive.

@mashaslonik259

4 жыл бұрын

@@MissMichSan maybe he was a narcissist, "they are never at fault"

That true..Showing his real personality and work ehics,and show his vulnerable side..

This made video me feel more secure... that's how my bf invested in our relationship almost 2 yrs ago & still reminds me i'm loved by him

Yes-words mean ZERO, zip, zilch unless backed up with congruent actions.

You are spot on about forgetting a date. I thought I was being mean when a guy forgot our date but I was keeping up my standards and called him out on it and he didn’t really make up for forgetting so I know I made the right decision :)

such a relief to hear a healthy mind confirm the way I´m feeling guided to handle things - although I didn´t know that men exist, that also think like this, because it seems I am paddling against a stream of re-educating the guys to remember what their mothers taught them back in the days (or forgot) - RESPECT !!!!

I love this guy. He always get to the point straight away. Thank you Mr.Nox,

very educated on this.You know your stuff.

Such a sweet guy! Like his conservative standards in relationships.

I love your energy, You explain very clearly, good job 👍 👍👍, You help us to have a better and happy life.

You just mentioned all this positive signs to someone who likes me though im a little confused before but now yes he likes me 😊👍thank you Brian you nailed it 👍😊

@ezekielanyahum6081

Жыл бұрын

Thank u Brian for sharing this. It's insightful!

Good point, about seduction. It is pretty obnoxious, actually. It makes me ill, and I don’t understand the lengths one will go through to try to get in a woman’s pants. They’re on a mission. The really big players do all of the above for at least one, or two dates. They’re so transparent. It is actually insulting to my IQ level. Dating has always felt like a colossal waste of time, which is why I rarely do it. Another great talk, thank you for the reminder. 😊

@TA-tf5lr

6 жыл бұрын

Ditto. Thought I was the only one who felt that way.

@michellezareas8276

6 жыл бұрын

You are not alone, @Traci Adams! ;)

@Christian_Girl120

6 жыл бұрын

You got that right. I'm tired of the games these guys play and have run into many players. After a while you can spot them pretty quick. They make me sick too.

@veloursnoir3269

4 жыл бұрын

Michelle Zareas Agreed. A waste of time and disappointment altogether.

A guy who isnt a good guy, is a guy who can't step up and be everything you want. They either waste your time or confuse you. It really seems simple that someone who doesn't make you feel right is just bad for you, and you should know they're a complete pass. Never should have to question anything, feel stressed, or sad because of a guy you think should love you, a guy who loves you should not do that to you, next, next, next.

Oh Geert! Thank you! It took me 20 years to figure out what you have explained in 5 minutes! Hugs from Canada

@user-jk4jj4nm1q

2 жыл бұрын

@@thierygidh6003 Way to encourage people being vulnerable

I really enjoy your videos, Brian. I've listened to more than one both male and female and I really like your style, your accent. I get the feeling you really care. Thank you

taking your cat for a walk haha

Your an excellent conversationalist. I simply admire u and also ur advices are so very apt and valuable. Thank so much @brian nox

I have no idea why I have missed videos like this, one of the most important lesson in our life

Wow! I am so happy a find a man telling the truth. God bless you sir. 😊

You explain everything alll the sensitive things in such a good way. Am sure a lot of ppl out there can use the information to find the right person👍

Great videos! I like the way you talk, very clear and straight to the point!!

I stumbled upon your video. So informative! I wish I had seen these videos earlier.

I need more videos, please.

i really love the way ur talk and contain of your video. really good advise. and easy understanding. thank u brian. please make more videos in youtube.

Even the good guy was interested in your looks first...so I shall take note of that, thank you.

Thank you for sharing this great video it helps.

Great information! Thank you

Low self-esteem are the ones we are trying to avoid, they are pathetic!!😂

@beebuzz959

5 жыл бұрын

However, there are some really great guys with low self esteem.

Loving all your videos

Sorry to say, but in my past experiences, a player man or not so good man have had tryed to impress me just so they can seduce me. Luckily my gut feeling always guided me and my silence was always my virtue. Just like that cold turkey Gone with the Wind. I have married a good and loyal man. 5 years of friendship, dated 9 years, got married on the 10th year, going to be 16 years married, and we have two beautiful children. Brian nox I watch your videos, because if I can learn a little bit more about men's behavior and how they think it can help me better understand, and communicate with my husband. It is always better to start from the beginning. Thank you.

Great informative videos you have, Brian.

Dear Brian! Thank you for this! Simple, brief, great wording! Many thanks!

Please share more videos about relationships . So helpful. Thank you . Share more and more dear Brian .

Thank you for sharing this with us...now women will know who is the guy who really like them.

I love all your videos and information, I have a little more knowledge since I watching your videos, thanks very much !

You are seriously amazing! Thank you.

Thank you for these wonderful videos

I love this guy( BN) in this video.Respect. Love to watch his videos.

I feel so loved now. Ty ❤ he did that for me

Outstanding advice love you, God Bless

Thank you so much.. It was really so good and clear..

Really incredible, I don't won't to be unpolite, sounds like truth. Thank you!

Thank you. Glad I found you.

Thank you. Now I know my gut feeling is right. 😊❤

Wow. Thank you for this Brian!💖

I wish my mom was alive to give me such advice, thank you very much 👌

Thnqqq sooo much for the giving best points to be consider....

Ur pieces of advises give strength...

Hey Brian, I really love ur videos

Very interesting i'd love to listen.

Thank you for this insight

Good lecture

Oh good grief! I needed this information 20 years ago! Waiting for my divorce to go through. 🙁

I love your videos.. great advice

God bless you Brian No x

Hahah I was dating and then not-dating a guy whose most real actions indicated he liked me but imo in his head he strongly rationally didn't want it to be true (I'm quite a bit younger) so his words were those of not liking me :D which, technically are actions too. Very hard to let go of a mostly caring and loving person...

So true,well said 👍

Yep. I had someone who. Actually wanted me to. Like. Him

I really appreciate your style :)

He never say a word, But gesture...he shares that he finish college but why he work as a cleaner like me. And honest enough to tell that his attending a counselling.

how if he likes me but very nervous and have no courage to start a conversation or txt? he will never tell about him self details i think.

thank you. perfectly explained

Great info!!

you are perfectly right about it,too bad i did not saw and hear you before

My crush has all those signs I known him since Oct of 1990

I like the scenery behind you 😊

This is so true.... 👍

I always enjoy your videos..... I'm a big big fan

Thanks Brian this was well siad, positive word.

How do you know all these points? Really helpful. Thanks

Thx

Nice advice,,,,i love what you said

Thanks man God bless you

I like your hairstyle in this video. Keep it up.

I like this approach

1. His actions shows, he likes you, they clearly shows his likeness towrds you. (Touches you. Asking qs, takes lead,..) 2. When he is investing towards you.(time invest) 3. Not okay sleeping without you.

Brian, it would be wonderful if you created a daily affirmation of some of the key points you bring up time and again in your videos regarding common reactions women make in error and how to retrain the brain to take a healthier action.

i just love how you explain these stuff so appreciated brian!

.. HE WAS LISTENING (kinda hard for men) LOL i Love your sense of humour!!!!!

Brian I wish I found you BEFORE I got into this toxic marriage sigh!!! At least I can have a second chance

thanks about your wisdom

These are greats tips

Amazon did not let me write a review due to the F word suggested in the Title of your book. You may get less reviews due to their policy. Your book was awesome!!

His Actions proved he really liked me but his words dint and have never been this confused in my life.I had to let go which I immediately regretted but it was too late.

Thank You!

Watching this even though I don't get much attention at all and need to only decipher lack of intrest from further lack of interest lol

I love your videos. But how should I do, say or not do or say on a first date?

But i choose a good guy💚💚

I think you're the best at what you do: common sense advise.