My son didn’t take pacifiers and doesn’t take them now (he just turned 6 months). He also refused to be swaddled at all. It was so frustrating to see my friends’ babies (couple weeks difference with mine) sleep so well in their sleep sacks while mine was fighting to get out of it. I still feed him to sleep. Honestly, I thought it was something to be ashamed of, but well… it works for both of us. He will never be this small again

@9393farah

Ай бұрын

Hey! I know this comment is super old, I hope you and your bub are doing well! I have an 8 month old and I still feed him to sleep every single night + day. When did your little one stop feeding to sleep? And was it hard to stop the habit? 😊

@noname-un2yo

Ай бұрын

@@9393farah Mamaaa, it happened just recently! Last time I fed him to sleep was the day before his second birthday. I’m combo feeding my second because these ladies are tired 🫠

Congratulations emma on your 3rd baby! what a blessing 🙏🙏💖💖

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!!

Congratulations on the upcoming newest addition to your family! How exciting! ❤️ As a first time mom, thank you so so so much for your videos. I bookmark them and revisit as needed when my sleep-deprived brain can’t remember anything. 😅 Your channel is truly the most helpful out of everything I’ve seen, and even more so than our pediatrician sadly. The world appreciates your dedication, passion and work!!!!

Congratulations on the new baby!! You have been so helpful to me as I am blessed to babysit my youngest grandson two days a week, since he was six weeks old. (He is 14 months now!) Parenting and "tips" have changed a lot since my boys were born so your advice has given me so much inspiration and ideas. My grandson is happy, healthy and is a joy to be with. Thanks again and congratulations and blessings to you and your family!!!

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! It's so great you can babysit your grandson. The relationship you would have with him would be so special!

@allthingsjannah

Жыл бұрын

You're amazing to babysit your grandson 2x a week wow! I'm sure you're really appreciated you QUEEN ❤️❤️❤️

I wish I saw this a few months ago! I spent months 2-5 fighting the cat naps and trying to extend them and was completely stressed out and obsessed over her sleep! Then one day at 5 months she slept two hours!! And has ever since for naps. Now we’re at 7 months and just waiting for her nighttime sleep to improve 😅

@kaitlinparsons6556

11 ай бұрын

I'm in this same boat. Hope your babys night sleep improved!

@sofiakallergi8129

4 ай бұрын

Oh im in the same boat too..my baby is 7 months now..i tried hard many times to get the pacifiers but he doesn't want to..

@sofiakallergi8129

4 ай бұрын

And our nights is nightmare too

As both a pediatric occupational therapist and a new parent (my baby was born on September), this channel has been so insightful and informative! I’m learning so much binge watching all of the videos while on maternity leave so I can use these tips and tricks for both my clients and my baby. I am now subscribed to this channel, and I am looking forward to new content! Congrats on your third baby! 🥰❤

Now I know why my daughter was good sleeper! I swaddled her until she was ready to roll over and she had pacifier too. It was a breeze getting her to nap and sleep for long times! The only difficult thing was her colic. Thank you!!

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing your experience with your daughter. So good to hear she was a great sleeper as colic can be challenging and tiring!

Congrats on the new arrival Emma! Your videos are always so informative, in depth and helpful. I love the halo for our son ever since he started rolling over but the biggest difference in his sleep for us was when we found the love to dream sleep sack, he loved having his hands next to him. He HATED being totally tied down🤷🏼‍♀️ And yes!! Those cat naps were crazy but we just let him do it. He seemed fine.

Congrats on baby number 3! My 2nd babe is 5 months old now and I really liked the Happiest Baby Sleepea sleepsack swaddle. It's been a great transition piece as well now that he has both arms out. Definitely give it a try

Thankyou for talking genuinely from personal experience and sharing thing's that you would have done differently now, it humanizes you and make's me somehow much more receptive to your advice haha, sometimes I would watch your videos and feel a disconnect sometimes, maybe ashamed I wasn't able to do things in the same way or did things differently before seeing the video but seeing you as a mother, just sharng things that worked and didn't work, I appreciate that a lot. This is meant to be a positive message, not sure how it's reading but yeah, thanks again. xo

Congratulations!! And thank you for this post. It’s so nice to hear an honest account from a professional. It makes me feel so much better about struggling with these decisions ❤

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

Congratulations on your 3rd baby Emma! So exciting ❤- love your videos so much!!

Thank you so much for your videos!!! Our firstborn is almost 16 weeks now and was born with bilateral clubfeet and your videos have helped keep his development right on track and we are so incredibly thankful. Hope you are having a great pregnancy and will send prayers your way for a smooth delivery 😀

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! So glad the videos have been able to help with your little one's development - but really it is all you! Everything you do with him everyday is helping keep his development on track.

Congratulations emma for the new addition to your family,you've been a great help to me now that i have a toodler myself . Stay safe!

Thanks for watching! What would you do different second or third time round? Don't forget to get your free New Parent's Guide to Naps here: brightestbeginning.com/nap-guide/

@larbakatariina1912

Жыл бұрын

Ooh, our second is 11 months so probably definitely too late to try to swaddle, but if we have a third little one, maybe swaddling is best. And the pacifier, both our daughters refused to suck on those which is both a good and a bad thing - good that they weren't dependent on anything but bad as they only fell asleep on the boob and needed to be later transferred - with a possible third baby, I'd incorporate more self soothing and promote falling asleep by themself in their cot... 😅 I honestly should've done this with baby #2 because I'm attached to her now as she falls asleep on the boob, like her sister did up until she was 1 year 10 months when I stopped breastfeeding her at bedtime... You live and you try to learn, but I'm definitely too slow to incorporate new methods to this second baby now 😅

@rehgina9903

Жыл бұрын

Hallo liebe Emma, wie verhindert der Schnuller den plötzlichen Kindstod laut Amerikanischer Akademie für Kinder? Danke für die Antwort

Thank you for sharing these

My husband said to me "your the only one I know that don't give baby a pacifier" 🤣 My daughter has always taken cat naps and I had no problem with it. I always do what my baby wants. I always go with the flow so I don't stress myself. Now my baby is 7 months and her sleeping patterns changes almost every 2 days. I just go with it. Whenever she taking a nap I go down with her. I leave all the house work alone unless I am not tired. I don't stress myself over anything when comes to my baby. Stress is not good for your health.

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for this great reminder! Going with the flow of your little one definitely helps to keep you calm as a parent and be present when they are awake and ready to engage.

@TheWarriorLV

Жыл бұрын

Thank u!! I feel everyone around me thinks I’m strange I follow baby’s schedule. (Unless they have a baby, then they get it) it’s much easier !! ❤

Congratulations for the pregnancy! Wishing the best for you and your family 😊🙏

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

❤️

Congratulations on the baby to come!🍀🌼

Hi Emma! Just wanted to let you know that your videos are super helpful. Thank you so much! And congratulations on your pregnancy! Wishing you all the best.

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

Emma, thank you so much for this video. Currently going through 4 month sleep regression. Taking your advice on stopping fighting catnapping 😊

Omg whole day i was fighting to extend naps (at 3.5 months) 😮 You’re truly a Godsend!

Congrats on your new bundle of joy!!! I love, love love your videos. First time mom here. Me and hubby watch them all in order to learn and for me they also give me a peace of mind! Our doctor is super nice but I feel like they don’t tell you a thing, just do a shot and off you go! Tell me how great we’re doing without giving me any instructions or what’s about to follow for my baby’s development in the next few months and how can I make it better. So these videos, in the middle of our busy days, are just excellent! A source that I fully trust and recommend to others! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!💕

First time mom here and good to know I haven't made these mistakes. I've swaddled her since her first days in the hospital and I quickly use a pacifier especially during a diaper change when she gets fussy. It stops her from kicking. I'm not sure about naps though for the most part we just feed her and then put her to sleep.

Hi ! Love you videos. Congrats on the new addition! Can you make a video on baby registry must haves for nursery and sleep such as cribs and bassinets?

Congratulations Emma.......thank you for helping us with our Little one

Congratulations Emma 🎉 Thank you so much for all your tips you have really helped me so much being a new mum with no additional help and having parents back home. .

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

Congratulations Emma on your 3rd baby 😀 ! I Love watching your videos, they are very informative and have helped me a lot, cheers! Best wishes for a safe delivery 😀

Congratulations !!!! thank you for all your precious advices

Ahh I have a lovely unused dodie (pacifier) collection 😂 I tried so hard but my little fella just wouldn't take it them and I tired loads of designs. Cest la vie. Congratulations on your impending arrival 💗

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!

@Malbeur

Жыл бұрын

Same here!

Congrats on the third child and thank you for your videos. Great resource for FTM ❤

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

These videos are so helpful, thank you! The happiest baby sleep sacks ( the ones that don't attach to the snoo, for use in any crib/bassinet) are also great for swaddling with the arms down, and they can be used as regular sleepsacks with the arms out if baby grows out of the swaddling stage before outgrowing the sleepsack🙂

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing the information about the Happiest Baby Sleep Sacks.

@lauracroce2129

Жыл бұрын

Dear Emma, congratulations for your third child! My little Cristina always stubbornly refused the pacifier, and still struggles to do a full night sleep at 12 months of age...she is a serene and happy child anyway 🤷‍♀️

You are totally blessing in disguise,I had been following you since my pregnancy days its been 9 months now with my baby and i had less stressful mind.Thank you

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

This has made my day. It’s so good to hear that these videos have helped make your parenting journey a little less stressful. Hope you continue to have fun with your 9month old!

I have been watching your videos all the way from Atlanta GA, very helpful, our little one is 5 months now. Congratulation on your 3rd baby❤👶

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much! Also congrats on your little one! I hope the parenting journey has been made a little easier with these videos.

Thanks for the video! My second baby is due in Jan, this time I'll still breastfeed but will also not put too much pressure on myself, I'll go with the flow and see what works. If the supply keeps being low even when pumping, I'll supplement as needed rather than feeling miserable and guilty.

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Congratulations on your pregnancy. ❤️ I hope you are feeling well and not too tired with another child to chase around! Great advice to not put too much pressure on yourself! Breastfeeding can be difficult and we can make ourselves feel miserable if we feel we are not doing it "right". Remember to link in with a lactation consultant if your feel that would be helpful and always be kind to yourself.💕

@ilariama82

Жыл бұрын

@@EmmaHubbard thank you so much! And congratulations to you, so glad I found your channel!

@Ready-ForTheEnd

Жыл бұрын

I use formula and breast milk because I honestly am too tired at times. Besides I I dont have an electric pump yet. My daughter is eating frequently for a one week old

Heartiest congratulations Emma. Take care

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Thanks ma'am, this tip is really helpful

Thank you for your tipps, Emma! The pacifier never worked with my son because he simply did not want to accept it, although I tried multiple times to give him a pacifier to calm him down. Will try swaddling with my second child though.

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!

Thank you! Im learning from you so much!

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

Hi Emma, I LOVE your videos! They are so helpful - this one and the ones on what can delay development particularly. What do you think about the « crawligator »? Is this good for a 4 month old who’s desperate to crawl or would you say it’s something to avoid like a bouncer/walker? Many thanks!

Yo Emma🙌🏼💚thanks for reaffirming some experiments my wife and I have been trying with pacifiers, swaddles, and those cat siestas😻We are following your advice on letting baby guide use via his cues🐣

I'm in cat nap stage and I needed this thank you

Congratulations on your third baby how exciting

@EmmaHubbard

10 ай бұрын

Thank you!! 😊

My mum and mother in law made me feel bad about using a pacifier, but it’s honestly the best decision ever to use one for my son. It’s like magic lol

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

When it works it works so well!

@ilovekeppu

2 күн бұрын

My son is already 6 months old and I regret so much not giving him one just because they've been telling me no no no 😢

Congratulations Emma.

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! 💜

Congratulations!!!!

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much 😀

Congrats on the new family member

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

Congratulations Emma for your third one ! Since I discovered you I follow your videos. We used the halo swaddle and it was a bless. All your materials are very useful and suits our concerns or questions we had as parents. Our daughter is still using the pacifier at 15 months only to sleep. I want to stop giving it to her but I don’t know how. Any advices please ? Thank you.

Halo ftw. Hands down the best swaddles, both of my babies have slept so much better with Halo than any other swaddle. Also, on pacis, we just don’t offer the pacifier unless baby is genuinely wanting it. I’ve had family members try to put the paci in baby’s mouth when he isn’t cranky, or even try to put it back in his mouth if he drops it while sleeping. If he’s content, we don’t try and force it on him. We did the same with our oldest and he decided he was over the paci at about 4 months old, so fingers crossed it all works out the same this time around.

My baby is 15 months now, she never liked any pacifier, any bottle, nor any swaddling ever. Never sucked her fingers either haha. She would spit the pacifier out instantly no matter what we tried, and I guess a part of me was glad because I learned at the time that it can lead to dental problems and it can be hard to wean them off of it, so wasn't going to look forward to that if she'd been okay with it. The "downside" to that is my breast ended up being her pacifier instead, which isn't a bad thing as it's extremely beneficial for babies to soothe at the breast whenever they need to (and good for mama too), so I also felt it was my job as her mama to do it for her whenever she needed me anyway, and it felt right, too. Feed and soothe on demand is what they teach here in New Zealand, and I love it because it's how it should be and it's just natural and pure love. ❤️ It was impossible to swaddle my daughter, she disliked any kind of swaddling or being held down by anything (including car seats, so rides in the car were impossible). When I pumped to keep my milk supply up, I tried giving that milk to her in a bottle but she wouldn't have it, so I ended up not using the milk I pumped (I didn't pump to use the milk as I mentioned, but felt like a waste half the time). I saw a comment on this video from someone who said that they wished they'd pumped early on on day 3 or so, and I absolutely agree, you should. My milk was a bit late when I had my daughter (only had a tiny amount come through) and I had to use donor milk at the hospital until it did come through a few days later (which broke my heart), and they let me use the hospital pump while I was there to help my body get started on the milk production and it really helped. Thing is, you have to feed your baby on demand even if you pump, and then just feed her what you've pumped every now and then. It is absolutely, irrefutably beneficial for the baby to be close to you at the chest, at the very least the first few months. It keeps baby warm as the mother's chest is programmed to be a few degrees warmer than usual solely to keep the baby warm, and it relaxes and destresses and soothes the baby as oxytocin is released for both baby and mother and this is very, very good for the baby's development. So if you're planning on not even offering the baby your breast at all, please reconsider, all the baby wants is to be at your chest and be close to you, you are your baby's safe haven, the whole world and everyone in it is scary and unfamiliar except for you, their mama who is all they have known for 9 months. ❤️ I never liked freezing milk, although having emergency milk isn't a bad thing. The reason I never liked it is that women are designed as such that the antibodies in the milk change based on mamas and baby's health and needs that same day, which is so remarkable and humbling and amazing, so that's extremely beneficial, and you won't reap those benefits at all with frozen milk from a completely different day. Just food for thought for anyone who's interested or considering it. I would pump as well as feed though, at least initially as I did, as it does help keep up milk supply so you don't have to worry about having enough milk (feed baby, wait an hour, pump, then an hour later you have enough new milk in your breast for your newborn to drink from). Also eat oatmeal every morning and/or incorporate oats into your daily diet, make cookies or smoothies or protein bars/balls with oats, they help A LOT with milk supply. Pineapple helped me with milk supply too. Make sure baby keeps sucking from the same breast for a while (30-40 min) before switching to the other because if you don't baby won't get the hindmilk which is the fatty milk that has all the important nutrients; the baby gets mostly watery milk when they first start sucking and only after sucking for a while does the baby get the hindmilk. One thing I wish I'd done differently is getting a baby carrier to wear the baby from the get go instead of carrying my daughter around in my arms for hours on end. Because I carried her in my arms directly for so long everyday I developed "mommy's wrist" and dealt with the pain for months. This also lead to me bedsharing with my daughter for longer than I needed and now she has a sleep association, which is once or twice a night she still wakes up and wants the breast to fall back asleep, and we still bedshare. Loud white noise helps newborns settle and sleep as the noise mimics the sounds inside of mamas body when the baby was a foetus - they say white noise as loud as a vacuum cleaner is about the right volume as that's how loud it is for baby in your belly when pregnant. Learned that as I went and eventually bought a Bluetooth speaker and connected it to a spare phone I had and got the "Atmosphere" app and played constant rain noise for my baby (highly recommend that app btw, free). I also got a portable white noise machine for on the go, really helped. Lots of tips really but those are a few, hope they can help someone out there! 😊

@Kasumistern

Жыл бұрын

These tips are all absolute gold and I agree with everything said. Too late for me, but I hope someone will read it and get something out of your comment. 💖

@larbakatariina1912

Жыл бұрын

All terrific tips! I'm so glad we already had the baby carrier at home from our firstborn (who we only carried on it when outside, strangely, it never occurred to me to use it inside the house doing chores back then. Oops) because second baby was so clingy and desperate for attention as I had to now split my attention between two kids who needed me. She definitely was a koala just hanging on me daily and I got to take care of our toddler at the same time. Now it's more difficult as youngest is walking and wants to be semi independent but in her mind i'm not allowed to have her big sister on my lap, the wail of betrayal and despair she demonstrates as soon as I even hug our eldest is - - something else. But up until she started walking, she was very content in the baby carrier. Would definitely recommend baby wearing.

@Lifeisbutanillusion

Жыл бұрын

@@Kasumistern 💖

@Lifeisbutanillusion

Жыл бұрын

@@larbakatariina1912 I want to have another and am dreading the inevitable jealousy and split attention. My daughter and I have such a strong bond. ❤️

@larbakatariina1912

Жыл бұрын

@@Lifeisbutanillusion aww, I definitely understand. We were going back and forth on deciding whether to grow our family or not as well. I finally made up my mind by thinking about my childhood (I was an only child until my stepbrother was born when I was already 15 years old so alone all my childhood) vs my partners childhood (who is an older brother and their uncle was in the mix as well a lot, their uncle is only a few years older than my partner so three young ones growing up together) - I thought that maybe growing up with a sibling would be better? I mean yeah, there'll be fights and split attention but hopefully they'll grow to have each other's backs and have a great bond, too. The newborn phase is quite boring for the toddler, though, as we adults were excited about our eldest having someone to play with but then baby sis arrives and it takes her like 9 months to even move on her own, so no proper playing with the toddler, like we exclaimed... Youngest is learning so much from big sis, she practically sprints or gallops to our eldest, learned skills faster like crawling and walking and now a sprint-ish fast walk. Hard to keep up with the both of them and indeed, the look and wail of betrayal when our youngest wants to be the one held and cuddled by me. But I guess it takes time. Toddler is pretty excited that baby sister understands a bit of hide and seek now and can come seek when big sis runs somewhere. Sharing toys is hard, some days toddler is very gentle and sharing and guides baby but mostly it's "no! don't touch!" and toddler wants to have what baby has in her hands, to take even baby toys away. It's a process for sure. But some parts are easier: like the baby fell into our toddler's day and night rhythm pretty well after the first 3 months -ish. Toddler likes to do night routine and fall asleep with dad, I get to put baby to sleep. Definitely less time to even catch up with my partner about his day, though. Oh boy and intimacy, what's that... ? But we make do and try our best to remember us as well in the mix of it all. This is temporary and it'll be a blink and they're already starting school. Next blink, they're moving out. Sorry this turned into a novel, length-wise. I advise anyone thinking about having a second baby to look up other's experiences, too, here on youtube. Video searches for "what I wish I knew before having a second child" or something similar was what I watched as well. All the best to you!

Congratulations on your upcoming baby hehe. Thank you for this video. I also get judged for giving my baby a pacifier but it has been one the best decisions I made.

Congratulations on your new baby. And tank you so much for sharing this tips, I'm a big fan. What is the best aproach in how to wean your baby off the pacifier? My baby is almost 2 years old and finds the pacifier very soothing especialy in the night time when he is very tired and fussy.

I'm addicted of your information ℹ️

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you're finding it helpful! Thank you! 💜

Awww congrats on your pregnancy! I regret using a swaddle because he became so dependent on it but also unwrapped himself all the time…ugh 😅 never again

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!! 😊 It can be really challenging to wean them off the swaddle!

Congratulations 🤰

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks!!

Hey Emma, I love your videos, they helped a lot. My son is 14 months now. Unfortunately there is one thing that we struggle very much with - sleep, especially during days. Our son never, ever slept for more than 1 hour. 30-45 minutes is his usual. We can try everything from your (and not only yours) list and everything fails. He mostly wakes up crying. During the nights he tends to sleep even 3-4 hours undisturbed by the closer to morning the shorter cycles he has. And he always cries while waking up, very hard to soothe. Any ideas what might be happening here? He has bed connected to ours and we follow the Sears method of upbringing in general. Thanks!

Congratulations Emma it's so great to hear that.. my baby is 6 months old and really dependant on pacifier to sleep.. but my doctor says that pacifier is harmful for him as it can make him sick.. so my baby gets fussy during night sleep ad wants something to suckle and I'm left with no choice so I give him my nipples to suckle during sleep but it's really exhausting for me as I can not even sleep peacefully.. what should I do?

Thanks for the video, What age should I stop swaddling?

Hi Emma. Do you have video links to address the issues for climbing toddlers and how to direct them away or learn new behaviour to prevent climbing on home furniture?

Congratulations! :)

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thank you!!

I desperately wanted my baby to use one because she’s sucking her hands raw. It took a few months to get her to do it. She still prefers her hands but they’re healing

Our daughter doesn't want the pacifier most of the time, only sometimes. she holds our fingers to sleep, no swaddling.

Congratulations

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

❤️

We used one from the beginning and our now 11 month old only wants it at bed time to help chill him out, after he’s asleep he usually spits it out.

Your videos are so informative and useful. My baby is 4.5 months. I've resisted using pacifier. This has meant that I have been her pacifier (comfort nursing) often late into the night, which can be exhausting. Is it too late to offer her the pacifier? Or do you have other suggestions?

Hi Emma, do you have any advice on transitioning from one to two children? And managing with a baby and toddler?

I would have pumped my breasts when my milk came in at day 3/4 to let my body know to create more milk. I was told not to remove the milk with a pump and only let baby suckle. I have struggled with an inadequate supply for 6 months and exclusively pumping still. I believe I could have helped my supply in the initial stages 💯

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Hi Erin, Thanks so much for sharing! Sounds like you are doing an amazing job getting breast milk to your baby.

@Kasumistern

Жыл бұрын

Same! Would I do it again I would as soon as possible start using the haakaa pump to increase supply and get the milk flowing!

@erinloi

Жыл бұрын

@@EmmaHubbard thanks Emma and congratulations for baby no.3, wishing you a happy healthy and safe delivery x

@Ready-ForTheEnd

Жыл бұрын

I had to pump immediately because my baby ended up in the nicu after birth and before releasing her they wanted to make sure she was eating regularly and feeding. I have definitely experienced that heavy supply of milk since doing that.

I tried using pacifier with my child, he is nearly 5 months old and all the attempts were futile. He just spits it out. Tried various designs. Still no luck. Just gave up. It's okay though, I just built my day schedule around his sleep: several 30-40 minutes sessions of sleep while eating during the day, longer sleep in the evening and even more sleep during the night. So I get to read, answer emails etc during the short naps, work on my laptop and prepare food in the evening. Pretty neat and tiresome but works for me

@Nadea19ify

Жыл бұрын

mine exactly like that! 🤯

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing! Some bub's are just not into pacifiers and that is completely fine. Following their lead is more important which it sounds like you have done and works for you both!

Hello:) my little Mary is 4 month old. She is not convinced to the pacifier, she is removing it after some time. I realized that she loves to suck her fingers and I was told that it is normal and even beneficial while she is producing sounds during this activity. But I am a bit concerned when she sucks only the thumb without vocalisations, she sucks mainly right thumb and it happens when she wants to sooth herself. I offered her a pacifier instead a thumb, but she prefers thumb.. sometimes breast helps, Mary eats quite often, she is only breastfeed. I will be thankful for bit of advice. I find your channel very profitable for not experienced parents as I am. Greetings from Poland and have a lovely day:)

Every baby is different. My guy slept soundly with the love to dream! But also liked being swaddled with copper pearl blankets.

My first child is currently 9 weeks old, and she doesn't really take a pacifier. We triées 6 different models. She sometimes take one for a few minutes only but so far it's not sucessfull. 😔 And also, congratulations for your third baby coming soon! 🥰

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Some bub's just don't take to pacifiers and that is totally ok. Your little one may prefer to suck her hands or just seek comfort from your touch. Just follow your little one's lead.

@eminemilly

Жыл бұрын

My baby didn't take pacifiers either but she loved those banana toothbrush chewys and teething tube type things

I had seen one of ur videos in which u mentioned disadvantages of using pacifier ...like we may hav to keep back the Pacifier into babies mouth once they spit it out .. which can happen multiple times .. Seeing that video ..i didnt offer pacifier to my twins ... Now they 6 month old .. one uses thumb to soothe herself...to fall asleep... But ya as u told now...i noticed that she is really getting fussy when we go out .. Guide me on how to go about this ... And also wen shud i start attempting to stop her from sucking her thumb

My daughter uses a pacifier to fall asleep and only occasionally when she’s really upset. I’d like to transition out of sucking to sleep and she seems to be happy using her favorite blanket. But unfortunately since she’s still less than 12 months, we can’t leave the blanket in the crib with her so it’s not an option for overnight. I’d love a video about transitioning out of pacifiers (when it needs to happen, how to help a child through it).

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this information and also the video topic suggestion. I plan on making a video on this exact topic very soon!

I have four young children. My oldest is 7. My youngest is 5 months old. All of them did well with swaddling but my youngest did not like the swaddle much so I let her sleep (well) on her tummy. It makes her most happy. I didn't allow anything else in the crib. She was absolutely fine. My others did love their swaddle thingies though. Also, all of my children stopped using their pacifiers (other than car rides) after 6months of age. They didn't really care about it so I was glad to eliminate it.

Many many congratulations and love from India

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

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I wish my babies would have taken a pacifier. My first two spat out the pacifier from day 1 and my third only used one for about 2 months. Those were a glorious 2 months. Luckily he discovered his thumb a month later and has been happy with it since

Please do a video on toddlers waking in the middle of the night!

My newborn always catnaps..when people say " she is so little, probably sleeps all the time" I am like so frustrated..she almost never sleeps more than 45 mins.. half of this is in my hands of course😂. 10 weeks old today

I tried to get my baby to take a pacifier, but he always just spit it out. He much preferred sucking his thumb instead. 🤷‍♀

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Some bub's just prefer to suck their hands and that is totally ok. In fact it is often better in the beginning as they can always find their hands in the night to suck them and soothe themselves back to sleep.

What if my infant rejects pacifiers? She used them in her first month but now that she's 14 weeks she pulls her face away or spits it out quickly. She prefers to chew her hands to calm down and sleep, but you mentioned pacifiers reduce the risk of SIDS. How is she at risk by not using a pacifier? She also started rolling sooner than anticipated so I use the "self soothe" position recommended by the Halo sleep sacks. Is that ok for her age?

My baby is 5months and loves his pacifier! But some nights I have to go in several times to replace it 😩 not sure if I should wean him from it or if he’ll be able to just put it in by himself soon

I do not regret not using a pacifier, but I wish I would have used a baby carrier much earlier and often. And I wish I started using the haakaa pump as soon as my milk came in, because my son wasn't strong enough to remove milk efficiently. Most of the time when he was fussy he was actually just hungry...

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for sharing! I agree a baby carrier is a must. I found it particularly helpful during the period of purple crying.

pacifiers calms them down, its a stress reliever. they need one for adults. LOL My baby spits out the pacifiers right before she falls asleep LOL and she was 2 months.

We still mourn the swaddle. Our LO can roll over since 4.5 months and is almost 6 months now. Pre rolling we could swaddle her, kiss on the forehead and leave the room, she'd be asleep in 15 min max. Now she needs her dummy to get the same effect as the swaddle, but because her hands are free she'll instantly take it out to chew on it, play, even half asleep. We always joke it lookes like her hands are posessed, she NEEDS to try take out the dummy. So we have to stay there and gently put her hands away from it until she falls asleep. If we let her be, she'll eventually drop it out of frustration because she can't get it back in herself and starts to cry. But she doesn't need it for sleep cycles, she can connect them fine without it and at night we can't give it to her after her night bottle as it'll keep her awake even longer. Then she just makes noise for a bit and goes back to sleep again herself but no chance to do that initially to fall asleep. She doesn't let us rock her either, she overarches like crazy.

Hi Emma, my daughter is 3 months old and she has been catnapping since she was 4 weeks old. I’ve been going insane trying to link her sleep cycles and worrying if there is something is wrong with her. Will she eventually start extending her sleep or is this going to be her vibe for the rest of her life?

Congratulations Emma for the coming third baby. I am a mum of two and I have never used a pacifier on my two kids and the same applies to baby swaddling as I have never done it.Can they help in sleep improvement because I have a 5 month old girl who sleeps for 30-45 minutes or sometimes you just lay her down to sleep and immediately wakes up. Kindly advise.Thank you.

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Hi Loyce at 5 months of age it's no longer safe to swaddle the baby as they may be rolling over at this point or showing signs that they are getting close to rolling over. Also I would generally recommend fading the use of the pacifier at this point or in the next month. So I wouldn't recommend introducing either of these to help your little one sleep for longer. If your little one is sleeping for 30 - 45 minutes during the day then it is likely she is catnapping and this is normal behaviour at this age (frustrating behaviour but completely age appropriate). The best thing you can do at this age is provide an environment which encourages sleep (so a dark, cool, quiet room) and when your little one is developmentally ready to link sleep cycles she may do it independently. I have a video on catnapping and some tips to overcome it which you might find helpful: kzread.info/dash/bejne/qGmls7ikf9fWiJc.html

@loycekipawa

Жыл бұрын

@@EmmaHubbard Thank you very much Emma for your great insight and advice.. Yeah I have already watched that video and looking on the way forward to solve the issue. Since I came across your channel ,I have watched many videos and I keep on watching as they are very helpful.. Again thank you very much and much love from Kenya.

I really want to use a pacifier, but does it affect jaw & teeth formation ?

My son never wanted a pacifier, so we never used one and its ok, even though there might be some disadvantages. Swaddling he also hated. Also, every child is different, and if some things you didn’t do with your daughter, it does not mean it would have been different or better.

A tip I learned in speech therapy school: if you want to break a child from their pacifier, but don’t want to be the “bad guy”, just start by poking a hole in it when they aren’t looking. Then, every day make the hole bigger or cut just a little more off. That way they say to themselves, “ this just isn’t doing it for me anymore!” Then they spit it out and you aren’t the “bad guy” taking it away!

@EmmaHubbard

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this!

What about teething though? My daughter didn't even want a binky until 6 months! (Yes, we had the right sizes too) 😅

I spent so much of my pregnancy thinking about what swaddle to get and wasted money buying a few. Turns out my baby will not sleep in a bassinet & we bedshare and when bedsharing baby cannot be in a swaddle.

Till how many months we need to use swadel a baby?

My baby "catnaps" since 4.5 weeks and it seems like nothing I do will get her back to sleep or take longer naps. I'm not setting her down, I'm not making loud noise, it makes no difference if I'm in a dark room or have sound machine. Any idea what could be happening? She'll take slightly longer naps in her stroller and in carrier but still only 45 minutes max.

When did you stop with the swaddling?

I didn't give my daughter a pacifier at all since she was born. She is 1 month old. One time i tried to give her one, because she wouldn't stop crying and once i did, she was sucking thinking milk would come out of it. She almost throw up and spit the pacifier out of her mouth.

Can anyone explain to me the science behind a decrease in SIDS and pacifiers?

My babies would take pacifiers. I tried several styles/brands. They wanted nothing to do with them. My daughter was rolling over from birth, so i was told not to swaddle her. She'd be all swaddled up and then roll all the way to her stomach while i was still in the hospital. that can be very dangerous. I swaddled my son until he was 3 months old, then I stopped because he was getting too hot. What is this 4-month sleep regression that was mentioned? I've never experienced that. I even worked as a nanny for several years and never experienced it working either. My daughter slept 8 hours at just a week old, 12 hours by 8 weeks. My son is 4 months old right now. he sleeps 4 hours wakes up then sleeps a 10 hour stretch. The only thing i can think that i'm doing that others may not be is leaving light classical music playing very quietly. I mean you can hardly hear it, it's very soft. For whatever reason that has always worked for me with keeping babies sleeping for longer stretches.

I know a toddler who stopped using the pacifier at 3 years of age and now, being pregnant, I am scared my little one won’t want to give up a pacifier untill that age. So me and my husband want to try not to give baby a pacifier…but seeing this video makes me reconsider this. Also, swaddling is not such a popular choice in my country. They descourage swadlling…but I guess those types of swadles where the baby’s feet aren’t constricted much are pretty safe?…

@EmmaHubbard

11 ай бұрын

Hi! Firstly congratulations on your pregnancy! In regards to using the pacifier, do whatever you feel comfortable with and your baby is willing to do. Some babies just don't accept pacifiers and that is also completely ok. In regards to your concern about using a pacifier, I just recommend stopping the pacifier at 6 months. This way it's impact on sleep would be limited and the risks are extremely low. In regards to swaddling. It is recommended that if you are swaddling, then you should make sure the baby can adopt the "M" position with their legs. This is the healthy hip position. If they can do this then swaddling is fine. And it is great for their sleep too!

5 kids in and I have never swaddled or used the binky for them for very long at all, it just never seemed helpful, but maybe I just didnt use them right.

I think temperament is a lot too. My daughter didn’t take a pacifier but did just fine without it. She would suck her hands and dropped that at 10 months and sleeps just fine now. 3 yo. My son, wouldn’t take a pacifier but definitely needed one. He’s a bit of a fussy baby. Needing to be carried and held close. Needs to nurse to sleep. I’m sure if I hardcore “sleep trained” that would be different but becuz he is so different and needs me, it’s becuz he needs me. My daughter was very independent early on and did just fine with a little bit of rocking and put down.