Click here for the PDF: valuetainment.com/20-rules-for-young-men/

@guysumpthin2974

Жыл бұрын

#1 there are two types of women , and two types of men : virtuous, and non-virtuous . #2 there is no justice system. The “justice system “ was created to “level”the playing field (balance the scales) by insuring the wealthy wont have an unfair advantage. #3 there are 7 deadly sins , and the owners manual is right. . #4 for a man , your future happiness/success is directly proportional to your womans virtues #5 love is the most important thing on earth. #6 Seek knowledge and wisdom always, wisdom being greater #7 “the best way to pray is in private”. #8 a whorish woman will turn your children against you

@haydencraig7149

Жыл бұрын

I'm new to crypto trading, how do I get started with the help of a professional?

@leventefaludi-orszagh211

Жыл бұрын

❤

@juanpiriz4300

Жыл бұрын

No PDF

@aditya_it_is

Жыл бұрын

Giving wrong advice & running propaganda for money is not a good thing. Let people see what is real, don't brainwash them into looking at world in a particular way! Be a man, have some ethics, don't sell your children's to the devil! Be compassionate, allow people to be free, let them grow on their own, in their own way!!

20 rules: 1. Know the difference between love and lust. 2. It's OK to go to movies by yourself. 3. Hygiene is more important than you think. 4. Never date a friend's ex. 5. Stay informed on what's going on. Don't be a sheep. 6. Have sense of humor but don't joke about dreams and goals. 7. Study the type of people who upset you and why. 8. Stand up to bullies. You'll only have to do it once. 9. Don't bully people weaker than you. 10. Learn how to tell stories. 11. Don't lean on porn to be better in bed. Read the right books. 12. You never marry a girl. You marry her entire family. 13. Don't complain - you seem helpless. 80%/20% 14. Be impressed by the right things. Things that matter. 15. When coming across a successful person talk / impress less. Ask more 16. Have a memorable style. 17. Don't feel guilty for being ambitious. 18. Be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones. 19. Always have some cash, condoms, and a power bank. 20. Be aware of your level of sensitivity. 21. Regardless of what you get paid per hour, give your best. Effort + Attitude matters.

@sathsah1593

2 жыл бұрын

# wrt 12.. visa versa . i only like him , not the family. what the hell i got myself stuck into. what was I thinking

@nobodynone1297

2 жыл бұрын

Rules for young men . #1 don't stick your finger in there #2 never pull it out in public #3 he who smelled it delt it #4 finders keepers #5 if it ain't broke dont fix it #6 better late than never #7 not illegal if you dont get caught #8 beaten ain't cheaten #9. Deny deny deny #10 don't do today what you can put off till tomorrow. #11 save the best for last #12 always breakup before Valentine day #13 work smart not hard #14 tricks are for kids #15 Homie don't play that #16 if you ain't first your last #17 never mix dark with clear liquor #18 No Fat Chicks #19 always Tip 15% #20 promises are meant to be broken

@darylallen2485

2 жыл бұрын

@@nobodynone1297 Ricky Bobby would be proud!

@justkaizen1392

2 жыл бұрын

Posts like these promote laziness and the short attention span that people have today.

@JohnnyCage333

2 жыл бұрын

👌🏼Thanks Potato!

This is the type of education we should have in schools

@limyize

2 жыл бұрын

Schools are DESIGNED to breed workers not leaders

@vasharal38

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agreeing with this!

@arah924

2 жыл бұрын

They dont want everyone to be successful

@cardcode8345

2 жыл бұрын

I'm not sending my kid in that school, I'll rather read philosophers than listening to an MLM marketing guru, as all knows is how pay this employees less than minimum wage, he contributes nothing like there productive value to there business.

@Likexner

2 жыл бұрын

They werent made for that. They were made to produce obedient workers, or nowadays consumers.

22. Control your emotions and remain calm. If you must be angry, use it out of necessity rather than letting it use you. Controlling your emotions is a sign of strength. 23. Take a look at yourself first before blaming others. Take accountability and responsibilities for your own actions. 24. Be willing to walk away from from toxic people. 25. Have discipline. You are not your emotions. Your emotions are fickle but discipline can be your greatest weapon over it.

@batboy5023

11 ай бұрын

thanks

@arjunbhardwaj6619

11 ай бұрын

Thanks a lot bud

@elir6149

8 ай бұрын

thanks bro

@Ace_The_1

8 ай бұрын

Cheers mate

@benchybear

8 ай бұрын

I think it's important to distinguish between not letting anger control you and doing shit you regret and being ok with showing emotion. it should be ok to collapse on someone you need, it should be ok to get passionate about something you care about and it should be ok for a man to cry Infront of people. having the ability to express your emotions like that is the strongest thing a boy can do

Big ups to everyone working effortlessly trying to earn a living while building wealth. My wife and I we are both retired with over $2 million in net worth and all paid off debts. living smart and frugal with our money, made it possible for us this early, even till now we earn passively with our asset coach. Adapt to a lifestyle, be thrifty, set a budget, save money and build more streams.

@jessicamegan5850

2 ай бұрын

Excellent choice having a great savings and more streams to earn makes life goal’s easier but our way of life needs better alternative,at the same time, people also need to be more responsible. I know for a fact that there's a lot of people that simply don't make enough, I make roughly hundred plus a year and in California, rent inflation alone eat up almost all of what I make, with dependents and other obligations included, it's easy to end up with zero. however it’s a good time to add to existing asset holdings as follow -on opportunities

@johndeanconway7931

2 ай бұрын

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@rahultoggi4672

2 ай бұрын

I have got deron résumé, also part of an audience with he’s options, a huge economical nerd, these well anticipated results has impacted a lot of exposure for me.

*Every family has a person who breaks the chain of poverty. I hope you will be that person!!*

@Lilguwopkc

2 жыл бұрын

I’m gone be that person

@the-ironclad

2 жыл бұрын

My family is only one step ahead the poverty line. But I’ll take it a step further.

@id-br1kt

2 жыл бұрын

Idk why this comment made me tear up

@aarohanyt7374

2 жыл бұрын

I am that guy

@zanderxxx2076

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

Played this to my son. Now, he's the head of the family.

@error0803

2 жыл бұрын

Bruh

@evanhdez

2 жыл бұрын

💀

@papiiluvz

2 жыл бұрын

Is your son Roman Reigns?

"Life can suck at times, and suck in major ways" - You put it really well. 14:39

I've watched a lot of business guys, motivation self help stuff, but out of everybody in the genre that he is in Pat has always seemed like the most genuine and down to earth person on here. I'm 21 right now and I've been listening to you since I was in early high school, now I have an amazing business mentor that I work with and really feel good about my future. You're the man!

I would add to this, Get out of your comfort zone as much as you can. You will feel awkward, anxious, nervous, uncomfortable....But that's exactly what you should be feeling. Embrace that feeling until it is comfortable. I lived the first 25 year of my life in my small bubble and often wondered why shit wasn't happening. Exposure and repetition are key. You will fail a lot, but you will get better. This could be anything from Skydiving to asking that girl/boy you find very attractive. It's all the same feeling. If you build up that courage and make it a habit, your life will change in ways you can't ever imagine.

@ken250k

2 жыл бұрын

I needed to see this, thank you

@shmoofgang

2 жыл бұрын

Agreed^^ this is inspiring bro. Glad you’re on a better path

@shanodd

2 жыл бұрын

Woah this gave me chills.

@Nesggy

2 жыл бұрын

I just moved out from my family home 2 months ago, I'm living completely alone in an other continent. It's not easy but I enjoy my life, and I'll keep growing.

@ponstruck

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you random internet stranger

As a young man without a father figure, knowledge like this is extremely important. Thank you Pat for being a fantastic role model for many people including me.

@George-ps5

2 жыл бұрын

Hey, watch Jordan Peterson, he’s helped me a lot

@matthewtrenhaile1176

Жыл бұрын

Listen to the comment below, Jordan Peterson is awesome

@alex47_in_downtown18

Жыл бұрын

@@George-ps5 JP is dope

@bigmike3007

Жыл бұрын

Don’t let it beat you down I’m 34 and I been under the same roof as my father and to be honest I never had the best relationship with him he had his own demons that he is still fighting today. The first thing to do is to erase the thought that he’s not there because of you because that’s not true. Parenting actually sucks in this world because their parents sucked to. Second thing is to use it as some type of motivation and strive to be better and make better decisions and model yourself as the type of man you would want your father to be. It’s easier said then done but if you don’t have kids, you’re already ahead because you have more time to focus on yourself don’t have a kid until you have enough money to put him or her through college twice, not saying college is for everyone but just have an abundance of money saved and building. Third understand that we all have our issues and some people just haven’t worked theirs out yet. I didn’t have a good relationship with my dad but I paid attention to what he shown. He went to work came home put food and clothes on our backs and when we were really young he did things with us, but then he got hurt and he is now disabled from working so hard. I carried around something in me blaming him blaming myself for things and I went out there working hard trying to show for something because I wanted to impress him and two years ago I swear to you the same thing happened to me I hurt my back and I could be potentially disabled from working as well. So I know that void can make you angry but if you apply these tips along with what was said in the video and you don’t have to be rude but you can’t let anyone take you for granted especially women because now that I’m older I see why my dad wasn’t the dad I wanted he went through a rough patch losing both of his parents by the age of 13 and he lost his brother and 3 sisters and my mom has helped him out and they’ve been married for 33 years but it’s not the best because the family on his side disapproved it but people do what they want to but now that I’m older and got to see things with my own eyes I see how one can be overwhelmed with life some people just give up. Im here to tell you don’t ever give up and always take care of your health mentally,physically, emotionally and spiritually and you will be fine! You’re never too old or too young to learn something keep learning young king

@milliondesbele6232

Жыл бұрын

A young man with out father harder . I wish I laird this when I was 20

When you invest you're buying a day you don't have to work

@jeremygood3246

Жыл бұрын

Assets that can make you rich Bitcoin Stocks Real estate

@christianajoe8563

Жыл бұрын

@@jeremygood3246 you're right it's obvious a lot of people remain poor due to ignorance

@lindapoplin7150

Жыл бұрын

I'm looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I have about $6k sitting in my savings

@christopherhobb7702

Жыл бұрын

I advice everyone to start investing and never rely on just salary. No billionaire made it through salary

@lindapoplin7150

Жыл бұрын

I'm new to this Bitcoin trading, how do I get started with the help of a professional?

Being ready to lose a loved one is a very good lesson that's one of those unconfortable things people try to avoid talking about. I lost my mom unexpectedly at 21, and mentally it set me back years due to grief, denial, and the effect of feeling sorry for myself and making poor short sighted decisions for "relief" at the cost of my longer term goals. Being grateful for time you had, and holding onto that perspective and positives is extremely important even when the negatives are hard to cope with. Be the person your parents raised you to be in their honor. They are still watching and while their life may be over, yours is not. as Jordan Peterson said, be the strongest man at your father's funeral. Much love for this man's content and lessons.

Bonus: 22. Always beat your prior best in everything you do. 23. Acting “as if” all the time will eventually require you to become who you’re acting like. 24. Work for a great leader to shadow and duplicate. The right leader matters more than the right industry. 25. Don’t have too many rules. It’ll overwhelm you.

@antoniomolina3612

Жыл бұрын

🐐

@shamil6687

Жыл бұрын

The irony in rule 25

@1rocknroy

Жыл бұрын

26. Imagine (picture) the success of the next moment you are reaching for.

@technicaldifficulties123

Жыл бұрын

I don’t understand 24

@chevyjose9449

Жыл бұрын

@@technicaldifficulties123 then you arent chosen

I dumped a girl once for joking about my goals instantly realized we had totally different outlooks in life

@dotcom2528

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you....! She was never worth you.

@californiahandball

2 жыл бұрын

A girl that laughs at your goals, is still immature. That's good you realized it early, she wasn't the one.

@james271993

2 жыл бұрын

You did the right thing. Let her keep joking once you've made it.

@vickilau716

2 жыл бұрын

Same - I blocked a "friend"/long-time acquaintance for poking fun at my goals. I didn't bother ending the connection with him officially - I just cut him off without notice. People who joke about that yet expect you to take their goals seriously do not even deserve the courtesy of a "break-up," in my opinion.

@radcow

2 жыл бұрын

@@vickilau716 👍

"Be mentally and emotionally prepared to lose love ones" - this made me realize just how lucky I have been in terms of most of my loved ones still being here for so long, makes me appreciate them even more, thank you!

Appreciate the time you took to think, write and produce. I know about these things from past experiences but its always good to have a refresher or be able to make bullet points in my own conversations with friends or family. Great video!

The thing I respect the most about Pat is he wins in every aspect of life, not just entrepreneurship.

@beatsbythekilo

2 жыл бұрын

that can be VERY bad, did u see Pat snap on his workers when one tripped on the wire n he though the video was over. but i understood both ends of the plate, he screamed i hired 6 of u f*ckin guys and the #1 podcast in the world has one person that records and edits(speaking because his ego has him on the moon, cause Joe Rogan finally aired Pat's episode, and Jamie does all Joe's Podcast, but not live... someone tripped on a wire!! and whoever Zack is that works behind the scenes had it) now go look at some of his first videos, idk, he literally went crazy for a 30 second ⏸.... yoooooo @hello thats crazy right?

@fatmunch6318

2 жыл бұрын

You know him personally and are intimately aware of his family life I presume

@lukepollard6498

2 жыл бұрын

@@beatsbythekilo link?

@karanacharya7689

2 жыл бұрын

@@beatsbythekilo what is the time stamp for this incident

@97JG

2 жыл бұрын

I completely agree

Patrick is a mentor to so many young men, including me

@MassMultiplayer

2 жыл бұрын

and me im 39

@fadinaem60

2 жыл бұрын

i just started first year of engineering and pat has given me the lesson to go for what i want and not give up

@danielrodgers8780

2 жыл бұрын

Same

@Import_success

2 жыл бұрын

Broooo, I freaking love your videos man, I learned so much from you.

@drummerboyarnold3174

2 жыл бұрын

we are here

Dude the effort and attitude is so true. 4 years ago I was borderline homeless and couldn’t cope with my father passing and I had some drug problems. I decided to fully give myself to whoever offered me employment summers ago. In fact I had a job at earth fare stocking drinks, chic fil a taking orders, CVS as a cashier, and I worked at a mover company to make ends meet. I ended up getting 5 promotions with CVS and become a store manager then was offered corporate position for a big grocery store corporate position. One of the lady’s who worked with me while I was a store manager saw my work ethic and gave me a verbal offer for the job. None of this would have been possible if I just stayed the same old person who didn’t want a better life.

I have a father, we have never discussed almost half of the things in the list. Thanks Pat, for being transparent and setting an example for us

I'm a 53yo Hispanic male, and I still found great value in the advice you've given. I'm pleased to say that I have shared this video with my two sons and pray that they too find it meaningful. Thank you for your insight and inspiration.

@ALCRAN2010

2 жыл бұрын

Imagine if people older than 25 had KZread growing up. Would have made a lot things easier...

@AdityaRaj-rh4fm

2 жыл бұрын

You're a great dad, Keep it up king .

@1x0x

2 жыл бұрын

@@ALCRAN2010 grass is always greener my guy. there are negatives that come with it too

@juanmccoy3066

2 жыл бұрын

Why would ur age or u being hispanic affect the value u get from this or even be relevant? Im hispanic and it didn't even cross my mind that it'd be a factor. These values are universal for all men

@juanmccoy3066

2 жыл бұрын

@@ALCRAN2010 I mean youtube came into my life when i was about in the 8th grade... so I definitely use it a lot. I know a lot of my older family members scoff at it and the internet in general. They prefer to go to stores and bother cashiers who have no idea what they're talking about. Actually pisses me off because I take the time to research shit and they mock me for it. This is why I hate boomers and about half of Xers

As a 25 year young man who’s dad isn’t around much I really needed this thanks pat your awesome man I hope I can meet you one day

1. Stay off social media 2. Don’t cheat on your spouse 3. Learn to express your frustrations in a calm manner 4. Develop good temperament 5. Listen twice as much as you speak 6. Learn to cook 7. Be honest 8. Don’t be triggered by bad drivers/ avoid road rage 9. Be a person of faith 10. Don’t watch too much TV

this is the type of information we should be passing to our youth and younger men cause these newer generation of kids are growing up in a horrible world and have no respect for others. That’s why it’s important for us older men, I’m only 21 but always pass knowledge to kids younger than me who look up to me and they are truly grateful and actually respect me a lot of them grow up without a father figure and I’m glad I’m able to be like a older brother for a lot of these younger kids and teach them things that education won’t teach them in the outside world. Wonderful video man I’m grateful this came up on my recommended you got yourself a new subscriber my friend!

"Be mentally and emotionally prepared to lose love ones" - This hit home. I just lost a loved 2 days ago and it sucks really bad. Thank you so much for sharing Patrick. I wasn't ready but next time I'm gonna be.

@Andy-gc5dh

Жыл бұрын

How can you be mentally prepare for that?

@carlokk3001

Жыл бұрын

I hope you’re doing well brother🫶🫶

@lordoftheonionring4832

Жыл бұрын

Sorry bro be strong!

A true channel to help and teach entrepreneurs. It's not just a successful businessman flexing his success and random advice. Patrick takes his time and goes so in depth with his lessons it's amazing. Thank you!!!!!

@aarongaffney725

2 жыл бұрын

Free MBA every week!

#13 Hits so hard, and is so true. Most people don’t care about your problems. Not only that, they don’t care about your story, or what cool you got to do. It’s sad but true. Learn to be someone who cares for others, and find people who also care

Damn #14 felt like a call-out, I feel like until recently I've been looking at surface-level things. This video was so informative and helpful, and as a 17 year old getting ready to graduate my junior year, I so so truly appreciate this video. Thank you so much for this video!

Number 18...I lost my mother this year at the age of 27. Thanks for this one. Much love. - Charles

@unknownsource4359

2 жыл бұрын

my condolences for your brutal loss. You now have a guardian angel in your corner.

@edmontonalberta8662

2 жыл бұрын

May she rest in peace

@asdfasdfwae

2 жыл бұрын

Pat still thinks 1999 was 11 years ago lol

@MattMatti3

2 жыл бұрын

Haha was about to say the same. 2010 still in his head

@VALUETAINMENT

2 жыл бұрын

It’s true. Lol. PBD

@Trump-A-Bad-MF

2 жыл бұрын

It's an old vid

@LegacyFarmandFiber

2 жыл бұрын

@@Trump-A-Bad-MF it's not 10 years old..

@jsquared1013

2 жыл бұрын

The older you get, the faster each year feels like it goes by. It hits when sometimes I'm talking with someone about an event that feels like it was a few years ago, and it turns out it was 8 years or 12 years or more 😆

I’m 62. Numbers 1 and 2: Love the Lord your God with all of your heart, all of your soul, all of your mind, and all of your strength. 2) Love your neighbor as yourself.

The most underrated video on the internet. Hands down. Every guy needs to watch this video.

Good stuff. As I turn 30 this year let me humbly add some things I've learned in my 20s that I would tell to a 20 year old 1) go to church 2) when you find the one you want to marry, don't kick around - marry her 3) discusses finances before marriage 4) get out of dept asap 5) lift weights 6) don't watch porn 7) remember when you kill time it has no ressurection 8) invest your money early 9) live on less than you make , practices discipline and contentment 10) remember literally all of human history had it much harder than we do 11) don't complain 12) read books 13) Build a family 14) build healthy habits early so you have it when your 50 15) enjoy life

@abdulgill5013

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your advice, this may help later in my life.

@azerria3416

Жыл бұрын

"Go to church" No, I don't think I will

@zakosist

Жыл бұрын

The first rule just isn't for anyone that's not a christian (and may actually have made up their mind). The marriage rule I'm skeptical of because there are a lot of either unhappy marriages and divorce (in addition to the fact men tend to lose out in divorce cases, so they should be especially skeptical). It may have worked you personally, but its important to keep in mind the examples that in a lot of cases it does not work. Even if you stay together, it does not work if you're unhappy with it. I think it should already have been a relationship for a long time, and have tried to live under the same roof (unless you dont plan on it at all) before you actually marry. Early on you both could be blinded by emotions that inevitably will fade a bit, and you just dont know them that well yet. Building a family, also is for some people, not for everyone, not everybody wants kids or would be suited to it. For "dont complain" I think you should speak up if something is downright unfair or something that should not be allowed. But dont be generally whiny. There may also be cases where you need to ask for help.

@wnadson_tools

Жыл бұрын

able to learn this before age 18, but most people prefer to make things easy

@sxperiorluis

Жыл бұрын

@@azerria3416 LMFAOOO facts bro i said the same thing 😭

5 things to quit for all people: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not prioritizing your health 4. Wasting your precious time 5. Chasing meaningless relationships For those who are in the rush of changing their lives :-)

@mr.brenman2132

10 ай бұрын

I'm in my mid twenties and I'm kicking myself for not asking a certain girl out. It's an opportunity I'll never get back. Is this irrational thinking?

@curiash

10 ай бұрын

@@mr.brenman2132 yop it is. If the opportunity is gone, there's no reason to think about that all time, learn from it and move forward.

@badado

9 ай бұрын

Not necessarily an irrational thought, if you shift your perspective on it being a lesson that caused you to reflect on it enough to wanna change it in future, by one of 3 ways than it was worth going through. 1: causes you to make an attempt at contacting her again if you can asking her out and see if both of you click to move things forward or not. 2. It inspired you to ask the right questions tht will create a hunger inside you to learn how to talkbto women better and date more and also learn the pyschology of dating sol. You wont make the mistake of missing out on anothef opportunity with adifferednt girl. 3. You can be free to focus on yourself your goals and life overall while only dating for casual experience in the joys of sex and human connection or interaction so tht when you feel ready for something serious... You will have a better version of yourself with an even better result or quality of woman, body mindn spirit. Any of those three wouldnt have likely happened without having tbese thoughts u had and a self awareness for them to ask another person. Hope thg helps. Sorry i wrote alot but im going through a rough p atch myself and most family i have no connectjon with due tontgeur betrayal but i still very much miss my neices and nephews 2 who are about to both be 21. I wish incould talk to them and be part ofbtgeir lives again but busy getting my life in order while helping take care of my folks. Good luck with everything lil homie. 👍👍

@mr.brenman2132

9 ай бұрын

@@curiash I didn't see your comment earlier and I appreciate the response 👍

@mr.brenman2132

9 ай бұрын

@@badado It was a first time interaction but I was sitting next to her for a considerable amount of time at a sporting event. I'll never see her again unfortunately. There was no reason for me not to ask for her number. I didn't have a sense of urgency or care at the time. I guess I hadn't hit rock bottom yet. It wasn't until about a month later when my lack of inaction started to bother me. I kind of had a mental health crisis that triggered these feelings of regret. I'm not a teenager anymore and I feel like I need to gain experience with women as quickly as I can. What bothers me the most about it is that it was a perfect opportunity for a shy person like me. She was close to my age. She wasn't there with a dude. She seemed very friendly. She was obviously someone I found attractive. I was also kind of in my element and in good spirits. Like I said, I had no sense of urgency or drive at the time. Maybe I have a hormonal problem, IDK. I kind of just have to move forward and learn from my past mistakes like you said. Easier said then done when you suffer from severe social anxiety. Exposure is the only way I'll get over that I guess. It's certainly motivation but I've been haunted by regret in the past. I appreciate the response. I hope you reconnect with your family. I would be completely and utterly alone without mine which tells you the spot I'm in. I need to progress as an adult in bad way.

Growing up without a father was probably the worst thing that ever happened to me. I am just scrapping through the internet for guides how how to become a man. Thanks for this content. Really great stuff

@lordoftheonionring4832

Жыл бұрын

Check out Jordan Peterson if you didn't already

We NEEDED this

Always feels like you gain 5 years worth of wisdom ahead each time I get to watch Sir Patrick’s content. I’m i am so grateful for your dedication and time. It’s so inspiring 🙏🏾

It's kind of bittersweet watching this video knowing I had to learn a lot of these lessons the hard way, but I'm so glad Pat's taking the time to do his duty to our younger brothers. I still have a long way to go and a lot of the lessons Pat describes for later in life sound very solid. I hope I can do the same when I'm older

@ReidRichters

11 ай бұрын

Ppp

@sinisinsini

11 ай бұрын

Lessons for life

@Lee-os1if

10 ай бұрын

A lot of the times the only way we can learn is by messing up and going through the situation ourselves; experience is the best teacher.

RULE 1: Get right with God.

@Noone074

2 ай бұрын

That should be rule 21

@jawwadjalal1820

2 ай бұрын

🙏🙏🙏

@Ihtfwthf-gc

2 ай бұрын

Good answer...yep get right with GOD.

@elibinneman2974

2 ай бұрын

Shut up

@Outofofficeguy

Ай бұрын

Get god right

You’re changing my life Patrick! Been watching you for a couple years now and I’ve taken all your advice pretty literal. I’m 22 and It’s doing many wonders for me. Thank you for all that you do man, much love 🤝🍻

Rule 21: Always be ready for change. Accept and process ALL the information that comes by your life and reject whatever does not make sense or resonate with YOU.

Watching this after a recent break up. I really resonated with the preparing yourself to lose people in your life. I told myself at times throughout our relationship that this may not actually work, but that's okay. We ended things amicably, we agreed we can't be just friends, but we wish the best for the other, and I won't say I'm not sad, but I'm alot more okay than I was after past break ups.

@mr.brenman2132

10 ай бұрын

How do you meet women?

I have never seen a video showing specifically useful advice to us, the young men who are struggling to find our way. You are one of the wisest content creators that I have seen on KZread. In fact, you are talking to us like you could do with your sons.💪🙏

I lost my dad when I was 13. I missed out on this stuff. I taught myself useless things without a dad. like washing a car, hanging Christmas lights for my mom… But never learned how to take care of myself. Thank you Patrick, Jordan Peterson, and everyone else. We are in this together

I love going to the movies alone, not sure why so many people are scared to do so. Even my friends are shocked when i tell them i go alone all the time. Sometimes its good to be alone and get away from everyone.

@dickiessantoro3251

2 жыл бұрын

I never went to the movies alone , I always thought it was weird and I would feel like a creeper on a solo mission . But that’s just me being Insecure

ADDITIONAL RULE! Every young man should learn how to use a tape measure. The ability to measure the world around you will give you a level of confidence and give others the impression that you are a precise and measured man.

@Simon-beast

2 жыл бұрын

Lul

@juanmccoy3066

2 жыл бұрын

I mean it's not rocket science.... pretty self explanatory. Not sure this is a rule that needs to even be stated. If u know how to read and do very basic math u can use a tape measure. Sorry to burst ur bubble.... it's just not the skill ur making it out to be. A better one would be "Take part in activities and projects that require measuring/applied mathematics"

@ThatCasualZach

2 жыл бұрын

I don't associate with grown men that use "ur" in conversation.

I'm so happy to find your channel through this particular video. I am a school teacher and often discuss these things (although very limited) whenever I can. There should be a school subject specifically for this sort of thing.

#18 is real. Lost my grandpa almost exactly a year ago, so my first death of someone close. I have a picture of us on the front page of my Bible, and I still can’t really think about him without tearing up. Love that man with all of my heart, and can’t wait to see him again one day 🙏🏾

@Coral333

11 ай бұрын

I know he's very proud of you and always watching over you🙏❤️🙏

@Valtinho22he

9 ай бұрын

I know your hurt! I lost someone about 8 a helf years ago, and even today, I feel bad for it. Your grandpa should be very proud of you!

Thank you for making this video! I appreciate each rule you talked about

@sweetbunny6198

2 жыл бұрын

Why?

Hey man. I just wanted to thank you for the motivation and the insights into being a leader and all of the tidbits that came along the way. I lost my business during Corona. My life became absolute crap and I was in a depressed state of mind for about a week. Then I came across your channel and you motivated me to be a man and accept that life will throw obstacles at you and you will have to overcome them. I did. 1 year later , I do my own high ticket sales network , I have 5 employees who generate more than 60k USD each (in the last 3 months) and I’m on my way towards achieving the most success I’ve ever had. Thanks for the value that you have added to my life. Ur like the dad I never had. And I am truly grateful. Lets freaking gooooo

@TheCatholicRemedy

10 ай бұрын

being depressed for only a week? damn i'd kill for your brain

This vid is mind blowing, I already know all this things, but he clears everything up and puts it in a list to note it down

Awesome shit bro! Thank you!

PBD hitting us with that knowledge! These are some really great tips.

@trentcruise3084

2 жыл бұрын

It's all Bullshit!!!

@trentcruise3084

2 жыл бұрын

@@JC_0007 If you don't have your life together, by the time you're 20, you'll be doomed too wander Earth aimlessly.

@trentcruise3084

2 жыл бұрын

@@JC_0007 Talk to Ted Bundy's Mom, She'll tell you straight out, Mothering is Overrated!!

@trentcruise3084

2 жыл бұрын

@Sam Farza Humans are Experts at pointing out flaws in Peoples lives. And Dismal at administering Solutions for those same individuals.

@ApexGaming100

2 жыл бұрын

@@trentcruise3084 Whats wrong with you?

The best sets of advice I've heard all my life from a businessman.

Great video Patrick

Respect you very much Pat. You define what it takes for young men to be successful.

Enjoyed you on the JRE show, you my friend are a wealth of information and very grounded opinions. By far one of my favorite podcasts this year. Keep up the good work.

You hit the nail on the head Patrick. I would add "Keep it spotless!" Car, room. workplace, yard, laptop, etc

This is a really good video!

Needed this🙏🙏 thanks man

Key point regarding #1 rule: Remember gents, she's not yours. It's just your turn. Be on your purpose, kings

Old school Patrick Laying on the value PBD excels at these lists Power to you, Sir

Great Video. Great Content

Excellent video

This is exactly what I need to know. I was feeling very low about myself. Thank you for this video.

You have been my mentor for 6 years now, and you never failed on it. Thank you

#19 is a funny one, but other than that a really amazing manual through life. I especially appreciate the message to deal internally w/ conflicting situations and explore your sensitivity instead of pointing fingers and running away. Beautiful job!!! 👍 I'd add only one thing: don't get stuck indoors lifting weights. A lot of it leads to vanity and it won't teach you much about life and practically. Instead, pick outdoor sports. It's healthier, at times risky and it demands your full focus and the engagement of your entire body. It is way more natural and you'll be stronger and will learn about the practicality of life.

My dad went thru the same thing when his dad, grandpa passed two years ago.. he was devastated but the good memories kept him up, and going!

PBD you’re the dad I never had and I’m in my mid 30’s and raising my children. I hope you reach many young men across the globe.

Thank you Pat I’m 23 and still have a lot to learn. I’m happy I follow a lot of these rules but still helpful to know I’m heading in a positive direction.

Patrick is the perfect father figure this generation needs ❤

Love all your videos!!

This might be the only valuetainment video that has made me feel good about myself... I'm already practicing most of these rules, but the other videos break me down for sure...

Pat never disappoints🔥

@andreszarate7041

2 жыл бұрын

Fax

This is Gold !

thanks for such great content

this is what needs to be taught in school, needed this and for the youngins . appreciate and understood every rule, thanks for the vid 🤟🏽💯

It’s my first time to focus on a program for over an hour. Tonight has just been about your lectures, thank you for the messages I’ve learnt a lots tonight. I know one day I’ll be on TV to talk my success story and today will be remembered.

Thank you for everything Pat

I needed this.

I would honestly add "work on your willpower" to the list. If you can increase your willpower even a small amount it can make a big difference, it can impact your relationships, discipline, hygeine and a lot more.

What you have laid out, its good advice. I think it will specially hit men in their early 20s. Being 30 and learning the hard way through life without guidance, I wish advice like this was accessible when I grew up in the 90s 20s. Your thoughts and goals change over the years, and if you can reach them earlier, go bloody HAM and get it done!

@obvioushieidude7668

6 ай бұрын

30 is still young. Also age DOES NOT equate to life stage. Everyone hits milestones at different ages. Also 26 and 30 ARE IN THE SAME AGE GROUP!

Content like this is gold these days

Very important video! This is coming from a father to a 12 yr old son that I raised from day one and I take my role very seriously.

Great advice Pat! I made some of these mistakes when I was younger. I wish I had someone to advise on this back then. I will most certainly share this to my younger peers and little brothers.

What a great guy to take the time out to give some pointers to young men out there. Great advice!

Fantastic video

I’m a woman watching in 2023. Good video for everyone. Learning to lose a loved one is particularly poignant. It’s not taught and I had a good friend lose her mind, her job, and her life when her mother died. I need to prepare my kids. We all do. So many good tips.

21 BARS in 19 minutes , Pat is a gem.

can't believe this is free, thanks PBD

Every bullet point epic, thanks man

Love this. Having my son listen to it. Thanks

Its so sad that all these men, myself including, aren't just sat down and taken the time to be told these things. Thanks alot.

THE G ! King Patrick

The “be mentally and emotionally ready to lose loved ones “ hit me hard. Im always thinking about this and it hurts me to the core. That thing is the most scariest shit to me and I don’t know how to deal with it when it comes to me. But thank u so much 🙏🙏 That’s a part of life and i have to accept this 🙏

Me, a 24 year old lady, taking deep notes cause these are all life lessons that every adult needs to know and practise. Patrick is always spitting facts.

@prometheusrex1

2 жыл бұрын

@MyAkachi Stay in your lane. This one's not for you.

@MyAkachi

2 жыл бұрын

@@prometheusrex1 "Stay in your lane. This one's not for you" reeks of misogyny and God knows what else. Why? Because everything Patrick says are great self-development principles that are admirable in all adults, and things that many high-achieving men and women live by. But oh well ... forgive me for being here, since it's "not my lane" - whatever the hell that means. Let me go look for a makeup & beauty video to watch (or something you may deem more appropriate for me). Goodnight and God bless.

@MiguelAngel-ep9vt

2 жыл бұрын

@@prometheusrex1 Man, that is a narrow way of thinking.

@Jason.cbr1000rr

2 жыл бұрын

@@dickiessantoro3251 i agree wtf fk the bvtch its a mans world

@andyhawkins7988

2 жыл бұрын

Can you elaborate on the "deep notes" you took. 😂😂😂

This is Without a Doubt, "The Best Video" You Have Released thus far Patrick!! Advice Solid as Gravity Itself 💯 Absolutely Perfect!!!

Thank You Big Brother!! 🙏🏽 God Bless You!! This list is basically a book. He literally blessed us with the important information and left the fluff for the book.

@MasteryOrder

Жыл бұрын

If mastery and masculinity are things of interest to you, I invite you to use the resources on the Mastery Order Channel and challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood to become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!

Powerful content!!!!!