I was having difficult time making sense of my relationship and leaving until I have come across your videos. It take me 3 months to get a mediator because I was so shocked and I always know something was wrong but I didn’t know how to explain to people bc people always told me how amazing he is😂but at home that’s not him at all. I’m so grateful to Allah that I have found your podcast specially from Islamic point of view. You are amazing and keep doing what you doing❤. You have know idea how much you have helped me with my codependency -people pleasing.

Thank you for this podcast that heals my insecurities... i was so insecured of his ex girlfriends whom he putted so much efforts in hoovering before, while im not even after i divorced him..

Jazak Allahu Khayran, Dr. Alyedreessy, for all of your help and the liberating information and understanding you have given me and, inshaAllah, many, many others. I had heard of spiritual abuse but I didn’t understand what it was - much less did I realize that I was a victim of it. My own guilty conscience was my Hoover: I would force myself to go back again and again right after being abused and just try harder. I only did this because I believed Allah required it of me. Knowing that Allah sees abuse as a type of oppression - regardless of the perpetrator (parents, spouses, governments, etc)- gave me clarity and made it easy to for me to distance myself as I had always wanted to. Very limited contact now. Alhamdulillah, it’s a huge relief.

Asalam alaykoum! Thank you so much for giving me the closure I never had.❤ My Allah reward you immensely for all the work you do. 🙏

Before hearing this podcast I used to think that the constant feeling of relief becuase of not getting hoovered is my cowardlyness. When you said WELL DONE I teared up ❤

@Mhagzzy6265

2 ай бұрын

Same feeling as mine😭

These kinds of ‘friendships’ can lead to emotional infidelity, with the abuser using polygamy as a justification if others question their motives. The excitement of ‘the chase’ especially if both parties have loose morals, if utterly devastating 😔

It’s like you’re talking to me directly - what a great listen sis 💕💜

@themuslimnarcissistbook

Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulilah :)

Thank You For 🔯 Your Service 🌞🌈 Allah Hu Akbar ❤️

@themuslimnarcissistbook

5 ай бұрын

You’re welcome :)

Assalam alaikum thank you sister for your content❣️I was dealing with a narcissist beforehand, we’ve been together for about 3 years. His mask started to slip pretty late as my gut feeling told me „he might be a narcissist“. I told my siblings about it as horrible things started to happen in this relationship. I took the courage and walked away silently. He ofc took notice of it and tried to hoover me back into his life. I knew i couldnt trust him fully but i didnt fully know whats all behind his hoovering, at some point i was actually contemplating about talking to him again (as he wanted to discuss things happened in the past), i was actually thinking about giving him one last opportunity to let him say what he „always wanted to say but couldnt as he was too scared to tell me“ (still dont really understand his statement here). But as i listened to your content now, im proud of myself for not giving in, to never ever go back and having been able to escape this horrible cycle, thank you again🫶🫶