15 Unfair Things in Life & How to Overcome Them
Why is life so unfair and how to overcome the unfair things in life?
SUBSCRIBE to ALUX: / @alux
Video Notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life
MIND Mastery: www.alux.com/meditation
Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook
Thanks to our friends at Audible!
Disclaimer: signing up for Audible will result in financial compensation towards Alux Inc at no additional cost to you, the consumer.
In this Alux.com video we will be answering the following questions:
Why is life unfair?
How do you deal with the unfair parts of life?
How to overcome the unfair things in life?
What are some things that are unfair in life?
Why can't life be fair?
Why does life constantly seem so unfair?
Is Life Really Unfair?
Alux, why is life unfair?
What made you realize life was not fair?
Why is life so unfair?
What to do when life is unfair?
How does one deal with the unfairness of life?
____________
00:00 - Intro
00:49 - Some people are born rich
01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent
03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you
04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you
05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors
07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway
08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent
08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things
09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep
10:39 - Life is a competition
12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available
13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling
14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality
15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon
16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
17:08 - Question
*
#alux #motivation #sundayvideo
-
Get Rich Playlist: • Get Rich Playlist - Al...
Take Action Playlist: • TAKE ACTION by Alux.com
All Sunday Motivational Videos: • Sunday Motivational Vi...
Book Club: • Alux.com's Book Club
-
Social Media:
/ alux
/ alux
/ aluxcom
---
Alux.com is the largest community of luxury & fine living enthusiasts in the world. We are the #1 online resource for ranking the most expensive things in the world and frequently referenced in publications such as Forbes, USAToday, Wikipedia and many more, as the GO-TO destination for luxury content!
Our website: www.alux.com is the largest social network for people who are passionate about LUXURY! Join today!
SUBSCRIBE so you never miss another video: goo.gl/KPRQT8
--
To see how rich is your favorite celebrity go to: www.alux.com/networth/
--
For businesses inquiries we're available at:
www.alux.com/contact/
Пікірлер: 679
Hello Aluxers! What about your current life seems unfair? Video Notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life Invest in yourself today: www.alux.com/meditation Get a free audiobook thanks to Audible: www.alux.com/freebook
@randomreactor603
3 жыл бұрын
Ur awesome ❤️❤️👍
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
@@randomreactor603 Thanks :D
@roshidabegom871
3 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail is extraordinary... Good choice
@abishkarpoudel3424
3 жыл бұрын
big fan from NEPAL..
@ajithsidhu7183
3 жыл бұрын
@@alux please do one on how not to screw up in life
Never stop doing your best just because life doesn’t give you credit. For those who read this: Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come.
@ironman9333
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks😊
@26afc
3 жыл бұрын
sakib al hassan 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
You know it!
@lilypeterson7465
3 жыл бұрын
The best is yet to come!
@nadirrabah6756
3 жыл бұрын
"The best is yet to come" Frank Sinatra's words /lyrics. I'm 38 and I love his music 😁
For those of you who are only interested in the list, here are the video notes: www.alux.com/unfair-life Here's the list: 00:49 - Some people are born rich 01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent 03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you 04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you 05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors 07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway 08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent 08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things 09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep 10:39 - Life is a competition 12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available 13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling 14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality 15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon 16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
@randomreactor603
3 жыл бұрын
❤️👍Your channel is inspiring
@nelsonbiza9875
3 жыл бұрын
What about your RACE?🤔 Being Black or White?
@yourfriend855
3 жыл бұрын
I know there are a lot of people who massage you on instagram but see my massage
@RamirArcega24
3 жыл бұрын
@ Hermes approves.
@conphideinme
3 жыл бұрын
Finally ! Thanks !
So, for me life picked Cancer and I have learnt to dance in that situation. I have kicked it's ass out of my life with a big smile and back in business again. Life is indeed unfair but the moment you accept and move on, that's what called happiness is in life. Wishing everyone a happy and healthy life from Bangladesh. Big hugs 🤗. See you Aluxers at Mind Mastery someday.
@nerlogugutochi8918
3 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Take care of yourself.. eat well, go to the doctor frequently 😅 💜💪
00:49 - Some people are born rich 01:57 - Some people are born with a natural talent 03:20 - Some people are born better looking or taller than you 04:39 - Some people are born in a better country than you 05:39 - Some people have access to better teachers and mentors 07:28 - Some doors open only for the people who are already in the hallway 08:05 - You get reward based on results not effort or intent 08:43 - Bad people sometimes get away with doing bad things 09:24 - Two thirds of your adult life you’re either working or asleep 10:39 - Life is a competition 12:31 - Your soulmate might be on the other side of the planet and you’ll settle for what’s available 13:08 - Most people never pursue their calling 14:13 - Rewards in life come based on the number of people impacted not effort or quality 15:21 - Life is a maze not a marathon 16:01 - Cancer & other illnesses
@sourishacharya6749
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro. You will become a billionaire soon.
@dumbass1426
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@bugeye8749
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks bby
@hassansherif4041
3 жыл бұрын
thanks a lot
@renelvital
3 жыл бұрын
It’s also always written in the description.
The most unfair thing ever happended to me is childhood abuse, to this day I struggle with an emptiness inside me.
@saiprasaddvd
3 жыл бұрын
Emptyness of the cup....make it useful. Fill it with great thoughts Aluxer. We’re.
@bbsingh7554
3 жыл бұрын
You'll do great, don't worry.
@jesicagv5447
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry I mispelled the word emptyness thank you Saiprasaddvd, and yes that's true, but It doens't change that is unfair.
@getnetmekuriyaw5096
3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to that. It's hard, but not matter the odds, you gotta commit to loving yourself.
@ARCHANA_SINGH8066
3 жыл бұрын
@@jesicagv5447 can you please elaborate what happened ?
😂The thumbnail with the dictator is funny and precise
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
We got it right
@AlexKenas
3 жыл бұрын
@@alux Number 8 is very true in regards to white collar criminals, who usually spend a few years in posh minimum security resort style prisons instead of decades in violent medium security ones.
She just said Nepal, I'm from Nepal. Wish me luck.
@charliemiles6475
3 жыл бұрын
You can do it!
@user-qe2jp2du4v
3 жыл бұрын
Go you!!
@subhasisdas7306
3 жыл бұрын
You should follow " Bruce Lee path be water my friend "
@applepie3701
3 жыл бұрын
Nepal is not the worst country on earth
@user-qe2jp2du4v
3 жыл бұрын
@@applepie3701 north korea?
"When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" -Eric Thomas
I don't always comment but I must say this is the greatest channel you can ever find here. Thanks Alux for the value you are putting out there.
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Samuel! Really appreciate it!
"Most people never pursue their calling" this really hit. Thankyou Alux❤❤. Can you do a video on doctors and the richest doctors in the world.
*"Cultivate your own garden."*
The problem with Number 1 ( especially in the USA) is that those born into wealth inevitably move into politics and make rules and decisions over the lives of people that they cannot relate to, hence creating a huge gulf of distrust that never changes.
@arihobrenda5555
Жыл бұрын
Okayyy. So which country has a President that can still relate to and was from a middle/poor class family....😑
@luccaskingo
Жыл бұрын
Ue
LOOOL i was born Zambia, but grew up in London and and achieved highly like my mum set out to. big up Alux for that point
@johnzgambo9818
3 жыл бұрын
Shut up man your mum doesn't have eyebrows
really needed this...in nursing school and feeling like I should've done this a long time ago...but then I realize I am exactly where I need to be....so life is fair!
I have watched many of your videos till the end. What I found in common is that all of these videos mostly motivates the business minded. What about the job-holders. They don't seem to have too many options of starting something new or working on their own terms as their companies are very demanding. They even have to work for 12 to 16 hours a day, come home for 3 hours of sleep(which is not even half of what is needed), eat anyhow and hustle again back in the day job. Quitting job is definitely not the right option straight away, but who will get time to develop a side profession or a business when working like this? Can you please make a video on such a topic that could provide a blueprint to re-model life for such individuals?
@flawless_undergoer
Жыл бұрын
No ,they cannot do what you seek ,because there is not any way such to be done.These world is good only for businessmen ,not for workers and always will be.
@luccaskingo
Жыл бұрын
True
When I deeply think of all 15 point esp number 15...i think to myself what is the purpose of chasing all these things in life... All these thing we collect in life only to reach the last hour and it all gets left behind for someone else to do what they want with it My crazy mind says... Live simply, but ENJOY LIFE, Build memories, travel, meet lots of new people and build good relationships, always leave a 1 nugget of inspiration when parting with someone you meet, share all your life lesson and education with people you meet...
The unfair thing was my partner turned out to be an abuser and I never did get a career because I was all the children had. I still hope to become a nurse.
4:56 😂😂😂😂😂 I was born in Nepal and I live here. Honestly, its not that bad. Of course, its not on par with the US or New Zealand but it has its own perks. 🙂
@leona107
3 жыл бұрын
I agree 😂 I grew up in nepal and I’m glad i did.
@Changamire-Dombo
3 жыл бұрын
you missed her point
@kaushalagarwal7442
3 жыл бұрын
I born in india but it okay to die in denmark
@maheshnepal1003
3 жыл бұрын
Sure it is! We are happy in the crowd of Kathmandu, Pokhara or Birjung, until we see the life in the Norway or New Zealand. Once we are in these countries, very few want to return!
@ARCHANA_SINGH8066
3 жыл бұрын
Remember Mount Everest is in India and also Gautam Buddha was an Indian , thanks ❤️
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reason to smile:-)♥️♥️
Unfortunately, i still confuse where to begin to redesign my life achievement, getting older but still has no luck in career
Focus on yourself, put your head down and keep on grinding. You'll get there eventually 💪
@alexbent4333
3 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up*
@TheIcelandicInvestor
3 жыл бұрын
Alex Bent that too
Hi alux, I'm from Zambia and it's actually really hard to make it here, our country has high corruption rates and only the extremely hard working really make it
@MaureenKatalilo
3 жыл бұрын
The struggle ey, I'm Zambian too
@wilabanda4388
3 жыл бұрын
@@MaureenKatalilooh wow, each part
@MaureenKatalilo
3 жыл бұрын
Lusaka. What about you?
That dictator's funny scene on thumbnail 😂😂😂
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
What else would we use...
@bbullgod313
3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same
@alokmittar1034
3 жыл бұрын
It shows aluxa's sense of humour
@nadirrabah6756
3 жыл бұрын
He shoots the other runners to come in first place 😁😁😁. He gave himself Oscar when he acted in his own movies lol.
Great video I love the quote “ You get when you settle for!”
I love you guys. I know this is a platform to monetize and live a fruitful life for you guys, but the fact that you add value to other peoples' lives while doing it is undeniable.
@luccaskingo
Жыл бұрын
Uh?
OMG!! #5 the best. Thank you so much Alux your videos has done so much for me in discovering my life goals, thank you, thank you. I was honestly lost and still are in certain aspects of me life, but I understand it is a process, it is really difficult but I know it is possible. I don't want to rant too much, it is just time enough I said thank you.
Watching this video was truly therapeutic. Even if I don't agree it was refreshing seeing them go through the list.
No other channel could put it together in a better way than u guys❤️❤️
Knowing that because I am Black, weak people fear me and thus do things to block my progress even when I am not competing with them. When I am competing with them, that fear manifests itself as bias and racism. I intend to keep improving myself, keep being of service and producing quality work that is of value, So that as a force of nature I am not ignored but in fact rewarded .
Played at 1.5x, she sounded so concerned of 'ME'. Narrator be my mentor 🙏🏻
Whats important is to stop attributing monetary success straight to a person's hard work or talent, there are a host of other factors at play in deciding how much fame or money a person accrues. This keeps the rich humble and gives dignity to the unsung superheroes.
Was really having a rough day until watched this so good video and answered so many of my unanswered questions that I had till today Keep up the good work Alux! ❤️
You have no idea how much you've changed my life. THANK YOU🙏💯
I always find peace of mind anytime I am watching Alux inspirational video. I wonder how my life will be if their is no Alux.Thanks guys...from Yoruba nation (Nigeria)
@mysticalvibe4241
3 жыл бұрын
Just wondering heather not trying to impose but if all your siblings grew up with a silver spoon why not you? I know I barely knew my siblings because they were older and 0 closeness
summary: many people are extremely luckier than you, just as you're probably way luckier than many others
These videos have indeed made a difference in my life. Thanks for the great work!
Every word of this video is a gem. Keep it up Alux.
Wow - another great video from Alux. That was alot to process. Finding your calling - I found mine and I am pursuing it part-time and I hope to turn it into a full-time career that will make me money. Soulmate - I want to find my soulmate and if I have to travel on the other side of the world to find him and NOT settle for what is nearby, I will. And finally success - I wish all of you Aluxers peace, wealth and success. Here's to making 2021 our best year yet. I spent my time during the pandemic watching Alux, educating myself on how how to get rich and I am looking forward to the next chapter in my life.
You don't choose where you're born, thus you have no choice about who your RELATIVES are... but you can choose your FAMILY and make it ups s you go along. My business partners and mentors and friends have become my family. If the people you grew up with, those relatives, are toxic and negative or want to keep you down and use you up... get as far away from them as you can, make it so they don't feel they can show up in your life in a few years when you're doing much better. Plainly tell them you want nothing to do with them NOW or EVER, and keep your word to yourself, people hardly ever change, so if you get rid of them and then they show up later you can make a safe bet they have not changed at all. I came back years ago to my "family" after years of absence, I had changed so much, learned so much, but they were still there, so I came back and with new wyes I tried to fit in with them and make some connections, it was futile, as I almost immediately noticed they had not changed at all, immediately I noticed they started with that old habits and feeling and force to try to PULL ME DOWN, jokingly and all that but always negative, so I told them again I was gone and never coming back, they asked why and I told them I realized they hadn't changed and were using me for money or favors and they never were there for me for the simplest things, there were always reasons why they could never help or simply be nice to others, the people they were years ago that bullied others and were always negative and discouraging that is the people they were still Now so I bid them good bye and good luck but I was gone... I realized [painful shit bt it is true] that they were RELATIVES since we were born from the same woman, but we had never been FAMILY, that as soon as I had use of reason and could support myself I wanted and did get away from them, and this short reunion of a few months only confirmed what I already knew but naively kept hoping it wasn't so... now it's been a few years since I left again for good, and never made so much progress on all aspects of life and business, happy as hell, and hardly even thin of them, only when I hear a video like this that reminds me of those facts.. Sorry this got long, good luck to all of you.
Hello Alux, You made a point in #4 which might not be exactly true. I live in Haïti and I’m a product manager for a Telecom company; however, despite the fact that some of us have access to internet we rarely have access to meaningful and valuable information. Sometimes we even struggle to get access to the basic ones 🤦♂️
I've never regretted to subscribe Alux!!! This channel is so inspiring honestly!
This is one of the best content I've ever seen on KZread or anywhere for that matter. Super amazing Alux Team! Your consistency and brilliance is unbelievably outstanding.
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words Rafik!
Two unfair things I battle with. The lasting effects of childhood abuse, though no matter how many times I step back I keep going, and how, in the U.S., women can take or destroy everything you’ve worked for.
Let’s just take a step back: this channel has changed my life so so so much I can’t even explain. I love what you guys are doing , not a lot of people will give all these “secrets” for FREE! Thank you so much and God bless #ALUX . To my Alux family ; We are all on a journey and I’ll see everyone at the top! Love always ❤️ 🙏🏽 #Billionaires
Thank you for this content, Alux.. You've helped me so much since 2018.
Love from Zambia 🇿🇲. I just hope im not the only Zambian getting such content.
You are my only financial mentor Thanks
I keep ignoring Alux videos for a long time in my notifications, but I would never again ignore it after watching this 👍
My siblings all grew up with a silver spoon, still do. Me, the exact opposite, I gave to the whole family and received not one cent. Changing that, starting with getting as far away as possible.
Real talk, I love watching these vids & taking EVERYTHING into perspective & just being a grateful passionate human being. RVA 🎌
I really appreciate the Bonus point dear Alux
I gotta be honest you, your voice is the best biggest reason why I watch your videos. But the content is good too. Thank you.
This was great, I really hit home and I found a new clarity from this. Thank you 🙏🏼
15. Cancer and other illnesses. 14. Life is a maze not a marathon. 13. Rewards in life come from the people impacted not the effort or quality. 12. Most people never pursue their calling 11. Your soulmate might be on the other side of the world but you'll settle with who's avaliable. 10. Life is a competition. 9. Two thirds of your adult life is spent sleeping or working. 8. Bad people sometimes get away with bad things. 7. You get a result based on results not effort or intent. 6. Some doors open only for those in the hallway. 5. Some people have access to better mentors and teachers 4. Some people are born in a better country than you. 3. Some people are born better looking or taller than you. 2. Some people are born with a natural talent. 1. Some people are born rich
@rms-photo
3 жыл бұрын
@Louie Smith it's real
Alux is the only KZread channel that never runs out of amazing content. Who else agrees?
From what I understand, Chadwick's career wasn't stopped by cancer (until it killed him). He had success despite the cancer. Could have easily gone the "can't do it, got cancer" route. Very inspirational as to how I want to face my challenges.
Grand Rising Alux and Thank you!
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
Here here
Alux am from zambia things are hard here but am trying in all means to follow your advice on getting rich, we need more of videos on under devloped countrys like zambia
Hey Alux, thanks.
Life is unfair to everyone, this makes life fair.
@avengersana
3 жыл бұрын
No it's not unfair to everyone. What you're saying is something people say to cope with the reality.
Probably your best content yet, Team ALUX 👍🏾
2 years ago I stumbled across this knowledge; Death is the greatest life creation, It clears the old for the new. It changed how I look at life.
Thank You Alux for this great content..
The most valuable video i saw at the right time. Thank you Alux.
The fact that some people are born with a natural talent is unbelievably unfair.
@Dakid015
3 жыл бұрын
I hear you but that doesn't mean we can't develop a talent with more practice to get to a higher level
@GoddessBlessYou
3 жыл бұрын
Because...?
@ecaldwell9
3 жыл бұрын
T.J. C Everyone has a nack for something. Rather it’s organic to you, or you acquire/develop it later. I don’t totally believe that life/time completely discriminate. Time hits us all at the same moment in the same way. And if a person has leverage (i.e. prestigious name, born rich), they usually lack in other areas - that you can only acquire by GOING THU SOMETHING. And their come-upings will catch-up. Life constantly seeks BALANCE. You stole from prev generations to benefit your clan. Karma from the Universe will come onto those received benefactors. Life always seeks balance. No worries about what is fair & what’s not. Jesus came down here and died for all of us. So, at least that’s one least worry for us. Re-direct the energy (those worries) towards doing something constructive, to modify your circumstance; help achieve your goals. That’s the whole point.
Thank you Alux.
Alux, I am from Nepal and what you mentioned is totally realistic!
Thank you so much Alux
Great content Alux! Started watching your videos 2months ago and life has changed tremendously. 💪🏾💪🏾❤️
Life is awesome 🙌💯... thank you Alux!!🙏❤️🇺🇸
Wow Alux, I am loving you more now! This is what a future billionaires need to learn, Not that unnecessary luxury brand names and why something is expensive!! There are so many others to do that. But this is something I get only from you! By the way bring a book series fast...
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
Working on it.
Love the way you put on important topics Love & respect from my heart
You don't get what you deserve, "you get what you settle for" 👐💯
All points are up to the mark. Awesome video!
it has been difficult for me and trying to be motivated everyday is exhausting thank you alux for this video. Your channel will always be timeless
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Joe!
@joe2k20
3 жыл бұрын
@@alux you're welcome
Thanks Alux, your videos are very informative!
Thank you Alux
Hello Alux,I recently started following you and there are many new chapters added into my infobook.Hails to you. BTW which mic has been used for this voiceover?
People who are born with any kind of disability. I always feel sorry for them.
I was so disappointed when I heard alux say "some people are born with a natural talent", I was heartbroken hearing this from Alux. Talent is just a word used to describe something that has been done over and over again to become the best in that. Nobody was born with anything because we had nothing in our heads when we were born. I'm so heartbroken hearing this from alux.
Great content Alux! Thank you!
I screwed up my life when I was young. But I have been learning stuff, re-enrolled in University, started working out, did ALL there is to it. But just because I did some crappy things about 5 years ago, no high quality employer hires me. I am stuck. This is what is unfair.
People only complain about life being unfair when they're on the losing side. No one wins and says they don't deserve it (and means it).
Thanks Alux🙂
Point 13 is what am doing... because of awesome content from Alux, I share with many and ask them to subscribe
Rest in peace, Mr. Boseman
When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reason to smile:-))))
I genuinely believe that hard work beats talent. Talent just gives you a head start.
Really loved the bonus. Powerful stuff 👍🏾
Wow, this was good. Thank you Alux, amazing as always.
@alux
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your continuous support!
Hard work beats Talents when Talent doesn't work hard enough !
Love Alux from Nepal 🇳🇵
Another awesome and educational video Alux and as always beautifully narrated Alux Lady
T.J. C Everyone has a nack for something. Rather it’s organic to you, or you acquire/develop it later. I don’t totally believe that life/time completely discriminate. Time hits us all at the same moment in the same way. And if a person has leverage (i.e. prestigious name, born rich), they usually lack in other areas - that you can only acquire by GOING THU SOMETHING. And their come-upings will catch-up. Life constantly seeks BALANCE. You stole from prev generations to benefit your clan. Karma from the Universe will come onto those received benefactors. Life always seeks balance. No worries about what is fair & what’s not. Jesus came down here and died for all of us. So, at least that’s one least worry for us. Re-direct the energy (those worries) towards doing something constructive, to modify your circumstance; help achieve your goals. That’s the whole point.
I completely agree with the 11th fact. I am experiencing something similar right now.
Thanks for the reminder! Love this channel😂💕
Hail Alux.🙌 It's been years been with you and you are slowly shapping and making me the world's first TRILLIONAIRE
@DaggieBlanqx
3 жыл бұрын
If you've been working hard, smart & swift - congratulations man you will be.
You know what hurts most, when you know what your talent is, you know what you want to do in your life, you have a great passion about it but just because your parents don't want to do it , you have sacrifice your dream your goal and then live the life they choose for you😞😞😞😞😭😭😑
Yeah, I definitely need to change my environment